You sure?

Lol i felt that

yeah…about that…

Nah man your mom probably doing some weird stuff

"well about 3 months you won't be" 💀

u hit it nail on head.the you gest is where they learned from their mistakes

We really were..

Ohh this☕🗿

this is so fuckn trueeeee man

bruh i swear

Wow, that hit on a diff level...this is exactly it

You are so not alone. It's okay. The Oldest where born with incredible power that the other child don't

Were basically blueprints for our younger siblings.

Literally I’m an all a’s student and I don’t even get praised for it and my brother goes and gets 70 or lower and parents praise him like he’s some kind of god or something like I got a B once and my parents were livid got all electronics taken away and wasn’t allowed to watch tv like why

For real tho I’ve only had a b once and it was the year that all the crazy distance learning stuff happened and i got an hour long lecture and my phone taken away.

yeah that is so true and right i started loving myself more when i learn that i cant depend on human but i have god ii can always depend on him but this doesn't mean that my family don't love me ofcourse they love me so much but i don't want to get my hopes up and be broken so i build a barrier and im aquarius so that is really just so aquarius aquarius biggest secret and weakness is they are really a emotional being they cry o. lot but don't like other people to see it and they don't like to tell it to other people and im just like those i pretend to be strong at the outside but i a total softy in the inside i can get hurt by the smallest thing and those little bad remark tou say about me it secretly broke my heart but pretend that i does not matter to me i only say this in this kind of platform bc i know that people don't know me and will never know how weak i am inside.

@@allisonmatriano561 True. Although the zodiac thing was too much. Zodiacs don't define personalities. I'm a Taurus, but I got a lot of traits which describe other zodiacs just perfectly. But I'm glad you aint depended on anyone anymore. ☺️

in my house im the youngest and my parents have the the " youre both amazing but youll never measure up to your older sibling " mentality lol

So true. I haven't heard more disrespectful things from anyone than my mum.

They know it's value only when it is gone

@@twinkles5114 they even care when the oldest dies aswell

boohoo big deal that you are not the favourite lmao

@@dragonbane44 yeah, it's more than that, but i guess that went over your head. guessing you're used to hearing that though lmao

Sucks to suck

Literally me

Damn bro. I’m a Middle Child My Self💀

Me:

I am talking about the middle child

Correction: most obvious lie

I mean it can be true. In my family i'm pretty sure neither of my parents like either of us. There is not a favorite cause they hate us both equally.

fr

​@@JW-452 this can be true

Real 60% of dads and 70% of moms have a fav child

I think it is important to take into consideration that children are different so they do need to be treated differently. HOWEVER, they still need to all be treated fairly with equity. If one child likes to draw, get them sketchbooks and pencils. If another likes reading get them their books. But don't give one child a brand new fabre castel professional colored pencils while the other worn hand me down books ALL. THE. TIME.

I'm the youngest, and I had the same problem. It was also really frustrating because I literally never got non-hand-me-downs until I bought myself a shirt when I was 8. I also struggled with being left out of things with an age restriction and still being told that I had everything given to me

I just talked to my elder sister about this. I was jealous cz she was pretty and she was jealous cz I got love and affection.

Wow I resonate with your message a lot, I'm the youngest child in my house and I have always seen the unrealistic expectations my mom has always put on my sister to be perfect and experience every hard thing in life first all while having to do it well. She doesn't deserve to have to deal with that all her life and I've felt she rented me since I was a child for this, I always tried to do what I could to make things more fair and let my mom know when she's being unjust to my sister just because she's the oldest, but it still isn't fair to have to grow up this way. 😢

Okay i need to show this comment to my younger sibling to make him realize smth😂😂

i mean accurate 😭😀

Ahahahahhahaha love this comment xD

True. 😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Im the middle child, my mom once said that Im the favorite child on Christmas 😂 my older brother was fuming

No truer words were spoken

🤣😂🤣😂☠️

When there’s only two there’s no middle child 🤦🏾‍♂️

@@smhqtyt4424 Bro that's the whole joke. 😒

@@smhqtyt4424 it's a general joke about siblings..

@@solus8685 obviously not

We had four of us growing up and we were all given equal concern and treatment. It's not hard. These folks complaining either had shit parents overall or are making their suffering up due to a internalized, self-inflicted inferiority complex.

You are blessed ❤❤❤

​@@MarcosIsABaritone actually in a looot of east asian societies it is fairly common for children to be treated differently....but unfarily so. Tis due to practically decades or even centuries of outdated or toxic practices where unfair discrimation continues as a cycle. It is getting better but generally tis still happening so apparently it IS hard

@@msk-qp6fn Including being treated differently solely based on age? That's interesting.

