When people betray you!

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Chetan Bhagat

Chetan Bhagat

Күн бұрын

Betrayal is a part of life.
It is going to happen no matter what.
How do you deal with it?

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@thelostdude2808
@thelostdude2808 2 жыл бұрын
I got betrayed by my GF after 4 years of relationship and I was blaming my self for all happenings but later found that she betrayed me for my own brother alike whom I trusted more then anyone else. So I got double betrayal at the same time. I an a govt job aspirant but due to this I missed 5 govt exams in a row just because I was in severe depression . I even took medicines for it but I didn't felt better so I stopped taking them after a while. I even thought of committing suicide but my family was very supportive to me so I came out of it. It took me almost 5-6 months to stand on my feet once again and now it's been almost 10 months and here I am not totally ok but just ok.Sometimes betrayals are good teachers as you got to know more about yourself and temporary people got washed away with it. I know nobody cares about my story but trust me there are thousands of people who wants someone to listen their story and someone to advice them. "Me bhi pehle hasta tha dusro pe ki usko dhokha mil gya, wo kese ro rha hai but 100 bat ki 1 bat bhai jab khud pe bitti maa kasam marna acha hai isse...life became like hell on earth"
@ashwani4571
@ashwani4571 2 жыл бұрын
kis exam ke liye prepare kr rha h bhai?
@thelostdude2808
@thelostdude2808 2 жыл бұрын
@@ashwani4571 bhai state exams or ssc cgl.
@thelostdude2808
@thelostdude2808 2 жыл бұрын
@Kabir Shaikh bilkul bhai..
@vikrant_bhise
@vikrant_bhise 2 жыл бұрын
Same here govt aspirant got betrayed for 10 yrs in relationship
@rajeevbhatt2806
@rajeevbhatt2806 2 жыл бұрын
Choti choti baaton ko hum bada samajh lete hain..prem mi hota to breakup nahi hota ..breakup hua ki matlab prem bhi nahi tha ..kamina insaan tha vo palla choota ..jaan bachi ..life me in filmy chakkaro or harmones ki bhook ko pyar mat samjha Karo..prem kuch alag hai .. Acharye prashant ko suno ..dimaag khulega ..and you will thank me later for this...
@amanjain_03
@amanjain_03 2 жыл бұрын
Tbh according to me, betrayal is necessary at least once in every phase of life.. It def makes you sad and dejected but on the counterpart it enters you into a whole new world and you learn a lot from it.. There are just lot of positive aspects to it, makes you think your way of dealing and approaching with people
@imtheiinsbi2129
@imtheiinsbi2129 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly... A Breakup or Betrayal can make a person loser or an achiever.
@notusingaccountanymore1249
@notusingaccountanymore1249 2 жыл бұрын
agreed. after friendship betrayals i was able to identify the "toxic" friends in life , which i wasn't able to do before :)
@amanjain_03
@amanjain_03 2 жыл бұрын
@@notusingaccountanymore1249 exactly ikr
@dikumari15
@dikumari15 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed! At first it sucks but later you realises that it had its own advantages and how important it is to go through them as these experiences r going to help in future
@monikajangra3028
@monikajangra3028 2 жыл бұрын
Right because in that phase a person learn to love her/him self
@rashmika_mandannaa
@rashmika_mandannaa 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes that Betrayal Change us so much and we become selfish and start working on ourself, betrayal works as an eye opener...End can be beginning to something really Good I've experienced 🙂
@palashbawankar8218
@palashbawankar8218 2 жыл бұрын
thnks i got my answer
@vikalthapa7974
@vikalthapa7974 2 жыл бұрын
Same here i have experienced the same things
@Spydervlogs369
@Spydervlogs369 2 жыл бұрын
Sahi BOLA aapne
@pritiraj5875
@pritiraj5875 2 жыл бұрын
But sometimes it costs a innocent person's life... Bcz he/she thinks that it's an end of life & they try to kill their self & attempt suicide. One of my frnd did this & she is no more in this world 😔
@rashmika_mandannaa
@rashmika_mandannaa 2 жыл бұрын
@@pritiraj5875 Been through it I felt like this is the end but luckily I had my friends with me who saved me Literally, may her soul RIP💔
@arnabghosh220
@arnabghosh220 2 жыл бұрын
Got betrayed by friends even after helping them a lot in college days ..broke all connections with them..now they call me a selfish person 🙂
@ajeet_jnu
@ajeet_jnu 2 жыл бұрын
Same...here bro..
