When Fighting Back Against a Bully Backfires

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Danny Schur

Жыл бұрын

A clip for Leah Janae's "Queen of Mean" music video.

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@violetmkandawire4441 8 ай бұрын

I would have bullied back,but,seeing someone suffer,some of us can't handle seeing that

@BarbieKenRps 6 ай бұрын

Yeah I agree

@Kian0214 6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@DonnytheDealer420. 5 ай бұрын

get a grip😅

@frisianwarrior2295 4 ай бұрын

Then how could you even do that? Are you a psychopath?

@Kian0214 4 ай бұрын

@@frisianwarrior2295 How do u know?

@BUSHY958 2 ай бұрын

Thats actually heartwarming but heartbreaking at the same time

@user-vx1hn9rf5y 22 күн бұрын

Film name plis

@kylemonkiewicz2803 8 ай бұрын

Crazy to tell someone not fight back

@aliyahfatty7732 4 ай бұрын

I would have done you know 😂😂😂😂

@GhostFaceToFit 4 ай бұрын

I wouldn't once you get to My age you could get charged with Assault don't do it trust me I've been On probation it's not the mess you want To get into. Be safe 🙏🙏

@Sozuyami 2 ай бұрын

Movie name please

@Kirbzgacha 25 күн бұрын

I'm so confused-

@jasonwang4487 24 күн бұрын

Schools discourage fighting back which is fucked up but I guess they want to avoid lawsuits or something

@appearedweird1769 9 ай бұрын

Life makes no sense you get suspended for standing up to yourself and defending yourself in a fight instead suspend the person who started it

@demigodfangirl721 8 ай бұрын

I doubt that any school administrator would suspend someone for putting gum on someone's hair. Also, how is squirting and acid directly into someone's eyes self defense. Bit much, don't you think?

@ayushraj_choudhary 7 ай бұрын

@@demigodfangirl721its revenge which is inevitable emotion when someone is worried

@demigodfangirl721 6 ай бұрын

@@ayushraj_choudharyYeah, but it still doesn't mean it is right. I understand that it is a massively infuriating situation but that doesn't give you a pass to assault someone. To clarify, I am not invalidating her emotions

@Acceos 6 ай бұрын

@@demigodfangirl721 What would you do if someone Bullying you instead? Go To Teacher won´t work. He/She would say: You must startet it because no one Bullying someone without any reason. Talk to the Parents won´t work. Her Parents might not care about then at all and that is why the Person needs to hurt someone else to make him self feel better. Fighting Back won´t work like you said. It won´t stop the Problem and just make it worst. So you can do nothing against Bullying. Only change the School until no one Bullying you again. Change the Work until no one Bullying you again.

@demigodfangirl721 6 ай бұрын

@Acceos I actually have been aa victim of bullying. I know very well how hopeless the situation feels and how broken the system is. To this day, I still suffer from various mental health conditions. But that doesn't mean I poured f-ing acid on someone's eyes.

@johnsheehan7215 10 ай бұрын

Well here's the thing there are abusers , narcissists and bullies But they all have a common denominator ... The common denominator is that they seek endless validation , attention and praise to compensate for their own self-esteem. Confidence , and a perceived lack of acceptance. These struggles are often a result of early childhood trauma and attachment issues. Typically , the abuser , The narcissist and the bully did not receive enough love as a child. The term "trauma Bond" Is also known as Stockholm syndrome. It describes a deep bond which forms between a victim and their abuser , their narcissist or their bully. The victim of the abuser , The victim of the narcissist and/or the victim of the bully. The victim often develops a strong sense of loyalty towards their abuser , towards their narcissist and towards their bully. the victim will Despite and disregard the fact , the fact that the bond is causing damage regardless of it being damaging to them

@breadtrap5715 8 ай бұрын

Wrong most bullies do it because they are pure evil and know they can get away with it

@oliviamamei7218 8 ай бұрын

VICTIM VICTIM VICTIM VICTIM VICTIM HOW MUCH VICTIM AND TRAUMA DO YOU NEED BOY OR GIRL EVERYONE KNOWS YOUR SMART BUT YOU DONT NEED TO write this mft mft means mother f---- thing 💀

@2k_adriandagoat453 8 ай бұрын

@@breadtrap5715you’re not very intelligent I see

@gigidotto9014 7 ай бұрын

@@Skeleton_Jack226Exactly what he said

@Val2vexed 7 ай бұрын

did u copy and paste that of google or smh

@108stitches 7 ай бұрын

When I was in school I was not afraid to defend myself. I was respectful and never picked on others. But if the bully was just too big I had an older brother and bigger friends. You just want him to leave you and your friends alone. Unfortunately sometimes the bully has to take a beating.

