Why Are People Leaving NYC?
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2 жыл бұрынWe'll compare life in New York City to the surrounding suburbs, and show the Pros and Cons of each.
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@HereBeBarr 2 жыл бұрын
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@AntonioRamirez-ne3xk 2 жыл бұрын
Hi 👋
@KPOPIVESTEVE 2 жыл бұрын
I prefer the suburbs where I live as it’s quieter. Great video
@isaacparadis7951 2 жыл бұрын
Definetly the city!
@onewickedway 2 жыл бұрын
Being someone who has lived in Chicago and NYC and now living in a suburb of Orlando the differences are extreme. For maybe using my car once a month in Chicago and not having one in NYC I can’t do anything without my car. The quiet of living in a suburb is a double edge sword it’s almost to quiet sometimes so when you hear a firetruck or a police car you are almost hyper focused on it and I really miss the chaos of living in the city and just the weird and unique things that can’t be described
@tonybernardi775 Жыл бұрын
Love living in spacious areas now after Covid. I’m so over high rent for shoebox’s
@inspirational_cari4950 Жыл бұрын
@FUCKTHESYSTEM70 😭
@slumpbabydre Жыл бұрын
I live in Mount Dora Fl been here all my life and want to move to NYC
@SantanaDiego 2 жыл бұрын
Lived in NYC my whole life, moved to New England in 2013 and instantly came back didn’t even last a full year, moved to suburbs of PA during the start of the pandemic and only lasted a year. Both times regretted leaving the city. For sure will not leave NYC again 😂
@Kianfox 2 жыл бұрын
Do you find that the suburbs are too boring, uncultured, and trapped feeling? I've lived in the suburbs of ny my whole life, and I'm ready to move to the city. I'm pretty sick of the same thing over and over.
@phongphong4640 2 жыл бұрын
@@Kianfox Definitely a brilliant idea to move to NYC. I live here for 2 decades and it's good for your mental health. And lot's of Fun. Suburb-living is very depressing and Boring.
@Kianfox 2 жыл бұрын
@@phongphong4640 thanks for the response! I'm looking in to the bayridge area possibly. We'll see. Hope to be out there soon 👍👍
@MsB405 2 жыл бұрын
i'm happy you made this, because people think NY is only the 5 boroughs. I lived in the city when i was single, now that i have a family i live in the suburbs, the suburbs is better for raising children in my opinion.
@TheCaptainhairdo 2 жыл бұрын
I may never live in NYC, but I will always choose to live in a city and, within that city, a walkable neighborhood. I hope to one day find a nice little apartment or condo in a walkable area and never leave.
@phongphong4640 2 жыл бұрын
I moved back to NYC from Vegas and LA mainly for the walkability. It's just so much Fun to walk. But I do go to west coast to enjoy the vast nothingness ( especially in Nevada.)
@tiamarrow6366 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve lived in the suburbs all my life……Nassau County is my home, and honestly…..The suburbs definitely give off that small, hometown feel especially if you go onto Long Island, but you go far out toward the North Shore or the Hamptons. I definitely feel like the city is really good if you’re into the “hustle & bustle” and the frenzy of it all….however, of course there’s still it’s cons such as which part is cheaper or more expensive, which part is safe, and which part os more dangerous, and etc.
@Blackandblue200 2 жыл бұрын
Living one year in suburb during the pandemic caused me mental health issues. I returned to the city area, it just feels so good!
@phongphong4640 2 жыл бұрын
So so true. It's unbelievablely boring and depressing no matter how good that neiborhood is.
@ABE-ke8eb 2 жыл бұрын
Too much crime in the city … especially NYC
@tonybernardi775 Жыл бұрын
The city is disgusting. I moved out and will never return.
@Blackandblue200 Жыл бұрын
@@tonybernardi775 thank you for not coming back 🙏
@KrystalKBeauty 2 жыл бұрын
Love these types of videos. Spot on with these differences. I grew up in the burbs, now I’m in the city. For me personally, I don’t think I could see myself back in a suburb anytime soon. Can’t wait for the bagel video!
@HereBeBarr 2 жыл бұрын
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@TrainsFerriesFeet 2 жыл бұрын
I'm moving to NYC or Hudson County when I retire. I'd like to be in Manhattan, of course, but I probably won't be able to afford enough space to be content. In Brooklyn, Queens or Hudson County, there's still lots of density and public transportation, but I think I can be happy there. I hate the suburbs, so they're out.
