When God Exposes the Narcissist, Expect This Predictable Pattern
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6 ай бұрынGod WILL expose the narcissist. But if you're not careful, you could fall for more manipulative schemes if you don't know what to expect. In this video, we're going to dive into the very predictable pattern you can expect when the narcissist is exposed.
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@richardjohanson6421 6 ай бұрын
I have to share this with you... very important! Covert Narcissists are about to take over and ppl don't know what's about to happen! Tucker and Bret Weinstein reveals what's happening and about to happen in the world watch please 🙏 Pay attention!! This is what's going on and about to happen this year! kzfaq.info/get/bejne/arN5eLaTp9SlYp8.htmlsi=_R_baqeptMcwnaDK That's what the pandemic was about the separation of church and state and bringing them together under public health.... faith in medicine not God Himself.
@richardjohanson6421 6 ай бұрын
Glenn Beck confirms NWO coming next fall With a One World Government coming kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bL-mic6K27i2ias.htmlsi=0_wgGkK9tFDmYNLj
@richardjohanson6421 6 ай бұрын
Church going home this Spring 1st 2 weeks in June Acts 1:3,9-11 Daystar kzfaq.info/get/bejne/npemZ6dhm52qmGw.htmlsi=gTaADF5bk6WH16e4
@richardjohanson6421 6 ай бұрын
Hebrews 4 13And there is no creature hidden from His sight, but all things are naked and open to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account. James 1 5If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.
@jeanandersonlscsw2550 6 ай бұрын
Thank you !
@benwilliams5236 5 ай бұрын
"I am not the author of confusion." - God.
@jamienorman6467 4 ай бұрын
Amen❤
@Witchslayer007 4 ай бұрын
Ben, we need to put that on a tee-shirt 😂😂🤗🙏🏾
@true2disunew2dis91 4 ай бұрын
Amen!!!
@HypsyGyspy1467 3 ай бұрын
@@Witchslayer007 yes!!!
@MazzyBrooks 3 ай бұрын
Amen and Amen 🙌 just said that a few minutes ago
@N8_R 3 ай бұрын
Narcissists see forgiveness as a permission slip to be abusive again. A frog is a frog, a scorpion is a scorpion, and a narcissist is a narcissist.
@mik7564 3 ай бұрын
VEEERRRY true!
@forgiven5919 3 ай бұрын
Very good example
@user-rz9cl6gs9v 3 ай бұрын
This is a good one
@thetruthchannel349 2 ай бұрын
That isn't even your concern. It does NOT matter how a person you think is narcissist views forgiveness. You aren't given that option. Unless, you take the word of 'Kris Reece' above the words of Jesus.
@educationalbrowsing8913 Ай бұрын
Very true.
@edwardhayden2061 6 ай бұрын
They’re only sorry that they got caught , don’t get fooled again 💯
@LisaLauve 3 ай бұрын
*FACTS*
@mariongasse434 2 ай бұрын
Like Juda
@labakanurzidil2464 Ай бұрын
caught with another criminal, who other would deal with (his) crimes?
@Ms.Ny-Gee82 29 күн бұрын
More like pretending to be sorry 🤦🏾♀️ Lord help everyone that going through this 🙏🏻 😢
@user-ew8gv6kw5i 6 ай бұрын
NO CONTACT BEST THING I'VE EVER DONE!
@lucidshakti5178 5 ай бұрын
Indeed
@user-ew8gv6kw5i 5 ай бұрын
Indeed, bye bye 👋 😘
@marilynhudson5805 5 ай бұрын
My Narcissist is my 50yr old Daughter I'm 75 and have put up with her disrespectful words actions. She will never change I called her out on her disrespectful ways towards me. I don't ever want her back in my life she is everything that is being said here. I have already excluded her from my Will she gets nothing from me ever again.
@dennyfie 5 ай бұрын
I had to do just that also.I really would of liked to stay in touch as her and I are rooted from high school, some 46 years ago. The toll on my health was un-real. Looking back I should of never took her phone call, I have never been abused before, it really is demonic.
@dawnramberg9784 5 ай бұрын
Same here I’ve found peace! Feel so much better about myself😂
@samagriy 5 ай бұрын
God will reveal everything 🗣🗣
@nicselectronics81 5 ай бұрын
🙏
@CatGee 5 ай бұрын
Amen
@shaggysbaggy4204 3 ай бұрын
Amen
@sharoneh8929 3 ай бұрын
Yes LORD 💯💯💯.
@STGBRAZYDASHOOTA 2 ай бұрын
Amen
@smorgasbroad1132 6 ай бұрын
The narcissist exposes themself. Period.
@cindyforbey2931 4 ай бұрын
I found a narcissist dont mind putting his deceitful ways out there for all to see. And all because he doesnt have a conscience. No tears, no feelings for noone but hisself.
@smorgasbroad1132 4 ай бұрын
@@cindyforbey2931 They put it out there because they think we are too stupid to recognize it. That's part of their supply. And of course they never think we are clever enough to play them. I played along with my sibling narc til the very end. The last one of their psychological punishments went too far. I went full no contact. Haven't looked back. We are old and this sibling will die alone. No tears will fall. I guarantee.
@shaggysbaggy4204 3 ай бұрын
@cindyforbey2931 yes my husband is one and he only cares about himself and I get the blaim for everything but he can't own up to me calling him a narcissistic person ima let God handle him
@healthyforpurpose1898 5 ай бұрын
The more you are closer to God the faster they are exposed stay connected to the most high
@timlewis7218 Ай бұрын
You are certainly correct. Without a loving God in my life, I would have surely been misled into being just as disgusting as the perpetrators, then owned, literally.
@hannah44282 Ай бұрын
I started praying for discernment in December. I now feel like I’m looking at whole different person. I kept putting off getting close to God. Because I knew deep down. Pray for me.
@ltrujillo9403 27 күн бұрын
Amen
@ginabaker9764 26 күн бұрын
I must not be very close to God. Been dancing in this monotony for 6 years!
@swanfeather6228 20 күн бұрын
@@healthyforpurpose1898 ANEN HIS WORDS AND CONFIRMATION WAS A LAMP unto MY FEET .!!!!✝️❤️❤️❤️
@michaeljackson7361 4 ай бұрын
Just walk away, don't say a word, block and never look back
@labakanurzidil2464 Ай бұрын
why i dont want to do to you what are you asking for? because i dont like obeying any Hitler and his inflated ego on costs of mine, maybe ...
@lesliecheneydasilva6992 22 күн бұрын
@@michaeljackson7361 go no contact and maintain that.
@atirliag2833 5 ай бұрын
Once you know, you go. That's it.
@VisibleTimes 5 ай бұрын
I left a toxic workplace yet their dark antics schemes followed me and permeated every aspect of my life as I knew it. God is my only refuge for sure. Thanks for sharing your testimonies. Jesus is Lord.❤
@banker1313 3 ай бұрын
@@VisibleTimes sorry to hear that I also left a toxic workplace...I'm curious about the antics after?