@jesslauren8031 5 ай бұрын

Bullies only bully those they think won’t fight back, those who they see as powerless. If the victim does fight back, it will most likely throw them for a loop and cause them to stop and look for someone else.

@Its_Charlie74 3 ай бұрын

What’s the movie

@108stitches 3 ай бұрын

@@Its_Charlie74 Huh? Movie? Am I missing something?

@Its_Charlie74 3 ай бұрын

I thought there was a movie

@Doodlebuggy347 8 ай бұрын

I’m so happy this girl decided to help her in the end. So basically I stepped on someone’s paper and the person shoved me into a table took all the papers from my folder crumpled them up, and threw them away

@calebbeguin1224 Ай бұрын

Can confirm this. There was a kid at my school who made life a living hell for everyone, except her little group of followers. Me and some of the others just shrugged the antics off and that made them pissed. I never was one to engage in fist fights unless it was necessary, which is why I always had a menacing glare on my face. Eventually something happened to this girl, where her Boyfriend was caught cheating, and she came in the next day crying. I was so tempted to cause harm, but seeing those tears and her being mocked by “former Friends” she had, made me feel pity and kindness for her. Sure she could have paid the price, but now she owes me for comforting and assisting her. The other kids, they got some dents in their chests and arms. I still feel good about making the others pay.

@user-xm9dq7xd2q Ай бұрын

bro you kinda did a revenge act , good but no one *'owes'* you no shit

@Blight3d_Rush 28 күн бұрын

Bro is not a sigma

@camerontupper1138 27 күн бұрын

Stories that definitely happened

@RaicansRocky 25 күн бұрын

❤❤❤

@jordan-mw6mi 25 күн бұрын

Girl she don’t owe you nothing

@sheree2985 8 ай бұрын

If this really happened and the victim fought back, the narci- oops I mean bully will just use it to claim the victim title and further abuse the victim. They will make it about "how horrible" the victim is and shame them. Have experienced it in real life.

@Kylie28193 Жыл бұрын

So cute❤ don’t ever bully😊

@GrayThe_Colour 4 ай бұрын

I always take things seriously to a whole next level…

@yujuskila7103 4 ай бұрын

See now me personally, gum in my hair, I’m throwing hands, respectfully, you ain’t gon bitch me like that.

@lingzhang-zi4vp 3 ай бұрын

Me too one time I kicked a bully in the balls@@GrayThe_Colour

@evaabreu4329 Жыл бұрын

If she had gotten her bullier by hair and dragging her for all around the floor of the school and knocking her to break her denture, other thing had been. Bullier studies their victim, is the same as a crime, so you have to try them like a criminal. Do not wait the school justice because the principal and the teachers ignore everyone, so take justice on your hands.

@user-is5wu9gr6z Жыл бұрын

The meaning is always forgive the worst po People bc they might be getting bullied too and kindness always come back

@gigidotto9014 10 ай бұрын

No one has to deal with anybody's rudeness. Everyone has the right to defend themselves and fight back.

@aoopsl 10 ай бұрын

Bro you sound like a teacher saying kill them with kindness being bullied is no excuse for being a bully if you get in I fight do whatever it takes to win

@Ruby_Eve 10 ай бұрын

@@aoopslexactly. I dealt with shit when I was in school too but I never took my agression out on a classmate. It doesn't solve anything

@bluscout1857 8 ай бұрын

Look yes I know it’s probably best to be kind to the ones bullying you because they may have their own problems but in my opinion if they’re talking shit about you, you have the full right and permission to give shit back no matter how bad they have it

@PandAOffical 4 ай бұрын

@@aoopslSame

@michaelrender1584 11 ай бұрын

Spraying somebody with vinegar should be classed as an acid attack because vinegar is acid

@theyhatecarmella 6 ай бұрын

fr she should’ve sued her

@Mansquic 3 ай бұрын

@@theyhatecarmella she had a reason why she did it

@flyingdawsonyoutube 2 ай бұрын

⁠@@Mansquic⁠OH yeah spraying acid and blinding someone over your hair getting messed is he best thing you can ever do but nah she had a reason Right everybody??? You people is clowns who’s fine with her spraying literally acid in her eyes y’all some clowns 🤡 🤡🤡🤡

@XOXO_loki 9 ай бұрын

Physical Pain hurts but words hurt more -said by a wise person

@justkhloe44 8 ай бұрын

Do you know what this is off of

@Relatable_shorts_funny 5 ай бұрын

I know....

