Dating co-worker is extremely risky, if something goes wrong things can get pretty awkward quite fast.

I found that they'll always make a point to say hi (or at least something) to you when you come in. She'll know your schedule and when you're gonna be around, and she'll purposely put herself there so she can interact with you. The vibe you feel from her will definitely be different from the typical and more casual "leave me alone" type interactions you have with other coworkers. You'll definitely catch her staring every now and then too. Women are more obvious than they think they are

If you pretend she doesn’t exist, she will worship you.

These are absolutely spot on. I think if she's doing most of these and especially always siding with your ideas etc is a strong indicator. As said if you can read her tone, facial and body expressions you probably can tell if she wants to bond or have some 'alignment'. One minor thing I observed is if a female is at your desk and she always 'accidentally' forgets something at your work area, obviously a big sign. A big point is first is finding out inter-office relationships rules before taking a dive (Don't be George Costanza...Inside joke.) A lot of comments say don't have a relationship, which is safe but if you live in an area with limited options, what can you do. People are always looking for connections, it's what life is about. So maybe give it a shot. If it doesn't work out you probably can just be friends.(unless you both are annoying, negative or obnoxious replicants) LOL.

Guys, well it’s up to you to believe me or not but a workplace for romance, crush or any kind of such an intimate relationship is a minefield, no it’s even an inevitable death. It’s an absolute fuck up, specially if she’s with you in the same department. You never know what kind of a person she is deep inside or what her real intentions are, specially in an environment like workplace. Trust me, you’ll ruin your life to the bottom. It happened to me and I had to quit a very good position in a very prestigious company after which was so hard to get after I had to endure all the evil I didn’t have the slightest idea she would do to me. If you cross her in any way she will make use of all her capabilities to make you suffer. A woman is dangerous in nature but a coworker woman is just deadly. So take it from me; it’s a big NO.

It's funny how everytime they talk aboit work, it's always about coworkers at the office. Not everyone works at an office

I ain’t risking it because even those who do wanna be with you, leave you.

I work with a woman and she‘s been sweet and kind to me since day 1. We‘re on the same team and work closely together. I definitely feel that she treats me differently than other male colleagues. For example we have like a „ritual“ where the both of us prepare fresh tea together, especially in the colder months. We leave the tea on a table in our community office (10 people) and recently she brought my cup to my desk all smiling and genuinely being sweet to me. I‘ve definitely noticed all the signs discussed in this video. She keeps eye contact, smiling genuinely, she always compliments my finished tasks, praises me in front of other colleagues, but not only work stuff but also my private life. I‘m a hobby photographer and she spoke highly of my photography in front of other colleagues. She even advocated to hang one of my photos I took up in our office😅 She also asks me about my private life and encourages me to tackle difficult situations for example when my band broke up. She was also the number one fan of my band (I die vocals and guitar). Last year for Christmas I made her a CD with the two songs released by my band mixed with other songs she might like as we like the same music. She‘s the only person that has those songs on a CD. I feel really lucky and am grateful to have her in my life. Edit: I forgot to mention that she‘s not shy to touch me arm or shoulder. Even in a meeting recently, she touched my arm and shoulder when I made a mistake and she corrected me in very caring way.

Don’t even think about it guys

If you care about your job, ignore her/stay away/ video record. Not worth it. Protect yourself.

I work with a girl and she's sweet and kind and we get along great and she does some of these things. Once she asked who did a certain thing, which was wrong-not a big deal, and it was me and she came up to me and apologized to me and said she didn't want me to get in trouble. It was so sweet of her to do that. She also asked for my opinion about this at home PT job she was considering. I would love to date her but there's a 30 year age difference so that might not go over well. I find myself thinking about her a lot.

I appreciate your videos. And this one is the one I’m currently struggling with

Where I do see the signals most of the time I just dont engage. I work with a few different women who have interest in me and it wasn't noticed by myself until they started acting different towards each other. Workplace romance is a slippery slope....

I appreciate this video but it shows and proves 1 thing: Unless she says directly what she wants do not make any move....I mean body language? Direct way to HR and/or jail....

Thanks Joyanima! 👍

I love the audio quality

The best way to know if girl likes you. Is if she always lights up like a fire fly in your presents and says hi to you in a high pitched voice and flashes you a crowseye bright smile.

Very interesting video Joyanima 🌹

Working with a girl currently who has said some interesting things in conversations. Makes great eye contact and will do the cute little look away thing. I’m curious about if what she said should be a good sign: during a conversation about how she’s renting a place from a sketchy couple she mentioned that she needs to find a “tall, tatted, muscular guy to scare the husband for me”, (I’m not super muscular but I fit these categories). She has said this phrase multiple times when I’m in her presence, granted it’s in conversations with other coworkers but no other coworkers fit that description.

Don’t ever ever ever ever ever get attracted to a coworker unless they do not work with you directly. One was giving me all of the signs they were all on the nose and then she set me up for sexual harassment.

Thanks for sharing

Yes she does most of those things and I asked her out and she shut me down because of our working relationship and she said she is seeing somebody why would she do that to me and give me all the positive body signals and long eye contact. What was the whole point of her doing that to me in the first place😂

DO NOT FISH OFF THE COMPANY PIER BOYS! This is such a no no. Unless maybe you both are washing dishes together.

