The mothers of the previous children had gotten their lives back on track, and DCF reunified the children to them (I had no control over it) Once a child is placed in Foster Care, that is not a “One & Done”. Don’t let anyone tell you that, because it is not true. If it was... it wouldn’t take years for Foster Parents to adopt a Foster Child (If that was true, they would be able to adopt the child the minute they are placed in your care) . The child is in Foster Care while the Parents are in programs to get their lives better. Some parents get their lives together, and some don’t. I had a little boy for over a year, and I was devastated when they had to reunify him to his birth family. I even took time off from being a Foster Parent. I cried everyday for months. That’s why a lot of people say that can’t be Foster Parents, because they get too attached & have to say goodbye. If you have the time... Check out this video I made over a year ago about the 5 children I had: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bp50nNWlsaeYc2Q.html Have tissue nearby. you’ll cry. Take care during this crazy time we’re going through. 💜

Holden It Down you do you , don’t worry about what others think . A mommy is a mommy. You are special and strong .

I would say I admire you for adopting white kids. But I don't. I admire you for adopting. Period. I have to say, though: I find it seriously strange that people think it's completely normal that white parents adopt black kids, but the other way is weird? I mean...what? Kids are kids. And loving parents are loving parents. Skin colour doesn't matter, because that isn't where love come from. Good for the kids that they have you, they deserve a good mom. All kids do.

This question was unnecessary if you watched the video, you'd realize it's not about them being any race and always about what their parents are doing.😒 There are too many children and teens in the foster care system as is and that's the more important point that needs to be fixed.

What the fuck? Many foster placements are temporary. It has nothing to do with the foster parents not wanting them. Do you have any foster children? Ignorance. Ignorance.

Thank you for sharing your story

I love your story. Amazing. Glad you stepped in to help this young mother. You were obviously the father he needed.

Most see color.... A few see love...

I'm so happy, men are raising men. I bet you feel so proud! It sounds like you did so well.

You're amazing. Your son is very fortunate to have you.

Exactly it doesn't matter what the person's skin color is.

Tre Hunt period.

YES!!!

Tre Hunt i agree 💯% Children in foster care need love and a home.

@@helena_5456 Me too! My adoptive family is my forever family, and it doesn't matter that we're different colors. We love each other, and love is what matters.

Keep the family tradition : ) pay it forward

Atara Kay Right!!! Ridiculous!!!

Ikr! Its sad when people break them up😔

Praise God 🙏🏽 when they get older you want . Want for nothing they will be SOOO greatful this is goes plan

God bless you,keep up the great work.

My sister and I were seperated . I was 4 she was 2. It should not be allowed to seperate siblings. It causes life long damage. God bless this women. And thank you.

I don't think we should hate on either. Yes, we should never forgive abusive parents but as someone who grew up with neglect I would never have wanted someone to hate my mother for it. She didn't brush my hair or teeth, she didn't wash clothes, she wouldn't get up to feed us and when I became seriously ill she honest to god forgot about it. I am still suffering physically today but I can also see that she really tried, every single day, but she just couldn't because she was so young, alone and mentally ill with no one to help her. Don't assume that the parents of children in foster care or who are adopted are evil or bad, they are usually just humans who really needed help before things went to far.

Amen. We dont know their circumstances but hope is for the children who are abandoned, abused and neglected. Please Beautiful Lord, Have Mercy.

Foreal

Sam L very well said

Sam L , Food for deep thought

That's so sad, I'm sorry you had to go through that!

I get cha. I'm white and my mother abused us. We've all been diagnosed with PTSD. So, good vibes to ya for being better than your parents.

abird chirps stop lying

mario hill how you gonna tell her what she been in? You don’t know her never seen her or anything, so if she say that she was in foster care it may be true or not you can’t tell her what she have been in, keep your comments to yourself

Haaa haaa Mario, you haven't lived until you have been raised in a house where the real "Madea" ruled. In love, she would say "you all sit your nappy headed asses on that couch and dont move or talk until I say so!" She was strict, and meant business. It prepared me for the real world. I joined the military at 17, graduated early, failure for me was not an option. I saw too much as a child, and knew I had to make good choices. My Madea was a welder at the shipyards during WWII. A great example of strength and love. She said education and faith are important values. She knew how to laugh and have fun too. So for me color doesnt matter. Love does.

