Dating co-worker is extremely risky, if something goes wrong things can get pretty awkward quite fast.
@Kemuael37810 ай бұрын
Yip. Lol
@JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qd10 ай бұрын
I found that they'll always make a point to say hi (or at least something) to you when you come in. She'll know your schedule and when you're gonna be around, and she'll purposely put herself there so she can interact with you. The vibe you feel from her will definitely be different from the typical and more casual "leave me alone" type interactions you have with other coworkers. You'll definitely catch her staring every now and then too. Women are more obvious than they think they are
@jamesvelez236810 ай бұрын
Facts 💯
@Grover123410 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@Officeropposible5 ай бұрын
My experience presently at my work, she keep staring at me almost every minute,she talk to me a lot sometimes when I'm silent for too long she asked me if I'm angry,but she's engaged, I'm confused.
@rodblues683210 ай бұрын
If you pretend she doesn’t exist, she will worship you.
@zerolbcool10 ай бұрын
These are absolutely spot on. I think if she's doing most of these and especially always siding with your ideas etc is a strong indicator. As said if you can read her tone, facial and body expressions you probably can tell if she wants to bond or have some 'alignment'. One minor thing I observed is if a female is at your desk and she always 'accidentally' forgets something at your work area, obviously a big sign. A big point is first is finding out inter-office relationships rules before taking a dive (Don't be George Costanza...Inside joke.) A lot of comments say don't have a relationship, which is safe but if you live in an area with limited options, what can you do. People are always looking for connections, it's what life is about. So maybe give it a shot. If it doesn't work out you probably can just be friends.(unless you both are annoying, negative or obnoxious replicants) LOL.
@FarukShabanOmar10 ай бұрын
Guys, well it’s up to you to believe me or not but a workplace for romance, crush or any kind of such an intimate relationship is a minefield, no it’s even an inevitable death. It’s an absolute fuck up, specially if she’s with you in the same department. You never know what kind of a person she is deep inside or what her real intentions are, specially in an environment like workplace. Trust me, you’ll ruin your life to the bottom. It happened to me and I had to quit a very good position in a very prestigious company after which was so hard to get after I had to endure all the evil I didn’t have the slightest idea she would do to me. If you cross her in any way she will make use of all her capabilities to make you suffer. A woman is dangerous in nature but a coworker woman is just deadly. So take it from me; it’s a big NO.
@darrenskjoelsvold10 ай бұрын
Man sorry that happened and thanks for sharing. Maybe someone will learn and you will have saved them a lot of trouble. Good luck man.
@xonlytyrek360110 ай бұрын
It varies, The women you guys come across must be really evil, i have coworkers who I work with currently who flirt and been with some of the women at my job rn, I’ve heard the story’s and seen it all, and it’s Gone well from my knowledge, There’s a new girl at my job who I have my eye on also, in my eyes it’s ALL about how you handle it, which will determine how well it goes, I don’t think it’s the best idea but I’ve yet to see something bad happen being in the workplace, just my experience.
@darrenskjoelsvold10 ай бұрын
@@xonlytyrek3601 when you get your career or life ruined can we quote you?
@raulquiroz74928 ай бұрын
I think flirting at the workplace isn't necessarily dangerous. It all depends on the woman and taking your time to really get to know them. Obviously you can't be too aggressive with them, like being grabby with them or trying to kiss them on the mouth if you barely know them, but a harmless smile and wink can't be that bad especially if you catch her smiling at you. Again there's a safe way to flirt and wrong way to flirt.
@darrenskjoelsvold8 ай бұрын
@@raulquiroz7492 It's still incredibly unprofessional. You're at work to get work done not get lucky. Just do your job and stop trying to fraternize at work.
