I hate when people use animal metaphors and don't even understand the animal they're talking about. In the wild lions, don't raise other lion's cubs. They kill them off.

It’s ALWAYS “fatherless men” or step daddy raised men that cosign men raising another man’s DNA….

You can't convince a 304 that she is a 304, You can't convince a SIMP that he is a SIMP.

Only Simps and dudes that need father validation will sign their names on Step Daddy Applications

At this point its pointless to have this convo with ninjas. Its a loop of stupidity.

_Fellas, If You're In A Place Where It's Only Women That Are Applauding And Clapping For You, You Should Rethinking Everything_It's Because You Feeding Their Ego And Validation_

There’s a lot of these simps Larping as red pill content creators

“ Being a Stepfather is a Thankless Job.” - KS

No single mothers period. I ain't bout to drain my DAMN pockets

The lion metaphor doesn’t work because when the new lion gets the lioness all her previous cubs get killed

Using lions as an example didn't make sense. Lions don't raise other lion's cubs. If a lion takes over a pride from another lion the cubs are either cast out or unalived by the new leader.

Call me a weak man: I'll never be involved with a single mom.

WOW!? the " pander " is strong within this simp

No matter how they try to spin it There is no upside to dating a single mother when there are single single childless women out there.

Every time Anton said anything everyone else would immediately have their own individual slick thing to say 😂

Say no too single mother's 🫵🏾🤦🏾‍♂️💯

My Boy Saying that Because he is a Step Dad and he Trying to Justify Why a man should be a Step Dad no man should Be a Step Dad

Anton constantly spits facts

These guys are responding to Anton in a very feminine manner. Responding to how his statements make them feel as opposed to the substance of the statements.

No one is listening to him bc they feel attacked. When you feel attacked thats when you need to listen more than speaking.

As a man who was the child of a single mom but raised by my maternal grandparents, I truly agree with Anton. Being a stepfather used to be an honorable and respected position. No longer. Because single moms continue to make horrible decisions! Be honest. They raise their kids to not be respectful of the stepfather. You not my daddy! Is engrained into these children. My grandfather was very authoritarian when necessary. Instilled so many positive principles into me. He was a marine who served in WW2 to give you an idea of what kind of man he was.

Dude is a Simp 💯 No matter what happens that will never be your child

Accepting a single mother is accepting responsibility for someone else's poor life choices. 99% of single mothers chose their wants over the content of their partner's character. If they were actually mother material they wouldn't be single mothers.

Can we just hit the reset button. I'm so tired of these mislead men. It's no hard to figure this stuff out.

The women should be held accountable more because they’re choosing said men

In the black community 18% of the men are responsible for 80% of babies born. Most Pookies have several baby mommas and most Keishas have several baby daddies.

Both dudes with the hair are fools. I would never listen to either one about anything in life. Dudes trying to sell you on playing stepdad won't be there if you get divorced and put on step-child support. Full transparency: I played step-dad and adopted my little girl but my situation is special. My ex never asked for child support, alimony, money of any kind or anything after we split. She asked if I wanted to stay in her life, and my daughter loved me like dad. She calls me dad, fears my disappointment, loves me, and my ex allows me full parental rights. My situation is special. It's not the normal at all. My ex sacrificed so her daughter would be happy because of pure love. I would do it all over again, but only this one time. I DO NOT ADVISE ANY MAN PLAY STEPDAD BECAUSE MOST WOMEN DO NOT SACRIFICE FOR THEIR KIDS LIKE THIS. I stand on what I said.

Birds and simps, the only one making sense is anton Daniels

As you said this is a conversation that needed to be had but not all the panelists were listening because they felt attacked.

That Rico guy is a great example of why men need fathers. He literally said if his father was in his life, he would have been sweet/soft! Does Rico not have mirrors in his crib ? Wtf

These 2 guys paid for by Kendra G.

