When To Dump Women Who Violate Your Boundaries

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Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Жыл бұрын

When you should dump women who repeatedly violate your boundaries due to their bad character traits.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who has been following me for several years and has read 3% Man over 10 times. He recently broke up with a girlfriend he was dating for the past 8 months. She had many male orbiters and ex’s in the background. She agreed to change her behavior and stop seeking attention from other men if she wanted exclusivity with him. That lasted for a few months and then she did it again in a very public and rude way. He broke it off for good and asks my opinion.
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@successartistry3023
@successartistry3023 Жыл бұрын
"One chance, per woman, per lifetime" - Doc Love: The System.
@michaelreinier9261
@michaelreinier9261 Жыл бұрын
Just went through something very similar. After 8 months and I built her up financially she allowed her friends to disrespected my property and broke up with me over that issue. She however acts like it was my fault. She keeps writing me hoping for an apology I think and I make my response as short as possible and I stick to my guns. No respect then no relationship. That's how I roll now.
@bYz4rEel
@bYz4rEel Жыл бұрын
👍🏾🤟🏾💯
@MonkellD
@MonkellD Жыл бұрын
No respect? No relationship!!!
@mauamolat
@mauamolat Жыл бұрын
That's what women do. Make it looks like everything is your fault
@johnbingaman3645
@johnbingaman3645 Жыл бұрын
@@mauamolat that's called passive aggressive they're right you're wrong I'm out
@calebkeegan3023
@calebkeegan3023 Жыл бұрын
Me too finally.
@creamycanoli201
@creamycanoli201 Жыл бұрын
“The hardest choices require the strongest wills”- you all know
@philgeorge1003
@philgeorge1003 Жыл бұрын
If you set boundaries that she doesn’t respect and she then says you’re controlling- run. Top story man!
@Rage-_-Quit
@Rage-_-Quit Жыл бұрын
With minor things I agree, with bigger issues even having to explicitely state those boundaries is already my "she's not it" signal. You can't correct someone's character, if there is an innate lack of common sense and decency you can set all the boundaries you want, that person will still bring misery to your life.
@philgeorge1003
@philgeorge1003 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes they hide shit like this from you until you find out later she’s talking inappropriately on Snapchat.
@DavidKing-pq6br
@DavidKing-pq6br Жыл бұрын
Wow man that’s exactly what happened to me. Luckily I did run 🏃‍♂️
@calebkeegan3023
@calebkeegan3023 Жыл бұрын
Yep I had to end it and outsilence ignore.
@calebkeegan3023
@calebkeegan3023 Жыл бұрын
​@@Rage-_-Quitomg yes day 17 cheating ex blocked long distance anyway last 2 yrs ...I won't put up w it was beta too long.... outsilence and ignore her next attempt blocked too.
@ApostleThe344
@ApostleThe344 Жыл бұрын
This is the hardest one yet folks.... I had to dump mine 2 months ago for violating mine. Loved her for 2 years and we were going to get engaged. I had a ring. Never allow your woman to isolate you from everyone you love and never let them take mental shots at your kid/s... Really hope she gets the help she needs
@ApostleThe344
@ApostleThe344 Жыл бұрын
@@blair5475 either way shes nothing to me now lol so she gets 0 options
@ApostleThe344
@ApostleThe344 Жыл бұрын
@@blair5475 So do I..... Lol, she can have all the options she wants and she can get rail tagged by an NFL team I don't care. I'm currently seeing someone right now and had 5 or 6 more in line. I always have options and she knows it. She was suicidal and went on anti depressants when I kicked her out
@ApostleThe344
@ApostleThe344 Жыл бұрын
@@dwaynecunningham2164 thanks brother
@yeticusrex1661
@yeticusrex1661 Жыл бұрын
Whether they know it or not, your kids will appreciate your ability to stand up for them, saving years of anger and resentment, saving you the heartache for years to come as well.... Good job.
@Nick-ue9of
@Nick-ue9of Жыл бұрын
@@thelastnotary it’s not about having a bucket on your head, it’s about knowing the colonel’s recipe
@johnmortimerjbmfitness7753
@johnmortimerjbmfitness7753 Жыл бұрын
Had this with my wife. I set the boundary, and told her I would not put up with lying, I asked her outright an issue and told her not to lie...she lied straight to my face.
