Is there anyway I can get access to your help not in public am Joyce 20yrs but I just need your advice about ma relationship

❤❤❤🎉😅 thank you God for you giving me I'm so grateful for all you've given me

​@Joyce Niwamanya Hi Joyce, I hope you were able to speak with someone in regards to your relationship. I don't know you, but I'll have you in my prayers 🙏 God bless you young lady.

@@mariamercy7317 thanks so much please but the fact is I did not talk to anyone it still holds my nake like hell

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Thank You!

❤Amen Likewise unto you. 🙏🏾 🤲🏾 THANKS

Amen

Amen. Thank you. Likewise.

Amen n Amen ❤❤

Thank you

its cool trust me only ting i say are you listening conversations?❓😩

Thank you 😊

Definitely my marriage.

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Thankyou for this

Thank you. ❤

I pray you're right, and thank you

Thank you so much 😢

Thank you! Amen

Even better than that, when GOD shows you who someone (truly) is, BELIEVE HIM.

Well said!

​@@Dre0924exactly!!

Very true

Very true

Yea❤

Facts

Never thought about it like that before.

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Amen❤

Yeah lol

Naah....just wanted to see what will be said

exactly

This is the best comment 💯💯💯💯🎯🔥 THANK YOU

😂😂

Amen

Amen to that! 🙏

Amen

Amen!

Amen

Yes

Yeah Amen 🙏

This was the best nutshell. Amen!❤

You can't keep accusing me of being mislead by spirit by telling me excuse that it must be feelings cos you can't know it cos you just want to keep me from love

Amen may I be led by the spirit and not my emotions. ❤️🙏🏾

Exactly you will waste so much time

It's not like that .. this depends on that person either he/she wants to be in same Situation or grow with you in a unique way never before had ... Trust your intuition..🤞

You are correct to a certain point. We can't change anyone, only God can and only if the person is willing to... One example is my own personal experience with my husband before we got married. (We weren't young then 😄) I told him one day, "Either you shape up or ship out!" Believe me, he shaped up real nicely. Lol... I did pray a lot for him.

I was going to do that with my ex-girlfriend but only Jesus can do so. I continue to pray for her to this day 🙏

I learned the hard way

Yes and if you successfully choose the right choice and follow god be very happy cause you’ve just dodged the demons trap 😊❤

Ant that the truth ! Amen !💯💯

It's God timing not our

Agreed

So true

this happened to me in a dream 😢 But when am single am very okay and nothing disrupts my inner peace

Narcissistic abuse is the worst. I pray that you have found peace.

4 years but God. Only He knows the pain of being married to the wrong person

yup 4 years of praying instead of enjoying life

Amen to that ❤

For a lifetime

Agreed. I'm living in.

When you married the wrong person ,still be the man do the right thing just make it right this time…do your part in the family ask god for guidance..it is the only way to make your life better,take the consequences and just focus on it on how you will make your family better just don’t try to destroy another soul.

Follow your heart listen to the holy Spirit I'm a living witness of making the wrong decisions with a spouse. God bless you 🙏🏾

What kind of saints is my question? Nobody is a Saint only Christ Jesus is a Saint.just because people ha e titles in a church does not mean they have a relationship with the God who created the universe.put your faith and trust in God not in pastor not someone that call themselves Saint not anybody.

@@juanitagonzalez8333 The Lord ordained different saints of God for ppl to run to in time of whatever. The Lord says in his word that even if we're sick, we should go to the elders of the church for them to pour oil on us and pray for us.

Amen&Amen ❤💕🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Precisely

I disagree, you shouldn' t fear God but you should praise and pray to him.

@@Nola5427 Godly fear isn't a morbid fear, but rather love and deep respect. There are numerous Bible verses that mention "Fear of God". For example, 2 Corinthians 7:1 and many other

How's your story .. I'd like to know❤ because even I'm going through a breakup from an unequally yolked relationship and 3 months in I'm still hurting inside... I'm missing him everyday... I'm 21 now and i really need some guidance ❤

I am 22 i fell like i have to separate my self from this relationship first reason is i don't feel peace ....i feel like what if i did wrong ...may be it's not God will ...i see many video and teaching........one day i say to him give me space ....i feel like i am losing my feelings for him that is why ...st that time i feel peace i feel i did the right thing after 10 dsys one night i want to call him and say i love him but i struggled with my emotion....at last i call him then i say i love u but i feel like" it is not good ur leading by emotion"to my self but i did it now i am with him but i am in confusion. In overthinking what if it is not Gods will ....i pray little not that much deeply but i feel not good ...and God ......please give me advice

The book of James said every good and perfect gift is from GOD

​@@GloriaVSimon-ro7nngirl leave relationship alone and focus on self growth and development you are still young to be bothered with relationship... I wish someone could have told me what am telling you now when I was at your age.