Male Loins when they take over a pride they kill the cubs of the other Lions, they don’t raise another Lions cubs

I watched this clip prior to this post, Anton is the only adult in the room 🤦🏽‍♂️ the other 2 men n 3 women basically come up with every excuse known to humanity to convince male viewers that they should date w/ the intent to marry single mothers, when it’s clearly a terrible idea

Shout to CNC as well as Anton Daniels in the video.

People talk all day about single mom this, stepdad that and how women are laying down with the wrong men. But why doe's absolutely no one talk about birth control and the reasons women refuse to use it. From the standpoint of self protection you'd think single women would insist upon it, they always did when I was young and dating.

“If the man not a lion, why are women still sleeping and having kids with him”? 🤷🏾‍♂️

When I met my husband, I was 21 and he was 29. He was just getting out of a relationship with his ex who was a 32 year old single mother of two (by two different guys). She was messing around with one of her baby daddies, but my husband couldn't prove it, but my husband kissed another girl at a party and his ex pulled the "I can't forgive you" "I love you, but I'm not in love with you", "but we can still be friends " (he was planning B) When we started dating, she basically stalked him. She would show up places we were at in skimpy outfits and bragging about their sexual exploits. She would try and get my husband to leave with her (to prove he would choose her over me) and she would get mad when he didn't. When we became official and moved in together, she pulled the, "it's either me or her" ultimatum. My husband told her he chose me. When she demanded to know why. He said, "She's younger, doesn't have kids/baby daddies, and hasn't slept with half the city." 22 years later she's still single and miserable.😂 How do I know, she tried hitting my husband up on Facebook and got blocked.

Being a stepfather is assumed and never appreciated. I would NEVER recommend it.

The question they need to ask is: What are single moms accountable for without using men as scapegoats?

Rico obviously speaking from a place of trauma. The data says children living with stepfathers are twice as likely to be victims of abuse.

It's not about raising a child, it is about authority & respect over & in his house. But the talk is done. Many men have & are moving on. "Passports Up!"

It irritates my soul when uneducated people misapply concepts to make analogies. SMH

When did they discontinue condoms because no one across clips I've seen act like they know condoms even exist

Believing that it's everyone's job to save a woman from her bad choices is crazy. When you do that, they don't learn. Therefore, they won't stop making them. This is what we teach children. Which is why fatherless homes don't do well, because the mothers live like the children too.

Are they serious? You, as a single mother, don't get to change the father(s) of the child(ren) that you are raising. Now, if the next man decides to help you with said child(ren) (why?) that's his choice. The point is men shouldn't be thinking of single mothers as more than a fling unless they made a child(ren) with her. Why? Because unless he made the child(ren) with you, he's not responsible for the child(ren) you bring into the relationship. There's a reason why the elders tell us to marry before you carry. And any man shouldn't even be thinking of adopting a single mother's child(ren) anyway! It's against male nature!

I’m so tired of these type arguments. Dude’s like these not countin Anton are the problem. They show how thirsty cats can be& don’t want things to change because it’s easier for them to get attention from these types of women. Pandering is real

The dude with the blonde dreads….smh…..his input was so redundant and slow asf. It’s like his mama nudged him to say something and he blurted out what she told him to say 😂😂😂

I am BM raised by a step-father and I understand what Anton was saying (the bigger guy). People need to get out of their feelings and realize their situations are most times not the norms. Both my step-father and mother told me to not date single mothers. Specifically my step dad saying "don't do it" and my mom saying "one kid maybe more than that no". Men are already held accountable for habing children out of wedlock. One good example is child support and then going to jail if child support is not met. For women they get not jist chikd support but, government assistant. Women alwaysbhave a hand out and can get many chances for making mistakes. Men learn very early on that making mistakes have serious consequences.

These dudes are caped up! This is crazy!!!

It always amazes me how it's the people with kids who are always telling people without kids that they should have no problem raising other people's kids. SMH

Anton is the only one talking sense..... and this is why BP are the worst parents.

