DONT READ MY NAMES..

Just watching this hurts me.

@Don't Read My Profile Photo don’t get a job

Yup, I'd be looking for every excuse to leave.

Same man

DONT READ MY NAMES..😑

@@MbitaChizi Why do you have to be annoying? Go away, find an hobby, get a gf, a bf or just a friend. Watch anime, a movie, get a video game...

Huh, can't relate to the last part.

Maybe get more understanding friends. What even is with those people?

@@lohjutsulegend easier said than done

My reply to this kinda peer-pressuring me into wanting to stay at a party is basically "Yes you're absolutely right - and I choose to not be here" and then leave. If they then want to call me a party pooper for choosing not to be pressured into shit I never even wanted to do in the first place, then the lot of them can go screw themselves on a rusty spike for all I care. xD

"them never letting him make his own choices" They literally never stopped him even once, but sure.

@@grabble7605 They begged him to stay and such... Um, how is that not stopping him-

@@grabble7605 yes they did even though they just called out his excuses

They didn't force him into anything. Gotta learn to stand for yourself and leave when you want, no matter what they say. I've learned to do that and it's such a freeing experience. - I'm going home - But why, stay longer - I've made up my mind, have a good night

they made one chad mould and then never felt the need to make another. Boys been using it ever since.

Proof that every male in a male friend group all are the same person with slight differences?

I wasn’t convinced until he said he kissed one of the boys classic boy time

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Genuinely forgot they're the same people at this point, I've just accepted it

Hmm, 🤔 seems sketchy....

he did other skteches before piano sktechtes tho check his channel uploads

He's going places? With two broken legs?

Probably home

The ER

i love how we all keep saying they when it's literally one person lol

@@TheManaMarioBros Imagine reading a book and saying all the characters are the same person because their dialogue is written by the same author

@@TheRenegade... People do this ALL the time as a way to justify bad takes they had about a story.

Spoonies, aka people with health conditions that limit the amount of energy and things you can do in a day, would understand. A lot of autistic or ADHD people would as well, since we can burn out socially pretty quickly if we are trying to act "normal" and masking our natural behaviours in order to fit in

People do understand that. Just nobody actually says things like that in reality.

@@grabble7605 look up spoon theory, it's a genuine thing that was made up to describe how ppl with health conditions need to budget our energy so that people who have never experienced it can be more understanding

It goes both ways though. If you say - "Allright, I like you guys but I just need to be alone for the rest of the day", they'll let you go. If they don't, you go anyway. Either you just found out your friends are fucking dickheads, or they just found out you actually mean what you say, instead of acting to get attention. Both outcomes are perfectly fine.

Just to add, that's coming from a man in his late twenties that has just left a party early (read: just in time to recharge) for the first time in his life. It's hard, but it gets you the respect you deserve from the right people.

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@@MbitaChizi SCREW THIS, I'M READING IT ANYWAY...

@@Baburun-Sama Bubble Bobble.. man. That brings back some good memories.

@@greed94 Hm, I know it.

Lol

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This entire comment is me lol

A month and a half tho…?

@@youngsqueeks Depends on the party and people around and how tired you've got during. But yeah, month and a half is not that rare

@@dariusz.9119 clearly I’m not that much of an introvert lol. Whatever makes you happy

I was looking for this comment

@@HungryLilDragon same 😂

I'm ignorant, what's the significance of this? 😅

@@mivvymakesmusic two entirely different songs. Look them up! I highly recommend Smoke on the Water

@@VaellinTheBard Okay thanks, I thought there was a hidden connection between the songs, maybe a play of words on their titles 😄

Alex!

You too? Welcome to the club Tay, being social is difficult, but we try 😁

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ok

no you're chocolate

WHAT IN GOD’S NAME ARE YOU DOING HERE MAN?

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Slowly?

Isn’t that true

He’s been insane for a while, hasn’t he?

You know for a while ai thought his mental health was recovering . . . then these last few videos have been more insane than your uncle Ted.

Love this comment 😁

Why don’t you come over this weekend? Having a small get together. The Boys would love to hear that story!

No pressure, either, you won’t have to remember to tell the story, I’ll remind you to!

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@@MbitaChizi You have multiple names?

@@MbitaChizi I looked at ur profile. 1. I’m pretty convinced it’s a rickroll 2. Please don’t spam the comments 3. It’s not funny

HEY

@@saramaynichol9533 sorry for breaking the news to you this way lol

@@bexand93 🥺😭

I feel what you wrote in my soul. And I also have been learning this the last years - but have a long way to go still. This also happens with family; I don't want to be rude so end up sacrificing myself. Thanks for sharing and advising!!

this describes me so well 😭

What’s ambivert? Sorry my vocabulary is really bad

Definitely me, its difficult trying to explain to ppl why I'm just tired and I don't hate you because I'm not responding, and I honestly wish you would let me have my 5 months of recharge in peace

@@hellfire6231 it's sort of like in between extrovert and introvert! the meaning might vary depending on who you ask though

@@noelle4159 ohhh, thank you 🙏

Is that rude though? I guess it depends on how you say it (or your friend group) 🤷‍♀️

I remember when my social battery ran out so violently that when my sister asked if I wanted to play Signs (an intensely social game), I accidentally dropped the mask and said, "No!" rather than, "Thanks, but I'd rather not. :)"

@@Lisa_Flowers say it like someone who’s tiredly telling their friend they want to go home from work and that’s basically what I did

​@@anepicotter4595 wait, you can _do_ that? And it _works?_ Are you sure? Because telling them I'm exhausted and desperately want to go home doesn't seem to get my customers to leave my bar... Like, I literally still had people hanging out and trying to get drinks from me _an hour and a half_ after I stopped serving and started closing up for the night, tonight. FTR, I can't exactly just kick them out, it's a hotel lobby bar, so y'know, my options beyond saying, "Sorry, but I'm closed and no longer serving," are limited.