My life flashed before my eyes 10 years ago that same date. So Thankful ❤4 this comment.

I wish I was as brave as you

​@@destinygil5617Give your life to "The Most High" pray for him to make you stronger! And you will God Bless ❤️

I tried to have a relationship with a narcissistic raging alcoholic woman. I kept ignoring the red flags. I wasnt liking who i was becoming. Im slowly surviving the emotional and verbal abuse that happened. I do love and miss her.

My story. For six straight years I kept forgiving him for disrespecting and hurting me intentionally. May I heal soon in Jesus name

They cannot be changed.We must be carefull

​@@BillyLintzenich-wf7skwhen of the world, earthly smells may control you

@@hllyenaylleth9576 first off smells has nothing to do with anything. Secondly i'm not of this world. Yes i might live in this world but i'm not of it.

Yes and when I kept going back to this person over and over again God removed him from me.i no this was God the only way I would leave him alone is to remove him from me it was hard at first but with God's help I'm getting over it and through it

im seperated now... lying and cheating is awful

True

Free will also lets you determine who you should be with.

True

God also shows you the outcome of a relationship in many different ways if he doesn’t think it’s healthy for you. The right relationship serves everyone around you. The wrong one hurts people and is not centred in God.

Couldn't agree more. God uses us to teach each other different things in the same season.

We share same story

I can so relate

I have worked so hard i hope time is soon no man has got a lol slightest chance of confusing me no more 😊😊😊

This sounds exactly like my life. May God be merciful.

What was your dreams?

I pray to god get you through that. I'm sorry that happened to you. I felt your pain deeply when you expressed this emotion and from the look of your profile picture you look very sad. May god bless you and heal you.✨

Hi

Chaii 🥺

Amen 🙏 i hope to get there too

Oooffff. So much cope. You'll probably never find someone else. Don't feel bad though, God took away the only one I ever loved. I know God won't help me find another.

I dont think I will ever have another like him my heart has been broken for the past 4 weeks. I believed he was the one ,my life choices have made me a person I don't recognise he made me see that but in the midst of it didn't think God wanted it for us ,we were engaged and spoke about having children together I'm heartbroken and have moved towards God more

Yes

was in the same situation, but now I thank God for opening my eyes

How blessed you are for having a supportive family behind you. It makes a lot of difference.

❤😂🎉😊god loves . Guides me. I trust in him

I'm happy that you got out of that situation through God.

Very true

And little did you know that GOD" was exposing a inner secret she has been hiding for long, she was all bout the material things not love nor affection, and she might be probably broke as hell too , and watch in a distance time , that guy she ran off with trust me ("they won't last"), and the loop just continues , and little did you also know that GOD, helped you to place a curse on her , without her even knowing don't worry chi-lax , let GOD fight your battle man, be blessed amen 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🇳🇬.

what were the signs that you ignored

Thanks for sharing 🤜🤛..Know that you’re not alone in your struggle, and that there are others in similar shoes, sharing similar trials&tribulations/sufferings, and through Christ we share the same hope/salvation&triumph! Also know that you’re comment helped me to remember that I’m not alone in mine 🫂

Thanks sending this to my friend

How long did it take? 🥺

I pray that God sends me a husband that loves him more than I do

Being equally yoked is the number one requirement. In spiritual maturity, not just salvation.

Blessed & happy to be alone & not lonely at all. Ty for your story that sounds a lot like mine.

Same here , It’s okay I ready to walk away now

Jesus I trust in You ❤ Divine Mercy chaplet at 3pm Stockbridge Massachusetts

Just leave. He will never change... God never sends us suffering

You’re lucky 🙏🙏

À real eye-opener. Thank u❤

@@nyadaangchuol yes indeed. I am blessed. Have a lovely weekend 🤗

What is wrong with music and dancing?

Thank you for this great video. The insight and wisdom given is amazing!

Good news is, no matter how long it may take, you will heal.

I understand you because I am same, i offer much trust and affection, attention, to twice times but even like that divorced.