@Hiliary Johnson Dont sound like Madea made any distinctions. She wanted results!

@Hiliary Johnson It sounds like Big Mama didnt care about race, just that they kids minded what she said. So I guess she just lumped them altogether when it was time to get results eh? I aint mad.......

EXACTLY

Kathryn Brookes 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

💯🎯

@Rebecca Singletary that's just the problem though there is no need to look at race when helping kids. you are part of the problem by saying things like that. Who cares what race kids are ?? the point is they need a parent.

Amen

Amen

Amen!

Right?! The message is, those Black parents got their lives back together and were able to raise their own babies. Let’s celebrate those families being able to reunite. Lizzie and Eddie’s mom and dads’ were not. They had their reasons, and no shade - it’s not always possible. What matter is those two babies ended up in the home of a loving, bright, funny mama who’ll give them the world. Let’s celebrate that, too.

Well said.

Heard!!

💯💯💯💯

So true

OMG THAT IS SO TRUTH...👍👍👍👍👍

tell the police

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽I like this‼️

You can still foster children!

This should be nothing new to anyone. Black women took care of white kids all the time on the plantation.

Shaquille Oatmeal Seriously is that what you got out of this video?

@@shaquilleoatmeal5975 please stop. just because this happened the past doesn't mean black women should be "expected" to naturally be able to care for white children. as a black women I'm telling its weird AF to keep bringing that up.

@@jessicaa9470 Who said anything about "expected"?!!? my comment is a comment directed towards racist asshats that find this thing odd. I'm simply pointing out, this was a common thing in the past that many racist asshats might not be aware of. Simple history lesson sweetlips.

Shaquille Oatmeal Hey....it’s a job.

I said I guarantee you he sought out his race and identified with them. You could never understand what he faced as a black male. Only another black male could.

M I give it a rest mate please just stop, this is someone’s family talking about her love for her brother, and you are making something political out of it. She is probably aware of the challenges her brother has.

@@MI-vn4tp what? She Is talking about her love for her brother she obviously know she can't understand his struggles but she IS HIS FAMILY don't bring race into family like this!

AussieAussie 83 Black people can never give it a rest. She’s not his sister. And she could never know what its like for him as a black man. I know what my brothers went through and understand them. Stop playing. Y’all still love y’all maters and oppressors. What side do you think these white people will fight on in the coming civil war in the very near future?

AussieAussie 83 I was appointed to the Foster Care Review Board by the Governor of my State. Don’t believe everything you read. Children in mixed families always look for their real families and their people. I can’t recall any that didn’t even if the foster parents were nice to them. Y’all make me sick with the love y’all have for white people. Black men and women are arming themselves to fight these people in several states and it’s ok for you to get with them. Don’t talk to me. God said every race is as spittle to him except the black race who are Israel. Not all black people which are Hamites. You’re probably a Hamite they love white people.

Wishing and praying it all works out for you! God bless!

Mrcooldoggy yes preach! Color doesn’t matter!

Then she should've been willing to help black kids they need it the most clown.

Mrcooldoggy black or white i doesn’t matter they are your kids. that’s the only opinion about this that matters periodt.

Exactlly, it's scary that people feel as thou it does.

@@harr77 Every kid that doesn't have family is important. There is no child more important than the other.

Project KJ exactly!

But children of color are rarely adopted tf is this foolishness

Meowandfurrever children of color are adopted, especially right now. Unfortunately just for brownie points, or to pose with them as a prop on social media, because they are being tokenized being adopted into transracial families. But I can tell by your comment that you aren’t a resource parent in any state and you haven’t done your research.

@@meowandfurrever9324, NO adoption is foolishness.