@Ro20_10 ай бұрын
It's funny how everytime they talk aboit work, it's always about coworkers at the office. Not everyone works at an office
@SimonB.6 ай бұрын
Its only in office jobs where these kind of things happen because they dont much to do and start focussing on their coworkers
@Ro20_6 ай бұрын
@@SimonB. factories as well. Usually they have a rule where you can't have relationships at work and people still regardless try and find a work husband/wife, a girlfriend/boyfriend or just someone to sleep with. I've seen alot of people that were seeing eachother, sometimes they were married and were seeing a person at work, some started a formal relationship at work and ended up having a baby together.
@josephsanchez248110 ай бұрын
I ain’t risking it because even those who do wanna be with you, leave you.
@darrenskjoelsvold10 ай бұрын
Yeah you're at your job to work not use it as a singles bar. Just do your job and leave the ladies alone.
@raulquiroz74928 ай бұрын
Easier said than done when the lady in question is actively flirting with you, but you're right. @@darrenskjoelsvold
@Mindartcreativity10 ай бұрын
I work with a woman and she‘s been sweet and kind to me since day 1. We‘re on the same team and work closely together. I definitely feel that she treats me differently than other male colleagues. For example we have like a „ritual“ where the both of us prepare fresh tea together, especially in the colder months. We leave the tea on a table in our community office (10 people) and recently she brought my cup to my desk all smiling and genuinely being sweet to me. I‘ve definitely noticed all the signs discussed in this video. She keeps eye contact, smiling genuinely, she always compliments my finished tasks, praises me in front of other colleagues, but not only work stuff but also my private life. I‘m a hobby photographer and she spoke highly of my photography in front of other colleagues. She even advocated to hang one of my photos I took up in our office😅 She also asks me about my private life and encourages me to tackle difficult situations for example when my band broke up. She was also the number one fan of my band (I die vocals and guitar). Last year for Christmas I made her a CD with the two songs released by my band mixed with other songs she might like as we like the same music. She‘s the only person that has those songs on a CD. I feel really lucky and am grateful to have her in my life. Edit: I forgot to mention that she‘s not shy to touch me arm or shoulder. Even in a meeting recently, she touched my arm and shoulder when I made a mistake and she corrected me in very caring way.
@mgway466110 ай бұрын
Don’t even think about it guys
@mike-we8pb10 ай бұрын
If you care about your job, ignore her/stay away/ video record. Not worth it. Protect yourself.
@darrenskjoelsvold10 ай бұрын
Exactly. Yes..
@Mindartcreativity10 ай бұрын
No. Many people have met their partner at the workplace. Just because you had a bad experience, doesn’t mean everyone will have a bad experience. There‘s a difference between an attention-seeking woman and a genuine friendly, flirty woman. Recognise the difference.
@darrenskjoelsvold10 ай бұрын
@@Mindartcreativity you're right many people have met their partner at work but times have changed. The environment is very different these days. Everyone is far more touchy and the environment is not the same as it had been years ago. I don't know if you have noticed but the sexes these days seem to hate each other. Women are hostile towards men and men have all these movements that are hostile towards women and companies are making policies that are against fraternizing at work or in office romances. Again because of problems that have arose in the past. It's not the same as it was and frankly it just isn't worth it anymore. Besides there's no reason to risk things either. You're likely compatible with scores of people who are not coworkers that you could find to date. There's no reason to risk your job and livelihood for the slim chance of finding love. Soulmates are made not found. It doesn't matter who you end up with just what kind of a relationship you build with the person you are with. I am sorry if this seems like a terrible thing but it's the reality we live in today. In the 1900s it was fine to date someone at work. In 2023 it's just not worth the risk. Times have changed and we need to adapt to the shifting paradigms. Unless you're prepared to lose your job don't date someone from work.
@justinsane33210 ай бұрын
Someone got me too'd
@NoName-zb1gm10 ай бұрын
I work with a girl and she's sweet and kind and we get along great and she does some of these things. Once she asked who did a certain thing, which was wrong-not a big deal, and it was me and she came up to me and apologized to me and said she didn't want me to get in trouble. It was so sweet of her to do that. She also asked for my opinion about this at home PT job she was considering. I would love to date her but there's a 30 year age difference so that might not go over well. I find myself thinking about her a lot.