It even had the bleep sound hahaha

Seriously. Don't fake people to scam them. People expect to meet someone they admire yet don't realize they're being scammed. Also no one likes a scammer. What would the people you know say?

Autistic mood (not implying you are as well, just that it's relatable for people who are like me)

That's less of a social battery, more so an anxiety problem that needs to be dealt with.

@@kenz2756 no? When you're autistic it can mean that social interactions take more energy if you're actively trying to compensate for your brain working differently (called masking, especially if you're trying to pretend you aren't autistic in order to fit in) because you have to pay close attention to body language, tone, and phrasing and then analyze it to figure out what they're feeling and trying to communicate it instead of intuitively getting it. And meeting new people means learning how to read their specific body language and tone when speaking which takes effort, as well as the uncertainty of whether or not they will dislike you because you're different. And a lot of us will rehearse things beforehand or stick to people/topics that we know well because it takes less effort and less processing of things in the moment. So when those interactions that you're prepared for and comfortable with start to run dry, you might not have the energy to seek out other people/topics/activities. We can also be really bad at ending conversations, though that's partly my ADHD as well, so if we can't figure out how to leave politely we can end up super drained from staying past the point of discomfort and fatigue. Sensory overload can also build up at gatherings, and being at one that you don't want to be at in the first place makes all of this more difficult. Sure, people with social anxiety can feel similarly, but I've experienced that and it's a very different kind of drained/panicked as compared to autistic social burnout. With social anxiety you get worked up or burnt out because your brain is going too fast, your nervous system is overactive, and you feel like you're being judged for how you're acting or how you look. Which can build up into a panic when you run out of ways to cope. But with social anxiety you are going to start out already panicking tbh if you're at a gathering that someone forced you to attend. If you only start to panic partway through when you realize that you've already gone through all of the interactions that you feel comfortable with (and/or have mentally prepared for previous to the event), then it's less likely to be social anxiety. Or rather, it could be social anxiety but it's likely *caused* by being neurodivergent and knowing that if you don't put in effort and stick to what you know then you may stick out (due to past negative experiences and social rejection due to atypical behavior which is natural for you)

@@kenz2756 I think I'm mainly feeling defensive because of how you phrased this, though. It felt like you were implying I'm not autistic, or that this isn't something autistic people experience, or we need to be fixed or as you said "dealt with" (because I've gotten this a lot, screw Autism Speaks and their ableism). Even if you're just trying to express that social anxiety is something that needs support and treatment, which I agree with, the phrasing used feels harsh and unsympathetic. Saying something needs to be "dealt with" has a lot of negative connotations and also, to me, implies that the person with the condition or behaviour being referred to is at fault for feeling how they do and just need to deal with it. If that wasn't your intention, I apologize for getting defensive and making assumptions. I have a lot of negative experiences with people being hurtful and not understanding when it comes to me being autistic, ADHD, having depression and anxiety, and also my physical disabilities. So I'm a bit touchy about the subject

@@Alex-fc8xn Doesn't autism need to be dealt with though? the same way needing glasses needs to be dealt with

😭

I wish someone had taught me how to set boundaries when I was young.

Hey, how did it go?

@@kittykitties4220 I resisted breaking my own legs, and it was less terrible than anticipated, but still pretty exhausting. This coming weekend will be the first actual break I get from people since the road trip, so I'm planning on sequestering myself in my room all weekend and talking to no one. It will be glorious. Thanks for asking 😊

despacito

thats not encouraging, im not even that old and my battery drains very quickly

Hmm, i don't think that's entirely true. Lots of introvert teenagers and younger adults often adopt an antisocial persona, in a misanthropic way which is bad. As people get older usually they become more adaptable and get rid of the misanthropy, you know, they learn how to deal. People don't simply grow less and less tolerant.

and now as a 21 year old, you just wanna sit down, open up a couple of beers, and just talk about your life choices with the boys.

Social butterflies are extraverts and don't spontaneously become introverted as they age. An extroverts social battery is FILLED by being around others, not drained. Do you mean introverts stop pretending to be social butterflies as they age?

This is a perfect comment

Okay extrovert

You don’t need to be a boy to love boy time

No she means that the only difference between her and the video is that she isn’t a boy and hasn’t broken her legs 😂😂

@@peachyking1534 thank youuuu

@@peachyking1534 Yeah I know I just wanted an excuse to use the phrase "boy time"

10000000 feet tall

@@cozyvrc what doesn’t kill you makes you taller

@@saramaynichol9533 indeed

@@saramaynichol9533earlier today I watched one of his shorts where he says this exact sentence and then just now I’m going through old emails and I see this, it was foreshadowing all along

No, it means you care about your own wellbeing and you don't let selfish people and social norms stop you from taking care of yourself.

I laughed so hard at this.