Tell that to a narcissist sociopath

When you love a man too much he will take you for granted

Spoil her and treasure her? Nonsense.

@@bradleepitt7409 okay

​@@NileGoddessTruth... I couldn't have said that any better!!

He might be thinking that it's okay to teach her how to vlog. That's a helpful information but at the end of the day you're looking a woman to be your wife You have to treat her right. Showing her how to vlog to make money is not showing her that you want her you you want her to be important in your life. That shows you're cheap you don't want to spend your money so you want her to make her own money to spend. Man like that he's not too attractive so he needs to do what he needs to do to get a good looking woman like that.

Agree with him

Stingy men's association

@@africanqueenmo😂😂😂

@@angelaescoffery7728 You spewed garbage there and there are plenty of good looking women but not good wives. He advised her. To claim he wants to spend her money is a claim with not substance.

I agree but for him is teaching so she make her own money.Thisvway he thinks he doesn't have to give his wife no money.Thats a cheap man.He isn't attractive so he needs to do better because when she makes her own money she doesn't need them anymore. She see that he's not willing to treat her as if she's a good woman or a good wife so why stay around. Somebody else out there would treat her better and she will gone in a minute.

Trudy should go take care of her father in Kenya he is much more deserving

FACTS 👍

That woman is going to meet a good man and leave him.He is too cheap sorry

He’s abusing her and laughs while describing what he does. Trudy deserves better.

I share the same sentiment

Same sentiments too why is she not happy yet they are newly wed there's a conspicuous disconnect btwn them my 15yrs old son said something that i will keep quiet about for now, though

Yes he's not in love with her , he said it himself he's there because of what she does for him. I don't think he finds her physically attractive it's very obvious

Thought i was the only one that noticed....the spark is gone from her eyes. Maya is an arrogant person, must be hard to live with him

Agreed. I've never heard him sound so arrogant before. But he is a village boy as he says. His ideals of marriage may be misconstrued compared to elsewhere. Regardless, he did help Trudy get a step up in life. But for many cultures, wives are regarded as servants for men. Perhaps it's an unfortunate side of Africa. But Miss Trudy is very smart. The wheels in her head are churning and she's internalizing and comprehending everything. But she's a good wife. And staying silent. I on the other hand could not, and therefore am happily single. Relationships are about sacrifice and compromise. Perhaps I'm selfish in that regard. Either way, I'm self-sufficient and need no man. Imo, Miss Trudy could easily marry someone worth 10 times what Wode Maya is.

He just carelessly said the dad is part of dowry 😢😢😢

Is nothing wrong with showing someone how to be a vlogger All of a sudden the world has a million and one vlogger. It's not nothing you're doing that so great anybody could do it once you put the time in and effort. The problem that we have with him he's not to attractive he's not too tall a nice looking woman like that that's talking to him He needs to show that she's worth it. Show her how to make her own money is great but also you can't hang around and think she's going to hang around with you not spending a dime on her You're too cheap.

She's his doormat

​@@africanqueenmoShe doesn't look happy at what he's saying

@@user-ul6do9nc5o as a woman I can say she's biting her lip and swallowing it. There are two businesses at stake here hers and his. Money first before happiness U guess!

​@@user-ul6do9nc5oThat's just her resting face when she's not smiling.

@@jackiedelvalle ....the eyes are a window to the soul. Let me take this opportunity to tell Wode Maya that a woman is a flower that needs tending to.....he shouldn't neglect to water it for it to glow from the inside out. Every woman loves to be loved up regardless of what they say. It is how God made them. That is why the Bible tells husbands to live their wives. Remember to keep her overwhelmed with love and ever smiling. Now that you know she's got your back in the case of a rainy day, now is your turn to please her too. What does she want in her husband? Be that man for her. That is what fulfilment looks like, where each partner is getting loved the way they like.

Yes is good you pity your fake rich life, but you cant fake Wodes true success!. No African knows how to acquire success,career n finance more than a Ghanain, but we prefer going steady n low key as Woide has proven to the world.