@Grover123410 ай бұрын
I've never been with a woman or even had a girlfriend but I have had crushes and they aren't bad but damn I wish I had asked them out when I had the chance. Yes the age gap is really one thing we guys and sometimes woman wonder if they would have anything in common. You are saying you've had chats with her and she does seem to like you. Why not ask her out on a date?! I say go for it!
@NoName-zb1gm10 ай бұрын
@@Grover1234 I'll wait until one of us leaves our job and think about it. I might just say hello on Facebook ask her how she's doing and see how it goes from there. See if she wants to keep the conversation going.
@ichigotheg.o.a.t10 ай бұрын
@@NoName-zb1gmyeah, don't do it. Try to see if she likes you by seeing if she misses her father or something. but try to make her say something " unintentionally. " Try to see if she has a good relationship with her father or if she has a father. If she has a father, you could and / or might be good. If she has a good relationship, then you could and / or might be good. see what she says first, though, and examine it and see her body language, not what she says only. look at her behaviors with her thoughts and see if they're okay and see if they align and then see it again and then do it again. good luck buddy you deserve, and you are good for it. give it a try. good luck. and I'd like to hear from you again to see how it is and to see how you're doing. see you later. bye.
@Kemuael37810 ай бұрын
Good luck Bro
@vkdeen757010 ай бұрын
okay I gotta be really honest with u... this sounds like she sees u as a fatherly figure but a friendzone thing. unless you're her boss, higher up than her or display high status wealth car looks etc (be honest about your looks and physical shape). it's quite unlikely that's sexually interested in u with a 30 Yr age gap. I would definitely not risk it at work with her. ur plan of waiting till you're no longer colleagues is smart and covers yourself. I hope I don't come across as being mean, I just want to give u my honest opinion and not see u misread something.
@jaytaylor658810 ай бұрын
I appreciate your videos. And this one is the one I’m currently struggling with
@anthonyhernandez193310 ай бұрын
Where I do see the signals most of the time I just dont engage. I work with a few different women who have interest in me and it wasn't noticed by myself until they started acting different towards each other. Workplace romance is a slippery slope....
@gabortoth364410 ай бұрын
I appreciate this video but it shows and proves 1 thing: Unless she says directly what she wants do not make any move....I mean body language? Direct way to HR and/or jail....
@rickdrent10 ай бұрын
Yeah at work you have to look out 😉
@darrenskjoelsvold10 ай бұрын
I would recommend that you just don't date a coworker ever. It's not worth it. A relationship cannot pay your bills. You will never be as respected and appreciated by your coworker in a relationship as your colleagues at work. Never mix work and romance. It's just going to end badly.
@gabortoth364410 ай бұрын
@@darrenskjoelsvold I agree if both person works in the same area/department and the same building/floor. Too much time together every day..sure way to kill a relationship. However if they work away from each other most of the time let`s say 1 is floor 3 other is floor 5 and they see each other at meetings or just occasionally....That might be fine
@darrenskjoelsvold10 ай бұрын
@@gabortoth3644 ok so she works for the same company but a different department. She still works in the same building. When you break up (and let's be honest most relationships end in a break up) you're going to still have to see her. That means everything you did that annoyed her or everything she did that annoyed you will be constantly following her and you around at work every time you see each other. You will be forced to face her on a daily basis. She's going to talk about you and hurt your reputation even if you did nothing wrong and were a total gentleman. It's just a bad idea.
@gabortoth364410 ай бұрын
@@darrenskjoelsvold With that logic never meet anyone because after a breakup you can see them..I mean what distance is good enough? Same street, district, city/town/village, county, country, continent, planet, solar system, galaxy.,universe, reality? Where do you draw the line?
@nellosnook445410 ай бұрын
Thanks Joyanima! 👍
@user-ho3nd2qj2p6 ай бұрын
I love the audio quality
@joemyler295810 ай бұрын
The best way to know if girl likes you. Is if she always lights up like a fire fly in your presents and says hi to you in a high pitched voice and flashes you a crowseye bright smile.
