When you love the kid but hate the parent

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Clair Hawkins

Clair Hawkins

4 ай бұрын

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@freakandgeek228
@freakandgeek228 4 ай бұрын
I went too far but my point stands!
@Mouni-pg1fn
@Mouni-pg1fn 4 ай бұрын
Wdym
@user-fy9xl9eu8c
@user-fy9xl9eu8c 4 ай бұрын
@@Mouni-pg1fnfym wdym
@Mouni-pg1fn
@Mouni-pg1fn 4 ай бұрын
​@@user-fy9xl9eu8c Can you explain it to me then?
@Ghost_King108
@Ghost_King108 4 ай бұрын
@@user-fy9xl9eu8cwdym
@Delicate_Disaster
@Delicate_Disaster 4 ай бұрын
​@Mouni-pg1fn how are you possibly confused?
@cinderheartmeow6032
@cinderheartmeow6032 Ай бұрын
They gained a bit of respect for each other for the level and intensity of insults they both exchanged. Parent just got KO’d by a gymnastics teacher.
@sandyfyffe6849
@sandyfyffe6849 Ай бұрын
​@@patrycjaorkisz5785 thanks for being a c*nt, I don't know how the world would survive, without people like you. /S
@AnnoyingNewsletters
@AnnoyingNewsletters Ай бұрын
It was a wild ride 😅
@stinkygoat2686
@stinkygoat2686 Ай бұрын
You do know it's an actor playing both characters right?
@Karasmilia
@Karasmilia Ай бұрын
@@stinkygoat2686You do know that '/s' means 'sarcasm', right?
@Tony-Anderson
@Tony-Anderson Ай бұрын
yeah, that's why they gained respect for each other. Not because the level of intensity stemmed from a genuine love for the kid and wanting her to be happy making the mom realize that at the end of the day what is important is her child's happiness and knowing how much the coach cares and loves the daughter is something they can both help provide, showing how the mom can not only relate but as aforementioned, respect about her. Nah fuck that kid, it's all about owning and being the alpha dog! smh...
@latifx3944
@latifx3944 Ай бұрын
I remember my softball coach came to my house to convince me to go back on the team. He was talking to my dad when my stepmom started saying really nasty things to me from around the corner. Usually my parents hid their abuse but my coach cought a hint of it that day. He straight up said "You going to let her talk to your daughter that way?!" He was angry and shocked. My father just stood their and stammered, baffled by being called out. The irony was he was even worse than my stepmom but in that moment I felt such a relief to just have someone acknowledge and speak up for me. Everyone else in my community just pretended it wasn't happening or called me a liar. God bless coaches and teachers who actually care about their kids.
@kittyshell8506
@kittyshell8506 28 күн бұрын
Girl... I'm so sorry nobody believed you... I am very grateful you at least had one witness who stood up for you, though... 🙏🏻💛
@Meepmeephihi
@Meepmeephihi 27 күн бұрын
Hey, hi, are you okay now? Are you safe? Are you alright? 🥹🥹🥹🥺 I hope you are 😭😭😭
@Miss_Camel
@Miss_Camel 27 күн бұрын
Hell yes for the coaches and teachers who care!!
@priskruger314
@priskruger314 27 күн бұрын
Ugh some parents are so stupid.
@latifx3944
@latifx3944 27 күн бұрын
@@Meepmeephihi That was many years ago and I'm okay now. I left when I was 17 and haven't seen them except 3 times in the past 20 years. It took years of therapy to get to a point where I could sleep peacefully at night, but it's possible to have a fulfilled life despite it all.
@l.j.1417
@l.j.1417 Ай бұрын
I swear some people get jealous when their children bond with anyone other than them. I would regularly get death glares from one mom in my class because her daughter would request me to read her stories before she went to sleep. Like lmao mama you know you can read your own child to sleep too. She'll love it!
@MarieNeco
@MarieNeco 26 күн бұрын
I can understand why they would tho
@GameChanger597
@GameChanger597 26 күн бұрын
​@@MarieNecoOnly an extremely emotionally immature person or childish narcissist "would understand" the obsurdities of a jealous parent throwing a tantrum about why they can't have all the attention from their child alone. God help us. Pathetic coming from a parent who should be the adult in the relationship, not the child. Grow up!! 😡
@iculuv2571
@iculuv2571 25 күн бұрын
I know😂😂😂 I have a student and her mom hates me, when she around us she pulls her from me. She is a C$$?t but love her daughter.
@Moongirlgacha_roblox6643
@Moongirlgacha_roblox6643 25 күн бұрын
@@MarieNecoyeah, i can see why the kid prefer other ppl than the parents when the parents didn’t pay attention and yet they get mad when the kid wants the ppl that gave attention to them to do something🙄
@Totallynonplagerizedleatherguy
@Totallynonplagerizedleatherguy 25 күн бұрын
Dang. My son laughs the most when he’s with his aunt and I’m happy that he has that with somebody. I can’t imagine hating someone because they’re more fun or that your kid likes them. And I don’t want to understand it.
