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When to know It's over

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Helen Anderson

Helen Anderson

2 жыл бұрын

Apologies on the mic today Here is another agony aunt advice video, focusing on RELATIONSHIPS.
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@heatherduke4545
@heatherduke4545 2 жыл бұрын
When I was a teen I'd watch your lilac hair helen melon videos religiously. I still come back from time to time to see what you're up to, whether it was designing shoes, buying your house, house tours, vlogs, style vids etc. It's amazing to come back here and listen to you talk about life. Fair play lady! You're killing it! ✨🙌
@dreimelo6927
@dreimelo6927 2 жыл бұрын
Helen…thank you for this. I’ve been with my partner for 12 years, married for almost 5. We met in our 20s. We are in a really rocky situation in our relationship. We love each other deeply and trying to work through things but I do need to start loving myself and feeling ok with being alone. This has helped me massively, thank you ❤️
@leatherbeetle
@leatherbeetle 2 жыл бұрын
I know it's irrelevant to the video but Helen's hair looks SO impossibly gorgeous. I literally can't imagine a more true to Helen cut and dye combo
@rhianneseddon9739
@rhianneseddon9739 2 жыл бұрын
I knew my 1st relationship was over when I had a day out with my mum and she sensed something was off. She sat me down and asked me if I still love this guy and I couldn’t say yes I am. It then made me think deep down about what I really want. With him I felt like I took role of his mum as I done everything for him, I talked to him and gave him a few weeks to sort his shit out and to show me he wants this relationship.. started off ok and then I started to see him creeping back into his old ways and then I was done. It’s hard but it’s something you have to do for yourself to figure out if a particular relationship can change and work. If it’s affecting your mental health then it’s time to get out while you have the strength to. Thankyou for this video love these types of content xx
@samanthalubitz3
@samanthalubitz3 2 жыл бұрын
Your hair looks incredible chicky! And the setting is really doing something for me. Love ya girl ❤️
@cheribaby
@cheribaby 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!! So stunning 🔥
@mariaj7549
@mariaj7549 2 жыл бұрын
Girl the clickbait!!! First of all you had me worried my fav youtuber is shutting down their channel, second of all, you look amazing in the thumbnail
@helenanderz
@helenanderz 2 жыл бұрын
Well what can I say… it’s KZfaq innit, unfortunately it’s the way it is, and it works and I have no shame in admitting it. Anyway I’m not going anywhere EVEEEER!!! Xx
@helenanderz
@helenanderz 2 жыл бұрын
Also thank you ❤️❤️
@tiffanydeg4262
@tiffanydeg4262 2 жыл бұрын
She's my favorite to!! Love from Los Angeles
@HomemakerDaze
@HomemakerDaze 2 жыл бұрын
Ye of little faith lol
@sunny_b_goats
@sunny_b_goats 2 жыл бұрын
Haha I love clickbait! Everyone does it! I have no problem with it. Folk do it on fb, Twitter, insta, what not. Also your hair is so nice! X
@fayfay12
@fayfay12 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this video today, thank you. Me and my partner split up a few weeks ago and I've been feeling incredibly lost. Yet you have talked so much sense here for me to be able to find myself, for me.
@heathersanderson01
@heathersanderson01 2 жыл бұрын
Just got out of a nearly 4 year relationship and I feel like so much of this applied to me...Hard to navigate this fresh start but hoping to learn to be content on my own x
@moni130508
@moni130508 2 жыл бұрын
Woman! I thought you and Phil had broke up!
@makeilarose11
@makeilarose11 2 жыл бұрын
Holy shit I love these videos, it feels like sitting down with an open minded older sister. Thank you so much!! 🖤
@helenanderz
@helenanderz 2 жыл бұрын
Yaaay I’m glad xx
@jenniferduff9254
@jenniferduff9254 2 жыл бұрын
I enjoy wacthing your vlogs I think your cool
@autyxpop
@autyxpop 2 жыл бұрын
You were one of the first people I ever watched on KZfaq and that was YEARS ago. I’ve loved seeing your growth as a person and a content creator as well. You’ve always seemed like a friend to me, you’re such a comforting soul. Also you look absolutely beautiful in this!!! That hair suits you so wonderfully. 🥺
@deniseespin191
@deniseespin191 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been around since her hair dye video but she has changed so much she is now all country instead of her glam punk rock self I know people grow but her whole look/vibe changed completely was it ever really authentic then? Is this authentic or will she change again? Again I know people grow but this is so drastic. She looks like a blogger from the American south Republican states like Austin Texas not England which is why I watched.