@@niiamartey72dzeagu-fw4ts who be u? Did I say am a Gambian. Mtchw

For a guy who is not too attractive I think he should do better than that. If a man show you that he's not going to spend money on you in any formal way while he's trying to wipe you up that gives you a good hint that that woman is not going to stay around too long. Because he's not smart he's not showing her how to make money and as well take care of her He wants her to learn to make money to take care of herself. Why would she need him after a while once she knows what to do and how to make money she's gone He's not too attractive he's not too tall.

@@niiamartey72dzeagu-fw4ts The man is like a vlogger like the rest of us that's out there vlogging doesn't take too much of a brain to be a vlogger. You just have to put the time and effort into it That's why everybody and their mother is a vlogger even the dumbest person that's up in the country in the hills is a vlogger.

It's the woman who chooses her mate and not the other way around.

I thought that was weird too. How can he not spend money on his wife?

Kindly watch the full video, you'll understand the context😂

Thats a real man 😅🎉

Quite weird

@@lifewithveronicah Miss Trudy looks miserable most of the time, but this guy thinks he is spitting wisdom. Women already have power and don't need men to empower them, only for them to respect their place as an equal partner in a marriage, rather than a subordinate.

He is speaking for himself. did he say we, or us. That whole story is about him. leave him alone. he said his truth. enjoy your men's money and its a fact that he is Ghananian.

Well said, the world is evolving, women must also contribute to the relationship

This is how men get depressed

Such a wise young man. He is secure in him. If love, trust respect and sincerity is in the relationship it will flourish

@@archileanbrown7549 there is no respect for her. Just tolerance

Don't worry she will leave soon.If she as her own money what is he bring to the table He isn't a very good looking man so he needs to do more for her..Vlogging is that he brings to the table not enough for a woman..sorry

*role model, you meant?

Good luck to you if this is your role model

Why not express way model 😂😂...And you still edited your comment and couldn't get it right

Yes, you are right about men using money to control women. It's no coincidence that in Nigerian culture, the women that suffer the most DV & unaliving at the hands of their husbands are women who are educated and earning good salaries or more than their spouses.

Power your woman so she can take her money when she fine a new man because you are cheap..

Not so intelligent man because if a man that thinks he's trying to look a woman or he's trying to wife a woman and don't want to spend a dime on her out of his own pocket that woman is not going to stay around for long. That woman is looking for the next man that could do something for her he's not an attractive man he's not a tall man he's a vlogger like a lot of vlogger okay it's not a big prestige job it's something that people are doing to make money. That's all he's showing her to do You want her to hang around you knowing that you're short and not to attractive You got to spend money brother.

I totally agree with Wodemaya, as a woman I love to be empowered so I can bring some to the table. Over dependency on a man is old fashion.

@@angelaescoffery7728😂

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Keep being single

@fargakoigip6029 - Your mindset is why you are still single at 56. Keep being single. 🤦🏾

You are right, but you just have to Tell your partner openly and politely!

​@@Kiriza22yeah

@@Kiriza22 I am not getting you

She’d said cards, nog credit cards. And she didn’t say they maxed out but that the banks froze any activity due to suspected fraud. She’s a Kenyan, like me. There’s ZERO credit card culture so I’m certain it was debit cards and she likely never notified the bank for her travel itinerary. So they will freeze it for suspected fraud. She can be a bit ignorant like that on small things then complain like others are wrong.

@@RadBunny2269 The bottom line is that her husband's doesn't treat her like his queen. 👑

​@@RadBunny2269 and why didn't she call the Husband to help her pay direct, or someone can't transfer money from another country 😢

@@nazieyprasse3701 None of us can answer that one. What I know is that the moment Ana Friedan bank flags your debit card for overseas fraud, you have to show up in-person to explain before they let you use them again. I suppose someone could have bought her a pre-paid card to use even from overseas…

She was stuck there to make the video more exciting more interesting for viewers. Pull in viewers. Like an adventure. Unfortunately she forgot pple will come for her as an already married woman or not single- with her man who should be coming to her rescue.