@Tofog22000 2 жыл бұрын
The biggest adjustment after living in the city for 30 yrs. and moving to Closter in NNJ was how quiet it was, that and the wildlife. We have deer, turkeys, raccoons, foxes etc. here. I'm Brooklyn it was mainly pigeons and mice haha. Great to be able to drive to the city and enjoy the energy and vibe it brings and then drive on the Palisades Parkway back home. I ❤ NYC and NJ
@HereBeBarr 2 жыл бұрын
I remember the random deer in NJ
@carrieg7185 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like heaven
@orangecat5036 2 жыл бұрын
The weather in nyc is no joke. From Hurricanes to nor'Easter summer storms that sound like the end of the world.
@genebigs1749 2 жыл бұрын
I left Queens in the 90s and moved to the North Shore of Long Island. Although I miss the ability to hop on the train and be in the city in 20 minutes, and all the different cultures, food, and everything else the city has to offer, I love where I live now, and am happy I raised my kids out in a safe, quiet neighborhood with great schools. Maybe someday I'll move back and my wife and I can once again enjoy the greatest city in the world! Thanks for a great video!
@Moncriefs 2 жыл бұрын
i just want to live the rest of my life in NYC. I visit every year faithfully
@tips4tourists790 2 жыл бұрын
The suburbs may be gorgeous, but I'm always in favor of the city life. But hey, if anyone wants a parallel between the two, I think the outer parts of the outer boroughs are a good bet. Staten Island is essentially like northern NJ with a ton of nature, suburban-esque homes, and Italian shops and restaurants.
@HereBeBarr 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the input Ian
@prestonradtke222 2 жыл бұрын
Most definitely! Conversely, much of Hoboken, and the parts of Jersey City near the path feel like extensions of Manhattan
@tips4tourists790 2 жыл бұрын
@Gaelle Future Nurse It is semi-diverse. There are several ethnic enclaves on the island, but it's nowhere near as diverse as the other 4 boroughs
@bill4514 2 жыл бұрын
I would say small city's or if you really want to get away a small I know that this won't be an option if you work in nyc (unless you have a helicopter) but towns like Missoula Mt or Madison WI I honestly think would be the best options for those who want city life but some peace and quiet (just don't live in the students areas lol)
@ximenadelrio Жыл бұрын
Cities are much better !!!!
@NoWeyJose 2 жыл бұрын
I’ll be visiting next weekend
@jessedylan6162 2 жыл бұрын
I have the best of both worlds, an apartment in the city and an abode outside of it for more quiet and relaxation . One doesn't always need to buy a house in the "burbs", per se, but can buy or rent an apartment there, as well. Thanks for this video, Jon, and keep up with your labor of love.
@stevedow5842 2 жыл бұрын
I grew up living both in cities and suburbs, but mostly suburbs which I did not like. As an adult, I always lived in an apartment, both in a suburb where I had to have a car and in NYC for 12 years and thankfully no car. Now I live in an apartment in NJ, right next to the train station so it's the best of both worlds: an easy commute with still no car needed and I still can walk to just about anything I need, and best of all: much lower rent! I never desired to own a house. I just cannot imagine having to spend weekends mowing the lawn, raking leaves, etc. Great video as always, by the way!
@davidawelty 2 жыл бұрын
I grew up in the midwest burbs, fled and have been in NYC for 20 years now, in the East Village for 16 of those years…. the thought of leaving is impossible to even ponder. I love everything about living in NYC - the pandemic made the love stronger than ever.
@ceciliaromia 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Jon! I really enjoyed this video!!! I prefer living in the city♥️. Thanks so much for your amazing videos! It's so nice to see you and Adriana🥰. Hugs from La Plata, Argentina! ¡Abrazos!
@naptime0143 2 жыл бұрын
I prefer urbanization cause everything is close and I am a freshman at nyu and it feels good to just take one subway line from Queens to lower Manhattan rather than going to school in a suburb and relying on shuttle busses or driving (even tho I can drive)
@HereBeBarr 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my days at Rutgers U in NJ
@sfs1167 2 жыл бұрын
On the supermarkets, people in the suburbs drive a car and buy more because they can transport more. You'd go a lot more often in NYC, buying smaller, more portable amounts.
@JustOnePageAway 2 жыл бұрын
Your content is consistently enjoyable and informative.
@shannongaddy5873 2 жыл бұрын
Shannon Gaddy Born and raised in NYC. Been living in the Hudson Valley for 22 years and in all that time I’ve missed my city. My husband loves it up here so I’ve had to compromise. Miss walking anywhere and going anywhere and getting anything I want at any time is heaven to me. The best restaurants food from so many different cultures is so divine Museums parks midtown Manhattan broadway I could go on and on. I’m a city girl-a New York City girl. And nothings gonna change that. Thanks for your wonderful videos- keeps me in touch with my home. Love Shannon
@christygarcia6345 2 жыл бұрын
I realy like your videos! Very informative, entertaining and soo well made 👌
@isaacparadis7951 2 жыл бұрын
I personally like the noise of the city. I hate living in my small town. It just feels way too quiet. I can't wait to move to NYC!
