I am a Nigerian and I disagree that African American don't have a culture. You have. You have made something beautiful out of a chaotic situation and hands you were dealt with to create something unique for you. Of course there is bad and good in every culture but that is what makes it. Out of chaos you developed your style of dressing, slangs, music (hello) ' food and lots more. So yeah, I disagree that you don't have a culture. You do!. Am glad y'all made something beautiful out of a terrible situation good or bad, you created it and am proud of y'all.

I’m a Nigerian man married to African American lady, in my own opinion I think everyone has culture and I think it’s important that we should learn each other culture, one thing I can guarantee you is that we Nigerian learn other peoples cultures and we take ours with wherever we go.

African Americans do have a culture, we created our own style, we set trends, our music, our churches our neighborhoods, our dances, how we respect our elders. Our integrity, we take care of our families.

As an African-American I find it to be very distasteful and ignorant for the host to say we don’t have culture. The world copies US in culture, behavior, swag, food, dance and music 🎼 etc,. She needs to take history lessons of African American 🇺🇸 ADOS/FBA we a resilient, intelligent, talented and the best that was brought from Africa to America 🇺🇸 We are worldwide Blessings to ADOS.

What if African American say all Nigerian are scammer they want like that so don’t say African American are animal that’s a insult to us real talk

You may not like or respect our culture but we do have one and it’s well documented. Please stop dismissing our accomplishments and history as a group. It is very disrespectful to our ancestors.

I am from Ghana, and my wife is African American , we have been married for 30years, my first wife was African American, lasted 5years. People are People, if you marry an educated black or white it will work if the woman and the man are cultured, the relationship will work. Also, African parents depend on their kids, and so when the women wants to spend every money they make, and the man want to send money home, the marriage will not work.

I like how this conversation seemed to showcase the flaws of African Americans but not those of Nigerians. The viewpoint of using black people for as sex toys because the are "free" is disturbing. As being your true self is deplorable. So we not going to mention the many of Nigerians married man that cheat constantly and are controlling to their wife 🙄

I'm Black American and I love that I am ❗️👌🏾

Lies lies lies!!! My husband is Igbo straight from the motherland and I am African American! We are not the only one. 😑😑😑😑

African Americans have a culture and us Nigerians and the rest of the world have been influenced by African Americans.

For her to sit there and state that African Americans have no cultural! Complete ignorance.

As an AA woman, I don't know any women infatuated with Nigerian or African men. This sounds more personal than collective. I used to get approached by Nigerian men a lot and dated two of them. They were not my cup of tea but very smart and hard-working.

Foundational Black Americans built the United States of America! We've been here since 1619, and some say even before then. We have our own culture, which we are very proud of. And while it's one of the youngest cultures in the world, it's also one of the most copied and influential cultures in the world. We set the trends! Our medical discoveries and our many inventions are used all over the world every day. Our music, our athletic abilities, and our art and activism are second to none. And we don't run from country to country looking for refuge. We stay and FIGHT! And we will continue to fight any and every injustice that's thrown against us! While I would never disparage anyone's else's culture, I LOVE AND I'M GREATFUL TO GOD FOR MINE.❤

I live in America, and it's news to me that African American women are "infatuated" with Nigerian men or even care to be chosen by said men. I mean, really?!?!

Today, I am a born-again Christian. I am a widower, and I don't date. In my dating days, I was fearful of Black American women. This is because I am Igbo. Our culture is very conservative. It is very ordered and somewhat predictable. As much as I have always interacted with fairly polished and educated Black American women, I always had this fear of surprises. I was concerned about the upbringing. I have somewhat changed. I think social media is opening me up. I just recently viewed content from a young Black American woman. I found her so impressive as a person that if I were twenty years younger, I would be laying out my strategy to win her. In fact, I am praying she finds that very special man. She is seeking a relationship with a Nigerian man, and I hope she finds the right one.

Who said FBA women want to marry these men??? I don't know ANY fba women clamoring over african men.....

As African man from Sierra Leone it is an African man culture to take care of the woman and the household,no 50/50,if we take woman out we are paying all the way all the time,same with shopping

As an African American woman who often travels back and forth to Nigeria, this is utter nonsense! I urge the host to travel and make her way throughout Nigeria then come back to the table for discussion. Not only we as AA have culture but you will see the root of our culture comes out of the motherland and we are 1 of the same. Let’s educate ourselves around the board, this is why the “certain groups” who want us divided keep us divided with grandiloquent language like this 👀

One thing you all most know that, no matter what, Nigerians still like Africa America more than anyone else ❤

Also, If an African American woman is willing to accept the Nigerian culture & understand it, she will be Exactly what Nigerian men needs as long as other wife able qualities aRe present.