Let him get himself a husband instead

@@africanqueenmo that's not nice. What's wrong with us women being empowered.

@@gracetennant4982 what he needs is a provider not a helper

​@africanqueenmo God is his provider. Wode provides for Trudy, and they are help mates to one another.

@@SherrieBumbray he said it himself. She provides for herself he does not spend money on women. Not even his wife stop sanitizing truth. He is with her because she is not a financial burden. I advise her not to have any kids with him

Wide Maya is just another Kevin Samuels I feel sorry for any woman in his path except his mother

Amen! Thank you so much for the love and support. it really means a lot to us!

Ur most welcome 🙏🏾 🤗 ☺️

I don’t know about the rest you list there but i think we can say she definitely comes across as lonely-ish in her videos nowadays more than before the marriage.

Whatever you nasty people sow, you'll reap. Evil people seeking to sow seeds of discord between a couple. They're evil and they cannot help themselves out of it. Wretch-worthy spoilers.

I suspect you are single...

@@Redeemedbygrace-op7vn 😂😂😂😂. Absolutely opposite of that.

​@@brofutv1853😢

Trudy Tom care of herself from the onset darling . She paid for her flight to Ethiopia where they met, she paid for her flight to Singapore and everywhere else. The wedding was also dirt cheap which I like but I doubt he consulted her on that. Wode Maya seems cheap, he light have money and be doing the Lords work but it seems like he has been neglecting his responsibilities .

​@@readoutloudrol5755And she's okay with that, I'd call it desperate.

@@readoutloudrol5755 fact. Pathetic husband poor Trudy

You only see things on a surface level and do not understand the complexity of African culture fully. You are looking from an American lens. First of all, African women cannot be the only "breadwinners". If you see an African woman working in the markets, selling things or running a business, please understand that an African man is also working!!! In Africa, there are certain jobs or businesses that are ran by women NOT men. Infact, any domestic type of business are reserved for women. Hence, if you go to any market, majority of people selling things are women. Any types of business that is NOT domestic related is ran by men. You will never see an African woman selling metals or wood. Moreso, majority of companies prefer to hire men over women. In most African families, the parents will prioritize their sons over daughters to get an education. No matter the background of the family, rich or poor, the parents will always work hard to insure their sons are educated or employed over their daughters, it's the reason African men tend to be more educated than African women, because African women are NOT given the same opportunities as men. In an African setting, an uneducated African man is worthless and brings no value to society, hence the reason an educated and well to do African woman would NEVER marry such man. Finally, the reason an introduction takes place before marriage, is because the woman parents wants to ensure the man will be able to take care of his family financially before giving their blessings. No African man can just sit at home and do nothing. Such man will be stripped of his dignity, respect, insulted and ridiculed by family and friends. I know this because I have seen it happen in my own family.

If that's wisdom I wonder what foolishness might be to you

​@@africanqueenmo if you know better and can say better, tell us what exactly are you doing great, tell us about your achievement, and if you know so much, why don't you teach us something that can contribute to success and positive? So let's hear it

Very great interview

Exactly. Why marry a man who won't provide when you can find a man who will? Strange.

That's him. If you like spending money on your girlfriend, continue to not come and teach someone who is loved by each other how to use his money. And listen to the interview carefully, he said "he likes investing in her, things that matter " not unnecessary things....mteeeeeeww!!!

Did you read the caption of the video? It was a question left for people to share their opinion. I am sure there are many perspectives and they should all be acknowledged so that they can form their own conclusion, and I gave mine. I like them both individually and as a couple but that does not mean I have to agree with every single thing they say or do. They make a great team.

Massa massa take your opinion and use it in your relationship. If ot works or doesn't its yours to deal with. Leave them alone with your unsolicited opinion

​@@amnestytv9468he didn't address what matters to her because he's arrogant.