@marcelletalksmma 2 жыл бұрын
Nyc has an unbeatable energy. It's an amazing feeling. Everything is constantly exciting.
@phongphong4640 2 жыл бұрын
@@marcelletalksmma Yes, you feel you are Alive in NYC.
@sunnybeachwalks4k2022 2 жыл бұрын
probably my favourite youtube channel Barr is the man
@MrLarrythehacker 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who has lived in suburban Boston who now lives in the city for college, I can say I don't miss the suburbs at all. Simply too bland. No exciting restaurants or local businesses, little diversity, and of course, you have to take your car everywhere. Here in Boston in the city there are so many cool businesses, clubs, museums, and the best part, I don't have to take my car to any of it. That means no flat tires, no engine check, oil change, anything. In my view, the city is superior. Also worth noting that some parts of NYC to have a lot of the benefits of both worlds. Midtown Manhattan may be noisy and smell bad, but Park Slope, Brooklyn is quiet, charming, has great schools, doesn't smell bad, plus has the benefit of walkability, small businesses, etc. The best of both the city and suburbs. Great vid!
@recoveringfatboy5660 2 жыл бұрын
I was born and raised in jersey city. I moved to the suburbs of Orlando, Florida about 20 years ago. It’s night and day to the city. By 8pm it’s dead quiet. But we have a great downtown and because it’s a tourist city, we have a lot of chain restaurants, so the tourists can have some familiarity
@arhumz1573 2 жыл бұрын
awesome work, Jon!
@geoffreyselvage1673 2 жыл бұрын
Great video! Love the Old School pic of Jeff and The Twins.... #JerseyBoyz.
@homerb3368 2 жыл бұрын
@Geoffrey Selvage Same here 😁😸😬😄😆😃😺😹🤣😜
@SoubiLuver4ever 2 жыл бұрын
Was wondering did you do a video on differences on different boroughs? I love your videos too. Very informative and things I had no idea about and also could relate to many aspects too. :)
@christinachristofi7313 2 жыл бұрын
Great video Jon spot on with the comparisons having lived in Manhattan for 10yrs now between London and North Cornwall imo would prefer the city life 90% for social life, food options, diversity independent stores and accessibility. Also good for kids to grow up in multi cultural society with access to all the great museums cultural events and different languages. Can’t wait for your bagel 🥯 video.
@scoutandscooter 2 жыл бұрын
This is great! After six months in Ft. Worth we are now startled when we hear a siren. And what, a car driving down our street? Better be a neighbor.
@danielj7361 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with the bagel sentiment as someone who grew up in Northern NJ, Long Island and now in boroughs. I extend that to pizza as well. The best casual bagel/pizza places are in the New York City metro- area not necessarily NYC proper. I have had significant better bagel, pizza (and American style Chinese take-out for that matter) in Northern NJ, and on Long Island. Within the 5 boroughs of NYC it's usually hit or miss. Goes to show you that a place that becomes exponentially wealthier (i.e: Manhattan) does not always equate to an improvement in its food staples that have much history there.
@monstermaniac49 2 жыл бұрын
As always, great video. I grew up and still live in Suffolk County on Long Island. I like it because I’m close enough to the 5 boroughs to go spend the day there if I want. But far enough to get away from it. I’m very close to way better beaches than New York City beaches. I love the city though. As much as I love where I live, and will probably never leave, I feel like I would have loved to live in one of the boroughs for the experience, just to say I did it. I do agree 100% with the chain restaurants and shops taking over. That definitely upsets me when a local mom and pop shop gets taken out by yet another Applebee’s or a Friday’s. There’s less uniqueness and personality in that.
@Kiky812 2 жыл бұрын
I've lived my whole life till now in a very quiet place in italy... i spent 5 months in ny and LOVED it. I don't know if I 'd want to be there for the rest of my life but i would definitely enjoy all that the city has to offer for a few years, at least.
@LarchmontLady 2 жыл бұрын
I left for the suburbs in 2021 and I am very happy there 😊🏡
@tiara1399 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome video!
@nashwanalaezy4727 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks a million for your effort.
@vernefits1953 2 жыл бұрын
fantastic video
@naomiferreira8255 2 жыл бұрын
Hands down its the city for me. Great video.