@VisibleTimes 3 ай бұрын
@@banker1313 best to focus on the goodness and faithfulness of the Almighty God. He is more than able to provide for and protect His very own in all situations. In the name of Jesus ❤️ Amen
@rynnykitty6945 2 ай бұрын
I did! I dumped him and God confirmed it right after I broke up with him! Now he came back to church lurking! God will protect me as He has done since I got saved 23 years ago!
@labakanurzidil2464 Ай бұрын
once you know he wont let your ego recklessly inflate on costs of his one, you go trying to find someone less responsible and more BPD, possible victim of you? or you will be just comrade$$ in crime = having a big nothing in common and trying to provoke people who arent self-confident enough to withstand such BS and not catch on such empty promises, inflation?
@londontyler6598 3 ай бұрын
What they fail to realize is that God really was using them for our good and his glory
@wisconsinfarmer4742 3 ай бұрын
That sounds insane.
@crowbear516 3 ай бұрын
@wisconsinfarmer4742 Sounds insane, but is it? How many horrific narc experiences have lead people to God? Besides, if you simply look, God is everything... everything is God.
@wisconsinfarmer4742 3 ай бұрын
@@crowbear516 the insane part is the "glory"
@crowbear516 3 ай бұрын
@@wisconsinfarmer4742 Achieving goals... winning the game... is glorious, though.
@wisconsinfarmer4742 3 ай бұрын
@@crowbear516 Yeah , there is nothing in the teachings of Jesus that says to strike the meek for the glory of god. He did say to walk away, though, when abused. The church, though, entreats us to stay in abuse especially if it is them doing it.
@witnessingh 6 ай бұрын
“They say sorry one minute, then justify their behavior the next”- yes I hate that! Please pray for me guys. Recovering from this is a long journey, but with Jesus it is possible!
@terridillon3053 6 ай бұрын
Amen! GLORY!
@user-me1yv1og4u 6 ай бұрын
I wish you all the blessings you deserve and hope you will enjoy your journey 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
@josereyes1148 6 ай бұрын
Yep. He called me sad and just holding grudges. Then he agreed to everything and apologized. When I didn't accept he said we just had a small falling out and it wasn't a big deal and I'm in my feelings about him and acted like I need to get over it. He's a POS.
@jeanniek1498 6 ай бұрын
@@simionenaclably9280 I disagree, It's about Choices we all make, Reguadless of Religion. It's if you want to be kind to others, or to be toxic to others. It's Heart felt if you choose to be kind. Kindness is always the right choice.
@becky-hx1ge 6 ай бұрын
@@simionenaclably9280 You wasted a lot of time on that complete NONSENSE. The Bible is the most reliable ancient text in existence. It also was not written in English. You are taking English words and giving them Ancient meanings of someone’s imagination.
@joicoulbourn3486 6 ай бұрын
So basically don't take them back because they're irredeemable! Remember when someone shows you who they are... believe them!
@mightymouse1005 6 ай бұрын
In the Book of Romans, it talks about their behavior and says "even God knows they should die "
@mightymouse1005 6 ай бұрын
When the narcissist is NICE is more terrifying than when they hateful. If they're nice...they're scheming, dreaming and cheating, slandering and sabotaging....
@mightymouse1005 6 ай бұрын
IF they apologize, simply say Thank you and walk away...do NOT take them back....its a TRAP by a 3 headed rattle snake
@lilfairycupcake 6 ай бұрын
100% truth.
@shawnjackson6242 5 ай бұрын
What if it’s your mommy because the Bible says honor thy parents my mother has never apologized for anything even if she blatantly wrong never pleased about ANYTHING!! Very critical and negative I can’t be around her soon as she sees me her face changes to pure disdain and disgust try and pray but I can’t please her quite frankly I’m sick of it the most peace I have when I block her on my phone I don’t hear her negative voice
@VoxJoxx 6 ай бұрын
They never change. They get more hostile until you turn the tables and start to dominate them. Bullies are cowards, they hate it when you stand up to them but you must reform yourself and strenghen your character with God's strength, like David against Goliath you will overcome the fear and conquer them. Invoke #Psalm91 For he will deliver you from the snare of the fowler and from the deadly pestilence.
@RoxanneR8375 3 ай бұрын
He will deliver me from the snare of the fowler. THANK YOU for saying that. It was just what I needed to hear today. Psalm 91.🙏❤️🌹
@randideelancaster9904 3 ай бұрын
Don't yell and scream, stay calm and speak clearly with conviction, they want you to look crazy so don't do it
@vodkavuitton Ай бұрын
Is that a narcissist's way of forced power? 😂😂 Have to identify with a biblical character for purpose in life? Goliath at least stood on his own & didn't need an army of gang stalkers for strength. If you don't like someone then don't & stand on it. I think we all know approaching someone's intimate partners, family members, & coworkers to help them harass 1 person is beyond cowardly & there's no excuse for that desperation 🤷🏾♀️ this is not a Bible verse
@cjjensen2247 Ай бұрын
HalleluYAH!!
@summerjunell525 Ай бұрын
Narcissism is just plain evil.
@Bitterstone3849 14 күн бұрын
@@summerjunell525 💯 it really is. These people are truly scary.
@areuaware6842 10 күн бұрын
The god of Abraham is a narcissist, yes he is evil.
@juliaartstudio 6 ай бұрын
When God showed me that I wasn't crazy and I found out that I had lived with this person for two decades, I cried because I always knew something wasn't right, but I didn't know what it was. His passive-aggressive abuse was every day, this person was/is a wolf in sheep's clothing. Thanks for such good information!
@maxmaximus8323 6 ай бұрын
In the same situation here, I'm in the you're no longer useful to me phase and I've been discarded. It only took 3 decades, but what the check, time to start fresh and go on working on me phase.
@kennethrobinson1672 6 ай бұрын
@@maxmaximus8323 2 decades for me
@melisentiapheiffer3034 5 ай бұрын
My experience to a tee. Now I know my abuser is a malignant narcissist.
@SiSi-oi2or 5 ай бұрын
Me too …😢 but now im pregnant, I just started a go fund me…or something of that sort as the pregnancy care is so expensive and I spent all my money keeping up rent with him and food and household needs bc he wasn’t working and now I’m broke 😭 pregnant and alone
@mariatyler2742 5 ай бұрын
This!!!! ❤ when my eyes were opened, I struggled with low self-esteem and guilt. How could I not know?! And I finally realized I wasn't crazy. I had been made to feel like I was crazy for years.
@HurricaneWV 6 ай бұрын
The narcissists, I have known never gives apologies...‼️
@3y3z2see 4 ай бұрын
Not even on their death beds and that is one major sign they’re a cluster B.
@bruh1052 Ай бұрын
They do give apologies when they are publicly exposed as a way to regain control and further manipulate the situation
@ReRe_642 15 күн бұрын
@@bruh1052 absolutely these people are monsters
@richardkennerly7801 7 күн бұрын
You are right
@13Hangfire 6 ай бұрын
NO contact... that's it, done, period! Move on to the next chapter of YOUR life!