@rizky6684 So sorry that happened to you. I hope you find your best life yet. Stay strong. God be with you🙏

Grateful for these words of wisdom... was w my sons Father for 11 and a 1/2 years we never lived together never married and I thought he was the one for the rest of my life doing that Relationship I lost myself trying to find myself with CO dependency and dependency not knowing unknowingly that I was looking for love in the wrong places or expecting love to be returned in what I was giving out. I was always told you treat people the way you want to be treated but that's not always the outcome and then I became married With someone whom I met 18yrs ago Married to when we 1st met we were the best of friends we were friends 1st and I thought that friendship meant a. Lifetime of friendship? No greater friend has he than one that would lay down his life for 1 and and I'm still giving my heart. In decision mode but at the same time I feel not encouraged supported in our 6 yrs of marriage suppressed spiritually mentally emotionally in in in other areas as well not happy no support from my spouse not even i appreciate u no gratitude etc which overall dictates illuminates unhappiness. over the years recently currently i partake in behavioral health I've had the deprivation of many things I've yearned for due to physical challenges. I'm a 2 time CA survivor I've endured over 39 surgeries and it goes on...challenged with intestinal failure therefore I'm exempt from modern Treatment I'm no candidacy I'm not a candidacy for chemo radiation a feeding tube a pic line a portacath no Dr will even operate on me i suffer from malnutrition constant battle They won't even operate on me. I've been to the national institute of health grade a hospitals including John Hopkins et cetera. And I'm still standing by God's grace and mercy. But I'm not happy within my relationship or marriage. We now sleep in separate rooms and it's been like that for the past 2 and a 1/2 years is no intimacy. No relationship with God for as prayer we used to pray together. But in the years there's been infidelity there's been abuse verbally mentally physically because of the choices that I wanted to make what I. Thought? I. Should? Have made. In? The. Past? I stayed in there persevered endured due to other people that it may have affected. So. Therefore? I was living I'm living a life for other people but today I'm doing Self Care and it feels good after hearing the message was confirmation In loving me more always loving your higher power God 1st. Always putting God 1st I'm supposed to be as a married woman honored as such but there's no honor for me I feel in my heart there's no happiness nothing to look foward to has not been for quite some time and again grateful thank you. My decision is made upon. Confirmation I've been praying for some time but I feel a sense of peace Self Care. I need we all need someone to encourage us to pray for us to be grateful for us build us up not to judge tear down support one another i been needing spouse to support my passion my vision my dreams my ideas my hope including spiritual listening supporting my purpose WE ALL HAVE A PURPOSE... Yes!!! because of the matters of the heart when you're giving give and do from your heart that's what makes a difference it should be in the heart of man when you Give your heart for years and years and years and years and years There should be a balance A Peace...PEACE THAT SURPASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING... Moving Ahead . God Will this is a new beginning a new start for infinite possibilities "How I Got Out"...RLP After tuning in I can definitely say make it a great day born purpose and with purpose because we all have a purpose. I have a purpose you have a purpose we have a purpose.

5 years

I got divorced in 2014 till this day I'm still single. Waiting is so worth it. God's timing is not our timing.

sometimes they wana leave, but we aint willing to let them go bcuz of different reasons. So 5 years stretches out to 10 years and they still gona leave regardless.

Lol number 4 i become very dumb and when i really try to cut it i go back to my old habits where i can accumulate new knowledge again 😂 also the red flags is screaming in my face hahaha, we are very valuable to god always remember that…also number 1 😂 hahaha i hate unpeaceful surroundings noticed that just in day 1 😂..don’t ever engage to someone who doesn’t give you peace of mind and who doesn’t believe in Jesus christ.

did you break up with them

@@ciaranbrennan8534 yeah, it's been two weeks now and I'm grateful for it :)

@@wow.za. thats great to hear lifes too short to be in a bad relationship wheter your spiritual or not god bless hope you find the right one

Me too.

You shouldn' t fear God but you should praise him and pray to him.

You got this brother. I'm sorry that you are hurting

Trust In the lord at all times. The lord will get you through and mend your broken heart. Ask God, to prepare you for your next best. It will be greater later brotha ✊🏾❤

This life is too strong, bro

Me too!

We need to stay strong 😢

Your not the only one....there are many of us who push what we desire over what is being presented to us

Your not stupid you just have a big heart.

A.true friend is worth more than all the gold in the world.