@sfs1167 2 жыл бұрын
For those with kids who want a quiet and restful life, I'd recommend the suburbs (although you can be as busy as you want to be). In the city, you'd have more of a sense of adventure. You'd probably be younger (older people like me get tired earlier in the evening than younger people) and very social, hence the bars and restaurants within walking distance.
@mioangel1227 2 жыл бұрын
I have to watch it again! 😁 TFS
@user-ns1um8kq7i 2 жыл бұрын
I grew up in a small town on Long Island and my entire childhood/adolescence I was extremely jealous of "city kids" who grew up in NYC. I always envied people who were able to step outside their home and just walk anywhere they want, which wasn't a possibility where I grew up. It made me feel trapped. I don't plan on having kids, but theoretically if I did, there's no way I would subject them to that. (And I'm not particularly advocating for NYC when I say this; just urban/walkable cities in general).
@bill4514 2 жыл бұрын
Also grew up in the suburbs (not nyc) and I honestly don't get why we still have this idea that it's the ideal place to raise kids so many kids have nothing besides maybe a gas station within walking distance and are essentially trapped ar completely dependent on the parents to get any where I get why it seemed appealing in the 50s when people were moving from essentially tenement housing but honestly the idea that you should raise kids somewhere you need a car to get anywhere just seems so beyind contradictory
@dammitcarlos 2 жыл бұрын
Punctuation alert?
@axebul.2366 2 жыл бұрын
Great video as always (Y) I lived in a "Bigger" City here in Germany and moved to a smaller city with only around 100 k population and i can say its a lot better :D
@marblehillpjs 2 жыл бұрын
living in the burbs with a car in a house you have to shovel snow and worry about getting to commuter rails to commute into the city.
@phongphong4640 2 жыл бұрын
And the home intruders?
@edvaira6891 2 жыл бұрын
I grew up 25 miles up the Palisades Parkway from New York City in Rockland County and I would have described how I grew up as more “small-town” (at least in the 1980’s, it was just…Quiet and dull)…It was SURREAL How different life was only a half hour north of Manhattan! And, yeah, just about everything was a ten minute walk away (and, like where you grew up, it was mostly Jewish and Italian)…Still, I prefer where I am now, still in the far North of the city limits of San Diego, but also kind of suburban, too…it was a nice place to raise my family
@homerb3368 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I know the option to contact you in private. I’m expat from the East Coast myself and currently in North County(from your description you are in Del Mar or RB area?😁)
@edvaira6891 2 жыл бұрын
@@homerb3368 Close…Mira Mesa/Scripps Ranch, actually…been here since ‘91
@vicjames3256 2 жыл бұрын
Love Rockland County!
@RealRamRamInThecut 2 жыл бұрын
@@edvaira6891 I’m from nyc move to Rockland county back in October of 2017 a and u hate this place it’s so boring
@adambuesser6264 2 жыл бұрын
In NJ their are plenty of towns that are walkable. Some towns are not made for walking but you can get around by foot, bike, scooter, bus / train service. In Paramus, You are not far from a shopping center but parking can be a challenge.
@euenfheiejrj 2 жыл бұрын
I grew up in Ridgewood and you can walk if you live in the “right spot.”
@rolfjacobson833 2 жыл бұрын
thanks! great again
@euroschmau 2 жыл бұрын
The pandemic really harmed my love of the city. I'm in Philly and it didn't weather Covid well; eating out is a chore, crime has exploded, the subway is very unpleasant, people are more agitated, homelessness is at crisis levels, I could go on an on. I don't know if NYC is any better, based on the terrifying experience I had walking through Penn Station back last September, it seems like it's just as bad. But the suburbs are unaffordable and I don't drive, so pretty much I can only hope the post covid recovery comes fast. My god what a miserable time this is.
@phongphong4640 2 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel. I moved back to NYC from west coast ( LA and Vegas) before lockdown. Living in NYC for the past two years is no joke. But witnessing my beloved city gradually coming back to life is very satisfying.
@supertrouper 2 жыл бұрын
Now with remote work increasingly becoming popular and with so many having left the big cities for the suburbs during the pandemic, more people will be staying back in their suburban towns to work remotely and those that may have considered coming into the big cities, many will now be reconsidering moving into the big cities and many of those remote workers in the suburbs are in positions where they will become future business and property developers and will start contributing to many of these suburban towns to turn into half urban and half suburban towns like Brooklyn or Queens or Staten Island with more walking convenience to business and shopping and entertainment districts as well as more educational and job opportunities for the local people and that will even further deteriorate the flux of suburban folks wanting to come into big cities.