@carolwells9409 6 ай бұрын
Need more resources for women who can't afford getting the much needed help they so desperately need, because the narc has them financially strapped. My daughter is in this situation as we speak. Been for many yrs. Resources for moms to know how to help and when to back off. I'm saddened just watching the destruction, and she feels there is no help she stuck.
@sfhsdfghsdfh 6 ай бұрын
It's so hard when we see a loved one or child stuck in a trauma bond with one of these things. It's hard to get out and even harder when you can't financially support yourself. It can be a long journey out. Keep praying and try to help educate her 🙏
@franco2b145 6 ай бұрын
She’s not stuck! She needs to get moving! Help her formulate a DISCREET plan. I had three kids with the narc who took me to court siting child abuse & neglect to get out of paying support. See, I had figured him out and saw what he was. Getting my children and myself to safety was the hill I was going to die on! My plan took several years. I gathered every domestic violence report, every email, every phone call every recorded. Every thing I could get my hands on! I was ready for him that day in court! The judge saw through him, and granted me full custody, and one day visitation with him, but I wasn’t done yet. That one day visitation was still too darn much! I had let them visit one day and just as I suspected, his mother, “his handler”.. verbally abused them horribly. I never sent them back! To hell with the court order! I went even further and sold my house under the cover of night (aka.. private showings, internet only, no signs outside).. and disappeared with my kids! Moved states! Remember when I said, getting them to safety was the hill I was gonna die on? Well today, six years later, we’re on that hill and living our best lives ever! To hell with child support I got them! Me! THIS MAMA BEAR! You don’t get to come for my children! Nor, come for me! Was it easy? NO!! but you got to move and do something! Can’t be complacent. She is not stuck. The children MUST come first.. by any means necessary. 🙏🏾
@sfhsdfghsdfh 6 ай бұрын
@@franco2b145 No one is ever stuck in any situation if they truly want to move. It's just years of conditioning and learned helplessness that makes people believe they are stuck. Like you said. For most people, it is a long and difficult process that can take years. But it is doable.
@Raynisha1120 6 ай бұрын
“Then He said to another, “Follow Me.” But he said, “Lord, let me first go and bury my father.” Jesus said to him, “Let the dead bury their own dead, but you go and preach the kingdom of God.” And another also said, “Lord, I will follow You, but let me first go and bid them farewell who are at my house.” But Jesus said to him, “No one, having put his hand to the plow, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.”” Luke 9:59-62 NKJV
@pyewacket7883 6 ай бұрын
Plan "B": Confidential Support Group, document everything, skim money where you can, go to Church - find fellowship, get a part time job - skim money, devise/plan/execute "Plan B". Sent with tons of love.
@jimmy031408 6 ай бұрын
I totally agree. I would add Don't listen to what they say, But rather watch what they do. These people are just evil, And they love to take advantage of those with good hearts and Empathy. Once they discard you, They'll try to reel you back in to get what they want and then repeat. I will never get back on that hamster wheel again! I'm more valuable than a doormat.
@denise0777 6 ай бұрын
Amen, Jimmy.
@Kris_Reece 6 ай бұрын
Amen!
@londontyler6598 5 ай бұрын
My God. I experienced all . But no more rinse, recycling or repeating.
@eltonpowelljr1755 4 ай бұрын
Amen!
@nichole_exposing_unseen_enemy 4 ай бұрын
Amen ❤️🙏❤️
@kellybellyxo 3 ай бұрын
A narcissist is a narcissist. They're horrendous personality will NEVER get better.
@Fuentesico 3 ай бұрын
Are they basically doomed to be a demonic bad person or can they change their ways?
@omar2292 3 ай бұрын
Doomed. It’s God’s judgment on the person.
@Fuentesico 3 ай бұрын
@@omar2292 beyond repentance?
@thaistomp 2 ай бұрын
@@Fuentesico Yup, and they know they're going to burn for eternity.
@bad.chickie66 19 күн бұрын
@@thaistompI’m pretty sure you don’t know that
@eugenejoseph7076 6 ай бұрын
I'm 65 years old and after more than 40 years of trying to 'help' narc, the only thing I am sure of in dealing with narcs is this: WALK AWAY, REMOVE YOURSELF FROM THEIR CIRCLE OF INFLUENCE. Move from cities I you have too, but learn the lesson! WATCH OUT FOR NARCS!!!
@lesliekupchanko5001 6 ай бұрын
2 Timothy 3
@sarahgilmore9990 6 ай бұрын
@@lesliekupchanko5001 had to see these messages. 2nd time in 24 hours I was guided to 2 Timothy 3. God bless
@lesliekupchanko5001 6 ай бұрын
@@sarahgilmore9990 😊
@gracie3174 5 ай бұрын
I was you..same number of years. Took seven years to heal. Get as far away as possible. No contact. It’s possible to heal, but very hard. 🙏 pray.
@ann-mariequigley2944 4 ай бұрын
Same, I am 62. Hard life with them, nightmare. I have moved away from them. With Gods Help.
@Mel-ou2jg 4 ай бұрын
Dont engage, block, stand . Dont need them.
@rondasparks 5 ай бұрын
Just get away from them and stay away .
@amyburton1225 6 ай бұрын
Please pray for me. I've been dealing with this for a long time. Please help me Lord.
@Bernadean12 6 ай бұрын
Praying for you! Totally understand. I was in it for three decades. Recently divorced for six months now. Start making an exit plan. You will be OK. God is with you. 🙏🏾
@GigiGilliard 6 ай бұрын
Praying for you!!!
@morrism3250 6 ай бұрын
Prayed.
@lilfairycupcake 6 ай бұрын
praying that you leave. no contact.
@danielskyles6184 5 ай бұрын
🙏
@laurenlowery5799 2 ай бұрын
I confronted my sister regarding her behavior and told her we were done via text (I will no longer talk with her on the phone to avoid her tantrums, screaming, etc) . First, she texted "I'm sorry". When that got no response, she texted an attack. Accused me of something I would never do. When that got no response she texted "Go ahead, run away like you always do", taunting me. (I have had to take breaks from my sister to remain sane), when that got no response she texted me a photo of a page in the Bible talking about forgiveness and told me "I better get right with God and forgive", when that got no response she went to our brother and told him I had done something she would never be able to forgive me of. No response. I have blocked her on texts and won't take phone calls. She has prayed for people to die before. I know however that God is my protector and she controls nothing. I will never see or talk to her again....and I was her biggest source of narcissic air. She hurt me badly many, many times and I reacted. Can't imagine who she will get that air from now. It is good to be free from all that evil.
@terrytulipane6916 2 ай бұрын
Behavior never lies.
@Romiii2777 6 ай бұрын
“Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that their deeds will be exposed.” John 3:20 💥
@omar2292 3 ай бұрын
This is God’s judgment on us for being sinful. The brain has been rewired by God for us to only believe lies. It’s not that we want to.