@palashbawankar8218
@palashbawankar8218 2 жыл бұрын
same bro , but show of life must go on...
@kirankashyap1157
@kirankashyap1157 2 жыл бұрын
Yes...when we decide not to get used by them..they say us rude or selfish 😂 I mean really dude .. I know all of their secrets ..still I choose to move forward.. and what they say is " tum badal gaye ho" 😕..
@dikumari15
@dikumari15 2 жыл бұрын
Don't listen! Thinking about yourself once in a while is not selfish!
@virajharimkar7783
@virajharimkar7783 2 жыл бұрын
@@kirankashyap1157 yes used me as a toy…and when I realised my value and doing same like them they called me egoistic…
@aniketh7
@aniketh7 2 жыл бұрын
"We all are alone in this world." Thank you sir.❤️🙏
@shubhamnikam3837
@shubhamnikam3837 2 жыл бұрын
If someone betrays you it is really a blessing in disguise ..u just really kick them out with light speed without even thinking for a 1 microsecond.
@vandanaavhadenglish510
@vandanaavhadenglish510 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks sir for this video..I realised it that if we accept betrayal ...we live happily... Relationship is only convenience...so this knowledge is necessary to accept the reality ... Really I feel very comfortable when I listened this video .thanks sir
@sonam6724
@sonam6724 2 жыл бұрын
This is one of your best videos Chetan, in my opinion. We should just understand and accept the reality, not become bitter with these experiences. Instead just move on in life and be a well wisher for everyone. That will help us more than anyone else.
@preetiesingh3193
@preetiesingh3193 2 жыл бұрын
Chetan I watched it for the second time today and realised that I needed these words very badly and there is no one who could have told me this. Thanks again for sheer wisdom shared for a great cause.
@pritiraj5875
@pritiraj5875 2 жыл бұрын
Emotional betrayal is more hurtful or painful than any other betrayals.
@babitha007
@babitha007 2 жыл бұрын
If u invest too much , betrayals are too painful
@firozafzalkhan7042
@firozafzalkhan7042 2 жыл бұрын
Very rightly said Sir that we all are alone in this rollercoaster of life . At the end, the only person you can count on,is yourself. Spirituality is the 🗝.
@vikrant_bhise
@vikrant_bhise 2 жыл бұрын
I got betrayed for 10yrs of relationship. It hurts... hurts alot to see your favourite person marrying someone else and walking sleeping getting physical talking traveling and laughing with them. Its been a year now... Its not easy to get out of it even though each passing day you decide not to think about that person or look at the pictures videos memories etc. Even if you have deleted them. Its not easy for the one who trusted so much . Also its not at all easy when you are govt aspirant because you cant focus on your studies or your career. NEVER BETRAY ANYONE. It just ruins the life MENTALLY, PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY.
@xlr8901
@xlr8901 2 жыл бұрын
I feel for u bro.....did u ever get physical with her? Although it's none of my business but just wanna know how much it hurts then if u did or if u didn't....caz I'm too in the same state ur in
@vikrant_bhise
@vikrant_bhise 2 жыл бұрын
@@xlr8901 No i didn't that was my commitment for her after marriage and so was hers. But yes to be frank i feel bad and uneasy or Sometimes so much guilt or ill that she is getting physical with someone because she is married...and thats break me apart every night. It was not until 10yr but as that person went away and you are blocked you are no more in her life or that person is far away and everyday sleeping with someone else is under the roof that breaks me. Because that was the thing i always imagined and dreamt about.
@ARUSHIMODI
@ARUSHIMODI 2 жыл бұрын
Hey I am proud of u.....u are so strong dude....!! I can understand ....plz relax....pray to god ...universe is with u ....!! U will also get someone better...!!
@xlr8901
@xlr8901 2 жыл бұрын
@@vikrant_bhise trust me buddy ur a good man....u deserve alot good.... it's coming down the way.just stay put trust me god has done this for a reason nd u will someday cherish god's decision....i too never got physical with her nd yah her being with someone tears me apart....i was everything for her nd all of a sudden i became ntg more than a trash....she used to tell sorry for the mistakes she never did but now she says cruel words it pinches nd rips the heart away
@vaishalivasava8216
@vaishalivasava8216 2 жыл бұрын
Ese insaan ka kya fayda jisne apki value nhi ki.. Ap bahot achhe insaan ho.. Isse bhi accha jivan sathi milega apko☺
@apuswargiary5621
@apuswargiary5621 2 жыл бұрын
Be certain that he who has betrayed thee once will betray thee again-Shakespeare
@archanaagarwal7772
@archanaagarwal7772 2 жыл бұрын
I am a female and I watch your videos .. what I like about them is that it feels you speak straight from your heart ,so much clarity in thoughts and words....it hits my soul ...thank you for such videos... please continue doing this..I eagerly wait for your new videos
@prabhanarayana
@prabhanarayana 2 жыл бұрын
Very good video Chetan sir. We mostly take everything/ everyone for granted and do not think about all these phases that can happen in our life. Nothing is permanent. That is the ultimate truth. You are really a wonderful guru. Keep enlightening us. People like you are the assets of our country.