@Mmannk
@Mmannk 3 ай бұрын
The ending instantly added a chemistry i didn’t think was possible dammit
@someonecookme_bacon
@someonecookme_bacon Ай бұрын
Like someone wanna write a wattpad about this for me
@graceberard6668
@graceberard6668 Ай бұрын
I wish people actually argued like this😭
@someonecookme_bacon
@someonecookme_bacon Ай бұрын
I need those 2 to end up together
@hwangnji
@hwangnji Ай бұрын
​@@graceberard6668 This is the kind of thing you'd think about after the argument has already ended 😭
@kittenmimi5326
@kittenmimi5326 Ай бұрын
Enemies to lovers?
@corinnegrace2007
@corinnegrace2007 4 ай бұрын
I like her but willingness to apologize even though she was probably in the right but the mom still learned something ❤
@adnamafett7862
@adnamafett7862 Ай бұрын
It’s almost as if being in the right doesn’t make death wishes and “I hope your daughter realizes how much she hates you” an acceptable thing to say
@corinnegrace2007
@corinnegrace2007 Ай бұрын
@@adnamafett7862frrr
@LeosGoofyAhh
@LeosGoofyAhh Ай бұрын
I sometimes forget these two characters are the same person. I read this and completely agreed until I realized “Wait, that’s the same person” 💀
@ladylamellae
@ladylamellae Ай бұрын
Honestly that's the only way to do it with people like this, if you're a bigger asshole and then apologize without backing down on the core issue they typically get embarrassed that they can't be mature about their lesser offense and try to save face as well.
@ladylamellae
@ladylamellae Ай бұрын
​@@adnamafett7862tbf the mom dropped the first death wish but the "I wanna steal your orphaned daughter" was definitely pretty yikes 😂 certainly snapped her out of it tho 🤷‍♀️
@nereidagarcia5349
@nereidagarcia5349 Ай бұрын
I was raised by a mother that was exactly like this one and I too was a sweet kid everyone loved. That's literally what makes us sweet and kind because we want are parents to be proud of us. trust me when I say eventually we get tired of being ignored and turn into the complete opposite. So to those types of parents please rethink your dismissive attitude
@Shelleysnail
@Shelleysnail 26 күн бұрын
Oh…..is that what was happening….😳
@Vlidery13
@Vlidery13 25 күн бұрын
Exactly what happened to me. They still say things like: "... Long time ago when you were still sweet and kind." yeah and naive 😂 doesn't matter if I succeed or not you're still gonna shit on me so why would i even try of tell you what i'm currently doing? 🤣
@nereidagarcia5349
@nereidagarcia5349 25 күн бұрын
@@Vlidery13 exactly 💯
@Feverm00n
@Feverm00n 28 күн бұрын
I have endless love for the people who fearlessly endeavor to protect and nourish kids at every opportunity.
@songofphoenix2288
@songofphoenix2288 3 ай бұрын
Girl used vicious mockery for that last one
@ILovePanta123
@ILovePanta123 Ай бұрын
I didn't know she was a bard
@aconerty6392
@aconerty6392 Ай бұрын
​@@ILovePanta123Bard/monk multiclass for sure
@AliceSakihara
@AliceSakihara Ай бұрын
She only wanted to roll a success but nat 20d by accident.
@leonardispresent9352
@leonardispresent9352 Ай бұрын
Bro rolled 20 that even the parent just agreed to it
@PrayerWarrior4
@PrayerWarrior4 Ай бұрын
Nat 20!
@mckenna8663
@mckenna8663 Ай бұрын
Oh my GOSH!!!!! As a retired teacher, I have had hundreds of parents (whom I have HATED) of students I have ADORED!!!!
@kimmiewise1044
@kimmiewise1044 Ай бұрын
Well its probably because those parents you "hated" actually made the environment for those kids to build behaviors you adore. Its like saying "I love Panda's but I hate the Chinese landscape." The Panda's wouldn't exist if not for the chinese landscape so why woukd you hate the landscape if it generated the animal you lobe so much? Same with these kinds of parents. I'm sure the only reason this kid is so enthusiastic to this teacher is because she is seeking approval that doesn't come to her as easily at home andnif she was easilt given approval and rpaise for everything she would be an absolute NIGHTMARE to deal with. Good fruits comes from good trees. Bad fruit comes from had trees. If you like the fruit why hate the tree for producing good fruit??? It makes no sense.
@ica5115
@ica5115 Ай бұрын
​@kimmiewise1044 are you trying to justify emotional neglect here? it's perfectly reasonable to dislike parents for causing their child to develop traits to cope with the lack of affection, even if those traits make the kid likable.
@aswespeak165
@aswespeak165 Ай бұрын
@@kimmiewise1044wow what a take.