@Equilibrium947 2 жыл бұрын
Plastic on the couch AND the remote control 😫😫😫
@HereBeBarr 2 жыл бұрын
Hahha
@christygarcia6345 2 жыл бұрын
Love Adriana too!
@tasniaislam3951 2 жыл бұрын
My family lived in small apartments my whole life and I adjusted to the convenience of being close to shops and trains but 4 months ago my family bought a home in queens (bordering Long Island) and my commute to work(Chinatown) takes me 2.2 hours to go. 4 hours in total commute time each day. I like the suburbs but I miss the city life more.
@Kiky812 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, a 4 hours commute is a lot. I did 2 per day and thats the maximum that i can do...I think 🤔
@Beacon_NY 2 жыл бұрын
By the way, Jon, I met a person who once lived in Brooklyn and then moved up to Hudson, NY and was commuting to the city for work. It is 2 hours per trip and Amtrak tickets cost a bundle.
@marblehillpjs 2 жыл бұрын
i have the best of both. I'm in queens on the border of Long island with a family. I love not having to commute to the city though
@collierparker8213 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah i live in the suburbs and I hate driving to everything. 10 min for the near supermarket. 12 for the gym. All my friends live 10-20 min away.
@vailewalders1395 2 жыл бұрын
That picture of you and your brother in the bow ties so cute
@homerb3368 2 жыл бұрын
@Vaile Walders Agree 😁😬😸😄😆😺😃
@limomangeno 2 жыл бұрын
The Best bagels I've had were in Long Beach the one went you enter from the east or west ....outstanding, big freaking tasted bagels. .
@shareced7651 2 жыл бұрын
I have lived in houses & apartments. With an apartment it’s nice not having to worry about maintenance issues for sure!! Amenities are nice as well when they are included. After living in MO, Los Angles and now NY, I have to say I love NY the best! I currently live across the water from Manhattan. You get more space, it’s quite and not as expensive. I absolutely love not having a car (it’s not needed), there is so much to see and do. Already lost weight with all the walking and I feel more alive. Sometimes things are inconvenient and areas are dirty but there are a lot more positives vs negatives. Unfortunately I will be leaving NY this year for family. I’m excited for the new adventure but I’m sad to leave NY. I do have a list of things I still want see before leaving. I will be hard to say goodbye!
@shareced7651 2 жыл бұрын
Oh one more thing ... your videos have really helped me out! Thank you again!
@phongphong4640 2 жыл бұрын
You can always come back for vacation! I wish you the best luck for your new adventure. I moved back to NYC from west coast ( LA. and Vegas.)
@T800ASSAULT 2 жыл бұрын
Oh Jesus Christ I prefer The CITY! Was born and raised in Queens NY but HAD to move to Essex county NJ (no offense Jon) before I turned 21. COMPLETE difference here. It takes me a 30 minute walk to the nearest NYC bound train (and might I say NJ transit has the WORST public transportation system than NYC's MTA) and another 30 minute walk to decent stores nearby to do minor shopping. Now honestly as I get older the appeal of living in Manhattan waned especially as of late but Queens has that perfect balance of city life and suburban life and I LOVE the diversity and energy there. I could just walk around in Queens and not get bored. The only reason why I haven’t been able to move back for about 2 decades is again COST.
@euenfheiejrj 2 жыл бұрын
It depends where. My hometown of Ridgewood, NJ has a train within 6 min walk and the bus was up the street. It was very easy to commute to the city. Granted it was much easier when I moved to the city but not terrible in NJ compared to other suburbs. I was probably a 30 min walk to the grocery store but if you lived closer to the downtown area, you could definitely walk to the stores.
@moegunn5434 10 ай бұрын
Born and raised here. Only those from here would understand what a magical place this is. I live an hour outside the city in the NJ highlands. Having come to summer camp here as a kid and seeing that suburban life, THAT'S what I wanted ! The way normal people lived. I work in the city once a week and that's my sweet spot. I have neighbors with all kinds of livestock, I ride my motorcycle out in the countryside and take my boat out and enjoy the lakes. As awesome as the city is, I wouldn't have it any other way.
@jetfan925 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jon, I live in West Hempstead my whole life for 30 years now. For me, I can walk to both local and chains in my area. I'm also pretty lucky to have public transportation to multiple train stations throughout the Town of Hempstead in Southwestern Nassau County. Also, which side of the plastic couch photo is you?