I think I met my true love at the wrong time in my life I'm so heartbroken he left 4 weeks ago and I found God through him ,i had to surrender to God. I am not perfect by any means ,but I love him ,he has made me see things about myself I never knew where there. I pray if he is meant for me he will come back to me

While you have this time of healing and recovery from that relationship, it's worth it to pursue God and get to know Him better and His love for you through Christ. That's why I like when Jesus says in Scripture that if we knock the door will be opened for us, if we seek we will find and no good thing will be withheld from those who genuinely love God. 😌🌄🙏

Nice..❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 💘 From India🇮🇳

Good luck Lauren! i have gone through a similar thing! my intuition told me something was off! she changed overnight, always picking fights with me! one morning after another row ( we both headed to work) worst mistake i ever made getting her a job with me! i left her and the job. 8 weeks after being split up she is now seeing a guy who worked literally 50 yards away from the building were we both worked! thank you God for guiding me that morning! i will be forever grateful Amen.

It’s okay babe. I am also going through this same thing and I know am strong even in my state of confusion Jesus still love me 😊

I feel your pain 😢 it’s riveting! ❤

God is close to the broken hearted May the Lord be with us hurting ❤!

I was in a terrible relationship with a covert narcissist for 14 years. He almost killed me several times. Finally I listened and obeyed and literally escaped in the night drove away and did not turn back. I have been far far away for 6 weeks now... getting stronger everyday.

It's OK, take it easy be patient God is all ready working in your life! You just can not see it right now... ❤❤❤

Not always true. I have felt lonelier in some cases in a relationship than as a single person.😊

I see your points well done and said thank you

I have been with a Narcissist for more 10year s but only learnt that the other day..3kids with 13,7,3yrs, still hoping to find my way out cz it gets worse each day with no source of income to take care of the kids but hopefully if it's God's will i will get there.av left twice and was manipulated back,am wiser and stronger now🙏

You're an "Alpha Widow" Google it.

I am in love with this man but he is not good for me. I have accepted this and will continue to love him from a distance.

Self sacrifice, yes... but not to the extent that it destroys my children as well. May our heavenly Father guide and lead us, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ I pray. Amen.

Bingo

Are you being cat fished?

@@elfin21 no

Amen

Totally agree I was watching NBA young boy vid and this popped up. Confirmation is so clear, I received the message and stand firm on my decision. Thank you God for this🙌🏾

Wow Seems nobody can run their own lives. Sad.

This is me right now. Was just watching same thing you stated. It is well!

Another testimony here, watching comical video, but have been in prayer about this.... again, just recently as early this morning.

Fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding. Proverbs 9:10

@steftrocha7217 he meant a "Reverential" fear i.e a respectful and loving fear of God.

I agree, Praise him and Pray to him but do not fear him.

Take heed, her ex coming back is a sign. If you say your heart is fighting you then listen and take a step back. I wish you all the best

Wish I had never married bc I totally foolishely went against everything I wanted and followed stupidly what everyone expected of me ,I wanted to join convnet and dedicate my life to what I felt my calling, then let society ,family ect interfere in my choices .Now miserable with regret after 5 disaster marriages.Very few happy moments in this path I chose.

@@moonjewels16I hope happiness find you again 😊

So that's it, I've also felt like someone was meant for me, but later on I felt like he wasn't. I had thought probably I didn't hear well from God at first. But now I understand that we were unequally yoked, that's why🤔

Hi sister in Christ! Grace and peace be to you :) Let me encourage you, when the Lord is talking about being unequally yoked that verse ends with a specific word "unbeliever". Or in other words, someone who does not follow our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. This does not apply, in the context of the passage, to the Spiritual Maturity of the believer. So, if you are more spiritually mature than someone you are with that is OK. But, you must decide if you want to be with that person or not. Are you spiritually mature enough to walk with them through their growth? Or do you need someone who is at the same level with you. Both, are okay things, one or the other is not sinful. One may be easier than the other, but in the end the choice is yours. The thing to remember is, do they love God, and is your love for them sincere. If those are YES then to my knowledge you are okay to pursue that person. Granted, I can be wrong but that is what I have come to understand, as I don't want to put things on top of Gods word that is not explicitly said is scripture. Hope this helps :)

It' has always been me.. was it not amazing?

@@trustissues6397 far from it. I had no clue I was married to a narcissist. To young to have known. It was the most difficult life, when you divorce one it is pure hell.

Amen

do not be unequally yoked, friend

Then please heed the red flags! They indicate real problems! Turn away!

Lol what you’re saying is the same thing your saying . So it makes no sense two of you have to have one mind and goal when it’s sent from God