@favoredroyalty
@favoredroyalty Ай бұрын
​@@ica5115it's not emotional neglect. She said "that's nice, go get your shoes" she acknowledged her. Just because it's not in the way you want it doesn't make it wrong. Also you're setting a child up to think theure supposed to be praised at every given moment and get a participation trophy for simply doing a good job, that's not how life works
@dontbother.9293
@dontbother.9293 Ай бұрын
@@kimmiewise1044it totally make sense to have abusive parents raising nice kids.. Yep that makes sooo much sense… 😅
@livia7405
@livia7405 29 күн бұрын
Have a mom that constantly degrades her kid when she’s upset not only at practice but at COMPETITIONS TOO. In front of everybody. Poor girl is the sweetest and gets visibly anxious when mom shows up at practice.
@xXDisturbedFoxXx
@xXDisturbedFoxXx Ай бұрын
The "see you next week" 😂 totally got me xD
@jgfffffffhjiufdddj
@jgfffffffhjiufdddj Ай бұрын
ok but the ending was wholesome. i love good rivalry chemistry
@automagicashie
@automagicashie 3 ай бұрын
Respect to those who speak to parents this way. Their kids are not likely to be able to say shit about their awful parents. I wish someone would have stuck up to my dad before I had to
@PastelScoops
@PastelScoops Ай бұрын
When I was younger, I used to race BMX. My mom would abuse me in front of everyone, and no one ever said anything. One time I had a parent come up to me and tell me that the way she treated me wasn't right, but they didn't want to say anything to her because they didn't want to make the situation for me worse, and my only thought was "Nope, you're just a fucking coward and you don't want her mad at YOU."
@drewthistlethwaite8909
@drewthistlethwaite8909 Ай бұрын
We ran into my ballet teacher who used to verbally roast my mom recently. She’s 85 and thin with a killer body still. She dead ass bullied my mom while telling me I grew up to be so lovely and she’s proud, then offered to buy our groceries bcz mom cited money as why I quit. I just kinda stayed quiet and tried not to move so neither would snap on me 😂😂😂😂
@drewthistlethwaite8909
@drewthistlethwaite8909 Ай бұрын
@@PastelScoopsmy friends mom would go up and be ready to fight my mom. She was just as vicious back. Her daughter ended up sui baiting me for 3 years but I’ll never be mad at her mom. (I also know that habit was from a toxic friend whose dad was like that, when her mom found out she lost all tech access for almost a year🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 lovely lady)
@PastelScoops
@PastelScoops Ай бұрын
@@drewthistlethwaite8909 it took me a few reads to realize what sui baiting is, I'm proud of you for getting thru that! 🫶🏻 Glad her mom is a good person, at least
@taylorjade6918
@taylorjade6918 Ай бұрын
​@@PastelScoopsBoth might be true. It happens far too often that stepping in without being able to remove the kids from the situation results in them being targeted even worse.
@nicolerodriguez6765
@nicolerodriguez6765 28 күн бұрын
Lmaooooo, that was perfectly executed! I literally spit out my coffee from laughing so hard, I was not expecting the “adopted” part! I love this woman!
@DaphodilSings
@DaphodilSings 28 күн бұрын
This was so fucking perfect. The drama, the climax, the fucking home run hitter that demolished mom, the satisfying ending. I’ve watched this 4 times 😬😬😬
@gomi1224
@gomi1224 Ай бұрын
literally said 'damn' out loud at the exact same interval as the mom
@reydragonclaw1128
@reydragonclaw1128 29 күн бұрын
me too lmao
@kevp6488
@kevp6488 29 күн бұрын
Same
@djduncan956
@djduncan956 29 күн бұрын
555th like
@Alijahalexander8274
@Alijahalexander8274 29 күн бұрын
Omg same 🥲
@WooperGoober
@WooperGoober 29 күн бұрын
Same😂
@Supersmile330
@Supersmile330 Ай бұрын
Honestly, love the end of that sketch. They be shittalking /hard/ but when one goes to far, she apologizes, the apology is accepted and they move on with their life, not escalating
@grantstratton2239
@grantstratton2239 29 күн бұрын
Yes, it was very unexpectedly wholesome at the end.
@Duffman69able
@Duffman69able 28 күн бұрын
It’s fun to pretend
@Faint366
@Faint366 28 күн бұрын
Dunno how it was too far to be honest. The mom said she hopes the coach dies first. Then all the coach added was that she’d actually be proud of the kid
@juliagoetia
@juliagoetia 27 күн бұрын
​​@@Faint366Yeah, seems like folks are just afraid to stand their ground tbh. Don't apologize to people who haven't given you any reason to. Be petty, double down. Don't cede ground to terrible people, they'll just take advantage of it.
@alextunneyware
@alextunneyware 27 күн бұрын
​@@Faint366 I mean, there was a little more than just both of them saying they hope the other dies Plus, the teacher's comment came off as extremely obsessive over the daughter, almost to a creepy degree
@jacquelinewarner-smith1770
@jacquelinewarner-smith1770 Ай бұрын
Genuinely, thank you for the satisfying resolution. I don't remember the last time I saw a KZfaq Shorts skit with an actual resolution.