@johnmortimerjbmfitness7753
@johnmortimerjbmfitness7753 Жыл бұрын
@@BDogg2023 it's tough especially when you love the woman and she lives close by too.
@travett1001
@travett1001 Жыл бұрын
Identical situation.
@Tyler-gv8ev
@Tyler-gv8ev Жыл бұрын
I’ll do the honors … SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS!!!!
@neilhall3786
@neilhall3786 Жыл бұрын
Went through this exact thing earlier this year with someone I truly liked. Breaking things off was one of the hardest things I’ve done. But at the end of the day it brought me so much peace knowing that she is now someone else’s problem.
@roc5291
@roc5291 Жыл бұрын
It takes ALOT for men to open up to women today. Especially any of us that have been put through the ringer once or twice. So I know personally, when these things come up, it’s very hard for me initially to call them out. We like to try to give people the benefit of the doubt, knowing we probably have some bad habits too. But, when the red line is crossed, it’s either them or your word and if you don’t keep the latter, she will eventually be gone anyway.
@alexcardinell7281
@alexcardinell7281 Жыл бұрын
I completely feel you on this. I know personally I’ve struggled with boundaries in the past. This can be especially difficult if manipulative things are said once the boundary’s are broken. I’ve heard it all “if you loved me you’d give me a chance to explain” if you were an adult you would talk to me about this instead of walking away”. This stuff can definitely make you question your judgement to where your default is the breech of the boundary, and action.
@joescience1
@joescience1 Жыл бұрын
Well said, man
@zrotek
@zrotek Жыл бұрын
I'm glad he didn't make the mistake of listening to her words as opposed to her actions....this experience is quite literal to my past experiences with an ex...it took me time to put my feelings aside and be a man
@alexcardinell7281
@alexcardinell7281 Жыл бұрын
There's a lot of people like this. Wildly insecure with massive self-esteem issues and always have back up plans. Now when I see it, I walk. People like this won't change. I've given chances to have the same result, eventually. The way I look at is, I can hurt now, or hurt worse later. Either way you're going to hurt.
@swhockey98
@swhockey98 Жыл бұрын
Had a similar situation a year ago with a woman who disrespected me in a public setting. I communicated my boundaries to her, but a month later she still was acting disrespectful so I had to cut her loose. Coach Corey is 💯 right, when you’re emotionally invested in someone it’s really difficult to do the right thing, but you have to stand up for yourself.
@flurry6351
@flurry6351 Жыл бұрын
Good on this man for talking to her in private after being disrespected in public like that. Like coach said, it takes super discipline to do that when the emotions are involved
@benhetes3154
@benhetes3154 Жыл бұрын
Our man in this email handled it like a true king!! That’s how a 3% man acts. Definitely tough situation to be in but you can be proud of how you handled things and find someone better.
@ronstar8555
@ronstar8555 Жыл бұрын
And with that type of character and value of self, he will have a higher quality woman soon enough.
@maxlife9721
@maxlife9721 Жыл бұрын
This woman has no morals whatsoever and I guarantee she has cheated on him
@Rage-_-Quit
@Rage-_-Quit Жыл бұрын
Women always fail to realize that when you tell them your boundaries and they still decide to violate them then it's already decided. All that empty talk trying to coerce you to stay... liko no, this is not a discussion or negotiation, it is already decided, I'm just here to tell you lol
@ronstar8555
@ronstar8555 Жыл бұрын
People may doubt what you say but they will always believe what you do. This guy stood on his square and showed her he meant business.
@flaco0526
@flaco0526 Жыл бұрын
Highly unstable mentally and emotionally. Definitely brings me back to my fruit loop. Lots of projecting indicts a guilty heart having a guilty conscience
@EchelonDon
@EchelonDon Жыл бұрын
Stay firm on your boundaries. She WILL violate it again if you allow her. Be a man and take the hard road. In the long run this is the easy route. When someone tells you who they are, believe them the first time!!!!!
@byrunroca4908
@byrunroca4908 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching Corey since 2015.🤙 is better to walk away when it comes to these girls and never look back. Getting disrespected in public like that doesn’t even deserve the benefit of the doubt.
@maxlife9721
@maxlife9721 Жыл бұрын
Some women need attention from other men....this is a child and an immature woman. Don't put up with it.