@matthewwozniak9138 6 ай бұрын
A mistake made twice is a decision.
@Nina-vv3ev 6 ай бұрын
FACTS a decision with evil intentions
@NatzTalk 4 ай бұрын
This.
@SunnyDays70s 2 ай бұрын
Wow. Harsh. Abuse is not easy to get entangled from.
@iamfree-ce7xd 3 ай бұрын
When you're eyes are opened, you have to leave, at all costs. Because nothing is more important than your freedom. I was on disability and oftentimes bedridden from ptsd and CFS. I didn't realize i was literally surrounded by narcs- husband, family , church, and friends. I finally divorced my abusive, adulterous husband after 15 yrs, against the counsel of my church and pastors. I was blacklisted. I lost my home and everything i had after the divorce. My ex turned our son against me. I couch-surfed for 5 yrs (learning the hard way that my "friends" and family were using me, stealing my disability money, etc.) until God called me to pack my little car and drive off. Then I lived in my car for 3 yrs, as God began undoing everything that was done, and making me who i needed to be. In 2022, my now adult son moved out of state to be with me. God restored us. I'm no longer homeless and no longer on disability. It's worth it. At all costs. You will learn how much you really don't need. ❤️
@sharoneh8929 2 ай бұрын
What a testimony💯 So happy for you👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
@iamfree-ce7xd 2 ай бұрын
@@sharoneh8929 thank you!! ❤️
@chelceasurgenor598 2 ай бұрын
Thank you sister this has helped me so much. God will bring you through everything. We just have to trust him. Even if we end up homeless he will bring us out. I'm so happy for you!❤❤
@iamfree-ce7xd 2 ай бұрын
@@chelceasurgenor598 you're so welcome!!! It was 11 yrs ago today that my divorce was final. God showed up in such a mighty way in that courtroom!! They said I'd never leave. They said I'd never make it. BUT GOD!!!!! 🙌🙌👏❤️😭🙏
@SunnyDays70s 2 ай бұрын
I’ve moved over 30 times escaping my narcissistic family or origin and now husband. It’s not easy with children and co-parenting. I am applying for disability because it is all just too much.
@fitnesswithsimone 5 ай бұрын
This is sooo spot on. When my husband realized I wasn’t falling for the empty apology again after physical abuse, he flipped right back to blaming me and making my life unbearable. I’m safe and healing now. So glad I left.
@Whitetail7 5 ай бұрын
We are not alone, refuse to fight with them... Be silent....😊
@Whitetail7 5 ай бұрын
🙏❤️🕯️ and I love 🥓
@Whitetail7 5 ай бұрын
Just call them by their 'True Name's ???
@3y3z2see 4 ай бұрын
Being silent is a double edged sword, you can be silent when they expect a reaction but, never lose your voice.
@shaggysbaggy4204 3 ай бұрын
I had to learn to stay quite when my narc husband starts fights with me and they Hate when you go quite and silent
@3y3z2see 3 ай бұрын
@@shaggysbaggy4204 it’s why I am a rock. No initiating conversation, no eye contact, no expression, no anger, no nothing. You will see they’re like a deer in headlights.
@NikkiGRocks4Ever 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Kris. I recently hired someone who turned out to be a narcissist. I prayed. God showed me his replacement. I fired the narcissist. The reaction was he was aggressive and controlling. I stood firm on my boundaries. I kept telling myself, Great is He who is in me than he who is in the world. God helped me through the situation. God is good all the time.🙏🕊️✝️❤️🤗
@NikkiGRocks4Ever 6 ай бұрын
@@RememberHim-zz7cc May God bless you. May He direct you to find a job that you are respected and valued. May the new job bring you fulfillment. May the new job be a healthy workplace. May God abundantly provide for all your needs. In Jesus name. Amen
@user-me1yv1og4u 6 ай бұрын
God bless you for your strength and grace 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏
@nuthinbutluv4u142 3 ай бұрын
I really like this. I'm going to use it as a mantra.
@m.i.n.d.y 5 ай бұрын
My narcissist would oscillate between sweet, apologetic, and charming and then without warning they would switch to demanding, controlling, entitled, angry, lying, manipulation, and triangulation. Whatever they could do to try and gain back any semblance of control.
@hahapaluza1842 2 ай бұрын
Demons can’t keep up their cool
@adedotunajibade Ай бұрын
Twisted!
@BigHammerz 13 күн бұрын
I have read in a post that the behavior you described is a tactic narcs use for control called cognitive dissonance.
@osowers6755 5 ай бұрын
I heard it said that the mistake many Christians make is they think that if they would just love someone more then they would change but this is not always the case. God is love and most of the wicked still do not turn to Him.
@micheles8796 Ай бұрын
SO true
@JenHope113 Ай бұрын
The narcissist has the spirit of Pride.
@towandastarks8182 Ай бұрын
Levithan spirit
@peninahmburu2174 4 ай бұрын
God help me to stand my ground from today henceforth.
@stacygrenado6934 2 ай бұрын
Dont wait. Time is our most valuable asset. Don't waste it.
@louborlagdan140 6 ай бұрын
Praying for God to deliver me from the cruel, abusive narc🙏
@user-jb7pn9bm8w 6 ай бұрын
My friend, we have ALL been there before and we can promise you …… Faith in God will take a step forward ( no matter How uncomfortable) and let Him lead you the rest of the way out. He’s kind and loving as Our True Father and will NEVER do anything to hurt you. The GREATEST ONE lives in your heart if you’re born again. Fear Not, you are the 🍎 of His Eye It’s always on You 😊🫶🙏👍💕
@witnessofchrist2524 5 ай бұрын
Once you pray to God about leaving the narc it's up to you. Pack your things or not and leave immediately. Don't look back and don't contact any mutual friends or family members that you both know. They don't change, they get worse. 😐✌🏾
@leonablack3516 4 ай бұрын
Remove them from your life or remove yourself. Painful I know , but it will be worth it. Or stay and be a doormat forever . They DONT change. Take responsibility for YOUR life. YOU MATTER . Don't waste your life on enabling this breed of human through life.
@jenniferraymond9766 2 ай бұрын
God helps those who help themselves.
@ruthjones6671 5 ай бұрын
I was married to 2 narcissists and when I realized it, they tried everything in their power to prove me wrong. I was labeled crazy. I should be seeking help to change my ways of thinking. I decided to get out and not look back. This was the best thing I ever did.
@shaggysbaggy4204 3 ай бұрын
@ruthjones6671 I am married to a narcisst but I also have 3 children with him and no where else to go how did you do it please share
@ruthjones6671 3 ай бұрын
@@shaggysbaggy4204 it wasn't easy. I too had 3 kids too.Their narcissistic father had a job requiring him to be away and that was how I survived. I was hiding money a little at a time to make my get away. By that time my kids were pretty much adults. We had a fight one night and I was gone, he had put his hands on me for the last time.
@terrytulipane6916 2 ай бұрын
I would do some serious self reflection if I attracted TWO narcissist.