@britishgray4952 2 жыл бұрын
Good Friday Morning Jon Please Do A Video About Tampa Florida It's A lot Of Fun Thank You For Sharing This Information With All Of Us Take Care With Love Always Ms British Gray From Tampa Florida Blessings
@HereBeBarr 2 жыл бұрын
Some day for sure!
@pimpnamedslickback7780 2 жыл бұрын
My parents moved us to the suburbs from NY when I was a teen. The suburbs are depressing I'm sorry. Unless you have your own car you're solely dependent on someone else taking you places. When you live in the city you have far more independence. Im moving my family back
@joseluz8185 2 жыл бұрын
Love you Barr,you speak very well,i love your voice and the way you speak….✌️😘😚
@rmknicks 2 жыл бұрын
I was a die hard NYCer until it came time to buy a house. I didn't wan't to pay $$$ for an tiny apartment in the city so I moved to Nassau county. I bought a condo in the business district of my town so I can still walk for food and shopping. And it's only 40 minutes to Penn on the train.
@ABE-ke8eb 2 жыл бұрын
Moved to NYC 6 months ago and all the hype surrounding this city is just drowned by the crime that takes over all the streets. You can’t just go out and have a good time minding your own business without the worry of getting stabbed or having human feces smeared on your face. I honestly don’t know why anyone would want to move here unless they had to. My husband and I had to move here because of his job. He is a psychiatrist at a local hospital. Hopefully he can help people get the mental help they need, but I don’t see this city getting any better any time soon. We can’t wait to leave this place and once we leave we will never come back! Hopefully we can make it out of NYC alive and well…
@devbeatz7965 2 жыл бұрын
very true i saw a man get locked up for public intoxication in the suburbs of metuchen NJ. he wasnt loud just walking and stumbling so they called the police
@Beacon_NY 2 жыл бұрын
I like the exurbs. Beacon is in the Mid-Hudson Valley which is exurban. Less housing density and more rural-like appearance defines the exurbs. Westchester would be suburban.
@ArhamAhmad9278 2 жыл бұрын
I am from the suburbs (born in Yonkers). One thing I do love about living in the suburbs in Westchester is crossing borders into NYC without even noticing when driving, and finding that you're already in the Bronx. Parts of Yonkers, Mt Vernon, and New Rochelle are actually urban and look a lot more like the Bronx, Queens, BK, and Upper Manhattan. Tbh I am more than happy with living in the suburbs(preferably Westchester) as long as my commute into the city is not entirely MetroNorth or LIRR. I am absolutely cool with living in NYC too but wouldn't live in Midtown. Not bcuz Midtown is the most expensive place, but I feel like it is hard to wanna ever step outta Manhattan to visit the outer boroughs and suburbs.
@jessedylan6162 2 жыл бұрын
Living in midtown Manhattan is special because one can virtually walk anywhere and find whatever is needed , in terms of food and clothing shopping, entertainment, health facilities, parks and recreation and the list goes on and on without reliance upon public transport. It's also not much of a struggle reaching the outer boroughs via public transport, anyway, should there be desire. Ditto for leaving the city ( and country)...it all depends upon how motivated you are in doing so.@Arham Ahmad
@ArhamAhmad9278 2 жыл бұрын
@@jessedylan6162 Thats true about the convenience so I see why it is mad expensive. But it also exists for sure in the outer boroughs, even in my Yonkers neighborhood I used to live in but to a lesser extent. The fact that most of the iconic things in NYC are in midtown made me feel like the residents there would rarely ever leave the place to visit the surrounding areas but I hope I'm wrong
@jessedylan6162 2 жыл бұрын
@@ArhamAhmad9278 Actually, my auto mechanic is in Yonkers..off exit 2 on I87.. There are great places to see and dine/eat out in Yonkers..Westchester is where i've a 2nd abode..thanks for replying and stay safe.
@HeHasRisen. 2 жыл бұрын
If you want the best of both worlds live in either Jersey City or Hoboken
@georgiasmith7615 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. I live in Alexandria outside DC, and it is more like those towns. It isn’t exactly a big crazy city, but it still has public transportation and you can walk or take the bus to restaurants, shops and bars. Also has the subway to easily get into DC. It’s not too spread out so you feel stranded.
@phongphong4640 2 жыл бұрын
In New Jersey? Maybe not.
@orangecat5036 2 жыл бұрын
I grew in the bronx plastic on the furniture was normal. I Understand why they did that now.
@chrisolson3240 2 жыл бұрын
Perpetual renting can start cause a strain. Especially NYC. Your monthly rent for a shoe box could be a cut in half (sometimes) for a house payment somewhere else. Or even a condo as well. But like you pointed out John, other factors play into ones decision, such as transportation. Subway to work and home vs car, repairs and insurance add to suburban life. Also age and physical abilities too. Food, too cook/bake or to be served, that is the question? Look forward to the top bagel review you have planned!