@82powpow
@82powpow Жыл бұрын
truth. no one needs someone like that
@brianreed8271
@brianreed8271 Жыл бұрын
I married two really nasty women. I've made all the mistake Corey talks about. out of the fear of being alone I wasted a lot of time. and it was very unhealthy for my two children. Listen to Corey he's got a pretty good handle on this stuff.now I have to work through the pain and forgive myself somehow. set good boundaries and follow through.
@SuperBioMac
@SuperBioMac Жыл бұрын
Good women will respect the boundary, bad women - she belongs the to the streets! But it is tough when you get invested. I like what Corey said in one of his past videos, after his trademark C'mon Man, I want you to take you right hand, hold it out, put it to your neck... haha. Your work is a blessing to us all Corey. Thank you.
@eliasbiral
@eliasbiral Жыл бұрын
Phew been there done that....i gave waaay more chances than I should have but I let her go. This guy handled things like a boss! Congratuliations!
@thomasmurphy9348
@thomasmurphy9348 Жыл бұрын
If you have to tell and set boundaries with any woman you already have a problem.
@J_Chips
@J_Chips Жыл бұрын
This right here 🎯
@giorgioottolina1739
@giorgioottolina1739 Жыл бұрын
Facts.
@DarthVeach
@DarthVeach 7 ай бұрын
I wish I had that guy's guts and smarts. My situation was a gradual thing over time and after years of investing in her, started catching her in lies etc. Hiding her phone, lying about who she was spending time with etc. Tried to make it work over and over and kept going right back to the same thing. I am a communicator and she was not. Always hid behind messenger or email. She always found "solutions" in the attention of other guys.
@dafunk1080
@dafunk1080 Жыл бұрын
I wonder if women like this would've been more loyal and faithful before social media existed
@philgeorge1003
@philgeorge1003 Жыл бұрын
Thottery wasn’t as accessible I remember those days.
@dunn1375
@dunn1375 10 ай бұрын
Man social media has destroyed relationships and drastically increased the opportunity to be tempted. I hate it honestly.
@dafunk1080
@dafunk1080 10 ай бұрын
@@dunn1375 in a way its good. another filtering mechanism for people with good/bad character. it's only hard when the girl is really hot, and you discover her character is shitty, but the sex is sex.
@dunn1375
@dunn1375 10 ай бұрын
@@dafunk1080 my ex was dead gorgeous. She was loyal, and faithful. My issue was, she didn’t respect my boundaries. Continued posting skimpy photos on Instagram and pole videos on Snapchat. She recommended I learn some bedroom moves from watching porn. Then get angry if I glanced at a chick or hold grudges from past situations where I may have said hi or gave a friendly hug to another female friend. Even got jealous around my mom/sister for loving on me. I’m just like , if that isn’t obsessive/possessive behavior, idk what is… long story short, because of that on going issue, a difference of faith values, and her BPD, it was just too much stress for me to deal with, I felt suffocated, disrespected and could no longer see a future with her anymore. Ended it. I miss so many great things about her each day but I have my peace back and I’m not living in constant conflict anymore. Look if she’s not open to getting on your program fellas, knowing well in advanced from your actions that she’ll be lead, protected, provided for and loved on along the way, it’ll end in incompatibility and probably wasting both of y’all’s time.
@82powpow
@82powpow Жыл бұрын
damn i just did something similar. she texted me the next day and said we should talk later because she does t want things to end messy. i told her i meant everything i said the previous night and i’m standing firm. i told her not to contact me unless she wants to work on our relationship. i’m not interested in a friendship
@worldogameplays
@worldogameplays Жыл бұрын
It's so weird that she would storm off and then send him text messages instead of talking to him face to face.
@alexcardinell7281
@alexcardinell7281 Жыл бұрын
Think of a toddler. You catch them doing something wrong. They'll deny it and start a tantrum when it's clear they won't get their way. Ever seen a child get in trouble, go to their room, and slam the door? That's what emotionally immature people are like
@tjbohmier46
@tjbohmier46 Жыл бұрын
I agree fully. This man was clear with communicating his concerns and boundries. She seemed to show that she was deceitful at least twice so, two strikes shes out! Time to move on to someone that acts like you matter and appreaciates what you offer.
@GF-zh7sv
@GF-zh7sv Жыл бұрын
this guy handled the situation very well, he gave her a chance, she broke the trust again and now she's gone. Perfect scenario, and I'm sure he'll find a great gal who treats him right and values a good man
@g405t
@g405t Жыл бұрын
9:06 F that, that happened to me exchanged numbers while I was on a date with her......telling me they were old friends catching up....that should have been the day I walked away!