@recoveringbaptist2023 6 ай бұрын
When I finally dumped the covert religious Narcissist in "ministry' who'd taken me to the cleaners financially, and told her never to contact me again, she predictably attempted "Narcissistic Hoovering"; one of the last thing she said to me was "I love you" -- after literally taking my last dime, calling me names, hurling false accusations at me? THAT'S LOVE??? No thanks!!!
@liciacanada7527 Ай бұрын
Wow exactly the same with me!!! I’m impressed!! He said the same thing over and over we the he loves me and then called me a rotten woman cause literally God gave me the escape and called me names like rotten woman and so on, and I messaged his pastor and told everything about what happened with the screenshots and the pastor took it very seriously thank God and told me that he had a meeting with him talked to him and took him out of all the functions of the church until he gets his marriage life resolved….when is it going to be resolved? From him NEVER! God is definitely dealing with him!
@user-mu5ip4rf4k 6 ай бұрын
Only by the grace of God i have a sound mind. I fought accepting the truth of who he is. I couldn't believe what i knew deep inside was true. Freedom came mentaly emotionally and spiritually trusting in God.
@BereanBubba 3 ай бұрын
I’ve been friends with this friend almost 30 yrs. I recently blocked her finally. I’m done being used.
@melissamitchell5721 4 ай бұрын
Confusion=the enemy
@user-fi8tx1dg1y 2 ай бұрын
YES. YEARS!! Denial cost me years ! Accepting wad huge ! WICKED WICKED
@laurarominger2073 5 ай бұрын
Signs I’ve seen. Silent rage. Smear campaign. Revenge.
@vodkavuitton Ай бұрын
Aka jealousy & obsession
@ShaylaShar 5 ай бұрын
It just hurts. They are so mean. After 30 years of it. I dont even know who i am anymore.
@theladyamalthea 4 ай бұрын
This is common, okay? Please don’t beat yourself up about it. Get free and then have fun rediscovering or redefining who you are! Healing IS possible! ❤❤❤
@myownwoman801 2 ай бұрын
🙏🏽
@ZoegirlBev Ай бұрын
I understand where you’re coming from. You can and WILL get your power back. You got this. A strong person will come from your healing.
@vodkavuitton Ай бұрын
Mean? They're jealous & obsessed. My manager is "mean"
@mattsmith1137 5 ай бұрын
As I learn about this phenomena I marvel at how cookie cutter and predictable the cycle of behavior really is across all cultures.
@michelledavidson1781 5 ай бұрын
A narcissist doesn't change. Let them go, "god" doesn't fix anyone, they have "free will", they must fix themselves.
@kiarawilliams2683 3 ай бұрын
He can fix them but they have to ask Him for the help which most probably don't because they lack accountability. But God COULD change them, but like you said, getting that help from Him, we have to be able to admit we need it first
@omar2292 3 ай бұрын
This is God’s judgment on us for being sinful. The brain has been rewired by God for us to only believe lies. It’s not that we want to.
@iamfree-ce7xd 3 ай бұрын
I know of narcissists that God did change, so it does happen. It's just not something anyone should wait around for.
@sharoneh8929 3 ай бұрын
Please pray for me. My heart 💔 is hurting. The deception and betrayal was so deep...I know God will vindicate me. Staying in PEACE. Be encouraged folks.
@JustMe-qq3rc 2 ай бұрын
God bless you and keep you during your trials. God is with you. Hang tight, the light will shine again.
@sharoneh8929 2 ай бұрын
@@JustMe-qq3rc Thank you✅
@vodkavuitton Ай бұрын
They betrayed themselves cus idgaf 🤷🏾♀️
@swanfeather6228 20 күн бұрын
God healed my heart it was SHATTERED AND IAM PRAISING GOD EVERY DAY !!
@sharoneh8929 20 күн бұрын
@swanfeather6228 GOD is Able ✅✅✅.
@Calories1973 3 ай бұрын
Narcissist will never change. That’s the sad reality.
@djmandyland 5 ай бұрын
Mine never apologized, he would just ghost me and act like I never existed and it worked every time 😭 he knew I was sad and confused etc but he also saw that his anger, rage and bs wasn't phasing me anymore so he'd basically just go radio silent and he knew it would make me feel the most pain because I had abandonment trauma from childhood. They are definitely demonic and twisted
@tomforsythe7024 5 күн бұрын
The tell for me is the non-apology apology: "I'm sorry that you feel that way about the perfectly reasonable thing that I did."
@deborahgloria3867 5 ай бұрын
RUN RUN RUN FAST ONCE YOI KNOW!!
@Why_Knott_Me 4 ай бұрын
I made the mistake of going against advice and telling the narcissist I knew what they were.
@1timeslime971 6 ай бұрын
My narc husbands go-to when he’s enraged is “You need HELP, you’re insane”. He’s THE MASTER of all masters of this narc tool, that is the deflection, the flipping their own guilt onto others.
@jenniferrosteski3955 6 ай бұрын
I find that as hard as it may be to do this strategy if you agree with everything thing that they are saying about you is true (obviously you know you aren't any of those things) that the narc will have no more ammo or fuel left to fight with you. Just by simply saying your right, I am the one that's at fault here. Then say to them if this is what you think of me and how u feel about me , why do/would you want me in your life?? You end up being the better person for not falling to their level(s)and put an end to the madness...
@1timeslime971 2 ай бұрын
@@jenniferrosteski3955no, agreeing with everything they say is called enabling. From a christian view, it is untruthful. Nowhere in The Bible are we ever advised ti ‘go along’ with sinful behavior…im sorry, but the narc will only look, or create more anyway.
@vodkavuitton Ай бұрын
That's a laughable tactic 😂😂 can't take these losers seriously. They're robots who say whatever the script tells them to in their jotted notes of repeatable bullshih. They just want some attention
@alemayehuwoldemichael585 6 ай бұрын
Thank you dear daughter of God. This helps a lot Christians who don't know how to handle this evil without disobeying God, like unforgiving person, but self guard.
@PeterMacvichie 2 ай бұрын
I’m thankful for the gift of discernment, God showed me this abusive man’s heart through dreams, visions and a word of knowledge. He won’t be manipulating me again.
@liciacanada7527 Ай бұрын
Awesome! I had to get married again to realize but what I can say is I cried out to the Lord and He heard me and gave an escape! Praise Jesus, I’m separated moved to another city and am doing therapy a Christian therapy 😊
@PeterMacvichie Ай бұрын
@@liciacanada7527 I feel for you. This guy is my housemate and not by choice either, if I had my way he’d have never lived here.
@nevaehleedawn2980 6 ай бұрын
Unfortunately God exposed my own mother as being a true narcissist who is intentionally trying to destroy my family, and the very fabric of my innermost being. I am a warrior in Christ though, and I know He is looking out for my family and myself. I have faith He will protect us and see us through till the end.
