My girlfriend “what are you watching?” Me: “a grown man is tucking me in , go back to bed.”

I was attacked recently and having a male presence feel comforting and not threatening was so nice. Thank you for making me feel safe in a time so scary.

I separated from my abusive husband recently and am going through the most devastating time of my life. I found this video two months ago, and it brought me to tears. Since then, your videos have become the only thing that can calm my mind and cure my insomnia. You make my loneliness and fear melt away, and I fall asleep smiling. You remind me that gentle men exist. Thank you so much for what you do, dear friend.

For a guy who looks so tough, you're incredibly relaxing and gentle! Felt super chill

As a man myself, it's so so sweet to have another man be so gentle and supportive. I never thought i needed the company of someone who doesn't even know me. Thank you Mr Gentleman. You really did make me sleep easy knowing you were there.

You saved my life tonight. Literally. Thank you for telling me I'm stronger than I think. You said every single word I needed to hear. To save me and made me remember my kids. Thank you

Honestly mate, you're one of the bravest fellas out there I've scrolled in the comments, seeing some truly heartbreaking things, and you.. you simply answer nicely, doing that has a weigh on someone's heart so I'm just saying, i have a lot of respect for ya and what you've done

As an SA survivor, videos like these always surprise me. I almost never watch male asmrtist, but ones like you are the exception. My progress has a multitude of causes, and videos like this are a big part of it. Thank you

I remember when this dude posted his first ASMR video, now look. He puts so much effort and quality into these videos, yet I feel like he's highly unappreciated. Keep up the good work.

It's something about a big strong man being soft and gentle that is soooo soothing and safe feeling. Thank you for existing and making this kind of content!!! ❤

I don’t know if this was intended for a male, but having a genuine caring friend , even if only in a video feels amazing, thank you , thank you very much

Isn’t it amazing that hearing another human being saying supportive and caring things in a soothing way can shift your mood and make you feel safe? I need to do this more for my friends and family.

Can I just say, this dude has one of the most beautiful, warm and friendly looking smiles I have ever seen on a person. It just makes you feel better instantly. Thanks man, for everything you do. I love all your videos, they always make me feel better after a stressful nights work. Lots of Love form Australia.

As a dude myself, I've always listened to female asmr videos. But damn this is so good. Thank you brother.

you have a very comforting "guardian angel" energy. thank you for this video

I’m a guy, but there’s something particularly soothing about a buffed guy being so tranquil. Very wholesome, great quality, instantly subbing bro.

Man. I wish I had a male presence in my life that would just keep me company and give some physical attention without taking it as me being interested because I let them play with my hair or hug me for a while. Videos like these bring me so much solace. Thank you

Having to deal with cancer and then having to go through the emotional roller coaster of my dad saying he was cutting me off (not money wise- just out of his life) before turning around and being like “ haha that was funny- alright good talk” Your voice calms me down so much. Even though my dad said he was only joking and didn’t mean anything he said- I’m out here fighting my emotions and soul from tearing myself into nothing. I know this is a really silly comment and maybe I’m just emotional and stressed. But thank you genuinely- I always come to your videos when I’m down and even now- your voice and kindness is helping me calm down from the emotional turmoil rn.

Grew up with a father that never cared for my emotions or struggles. This made me feel like I wasn’t being neglected- I felt so safe and loved ❤ Thank you for making this!

It's new years eve and I've been up all night trying not to have a panic attack... for some reason nothing has calmed me down tonight, my insomnia is up the wall and I just can't freaking sleep. I clicked on this and finally felt immediate calm for the first time all day. Thank you so much for this, sir!

30 seconds in, I realized no one has ever treated me this way and started crying

Dark backgrounds asmr videos are a plus for those who wants to relax and sleep. Thank you :) Also love your slow gentle hands movements.

it's genuinely surprising to be comforted by a male that isn't trying to get into my pants or trying to get something out of me. It makes me confused, but this is very healing for me. Thank you for all that you do for these people online

If you have children, they are the luckiest kids alive. If you have a partner, it's the luckiest person alive. Everyone deserves a father and partner like you.

Thank you for using some of the precious hours of your life doing this. To me it is genuinely extraordinary. Sharing your own observations and generosity and honesty with us makes me feel pretty humble. I hope you ate well today.