As always.

Nah in my fam its different middle isnt forgotten

An underrated comment.

@@liviatatarusanu4341 I think its a joke?

This is true

I felt for my entire life a parent for my parents. My brother instead lives in a bell jar

I feel you. Eldest of 6 😂

THIS The only time u realise is when ur younger siblings get mad and at ur parents and say they don't want them anymore and want me 2 be the replacement

Yeah pretty much the same

That's sadness

NAHH FR

I’m an only child and got blamed for EVERYTHING 😩

This needs waaaaaaay more likes

Soo... just forget about all the other kids they made that actually still need them 😅 greeeaaatt

@@brittanyanderson8195 Though that parental mentality may be read as ipso facto in the aforementioned sentiment, it's not a given, and, certainly, not a conscious choice on behalf of our parents. It's never a concerted effort to neglect and dismiss the other children OVER their "baby." It's just an animalistic response to what they recognize is the "last" of their progeny. It's the idea that if they failed the prior "attempts" (hahaha), with the "final" one they, at least, can make it right. It's kind of ludicrously, stupidly human of them. Word of advice: For those intermittent and older siblings seeking the same connection the "baby" has with their parents... engage with your parents on an intellectual or emotional level exclusive to you. And, remind them that they are still needed by asking advice, however banal or unneeded. It's about making them feel needed :)

@Marcos as pretty as all that sounds, its still lead to massive amounts of trauma for so many people (as seen by the comments section of this video). And I would think that many have tried the "engage the parent" thing and it doesn't really change much of anything. Eh but who am I to tell yall how to parent .

@@brittanyanderson8195 I'm so sorry for the dearth of affection and recognition received from your parent/s. I appreciate your sharing your experience. Your situation and others' similar would probably not benefit from my "olive branch" advice because the problem is much deeper than simply not being a parent's "favorite" or rather a parent's pet. In my advice, I was explicating the youngest sibling is given a leniency and freedom of expression and a more friend-like report from whichever parent because the parent has finally learned from their mistakes when they were overly strict and anxious and emotionally awkward with the older siblings. My example, unclear though I may have been, meant to imply the other siblings were still given attention, care and an affection (however not as effusive as given the baby!) But your experience is one of a neglect and dismissiveness, amounting to an emotional trauma that continues to inform a self-devaluation. Your condition and others with similar experiences would benefit from one on one therapy, and, eventually, if your parent has matured with a refined sense of emotionality, having a paired session.

Ikr, darn, I need the timestamp for me to keep looping

@@heyyo3746 lol I'm I'm oldest and this is so true

Lol I’m a middle child but we have 8 siblings so I don’t blame my stepparents for sometimes getting pissed off by us lol

Not everyone has 3 kids tho.

𝖤𝗑𝖺𝖼𝗅𝗒 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝖽𝖾𝖿𝗂𝗇𝖾𝗌 𝗆𝖾💀

There is always hope

i’m the youngest but we don’t got a middle child

Ok im the youngest 🤣

I’m the youngest and *that’s not true 95% of the time*

@@jellyfrog5907 same

Omg same with me, except I'm the youngest.

True

we are the guinea pigs lol😂

I’m the only child

@@Alista.on.pawsx3 We're lucky, but only partially.

@@Alista.on.pawsx3 same but I’m suffering bc mom is forcing to do chores and get straight A’s

Me when I was the only chilb : I wish I had a little siblings Me. Now :I take that back

I can relate to him

That turned dark real fast

That would be me.

Faaaaaahhhhh k

Same except I’m the middle child

Me 😥😥😥

Oldest child*

@@eshalasim8662 yeah me too man

Nah middle child gets away with every thing

@@ljtheone r/woooosh

Same this is so accurate

Seriously- 🙂

@TigerEyes same LoL 🙂😂

When the oldest & youngest fighting for the favourite child title, we middle just minding our own business 🤣

@@Sweet_Like_A_Jack_Rose like yeah, why to even bother at this point 🥱😂

💀for real.. I've never lived with both of my parents because they got divorced when i was 2 and my mom don't want us so our late dad became sole caregiver..so I've never actually experienced this sort of thing but i get it.. because i do have similar experience where they were mad at me for thinking my parents wanted a boy when they had me , but then I'd hear em talk about how my dad has always wanted a boy, how he was sooo happy when he finally had a boy after he married my step mom ,he even modified his motorbike so my younger half brother could sit comfortably.. and they're mad at me for thinking such thing 🤡 The reason why i even thought that way was because of that motorbike and so many other things around the house that has been modified after my lil bro was born 😬 And i was slowly becoming invisible in the family,but they hate it when i have such thoughts ,maybe it makes em feel like they're bad or something