@bryanmccallum461410 ай бұрын
Very interesting video Joyanima 🌹
@theonetheycallfear823710 ай бұрын
Working with a girl currently who has said some interesting things in conversations. Makes great eye contact and will do the cute little look away thing. I’m curious about if what she said should be a good sign: during a conversation about how she’s renting a place from a sketchy couple she mentioned that she needs to find a “tall, tatted, muscular guy to scare the husband for me”, (I’m not super muscular but I fit these categories). She has said this phrase multiple times when I’m in her presence, granted it’s in conversations with other coworkers but no other coworkers fit that description.
@Arvidje10 ай бұрын
Look to me, she has the base level of attraction for u.. how higher the attraction the signs will be more obvious.. ignore her a bit, in most cases she will start displaying more sign when u around her.. then u might take to a higher level with her..
@Marvin235 ай бұрын
Don’t ever ever ever ever ever get attracted to a coworker unless they do not work with you directly. One was giving me all of the signs they were all on the nose and then she set me up for sexual harassment.
@mutungiedmund235510 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@EsspressoMan12 ай бұрын
Yes she does most of those things and I asked her out and she shut me down because of our working relationship and she said she is seeing somebody why would she do that to me and give me all the positive body signals and long eye contact. What was the whole point of her doing that to me in the first place😂
@mycull10 ай бұрын
DO NOT FISH OFF THE COMPANY PIER BOYS! This is such a no no. Unless maybe you both are washing dishes together.
@JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qd10 ай бұрын
It's not that bad. And some people don't have luck on dating apps or going out. Work tail might be their only option.
@jakedrago780510 ай бұрын
If you value the job as a long term career option don’t dare risk it . However If you only see the job as a short term and you are confident in your game go for it but tread carefully.
@trickygoose210 ай бұрын
Circumstances where getting involved with a colleague may be OK: They work in a different department in a largish organisation; You do work in the same section/department but you are working somewhere where one of you could easily be moved somewhere else to avoid any issues; Your employer doesn't have any rules prohibiting staff dating each other. Circumstances where dating a colleague is not a good idea: You work together in a small specialist section and are not really qualified to work elsewhere in the organisation; One of you is the boss of the other; Your employer has rules against this;
@yakbreeder10 ай бұрын
Dont fish from the company pond.
@jerrykitich331810 ай бұрын
How about 'borrows' items from your centrally placed clerical desk constantly? Slowing you down because you can't find your stapler and have to go to her desk to retrieve it regularily?
@galo0n13410 ай бұрын
It’s true they catch on to your vibe. There was this day where I was just sad the whole time at work wasn’t really talking to her as much as I normally would and I was silent with other employees too and later on that day she asked me if I was okay and I told her no I’m not and was about to shed tears when she told me that and she then proceeded to tell me want to talk about it and I said I don’t want to talk about it. The reason was because of her that’s why I was sad because I know of have a good feeling she doesn’t like me and that we wouldn’t work out that’s why I was sad. Although a lot of these things in the video are actually happening between us I still don’t think she likes me. Anyways I caught feelings for her after her ex broke up with her well obviously I already had them before but didn’t really have high feelings because I know she was with someone else and after her breakup she told me what happened and that’s when I caught hard feelings but she still talks to her ex though they still talk together and she said she still likes him. That’s why I’m sure she doesn’t see anything with me. Whatever though as long as she’s happy I’m happy.
@MrWelfarehater10 ай бұрын
She had me at get lost
@KpxUrz574510 ай бұрын
At work??? Haha, I worked at many companies in NYC over the years, and I never had any of these things happen, that is, obvious or disguised signs of interest from a female at work. In my book, and I suspect the same is true for most men, the man is tasked with exerting most of the effort to make a connection.
@gracerules200810 ай бұрын
If a female coworker did even half of these I'd feel creeped out and uncomfortable even if I have a crush on her. I want her to have high interest level without acting on it.