They will treat you well and then con you out of everything you have.Sorry for the Nigerian vibe but they leave alot of cries in foreign women that date them. It is like conmanship is in their DNA.

Exactly!! I agree. I like what he is doing g in the world but for how he speaks of her and money it sounds disturbing. She does not have a mother around to teach her, so she understands her value and worth as a woman. 🎉🎉🎉 He got away with getting everything for free. When she has children I wonder how he will be. A wedding is a beautiful memory for a woman also. This man wants a woman with her own money. A woman to propose to him. A woman to pay her way. While he gets free sex. Free support. A woman to propose to him. Born his children And still take care of the house, because he is a dirty Ninja. Is that fair??? She is getting more beautiful by the minute. One day a real man will snatch her.😊

Exactly

Whatever works with them, leave them alone, there are many people that invest in weddings, but lose out on the marriage, people invest in relationships, that is why money marry money, what he is doing is encouraging her to be dependent, which is a wonderful thing, she doesn't have to depend on him, and if anything happens she can stand on her own feet.

@@pitime4764 he sounds like an arrogant, pissy little boy. If this is how Ghanian men are I don't want.

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So he considered Trudy powerless only because she made less money than him om KZfaq? KZfaq can be gone tomorrow. Weird world.

But would women do the same back it seems that in the black world women should have all the privileges why men do not get a damn thing and to me that's unbalanced and incorrect

@@Blackisciple You sound like a man who should focus on yourself first and not be out there looking for women. You are not ready for a relationship. When you are ready, come back and watch this video again.

​@@BlackiscipleWomen do it all the time a do it all it's just that it's hidden and they are told to shut up constantly 😢

@@speakmind300 is that how things are for women in Africa ?

@@Blackisciple been there and done that. Men will listen to the foolishness of other helpless men to the point that all of them end up broken and penniless. Can't help a man if he isn't willing to help himself first.

Obviously you did not listen to the entire video or you did not understand what Wode Maya said for you to have made this comment.

@@whz366 shut up... You making noise in the classroom...

@@afronewsworldwide once again you show your low intelligence level, not understanding one iota what Wode Maya said in this video.

I'd never encourage my daughter to marry a Ghanan. A Nigerian brother is who Trudy should have married.

Yes. He does not show proper respect. I think what got me is when he said in their wedding video that they married on the day of her mother’s death. I had to rewind it because I did not believe what I was hearing. My goodness, the woman was mourning her mother. She looked frazzled at her own wedding. She was sad. What kind of person would do such a thing? I don’t know Wode. I should not judge someone I don’t know; but the things he says to her are almost like he wants her to have a low self esteem. Like he is always putting her in her place in a passive aggressive way. Making her grovel. I remember Trudy before marriage. She was so pretty, bright and vibrant. She has lost the spark in her eyes. Perhaps I am wrong and I pray that I am. God help these young people.

You said it .great statement

@@sheagocosmetics he seems like a sociopath because on her wedding day he made her visit her mothers grave and lay flowers. Trudy cried throughout during the wedding reception that was btw paid for by Kenyans. Not Wode Maya. It was a very bad sign even Trudys dad cried. This is not a match made in heaven. Trudy is a shadow of herself since getting married to that annoying mean immature boy from Ghana.

​@@africanqueenmo😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

She didn't need to be taught to be independent...she was already doing that. WM seems to be taking credit for all the hard work Trudy puts in.