@bhaskarjoshi3067 4 ай бұрын

Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me - children's rhyme

@Halloweenenthusiast 9 ай бұрын

honestly if anyone dared to put gum in my hair they would be sent straight to the emergency room

@hawraaisaabdullaalhawi279 Ай бұрын

Same

@hawraaisaabdullaalhawi279 Ай бұрын

Like bro it's bouta go down... it's getting bloody in here.... somebody breaking a bone.... I have anger issues and can't let it slide... you are so dead if you put gum in my hair

@Angelofdarkness092 8 ай бұрын

It's okay that girl save her bully girl because the bully girl hug the girl 🥺✌️🤗🙏

@ZombieGamer9345. Жыл бұрын

Why you helping them... They bully you, they deserve the consequences, no matter how harsh it is

@TheLoserClub Жыл бұрын

Dude, she put gum into her hair, and she decided to almost blind her eyes for the next 2-8 hours? May i also add that it can cause a huge infection that can escalate to an actual serious problem with her eyes. I understand that you wanna make them pay back but its like pushing someone, and in return the person you pushed is gonna burn your hands.

@SineWave583 Жыл бұрын

@@TheLoserClubwhat about mental problems

@TheLoserClub Жыл бұрын

@@SineWave583 what about them?

@emilycantrellofficial7722 Жыл бұрын

Well because she's nice duh

@user-dn8mu5ml6k Жыл бұрын

Well everyone deserves a second chande DUH your rude😢 not you bruh she

@TsangTsung17 Жыл бұрын

What the hell is this? I don't understand

@virajsmagic8301 Жыл бұрын

Same😂

@welp_itsted 14 күн бұрын

Yk, im in grade 4 and I keep getting bullied. I don’t think it a right thing to put bullying against anybody. Anybody should have a fair life like I want a fair life. Every day just get constantly worst and it isn’t good for the community. The wish that I think most people would want is kinder people in this world. It’s not fair if you try to be nice and you get upset because somebody has been not very nice to you. The universe needs to be better. This is not ok… If you see this bullies… please… just be nice for one. -Your Soul xxx

@May.na385 7 ай бұрын

What’s the name of the movie

@Amburger666 2 ай бұрын

It’s not a movie😊

@dylanm3742 2 ай бұрын

@@Amburger666 whats it form

@JisellaPinto-kk4el 2 ай бұрын

@@dylanm3742music video

@showmickzaman3606 24 күн бұрын

Leah Janae's "Queen of Mean" music video

@May.na385 24 күн бұрын

Aw I rlly wanted it to be a movie or show but thank you!❤😊

@JudeBellinghamMadrid 11 ай бұрын

Don’t help them man, let em suffer

@Kris__Dreemurr 11 ай бұрын

Vinegar in your eyes can cause infection

@codydixon8418 7 ай бұрын

they just kids

@May.na385 7 ай бұрын

@@codydixon8418 andd your point is?…

@codydixon8418 7 ай бұрын

@@May.na385 nothing I was joking so just chill

@Ava_YTava Жыл бұрын

What movie is this

@showmickzaman3606 24 күн бұрын

Leah Janae's "Queen of Mean" music video. So not a movie

@virajsmagic8301 Жыл бұрын

CANT EVEN UNDERSTAND!😂

@godzilla_2023. 11 ай бұрын

She did the right thing..❤️

@chrissyeditslove 10 ай бұрын

Yes she did!😊

@flyingdawsonyoutube 2 ай бұрын

@@chrissyeditslove⁠OH yeah spraying acid and blinding someone over your hair getting messed up is the best thing you can do!! Right everybody??? You people is clowns who’s fine with her spraying literally acid in her eyes y’all some clowns 🤡 🤡🤡🤡

@Bombasticslayday 3 ай бұрын

STORY TIME! So i was in my school watching on my phone in break time then from nowhere a girl camed and she pushed me for nooo reason and i screamed at her and everyone camed and i got attention no one beilived me but the teacher did so the teacher put camera everwhere then she pushed me again then the teacher saw everything then she got attention too.. never bully

@0.riginalbrat 2 ай бұрын

Came * && believed* ….sorry it bothered me

@animeeditqueen8721 4 ай бұрын

That was to far, that could’ve blinded her

@Nerdicle_Nelson Ай бұрын

womp womp

@projoeswindowcleaning700 27 күн бұрын

Believe it or not you always have to forgive people even if they don’t respect you