Don’t have a culture? The interviewer is as smart as a box of rocks. One 2 second search on the internet would allow her to understand the definition of culture. Blacks do have culture. It may not be highly esteemed, but it’s everything from the way they speak, the names the call their kids (which are unique - you can easily spot “black names”), to the food and music they listen to. I’m truly baffled she, as a black woman, would say something like that.

Nigerians are just conservative as a society. Culture dictates everything we do as a people. The culture is also what is responsible for the majority of our society in this country.

That is why i love our Nigerian men. They are naturally leaders & very confident.

My mother is Alabama born, DC raised… she met my dad precisely 62 years ago.. 6 years after marriage, she compelled my dad to move the family back to Nigeria… I still don’t understand *WHY* … now I’m in my 40’s, I’m glad she did

Just because we don't worship tribalism doesn't mean we don't have culture as FBAs

"I am Nigerian i don't live in the USA .Personally, I find it easier to converse with Caucasian women than with African American women. I believe it's merely a matter of perception. I think that white women tend to be more compassionate and understanding. Personally, I sense that African Americans can sometimes be quick to degrade or belittle me due to my African heritage, and at times, they speak very rapidly. However, I do like them, and I wish I could engage with them more, but I often feel somewhat apprehensive."

There's no one answer to this question. I've met some really awesome American sisters who I would have married if not for the relocation issue. Most Africans who plan on moving back to Africa in the future would have a hard time relocating an American woman and her kids back to Africa. So, the man would have to go back to Africa alone and remarry over there if he's really determined to move back. I've seen African men "stuck" in America due to marrying AAs, white, Filipina and Hispanic women. The issue isn't really about anything wrong with Black American women, the issue is just a logistic issue.

Do people in America even realise that in Africa, Nigeria included, most men would not even marry a woman who is not if their tribe? This is not a Nigerian/African vs American African issue...it's about people who are raised to marry their own

I enjoyed this conversation. It’s rare for me to watch podcasts but this topic is dear to me as I am a lover of African culture and find myself dating within that pool of people. This conversation sheds light on what it’s like from both perspectives if you’re looking to date intercultural.

I really appreciate his perspective on a number of things. It seemed like she was asking questions more for a self qualification assessment. It's also a good practice to avoid touching people in professional interviews

We are broken and also thriving. The beautiful duality of life. We are still African afteralllllll. :)

THIS INTERVIEWER IS TOO DISRESPECTFUL, SHAMEFUL, AND DISTASTEFUL!! TOO THIRSTY!!

I went against my mum and married an American lady and I payed a price . I was cocooned from my family.A lot of Alimony. I am full of regrets. Never be blinded by love . An American woman will leave you at your weakest moment. Like he said not every hypothesis is 100%.

This whole interview pissed me off 😤 Both are ignorant and do not need to speak on behalf of their entire communities, African American or Nigerian. There's so much misinformation in this interview. As someone who has studied in Ghana, has a degree in Africana Studies, lives in Nigeria, and married to a Nigerian, I will say African Americans & Nigerians are more similar than different. Hell, many of us African Americans, African peoples in the diaspora, are from the yoruba tribe. I wish there was more understanding between us instead of judgment or perpetuating stereotypes. Some of Nigeria/Nigerians face very similar issues in their communities/cultural context. And, there's plenty of African American women & Nigerian men who are happily married. This host needs to get more exposure. This interview was sad to watch! 🇺🇸❤️🇳🇬

My blood is boiling 😡 I’m proud of being African American! Nothing is wrong with us… we’ve just been through a lot… we all have! Africans are not perfect they have the same problems too…. I know several west Africans ! Nigerians Ghanaian’s,Cameroonians ,Gambians etc Go to Lagos and see how perfect they are!!!! All black is excellent and beautiful!Don’t bash us like we’re so messed up …. Im tired of that! I’m extremely disappointed. You are literally lying on US! How sad.

To an average African, African American culture is incomplete due to the long separation from their ancestors.