I agree that's wonderful. I teach my daughters to love everyone . Children don't know hate they only know it if they are taught

She may have also needed the finances to keep & care for you right. I hope you & she are able to settle it & be family in a even better way with understanding & forgiveness for disappointments & hurts. Family isn't easy hope you two can be ❤ together thru the future with greater love & God's blessings in your hearts & lives.😅🎈🎊💝🎁🎈💞🌅

@@alishadennis17 I was very young when I was living in foster care, so it's been a while now. I was more referring to having a stable life as a six-year-old. And yes, I completely agree that fostering, let alone adopting two young asian kids, would be very expensive. I just wanted to share that my foster mom was the most caring and loving mother that didn't care what my brother and I looked like and didn't see us any differently than just children in need. Also thank you ❤, I haven't been able to keep in touch with her since I was so young and my family moved me across the country away from her. I hope she's doing well.

That is so beautiful to hear because every child no matter who they are deserves love and the best. At least for the time you had her she gave you that love and care. Hoping you are at peace now and have love in your life.

awww that makes me sad

Kendall Lee 🥺🥺🥺🥺

EXACTLY!!!

@Iron Fist this comment is not necessary and its hateful

Iron Fist thief? When they weren’t anyone’s ? But a country that doesn’t want them? That’s better?? 😒

@Iron Fist I have also adopted from Asia, and you have no idea.

@Iron Fist shut it moron. Low IQ fool.

I feel terrible for kids who grow up in the system and age out. My sister (not my biological sister of course) had been in foster care since she was a baby and never adopted. She signed herself out when she was 18 but I still consider her my sister.

I'd love to hear more of your experience. Do you stay connected to your last foster family? I don't know you but I'm proud of you. I can't imagine your experience.

@@amelialouisa8541 unfortunately it wasn't a foster family per say (me and my siblings were only placed with foster families in between transitions from one house to another). My uncles, grandma, etc. took us in and split us up, but we were technically still in the system so a DCF worker would and do check ups every now and then. It's a long story, but basically blood doesn't really mean family because my own family would threaten to send us back to the foster care system for every little thing we did, we weren't good enough kids in their eyes, they would remind us that our parents can't take care of us (which was a super sensitive subject because my dad is an abuser and my mom is physically ill but they would bring it up super casually to use against us) so they were all we had and so we had to kiss their boots and be grateful although we were treated horribly. Getting told that you're going to get returned to the foster care system every second for small things like not washing a cup, or turning on the AC on a hot day, and then eventually actually getting sent back several times did a load on my psyche and i still struggle with depression, attachment issues, and anxiety. This is a very small portion of some of the things that i had to endure. When my uncle in Arizona took me and my sister in, he was borderline psychotic and would play us against one another. He thought he was a super genius and that we weren't so bright, we never knew what would set him off because he wasn't normal and would get incredibly upset and verbally abusive over non issues. Long story short, when i turned 18, i was in his custody and he took me and my sister to a park in Scottsdale near a large slab of desert. It was in 2016. I guess he got upset over something and me, his son, and my sister were jokingly pocking fun at him because we thought it was a light joke. He got super offended and because i was so frustrated after years of dealing with abusive family members and moving around everywhere, i yelled at him during a mental breakdown. he gathered all of us in his truck and drove about two minutes to a deserted parking spot and told me to get out of his car. When i did, he sped off. He left me there for the night. I was forced to call the cops in the morning to go back to his place because that's where i lived although he didn't want me there. That night i realized how disposable i was to him and to my family in general. I still have PTSD from it and it's a sensitive subject that i cant get super into because my family aren't really understanding or empathetic so they took his side. The only reason he didn't do the same to my sister was because she was 16 so it would've been technically illegal. And now I'm trying to figure out life and how to repair everything. I still struggle with relationships and with making steps for my future. I was homeless this year. It's tough. Thank you. You seem so kind.

@@a.l.michael6240 Can't even imagine what you've been through man. Sending you love ♥️. May you find peace & blessings as you continue to grow and navigate life

@@a.l.michael6240 don't let these people poison your future. Keep fighting, you deserve happiness and love. They could not give it to you because they were to broken but that's not your problem. You don't have to carry that with you.

Totally agree with you. She's amazing! I'm so glad I watched this video, I had no idea foster care was free.

Seriously. That made me cry like a baby. She’s so incredible.