@natalieh2025
@natalieh2025 2 жыл бұрын
​@@deniseespin191 just because something feels right at one point of your life, that doesn't mean, that it will always feel right. When people love each other, but later they stop, does it mean, that their love wasn't at one point real? No. It was real. The same thing goes for self expression
@joleed27
@joleed27 2 жыл бұрын
I really needed this video! I would 100% listen to an agony aunt podcast where you respond to callers’ stories/questions :)
@troews
@troews 2 жыл бұрын
Really enjoy these kind of video’s. Normally i dont really comment and just enjoy your content, but i just wanted to let you know that you have such a lovely personality. You are so open, full of depth, caring. All that with a little pinch of humour, it’s just really fresh and pure. Love that ❤️🤜🏻🤛🏻
@sophatt
@sophatt 2 жыл бұрын
Re question 1: Brene Brown says .. strong back, soft front, wild heart
@helenanderz
@helenanderz 2 жыл бұрын
Love that
@tiarnawhitmarsh6278
@tiarnawhitmarsh6278 2 жыл бұрын
Been here since the galaxy legging days - love you and your content! Keep rockin and rollin!x
@YellowCarGiirl
@YellowCarGiirl 2 жыл бұрын
Hello beautiful lady! Been watching since the galaxy leggings days. Love hearing your advice.
@helenanderz
@helenanderz 2 жыл бұрын
Awwhhh mate! Xx
@zoemoney7427
@zoemoney7427 2 жыл бұрын
Been here since Helen melon lady you've always inspired me to just be myself. 💜💜
@helenanderz
@helenanderz 2 жыл бұрын
Yay I’m glad!!
@LisEibh
@LisEibh 2 жыл бұрын
The hair, as it's styled here, gives a kind of illusion of a mullet/wolf cut and now I'm convinced a mullet would look amazing on you. I know it's a big commitment and would undo all the time you grew it out but omg, it would look so cool 🙊
@sandunga5656
@sandunga5656 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! This video helped me and as many here been following you for years, I know the creators struggle and this really was so powerful and helpful 🥺✨🖤 you are an angel
@lilyns99
@lilyns99 2 жыл бұрын
Helen is the internet’s cool big sis 🖤
@helenanderz
@helenanderz 2 жыл бұрын
Yaaay x
@stephc3522
@stephc3522 2 жыл бұрын
Holy sh*t Helen you look amazing here your hair?!? Obsessed
@helenanderz
@helenanderz 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks babe!
@veryvint8188
@veryvint8188 2 жыл бұрын
Love these videos Helen! Your such a natural speaker and so calming.☺️❤️
@innocentthing4423
@innocentthing4423 2 жыл бұрын
Im exactly at the same stage on life as the 28 year old going back to uni except im 27. Literally have no life as college and work takes up so much of my time, i cannot commit to a lad because im always between my hometown and my uni city and I work on weekends so no timw for dating. I just want to start making decent money and have a regular life so i can do stuff! I was like that advice was for me, thank you Helen
@LaceyJaneMiller
@LaceyJaneMiller 2 жыл бұрын
This frame looks literally perfect! 👏
@Seeebreee7
@Seeebreee7 Жыл бұрын
Oh helen, I’ve been watching you for years and I’ve always wanted to hangout and talk like this. I feel so similarly to you. Love from Florida 🤍 been here since the my little pony hair lol
@LostGirlFilms
@LostGirlFilms 2 жыл бұрын
I have to say, after years of following you and seeing your wonderful hair choices, this one is my absolute favorite on you! YOU LOOK STUNNING!! XOXOXO
@deniseespin191
@deniseespin191 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been around since her hair dye video but she has changed so much she is now all country instead of her glam punk rock self I know people grow but her whole look/vibe changed completely was it ever really authentic then? Is this authentic or will she change again? Again I know people grow but this is so drastic. She looks like a blogger from the American south Republican states like Austin Texas not England which is why I watched.
@kassi7752
@kassi7752 Жыл бұрын
I love this woman so much
@kyra5067
@kyra5067 2 жыл бұрын
Helen this hair is ducking incredible!!! I’m a short haired girl myself but I wonder if my stylist could make this work as a long bob??? Does anyone know the name of this colour/style? Love from Canada 🇨🇦
@helenanderz
@helenanderz 2 жыл бұрын
Do you mean the colour lovey?? Xx
@amygallear3581
@amygallear3581 2 жыл бұрын
The set up of this video the lighting, colours everything is so so beautiful
@ellie3915
@ellie3915 2 жыл бұрын
Podcast needed! Xxx
@lia-ww2fp
@lia-ww2fp 2 жыл бұрын
So excited for next months Agony Aunt! Loved this video despite being in a happy relationship x
@saucysam08
@saucysam08 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for such amazing advice it’s things I really needed to hear. I love your hair 😍😍
@sallyelizabeth6564
@sallyelizabeth6564 2 жыл бұрын
Great video, and, as everyone has said I think, your hair looks AMAZING xx
@lelejka2046
@lelejka2046 2 жыл бұрын
I just turned 18, have been watching you for years. Thank you for helping me prepare for this wacky world!! 🥰
@bournie21
@bournie21 2 жыл бұрын
I took so much from this video Helen, thank you!