@svtben
@svtben Жыл бұрын
Great video, Coach!! I went through a similar situation last year and saw the same red flags. Eventually, my soul spoke for me and I put her in her place and dumped her. We were on the verge of being exclusive. Yes, it was the hardest thing to do considering the good times.
@NZvanlife
@NZvanlife Жыл бұрын
If this man who wrote the email reads these messages I'd really like him to know that I, and many others look up to him in a big way.
@alexcardinell7281
@alexcardinell7281 Жыл бұрын
Thanks! Honestly, it's been a long process to be able to handle situations this way. Coach Corey, being more successful, and some therapy with self-worth have really defined me. For history, I was in a 10-year marriage where I was constantly cheated on. I stayed like most for the kids. Little did I know that staying for the kids was keeping me miserable and a huge mistake most make. Life improved drastically once I walked away. Trust me, walking away from women like this always hurts, BAD. Especially when they will literally try anything to re-enter your life. Those "I miss you" text and showing up where you work can be really hard to ignore. More so over time as your brain naturally wants to remember only the good times. To the guys struggling, remember people like this don't change. Especially this late in life. Every time I have forgiven someone for these actions, it happened again eventually. This is how they have learned to function in life. Like Corey said, it's not your fault, their parents screwed them up. This isn't the first women I've walked away from that behaved this way. You'll be able to look back and watch them do this to every guy after. I do feel a deep sense of empathy for them. I think how terrible it must feel to be them. So damaged, never being able to hold a relationship together, and running around unhealed. That being said, it's not anyone's job to fix them. Just leave them gracefully and keep life moving. Also, you will have to look internally and work on whatever self-worth issues you have. People who have strong boundaries and self-worth won't tolerate this behavior. You'll see it from the start, set boundaries, and walk away when violated. Every time I have walked away from someone like this I have upgraded massively. If not with women, with life in general. Just the mental space and energy you dedicate to someone like this will derail you. Don't ever feel bad for getting in one of these situations. I see a lot of guys in the comments on similar threads bashing guys. These women can be incredibly deceptive. They've had a lifetime to practice it. They are incredibly good at being deceptive until you're hooked. Then the true colors come out and all you can do is walk. As coach says, you don't know what you don't know, and that's why you date. I am glad to hear my story is helping some struggling.
@Blindberg
@Blindberg Жыл бұрын
Sounds like this guy went through the same exact situations as me. Happens more often than I thought I guess
@michaelpingleton776
@michaelpingleton776 Жыл бұрын
Thanks coach! Much needed
@DavidKing-pq6br
@DavidKing-pq6br Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much coach. Your book just arrived and I’m going to read it 10- 15 times! This is exactly what happened to me
@robsolf
@robsolf Жыл бұрын
Great email makes for a great vid. These kinds of girls are the kind that pillers focus on. And instead of moving on to find women that aren't like this, they complain and place blame, as though that would change these women. You can't change a woman, but you can change the woman you're with. As for the emailer, the old saying goes, "never draw a weapon unless you're willing to use it". So it goes with boundaries: Never set a boundary you're unwilling to enforce. It's good that he lived by that. It probably won't be the last time for him, but it's all the easier to sort the wheat from the chaff early on.
@dafunk1080
@dafunk1080 Жыл бұрын
you're on fire this week coach. today and yesterday's vid about salary, were 10/10
@tromzinck
@tromzinck Жыл бұрын
Very good video... And... same for all other people that cross your boundaries several times... even if it's close family or "good" old friends. It feels SO good to do it. Thanks for all you insights on people in general 🙏
@brute9867
@brute9867 11 ай бұрын
It's really hard to realize that some women are able to have one man inside of them and so easily take other men so quick after the said "that they love YOU" and wants your baby. My view on women has changed to a more realistic one and I wont get carried away with my fantasies so fast any more. I feel horrible and I am experiencing ED now because of the heart break. I will focus on my purpose now. Working gardet, saving money, going to the gym 4-5 times a week. I've dated five women but can not feel anything for the. I will be okay in time though.
@StevenCudnoch-oo9gp
@StevenCudnoch-oo9gp 11 ай бұрын
😂 Could relate to the whole situation and video topic, I thought I was trippin as the ED lasted with me for 6 months with 4 different encounters with woman, embarrassing but hey 🤷‍♂. But it was a total stress response, i'm sure you'll figure out a way to rewire yourself. I also was 8+ years with the woman.. so the shit I went through is now forged into my head.