@@LeNoir2411 bruh the fact they don’t want you to feel anything like that is bc they know it’s true and makes them bad ppl, they wanna look like the perfect family and trying to silence you even tho they in the wrong, I’m so sorry girl 😭😭

@@jinphany. yeah ikr, but I've learned to feel bad for thinking such thing and saying bad stuff about em so i can't help it

Oh my god I’m so sorry you all .... this is horrifying

@@jinphany. same opinion here. Sounds like she is an insightful teenager who is being gaslit.

You know what I’m the middle child and honestly my parents like all of me and my brothers the same

That's not true ma brother ( middle child ) is my parents favourite while me ( youngest ) I'm not even in the talk's of favourite

Lol I’m the favourite child 👧

I’m the oldest child but I have a friend who is the middle child

Not me actually crying in the corner as a middle child. They really forgot about the middle kid

Thank you❤❤

I felt this way too much, thank you for the representation.

Wtf happened the same to me (I’m the older)

That’s common and causes a lot of trauma (as you were rejected for being you). Sorry that happened ❤

Rough isn't it!?

now i want to know if you are the oldest or the youngest

@@enriconaves6501 oldest

@@Scaramoucheswifeteehee oh no

Me too oldest

I feel it

True, us middle ones are living w/o parents out here

I’m also middle child then and click the like in my you know the 👍 if you have a great life

True

@@niharikatolia1101 for real

Well, you shouldn't be rewarded for doing well at school unless you're going above and beyond. Are you outstanding in any real capacity? Outside of that, it's perfectly OK to ask your parents for some intimate time when you want it. Make sure they know you need it/them.

​@@MarcosIsABaritone Here is the thing; when favoritism kicks in, the standards become start to apply differently, resulting in the same straight As giving one child a pat in the back while another gets an iphone. I always say to parent figures that children will be generally content if the parents truly treat their childrens fairly albeit differently. If the children are discontent and even distrust you, I say yup you guys are definitely doing something wrong and it is more common than you'd expect on a global scale.

@@msk-qp6fn Pat on the back vs iPhone as reward? That's a rather exaggerative example, no? Look, the thing is, in a lot of these examples, there are too many other variables not discussed. Not to mention so much is about perception and psychological and emotional factors.

Of course

Nah other way round

100% true

Of course..

SUPER FACTS

Im a middle and im the favorite lol

@@lama7535 lol same

@@lama7535 lucky you 😩

@@lama7535 Tell me your ways, with tears rn

@@lama7535 THATS SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SO LUCKY- I can confirm that as a Middle child

*Sends video* Lol this is so funny, I bet mum isn’t like this! Mum: Yeah nah, your younger sibling is still better, love you!

😂

💀💀💀💀

@@mermaidqueen6294 bruh exactly

I feel betrayed 💀

Is your mum, by chance, Molly Weasley?

Yoooo 💀

My mom also has 8 kids and before she had me (I’m the youngest) she got a tattoo of all my siblings first letters inside a heart. Then I was born and there was no space left to put in a V (since she made it before I was even planned), so she always says that the pointy part of the heart is the V 🥹❤️ Edit: Accidentally wrote ‘had’ instead of ‘has’

Lol brutal

@@vicki70 aww 🥰

Try being an only child

OMG army@Jungkook’s thighs X Beomgyu’s Thighs

“All animals are equal, just some more than others” -George Orwell Btw good reference!

Literally there is no need to be like "OmG aRmYyYyyYy" more than half of the world are armys, if those armys were fighting for Ukraine the world would've been 10x better

"I love all my children equally, just not at the same time"

So dang true, my mom always says that but she gave more food to my older bro when I was growing up…🙄

And when it is family gathering, the eldest child will be the babysitter to their little cousin/nephew/niece

Honestly, as an oldest child you’re just the free maid

Fr my mom literally said that I'm the "emergency parent" for my sister

Lol 😆

That's why the cameraman is invisible, the cameraman is the middle sibling

Hahahahhaha loolllll

Precisely. We hold it all together with love, confusion and envy.

I am thinking if they were bfb/bfdi characters the oldest one would be ✨snowball✨ and the youngest would be ✨grassy✨ and the middle child is ✨non-existy✨

92 likes and no reply lemme fix dat real quick

I feel your pain😢❤

Yaaaasssss

And all the youngest siblings who had the opposite experience. 😐

Right dude

Same here. I eventually had to accept it the way it is. Its fate bro

Ikr 🥺

No bc me and my sister (the middle child) and our uncle pranked my mom by saying we left her at the store. My mom believed us and laughed.