My little kitten was asleep in front of the screen, until I put this on and she's now intensely following and listening for a while when you pet the camera, then dozing off again. She's a rescue, I want to believe she understands what you're saying 💙

i just lost my dog yesterday in a horrible way, and it’s hard to go to sleep cuz my mind won’t stop picturing it. thanks for this, it’s really comforting

Just at the start of the video I started crying because I recently lost my forever friend bc he committed suicide and I barely been eating, sleeping, or doing anything and this video made me cry and relaxed thank you for helping me today I was on the edge to leaving this world until I came across this video thank you so much❤

Omgg the gentle whispers, slow hand movements, gentle brushing, dark background, 1h30 length…. I am so grateful for this video ❤😊🫶😴

I suffer from multiple forms of anxiety including PTSD, General Anxiety, Panic Disorder, and Social Anxiety. I can get up to 15 panic attacks in a single month due to the overwhelming nature of all of these anxiety problems. You’ve made me feel instantly calm which isn’t easy. I can’t thank you enough! 🙏

This reminds me of the time my, (now husband), boyfriend and I were in a car wreck. I was really shaken up (physically mostly fine). We were at his friend's house and we were both trying to just calm down and feel okay, and crying a little. Then randomly his friend walks in the room quietly with a tiny puppy! We had no idea there was a dog in his house, it was such a sweet thing to do, and a nice distraction ❤

I dont think Ive ever had such nourishing words of kindness, encouragment and care spoken to me in my whole life. I didnt know i wanted this in my own personal life so much. Just to be comforted.

As someone who isn’t comfortable AT ALL around men for trauma reasons. I couldn’t stand male Asmr videos. I felt…I guess too intimidated….too intimate. He’s honestly the first one I could *tolerate* at first. I kinda forced myself to watch more and I’ve gotten more comfortable. I think it’s the fact that he keeps his voice at a consistent lower whisper. Which I think doesn’t trigger(bad trigger) me as much. I still can’t keep eye contact for very long but I’m trying. Edit/PS: I also like that he doesn’t sexualize anything which is something some Asmrtists do. It makes thing feel more platonic and like I have more “control”.

I have never felt more comforted by a man in my entire life, thank you, im literally in tears 😭 ❤️

I hate how helpful this is. Im crying, thank you for the comfort.

I have to say I clicked on this video by accident but for some reason I was like “ eh we’ll see” and I’m so glad I did I’ve watched a few videos now and they are so very soothing and comforting and such beautiful quality.

Just lost my cat of 17 yrs today. This was calming and helped me stop crying for the first time in awhile. Thank you

Been fighting that "fight or flight" for years when it comes to ASMR, as much as I enjoy it ( typing difficulty even now so please pardon, lots of mistakes) this one is very close and comforting. Please do more. On the autism spectrum it's a rare case but I and my niece enjoy these. 💝

finding such a comforting, gentle, quiet male presence is something very strange to me, but exactly what i need in this moment. i’ve been struggling with anxiety/panic attacks & intrusive thoughts & take ages to fall asleep. but i already know i’ll fall asleep fast to this! it’ll probably become part of my bedtime routine 💌 thank you so much for posting this & showing me men can be deeper & kinder & gentler than i ever imagined

When I first clicked on your video I felt triggered by my experiences from previous men that looked like you. But hearing your warm words and soft assurances is seriously reprogramming my brain. Thank you, I needed this!

I just wanted to thank you for doing this video. 5 years ago January my Mother passed. Friday I made the painful decision to pull the life support for my Dad and he passed. Your words are healing, soothing, and diminishes the pain for a moment. Thank you.😪😪😪

I’m not sure if you know this, but I believe you have a natural intuition of what people need to hear in order to truly relax after a hard day and that simple gift of intuition provides so much comfort and security. Even if it’s only for a little while. Your kindness shows it’s true and beautiful colors in this video. Thank you for your contribution to the ASMR community. Thank you for your time and commitment to helping others relax and/or sleep. You’re a gift to this world. Never forget that. ❤ also I don’t want you as just a friend. I want to adopt you as family 😂 what would I give to have such a kind and caring sibling?

For me seeing a non threatening man is rare and im glad youre one of the good ones ❤

I stumbled across a male ASMR artist and never in a million years would I have thought it would be so amazing! I've always preferred female voices but this gentleman is absolutely amazing. The affirmations are wonderful. Will definitely be listening to some more. Happy holidays ❤️

If I had to live on a desert island for the rest of my life and could pick only one ASMR channel, it would definitely be yours my friend. It’s pure magic, every time it helps me to fall asleep peacefully, your words, gentle movements, soft sounds, length, background, everything is perfect. Thank you so much for creating this real safe space. 💝

This man right here. This absolute legend. I've listened to ASMR after ASMR, and this beast of a man, soft as a kitten, can soothe us better than the majority of women who claim they can put you to sleep. I'm a guy, and this is hella relaxing. You sir, are a legend. ❤I wish you great luck on your adventures.

I needed to feel safe and protected last night and you gave that to me. All worries vanished. You’re wonderful. Thank you.