I agree

Doesn’t sound good at all…

Wodemaya is very stingy,, he presented a car gift to the wife and later the wife said they both saved for the car I doubt he spends any money on the wife

@@muluchristine I feel like she might be suffering in silence

But thats what she likes. She says she prefare to care for herself thats why she's working and cant be dependent on her man. Babara tne builder language. Now she's looking at him say exactly what she said

Why does a man make money if only to keep it to himself. That was not God’s purpose for manhood. He was created to be a Provider to a wife and their children together while the wife was responsible for creating a safe, clean, comfortable home ensuring the family receives its nutrition through several daily meals and the children have the physical support they need to develop into smart, confident humans through taking their children to after school activities, helping them with homework etc. A woman’s role is enough work without adding a full-time job to the mix. Men must stop looking at women as overworked worker mules. We are tired of being overworked and expected to be the financial provider as well as everything else the woman handles daily . Just something to think about. ❤

@@HoneyBunches100 true.. in a perfect world,but the world isnt perfect, and alot of men are borderline or full blown narcissists, who use their money to keep women " in their place" to tolerate and put up with his bs.. Too many stories to mention., so i would support women getting their own bread, it can also be a back up just in case he fall flat financially too, if she can do well enough to hire in the day to day running to "take the load off " that woud be excellent..

@@HoneyBunches100 woman having to work is something woman FOUGHT for in the west. Men already know they have to spend money on women. Even with a prenup a man will still have to pay a woman. A prenup is used to protect assets accumulated BEFORE marriage or in excess of what is agreed upon in the relationship.

Absolutely!!

​@@wodemayavlogs785Kobby pray and get closer to Jesus Christ of Nazareth. I pray He steers your marriage. I see some suggesting negative vibes to your dear wife. Marriage is for life and we would account to God some day. May the Spirit of God guide you to keep loving Trudy according to His word.

Too cheap for that.Another man will take her from him.He isn't attractive to be so cheap

@angelaescoffery7728 ITS not nice how he put his words like when he said "just for a wonan" hopefully he will see how bad that sounds. His mom is not just a woman nor his sister. If they are women of substance that bring knowledge, emotional and mental support they are not just women!! I'm sure he has great love for his wife. He also doesn't have to be concerned if something happens because she can make money as well for their union. He must also remember we can make children a great gift from God. They (men) plant the seed, and we give them back a baby. Women are in a great class by itself even though it takes two to conceive!!!

Leave the. Man alone he does buy his wife gifts. He has bought her a car and has treated her nicely.

@Yardsteadinginjamaica I never said he did not buy her nice things. Learn to read carefully. This is an open forum. This is called social media. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. This is not a forum for ignorance and telling people you don't know what to do. There business is open for discussion and place on video by them for people to make statements. Like it or not!!!

She wasnt forced. She knows who she married. If shes not happy then go to counselling

He his selfish,stingy,self centered and talking how to unite Africa ,what have you give back to people that has been watching your video ?? Most blogger here in the states even give lots of homeless money your own case is all about my self my self my self I feel bad for the girl and Maya is lucky to marry African girl you can’t do this shit to Chinese or any American woman she will get half of your property if not all

Wode Maya "taught" his wife BEFORE THEY WERE Married how to earn an $8,000 - $10,000 (per month). That's called EMPOWERMENT. How is that being "stingy" ????? He didn't have to teach her anything. He taught her how to fish instead of giving her a fish. He invested in his woman.

@@Buildsolarhomes Before Wodemaya it's Iam Marwa who gave her you tube tips, but Wode became jealous and destroyed the sister-bro friendship because he wanted all the glory

@@user-pb6fr4jr1k The bottom line is no one forced her to marry him. She has her own channels, can start new ones, and she can leave ANYTIME she wants.

I thought i was the only one who sees that

I hope she one day get a lover. Hapa ni biashara. It's called blacktax.

Why is she in a marriage where he is not providing nor being there for her he travels alot.smh

That's not what he said, Go listen again. Did you even listen to the end...? SMH

@@veno7864 yes I did not only in this video many other videos ..

Listen very well. 😂😂

Haters everywhere 😅 Most couples split bills n they love each other

The one that Trudy bought a ticket for herself to go see him...that one right ??

@@readoutloudrol5755 She did about six videos in Singapore and they are all enjoyable for me.

She's not. I wish she stopped thinking about what people will say.😂😂😂

Miss Trudy just needs to get a puppy dog pet 🐕 and save their marriage period. thank you!

Just diabolical thinking and shocking .

That's why he bought her a car?