@emajoi2815
@emajoi2815 Ай бұрын
Hahaha!! The mutual respect that turns into the right side being taken. Love it.
@mads2023
@mads2023 Ай бұрын
Tell your damn kids you’re proud of them!!! It makes more of a difference than you could imagine.
@elizabethedwards2198
@elizabethedwards2198 Ай бұрын
I do. But not in front of people. I want the moment to be special and not be ruined by others.
@TwoBs
@TwoBs Ай бұрын
Sure, but you don’t have to do it every time they do something, either. Parents should never be shamed for not always telling their kids “I am so proud of you!!!” over everything done enough to where a parent begins to lie about it. If anything, simply encourage it when it is meaningful - when you know it’s something you truly feel … because always telling them is also excessive as always ignoring them is. It breeds an extreme in the opposite direction - instead of a child being starved for approval and attention from their parents, it’ll go in the other direction where they always expect it, and possibly even demand it from their parents over every single thing well beyond their childhood years. Think the types that become adults and fall hard into “I’m quirky and unique, I’m not like other (girls/boys)” meme and expect constant acceptance and being seen as excellent (like wanting other random adults to tell them they’re so proud of them when they do even the most basic of tasks). Yes, tell your children you’re proud, but do it when you mean it. Let’s not shame parents for not always lying to their kids with how they feel, especially as they get older and gain more self-awareness.
@kathleenmansure7416
@kathleenmansure7416 Ай бұрын
@@elizabethedwards2198 Yeah every time my mom or dad compliments me in front of another person, I feel like the moment is totally ruined lol
@brycealthoff8092
@brycealthoff8092 Ай бұрын
I remember all the times my dad said he was proud of me. Granted, I can count them on one hand. Even young boys are kind of expected to do certain things by default.
@american_jackal5956
@american_jackal5956 Ай бұрын
You know what? I don't think that I've ever heard anyone say they were proud of me until I was already a man. That's weird.
@rustyshackelford87
@rustyshackelford87 4 ай бұрын
Clair is my spirit animal.
@DeathnoteBB
@DeathnoteBB 3 ай бұрын
Not what that means ❤
@my-chemical-romance
@my-chemical-romance Ай бұрын
​@@DeathnoteBB it's not meant literally, nowadays it's a metaphor for "I relate to this/I look up to this", so it actually is what it means ❤
@me4_prez
@me4_prez Ай бұрын
​@@DeathnoteBBWomp womp ❤
@DeathnoteBB
@DeathnoteBB Ай бұрын
@@my-chemical-romance Uh, no, nowadays it’s still a scared term for indigenous nations. Even metaphorically that isn’t the correct use of the term.
@stfu8496
@stfu8496 Ай бұрын
@@me4_prezur not cool 4 being unintelligent and inflammatory 🩷
@heatherward5053
@heatherward5053 28 күн бұрын
😂😂 I used to run a group home for teenage boys with behavior problems …I’ve felt this many times. The parents were the worst but most of the kids were great!!
@nickbenjamin12
@nickbenjamin12 Ай бұрын
Gymnast “That was too far” Mother “It was” Viewers “🤔” 😂😂😂
@CortexNewsService
@CortexNewsService 26 күн бұрын
Was it though?
@chrimsonevans2016
@chrimsonevans2016 4 ай бұрын
Sheeeesh ☠️ that was brutal, but needed 😂
@lebarondevalois605
@lebarondevalois605 Ай бұрын
Not really… pretty fucked up to talk about a mother dying and replacing her
@Ri57490
@Ri57490 26 күн бұрын
​@@lebarondevalois605 her point still stands. The mother needed to be called out. That plus the apology was a perfect combination to verbalise what could be the real life outcome. Some children suffer greatly in later life due to parents like this.
@Peter_Parker_Stark
@Peter_Parker_Stark Ай бұрын
The mutual hate but respect of authority is so real
@larsbirgerbergmal6230
@larsbirgerbergmal6230 29 күн бұрын
That was absolutely not too far. Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child.
@Toni-xr5fw
@Toni-xr5fw 28 күн бұрын
That last part was really giving a Gilmore Girls rant lmao😂😂😂
@finntetzaguic1855
@finntetzaguic1855 Ай бұрын
That disappointed "okay." from the kid in this scenario man I felt that 😞
@koellekind
@koellekind 28 күн бұрын
So sorry to hear that. Sending love to you and anyone else who has experienced this. 🖤
@elliee884
@elliee884 Ай бұрын
So like… where’s the sapphic romcom?
@mayazenon8638
@mayazenon8638 Ай бұрын
Enemies to lovers? 👀
@lancecee6816
@lancecee6816 Ай бұрын
100%
@marcellapimentel5801
@marcellapimentel5801 Ай бұрын
I feel seen
@m4rkist
@m4rkist Ай бұрын
i saw the vision, i came looking for the conment.