How do you know people need this? Thank you for taking the time to be so kind. I really appreciate the warm expression. Genuinely the best ASMR video I've found to let me feel safe enough to sleep. Doesn't feel like you are alone with the camera. 😊

Sir you got me crying when you said (it's ok I am here now). i love your content and it always make me shed some tears on the way you talk to us.❤

After finding out I lost another family member and not being told about the service tomorrow until today... Having some kind of calming force helps. Thank you, really.

You were made for this. This is a BEAUTIFUL life purpose of yours...helping people to literally reprogram their minds and nervous systems into safety. Truly extraordinary. You're a star. Keep going.

Thanks. I like that you are keeping your tone comforting and not seductive. Ive had issues with panic attacks and nightmares recently and since Im a teen no one gives me comfort like this.

I think the lighting is one of my favorite things about your videos!!! Very underrated and very relaxing. It’s perfect because it’s dark for sleep and there’s not much blue light due to the yellower tint. It’s perfect

Blank space for anyone who needs it! Everyone get some rest, sweet dreams ❤

I don't know what we did to deserve your hardwork man but it's so well appreciated 🙏. I'm new to this channel and I gotta say this is the stuff I've been looking so long for. I find a lot of asmr artists don't really know how to talk softly enough and but this is perfect.

It’s very rare a man makes me feel safe and loved. So thank you! this is so healing ❤

Omg dark backgrounds are so under appreciated and under used in the ASMR community. 💙💙💙 love this!

This person is soooo kind ❤ I feel so safe. Reminded me of a father comforting a child.

He has such kind, expressive eyes and a warm smile. His videos really make me feel safe and comforted. I deal with frequent bouts of insomnia often triggered by stress and his videos put me at ease and help me sleep. :) Thank you, kind Sir!

I like how calm he is… I suffer from ptsd and this incredible gentleman can calm me down just like that that’s both amazing and impressive 😊

Thank you for the slow gentle movements. So relaxing. (None of the mouth clicking which I find irritating.)

Thank you for being so relaxing, you're one of the only KZfaq channels I come back to for comfort and relaxation. You have made me feel a lot better with my anxiety lately and I appreciate it. Take care mate 🙂

I was assaulted, and you helped me feel better....I'm healing

Idk how you sensed my pain, but dang. The way I burst into tears after hearing your kind words because i'm going through a rough patch. Thank you for this video it really helped me out.❤

I absolutely ❤️❤️❤️ the rain shower in the background …together with his whispers omg it’s just a perfect match

Потрясающе.колоссальное ощущение вашего присутствия .спасибо огромное за мурашки .

Heres some empty space if anyone needs it ✨ Goodnight 🌌🌠🌜

I had a very intense panic attack right before I landed on this video. Your soothing voice and encouraging words helped lull me into a safe sleep. Thank you from the bottom of my heart 🥺

I have issues with men being rude, using me and abusing me. And this video gave me so much relief and release I cried the first part. Also I miss my Dad so much he was my strength and having a male voice saying empowering things helps and some kind of healing there too. God I’m lonely.😂 Thank you for your work.

The patience he has to sit there and film this for 1.5 hours( after editing!! So realistically 2 hrs minimum PLUS EDITING TIME) is genuinely insane and does not go lost on me, we truly appreciate you sir❤

It’s the middle of the night and I’m having anxiety attacks because someone I deeply care about is giving me silent treatment. Your presence is helping me, thank you 🫶🏻

The pep talk at <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="1816">30:16</a> was exactly what I needed this week. Rn there is someone underestimating me. You reminded me that I am strong and can do this. Thank you, my friend.

✨𝕋𝕚𝕞𝕖 𝕊𝕥𝕒𝕞𝕡𝕤✨ <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="2">0:02</a> - <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="820">13:40</a> intro face touching w/ comforting words 💜 <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="821">13:41</a> - <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="844">14:04</a> wooden hair comb <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="846">14:06</a> - <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="1115">18:35</a> tracing wooden comb along your skin <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="1116">18:36</a> - <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="1800">30:00</a> very soft brush along your skin 𝘌𝘯𝘫𝘰𝘺 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘯 🌧 ☔ <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="1811">30:11</a> - <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="2634">43:54</a> face touching w/ comforting words 💜 🌧 <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="2635">43:55</a> - <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="2660">44:20</a> wooden hair comb 🌧 <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="2660">44:20</a> - <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="2933">48:53</a> tracing wooden comb along your skin 🌧 <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="2934">48:54</a> - <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="60">1:00</a>:16 very soft brush along your 𝘴𝘬𝘪𝘯 𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘌𝘯𝘫𝘰𝘺 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘨𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘭𝘦 𝘴𝘭𝘦𝘦𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘶𝘴𝘪𝘤 🎶💤 <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="60">1:00</a>:23 - <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="74">1:14</a>:18 face touching w/ comforting words 💜 💤🎶 <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="74">1:14</a>:18- <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="74">1:14</a>:36 wooden hair comb 💤 🎶 <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="74">1:14</a>:37 - <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="79">1:19</a>:06 tracing wooden comb along your skin 💤 🎶 <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="79">1:19</a>:07 - <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="90">1:30</a>:34 Outro very soft brush along your skin 💤 🎶 𝙼𝚊𝚢 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚊𝚕𝚕 𝚑𝚊𝚟𝚎 𝚜𝚠𝚎𝚎𝚝𝚍𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚖𝚜, 𝙶𝚘𝚘𝚍 𝙽𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢𝚘𝚗𝚎 💜✨🙏🥰💤