@mattgen400010 ай бұрын
nice
@PresswayComics10 ай бұрын
There is a girl at my job who liked me a lot. I don’t like her in that way. Maybe as a friend, yes, but not like that. The problem was, she was ugly, and she wasn’t my type of girl. The other co-workers set her up with me. I knew why they did it. Because they thought it would be funny. This is why I always believe looks matter because the way you look will determine who likes you, but that doesn’t mean you have to like them because others told you to, or because they like you. You have the right to choose who you like.
@Incel_816 ай бұрын
Amen. There’s this black dude on the last American virgin movie boards who has a kindest of “go where your celebrated” or “take whatever you can get” mentality. That’s weak. Be your own person and chose. Rejection is a choice too.
@glenbateman59605 ай бұрын
Heads up to men who may, for whatever reason, still fall for this dangerous nonsense. If a woman, not just at work but anywhere, does not TELL YOU she likes you, you are much better off to just assume she doesn't. Misinterpreting " signs, "signals," or "hints" can mean the total destruction of your life and everything you have worked for. Be smart. Be careful. Be safe. You have to diligently guard your own best interests, because NO ONE ELSE is going to be looking out for you.
@ujwalawagh643310 ай бұрын
I can't stop thinking about her , can't sleep
@noelgibson595610 ай бұрын
Every video on this channel discusses things women do that I've never personally witnessed. Maybe I'm either ignorant to it, or just unpopular! 😱😭💃
@kevinparker555710 ай бұрын
I'm with you buddy👍
@shootingbricks855410 ай бұрын
If you two have the same boss, I would NOT consider dating her. What if you break up? That would be awkward. If you 2 have different bosses or work in a different group within the same company then maybe.
@JoelEMaher5 ай бұрын
Yaaaaay.
@EvRando1710 ай бұрын
What if she does these things while also having a boyfriend?
@noelgibson595610 ай бұрын
Maybe you're her intended back up plan??
@kevinparker555710 ай бұрын
Get away from her
@lorderectus184910 ай бұрын
It’s for attention only!
@mylesmulenga-uz6gd10 ай бұрын
Women are very complicated and it's hard to understand anything they do or say. I wouldn't recommend even trying to date co-workers for the sake of productivity and Goodwill. Even if she likes you, ignore her.
@Arvidje10 ай бұрын
learn how attraction work.. u will understand them - > corey wayne.
@TheChadavis3310 ай бұрын
Never ever date a coworker. Ever
@Kemuael37810 ай бұрын
Women are the Best.
@CitiesOfAsh4 ай бұрын
At destroying mens lives and mental health.
@oliverpetroski420510 ай бұрын
Getting cold eh, D?❤🥰😘
@weitzfc110 ай бұрын
from a mans point of view this is a very bad idea . men were told at our sexual harassment meetings to keep all interactions between men and women to business only . don't joke , don't flirt and don't associate outside of work . this is something that can lead to firing and having your career ended . never be alone with , or meet women for meetings alone . this is the reason businesses rarely have Christmas and new years parties or summer office picnics . remember gentlemen , your job and maybe family may count on this.
@comptegoogle51110 ай бұрын
Stop the press. Caitleen at work is cute. I know, I deserve a Nobel prize for that discovery. Let me guess, she's going to be flirty with me to have her five minutes of fame like Sarah at Vertigo. The only logic in that: Girls like to be original by following the exact same trend then the other girls.
@jacqueslee259210 ай бұрын
They only like you when they find out you got a raise.
@antoniomontana943010 ай бұрын
For the same reason you don't shit where you eat, don't date people you work with!
@08wolfeyes10 ай бұрын
Anna, will you be my girl or have I got to wait for my next life for that chance?, lol! 😂❤
@Arvidje10 ай бұрын
omg
@08wolfeyes10 ай бұрын
@Arvidje Don't worry, I know it won't happen so chill.
@Arvidje10 ай бұрын
@@08wolfeyes If u have chance with her and drop that line.. u blew it right away lol..