@IWantMyCoffee 4 ай бұрын

Girls in bathroom: 👁🫦👁 oh-

@ari.martinez432 4 ай бұрын

Omg fr✌️✌️ like so preppy☺️

@Samuel-xf6px 3 ай бұрын

that is the happeist ending ive ever seen

@RoachesRcuteandrats Ай бұрын

Some peps r terrible in this world 😢

@latoyawatson7018 9 күн бұрын

The girls in the back: 👁️👁️ 👄

@okketsumiakura 4 күн бұрын

Just like a holyspirit, never fight back.Instead helping her 😭😭😭

@bradleybruvva3021 8 күн бұрын

I would always press teachers when they told us there is zero fight policy. I said, “So what do you expect us to do if we’re getting bullied? Just take a beating? We can’t fight back at all even if we are currently being beat up?” And they always just maintain their stance. These schools don’t make any sense, it’s legal to defend yourself. My brother defended himself in a fight once and was suspended and my parents went off on the school. They were proud of my brother for standing up for himself.

@Mr.DenjiBlockmanGo Ай бұрын

And that’s how to turn bullies into normal people

@salliewofford8993 7 күн бұрын

I'm happy the girl helped at the end

@olivialaferriere1489 11 ай бұрын

Where was this scene from

@showmickzaman3606 24 күн бұрын

Leah Janae's "Queen of Mean" music video

@AydenLewis-ki7uo 26 күн бұрын

The hug is personal

@tffttyfthy-bq1fc 9 ай бұрын

What is this show or movie called tell me

@Amburger666 2 ай бұрын

Not a movie

@tffttyfthy-bq1fc 2 ай бұрын

Sorry I have no idea

@misskittyagreste6375 2 ай бұрын

What is the name of the show?

@showmickzaman3606 24 күн бұрын

Leah Janae's "Queen of Mean" music video. Not a movie or show.

@misskittyagreste6375 24 күн бұрын

@@showmickzaman3606 oh thanks!

@TOURGRLXOXO 4 ай бұрын

THIS SONG IS GENUNILY SO FUCKING GOOD OMG

@ppaularon213 Жыл бұрын

How did fighting back against the bully backfire? Did you mean to say when bullying backfires? Because the title don’t make sense.

@RachelGurgulova Ай бұрын

Name please movie please 🥺🥺🙏🥺🙏🙏🙏🙏

@femme_Q_128 Ай бұрын

i thought that was water >]

@user-py2dn3pt6b 8 ай бұрын

Damn im not the inky 1 who kept rewinding

@notavailable4596 10 ай бұрын

She went too far spraying vinegar into the bully's eyes. Just fight her and call it a day. She's asking for it.

@gigidotto9014 10 ай бұрын

Don't you know traumas work best? Also pressing charges on and bullies. She took revenge and the bully was asking for it.

@notavailable4596 10 ай бұрын

@@gigidotto9014 Sure but it's a cowardly move that could get her sued or expelled. It's always best to stand up for yourself in the most direct and proportionate way.

@byEmiBF29 10 ай бұрын

Gum in the hair is the worst thing that can happen to somebody

@gracegiver4920 9 ай бұрын

@@notavailable4596As if all bullies are the ones who are the cowards. Be realistic about it, they deserve what they get.

@morsmordre3 9 ай бұрын

Better than using a real gun 💀

@tylergiddens2075 9 ай бұрын

I want to see the story, what is the movie name?

@showmickzaman3606 24 күн бұрын

Leah Janae's "Queen of Mean" music video. So not a movie

@AltheaJoyDavid-tb4bm 12 күн бұрын

She has a *golden heart*

@xyliathane9685 Ай бұрын

Vinegar on someones eye can make them blind...

@Meme.meme101 10 ай бұрын

rinse her face with vinegar instead of water that will teach her a unforggetable lesson that she will tell her generation to come

@Eviegamlin 2 ай бұрын

Well I've never seen this some one get bulled then stand up for them self and then help the bully

@SilverOliver347 7 ай бұрын

I love this I can’t stop watching it

@Maja_0fficial_ Ай бұрын

The fact the girl was standing looking herself in the mirror like an anime character who was going insane was kinda funny 😆

@xluffybest Ай бұрын

Meanwhile boys trying to kill eachother and the principal at the sametime 😅

@glatykoffi6672 10 ай бұрын

It's funny how you know what is a scenario and not real footage when the image is too high quality

@princessnicolelazaro4364 Ай бұрын

This bully didn't meant to bully her and the girl help her up (that hug was so sweet)😊😊

@regret_this_already000 8 ай бұрын

Me thinking why she is having vinger with her in school

@urfavzxraa 9 ай бұрын

Imagine that was more vinegar 💀

@oliver95 10 ай бұрын

why backfires i thought it was water for 5 sec

@AriannaMason-jp7gr 5 ай бұрын

This made me cry😂😂😂😢😢😢😢

@fivehundred289 Ай бұрын

She took "karmas a b*tch to a whole new level

@segundoalvarenga3513 6 ай бұрын

She was going to fight but she new she was not that person who would do that, but she helped her bully I bet there bff now ❤😊