@mday3821 6 ай бұрын
I can testify to that. God showed me everything my mother was doing behind my back. He showed me that my mother was the one stealing from me and was causing all the problems in the family. After years of living & taking care if her I was so exhausted and I prayed, "Abba Father, take my mother from my sight. I can't take it anymore. Please Father help me. I give this battle to You. In Jesus name. Amen." I prayed this over and over. She died less than a month later. She was old in bad health, but I believed God answered. I never thought God would expose my mother being my enemy. Just remember call on Him when you need help. May God keep you & your family safe and makes a path for you to get out of this toxic relationship. God bless.❤
@zzzzzzzzzxx233 6 ай бұрын
@@mday3821 OMG sounds like you've been through hell, my God woman thank God you're okay praise the Lord for helping you in Jesus name amen
@mday3821 6 ай бұрын
@@zzzzzzzzzxx233 Thank you, God bless you. I'm in therapy now...praying for healing.
@MI6-W 5 ай бұрын
Same here, mother is pure evil.
@8739michelle 5 ай бұрын
Same here, its so painful
@user-es6jt6eb7t 2 ай бұрын
THEY NEVER EVER CHANGE !!- PERIOD. DO YOURSELVES A FAVOUR - STAY AWAY TILL THE END OF THEIR/YOURS DAYS
@julienatoli8561 6 ай бұрын
Hi Kris .. excellent video. Sadly I lived it .. and yes Ma'am all these toxic individuals really want is your admiration and conformity. It's like way down deep, their heart is all locked up. And because WE, the empath would not treat anyone with such anger and lies, we assume EVERYONE has our best interest at heart!!! They don't. Simply they don't, evil absolutely exists in this world, soo ... I know from experience how important it is to truly LISTEN to the holy Spirit. That beautiful still quiet voice within. Because that IS God trying to protect & guide you. God IS love and wants us to experience being loved well. The enemy of our souls IS a counterfeit. And will offer a substitute, and it always comes in the form of confusion. Normalizing abuse is not FROM the holy Spirit. Thank you Kris for all the excellent videos, God bless you abundantly! 😘🙏✝️🕊️
@Kris_Reece 6 ай бұрын
A big resounding Amen! Well said Julie. 😀
@jflor7 6 ай бұрын
Absolutely! GOD helped me and saved me from a situation that could have been so much worse. I didn’t listen enough to not marry him, but I listened enough to never move in with him and he never became a part of my every day life. Totally rings true: all they want is admiration and our conformity. Yuck 🤮🤮🤮 I vomit mentally every time I think of it…🐍🐺 he’s the snake in the garden (deceitful) and wolf in sheep’s clothing. The Judas that stabs you in the back… thank GOD He removed me.✝️🙏
@user-uh4yj9cy6k 4 ай бұрын
@@Kris_Reece Is it possible to rescue my daughter and grandbabies from her boyfriend? He has got a chain on her so hard, she barely smiles. Looks like she may have stopped caring for herself. She says she is staying on her own accord, but we think he may be drugging her? When do we put our foot down or take charge?
@ct3343 4 ай бұрын
Yep my spirit was telling me it’s time to distance myself and spend less time with them. Got an extremely fragile and unpredictable powerful narcissist. Probably should’ve listened sooner my energy is reaching new highs now.
@gwendolynwehage6336 6 ай бұрын
Amen, Amen!!!! I grew up in a family like this as the scapegoat. I was constantly sad and couldn't figure out what I had done to cause them to hate me so much. My mother was jealous of me, the only little girl in a house full of men. Then as I was growing her angst toward me was taught to my brothers and they too thought something was wrong with me because of the way "Mommy" hated me. My father didn't defend me, at least where I could see it. My mother and father fought all the time and it upset me greatly.
@zzzzzzzzzxx233 6 ай бұрын
🩷🩷🩷🩷 BE OF GOOD CHEER .... Many people this happens to it because they had a great call in their life at birth they had a bright light and the enemy does not like that because he's jealous okay so the Lord is with you and always has protected you... the people who should have loved you the most omg.. the fact that you came through this and very sane that is a miracle from God Almighty so God bless you girlfriend God be with you, be of good courage AMEN... he LOVES you... VERY MUCH... GOD THE FATHER,, JESUS THE SAVIOR, HOLY SPIRIT OF COMFORT.... 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🕊️✝️
@caragare3214 6 ай бұрын
Soon I hope
@terriwalsh5592 2 ай бұрын
I grew up in this same environment. I grew up, moved away, got married, had three sons, as hard as it was to remove myself from the drama of my mom. It was worth it! We maintained a on again off again relationship through our adult years. The last three years of her life, we had a better relationship. But the knowledge of narcissism has been a game changer for me. I am thankful for the videos and their knowledge. I know I am not CRAZY!
@deniseparker3614 3 ай бұрын
You simply go no contact.A Narcissist will never change. It's not my job to lead anyone to the Lord,figure them out,or deal with their issues.I choose me.They're in God's hands.Forgive & let go.Love them from a distance & Pray for them.
@Capernom8333 10 күн бұрын
Amen!
@michaeldingman9029 4 ай бұрын
I am dealing with a female Covert Malignant Narcissist and she has exibited all of these wild behaviours and she gets very Violent alot and it's like she throws little child like temper tantrums.
@CareBear-og6pe 6 ай бұрын
God guided me to leave prior to me realizing he was a covert narcissist. I found out the abuse and silent treatment by research after my divorce. I left him with our home we built and everything else and didn’t have any bitterness, anger, emotional distress (outwardly). I felt a relief and a burden lifted. It was weird no emotional distress like prior relationships. God has provided for me emotionally, spiritually and I no longer care about material items.
@tinaureta9891 6 ай бұрын
Wow!!! I Truely love that. Yes , I have experienced this for 26 years. We built our home with our own hands in the woods, and when it was finished , he got even more toxic, closing up, making me feel like “I am Wrong, I am Bad, I am wrong”…. Then when I spoke up… he closed up! Locked himself away in a room except for bathroom and food… and ignored me for 2 weeks, saying “ I want a separation” He left…. I cried and prayed and fasted….. he went to his atheist mother, they manipulated his mind totally against me cuz I’m a Christian. They helped him push for divorce. Now he just gave me Legal separation. He was so called nice to me for 2 months leading up to this. Fooling me…. I pray for strength… I pray I can get through this
@CareBear-og6pe 6 ай бұрын
@@tinaureta9891 They always play the victim. Mine did same after house was done being built. he would go read his Bible in bed (towards the end). He was so fake. I was with him 7-8 years and didn’t realize how badly I was being gas lit. He told me I was leaving with more then I had when he met me. What? I didn’t want court and in MT you have to live apart for 180 days prior to filing for divorce unless you sign and notarize a legal doc. Done. Cost of divorce was the filing fee. Moved 4 states away. Stay strong and pray about it. God will help you. God Bless.
