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This is where I find myself at 63. Harboring resentment and unwilling to speak up because I know it will cause pain and heartbreak in others. The stress can be overwhelming, paralyzing…

Avoiding conflict probably creates inner anger in us and we carry on regardless ... making us our own worst enemy 🤣

It’s worse when you get older… so now I have to pat myself on the back that I got through and survived all my stupid idiotic choices because I felt sorry for myself and other reasons I was restless and bored. Now I look forward, and I have to let go of the past to do that. I am now in love with my life and my family❤

As a Christian in the past and a woman , it was always put upon us to be meek serve , no anger and if you do , then tippy toe around it . Righteous anger seemed to be christs gig but not really encouraged for the mere mortals . It was not empowering in my experience and still have issues with expressing feelings of anger to anyone which isn’t healthy either . I’ll meditate on this little nugget of wisdom and go beat up my pillows , the oxy moron is do not sin in your anger . Words to become cognitive dissonance.

This dude is so smart and well spoken

DOCTOR PETERSON IS AN AMAZING MAN AND OFFERS MUCH TREASURED WISDOM !

I'm struggling with self worth. Beyond struggling. It runs my life. Along with that comes resentment for me through certain avenues. I'm stuck in this, "well, I've failed at most everything, I'm done trying" I never really felt this way. I've never been a "poor little me" kinda dude. But I'm tired of failing. It feels like I am a failure. I've not grown at all in a decade because of the enormous walls I've built. It's sad actually. I need a good psychologist for real! I've been through the meds, and psychiatrists and psychologists and therapists and I feel I've only achieved negative results. Anyway, felt good to type this thought out.

"Each day can be one of triumph if you keep up your interests." - George Matthew Adams

This stuff needs millions of views

I needes this now. I need to understand and work with my anger

Thanks again, Jordan! You’ve saved my life and a lot of other peoples. 💯 you’re a blessing.🙏🏽♥️

No, it means that doors have not open and I keep pushing not giving up!

I wish I could talk about the rage I have! But I know no one would give a shit anyway so I keep it locked inside building and building for years and it leaks out of me now a little at a time but if I were to ever fully unleash my rage someone would have to either beat me to death to stop me or shoot me! I fight hard to maintain control but these days it’s almost like there are 2 of me 1 good and 1 bad and it feels like a constant fight for control always!

I would say that I agree with ordan B. Peterson about 80% of the time on the things he says. This may also be due to our different paths in life, along with a dozen other reasons. In this speech, however, I once again give the full 100%. If you are looking for a path, you should listen to one of his motivational speeches once a day during the breaks, along with some good meditative music, and then take a few minutes to reflect. Perhaps while listening to good meditative music at the same time?

If you get angry Take a shower and then lie down, you will get better !

Im almost 33. Im 3-4 months into the best job ive ever had. I am on maybe the 3rd time ive hit rock bottom and rebuilt with literally nothing (heroin, im sober now tho). No home to stay, no car, no a single friend, my mom is the only blood family i have. I have 3 kids, with 2 women. One of them works with me to co parent. My youngest sons mom makes it hard to see my son. I have no social life. No facebook. Or any social media relationships. And i am at a place, where ive never been so defeated and discouraged. But this time it has shown itself as anger. Pure hatred and anger for people who cross me and the cruel unfairness of life. I know everyone says “GET OVER IT”. Thats insane to me. Im not a privileged brat. Im intelligent. Diligent. I am honest and try my best. But i contonuously get screwed by life. More than most i think. I hate being like this

I cannot even begin to express the extent that your words have given me peace.

Trust the process

So well said. I understand now. Thank you

And just live one day at a time

Well I'm just a kid at heart and a I love to give nice things to people and help out the community

Absolutely man

In the end we are a work of biological engineering. When you learn to train your mind, you are able to achieve a performance you never imagined.

Well, there’s a lot of things I’m 41 years and you know there is a lot of things in life that can be very difficult especially when someone has a learning disability called dyslexia so all of a sudden your mind is completely focus on trying to accomplish but you pressure yourself so much that your mind overwhelms yourself then you just get into a spiral of anger Especially when you’re around people with a regular headspace they start to criticize you all over the place because you’re slower than they are and even though I am very positive as much as I can, but there’s certain things that I will just start breaking out in temper and anger that others never see in their life before and they get really scared because they’ve never seen a very calm individual get super angry.