Nobody is doing this. Raise you own children it’s that simple. Those dudes with the locks are on some soft simp BS smh not one once of accountability for the female wtf

The dude in black and Rico were a real disappointment during that convo. It’s really disheartening tbh. And to his point, if the only women left is the ones with kids then most will be useful to the group.

I think everybody confused about the lion analogy. Lions kill other male lions cubs , not raise them .

Men with their stuff together usually will not date a single mother seriously! Thats the fact! He might hangout play around for a little bit but his first choice is not a woman who already has children from another man. I dont advise any man for that matter to date a single mother.

I literally just saw this vid in my recommends. You should cover the rest of the vid, Anton was COOKING...but these people are soooo caught up in "me Me ME" that they can't see the COLLECTIVE or the WHOLE😐😑😒

I was raised by a single mother, and growing up, I understood the challenges I faced being raised by a single mother that I didn't want to have children out of wedlock and contribute to this cycle. I've also dated single mothers in the past and it's something that I prefer not to do because some single mothers would try to make it your obligation to raise their kids.

Let’s stop blaming each other and figure this out

Man, this is life. Single mothers aren’t going anywhere. And you don’t know everyone’s situation.

Sorry to those woman 🤦🏿‍♂️

Seriously, How do the guys not understand what Anton is saying??

This man exposed what being a step father is like. He rejected his step father

I have advised my son to not date single mothers. As a child of a woman who had 5 kids with 4 men, I’ve told him to run from that hotmess. My husband and I have been married for 33 years.

This is very much the hot stove paradigm. You cannot tell someone what it feels like to be burnt, they have to experience it and some will experience it multiple times before they learn it is damaging. Single mothers are that way for a reason and any man who walks into that situation is at a disadvantage. Shrugs, men can make their own choices and yes, a lot of them will be utter destroyed by this but maybe they will learn.

You can only have conversations like these with older people or folks that are willing to listen to a different opinion other than there own.

Stop having children out of Wedlock!#HAPPYHUSBAND #HAPPYWIFE4LIFE #GENXQUEEN #MARRYB4UCARRY #NOTASINGLEMOM #PROTECTION #MARRYBLACK #BLACKMARRY SINGLE MOMS MAKE HORRIBLE PARENTS PERIOD!

Bro really said "Love conquers all "😂 Nah buddy, no single mother's

If you’re smart and have any self value, you’ll find a childless woman and create your own family. Leave single mothers to older single fathers

Ice cube said it best "some these ninja's be B's too."😮😮😮😮

1. Lions don’t even take care of another lions cub. He gonna try to use that as a reference lol 2. Blended families are not the same as same parent home. It comes with unnecessary problems and different sets of rules. You in more cases feel like two families staying together. 3. Relationships are better off when it’s a men coming in with a kid verses the women. If he taking care of his child and coming in to take care of her he taking on 1 additional. Vice verse she coming in with a child then he now gained two instead of 1. Not to mention men are usually more relaxed about allowing a women to discipline his child, he look at it as making them tough. Women usually not so much because they look at it as abuse. I’m speaking from the experience of someone who was married, divorced, and now have a blended family. We both have 1 from our prior marriages, and we share 1 together. It’s like 2 different sets of rules in the house, my kids and then her kid. Idc what them brothas say, do not get with a single mother if you have options. I gave it a chance because we had history and though she is a good person, sometimes the juice is not worth the squeeze. If I didn’t have a son, then yes I might have reevaluated my life.

team Anton all mfn day 💯

At the end of the day if I meet you and you are a single mother it is MY choice whether I want to be a father to your child. You can’t shame me or somehow try to make me feel compelled to do so. And if I do so there will have to be clear lines surrounding my inputs.

I wouldn't trust that dude to raise dandelions. Also, talking about you're going to come in and raise another man's kids is a good way to find yourself a candlelit memorial.

I will never ever date or marry a single mother.not happening.