My brother got left in the car and said he had a nightmare about being left on a bus lol

I was left at one part of a theme park and they didn’t notice for 30mins. Of course, it was my fault for not paying attention 🙄

@@DebbieAkano left at a theme park! That must’ve been so scary

😂😂

LOL😂😭

Love the Yanfei pfp

no

💀💀💀

Lmaoo

Born to lose

As a middle child fellow i will agree with u

I can relate

I am middle child but also the only girl in my family-

True and not true. Yes you keep having kids until you are satisfied. But with how the family dynamics are and feel and until you can't handle any more kids lol. Not because the children you already got turned out bad 😅 and your tryin for a 'good one'

@@Gods1princess1 you missed the joke-

They were only satisfied when the young one wore a Transformers shirt

My parents want another one just so they can play with a cute baby

That's the reel Amalia we watched it

man mf the youngest is wearing a Decepticon shirt tell me you WOULDN'T wanna be his friend

For us it's different. The oldest is like the youngest you mentioned, the middle is the smartest and I, the youngest, is just average and a good child

Yeah no it’s usually the opposite.

How dare you good sir I worked 3 jobs to take care of my mom after the oldest kicked me out and she left with me after we beat the shit out of each other when I was 15 and he was 28 and in the navy he threw me over a couch anyways I digress I do alot to help my mom out some of us youngests would literally take a fuckin bullet for our mom's no questions then get up and break the dudes neck that tried to shoot her.

Mines even expect me to do some parenting to my younger brother.

That’s abuse and child neglect

dude that was literally me for so long

Im the older one but am the passive sib. My family got used to it 🤣

Im 30 and its still the same so don't expect change

Fr like bruh, you don't have to sugar-coat your words. Just say the truth

Mom of four here to let you know that I vibe differently with each of mine. I love them all and appreciate their differences. I love them the same but differently. Though they each think the other is my fave. TBH it kinda hurts.

im the youngest child, and i honestly just wish my parents would treat my older brother well.. i try to not be too spoiled and try to give a few things i get from my parents to my brother because he truly deserves it, hes an amazing brother but my parents dont care about him..

@@cc67-94 that’s tough and so unfair to both of you, especially your brother.

Generally the oldest child isn't the favorite because they did everything right and they listened because they had undivided attention. They don't take it as a compliment when their parents just think that they should and that they are capable. But it is a huge compliment because that tells you that your parents don't have to worry about you cuz you're going to be all right the other ones they worry about LOL

Oh my same just Im middle child and my youngest sibling is my mom fav and my eldest uuh my grandmas fav

@@beastly.warner haha. agree

"For the way I hurt yea"😭

@@sammanithakshila8720 you talk to her,when we were together!

@@bindugowda7291 loved you at your worst but didn't matter

I got a younger brother to carry on the name. I'm just a name but it better than an inheritance better than a bad name which ...

Nope I never will because I'm the favorite and if you dare to blackmail me I will tell our mom to get a fresh belt

Been there.

Lmaoo

@@AB_Evans HONESTLY

@Nuryn cholex burn I hell

🥲 literally me yesterday....

Really

It's all moms

@@JacksonC62 really

It’s ALL Mom’s. I’m the oldest in a Southern family and I was never the favorite.

Yeah true.. but to be exact i think moms favourite child is son.. if you are girl.. and got brother either older or younger one.. she will definitely favour her son more

True

We are both boys and as the eldest I can tell you it is all the same. Glad to know I am not the only one 😌

even in K-Dramas, you see moms loving their loser young sons more than their accomplished elder daughters, so this seems to be legit in the culture. Hell, my mom and dad love my little brother more than me, and my dad expected me to be born a boy to the point he brought cars and toys meant for a boy before I was born. He even tipped the nurse to make sure they tell him I was a boy when everybody knew I was going to be a girl. His "conniption" when I came into this world will be my greatest victory because I love every moment of being a woman :D

Oh yes💀

thank you! can asian women stop pretending that our (their) cultures are not misogynistic. The worst are actually the mothers and guess who grows up to be a bigoted misogynistic woman that prefers her son over her daughter? Yup, the eldest daughter.