How do you become a foster parent

Michelle Lassiter It depends state to state and even city to city. Everywhere you need to be over 21, financially stable, and have no criminal record. (A fewww places are lenient with misdemeanors a certain number of years ago, usually 5-10, or misdemeanors as a juvenile.) There’s a lengthy application process including references and lots of interviews and checks done by people from various areas of the system. If you’re serious about it I’d start at adoptuskids (.org) see what your state guidelines are, and go from there.

@@mlassiterrnbsn c

No, she’s not! She is just a good human being, that’s all❗️☺️

LottaTroublemaker it’s just an expression chill🙄

zadose it’s just an expression 😐

@zadose "no human is a saint' except all the humans who were literally made saints LMAO

Yus

i understand where the people are coming from but he is a person and black second people always want to decide what u have to do based on your colour

Yess. Especially When it comes to young innocent children I wish we wouldn’t think about what color their skin is. It’s setting a bad example for the kids and on top of that every child deserves a loving home no matter their ethnicity 💀

Exactly, and if it was a white dude who adopted a black child and people were hating on him, those haters would be called racist.

It's pointless cuz white people can adopted every race, but other races can't about white babies!?, We are all Humans!

Was thinking the same thing!!!

Lack of education. Living in the past.

Shinique04 amen!!!

@Iron Fist Genetics mean nothing. Particularly to people who just love the human race... that is the only real race that there is. We are all human beings, and no two are alike. I have identical twin brothers, and even they have extraordinary differences. People who are adopting obviously do not care a whit about genetics, as the child or children would have none of theirs, despite what "shade" they may be! May you some day be at peace with yourself and the rest of the world. I feel sorry for you, and you will be in my prayers along with this woman and her beautiful children. You know, cultures are different, belief systems are different, even within biological familial lines. Uniqueness and diversity is what makes the world beautiful. How dull the Earth would be if everything came in only one color, one shape, one size, one... surely even you could get the picture? ~Peace!

Iron Fist Get your own DNA tested, and you might find some surprises you never dreamed off. Lots of people are not as white as they look or believe to be. Racism = ignorance. We all have needs and feelings, we all are human and we all have red blood. When we are hurting, we all cry all the same. We all are God's children, and He told us to love one another. If we all had a heart full of love, there would be no wars. This actually would be a happy planet.

A good home is a good home is a good home is a good home. Period.

Thanks 😊

And her skin is flawless!!

becca yass!!

The first thing I noticed! then her smile :D

Agreed! SLAY🙅🏾‍♀️

That’s nice 😊👍

Awesome!

Good deal Zach.

That’s awesome! I’m glad you had a good experience. I hope your life has turned out great! God bless. 🙏🏼

Yes

EXACTLY! They are mothers as well!!!

Many small businesses can't afford it.

Lily Eichelis Every business can’t afford it.

Not for foster children, that would be like medical leave because I'm babysitting. Maternity leave if for your own child, it does matter if you gave birth or adopted but it has to be your child, not a borrowed child.

That's right

Because it isn't about the child's color. Its about the child's need to know that he/she is worthy of love and a family.

God bless ur heart we r ALL God children every one no matter who u or we r.

❤

BECAUSE WE LOVE THEM ❤️❤️❤️❤️

That's amazing

💜💜💜

You know why Ambers??? Because you deserved to be loved...especially as a child. Unconditional, no color just a little human being. Never forget that mama...because that kind of love endures always.

Nite Fox almost cried tbh you’re so sweet

Bless you 🙏❤️🙌

Jasmine Sambula, what is the first step in becoming a foster parent? Is each state different? Is it ok if a foster mom works outside of the home? I know the internet is a great resource, but there is so much information!

Stephanie Carnes you need to call the local CPS. Usually it starts with an application and classes and then home inspection. Yes, it is ok for a foster mom to work.

TRUTH! i used to work in the foster care division at an agency in my city!

I wish I could be a foster mom

Wait for real? People have race preferences?... Good God...

Right same here I had a black foster mom she was AMAZING AND EVERYTHING

3c 4c?

@@MeanLaQueefa it’s hair curl types. People go by their hair type to know what products to use, etc. for hair care.

Thank God, because my kids would *straight* trade me in for a much better looking dad! Lol

You're absolutely right children are not accessories And yet celebrities and other (privileged) high profile individuals do this all the time I wonder if you also make a case for those people who purposely bear children for their curly hair and melanin What do you think of that ? Your socalled designer children 😋 ?