The fact he said we Nigerians spend on our women made you happy and I believe it made a lot of American black women happy but there is something he didn’t say, we also care about respect, if I’m taking care of you the least you can give me is your submission and complete respect which I believe the black American man yearns for from black American women which most of them don’t want to do, so let the black American women fix their issues of submission and I believe the black American men will take better care of them.

Akata means Panther, because the first time Nigerians were exposed to African American was through Fela Kuti the creator of Afrobeat. When he came to NYC, he was hosted by the Black Panther movement. When he return to Nigeria, he changed his style to revolutionary music. Back then Nigerians assume all African Americans are members of the Black Panther Movement and the loved it. Akata is a Yoruba word Panther. It's the other tribes telling their African American friends that it means Animal because they don't know the roots or the meaning.

This was a really good listen!

I like this conversation with NOSH. I am Nigerian and I believe conversations like this must be happening constantly to close the gap and understanding between our cultures. It matters so much that we understand each other more and more. We actually need each other....especially in THIS generation.

The host is absolutely is pissing me off. She is coming off like a bit of an air head. Talking about african american culture.. where is she really from seriously. She cant be serious

We dont struggle with no damn identity. Black women struggle with having a positive identity

I was married 20 years to an Igbo man he had a mid life crisis and would not get therapy for his attraction to teenagers 😢

In an iota of words, Nigerians see black African Americans as brothers and sisters in the first instance but feel terribly bad and disappointed when they are totally different from being friendly, loving brothers and sisters we wish they be. I presume a lot of African Americans don’t see African as real brothers, I may be wrong

All Skin Folks Are Not Kin Folk. Most of the host's opinions reflect a willfully ignorant and desperately thirsty perspective of African American lifestyles. Self hate has apparently & overwhelmingly influenced her beliefs about African American culture. Actually, I find it incredulous that she, herself, believes what came out of her mouth. It had to be about garnering views and subscribers.

Well…..all I can say is; I’m a AA woman who married a sweet handsome African King and so glad I did. I’ll do it all over again. On top of it all I told him I’m excited to know when the time comes we will be moving back to his village. My husband’s culture is my culture, we are one now. All I want is to make him the happiest man on this earth until Christ comes. I’m so in love with him until I wish I could stand on a mountain top and tell the world.

Never ever spent time, ever, watching shows like this on KZfaq or wherever, but this held me down all through. Nice and straight. Now following you….

I love being African American and wouldn't change if I could... Had the best of upbringings. Good morals happy childhood life,.both parents like no other.

Nine minutes in. Loving the vibe and truly appreciative for this episode as I can telllll its a great conversation. I just must comment on the statement of African descendants/Indigenous Afro people in the USA not having any culture. Hear me out, sis

it’s so much to say about this interview but honestly i couldn’t even finish it. i literally felt i’ll watching This woman feed all these inaccuracies and false Narratives. as for the guy i have nothing to say, he is speaking from his experiences and what i would call a limited base. im so disappointed in this lady as an African American. i encourage anyone viewing this to take these about my people with a grain of salt. please seek FACTS and speak with those who have PRIDE AND KNOWLEDGE IN AFRICAN AMERICAN CULTURE!!! YES FOLKS I SAID ***CULTURE*** Blessings to everyone ❤

The arrogance of it all. The fact that you were given the opportunity to come to America after Black Americans fought for Civil Rights. The Fair Immigration Act 1965 giving all non Europeans access to immigrate into this country. We fought for their right to be here and should not allow or put up with the disrespect. Black Americans do have a culture. Yes we have issues but there are issues in all cultures. The Nigerians who come here did not go through cattle slavery, Jim Crow and government institutional segregation and racist policies like Jim Crow, red lining etc. Let’s have more respect and honor for who we are and what we have gone through.

African Americans do have culture and food. What the hell is she saying? I am from Panamá in Central America and I can say African American have culture and food.

Good conversations & she is beautiful as well. As a Nigerian 🇳🇬 he was honest too.

My aunt is married to a Nigerian...the Idehen's are my in-laws. Verrry nice people. 🤗

Mr. Nigeria, I've been to Lagos. Death is a daily occurrence there. Because you have traveled, you can gaslight people who haven't, but don't get it twisted. Clean up the corruption that continues to run amok, and then You can talk about African Americans!