@aqilahmed681
@aqilahmed681 2 жыл бұрын
Very good video on this topic. Exceptionally explained in a nice way.
@madhuyadav7252
@madhuyadav7252 2 жыл бұрын
Yes , you are absolutely right sir .Thank you Chetan sir.
@amarshrivastava2753
@amarshrivastava2753 2 жыл бұрын
Completely agree 💯..Thank you, Sir.
@hemsingh-xb5vy
@hemsingh-xb5vy 2 жыл бұрын
I,m a 70 year young senior citizen I get deep ìnsight on so many levels u r such a sweet guy keep it up
@2011chinu
@2011chinu 2 жыл бұрын
Big thank you Sir. This video is Very relevant in today's time.
@chintanved3300
@chintanved3300 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir for guiding us through the practical side.
@ritvikg08
@ritvikg08 2 жыл бұрын
I'm going through a phase where I was recently betrayed in a relationship. Watching this video helps in accepting the reality of life. Thank you so much sir for this video❤
@dimpledua7019
@dimpledua7019 2 жыл бұрын
Very true sir. Ultimately it's the relationship with god at the end which will give you so satisfaction in life
@reshmamane8474
@reshmamane8474 2 жыл бұрын
Chetan sir what I feel after some experiences in my life , nobody is nobody's here ,all are selfish,all are staying as per their convenience and nowdays i also started feeling nothing wrong in that if anybody is behaving like that ,god has made human beings like that only they will think for themselves first then other world,no expectations from anyone is the greatest mantra worked for me ,i never expect some one will do extra ordinary things for me ,whatever is in our comfort we should do ,we should help but in return don't expect anything from anyone,once started believing and behaving like things all problems will go trust me 😊
@rashmiawasthi9385
@rashmiawasthi9385 4 ай бұрын
Very profound. Your videos are path breaking and you are doing a great job showing reality to the young generation
@ChetanBhagat1
@ChetanBhagat1 4 ай бұрын
Glad you think so!
@manishmunde5784
@manishmunde5784 2 жыл бұрын
जीवन की कड़वी सच्चाई से अवगत कराने के लिए आपका दिल से शुक्रिया सर क्योंकि हम मान बैठते हैं कि सामने वाला हमारे साथ हमेशा प्यार करेगा लेकिन समय और परिस्थिति के साथ वो भी बदल जाता हैं जिससे हमें गहरा आघात पहुंचता है लेकिन हम कुछ नहीं कर सकते हैं क्योंकि यहीं एक अटल सत्य है।
@seeratarora702
@seeratarora702 2 жыл бұрын
We are committed with you Sir 👍🏻 Nice video Sir 👌🏻
@rishiraaj.580
@rishiraaj.580 2 жыл бұрын
U Are Right Sir. I also betrayed Many due to different reasons . Everything has expiry date. We are temporary in this world no matter one accepts this or not . 👍
@beeliciousvardhan
@beeliciousvardhan 2 жыл бұрын
So so needed this right now❤️thanku so much ✌️
@shagunnike1570
@shagunnike1570 Жыл бұрын
Wow such a great explanation that no-one can practical and logical
@kavyadwivedi910
@kavyadwivedi910 2 жыл бұрын
you are so damn Right geography ultimately matters in friendship no matter how much people are the best of friends.
@VaishnaviSingh-ps6fn
@VaishnaviSingh-ps6fn 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this ♥️
@akashghosh7303
@akashghosh7303 2 жыл бұрын
it's a most relevant video for me... currently I am passing through this phrase... and you just uploaded such a amazing content.... It's give me a right direction to move forward... thank you so much sir from bottom of my heart.. it's mean a lot for me♥♥♥♥
@piyushtajne3495
@piyushtajne3495 2 жыл бұрын
Great ! Actually I was going through such emotion will help me get over this !