@impskulls
@impskulls Ай бұрын
@@m4rkist same haha
@kristenhlady4079
@kristenhlady4079 Ай бұрын
Ah yes, the interactions we have in our heads 😂😂😂
@alexismcpherson4768
@alexismcpherson4768 Ай бұрын
I grew up feeling ashamed of everything because a parent always thought I should do better. I was a good kid, I was (am) smart and kind. My kids are sweet, super smart, polite, and are always getting compliments from random people. I don’t immediately tell them how proud I am. I ask them if they feel proud of themselves because that’s important too. And then I reassure that we’re proud of them. Kids are so impressionable and they need that reinforcement. They need to know when they do well and they still need love when they make a poor choice. But they need to be proud of their accomplishments and not just seek approval too.
@athenarocks7657
@athenarocks7657 Ай бұрын
I love this ❤️
@panicfanatd
@panicfanatd 29 күн бұрын
It's a big deal to not over praise your kids and figure out a proper balance so when they're doing well they know, and when they can improve they know. It's something I really stress about when having kids! I think your approach is great, especially asking if they feel proud! That's a great idea that seems so obvious but just isn't.
@Billybushby
@Billybushby 4 ай бұрын
I love this it's so funny its exactly how I want to act the sass the bad the empathy
@stevenjones4319
@stevenjones4319 28 күн бұрын
It's always the nice people who can rip you in half with words
@Mystic_Dreamers
@Mystic_Dreamers 22 күн бұрын
I hate how people think things went too far when there's literally no such thing as too far for just saying something 😭
@mael2039
@mael2039 Ай бұрын
I had two very sweet brothers at summer day care, five and seven, who's mum called at least five times every single day about when to put sunscreen on them, take their jackets on/off, and so on. Little things despite knowing that we put sunscreen on all our kids every three hours when we're outside etc. This was the daycare phone that we had to keep on and it was policy to answer it when a parent called. This lady was on our nerves so much that all of us were glad when these two kiddo's stay was up. Really a pity cause they were the sweetest, gentle, funny, friendly little kids and did nothing wrong, and yet we all breathed a sign of relief when they were gone.
@audreydoyle5268
@audreydoyle5268 Ай бұрын
Had a similar story about an overprotective parent. This sweet baby boy was always put in a singlet, long sleeves and a jacket, and we were instructed to keep it all on, even if it was hot outside, just keep him in the AC. If the temperature was even a few degrees below shorts weather, she'd give him to us with TWO singlets on. We lived in the tropics! She was mental. All because he had a bad case of whooping, at a few weeks old. Like, viruses don't magically disappear with extra layers 🙄 She was also a serial caller, luckily, I didn't have to pick up cause I was a student at the time.
@toriagiro9519
@toriagiro9519 Ай бұрын
They might have been so sweet because their mother was so a good doting mother who really really cared about them to the point of anxiety at the first instance of separation. They are still young, at least the 5 year old. 😊
@lyaneris
@lyaneris Ай бұрын
​@@audreydoyle5268 Reasons why my cousin was sick a lot as a kid 😅 More annoying were my aunt and uncle projecting onto us, while we were old enough to decide whether we were too cold/warm ourselves
@taylorlane8257
@taylorlane8257 Ай бұрын
​@toriagiro9519 that does not excuse her behavior. There is a difference between care / doting/ and excessive. If you can't stand being away from your kids enough to hinder a teacher with excessive calls. Then keep your kids home cause their are other kids and that takes from the day.
@mamavibetribe8878
@mamavibetribe8878 Ай бұрын
​@taylorlane8257 as a parent with a child who has a chronic illness and was hospitalised regularly until adequate medication was found, I can say you have no idea. I have removed my child from care that was unsafe for them, but was previously a wonderful environment for my eldest. There is only one place I would have risked leaving them if I was at all uncertain as the educators there understood the child's needs, my fears and reassured me of their competence. With all due respect to the educators above a firm conversation outlining how disruptive the parents calls were to providing adequate care, outlining their relevant qualifications and experience and coming up with a mutually agreed communication plan would have made the world of difference. One person mentioned the child in their care had a life threatening virus - it's a bit callous to boil down the trauma from that experience to mere overdressing.
@KatieDeGo
@KatieDeGo Ай бұрын
If I am ever an awful parent to my 2 girls, I hope someone talks to me like this so I can fix it 😊
@alst4817
@alst4817 28 күн бұрын
She wasn’t an awful parent. She’s just tired and doesn’t want to pretend. There ain’t no perfection in the parenting game, just surviving another day
@KatieDeGo
@KatieDeGo 28 күн бұрын
​@@alst4817 I didn't say she was awful, I said if *I* was an awful parent
@jeslyndillard1832
@jeslyndillard1832 Ай бұрын
nahhhhh that insult took a 90° angle 📐
@bernardartis1971
@bernardartis1971 20 күн бұрын
You can totally tell they both love the kid. The mom’s love is like a clumsy hug, while the coach’s isn’t having her nonsense. The mom might hate the parenting advice, but they weirdly respect each other. When the coach crossed the line, she actually apologized, and the mom accepted. This is like a sitcom,waiting to happen 😂👩‍👦🏅
@NotTheJossie
@NotTheJossie Ай бұрын
The scenario at the end was passive aggressive but so heartfelt 😭
@HelloNewMoon
@HelloNewMoon Ай бұрын
Lol in high school my friends mom and the cheer coach HATED each other. BAD. Cheer coach wound up literally getting a restraining order so my friends mom couldnt come to any cheer events or football games. My friend stayed on the squad and was just like “yeah my moms crazy” (she was but wait). Like 8 years later my 2 little cousins are in that same high school and on the cheer squad. Same coach. My aunt and the coach get into a a bunch of shit and coach winds up getting a restraining order on my aunt and so my Uncle has to start being cheer dad and do all the travel and event stuff with them. My aunt is also pretty crazy. So was the cheer coach. So to this day (20+ years later) I still cant figure out if cheer moms are that nuts or if the coach had been driven nuts by the cheer moms and was just wild with restraining orders whenever she got pissed off.
