WHATS THE MOST AWKWARD THING A CIS PERSON HAS ASKED YOU?!

me and my sister were listening to conan gray and my mum went “his voice is quite high…is he…you know…like noah?” so you’ll be glad to know your name has replaced trans in my mums vocabulary (also i did inform her trans is not a bad word, and men can also just have higher voices without being trans)

The casual asexual inclusiveness by saying "sexuality: who you wanna f*ck, or hug, if you're asexual and don't wanna f*ck " made my heart so happy

"Can't you just be gay? Isn't that enough?" Well it was until I got the premium subscription, LGBTQ+

I used to get called a ‘theyfriend’ like bestie I’m not a pronoun-

I’m really fixated on Noah messing with his earring

my sister once brought home a cis guy to cheat on her bf and he did a better job addressing me than my entire family did for years. dumped her for deadnaming me, then we talked a bit about life over a cup of tea, he was rlly surprised i'm actually older than him, found out my sis is actually in relationship, etc. it was weird and my sister was mad at me for few weeks but totally worth it

My nephew always says to me "You're a they!" And he's just so sweet and supportive, and always corrects people who misgender me, I love him so much 😍

i love how the title slightly seems like an attack on cis people yet in the video you’re just going over things and explaining shit trying to help cis people and learning them how to do better catch attention with aggression but treat with care, that’s the way to fucking go hell yes

"It's not a phenomenon, I just like using big words that I'm not entirely sure what they mean" Noah is so relatable 😂

I love what you advised about just saying "yes" and not overly explaining yourself to nosy cis people. Cause I also tend to overexplain. And it's so nosy, they really don't deserve an answer at all

“why can’t you just be gay?? why can’t you just be a masculine woman??” AAAARGH

the overcompensating thing is hitting so hard for me - my dad does the "oh look at my masculine manly son!!" thing so often despite also making very transphobic and sexist comments pretty often sometimes and i'm guessing he's trying to move away from them and be more accepting but bro does it feel performative and weird, just call me your son. that'd make me so much more happy 😭

"if you enjoy gay people screaming at each other..." LMFAOOO NOAH

“and he’s a girl now!” …say that again…but SLOWLY.

my mum came home from work one day and told me all about how she "defended the gender-nonbinaries today :D" and i had to keep a straight face while she explained that one of her co-workers was transphobic and how she'd said "well, as the mother of a nonbinary child--" like okay mum thank you :,)

I'm cis and I get so confused when other cis people mix up gender and sexuality. I've heard people say something like "I'm not trans, I'm straight" and it makes me so confused. They're two completely different things and I don't understand how you can mix that up.

As a cis dude I can confidently say, I do not treat anyone different by there gender or sexuality, I treat people differently based on their taste of music (I.E. if somebody dislikes Noahfinnce's music I dislike them. Stock photo models need to learn.

today the italian government rejected a law against homophobia, ableism and discrimination of other minority groups, i've cried a lot but this video made me smile so thank you :>

Not the sheer panic that hit me from hearing "What was Phoenix born as?" 😭😭

God, I love it whenever transphobes try to scream at a trans guy saying"You'Ll nevEr be a wOman!" I mean, not that I'm happy those transphobes exist in the first place, but still. They're so confused it's hilarious.

Have been asked if I'm uncomfortable with going to the restrooms. Not for the right reason. I've been assumed as a Trans Man because I haven't came out and start my transition yet. I'm actually a Trans Woman. People would say "Thank you ma'am...um I mean sir. Sorry." I'm just over here thinking "NO! YOU HAD IT RIGHT!!"