Informative! The Nigerian brother is very intelligent and insightful. The host is entreatable. Her humility enables her extract information. She is equally brilliant. I don't think Nigerians dislike Black Americans. It's simply about perceptions, trust, and culture. Personally, I have difficulty communicating with Black Americans. The first time I encountered a Black American male, I was eager to connect because I felt we had a kindred spirit. I found him to be guarded. It was almost as if he was suspicious of me. Over the years, I discovered he wasn't the exception. Black Americans have their perception of Africans. I don't necessarily know the roots of these notions but especially among the men, it makes a close relationship a challenge. The American experience of the Black brother can be very confining. He has adapted based on historical and circumstantial lessons. The truth is that the world is far bigger than America. Blacl men in particular will benefit from travel outside the shores of this country. With the women, it's less of a problem. They have their stereotypes of Africans, but they seem to be more inquisitive. They are women at the end of the day. If they find a man attractive, they will take the risk. Black Americans women tend to be take charge. They feel they can get the man to align with their program. They will be quick to point out to an African man that they will not be subjected to the traditional role - their notion of the role of women. This is where the problem lies on both sides. The Nigerian man, in particular, is groomed to be a leader. Nobody is going to push him around. He demands respect from his woman. He will treat her like the queen only when he is convinced she is willing to cooperate. Just like their Black American brother, they feel that they have options. It's very rare that a man will disintegrate because he can not have a particular woman. I have personally met Black American women that are marriage ready. They are strong Christians. Their faith makes them a little more submissive and willing to be subject to a man. I think that we are living in a time that women as a whole are reconsidering feminism. They are weighing their options. Nigerian men are beginning to marry African American women. This is the result of pentecostal Christianity. It is breaking barriers. A man is destined by God to be a leader. He is a groom. He should be able to positively influence his woman. People don't come perfect. Love is a most effective shaping tool.

I am a Nigerian living in Wisconsin and looking for a good AA to marry. These ladies are damn good. There are good and bad people everywhere. Am still open and searching!

This guy is absolutely telling the truth. He is honest and representative of us. I agree with him 100%

Why do Africans feel like they have the right to tell African Americans anything......why are African Americans always the topic of discussion. Is there nothing about Nigeria that needs improvement. African Americans are attracted by every group of ppl no matter what skin color.

While @Nosh gave the literal meaning of "Akata", he didn't quite explain in what context it is being applied to African American. First, Akata is also used to imply all Nigerians residing overseas, specifically Nigerians visiting Nigeria from any of the Western Countries and showing off a western vibe. Secondly, Akata as applied to African Americans is not derogatory in any sense. It simply means he/she is brother/sister born and raised in America, and not a naturalized migrant African residing in America. We see those black radio shows who got this so wrong, speculating that Nigerians think poorly of African Americans. If nothing, majority of Nigerians want to be like African Americans and will often emulate their lifestyles. It's 2023 and majority of Nigerians now calved a niche for themselves, a new lifestyle that's fast gaining worldwide acceptance. Check out Nigerian music, fashion and mannerisms. We good like that. Thanks Carly for this opportunity.

Brilliant conversation. Good representation Adeniyi...Humility and respect we deserved frpm our women make Nigerian men work and spend on the family. Control with love!

Enjoyed every second of it. Cross cultural understanding is very important 👏👏

As African, I always see American culture as predominantly African American culture. You have a culture, just like Carribeans have and so forth. And I will add to say, don't believe African cultures are safe from other influences, via Islam, Christianity, colonisation and so forth. But ultimately, I think we're all stuck with what is actually culture ? It's dynamic, it does change, mute, borrow to adapt. The Nigerian man in front of you, has a different culture from his ancestors few centuries ago, they would probably not identity with a lot things. For example religion. The same way you dislike the use of your culture in the American capitalistic environment, the same I dislike part of African cultures. The only difference is yours has a big zoom on it.

My Nigerian brother spoke very well.

Hi Carly, I really enjoyed your conversation here. Interesting to hear your perspective on our African (Nigerian) men. This is your brother from the Cameroons.

Nice interview! I like the emphasis on the fact that that the opinions are not applicable to all Afro Americans and Nigerians. What I do know is, many Nigerians do have it at the back of their minds that they're going to return back to Nigeria some day, but its usually difficult to find Afro Americans who wants to go all the way hence why you are not seeing a lot of marriages happening between the two. Regarding "knacking", this generation of nigerian women are very expressive too...and I'm talking about married women as well! Also, the cultural barriers are collapsing! There is a new breed of Nigerians who are not faced by the cultural difference! Regarding the word AKATA, it waa never intended as a derogatroy word. I think many Afro Americans are taking it out of context. The Afro americans were first called Akata in the 60s/70s! I'm talking about era of the black panther, when African Americans were leading the emancipation of black people all over the world. I still don't understand why it is now perceived as derogatory!