I'm a Leo bro we have big hearts

My fiance needs this. And I know that may sound narcissistic. But I’m serious. I just don’t know how to bring this up or show this to her without her screaming and yelling and thinking im arguing with her

I admire that I won't back down to anyone.. but it's costed me so many beautiful opportunities and relationships. This is tiring. This is not me. I'm not a tough guy.. I'm just really angry.

As a woman, i find anger very problematic, and Im a very outspoken person. When we confront someone, including our partner, we're seen as whiny, aggressive, and rude. People don't like passive-aggressive attitude but they also don't like us being straightforward, as being angry is not "woman-like" and it makes us unattractive to our partners. So how do we convey anger and frustration that doesn't just include kindly saying "your behaviour makes me angry" because honestly most of the times it doesn't do anything and it's just an opening for the other person to start justifying their behaviour. Basically, why is everyone so soft and unable to take constructive criticism anymore?!

Working

I came here because of starwars. I just can't stop being angry... I know it's stupid but I really want to get over this.

Wright

Im still here

No conflict

To many things are happening. To many bad things.

I'm not sure how to take this advice in regards to my Anger. I analyze my anger and i attempt to see if i'm just being a whiny brat and that i need to grow up, but instead i see all the reasons i'm angry and how that's understandable. Yet, if i speak my mind forthright and even try to speak about the complaint in a way where i'm offering a solution or working towards that solution, it's too confrontational for this soft, agreeable society. If you start to point out what you have an issue with or what you would like to be different instead, you are targeted or seen as the issue itself. So at some points, it just feels like a Catch-22 where if you're mad or resentful about your life circumstances or the world, oh well, nobody cares. Deal with it. And then i'm just more angry than i was with just the original problem. I want to integrate my Shadow so that i gain more respect for it and desire for alternative reactions to stressful situations, but i feel like the more i'm integrating it the more i'm just becoming it. It sometimes really feels like my mind thinks of destructive and awful things and it feels right even though i know it's not.

Your wright let's come together

That's write I just don't like being told what to do

Must be nice to have money

Past it broke up and pissed off

I know God too bro

No not ever

I am not resentful cause I am immature. On the contrary, I prolly am resentful cause I’m too mature. Modern times now? It’s constantly waking up to more bad news. People abusing animals, people abandoning their pets, people scamming people of their life savings, these are all commonplace today. And humanity has taken such a downward shift-degenerating instead of evolving to be a more sophisticated species. Telltale signs everywhere. I always do good, charity and all, but bad things still happen to me and these are bad things that are committed by others! Maybe all of us who are Always angry here should form a support group.

imported lesson.

Tip toe around the people around you and guard all your feelings as law because no on3 will respect you. Period. Not even a spouse for life. No one. So it's up to us to save ourselves. And anger is because we have to deal with people. That's it. If you remove the people factor, anger no longer exists. That's why we back away from people, because they suck. So anger is justified for life because of the stupidty we have allowed humanity to b3come to live with. Love is a job. Not a feeling. It's an app.

given that countless people in history were executed for speaking the truth that they knew (e.g. aristotle saying the world wasn't flat), JP has it wrong here sometimes.

Its easy to be angry when you have people attacking you 24/7 F humans

Without justice and legal recourse for the poor “Social Justice” will replace the legal system and we are right back to the Wild, Wild West, Texas Style.

I married an angry man. The worst decision of my life.

He could've said that in about 300 words less and it would've been way more understandable to the real world. Not that he was terribly wrong but that most folks nowadays wouldn't even be able to comprehend the plethora of words. The whole persona thing is pretty wacky though, if you have to put up a front to the public you're just a fake of reality and people never really get to know you. It should just flow out of you naturally.

I agree in meny things,u are realy one of the agreeable guys im listend to. Myself im 62 and have enuff money to to get kickt outav work in august 2020. I must say that u are a very intelligent person and i like u alot but the religious stuff and the hunt of u goul is alittle suspicues. Were do u make the rule from to be an beliver ir a taquia beliver. Exuse my englich im a swede.

when you feel angry blame women and Marxists

Are you the anti Christ Jordan?