Thank you for helping me calm down when I’m anxious and during a really dark time in my life

To me this has been really important. Having this male care, feeling protected and not awkward at all. Its comforting and sweet, thank you so much, your vibe is really pretty.

Best asmrtist on KZfaq keep up the good work

I was crying in less than a minute. It was relieving. Thank you for your video 🤗

God, for the first time, I have experienced genuine goosebumps that lasted for the entirety of this video. And your accent is deeply noted and deeply loved as well. SUCH an AMAZING experience!

I just started the video… after almost spiraling down, so thank you I truly already feel comfort 🥺💖

Thank you so much for this; I was having a meltdown and crying because of the overwhelming and stressful week I had, and my anxiety was eating me up alive because I also start college in a day, and I’m not ready for it, so I'm grateful I clicked on this video you truly are a gift in how much comfort you radiate, I am now feeling much better because of you, so, thank you, again very much :’)

he has the most calming and innocent eyes😊

Thank you for saving so many lives.

There's something really magical in the way that a big, bearded, apparently "rude" man like this 😊 looks at the camera with so sweet eyes... I like him very much ❤ Thanks for sharing your kindness 💋

These gentle and slow positive affirmations are such godsent. Thank you kind internet sir. 🥺💖

I really wish ASMR produced tingles for me, but even though it doesn't, I find this channel in particular to be very useful for comfort and sleep. Additionally, the brushing and tracing help with some mild neurochemical response to touch, which helps my mood and calms me down a great deal, almost instantly. It's really quite remarkable. I've watched a variety of asmrtists and while I like several for different reasons this channel is the one I watch most by far because the content is the most effective at producing calm and sleep. Very appreciative.

I've made so much mental health progress in the last few weeks... But tonight everything fell apart around me and I feel so weak and fragile. Thank you for... this. All of it. I cried again, but these were tears of relief and gratitude. Thank you.

I love the lighting you used! It’s so warm, makes it easy to fall asleep to. And your movements are so gentle and calming, I’m seriously in love with this video!

I love how when you brush your hand it makes a sound effect it's so nice!

He’s fit, he has tattoos, he has a moustache and he’s soft and caring. So I guess positive masculinity exists?? 😮

I feel so uncomfy in my room usually cause i hate the dark and i feel like I'm always being watched it's weird - but this guy's voice and like, presence through the video is so comforting :)

I got diagnosed with cancer since the beginning of 2022 and spend most of my time in the hospital fighting for my life with only a age of 17 and since then i have a very hard time falling asleep alone because i am scared something will happen to me or i will never wake up again but this video and you makes me feel very safe and takes my fear away. Even though i am 18 now i feel like a little kid wanting to run to my parents bedroom crying because of fear as if i had a nightmare. Your voice helped me calm down and finally feel sleepy again so i hope i will sleep good for the first time since a long time! Thank you so much for this video and your time☺️

I was having a panic attack and dealing with intrusive thoughts, these are the words i needed today. Thank you

Stumbled across this and started sobbing 3 mins in from how comforting you are straight off the bat

this is peak asmr right here. he's like a genuine friend. other asmrtists can't do what you can. keep up the good work!

This is love. I didn't want to skip or left the video. I find this really comforting. I literally felt like my brain was freezed. He is an angel. 💫❣

Perfect timing! I’m sick in bed rn and can’t get myself to sleep… Never thought I would say this to anyone, but thank you so much for making me much more comfortable and sleepy 😴🙏🏼

I saw you in the thumbnail and was like: "He looks like a really good friend, I should watch this." I was not wrong.

This was incredible. I have always listened to female voice ASMR and never found male voice ASMR to be relaxing until now. This is actually like listening to a friend. Thank you so much. 😌

I usually don't watch many male asmr artists but I have been having a hard time again lately which has made me feel like a scared little kid who needs their dad again. You gave me that safe comforting presence that I have been needing. I feel a bit stronger again thanks to you.

🙏🏽Merci pour ces mots réconfortants, merci pour ta bienveillance et le temps que tu donnes, take care of you Steven !