@louise5493
@louise5493 2 жыл бұрын
I just ADORE this hair style so much!! 😍🖤 You look amazing Helen & really enjoyed this video 💞
@catrionapetty4501
@catrionapetty4501 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@georgia2087
@georgia2087 2 жыл бұрын
If someone isn’t letting you leave a relationship, it could be a sign of coercive and controlling behaviour. Please please PLEASE contact your local police force or speak with local domestic abuse charities 💜
@helenanderz
@helenanderz 2 жыл бұрын
I did think this after so yes great advice xxx
@lunarose4214
@lunarose4214 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this 🖤
@bunnyfernwood
@bunnyfernwood 2 жыл бұрын
Dang it Helen you got me nervous with the title 😅
@lucylittle2889
@lucylittle2889 2 жыл бұрын
C'mon Helen, less of these blatant click bate titles/thumb nails! You're better than this!
@helenanderz
@helenanderz 2 жыл бұрын
Haha thank you I’ll see that as a compliment! I will respond honestly though. KZfaq is a fucking nightmare and it has been for a while. Unfortunately having slightly clickbait or mysterious titles and thumbnails does work for views, and when this is your job and a source of revenue, sometimes you just gotta do it in order for it to be worthwhile. It’s dire and it’s not great I know and I genuinely miss the days where you could call video what you like , upload it when you like and be ensured that it will be seen. But it’s not the case. All the big KZfaq channels with mega views all clickbait all the time. I like to think I don’t do it often, but sometimes if there’s an opportunity I’ll take it. But I won’t take the piss with it xxx
@pumpkinsianeth
@pumpkinsianeth 2 жыл бұрын
Your like the big sister I never had 😭
@josephinehumphrey1442
@josephinehumphrey1442 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this 🥰
@angharadmair6986
@angharadmair6986 2 жыл бұрын
Love it!! 🥳🥰 best kind of videos Helen!!
@LetMeSayThis
@LetMeSayThis 2 жыл бұрын
Love the setup, colors and overall vibe in this video 😍✨ what camera are you using?
@LisaFreeman97
@LisaFreeman97 2 жыл бұрын
This lighting and setup though !!!!! LOVE 😍
@plzno1854
@plzno1854 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love these kind of videos!❤️ slay Helen
@AmberWoodMusicx
@AmberWoodMusicx 2 жыл бұрын
We all need a Helen in our lives
@i_valencia
@i_valencia 2 жыл бұрын
this camera angle tho!! loving it, so profesh
@immaculatepasta3418
@immaculatepasta3418 2 жыл бұрын
GLORIOUS
@kotajosalphine8611
@kotajosalphine8611 2 жыл бұрын
Girl your hair is ittt!
@sleepylittlefairy
@sleepylittlefairy 2 жыл бұрын
THE HAIR 🤩
@marinajanett
@marinajanett 2 жыл бұрын
Love your hair, giving me ginger spice vibes love it
@Jasmine_Scarlett_Rose
@Jasmine_Scarlett_Rose 2 жыл бұрын
So effin wise 🙌 👏
@helenanderz
@helenanderz 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you haha
@Libbybaby
@Libbybaby 2 жыл бұрын
These are my fave vids from you 😍🥰
@skiphopflipflopdripdrop
@skiphopflipflopdripdrop 2 жыл бұрын
YOU LOOK STUNNING
@ellie3915
@ellie3915 2 жыл бұрын
Love your channel Helen!! Xxxx
@helenanderz
@helenanderz 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@francesem4571
@francesem4571 2 жыл бұрын
You look so stunning! ♥️🍓
@paula92111
@paula92111 2 жыл бұрын
Love your hair!
@paula92111
@paula92111 2 жыл бұрын
Also you look absolutely gorgeous. This lighting makes your eyes look so lovely
@strawberryj7186
@strawberryj7186 2 жыл бұрын
Not seen u in a minute! Looking greatxxx
@vagiapy428
@vagiapy428 2 жыл бұрын
girl i loved this video :)
@mawishi
@mawishi 2 жыл бұрын
You look so beautiful!
@leahbeth97
@leahbeth97 2 жыл бұрын
hair: gorgeous 🍒💜
@Toscanichannel
@Toscanichannel 2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@KB-bx9ui
@KB-bx9ui 2 жыл бұрын
YOU HAIR!!! 🤤🤤🤤
@victoriavitch2689
@victoriavitch2689 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the content (like all of it! Long time vlog lover… and u are the only one I kept watching for years) your videos make my day! Greetings from Berlin
@lesliegmail5148
@lesliegmail5148 2 жыл бұрын
Hi helennnnnnnnnnnn!
@helenanderz
@helenanderz 2 жыл бұрын
Helloooooo
@ITSZ0MBIE
@ITSZ0MBIE 2 жыл бұрын
☁️💚☁️
@KimomoDragon
@KimomoDragon 2 жыл бұрын
😒
@vickychilton8648
@vickychilton8648 2 жыл бұрын
Love this and love your advice. You're so down to earth and lovely - thanks for the advice. Hope you're okay xxx
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