@HereBeBarr 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I can't wait for the bagel odyssey to NJ myself.
@lucianac4388 2 жыл бұрын
Oh Yes. Personally I cant decide between Absolute Bagels and Murray's
@homerb3368 2 жыл бұрын
Or my favorite in NJ - Hot Bagels in Fair Lawn on Saddle River Rd & Morlot !😬👍
@beejbrigade 2 жыл бұрын
I grew up in the suburbs of Miami but have lived in NYC for 3 years. It feels like the outer boroughs are that nice mix between a calm vibe, having a family, and even having a car without having to leave to the suburbs (e.g. places like Forest Hills, Bay Ridge, Staten Island). I think the only issue is the high price of buying a house in the city, like you said!
@phongphong4640 2 жыл бұрын
Forest Hills is NOT a suburb. But if you are old,lazy and timid, then living in FH can feel like a suburb. It takes exactly 18 minutes to Penn Station from FH by LIRR. Subway is also plentful. I moved to FH from upper westside. And I work in Manhattan--Perfect balance.
@donjulio4025 2 жыл бұрын
I prefer the city, easy walk to restaurants and grocery stores are nice. I don't miss the cost of owning a vehicle. The negative although is the crime. Enjoy your videos sir. Thanks
@pizzareviewsonthego 2 жыл бұрын
I think owning a car can be very advantageous, especially when travelling outside of the Subway grid and to New York's surrounding areas. For example, I can drive to Princeton New Jersey or Freehold in a little over 30 minutes. It takes me 75 minutes to drive to Philadelphia. Public transit would take a whole lot longer because you have to take multiple trains/busses to get to all the places you want to visit within the tri-state area. And that includes lots of waiting.
@homerb3368 2 жыл бұрын
Your example is only possible to achieve at 3 AM, come on with all the traffic on the Turnpike?🙀😬
@pizzareviewsonthego 2 жыл бұрын
@@homerb3368 the I-95 is clear most days ,
@rebeccar4312 2 жыл бұрын
Jon, have you eaten pizza at Lucali? It is in Caroll Garden-a couple neighborhoods west of where you are located. How come you haven't made a video with your Italian friends doing a taste test at Lucali? Or did you and I missed it? Also, would love to see you explore Little Poland in Greenpoint and do a video on pierogi. Thanks for sharing New York with us. Brooklyn Rocks! But too expensive...sigh.
@si06civic86 2 жыл бұрын
Going to Bleekers now is a travel I bet for you. But one worth it !
@clare2439 2 жыл бұрын
i love NYC
@MagellanandGreyhound 2 жыл бұрын
Growing up among Italians, plastic on everything lol. So here’s the thing - renting and home ownership are not necessarily opposing choices. It’s where you are in your life. Right now, I’m a 45 minute train ride to Manhattan and 30 to Brooklyn. And I prefer Brooklyn right now more than Manhattan. I used to rent and I can see once retiring renting again to travel more freely.
@MagellanandGreyhound 2 жыл бұрын
Oh and I do miss the city more now last two years, since I would sometimes work there and could enjoy afterwards - then go home to my quiet home 😁
@tianyuli8335 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Barr, I am currently living in a Manhattan full service apartment building but thinking about moving to some pre-war building such as Park Slope brown store. In your opinion, what are the main differences in terms of living experience, except for elevator and doorman? For example, you mentioned the noise of people going upstairs which I have never thought about before. Thanks!
@HereBeBarr 2 жыл бұрын
I never lived in a door man building. I mean they are more security and take your packages. Biggest Issue w older buildings is nice bleeding through and no elevator.
@studionv Жыл бұрын
I own my apartment in Brooklyn and my house in Orange County no issues here 😀
@lisap4251 Жыл бұрын
Yes I hated the plastic especially in the summer 😂
@AJM11991 2 жыл бұрын
The moment you move out of the city is the moment you lose your social lifestyle. I think this is one of the reasons many middle aged families are so unhappy despite having kids.
@HereBeBarr 2 жыл бұрын
🤔🤔 interesting
@tvariuness 2 жыл бұрын
culture alone is the reason why i prefer the city. also i hate the idea of having to depend on a car (plus i've been watching dashcam videos on yt lately and my goodness!).
