Has your spouse become a different person? 🤔

You made it perfectly clear, very easily to understand. It's so much sense.

Spouse did become a different person. A person who became darker and more like her limerent object. She acts very differently around me than the other guy. "Celestial Santa" -Joe Beam LOL!!!

Great explanation of how other’s influence (one person or many) over one partner in the marriage can influence that partner’s belief system, ultimately leading to changes within the marriage relationship. I appreciate this being put into such a clear, concise conversation. This articulates well what I noticed in my own marriage: Other people’s influence over my spouse (who replaced my position of influence within the marriage) eventually caused me to feel that my partner was making decisions that were forcing me to live a life I hadn’t chosen. The situation eventually became so toxic (chronically toxic, stressful living environment) that I noticed my own self eventually changing due to the lack of influence and control over my own life. (Science shows that chronic stress causes neurological changes). Out of the confusion and inability to bring this into my partner’s awareness, I felt I had to leave for my own mental health. What do you advise for extreme situations where there is potentially abuse when one of the partners has changed dramatically? Thanks for the discussion!

It is easy to understand. It makes a lot of sense.

Bottom line, we have all been given FREE WILL! & through out our lives & experiences have the right to make the right or wrong decisions regardless of the outside influences. will we choose right or wrong?that is the question!!!

My husband has become a person I don't even recognize. His a person who like making jokes and make us laugh every now and then. He like to enjoy life and his a wonderful person. Now his has changed completely, he does not even smile he changed his personality. Avoiding every time. I pray that he become himself again

Love your common sense and teachings, I have bought several of your courses and I even did coaching several times but I would love for you two to be more available for us, what I mean is coaching sessions where you answer our questions, group coaching etc. love you guys 😊 Also I believe you are not paying enough attention to the comments here on KZfaq, I have commented on several of your videos and the only thing I get, if something, is a liked thumbs up from you

It's not too complex it makes sense.

Hi my wife wants to seperate but I don’t or at least didn’t ! I’ve been working on my pies and it has helped me tremendously,and wife and our kids are still under the same roof. But with her behaviours (out late, socialising into early hours, not giving me any love, distant etc) I am now thinking just let her go and separate. I hold my tongue even though internally I’m wanting to tell her some home truths that will cause arguments and push her further away.Separating our kids and financial pressures is a worry but I feel like me tip toeing around her trying to keep her sweet is also frustrating me. I feel that im fighting a lost battle trying to get relationship back to a healthy place. I feel that I’m the only one that wants to keep our marriage but at times I feel like giving up. As a side note, thanks for your content it’s been a really good resource for me during this difficult time

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Polyamory is what's right it has to be. I have been told the lie th heart they're monogamous for so long only to find out I was the only one living as such. Every single relationship, always the same pattern. But it still hurts to come to this realization...

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