@brute9867
@brute9867 11 ай бұрын
@@StevenCudnoch-oo9gp It lasted for six months?! How did you overcome the ED? Nofap?
@StevenCudnoch-oo9gp
@StevenCudnoch-oo9gp 11 ай бұрын
@@brute9867the first three/four months I went celibate and went back into the dating phase. It may be luck or my body finally had to moved on as well but seemed like I fkd my way out of the issue, or I was really into the girl I broke the spell with.
@beesmongeese2978
@beesmongeese2978 9 ай бұрын
​@@StevenCudnoch-oo9gpHow did you solve it
@spa9920
@spa9920 5 ай бұрын
Yup me too, lost one I loved and I couldn’t get outta my head when I was with new women. I just stopped and now I just focus on work and the gym and hanging with my cousins
@brennanbets
@brennanbets 6 ай бұрын
Thanks coach. Your wisdom has forever helped me.
@sethgyan
@sethgyan Жыл бұрын
First time finishing your book after following you for 4 years. What a mistake. I should have read it sooner.
@nationfitclub702
@nationfitclub702 Жыл бұрын
Greatness as usual.
@honducrypto655
@honducrypto655 Жыл бұрын
Dump my ex one day before her bday. We were about to go on a trip. Gave her several chances. Two days before leaving to her bday getaway I left my wallet in her house. She told me I was irresponsible for forgetting my wallet, and began talking down to me.. the night before leaving she began to pick fights and the day we were supposed yo leave I dumped her
@nbee6217
@nbee6217 Жыл бұрын
That was cruel. A negative memory tied to her special day, for life. If you ever regretted it later she would be really special to take you back. I cut my ex off after he dumped me a few days before my birthday. He was a good guy, but now the timing of the BU is all I remember when I think of him. He tried coming back, I rejected him- the memory he has planted cannot be erased. The damage is for keeps.
@garp9433
@garp9433 Жыл бұрын
Ugh reminds me of my current girl going through a crisis and reached out when we were dating to another guy she thought of less than me, smh. Exclusive now and no red flags but it was nearly a deal breaker because she regretted having him come over to talk. I snooped and saw enough to believe she told me the full truth, but that guy was such a creep to her I can’t believe she let him close
@dahanelerneler400
@dahanelerneler400 Жыл бұрын
be careful man... always "trust but verify!"
@R3calCulation
@R3calCulation Жыл бұрын
had the same thing man! textbook perfect, learned from the best hah.
@gus8310
@gus8310 Жыл бұрын
Needed this
@j2z1000
@j2z1000 Жыл бұрын
I would've left her there
@mybubu2000
@mybubu2000 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Corey
@tasteyfisher9273
@tasteyfisher9273 Жыл бұрын
I wish i started listensing to you more seriously years ago whej i met my soon to be ex wife. Ive realized she is a lying gas lighting woman, she doesnt work, shes takes out all of her anger issues and personal transgressions of herself onto me. Out first year together she cheated on me twice and then i was stupid enough to marry her! Im such a gool. Ive lost my entire life savinfs, and now when i do divroce her, i will lose thr bouse, the casr, everything but the shirt on ku back and some other things like a computer and whatever. But. I am optimufor the future, i will be listendinf to your videos and reading you book every day to get over this. Im 27. I know i still have time to lead a happy life. I soent 3 years with the wrong woman. She was my first, so thats why i was head over heels, super hot, and man she can work a room. However, behind closed doors, she is VILE to me. So many things i cant fit in one posg. If anyone has links for some low income/low credit housing or aprrments, please let me know. Thanks
@davidgreen3444
@davidgreen3444 9 ай бұрын
the intro to this video, haven’t even listened yet but 100% the exact same thing happened to me
@Iheartdog666
@Iheartdog666 9 ай бұрын
I really dislike some of your politics but man….as someone who has been in therapy for years and has improved my life tremendously including my dating life, and your advice and attitude is great. This is healthy advice for men and it’s pretty refreshing to see in this space.
@jean-pierreparent1408
@jean-pierreparent1408 7 ай бұрын
Inspiring story, good f'ing job dude
@thomassears4920
@thomassears4920 Жыл бұрын
Funny you mention Instagram. I despise Tiktok and the whole short video format. I deleted my Instagram last week 😀
@jaec1998
@jaec1998 5 ай бұрын
It's been roughly a year since I deleted my Instagram. I barely even use FB or SC these days, but it's worth setting it aside to focus on getting more meaningful things done. I only wish I had done it sooner.