@calvinkoay1939 2 жыл бұрын
In New York, properties in both city itself and its respective suburbs would be costly. You want cheaper homes, you got yo go to suburbs way out of New York. Living in the city itself might force you into getting yourself an apartment but suburbs, you have more choices that you are able to choose landed properties like detached houses. Not only for New York city, living in a city well be very convenient if you were to head to work because most offices are located in the city hub. You can just use the subways. But for the suburbs, you probably need a private vehicle to travel further as you have to commute between other suburbs to reach New York city. If you have pets like dogs, living in a suburb is recommended as suburbs are more closed to nature as compared to city. The main city like New York usually is crowded and and your might not be comfortable taking your dogs for example for a stroll as many places in the city prohibit pets.
@NormaGeli 2 жыл бұрын
idk if i could do without my car, its so convenient to keep extra stuff in it
@HereBeBarr 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s a necessity in Vegas
@jessirvington1946 2 жыл бұрын
City is better! Miss my nyc apartment, HATE westchester and the chains. Moved here to have a car bc we we’re leaving the city constantly. We’re luckily moving soon and to a smaller city than NYC but to a mother city that we also love and can afford a townhouse in.
@HereBeBarr 2 жыл бұрын
Where at?
@kristinjosiah9993 2 жыл бұрын
yes in those days putting plastic on the coach was a thing people outside of the US do as well.
@Lzrtetech 2 жыл бұрын
Any tips for a first time visitor? I’m coming to NYC Thursday and want to get some cheap but good street food thanks
@markwisniewski2227 2 жыл бұрын
I left NYC for upstate NY. And NO, I don't regret it. My money goes so much further and the wilderness is awesome. The Finger Lakes area is the most underrated place in the world. And I get to live there.
@dlcmiamiinc 2 жыл бұрын
I moved from Brooklyn to Rutherford, NJ (Bergen County). I been here for 5 years and I absolutely love it. Best descion of my life so far even though I am single. It so much quieter, nicer, more affordable, less traffic, more space and less crime. My town has extremely low crime rate mainly because it mostly all families and older people. Where I live is still very walkable. I can walk to a supermarket, drugs store, plenty of different restaurants just a 10 min walk from my apartment. Another thing I appreciate is the ample amount of parking and barely any noise aside from emergency vehicles passing. The only drawback, since I am single, is that its boring and not much to do in terms of entertainment in Rutherford but NYC is easily accessible by bus (30 mins), train (30 mins) or car (30 mins). I highly highly recommend NJ suburbs if you still want to be close to NYC and have a better quality of life.
@homerb3368 2 жыл бұрын
@Dmitriy Lyubarskiy You should move to Fair Lawn, NJ at least you will have a lot of paisanos from formerly Soviet Union 😄😸😁
@bonniepwtf 2 жыл бұрын
Sweet, husband & wife posts back to back.
@HereBeBarr 2 жыл бұрын
haha i didn't know, i have to go watch hers now.
@melissam7146 2 жыл бұрын
I was watching a video with Cash Jordan one day and wondered how he got his daughter’s stroller onto the elevated subway platform. I can’t imagine hauling kids around on the subway until they can walk.
@phongphong4640 2 жыл бұрын
You can always ask strangers to help you. 99 percent of people will help. I often offer my hands to women with heavy loads.
@eastcoastmusicmachine7989 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve lived everywhere, man … and we each have to live where we feel whole
@user-ns1um8kq7i 2 жыл бұрын
amen
@Kiky812 2 жыл бұрын
Wow your comment is on point. I feel so not myself where I live. I never did. I tried, trust me, but it's like being exiled from the world.
@CitizenKane359 2 жыл бұрын
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!! Plastic slipcovers. I grew up with them, and they were horrible. Uncomfortable to sit on, and if you were wearing shorts on a humid day, you would stick to them. So much for "the good old days"! Please! Never again.
@HereBeBarr 2 жыл бұрын
hahaha
@rebeccar4312 2 жыл бұрын
I too grew up on plastic coverings. I asked my mom every day why we had to keep plastic on the furniture...it was weird and uncomfortable. Was it a Jewish thing?
@Qiubenjamin 2 жыл бұрын
You just made it even harder Jon! Very informative nontheless
@HereBeBarr 2 жыл бұрын
😂
@therealhannahlee 2 жыл бұрын
“South Sudan, not South Brunswick” 🤣 Enjoyed this video, great topic!
@iLLG1L4life 2 жыл бұрын
I’m about to relocated from Brooklyn to Harrison, NJ. I feel the hate on Jersey, calling it the armpit… is ludicrous. I think saving money living in Jersey while still being in commute to the city through PATH train is the win-win situation I been hunting for a while. Given budget is a reality constraint such that you just not gonna have that Manhattan penthouse
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