Something I've noticed is how people will use your pronouns with no issue up until the point they realise you're trans... like what? It's like they'll be perfectly fine with using let's say he/him for you until they find out you're trans and then they'll be wary to use them and will often become a bit off with you. Of course this doesn't go for everyone, but it's just something I've noticed

“if your a trans man you can’t do anything feminine!” me, a trans masc femboy who crossdresses:

HI NOAH I'M A BIG FAN AND BECAUSE OF YOU I FOUND MY TRUE SELF I WAS CONFUSED ABOUT MY GENDER FOR A LONG TIME AND THEN WHEN I STARTED WATCHING YOU I FOUND OUT I WAS TRANS,SO THANK YOU

As a gender fluid person I change gender a lot lmao

“I’m not really feeling these boobies” is my favorite sentence ever spoken 😹😹😹

I remember when the gender clinic asked if I'd consider just being a masculine girl, I tried to picture it and I littlerally started crying so yea I'm kinda confident that yes, I am in fact trans

Noah you were my idol. Im cancelling my tour tickets. Cant believe it

Nobody : Literally nobody : Noah: "I like using big words that I'm not entirely sure what they mean" Lmao I do that too sometimes, just say it and hope they get what I mean lol

As a cis-male and psych researcher of social identity formation, I really appreciate videos like this! It's important to me that I'm fully respectful to others and how they identify. it's also SUPER HELPFUL in being able to hear directly from people in the community, in order to have a richer understanding of how people end up having to negotiate their social environment. Thank you! 😄

ok but when he said “you don’t have to be manly to be a guy” my day got so much better especially since I’m not out to any of my family (except one person) and I still dress feminine. (Just for reference I’m genderfluid)

Cis people: YOu’lL nEvER bE a GIrL Noah:🌝

AS SOMEONE WHO WAS AT THE LAST TOUR IT WAS ONE OF THE BEST EXPERIENCES OF MY LIFE YOU WILL NOT REGRET IT!!

5:24 I was with my dad, telling him it was pride month, and reminding him that my pronouns are they/them, he looked at me and said, "Can they bring this to mum?" It took me a while to realise he meant me. I'd say he's a well meaning cis het. He meant well, but was just a bit off.

i came out as genderfluid to a fried at school, and asked her to use they/he pronouns for me that day because i was feeling more masculine. she said: ''yeah no thats a bit confusing for me, i mean i look at you and youre not dressed like a boy, so i just see you for you, ya know, a girl. so ill just use she/her. see you in class.'' like ma'am CLOTHES HAVE NO GENDER AND YOURE SUPPOSED TO BE MY FRIEND! i also have vocal tics, and after a while she realised what my triggers were, and she started purposely triggering my tics, because she thought they where ''cute'' ugh

Noah what youve done is absolutely outrageous

Oh maaan, the "How can you be sure you won't regret this" made me think of my mom. After coming out, but before taking testosterone, we had a conversation in the car where she was telling me about how difficult it would be to live the way I was trying to live. That life would be difficult, that people were not going to understand, that it would cause me a lot of turmoil I otherwise wouldn't have to face going through medical transition. Meanwhile, I was like, "I'm???? Mother, I am living it??? Already? The turmoil is present." Anyhow, I'm almost four years on T now, feeling much better overall and she's been supportive, a lil confused but she has the right spirit.

I loved the ace shout out at 7:43, it’s always awesome to have your existence acknowledged lol

I'm a fellow trans guy and so many people at my school were mad at me because I still liked pink and I would wear earrings, it was kinda funny watching them stress over it ngl 🤣

AHH that thing with "dude" and "guys" rmeinds me so much of myself lmao. I f.em use the words bro and girl for every gender because its kidna gender neutral for me(same with guys) and my friends know that, but I do have a trans friend who is uncomfortable with the word girl even tho he knows I mean it gender neutral, so I dotn use it anymore, so jsut check how a person if feeling if u call them that and if they r ok with it it's not a problem I mean since I'm gender fluid the words girl and boy(referring to me) r sometimes making me uncomfortable and sometimes making me feel very good and I cna understand if these terms may make anyone feel uncomfortable

y'know....when i was a kid....i thought you were cool 😭

I am a cis bi girl and when I came out to my cishet mom she told me something similar to "THAT'S JUST A PHASE, YOU ARE DISCOVERING WHO YOU ARE AND YOU WILL CHANGE SOON". Don't say bad things about her because I love her