@joescience1
@joescience1 Жыл бұрын
GD this is almost exactly my last four months with this woman. Couldn’t stop more than a week messaging multiple other guys on IG etc. acted the exact same way with me when she had other dudes lined up. 🤮
@lonetlv
@lonetlv Жыл бұрын
Just read the book 10-15 times as the Coach says. You'd be able to see the red flags coming miles awaya.
@axiomaddict
@axiomaddict Жыл бұрын
Kind of a tangent here, but men like this guy make really good dads (if inclined) because they model excellent behavior for both sons and daughters.
@pauljames5068
@pauljames5068 Жыл бұрын
I had date with person maybe over month and she was like , I’m going carry on speaking to guys and kiss them in clubs . I was like I don’t expect to like take you on dates and plan things when your kissing other guys and said I wish you all the best and sent her on her way
@JohnSmith-ij4xe
@JohnSmith-ij4xe 5 ай бұрын
I had this happen and she seemed to clear up her stuff but within 3 weeks back to her old self so I removed myself without telling her. I still see her almost every day so it was hard but she proved she didn’t make the cut. I even told her actions and what you do tell me everything. Words mean nothing unless they match your actions and what you do. She now treats me like am nothing to her but still stares at me when am not looking. I was attached to her but she doesn’t deserve me and she proved it I mean nothing to her even though she was the happiest when around me. She can go back to disliking her life and wishing she was happy. It’s so true that women need males in their life when they are growing up. They push the good ones away if and when they find them. Since we are rare they find the nice ones that they dislike but put up with their stuff and just let there girl get away with everything.
@renzocoppola4664
@renzocoppola4664 10 ай бұрын
I should have done this way back in the beggining of my 1 and a half year relationship.
@cesarherrera1926
@cesarherrera1926 Жыл бұрын
Yeah you have to stand your ground regardless ....I mean there's a thin line between alot of shit tbh and it's not easy for both parties some things were my fault but at the same time I drew my line and she crossed it so I bounced even when it hurt me ....but fuck that if ima be treated like a doormat or a burden I'll remove myself always call the bluff
@maxlife9721
@maxlife9721 Жыл бұрын
Get rid of her
@MighelAkando
@MighelAkando 10 ай бұрын
He did a great job. Personally I would’ve treated her ass 😂 but yeah more men need to have the ability to reinforce boundaries when it comes to women. You have to check that shit immediately otherwise she will walk all over you.
@weeklyweeks7545
@weeklyweeks7545 Жыл бұрын
SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS!!!
@alimrashid9765
@alimrashid9765 Жыл бұрын
It's always hard sir! 🚶
@stevieG.
@stevieG. Жыл бұрын
Been through the same.. it was my (now) ex wife !
@Delgado587
@Delgado587 Жыл бұрын
Its easy for me to dump women like that
@michaelrwhitsonjr6913
@michaelrwhitsonjr6913 6 ай бұрын
Just had to do something simple on Christmas eve. She call me slow after asking she thinks she needed a break so i told her that not what i wanted. Later on that night she went through my phone messages found nothing so when through my email wanting to confirm her bad behavior.
@mrfitz02
@mrfitz02 Жыл бұрын
Why even entertain that behavior in the 1st place
@CoachCoreyWayne
@CoachCoreyWayne Жыл бұрын
The thirst is real
@MixyTheGreat86
@MixyTheGreat86 Жыл бұрын
Cause the guy is thirsty for pootanee.
@todzilla3926
@todzilla3926 Жыл бұрын
Good God. This sounds exactly like my last ex.
@johnzachariasrealtor7906
@johnzachariasrealtor7906 Жыл бұрын
She belongs to the sweets!!! 🍭 🍫 🍬
@LilTrunksFr
@LilTrunksFr Жыл бұрын
She's not the One...Bye Felicia😠
@georgevue8175
@georgevue8175 Жыл бұрын
I am among the 52% of married men that would love to dump their wife's but are chained to them via kids at least until the kids turn 18.
@northshorelight35
@northshorelight35 Жыл бұрын
It's one thing to have orbiters and then to also lie about them once confronted. I was trying to be patient with this guy but there was just too much dishonesty. If the orbiters are just platonic then first of all, why hide them? I prefer that he doesn't have them but now that it's known, be transparent about it.