The host does not represent our American Black Culture. She is acting like she is only trying to impress the Nigeria or Africa Culture. Who chose this woman??

Its basically culture difference!!! As an african/ Nigerian woman, you dare not be rude to your MIL, call her by name or talk back at them! But its the norm in the states... Nigerian women marry the whole family not just the man! And their marriages are for better for worse, not dropping their husband at the first sight of trouble.

Great honest and truthful conversation. American must protect the family name, image, and perception by disciplining their youth and hold family values. All foreigners view American

Beautiful conversation!!!!!

Bullsh*t. One married me. An Igbo. He was so polite and loving at 1st. After the I Do's, he treated me like total Sh*t. I asked him what happened to the friendship and Love he has. Always showed me. He said, "You're my wife now!" 🤯😢💔 He Only wanted Papers. My blood line is Yoruba. All of my family and friends were like WHY did u marry him. They feel like the Igbos are the Worst! I personally don't believe it was his tribe. I belit. Was hiss personality.

I am from Kenya and I live in Dallas, TX. Some years back I met a beautiful young AA woman from California., she had arrived in TX by way of Japan, we started liking each other, one evening I took her out to my favorite American restaurant. We had a good time and we’re there for about three hours. Eventually we had to leave and paid for the tab with a credit card and tipped the wait cash. Man all hell broke loose, what the hell did I tip the waitress for. Long story short, that was the end of it.

This is fun . Interesting analysis.

I actually enjoyed this interview. You have a good platform to grow your channel. My only criticim is to drop the drinks or have a table to rest it on because i was distracted, hoping you dont spill your drink. It doesn't really add to your already fine aesthetic.

My cousin is from Jamaica. He married this African American woman but realize very quickly that he has to clean and cook because she does nothing of that sort. He’s goes to work while she’s home. Il

43:09 The general reason why Nigerian men hesitate to marry American women is because we think Americans in general do not take marriage seriously , are quick to opt out , do not cope well with structure and extended family this is the summary . The cultural differences . As a Nigerian I am not certain an American woman will be able to hold a family long term ,she could leave anytime even if things are going well . Another big issue is structure , an American woman will not be comfortable in the traditional family structure . It also seems like celebrities lead the culture in America which is detrimental to marriages . Others could include differences in perceived moral values or standards . Even if she’s a good person , she may do what the american system allows her to do like divorce just because she can and not because things are that bad . Besides that they are cool individuals but these reasons cast doubts on long term viability. I dated an AA for about 2 years , I grew to like her however i just wasn’t confident enough to take it further (long term) . American women are cute and likable as friends but for someone that takes marriage seriously it’s a big decision , a huge risk. Except if she’s the type of person that knows how to make a man 1000 % confident about her . These are my thoughts / observations

Great interview. Nice host, well done Niyi

As a Nigerian woman, I really enjoyed this interview. I would love to see African Americans marry Nigerians/Africans and have their children learn more about African culture. This will enable us close the divide and resolve some underlying negative issues prevailent in the African American communtity. Just as Nigerians have a lot of love to give African Americans, we need all the love in marriage, in friendship, in business from African Americans. I love the host for those tough questions and NOSH's honest answers.

I know this AA parents that come over to their daughter's live in boyfriend's home regularly to spend the weekend,my mother, the mum of the boyfriend was shocked to the marrow! No Nigerian parent will stay over in the guy's house until he's married their daughter

I'm laughing because I went to Nigeria for two weeks...... I would NEVERRRR date a Nigerian man.....not the ones I met over there & not the ones I've met over here 🙄😴 Oh but I loooooooove how they look in their outfits called a "Senator" ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 🤯🤯Never knew AA women were infatuated with Nigerian men 🙄🙄😩 I must've missed that memo!!!!