@allyperfectcosima5472
@allyperfectcosima5472 Ай бұрын
*whynotboth.gif*
@tracychristenson177
@tracychristenson177 Ай бұрын
@@allyperfectcosima5472 I second that. The two options are not mutually exclusive.
@bambi1919
@bambi1919 Ай бұрын
Well, considering courts won't hand out restraining orders without proof of serious, tangible threat to life and safety, I'm calling BS on this story.
@HelloNewMoon
@HelloNewMoon Ай бұрын
@@bambi1919 call whatever you want 😂 if i was going to make up something from 20 years ago it would not be this stupid ass situation.
@lucidfangirl1030
@lucidfangirl1030 29 күн бұрын
If only all adult arguments were this chill
@JayBigDadyCy
@JayBigDadyCy Ай бұрын
I actually would appreciate a blunt convo like this over the typical passive aggression that lasts an eternity. Get all the angst out. At least I'll know how we both feel 😂
@eijirokirishima1882
@eijirokirishima1882 Ай бұрын
That feeling when the inside thoughts become outside 😭
@taylormarie2345
@taylormarie2345 Ай бұрын
I will never be this parent. I remember every moment of joy it brought me when my parents were proud of me.. It would push me to do harder. I can’t wait to cheer on my baby… It makes me cry just thinking about them going through band concerts, horse riding, dirt biking whatever it may be. Even if they don’t end up doing anything, I will be so proud of them if they are just a good person ❤
@thecursed01
@thecursed01 Ай бұрын
don't overcompensate or you'll end up with a "golden child"
@bcaye
@bcaye 29 күн бұрын
One of the most sterling days of my life was a ninth grade German poetry recital. I did Die Lorelei and it was a Saturday about an hour away. My Dad was good about things like that and I had never had a German competition before. We went, I won second (excellent accent/recital, stiff body language), Dad is just looking at me like an alien. We stopped for lunch and I finally said "Sorry I didn't get first. I just can't learn how to not tense up. I have the same trouble with choir solos, I stiffen up." He stared while finishing a bite. "You misunderstood. I am blown away this is something you can do that I didn't know about. You told a whole story in a completely different language and I would never know it wasn't your language. It was obvious you were nervous, sure. Who wouldn't be? But the words came smoothly and there was no hesitation. I already knew you could sing, this is just a whole skill I never saw you do!" My dad was the best.
@snjert8406
@snjert8406 27 күн бұрын
@@bcayeawwww heck yes. Good dad!
@nonctm777
@nonctm777 25 күн бұрын
Totally making a saph enemies to lovers out of this one 👌👌
@superiorretribution
@superiorretribution 28 күн бұрын
Tell your daughter you're proud of her.......I will.... PERFECT
@foreversingle1765
@foreversingle1765 Ай бұрын
THE APOLOGY AT THE END IS SO REAL 😭
@ThatOneTheaterGirl
@ThatOneTheaterGirl 4 ай бұрын
That’s so real lmao Also so happy you’re back!
@tinaterry1280
@tinaterry1280 Ай бұрын
Omg so many co-workers and family AND friends that i hate but LOVE their children!!!
@bethcushway458
@bethcushway458 28 күн бұрын
Oooh I'm feeling this so hard! Worked in education my whole life and there's so many kids I've wanted to rescue and so many parents I've wanted to give this talk to!
@Dabis_Lover_Fizz
@Dabis_Lover_Fizz Ай бұрын
Imagine the child walked in while Coach was telling the mom all that
@Icalasari
@Icalasari Ай бұрын
Imagine the kid agreeing with what the coach is saying
@Dabis_Lover_Fizz
@Dabis_Lover_Fizz Ай бұрын
@@Icalasari pfft
@noway377
@noway377 Ай бұрын
​@@Icalasarithis legit happened to me as a kid. My math teacher loved me but hated my dad. One time they got into an argument, and she absolutely ripped into him for being so hard on me all the time. That was the first time an adult stuck up for me, I felt so happy knowing someone had my back.