I guess my parents got it right the first time because they stopped at one 😅

there's 5 of us. 1st (The oldest) : college, med schooling. 2nd (Me) : Chores chores chores. taking care of our 5yo lil sis, always the one who does chores. 3rd (lil bro) : can't even take out the trash. A literal crybaby. always complains when he does ONE chore, he says this "BAKIT AKO PALAGI YUNG NA-UUTOSAN?!? [WHY IS IT ALWAYS ME THAT DOES SO MUCH CHORES?!?] -Translation 4th (5yo sis) : always want to be on her phone. even at night. even if it's 1am IN THE MORNING. SHE EVEN STAYED UP TILL 2AM?! LIKE BROOO I'M SO JEALOUS RN.. WISH I COULD STAY UP THAT LATE💀💀 5th (baby sis) : has a huge bump on her forehead (my fault.. did get a lil beating when that happened- uhm.. yeah- ) likes phones. she has her own phone.

@@Klaire430_ yeesh

im not spoiled- im happy with everything i have-

@@Klaire430_ WHOA BABY HAS HER OWN PHONE??

Well, yeah some of us are not spooked ^^

I honestly think it's because they decided they won't have any more, so they want to milk the enjoyment of the final baby 😆 Last baby smells, last unconditional sweetness, last cuddles and hand holding. It's annoying growing up, but looking back it was kind of sweet 🥰

I have one child. So she’s simultaneously my guinea pig and my spoil-em-rotten. Lol

Welp guess I’m ✨different✨ coz I’m the lab rat for my parents

And then when we grow up we become rusted gold

My younger sister was mostly raised by my sister and me because my parents didn't have the time to play with her. So they were less strict but only because they didn't have the time to care about it.

Me too 😂😂😂😂

Lol she was the middle child the mom and the oldedr child

that's... a really derk Joke

Middle is horrible! Sorry. Atleast the oldest is called the first born!! They feel good!!

Except mine I see. I'm the youngest and the only girl. My mums hardly ever there for me

@@user-tw8df2xb8g I'm the oldest and feel like shit lmao

@@user-tw8df2xb8g who says we feel good? Working like slaves and we're the unplanned kids😑

well I’m the middle child who do all that even if the straight a is not always and I’m the préfères of my mother but my father love more my little brother because he is a boy and he do football

Yeah but only if you are a male That's irony!

If your Asian mother in 2023 is still abiding by that sexist son as a prize bullshit, she's duummmbb.

Yup

Bro fr that’s how my mom is😭 I’m the experiment here

Exactly Eldest daughter card is useless, even if the daughter is smart, got good job and got no bad track record

They probably hate that you don't know how to use the word literally like a functioning human.

Don’t live for parents expectations you will be the most successful 💪

I thikn this happens because the first kid gets 10000x more care as a small kid then all the kids coming after. Like kid 1: Its glass, read all the books, know everything to be just alright etc etc. Kid 3 chewing on soap, meh hell probably be ok.

@@ahall9839 Huh?

@@irisefidia9139 Wha...??

I don't understand? If you are an only child how come your parents have a different favourite child??

@@gradientrose6573 It's because sometimes when you're the only child, your parents don't have preferences anymore............ Edit: so technically, they don't have a favorite child since they see your face everyday then they don't have a preference, but for others................ their favorite child is the adopted younger one :l Edit 2: plus one of my cousins got her father the chicken as their own favorite child........ that's also me with my dad's dog................... we're both the only child

Their favorite child is a child from someone else 😂

So relatable

@@LOGic_InFuture2806 woah you wrote so much just to explain one person 😂😂💀💀

😂😂😂

Sending you where?

ilyou're pfp

@@simenlofthus1721 thank youuuuuu

@@ta3105 aLaSkA

Like a politician!

Your mum is a smart human

“ youre my fav child cause your not my fav child”

W mom

Yoink

That's your parents being bad parents, abusive even , not you being the middle child.

Me too 😂

Well I'm youngest, i don't have a middle sibling....

I can 100% relate to this 😅😅

Lol older siblings are more likely to have narcissistic traits lol. My older sister does this to me. Insecurities, projection, and wanting dictatorship lol. It's so silly

​@@jinarose5374 Maybe they just don't want to be associated to younger siblings in any way.

Parents have expectations of the youngest child?!?! 😉🤔

@@katherinebuchanan9350 Yes, as a comparison to the first. Parent’s comment to the first one: “Even your younger sibling can do it/is better than you. Why can’t you surpass that? Good job, younger one”. A token one but yes.

​@@jinarose5374 you are right, and I say this as the eldest sibling. But these types of problems are usually created if the parents are narcissistic themselfs. Although the youngest child could high likely also become a high functioning narcissist because they got praised too much for nothing or got little to no directions in life.