@@myrnadavis2409 A designer baby is a baby whose genetic makeup has been selected or altered, the only situation in which I would be okay with this is if it was done to remove genes for life threatening genetic diseases etc...

@@aimee4424 Yes my (designer babies) comment was about people who bear certain children because they want their child to have a tan for example And the reasons are more sinister these days with prophecy being fulfilled

@@myrnadavis2409 I know what you ment by your comment and I dont agree with making designer babies for looks, I thought I made it clear in my reply, but I wanted to highlight a situation where I believe it wouldn't be a bad thing to do (to get rid of possible life threatening illness)

You are an angel

Good for you!!!

my own biological daughter is white with straight hair and im black, her father is white so she took after his side. I would get looks too.

@E. P. did it take a lot of practice being this dumb, or are you a natural ?

@mothergoose10ify so isn't white offensive? Black, white, brown... doesn't matter, it's only words, nothing bad, nor offensive.

@jben jones Tbh it's mostly because you mainly hear about race being a hot topic in america...many other countries dont discuss or go into it at such a great length like america. BUT That's not to say racism and race issues dont exist elsewhere in the world..

It’s so weird. The only reason to adopt a child that looks like you is so that you can lie to them about giving birth to them.

Oh preach. I don't have fertility issues so people tell me I'm taking kids away from people?

@@tabbycat3610 Because other countries brush things under a rug to pretend their superior.

Ignore the idiots. I do.😁😀

Natasja, when you close your eyes at night and you hum softly the same lullaby your mother sung to you.... You feel your daughter in your arms. Please listen, never give up on that feeling...that is your eternal soul bond to your child. The repeated dream, that same smell that always brings you right back to wanting her in your arms....hold onto that string, that's her eternal string, bonding her to you ...from before you were even born, she was yours. Honey, you have to stop blaming yourself...because that just wasn't the path too you, but some bonds cannot be broken...unless someone let's go of the thread that bonds them. *BIG HUG* (I'm sorry if I've just given you a shock, truly I am...it is just that I am an empath, and a medium. I see things that are imprinted on your aura and hear messages from across the veil; and sometimes I cant keep my mouth to myself.)

I had very bad endiometriosis and somehow managed to have 3 kids before having to have a hysterectomy at 29. So don’t give up hope.

Ditto, and also as the white mom of Black daughters - paying it forward for the kids like us 🥰

would expect nothing less of a person of such culture like yourself

@@jboy11123 What exactly does that mean?

We need more people like her in the foster system. My best friend grew up in the system and he is permanently scarred by it. He's 42 and still struggles due to what happened to him. I know it's true for many other people too.

Amen - so sick of comments made to DIVIDE US - instead of bringing us all together.

E What?

Elisabeth de zagon lucky daughter to have a mommy like you! God bless you and your daughter (from another girl who was adopted)! Best wishes to you both!!

Heal-Thee hi. I had to travel to China to pick her up. I wanted to adopt from Belgium but as a sigle mom, I was bottom of the pile, so it could have taken 5 years plus... so China was fastest! I went back to China in 2009 to volunteer teach English (I have a degree in English Literature) and took her with me. Tough for her at 5 1/2 years old, I personally loved it.

Heal-Thee FIRSTLY, she did foster black kids, but their birth parents took them away, one after 24hrs and the other after 13 months or so. The foster system asked her to take a little girl, who is now her daughter, as she needed a place immediately. She didn’t ask what color or anything, just a baby needed a safe, caring place to stay. And that’s how it happened. So no criticism on her part. She probably lives there cuz she found a job nearby. Who cares if it’s a white neighborhood. Have you adopted or fostered? SECONDLY, I've been living in Belgium since 1993, after having lived 25 years in the US, in Italy as a teen and in Belgium from 11-13. I was born in Belgium, but my parents emigrated to North America... so I am 100% European, and was born a political refugee due to my father being one, from Hungary who fled dire conditions in 1948. He was also in foster homes. I gave up my US citizenship cuz I couldn’t deal with the current US politics and double taxation. And being the bottom of the pile as I'm single, in Belgium it would have taken me too many years and I was 42 when I started the process. I would have been 47 by the time I could have adopted here. I didn’t want to foster because often they do go back and I didn’t want to tear a child's heart or mine! Separation in a young child leaves real brain synapse scars. Trust me I know now from experience with my daughter. So please don’t judge before you have the facts. I admire her for loving these kids. And so you know, many kids who are adoptable in Belgium come from prostitutes, immigrants, etc, and of course some white abusive or neglected background, so you get what you get from an ethnic stand point. Could’ve been African, Eastern European, white Belgian or whatever mix... But it was too long a wait to do it locally, thus it was China for me. I could have done South Africa or Madagascar, but they were having issues at the time, so it wasn’t sure. Thus China was my best option. Be kind.