@flameepidemic4839
@flameepidemic4839 4 ай бұрын
I understand that all too well
@danijelandroid
@danijelandroid 29 күн бұрын
I'm glad she knew she went to far and apologized.😅
@leoreynolds8618
@leoreynolds8618 28 күн бұрын
The ending is hilarious and got me dying laughing
@AbbyTheGoofy
@AbbyTheGoofy 4 ай бұрын
Dude that's my thoughts when someone's trying to insult me 😅
@ladybugbee
@ladybugbee Ай бұрын
LAST THING THAT COACH SAID WAS SOOO REAL AND I STAND FOR IT
@blueirony4086
@blueirony4086 26 күн бұрын
“Tell your daughter you’re proud of her” “I will” 😂😂😂 I mean, after that comeback you made ~ damn
@ethandowler4669
@ethandowler4669 Ай бұрын
That got so dark, but the ending was so wholesome 😊
@rayezzs
@rayezzs Ай бұрын
Some of my teachers should have talked to my parents like this
@Rat_Traxx_
@Rat_Traxx_ 4 ай бұрын
Love the happy ending! Haha!!
@Mat5881
@Mat5881 Ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly!! We need more of actually okay endings around!
@tuckernutter
@tuckernutter 25 күн бұрын
I cannot think of a more scathing insult/compliment than "your kid is a much better more positive person than you, why can't you be more like them?"
@NoxAtlas
@NoxAtlas Ай бұрын
Holy shit that was a savage burn
@the_spanish_inquisition_monty
@the_spanish_inquisition_monty Ай бұрын
She sounds like that was a plan😭
@bluberytoze
@bluberytoze Ай бұрын
.... And then you learn kiddo's mom is just going through an awful divorce and her husband's really rich and charismatic and has parents who are the same but they're also toxic and abusive and they want custody of the kiddo and of course some of the stress of the custody battle and divorce are leaking out but she loves her child and this was a wake up call for the mom because she realized that was actually how her husband treated her- he never felt like he could measure up to her emotionally so he treated her with callousness that she couldn't help adopting back as a defense and it took her daughter's coach to realize her acquired defective personality quirk and now she (kid's mom) is thinking about her (coach Claire) and doesnt remember the last time she was so open and honest with another human being- an almost perfect stranger- and then cant believe how sweet that stranger comes across when her daughter talks her up at dinner..... Damn. I'm a psychopath with intrusive thoughts, because I want them at dinner, dating, in a car and talking... 😂😅 Acchem. Lovely short. Love your writing, your acting is inspiring. Clearly. Lmao Edited: claire is coach and so 'claire's mom' turned into 'kiddo's mom' and 'claire' turns into 'kiddo' ever after... Heh. Also toned down the 😍.. Anyway. Good catch 😅
@mariesabine2385
@mariesabine2385 Ай бұрын
Um, you can’t just stop there, I demand multiple seasons of this show
@naheleshiriki5496
@naheleshiriki5496 Ай бұрын
Man, it was nice until you brought "and she was turned on" into the scenario. I'm all for people healing and learning from life experiences and overcoming cycles of abuse. Throwing yourself into a relationship afterwards I can tell you from my own experience is the worst thing. Leave the shipping out of it. Or not, each to their own.
@Ako-bp6gc
@Ako-bp6gc Ай бұрын
Write the fanfic. I dare you.
@kikialeaki1850
@kikialeaki1850 Ай бұрын
Claire is the coach-
@sacrilegiousboi978
@sacrilegiousboi978 Ай бұрын
When does this air on Netflix?
@innovati
@innovati Ай бұрын
This is exactly how TV show dialogue was written from 2000-2010, everyone was sarcastic and smarmy
@Maskunknown8
@Maskunknown8 Ай бұрын
The coach literally became a savage before apologizing at the end💀💀
@Sam-nz2ko
@Sam-nz2ko Ай бұрын
It's giving ✨Matilda ✨ and I love it 😂
@idkkkk572
@idkkkk572 4 ай бұрын
i said damn at the same time she did😭😭
@fromjaz
@fromjaz Ай бұрын
an uncommon story told so truthfully 😅
@savagehyphen01
@savagehyphen01 Ай бұрын
Damn! I wish someone would stand up for little black kids like this
@allyourdreamsaredead
@allyourdreamsaredead Ай бұрын
My mom never said it immediately in front of everyone. But she always complimented my progress in the car. Always asked to show her what I learned in class again. Just because some parents don’t show affection to their kids in front of you doesn’t mean they don’t do it. My mom came off as aggressive and mean to everyone just because she didn’t baby me like everyone else did with their kids, but in reality she has the biggest, warmest heart of anyone I know.
@jadapinkett1656
@jadapinkett1656 Ай бұрын
My mother is similar.