As a well-meaning cis person I really appreciate videos like this, because language keeps evolving and I'm never super confident about the correct ways to say things. So I can see why some people might avoid saying trans for example. On the other hand it's generally pretty easy to just not comment on stuff that falls in the area I don't know well enough. A lot of the time it's none of my business in the first place, and I'm just not curious enough to ask the questions. If any of my friends for any reason want to talk to me about trans things I can always listen, but honestly I prefer talking about dogs rather than anything too personal with anyone 😄

good question

Hope you’re feeling better from your tonsillitis!!! Also yes, that is a very good question (,:

After seeing my best friend for the first time in 4 months, I introduced him to my new best friend and my significant other, after a while of all of us speaking, I brought up a memory of us two from when we were kids! But I accidentally said his dead name and I felt SO bad. I didn't freak out, I just said I was sorry and corrected myself then moved on. Love you Mateo, Sorry lovely.

Question about the "have you considered living as a masculine girl?" thing, is that something transfems get asked as well? Like, feels like cismen aren't really allowed to be feminine the same way ciswomen are, so that seems really strange that transmasc people would get asked that.

Noah. I can’t believe you’ve done this. I had huge respect for you until now. Looks like I’m gonna have to go find a new trans KZfaqr 😭😭

god i cant believe youd do that noah i really respected you

My favorite is the "When did you change gender?" Just cause I like to interpret it as a grandpa who is very supportive of their grandkid, and hasn't seen them for years, and when they finally see them again, they're like, "When did you transition? You look great, I'm so proud of you!"

"You don't have to be manly to be a guy. You just have to be: Oh i'm a guy. That's how it works" I love this

just can’t believe you’ve done this ☹️

Noah what you've done is unacceptable. I can't believe you've done this

how I feel about the word dude as a trans woman, is I'm fine with it in certain context I explain it like this right I'm your dude, I'm everyone's dude, I'm your bro BUT I'm not "A DUDE" Theres a difference in my mind between using it as a form of endearment and using it to describe gender Because you can use it for both contexts

Noah what you have done is UNNACEPTABLE I cant believe it, I really thought you were cool. like if u get it join the discord uwu

srsly Noah I thought you were different I can't believe you've done this

Noah what you’ve done is unacceptable Can’t believe you’ve done this

I'm a grandparent of a trans person; listening to your videos has enabled me to understand so much. Thank you

what you’ve done is unacceptable i really can’t believe this

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whenever anyone asks me "what were they born as?" about my friends i always say "a person." annoys the shit out of some people lmao

i regret coming to see you in manchester on tour i am not longer going to leeds to see you again my tickets are going in the BIN i can’t believe you’ve done this ://

I can't believe you've done this

Noah, I can't believe what you've done. It's unacceptable. I hope you will be hold accountable for that and we deserve excuses. I really can't believe you've done this :/

my dad was talking about how he was out with a trans woman and another friend (they didn't know each other) and his friend went "wow she's really pretty" and my dad went "yeah, and she's trans." great job dad. great job outing people /s

I go by Phoenix 12:06 surprised me that made me happier than I thought it would :D

how dare u, i cant believe you’ve done this

i cant believe you've done this. i am shaking my head so much rn

My sibling is enby (and vegan) and whenever someone asks "is your friend... you know?" they always say "vegan? yeah" (or no, depending on if the person is vegan but yeah)

The inclusion of asexual with "or hug, if you're asexual and don't want to [ ]." As an ace person this made me laugh.

noah i literally can’t believe you did that ://

can’t believe you’ve done this

i’m a cis girl but i have a trans friend. genuinely one of the only reasons i watch noah lol. it’s genuinely super helpful tho so i know how to be there for him and understand him more, i remember in a video you said somthing about never wanting to call ppl because of your voice, and my friend never likes to call. somthing clicked all of a sudden and it made sense. tysm noah we love you 💕

8:20 Nobody: Noah: 💅

can't belive you've donde this

Noah i never thought you'd say that

after i transition, i hope i’m as beautiful as noah

You so like inspiring but you still make it funny I’ve been binging your videos during my zoom classes all day 💀 and now it’s 9pm and I’m not planning on stopping your like my new favourite KZfaqr.