@neeravvishal4322
@neeravvishal4322 2 жыл бұрын
When it comes to us ,a betrayal is so hard on us,but recently I have broken a frndship with my frnd without giving a reason,so that's also a betrayal but practically I hve felt this now after watching this vdo. Thank you so much sir for makin such vdos which gives us a new mirror to see ourselves.
@deepshikha9545
@deepshikha9545 2 жыл бұрын
This helps me a lot sir🙏🙏..... yesterday, behaviour of a family member hurts me alot....but ur video feels me better. Thank you sir for ur videos 🙏🙏
@SandeepYadav-kr6nl
@SandeepYadav-kr6nl 2 жыл бұрын
This makes us stop trusting even the right people.
@bikramjitgayen8650
@bikramjitgayen8650 Жыл бұрын
This video is So helpful to me.. thanks sir🙏
@nasrinsultana5133
@nasrinsultana5133 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏❤️
@shaheenjamal8468
@shaheenjamal8468 2 жыл бұрын
Hello sir..u r true..truly logically said..I realised same thing when I m 40...we love you sir..thanku..
@themusicera7028
@themusicera7028 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes betrayal (heartbreak) is the key of success... Because at last u found urself.. By the way sir ur thumbnail is just op...
@anuragsinha7375
@anuragsinha7375 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this ☺️
@kumaryogender896
@kumaryogender896 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you...it gives another angle to thoughts...
@ka9133
@ka9133 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know but I am reality to him a lot. I feel like a father is calmly explaining things to me and consoling me. Thank you sir.
@drkknath
@drkknath 2 жыл бұрын
Even parents betray in interst of other siblings/children or self interest. So it may not be also exception. So keep cool and carry on. Great video.
@palaksharma8641
@palaksharma8641 2 жыл бұрын
I just came to know that one of my colleagues betrayed me ..and watching this video on the same day...really needed this..thank you sir
@Germanywithtripti101
@Germanywithtripti101 2 жыл бұрын
very logical video, thumbs up 👍👍👍👍
@rameshgaikwad532
@rameshgaikwad532 Жыл бұрын
Chetan you have explained fact of life in this video it's very clear truth Thanks a lot for posting you are wonderful person.
@ChetanBhagat1
@ChetanBhagat1 Жыл бұрын
It's my pleasure
@knowledgebits7068
@knowledgebits7068 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this sir
@satyammalhotra5895
@satyammalhotra5895 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the suggestion sir it’s really helpful 👏🏻
@viveksankhwar
@viveksankhwar 2 жыл бұрын
Best motivational content.
@Dipakkumar-nn7yw
@Dipakkumar-nn7yw 2 жыл бұрын
You are dead practical Chetan sir !
@rishiraaj.580
@rishiraaj.580 2 жыл бұрын
U Are Practical Life Guru 😀🙏
@limibegam1051
@limibegam1051 2 жыл бұрын
Genuinely Right Sir❤👌..
@prabinrawal8336
@prabinrawal8336 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sir
@plz9870
@plz9870 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you soo much Chetan sir for this beautiful life lesson...,🙏
@ChetanBhagat1
@ChetanBhagat1 2 жыл бұрын
It's my pleasure
@wasimcool2857
@wasimcool2857 2 жыл бұрын
Looking good and fit bhai well done
@rishiraaj.580
@rishiraaj.580 2 жыл бұрын
Fulfillment from both side important. Otherwise koi love nahi milne wala.bitter truth. 😐
@deepdoshi1725
@deepdoshi1725 2 жыл бұрын
"Betrayal is an inherent part of love." - Berlin(Money Heist)
@mihirsrivastava1113
@mihirsrivastava1113 2 жыл бұрын
Great Video Sir
@3d_paras
@3d_paras 2 жыл бұрын
This video helped me so much cant explain through words love you content so much
@3d_paras
@3d_paras 2 жыл бұрын
your*
@moumitadeysengupta
@moumitadeysengupta Жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot 🙏
@ChinmayNaik2201
@ChinmayNaik2201 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Chetan sir, the videos that you make has been really useful in our life, till date your content has added lot values in our life. I request you to have a session with Sandeep Maheshwari sir on his on going series by putting a small mail to his team , we will definitely love the session and I am sure it will be best conversation ever. Take care!❤
@anukashyap4817
@anukashyap4817 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sir🙏🙏🙏🙏
@dramnaarshad215
@dramnaarshad215 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing thought as always
@challanagendra4642
@challanagendra4642 2 жыл бұрын
In everyone's life betrayal is must atleast once. Thank you Chetan sir.