@Payne..3 ай бұрын
Guys do your job and go home
@NOAHCASAS10 ай бұрын
13TH PLACE
@markchristopher42010 ай бұрын
🥈😎🥈
@Martin_Priesthood10 ай бұрын
👍👌❤️
@darrenskjoelsvold10 ай бұрын
I appreciate the video but I might want to make a suggestion. If your female coworker is interested in you stay away. Do not date a coworker. Do not date a colleague. Don't mix work and romance. You will have problems. If nothing else after the relationship ends and it most likely will end things will get awkward. Do not date someone from work.
@cullenatwood514910 ай бұрын
Really depends on where you work or what the work situation is.
@darrenskjoelsvold10 ай бұрын
@@cullenatwood5149 I just think it's not worth the risk. Look you're not going to be missing out on anything. There is no such thing as a soulmate. You just need to find a compatible person and there are literally millions of people who are compatible. You don't have to risk your job for what frankly is more than likely attraction and infatuation only anyway. Just keep things professional and impersonal and do what you're paid for and don't try to pick up women. You date a woman at work and make things awkward and it's you who is going to get fired not her. So unless you have another job lined up leave her alone.
@declanfarber10 ай бұрын
Sounds like a bad idea from the very start. I’m surprised that you would even entertain this. It calls your judgement into question.
@declanfarber10 ай бұрын
@christopherrowe6585 Well, I’m in the US and this could quickly degenerate to you living under a bridge. Which I don’t personally, because I was never so stupid.
@declanfarber10 ай бұрын
@christopherrowe6585 Where do _you_ live, Chester?
@lorderectus184910 ай бұрын
Anna is your flirty co worker she desires your manhood to build her channel to make her a fortune! Don’t grow her ego! Ignore and walk away from such feral cats 🐈
@sickofitnewsnetwork2566 ай бұрын
Gay
@mohammadwasilliterate803710 ай бұрын
*I saw 3 guys falsely accused at work, when the lies were exposed only the guys paid a price, never speak with women at work unless essential, keep your distance if you want to keep your job.* 🤬🤬🤬
@Trancymind5 ай бұрын
Manipulating women will put innocent men under the bus in order to feel valued for themselves. They will manipulate the HR, her coworker friends and even her own family members that they are 100% victims. A very disturbing, barbaric and disgusting tactic used by select women who should be suspended from work without pay for abusing and destroying a mans reputation for lack of respect manners.
@markchristopher42010 ай бұрын
1st
@NOAHCASAS10 ай бұрын
🥇🤟🏼🥇
@NOAHCASAS10 ай бұрын
HOW YOU BEEN BROTHER ??
@markchristopher42010 ай бұрын
@@NOAHCASAS😁 Good, my friend! How about you, doin' A-OK this fall? 🍁
@NOAHCASAS10 ай бұрын
@@markchristopher420 NOT BAD BROTHER WOKE UP TODAY CAN'T COMPLAIN I BEEN HERE ON AND OFF FOR ABOUT TWO YEARS I HAD A CO~WORKER THAT IS VERY SHY "HOW DO HAVE SO MUCH CONFIDENCE IN TALKING TO STRANGERS ESPECIALLY GIRLS, CHICK LADIES ETC.... JUST SO NATURALLY FUNNY AND SMOOTH WITH THEM ??" HE LEFT ME ON MY DAY OFF TRYING TO FIND AND ANSWER FOR THAT QUESTION CAME BACK THE NEXT WEEK I SHOW HIM THESE VIDEO I SAW ON MY DAY OFF OF ANNA AND SAID TO MYSELF ( YOU KNOW WHAT SHE HAS A GOOD POINT AND A GREAT PERSPECTIVE FROM A LADIES SIDE OF VIEW ) SO I RECOMMEND HIM THESE VIDEO TO HIM HE'S NOT SHY NO MORE
@bobholyoake857710 ай бұрын
Im Late 👋
@mohammadwasilliterate803710 ай бұрын
*I spoke with several managers that will not hire young women, too much risk of false accusations destroying good male workers.* 😡😡😡