Some men really know how to talk straight B's in the presence of women

Been there don that! and now ive seen the sense and im never doing it again...

My ex wife married a beta. She’s masculine as hell. Now my older daughter hides in her room.

I do agree with everyone taking accountability for their actions. In most cases, these women know the type of man they are dealing with. A childless man has the right to say he doesn't want to date a single mother, in the same way a childless woman has the right to say she doesn't want to date a single father. I agree with what Anton is saying, but Rico had a point too. If the parent has one child and learned their lesson, the childless person can take their chance and prayerfully, it works out. A 2 parent household works when the relationship is healthy. You can have both DNA parents in the home, but if that relationship isn't healthy, the statistics can go the route of single mother household.

Something major is missing in this conversation. "The vast majority of divorces and break ups among married and unmarried couples with or without children are initiated by women". Therefore, women are breaking up their families far more often than men. Yet, the onus is almost always swinging back to the men as leaving their children. Well, if the women are leaving their men at a much higher rate than are men leaving them, then how can the one being left be responsible for the outcome? Most men are willing and want to stay with their children's mother but it's the woman choosing to leave, and they usually take the children with them in order to use them to demand child suppprt from the father, and when he doesn't pay or jump to the woman's drum beat, he gets labeled a 'deadbeat'. This is a very unfair and distorted perspective. If the woman chooses to leave or divorce her marriage and take full custody of the children, then she should also be held fully responsible for supporting those children, or leave them with the father.

Another thing is that as men we should not be having open discussions about how to be men with women. As men, we should be meeting and defining as a body of men or a community of men what we are, amd who we are. Getting a woman's input will only confuse us and weaken our disposition. Men sharpen men as steel sharpens steel. Women weaken men. Let's keep women out of our conversatiions on what black manhood needs to look like. That's exclusively for us to do among ourselves. Leave women out of that conversation, period.

Anton Daniels and Kevin Samuels are goated

Have these women heard of birth control? I mean damn bro…

This clearly must be opposite day for this episode, because buddy with the long locs is normally on the side of not dating single mom's. I can't take them seriously cause they flip flop so often.

Light skin dude def took his mother traits 🤣🤣🤣

His mansplaining doesn’t make sense

It's funny how we overlook the reality that women are far likely to prefer messed up men over the man that has his stuff together.

🤔 IDK why Anton will not ask the woman on the panel a simple question. Why they do not give 💯 % blame to single mother who agree to sex without requiring condoms while not being on birth control .

It's always the guys who were raised by a bitter babymama, who always advocates for men to lower their standards and to be a stepfather.

Lions?? Just FYI… When a male lion takes over a new pride, he deletes all of the previous males kids to force the lionesses to start breeding with him. So… You really want to portray your self, moving into a single mom relationship, as a lion??

Look man at the end of the day women have say if they wanna carry the child or not. Because otherwise, there's plenty of options to help prevent that.

The whole video is crazy. Anton giving all facts. Rico got all in his feelings when he was questioning Anton but Anton didn't flinch.

He literally gave an exit plan to men who don't want to take care of their child.

You are walking a very thin line when you are being responsible for somebody else's child that is not yours

I just help this girl raise her 16 year old son and I will never do it again

This guy is talking out of his ass

As soon as he started in on black men, they immediately gravitated to him 🧐.... #simpmode

I've been a step father before & while I loved my ex's children like they were my own, it was EXTREMELY difficult because she didn't agree with my principles & order I tried instill into them.

Women when listening to the accountability part for women they start to attack the truth

Best to have your own

They don’t get antons point because all of the ones who are against him are participating in what he’s against. Anton himself is married with a kid so he can advocate for the people who are in relationships and have kids with the right people. The thing is single women or men should date single women or men. If you do have a kid I think it’s probably best if you can find someone who also have kids. Easy to disagree with a man because he got it right. No one wants to admit that they got it wrong that’s why they don’t want to hear it from his perspective