@ShriramPardikar......
@ShriramPardikar...... 2 жыл бұрын
Sir this is your best look till date
@Poonam-en4ln
@Poonam-en4ln 2 жыл бұрын
Apka moukka hii apko dhokha deta h...... dhokhebaz hmesha apke apne hii hote h....be extra alert......jinke liye ap masiha bante hai ekdin whi apka sb kuchh lutt lete h....💯 Pr dhokha khane se pahle apko btane wale ko hi aap apna dushman man lete hai...or fir wo hota h jo koi apko kitna samjane ki koshish kr rha tha......Thank you guru ji.....
@priya18won
@priya18won 2 жыл бұрын
very relevant ans strnghtening, shared it
@gulshansharma4437
@gulshansharma4437 2 жыл бұрын
Great content.
@sohailansari2009
@sohailansari2009 2 жыл бұрын
Sir Mubarak ho.. you are becoming “Iron Man” look alike with every passing video. Love you some thousands..
@Kayash_Kino
@Kayash_Kino 2 жыл бұрын
Bade kaam ki cheez sikhai hai Chetan, jio!
@DESHNAYAK
@DESHNAYAK 2 жыл бұрын
Looking 🔥🔥
@uditgupta8487
@uditgupta8487 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much sir 🙏♥️
@maanutaanusharma
@maanutaanusharma 2 жыл бұрын
Sir , Thank you .
@S_kay001
@S_kay001 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙏🏻
@ishaansclub7149
@ishaansclub7149 2 жыл бұрын
Great video
@tapanbhoi4874
@tapanbhoi4874 2 жыл бұрын
New Look looks good..
@ubeshoriginals
@ubeshoriginals 2 жыл бұрын
Sir you’re looking nice in this look ❤️👌
@bhupeshkumar696
@bhupeshkumar696 2 жыл бұрын
Hi sir I'm your regular viewer
@donkon2723
@donkon2723 2 жыл бұрын
Aaye haye chetan bhai new look Ab to jyada jawan lgne lge ho 😄😄😄
@just_4fun
@just_4fun 2 жыл бұрын
thank you sir 🤗
@rexar121
@rexar121 2 жыл бұрын
I just got betrayed today by a friend , it's about money and also he lied to me . I talked to him harshly as my mind was out of control . After a moment i really felt bad the way i reacted . Thanks chetan for this video at the right time. I was derailed but now I'm back on tract.✌
@nanditagautam6310
@nanditagautam6310 2 жыл бұрын
yes, all we have in this world is our soul and the supersoul (God) residing within our heart.
@rishiraaj.580
@rishiraaj.580 2 жыл бұрын
Ye Filmo ne khoob chutiya banaya hai about love, relationship ( especially 90s And Early Films ) that's why I stopped watching bollywood movies. Being practical is very imp. In life . 👍
@shubhamnikam3837
@shubhamnikam3837 2 жыл бұрын
sir log to dhoka dete hi hai.....but if you keep your mind strong you will not be affected..💪
@udayasingh8645
@udayasingh8645 2 жыл бұрын
Nice video
@mayankbhardwaj4935
@mayankbhardwaj4935 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 💫
@shortsstatus1116
@shortsstatus1116 2 жыл бұрын
Sir looking gud 🥰❤️
@arnesh_kar98k11
@arnesh_kar98k11 4 ай бұрын
13:13 amazing line dude 🎉
@sudamsaharoy2630
@sudamsaharoy2630 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir
@SHAHRUKHKHAN-nc5yd
@SHAHRUKHKHAN-nc5yd 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent
@preetilokhande3407
@preetilokhande3407 2 жыл бұрын
Nice thought👌
@sanjaykadam8083
@sanjaykadam8083 2 жыл бұрын
Nice clip
@rahulgitte235
@rahulgitte235 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, Some of my friends betrayed me😀😀....but it's okay, I take it as, I deserve more good people than them.😀😀😀
@preetiesingh3193
@preetiesingh3193 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Chetan.
@dopaminegirl8675
@dopaminegirl8675 2 жыл бұрын
There is nothing like forever... In love and life🙌
@ritikrawat7514
@ritikrawat7514 2 жыл бұрын
I just don't want to betray you that's why i am commenting 😅😅. Sorry sir😅😂 but the way you describe the things are just 🔥🔥 yha tk hi koi bhra b sunega to smjb jayega jayega😂😂
@shreyaagarwal9355
@shreyaagarwal9355 2 жыл бұрын
Ah , so good ❤️
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