@opticalraven1935
@opticalraven1935 Ай бұрын
Exacty
@lifeboat6284
@lifeboat6284 Ай бұрын
the way you have to talk down on others parenting styles to justify the fact your mom never showed that she’s proud of you in public is astounding and you should reflect on that
@allyourdreamsaredead
@allyourdreamsaredead Ай бұрын
@lifeboat6284 I wasn’t trying to belittle other parenting styles. Sorry it came off that way. It’s just that I wasn’t the type of kid that needed that kind of reassurance. But at the end of the day my achievements were celebrated and rewarded the same my participation medals were still hung & my garbage macaroni art still made it to the fridge lol. She was a woman of few words and she was low key bullied for it by other moms no matter where we went. She didn’t act the way people feel a mom should act. But she was doing exactly what she needed to for the type of kid she had.
@tiggerpup_nz
@tiggerpup_nz Ай бұрын
@@lifeboat6284what the hell? Random comment from you. In other minds, rational people didn’t take offence to OPs comment. Most of us aren’t trying to find ways to get offended in life. You should reflect on that.
@CrazyW31rd0
@CrazyW31rd0 Ай бұрын
that would just be a common Canadian roast battle/ insult comments back and forth ( they always apologize at the end if one goes slightly too far)
@nya-linbrooksmendez6735
@nya-linbrooksmendez6735 26 күн бұрын
Even I said "Damn😧" before the mom did. Teach went off the rails with that last one😭😭! The fact it ends up in an agreement of treating the kid right and them saying they'll see each other next week... I can't😂😂🤣😭!
@pikaboubou
@pikaboubou 28 күн бұрын
The amount of times I've wanted to tell off unsupportive parents but was unable to do it because I'd lose my job. Thank you for letting me live vicariously 😂
@deanoconnor123
@deanoconnor123 4 ай бұрын
And then they kissed
@vialyn19
@vialyn19 4 ай бұрын
ive been waiting for her to post for so long thank you for posting these hilarious videos ❤️
@jeffreysherman8224
@jeffreysherman8224 27 күн бұрын
Based! Handled like real respectable men! I love this creator!
@yourstrulypengwen
@yourstrulypengwen 27 күн бұрын
So out of pocket I absolutely love this, the ending? Lmao I'm laugh crying lol😂
@doc-savage
@doc-savage 4 ай бұрын
Daaaaaaayuuuum 😮😂
@blackfoxstudios4101
@blackfoxstudios4101 Ай бұрын
Well, that went from 0 to 100 real fucking quick
@ladaleenglish6756
@ladaleenglish6756 27 күн бұрын
Its like a lifetime movie plot the whole adopting bit .
@tashaduncan5090
@tashaduncan5090 15 күн бұрын
My fourth grade teacher witnessed my mother's behavior towards me in class one day. She saw the fear in my eyes as I backed away from her. From that moment forward she always made sure I knew I was cared about.
@voidmatic
@voidmatic Ай бұрын
this has absolutely fantastic writing and delivery omfg 10/10
@trucmaryah9611
@trucmaryah9611 4 ай бұрын
So happy you’re back!!❤
@Mochi_GachaFan
@Mochi_GachaFan Ай бұрын
Bro, I said damn before the mom could-
@-phrog-
@-phrog- Ай бұрын
You definitely thought about this situation so many times I feel it's kind of sad...
@h3llolime222
@h3llolime222 Ай бұрын
yep! had two coached like this that I loved. they were brother & sister. coach beth & coach sam were the best swim coaches ever! coach sam pushed me to do my backstroke flip turn when i was scared to. coach Beth pushed me to start swimming butterfly in meets. both of those strokes soon became my best strokes along with freestyle. then I got the coaches award from sam that year. it really motivated me. it’s nice when you have a coach that supports you.
@Neda_Williams
@Neda_Williams Ай бұрын
Lol both of them are tsundere to each other.
@slashtehflygon1722
@slashtehflygon1722 29 күн бұрын
The mutual agreement at the end hit too hard
@ivanhall6482
@ivanhall6482 Ай бұрын
As a former kids tennis coach the rage towards parents is SO real
@k8egirl101
@k8egirl101 Ай бұрын
The mom was like ok this coach roasted me in less then 10 seconds... respect
@user-lk5rd6qd2q
@user-lk5rd6qd2q Ай бұрын
The way that after the kid left the smile dropped 😂
@LilMissy9315
@LilMissy9315 Ай бұрын
Lmfao I love this level of semi respectful enemy hate 😂😂
@Zoogore6777
@Zoogore6777 28 күн бұрын
It’s so true, working with kids is great just dread the parent interactions. 😂
@brynna119
@brynna119 4 ай бұрын
I’m so happy your Back!!!
@random.444
@random.444 4 ай бұрын
your back!!
@tiggerpup_nz
@tiggerpup_nz Ай бұрын
What about her back?
@99Technetium
@99Technetium 28 күн бұрын
It’s the “This whole building smells like feet“ that got me.
@MDreamerIsBi
@MDreamerIsBi 27 күн бұрын
I love arguments like this! Having a strong dislike for eachother but still being emotionally mindful enough to acknowledge when you've gone too far. Men would *NEVER*
@mariesabine2385
@mariesabine2385 Ай бұрын
I literally gasped out loud at that last one lol
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