@kilo8292 Жыл бұрын

Cringe Gen Z

@josewmeldondo Жыл бұрын

🤓

@kilo8292 Жыл бұрын

@@josewmeldondo 🤓

@josewmeldondo Жыл бұрын

🤓

@kilo8292 Жыл бұрын

@@josewmeldondo 🤓

@josewmeldondo Жыл бұрын

🤓

@lxviieditz 2 ай бұрын

This comment is the reason why ppl choose not to tell teachers about bullying this is what theyd think would help: "Hey fat loser" "Hey stop it that hurts my feelings" "Oh yea ok have a good day" 👁👄👁

@Msu974 4 күн бұрын

she is so nice

@sahadevchettri4950 5 ай бұрын

If we do the same thing as the bullies what is the difference between US and them don't take that Harsh revenge what what will be the difference between

@user-ox6tv7eg4l 8 ай бұрын

I would actually forgive the bully when I fill bad. 👇🏻

@e3E. 8 ай бұрын

Explanation: The girl put vinegar in the gun instead of water

@CameronRasavong 10 ай бұрын

Me pulling my gun out:🙂

@jamilansari2390 8 ай бұрын

Me getting ready to give a punch.. Cause I am pro in fighting💪 I'm in school and I have already beaten 3 girls.. And I'm the winner of the fight and they creid..but still my benchmate (my partner) I sit with her and she is very irritating person.. And sometimes she is very good to me and some time very bad to me... And we have done a lots of arguements...and today only we have an argue.... But I never win arguement and then I feel guilty.. Whole day that thing in my mind was roaming.. Overthinking etc.. Still suffering from this don't know what to do.. Btw.. My English is poor so plz..try to understand what I'm saying... 😞😞😞😞

@GhostFaceToFit 3 ай бұрын

@@jamilansari2390 I do boxing but I don't Hit other ppl at my age because I could get charged or arrested 😮😮

@annabethgrade391 4 ай бұрын

I had vinegar in my eyes before and it burned and my eyes were red

@adamsturm 5 күн бұрын

No one’s completely evil

@darling1708 Ай бұрын

That must've smelled bad fr.

@isabelgallardo7618 41 минут бұрын

La bondad siempre gana 🎉

@Elmo6464 15 күн бұрын

Cant blame her for soraying her in the eyes-

@emersonwright683 3 ай бұрын

We not able to have any type of gun at school water gun or no LOL😂😂😂😂😂

@eherogaia8545 10 ай бұрын

You think your hair warrants permanently blinding someone no, I’d of just wash my hair in hot water later, it’s gum not glue, then I’d punch the bully…..😂

@glatykoffi6672 10 ай бұрын

Unfortunately the bully is too dumb to put water on her eyes lmao. But no doubt that this act, while maybe less satisfaying, is quite good for the future relations with the probably ex-bully.

@user-dq1hk8fs1l 2 ай бұрын

Me pulling out my Muay Thai kick 💀

@user-kv3ys1mk8z 29 күн бұрын

Ppl who think it is good to stand up Infront of your bully.💪 👇

@minkyongkim4966 17 күн бұрын

Good video

@hynleeholmes7713 Жыл бұрын

They’re both equal now

@jacobrodriguez8726 Жыл бұрын

No There not

@asreyleencintamati8671 2 ай бұрын

To be honest, im dating my bully who has been bullying me for 5 years. And i didnt know that he could be so damn sweet😭

@Mileydibebe503 7 ай бұрын

😊

@MaatiArg 8 ай бұрын

Nah le pego una trompada q la dejo paralitica 😂😂😂

@visix8910 17 күн бұрын

I still get bullied at 17 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

@ultimatecrystal9646 7 ай бұрын

I mean for me people deserve second chances depending in the situation

@Exfectz Ай бұрын

thought that was miss bee for a sec

@liamcaesar7927 26 күн бұрын

i just saw this on my tv

@Hungry_Therian0123 11 күн бұрын

Enemies to lovers ahh video

@mimoh7614 Жыл бұрын

Movie name pls

@daelandeoncely6308 10 ай бұрын

It’s not a movie just read the description

@Elbz32 2 күн бұрын

Respect

@nancya9402 27 күн бұрын

I had girls do that to me gum in hair, but its ok next day she realized shes not the one everyone wanted to be frienda with. I still had my friends and hers too❤❤❤😂😂😂