@kennethrobinson1672 6 ай бұрын
I bought some land, about to build a house and my wife are giving me so many red flags ...I'm so scared to continue...I mean she throw paper on the floor beside the thrash can instead of putting in
@kuhleamahle130 6 ай бұрын
@@tinaureta9891 You can and will get through this and live in peace. Be brave. You got this💌
@selinasamuels3899 5 ай бұрын
Gods going to bless you 7 times fold more than what you left behind ❤
@elizabethy2912 6 ай бұрын
Extreme love bombing now, which has confused me for decades, but especially now. A neighbor of mine helped shine the light on all of his " good works": Satan mirrors God, which makes you think " Oh, he's So good"! Mine is an extremely manipulative " nice" altruistic narcissist. Satan comes as a beautiful -looking something or someone- beware!!
@beckyharrt 6 ай бұрын
I agree. My ex was so humble acting, nice, kind, helpful…until he was not.
@user-he7jm9vz8i 6 ай бұрын
Yup. It's deception. But, if we stay true to God, His Holy Spirit will reveal them before you fall a prey. If you walk in lust, then the enemy will have his way.
@sandeep_k55 5 ай бұрын
Like poison which is sweet to taste
@daliamontoya2783 5 ай бұрын
I just open my Bible and it was John 3 and verse 20 was already highlighted. Thank you so much and my God continue to give you knowledge and wisdom to help others like me 🙏🏼❤️
@themmydiedrichs8107 10 күн бұрын
My mother projected "her mess" onto me, so I'm the problem, and she made others believe it, even I believed it. She is perfect, mature, responsible...
@jackiepaul7224 23 күн бұрын
Narcissists are not human. Evil to the core. They will attempt to destroy you in every way.
@otracuentaperra4290 6 ай бұрын
About 1/3 of murders within the circle of family and/or friends are the result of people that failed to separate forever from malignant partners. THEY CAN REPENT FAR AWAY FROM YOU IF THEY ARE TRULLY REPENTANT.
@user-xn4uq8tu4s 4 ай бұрын
They will NEVER change!!!!
@alariaesculenta8177 6 ай бұрын
What I can't believe is that my spouse uses scripture to assert his superior spiritual calling, all while lying, i.e. I say something and 1 and 1/2 hour later he's already lying and twisting my words, pretending I said something I did not. + not paying back the money I lent him, always making false promises, even pretending he forgot he owed me $$, + the emotional cheating with a woman he had a girl with 30 years ago, pretending this daughter of his is his niece... I'm slowly and carefully preparing my exit, but it's not easy when no one, no social services will help you. I don't care, with God's help I will make it out alive.
@cynthiaherrera4633 6 ай бұрын
I pray for you God Will free You very very soon❤
@miriam8026 6 ай бұрын
It is called gaslighting (there was a movie Gas Light in the 40's, hence the term) and it is meant to confuse and make the receiving one question his/her memory and sanity. All the best!
@jameshogue1639 6 ай бұрын
Narcissists ( plural). Like a whole lot of them. Block , block, block them; it's not wrong; it's healthful. Go after them legally if need be! State and federal charges of harassment. Yep!
@gailrosenberg48 6 ай бұрын
THEY NEVER CHANGE! Kris, you said it yourself once. These people know the words but do not have the music. In Christian lingo it's all talk and no walk. If the conviction of the Holy Spirit is not operational in their lives, no amount of praying and waiting will make a difference. My experience of 35 years in and 5+ years out is testimony to the results of mis-spent hope.
@user-jb7pn9bm8w 6 ай бұрын
I have just learned about narcissism and what I am learning is how unbelievably twisted and Cemented and purposefull the evil is in these type of people !!! 😮
@littleiodine9480 5 ай бұрын
Very well said! The last sentence is profound. Thank you! 🥰
@Sarah-psalm127 5 ай бұрын
Are you saying just because your experience is they did not change ( yet) that God can't soften a person's heart? Well your discounting what God can do. You should pray for them.
@airyeeblesid824 4 ай бұрын
@@Sarah-psalm127 here you are again imposing on someone's wise safe decision to stay away from EVIL. Since your so adamant about praying for abusers and not the victim..just keep it to yourself to pray for them but stop imposing and harrassing others to do the same especially when they are trying to heal and move on. Your doing more damage than you are bringing healing. They are ignoring you because tou can't chsnge a narc nor reason with them that's because they have wicked stubborn hearts and partner with demons leave everyone alone that's trying to heal. Stop trying to convince pole that they need to spend all their life praying for someone that refuses to change. I thought like you until I had enough of the abuse then turned him over to God. There are tons of comments clearly sayimg to stay away from the barc which lines up with scripture and your going agsinst scripture repeatedly.You need to check yourself. Stop trying to play God's role in trying to tell people what to do by encouraging them to stay wiyh an abuser or even think of them by forcing them to pray for them. You want grace fkr the abuser but not the abused.Backwards.
@pamelaschutz1248 4 ай бұрын
This is very profound. I'm beginning to wonder whether narcissism might not be the "sin against the Holy Spirit that cannot be forgiven". I've always wondered what it is. But they pretend to it without the change that truly bowing to the Spirit would create.
@loriosterweil982 5 ай бұрын
Every single time I tried to trust my brother again, he’s turned on me. This time I’m not taking your advice. I’m not ever going back.
@Elizabethhwill 6 ай бұрын
This was so timely. My mother is so toxic. Everything that you’re saying she’s doing to me. Making me out to be the problem. I thought I was crazy. I had so much anger when talking to her that I did explode but there’s no taking it back now so of course I look like the bad person. I finally know her true colors and want nothing to do with her.
@gisellewisdomdavey5554 6 ай бұрын
My mother has done and is doing the same to me.
@TMH792 6 ай бұрын
I dealt with this my whole life with my mom and they antagonize, gaslight , triangulate and deny your reality and then blame you when you lose it. It's text book. I had to cut ties with my whole family because of this. GOD bless you!
@user-me1yv1og4u 6 ай бұрын
You will always be able to help your self with your kindness and comfort ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
@thirstonhowellthebird 5 ай бұрын
Reactive abuse is what they count on so they can then play the victim to your perceived insanity and rage. They are evil.
@karenc.6144 5 ай бұрын
You just told my story. I grew up with three brothers and a mother who treated me with disdain. I could never understand why she was so dismissive toward me. Being the only daughter threatened her. My father used me later as his sounding board and then abandoned us. The narc mother loves to triangulate their children to dislike each other. Her fear is that collectively they may figure her out. Praying for your healing from your traumatic childhood of emotional neglect. God is our redeemer!!
@thomasnicholas1490 18 күн бұрын
Reactions to disappointment reveal what's in the heart.
@user-ew8gv6kw5i 6 ай бұрын
GO KNOW CONTACT, BUT STILL PRAY FOR THEM❤
@user-qr2nl1cj9i Ай бұрын
They lack grey matter in there brains responsible for love. I don't pray 4 demons they cannot repent.