If you value the job as a long term career option don’t dare risk it . However If you only see the job as a short term and you are confident in your game go for it but tread carefully.

Circumstances where getting involved with a colleague may be OK: They work in a different department in a largish organisation; You do work in the same section/department but you are working somewhere where one of you could easily be moved somewhere else to avoid any issues; Your employer doesn't have any rules prohibiting staff dating each other. Circumstances where dating a colleague is not a good idea: You work together in a small specialist section and are not really qualified to work elsewhere in the organisation; One of you is the boss of the other; Your employer has rules against this;

Dont fish from the company pond.

How about 'borrows' items from your centrally placed clerical desk constantly? Slowing you down because you can't find your stapler and have to go to her desk to retrieve it regularily?

It’s true they catch on to your vibe. There was this day where I was just sad the whole time at work wasn’t really talking to her as much as I normally would and I was silent with other employees too and later on that day she asked me if I was okay and I told her no I’m not and was about to shed tears when she told me that and she then proceeded to tell me want to talk about it and I said I don’t want to talk about it. The reason was because of her that’s why I was sad because I know of have a good feeling she doesn’t like me and that we wouldn’t work out that’s why I was sad. Although a lot of these things in the video are actually happening between us I still don’t think she likes me. Anyways I caught feelings for her after her ex broke up with her well obviously I already had them before but didn’t really have high feelings because I know she was with someone else and after her breakup she told me what happened and that’s when I caught hard feelings but she still talks to her ex though they still talk together and she said she still likes him. That’s why I’m sure she doesn’t see anything with me. Whatever though as long as she’s happy I’m happy.

She had me at get lost

At work??? Haha, I worked at many companies in NYC over the years, and I never had any of these things happen, that is, obvious or disguised signs of interest from a female at work. In my book, and I suspect the same is true for most men, the man is tasked with exerting most of the effort to make a connection.

If a female coworker did even half of these I'd feel creeped out and uncomfortable even if I have a crush on her. I want her to have high interest level without acting on it.

nice

There is a girl at my job who liked me a lot. I don’t like her in that way. Maybe as a friend, yes, but not like that. The problem was, she was ugly, and she wasn’t my type of girl. The other co-workers set her up with me. I knew why they did it. Because they thought it would be funny. This is why I always believe looks matter because the way you look will determine who likes you, but that doesn’t mean you have to like them because others told you to, or because they like you. You have the right to choose who you like.

Heads up to men who may, for whatever reason, still fall for this dangerous nonsense. If a woman, not just at work but anywhere, does not TELL YOU she likes you, you are much better off to just assume she doesn't. Misinterpreting " signs, "signals," or "hints" can mean the total destruction of your life and everything you have worked for. Be smart. Be careful. Be safe. You have to diligently guard your own best interests, because NO ONE ELSE is going to be looking out for you.

I can't stop thinking about her , can't sleep

Every video on this channel discusses things women do that I've never personally witnessed. Maybe I'm either ignorant to it, or just unpopular! 😱😭💃

If you two have the same boss, I would NOT consider dating her. What if you break up? That would be awkward. If you 2 have different bosses or work in a different group within the same company then maybe.

Yaaaaay.

What if she does these things while also having a boyfriend?

Women are very complicated and it's hard to understand anything they do or say. I wouldn't recommend even trying to date co-workers for the sake of productivity and Goodwill. Even if she likes you, ignore her.

Never ever date a coworker. Ever

Women are the Best.

Getting cold eh, D?❤🥰😘

from a mans point of view this is a very bad idea . men were told at our sexual harassment meetings to keep all interactions between men and women to business only . don't joke , don't flirt and don't associate outside of work . this is something that can lead to firing and having your career ended . never be alone with , or meet women for meetings alone . this is the reason businesses rarely have Christmas and new years parties or summer office picnics . remember gentlemen , your job and maybe family may count on this.

Stop the press. Caitleen at work is cute. I know, I deserve a Nobel prize for that discovery. Let me guess, she's going to be flirty with me to have her five minutes of fame like Sarah at Vertigo. The only logic in that: Girls like to be original by following the exact same trend then the other girls.

They only like you when they find out you got a raise.

For the same reason you don't shit where you eat, don't date people you work with!

Anna, will you be my girl or have I got to wait for my next life for that chance?, lol! 😂❤

Guys do your job and go home

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I appreciate the video but I might want to make a suggestion. If your female coworker is interested in you stay away. Do not date a coworker. Do not date a colleague. Don't mix work and romance. You will have problems. If nothing else after the relationship ends and it most likely will end things will get awkward. Do not date someone from work.

Sounds like a bad idea from the very start. I’m surprised that you would even entertain this. It calls your judgement into question.

Anna is your flirty co worker she desires your manhood to build her channel to make her a fortune! Don’t grow her ego! Ignore and walk away from such feral cats 🐈

Gay

*I saw 3 guys falsely accused at work, when the lies were exposed only the guys paid a price, never speak with women at work unless essential, keep your distance if you want to keep your job.* 🤬🤬🤬

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*I spoke with several managers that will not hire young women, too much risk of false accusations destroying good male workers.* 😡😡😡