I understand the host when she said, “African Americans do not have a culture”. As Nigerians, we can identify a person’s tribe by their looks, clothes, Names, and accents. Our tribes are unique, and our cultures are very different although you may find a few similarities the differences are so vast. Our meals, looks, names, languages, festivals, history, houses, masquerades, and traditional religions are different. Our forms of communication, greetings, proverbs, and gestures are unique. The Rich, Poor, and middle class exist. Many Nigerians in the US can be from any of such backgrounds. Most Nigerians who hustle so hard are those from poor backgrounds. Nigerians also have a middle ground because, for a country of over 500 unique languages and over 300 tribes, we communicate in English, Most Nigerians understand “Pidgin English” which is our preferred means of communication. Marriage is sacred for Nigerians, we do about three weddings to marry a woman as a wife. The court wedding, the church, and the traditional wedding. We don’t do divorce, for most of it, Marriage is until death do you part. I think another reason Nigerians don’t take AA women seriously is because of divorce, and the divorce laws in America. A divorced man in Nigeria can foot the bills of his kids without paying child support, the Kids can stay with whichever parent is financially stable.

Great discussion... I just learned the term and definition "wild panther" from you... its too true. (Perhaps subconsciously) still trying to recapture and find our way back to our original African roots.

I loved every bit of this conversation. keep it up guys.

The one question ive been trying to get answered is this.. why do some African American women refer to themselves as 'BITCH' ... yet absolutely want to be 'Respected' ? Why not a different more respect worthy, positive nametag. Just wondering.

Victim of the stereotype is so true 😢😔praying for all the Native American people who are not wild panthers but instead indigenous people to this land🙏🏽 and for the African American people that were sold brought here from Africa I pray for you too and hope that one day together the native indigenous American Indian’s and the African American people one day come together to heal from the trauma of what our ancestors went through along with the suffering and that we overcome any obstacles that may come so that we can finally be happy again and not stereotyped to ourselves because it does not matter anymore what others think of us anymore, it matters what we think of ourselves and how well we do and overcome because as far as it’s kept it was the Africans who sold us off to the American pagan, ways. They sold there own african people to America this is why african American people today are wild so that makes the African indigenous people accountable as well for this, they are essentially considered wild panthers and are simply looking at themselves when they see african Americans the way they are today and tomorrow and so they are not looking at the world instead only themselves.

I saw the channel mention in a comment about how its not a culture others/many can relate to. I think part of that is also how far out the US is from the rest of the world. Whereas in continents such as Africa, Europe, or Asia the countries are more connected sharing more similarities. It's likely also more easier and affordable for people to relocate or visit all over it. Whereas north America is a lot more disconnected from the rest of the world, leading to a more different culture and one that others may find less relatable. Though to me that's okay, being unique is also good. 😊

I think the problem we are both having as men and women in America is that we focus so much on the money. He mentioned family a few times. And I think the host was just so fascinated with being drenched with money. That's why a lot of cultures don't respect us. We're addicted to paper😅

Beloved, YOU can only speak for YOURSELF because I’m ONE WHO KNOWS WHO I AM!

being Wilde is not going to stop anytime soon because the culture isn't there to control some of this problem

This discussion was mind blowing. I enjoyed learning how & why Nigerian men & women look at American men & women as they do. Knowledge is powerful. 🙂

In Nigeria the men will provide for woman and the kids that is a Nigerian men upbringing

He's very right about AA women not welcoming the husband or even boyfriend's family. You're practically banned😢

African Americans do have a culture. I think it is disapointing that this narrative exists. Its takes for granted that Black Culture is pretty much African American Culture.

I hate when the man gets Quiet instead of communicating with me in a calm manor. But walking around Quiet, ignoring me thinking it's a "Checking" me to get me in line. That's nuts if u think that works for everyone. Not the dude saying they are an Alpha male all day. I don't like those, but I want to talk it out and get an understanding.

Her questions are asked very suggestive as well.

First time I watch such an interview. Gorgeous African American woman, with a sweet feminine energy. African men in general take care of their women because it is their culture too, so my brother is contradicting himself a little bit there. Keep up the great work.

I’m African American and love the Nigerian culture and dating a Nigerian man for 4, and he is the kindest and loving man I have ever met and u have dated and Nigerian men are not selfish

If your already creating your own world then live in it by yourself.. I felt that 💯

Wow. I hardly watch 1 hour videos but I just did Carly. Your demeanor was very good and gentle on the eye. I enjoyed how you led the discussion and made everything very cool plus the unpleasant parts of the discourse. African Americans are truly different. You are a beautiful and well spoken "wild panther". This is coming from your Benin brother. Keep up the good work. New sub.🥰🥰