@swanfeather6228 20 күн бұрын
They need it more than they know
@ineveryseason 6 ай бұрын
Kris, this video speaks to my heart right now (especially towards the end - around 7mins+). I am now being accused of being "unforgiving" not showing "grace" or "mercy." This is unbelievable coming from the mouth of a "changed man"!!! No responsibility or accountability on his part and zero empathy. But God has set me free and He is my rock, my strength, my firm foundation🙌🏻 Thank you for ending with that encouraging Bible verse too🙏🏻
@lisastutzman3140 6 ай бұрын
I have just become silent. I know longer care. Maybe that's just my attitude, but exhaustion is beyond.
@mariep4018 Ай бұрын
Narcissists never change. You are who you are. No matter where you come from even if you rise up the ladder, you continue to be the original and one and only you. You’re either a good person or you’re not. At least that’s my take on it . A wolf is a wolf and a sheep is a sheep.
@Laura-qr1ml 2 ай бұрын
You are 100% right about all of these phases. I stayed in contact with the narcissist ex for almost a year, mostly just to watch what manipulative ploy he would try next. I had no intention of ever seeing him again, after I figured out what he was. It gave me the closure I needed, so I wouldn't doubt my decision to never go back. I'm 59 this month, and I feel like all of my relationships have been with narcissistic men. I'm just now figuring it all out, and fear ever getting into another relationship. My heart is worn out. Thank you for the help you're giving to all of us who've been hoping for the best, but being shown the worst of humanity.
@Healinglove 2 ай бұрын
You will trust again, remember always have discernment and boundaries, say "No" often. You got this! 🙏❤️🩹❤
@yah9489 6 ай бұрын
Mine never never never never apologized to me. Don't expect yours to. Once the mask comes off, don't keep testing God. Leave. No contact.
@jamaalgamble3441 3 ай бұрын
So what do you do when you can't leave?
@kimberlyd7398 3 ай бұрын
Mine apologized every time. Tears and the whole thing .
@clintfoster1639 3 ай бұрын
@jamaalgamble3441 pray!
@NuttBoxx 6 ай бұрын
Great teaching. I’ve been out 5 years through God grace and mercy, Iv’e survived. I have entered a new phase: strength, boldness, courage. Those boundaries are there in place. I am waiting on Father to restore my alienated children. Prayer needed here. But God is good! He has promised full restoration in His time.
@littleiodine9480 5 ай бұрын
While you are waiting, please find joy and happiness in all other areas of your life. 😊
@NuttBoxx 5 ай бұрын
@@littleiodine9480 thank you. I have to say I am living my best life. Freedom, happiness, kindness. I am happy because I choose it daily.
@NavyVetE5 6 күн бұрын
I say, "chalk it up to experience." Learn what drew you to them and what drew them to you, and leave. Life is too short to waste on a narcissist. Then praise God for His Mercies and Grace. Keep on moving!👍
@ChildofGod98765 6 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this it gives me hope. I seem to bear the weight of the world on my shoulders as a single mom, I’m battling lupus and heart disease. I often face challenges that can seem insurmountable especially with raising two children with special needs. I’m trying to balance everything but Lord I’m struggling to make ends meet, to pay bills, and to put food on the table for my children and I feel so alone. At times I want to give up. But I keep faith because I know God will provide.❤
@laurarekow5290 6 ай бұрын
Praying for you and your family
@B-Nia 6 ай бұрын
🙋🙏🙋🙏🙋
@ladyofthecreek279 6 ай бұрын
You usually add your "two autistic sons" to your story, TiffMiller1234
@KM-zb9eg 6 ай бұрын
God bless you and your children
@tobeytristan9534 6 ай бұрын
You are seen, heard and felt, it is tough and hard, sending love to you...😢❤
@ranikster9955 5 ай бұрын
They already said that they will never change I believe them ❤
@johnm5211 Ай бұрын
God just revealed me to that I am this person as a warning. I am utterly shocked because I didn't know. My was is, but I didn't think that I was. I am devastated. I am begging for mercy and help. Thank you for your incredible videos!
@MichelleECKHU8 3 ай бұрын
I asked for clarity and within hours he accidentally recorded himself and sent me a three minute recording of him completely being a liar and flirting with another woman. There is my clarity, and when he came to the door, I questioned him he denied it, and then I told him he recorded himself and he said I gotta go, and I haven’t seen him in four weeks, and I am very grateful for that clarity that was gifted to me, peace is so much more valuable in this world than what you believe is love when it’s only one-sided. ❤
@Isaidwhatisaid8701 5 ай бұрын
I got out !!!! You can do it. Stay strong 🙏🏽🫶🏽
@bunny4dp 6 ай бұрын
Family court enables them too. To keep up with post separation abuse.
@Kris_Reece 6 ай бұрын
Sad but in many cases, true.
@Nina-vv3ev 6 ай бұрын
Have faith! They try to take the kids… If there’s issues with visitation, the judge will start to notice… and if you have to go through the whole long & grueling court process, it’s so hard to prove even with EVIDENCE & protective orders expire… gaslighting occurs during the supervised visits too… it makes zero sense & exhausting but you CAN win!
@Potencyfunction 5 ай бұрын
What is keeping abuse after separATION?
@thenarethechildrenfree 2 ай бұрын
It's like a circus. Swear. I have been through all these phases over and over again. The whole thing is a circle. I am done. That's why I pray for justice.
@LadybugPhil413 6 ай бұрын
This video is 100% truth. 24 years dealing with this narcissist. I'm no contact now.
@denise0777 6 ай бұрын
Is your "no contact" just you living somewhere else, but still married. Or did you kick him out and you are divorced?
@LadybugPhil413 6 ай бұрын
@@denise0777 divorced 14 years ago.........
@suvarnajoy2879 4 ай бұрын
Same here❤
@marciabennett-nm6jf 3 ай бұрын
I believe God will exposed the norssist.
@biggerock 6 ай бұрын
I have no desire to get " back to normal" with my former abuser. She's never given me a real apology; just the useless " I'm sorry I hurt your feelings" nonsense. I haven’t spoken to her in years, I have forgiven her, but I will never trust her again. I have absolutely no desire to opening my life up to her abuse again.
@MJ-qb5ph 6 ай бұрын
‘About to get toxic’ that has to be the understatement of the millennium
@user-mu5ip4rf4k 6 ай бұрын
Incapable of apologizing.....
@user-cz3ky3cg3l 5 ай бұрын
They tell on themselves..by the time they pretend sorry... everyone around know how they are...things start to creep up on the creepin
@selenadrenalinperle7383 4 ай бұрын
Yes 💯💯really. All the surroundings know them, but they think they are inkognito 😂😂.
@maxwell-cole 6 ай бұрын
This is sooooooo goooooood. This message is timely and well received. You are spreading 💡 Thank you for the Biblical reference too.
@annedas2726 Ай бұрын
So well articulated. Thank you. The hardest thing is to hold our ground of low to no contact and I have experienced all 4 phases. I am fortunate to have God hold my hand through this ordeal and have faith that as long as God is with me, nothing else matters. Thank you and God bless you with divine guidance and wisdom 🌈🌈
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