@JaPaNeSe_MxD_707
@JaPaNeSe_MxD_707 4 ай бұрын
Omg huge fucking facts!!! "You never asked so I didn't say anything" bullshit smh
@TheGuyNate
@TheGuyNate Жыл бұрын
Crazy how this topic is related to a recent situation going on in my life… coach, are you from the future?
@The_Kr1s_
@The_Kr1s_ Жыл бұрын
Hey coach do you think there is such thing as "point of no return" where if you are really close to seducing woman but you wont close the deal she may not want to see you anymore?
@TitsMegee420
@TitsMegee420 Жыл бұрын
Just because a women wants you in the moment doesn't mean she will the next day or even 10 minutes later. Don't try to understand a women's emotions with logic. Any number of things can ruin attraction at anytime and a lot of it isn't even up to you. Date multiple women and this won't be a problem
@murphytoadster9864
@murphytoadster9864 Жыл бұрын
Yeah the picking a fight thing has my antenna raised in suspension, we went to see Sound of freedom and wife accuses me of letting some girl sitting to my left put her leg on me lol. Total BS, Totally asinine... Seems like she was just trying to create a climax fight
@aramirez8427
@aramirez8427 Жыл бұрын
Immediately.....
@imperialmusicentertainment9581
@imperialmusicentertainment9581 5 ай бұрын
What I do fallow from the redpill comunity is the part where they tell you to focus on yourself , and do things to better your situation fbefore the women
@BloodyHeck
@BloodyHeck 10 ай бұрын
It took me a while to understand this. I'm guessing this is one of those multiverse things and he's talking about women in some sort of fantasy world. Because in reality, Earth One or whatever it is where we live, you don't need to worry about dumping a woman who violates your boundaries. Here, if you try setting a boundary, the woman has already left you because she sees you as a controlling narcissist. Example, couple on a first date and the woman keeps looking at her phone, messaging, taking selfies and even talking to friends. Corey's fantasy universe: Man- Excuse me but we're on a date, could you please put your phone away so we can talk. Woman: OK. Reality universe: Man- Excuse me but we're on a date, could you please put your phone away so we can talk. Woman: How dare you try to control me, you misogynist! Are you some sort of abusive narcissist? I'm out of here before you start beating me because of your toxic masculinity! (ok, a little extreme but unless you're a 6'2" millionaire, she's not listening to you when you tell her to put her phone away)
@yakcrew_Fl
@yakcrew_Fl Жыл бұрын
I would have left her @ the concert.
@PescadoDelDiablo
@PescadoDelDiablo Жыл бұрын
This guy clearly has money and she’s gaming him. Nuclear shit-tests are clear proof that you should cut bait and move on.
@angelcontreras3956
@angelcontreras3956 Жыл бұрын
1 chance per girl per lifetime
@krinka1458
@krinka1458 Жыл бұрын
Is this good advice for women too
@atlanticocean7211
@atlanticocean7211 Жыл бұрын
What if my woman said she was going to text others and forgot your birthday?
@ronstar8555
@ronstar8555 Жыл бұрын
What do you mean she was going to test others??? As in other men like former boyfriends, male “friends”, et cetera?
@atlanticocean7211
@atlanticocean7211 Жыл бұрын
@@ronstar8555 text others I presume other mean other men . What you reckon
@ronstar8555
@ronstar8555 Жыл бұрын
@@atlanticocean7211 Yes, text others. If she was texting other men, hit the brakes and make a U-Turn. Unless you want drama, head games and a strong potential of someone cheating on you, leave this mess of a woman alone. There are healthier women out here to deal with.
@atlanticocean7211
@atlanticocean7211 Жыл бұрын
@@ronstar8555 thank you i broke up with her last week i was in love with her il be ok after while . She never texted me since
@kelpcolins3524
@kelpcolins3524 Жыл бұрын
Man U did not read 3 percent man. This is why you have these questions. Please read the book, multiple times
@TheADRIANOVALENTINO
@TheADRIANOVALENTINO Жыл бұрын
Girls like this deserve a big LETS GO BRANDON...👊👊👊🤣🤣 Tell her, if she changes her mind to call you back when its TRUMP 2024.. 🤣🤣🤣 gotta love Corey..!! LetsGoBrandon...!!!
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