Hopefully you raised her to know her Chinese culture and she was around people who looked like her.

@DezaRay24. We had yearly reunions with the adoptee group ever since they were here. Else, she had some Asian friends growing up and at one point she took Chinese lessons. Else, no, she wanted nothing to do with her birth culture. She was Belgian and that’s it. She just graduated from High school, is very smart and will start uni in Sept 2022. Covid has been hard on her mentally and she needs a break. She’s an incredible young woman and will do well in life. That is what’s most important. She says one day she’ll do back to China, but with a friend. When she’s ready. In the mean time, we found a full bio sister (in US)v, but her sister wants nothing to do with her China family, so they have not met or communicated. I hope one day.

Heyyy Gramma Christina.. I see you in these KZfaq streets girl. 😍

Christina! I recently found your channel..Love and respect to you!!...

Amen

Christina! I love you and your channel. Ive been in a rough place and have been binge watching casualty Christina. I love you so much! It's great to see you here.

God /Jesus loves You 💛

AMEN.

@Imin Hiscare uh what?

The only name I can come up with is Chtistian.

L L and that’s on period 🙏

Children are children and good mum is a good mum, you love them and they love you back, that is all that matters, great job

@@veramensah3228 There are disproportionately more Black children in foster care. Thats why we ask why a Black woman would take White kids and leave the many Black children behind. White children are much more likely to get adopted than Black children.

Exacty my husband was adopted and he always said thanks to his adopted parents because who knows what happens to him.my respect woman you have a big heart.

Ebony Greene we shouldn’t be upset about those parents either. My disabled child was placed in foster care because the school nurse acted like she knew more about my child than I did. My son had a seizure and the hospital tested him and found that the medicine in his blood was low. They used that info to take my son. They wanted me to jump through hoops to get my child back. The foster mom told me that my son had a seizure with her and was taken to the hospital. They tested him and the medicine in his blood was still low. That’s when they found out that he had a growth spurt and his medication had to be increased. The foster mom told me, not DCFS. They wanted me to jump through hoops but when I asked why do I have to when he had a growth spurt and they wrongfully took him, that woman became angry that I knew that info. So I told her that I was getting them out of my life by giving him to his dad. That bitch had the nerve to say “he has a father?”.

For the parents whom do not care what happens to their children I fully agree with your comment.. And Im not commenting back to be hateful or start anything.. Just want to let people know that a lot of children taken by CPS is on false claims and they go for fostering bc of the money.. Not every child is forgotten by their families and no matter how hard they fight for their return they get no where bc CPS wants to violate every right you have, make up more lies, go upon the only things you have troubles with in court but not your accomplishments not that you NEVER hurt or abandoned your children and they make a crap ton of money and funding for the children they take. (Not saying all foster parents or CPS workers are bad or not passionate.. But CPS has been wildin out taking kids for no reasons it is facts its everywhere they have also been involved in sex/child trafficking and kids being adopted to abusive homes when they was never in one to begin with.. I respect this lady making this video fully she seems like a good honest loving lady but thats not the experience all parents and children get)

@@diannwhitaker6 I really appreciate your response. Honestly, I thought about my comment a few moments after I typed it, and I thought I deleted it! I tried to rescind it for the very reason you described. There are many parents for whom the system has not been just or fair, and their children were stripped from them without cause. For those parents, I can't imagine the frustration and anguish. My comment was actually misplaced frustration. I was not so much frustrated with parents as much as I was frustrated with those who are unwilling to adopt but are readily willing to criticize interracial adoptions, such as the people she referenced in her video. I agree with you in that some parents do fight but the system is not always fair and is filled with people who make assumptions. Thank you for sharing your experience.