YES THE KING IS BACKKKKKKK

Thx for your videos! I struggle with my gender identity and feeling valid in it but watching your videos helps! You're appreciated💜

At 13:49 when he said “here is my absolute favourite” while shaking the apple juice bottle, I really thought that sentence was going to go in a different direction and was very surprised.

I stumbled across this channel and am now binging all his videos. He’s the type of person that you don’t get irritated when they talk. He really captivated my attention so fast.

noah what you’ve done is unacceptable

12:32 reminds me of the conversation about ffs (face feminization surgery ) with my mum, i show her some pictures of trans woman and shes like "i can tell they were born a guy, you can with all trans woman" so i get some mash of cis woman photos and trans woman photos without telling her that some were cis and i scroll through and ask "what about this one and this one, can you tell this one" and checkmate she's a huge liar

Back when I was new to being a trans ally, I remember someone telling me they wear a binder and I said I respected that because it sounded painful to be. They were nice enough to explain to me that binders don't hurt unless you put them on incorrectly or you've been wearing it too long.

I cant believe you have done this

Damn Noah.... You were my favorite KZfaqr but this has really changed the way I see you :(

Have learned so much since subscribing to your channel Noah and love the hot topics you address in your videos. Keep 'em going and the conversations hot cause the world doesn't need more misinformation and bigoted viewpoints being thrown at or pumped into so many people.

I am a restroom attendant at a night club. I run the bathroom. I welcome all trans women into my restroom and even gay men... They love me as much as I love them... I don't know if this is pc, but it makes me happy to congratulate my regulars on their new V after their bottom surgery.... It's good to see a friend so happy.

noah how dare you!! what you’ve done is absolutely unacceptable!!

I’m still a baby trans at the ripe old age of 34, I came out at work but by not over the past weeks and I’ve gotten some gems. Everyone was very supportive and positive, but there was stuff like “so when did you decide to be trans” or “my friend has a daughter called [deadname] who is a boy now” and of course “will you get tHe sUrgeRy?”. And a shoutout to my lovely and also supportive (but shocked) parents who said I’ll always be their little girl in some way. They’re trying very hard to use the correct name and pronouns though, just like all my coworkers, so tbh I’m just glad it all went better than expected so far and I’m not mad at anyone or anything cause I don’t really expect boomers to automatically know all about being trans and how to act. I always make sure to tell them I’m always fine with answering questions and so far everyone who asked has been respectful and stayed above the belt

This was one of my favorite videos of yours.. everything you said was very relatable and true to my experience

casually brought up the fact that i'm bi in conversation and my mom was like "i thought u were trans?" then said it was all too complicated when i tried explaining they're different things LOLJLIKHUHFLUEHF

The title threw me off because didn’t have my glasses on and thought this was a Tommyinnit video

Woah you're so spot on! I'm not gonna call handsome anyone anymore.

7:42 "or hug if you're asexual and don't wanna ****" had me cracking up😂

I love watching your videos because it teaches me, as cis, a lot about the transgender community. Keep on educating!

so... everyone in my art class has asked me at one point, "What's your REAL name?" like... if I don't want to be called that... why would you ask!? So I respond with the name I prefer and then they ask again. I would switch out if I didn't want to have to change my whole schedule and I want to be in art. Also my art teacher likes to either say my name incorrectly or straight up deadname me... god damn it... I hate school-

i can’t believe you’ve done this