@@diannwhitaker6 dam. So sorry that happened to you and your child..

@@ebonygreene6778 yes I totally agree with your comment as well. Its sad people are making a big deal about the skin tones of the foster parents and children. As long as they are getting everything they need and are truly happy in what ever home they are in then that is what matters. Im against cps and foster parents who want to x out the real.parents for no reasons or bullcrap that has nothing to do with why they want to separate a family. Kids want their mom regardless no one could ever change that. ❤

Faith C EXACTLY!!!!!🙌🏽

It's this simple 😩

Busybodies. The entertain themselves in other peoples bidness 😂😂 it's histerical

That’s why KZfaq is so successful cause deep down we all are a little nosey lol

@@jennalynn2414 true...lol ...just not always enough to form opinions. It's more observational for me. People watching in 2020 😭

Amen! 💓

Amen to that the system is rough I was in the system my self me and my twin sister I hope to become a foster mother one day and bless other children with a living home in someone call mom in someone who will always be there for them. 😇

Very true

I agree :)

@Bunker Sieben Way to take a positive message and ruin it.

@@clairebingham8325 Bunker Sieben fails to look at the actual statistics to show the complete opposite, and wants to only exist in a state of perpetual victimhood.

@Bunker Sieben where does it happen? in the west where they have the best living conditions? Every minority is discriminated against, even whites in societies where they are the minority

@Germania Kuoni It's not a competition sis, you're doing the same thing. Every race has people who do horrible things, let's not make this about white vs. black.

I wish you a beautiful journey into the love you got in your 💖 and be in peace with your feelings, your memories and your wishes , they are all beautiful as YOU are Kathleen Young 🙋🌈🌱🌸

best wishes to you 💛

I am so sorry for your loss . I will keep you and your family in my prayers, from Mississippi!

So very sorry for your loss, that is devastating. What an honor to your sons memory to give love to kids who need it, that is beautiful.

Thank you everyone for your kind replies they mean so much ❤️❤️

Exactly. If she loves them and provides for them then she is their mother. A mother is a mother no matter the color of their skin.

So i think I can attempt to explain this for you. Its tied to many of the recent movements since trump has been in office including much of black lives matter. There is a very prevalent belief that all white people will be financially set and have an amazing carefree life living in an ivory tower. And then the other disturbing belief that is widely held is that it is impossible to be racist towards someone that is white and when they say black lives matter while also getting extremely offended when someone dares to say all lives matter. And this is because they are very clearly saying that only black lives should matter and be given attention and assistance. So God forbid you adopt a white child you are demonized because they truly believe those white children you adopted didn't need any assistance because they have "white privilege". It makes me sick because all children in foster care have had difficult lives no matter the race and to insinuate that is false and the white children have some sort of mythical privilege and aren't deserving of adoption is sickening. But ultimately what it boils down to is racism and they might as well just say what they are thinking which is they view whites as a whole as evil and undeserving of help no matter their circumstances and even something as incredible of adopting a child in need is viciously attacked if it just so happens to be a white child because you apparently went against your race and assisted the enemy essentially. And that absurd "fact" constantly pushed that its impossible to be racist towards white people is weaponized and to allow the growing racism towards whites. I think everyone would agree that clearly African Americans experience WAY more racism than whites do but in the last few years I've been attacked for being white a few times for the first times in my life which saddened me deeply that causes i have supported so strongly such as abolishing racism of all kinds against African Americans and vocally supporting the changes that do need to be made have turned into movements that have encouraged and stoked more racism but against whites now. Im sure this is a bit hard to follow and I wish i had the time to cite all of my sources but yeah its just very upsetting that the Golden rule that it doesn't matter what your skin looks like, all people should be judged as individuals and never lumped together by skin color which is the definition of racism has gone out the window if you are white..

Agreed

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Exactly.....

Amen!

I agree with you . It's good to see a child getting a forever home