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Sir, actually the problem is not marriage itself but the type and kinds of people that you will see around yourself. Nowadays, hookup culture is very prominent in India, and it is known that it is much easier for a girl to find a sexual partner more so than guys. So, the problem comes when two people end up in marriage who have had very different experiences which in turn would have shaped their perspectives. I turned 30 this year and by God's grace, I am doing reasonably well in life and I can tell you that nearly every girl in my age group (late 20s even) has quite a body count. Marriages work when two people are at least semi-interested in each other, but nowadays, many girls (mostly) are just looking to 'settle' with some guy while they themselves have nothing to offer but sex - and even then, that too is not much because they have had coitus with so many people that they are now bored. The problem now comes to boys who have grown up in conservative families or did not have a chance to have a relationship or had no chance for hookups due to being focused in their careers and earning money. When such a marriage happens, obviously it is bound to break. I don't disagree with anything you said, but at the same time, it is a fact that divorce rates in India have gone up in the last few years. Finally, the point you made about the leap of faith - to do that, you need to be reasonably certain about the other person, not that we will not have any problems with them, but at least they will not abandon us when the problem comes. And, it is hard to be sure of anyone those days. Once again, I am not discounting anything you said, but the quality of people has severely gone down in the recent years, so the one who is going to provide or is capable of providing would need to think twice before making themselves available to being exploited in the first place.

Sir, you probably misunderstood Acharya's talk. I guess what Acharya Prashant meant was marry a person with certain level of spirituality n maturity, but don't go after a person with lots of extreme wealth n good looks etc only. A spiritually inclined person will always have the resilience n maturity to understand his/her partner than a person who is rich n good looking but is lacking in maturity and wisdom. What Acharya meant was person literally higher in spirituality, not in wealth etc

All right! What Acharya Prashant says is not very practical but he is not wrong. It is just that society is not ready yet to live a life of that high standards. Most people will miss the point he is trying to make.

The truth is marriages have been successful in lndian society only because of wife's unlimited sacrifices and adjustments. Many marriages in previous generations were sustaing due to the sacrificing and adjusting roles of ladies. Today's girls don't want to do that. They know it what their mothers, aunts, and senior sisters have gone through.

Marriage is a dead institution in the 21st century. But we have someone defending it, thank you, uncle. Everybody slams marriage, but we need people defending marriage. Hats off uncle. Albeit you are doing it to sell more real estate, which is not as good as equity as far as investment perspective is concerned.

Waiting for acharaya prashant ji's reaction 😂.....both of them ar correct from their point of view...but sir is more practical than prashant ji's view. Sir is more on how normal people function and their needs but prashant ji focus on deeper and deeper meaning of every institution..

Namaskar Guruji, I am atheist hindu as you said. I tried to worship, but i saw my mind is more peaceful, productive, happy when i dont worry about god. I had few family issues and it was spoiling my relationships with my wife and kids. All because of relatives, we were great earlier. We took a decision not to talk much with relatives and now we are great. Me and my wife talk like friends, we talk to kids have some fun all together, play with kids. We stopped all unrealistic expectations. We expect our kids to study average. And learn more on thinking, observing, happy so that they wont lose self confidence. Also i encourage them to do experiment and do mistakes rather than being correct.

Thank you so much Sir!!! Brilliant video for all the youth following AP.. I had been following him for an year approximately and there was increase in bitterness within me. Also, when I went in the outside world for work, I felt like ye baatein baatein hi hain sirf asli dunia boht alag hai aur inki baaton se solution nahi confusion mil raha tha bas ... Sun na band kar dia ab sab thik hai..Osho ko sun sakte hai aur bhi boht tareeke hai life mein light aur khush rehne ke... unnecessarily itna burden carry karne ki koi zarurat nahi

A good marriage is a huge support in life. And making a marriage good or successful is not that difficult but definitely worth the efforts. Sir agree with you 💯.

Once a girl said i don't want to marry but my parents are forcing me to do so, to which acharya prashant asked,why don't you wnat to get married to which she said just like that. Phir acharya Prashant ne kaha aiso ki toh shadi hoti hi h

You r talking sense. Today the youth is confused .Youth should know what to do and what not to do for own Good . Self control , sex education , discipline etc should be worked on .Seek righ information , and learn that there is a right time to do anything . Be , eating, studying , working ,sex , sleeping etc etc .🙏🙏 Patience , being responsible person, morality , values are important to work on before getting married . You r so right Sir , hope the young understand ..🙏👍❤️

being a follower of both acharya prashant ji and amit sangwan ji, I agree to this video, bahot km log hote hai jinko shadi nhi krni chahiye. wo apna raasta khud dhund lete hai , naa hi wo kisi ke vdos dekhte hai, aam janta ke lie being unmarried will act as a poison.

Thank you Sir , for clarity on this. Keep guiding us ❤

Thankyou Sir for trying to spread clarity in the world of chaos. Your videos are a life changing and can reshape someone's mindset and save him from going a path of down fall. Keep your work going, kids like us do need to be taught true virtue in such manner.

This is personal with acharya prashant.. 😂😂😂 Love this counter view.. ❤

I just don't know sir what to say 🙏 You really need a standing ovation for speaking so frankly and truthfully! I hundred percent agree with u! I am happily married for the last nearly 40 yrs. Ours was an arranged marriage and we both worked hard to make it work. My son also is happily married for the last nearly 10yrs. I believe in the institution of marriage which in fact is the foundation of a good society. The day that institution deteriorates certainly the downfall of a society begins...You are a gifted speaker who really succeeds in convincing people regarding issues without showing aggression. I really want to salute u 🙏🙏

8:05 --Realistically speaking. 'Giving' to frendship me nhi hoti hai aajkal. Spouse to door ki bat hai. And by the way, largely women marry because of the 'bio clock' and men marry because 'Abe tu aur kya karega!?' Nobody is thinking 'I want my spouse to witness me giving birth and then raising kids and loosing a job and then finding another.' I know you're romanticizing it, but.... for an average man, 'marriage' is not optional, but its also not done out of the choice of heart. Its done because papaji keh rhe hain aur mosi ji keh rahi hain. 😶😶

Acharya Prashant is talking about uplifting of consciousness not material consciousness. If someone needs one witness for one's life then it is ok. Main thing is life has no meaning but majority can't accept it without being mad so they find the escape through meaning ( like kids, witnesses, God, spirituality, etc). Neither birth nor death is decided by us so to engage ourselves with thought we make material or spiritual goals... Be detached then nothing is needed. Still if you want to pursue job, marriage or consciousness and spirituality then go for it. I agree that Dharma can't decided by only the writings in books.

This is what I looked in my parents and this is what we need. Thanks for making us aware sir. Respect❤

Marriage is a defunct institution. 💔💔 Stay single stay happy. 🙏🙏

ive been watching your videos for the past few months.. the amount of knowledge that you provide is immense. Full respect sir

So many well put points in a small video. True magic of an experiment speaker.... Immersive sir..... Your videos deserve to trend, i feel sad when i see others copying your stuff and making videos.

Before someone starts agreeing with this guy's opinion, let me tell you this guy is an astrologer, real estate agent and a marriage counselor as well. So be careful. He is like that WhatsApp uncle who takes offense at puny things and misinterprets the other person.

Many issues are present nowadays.. Earlier complexity in marriage were not that much. Now it's kinda of risky affair.. Aajkal to sbke Phrmaisy program hai.. Todha todha both parties should learn to sacrifice..Iss pr bhi bat honi chahiye ki marriage ko leke confusion itna kyu hua? Bss ye bol dene se ki shadi kr lo shadi nhi ho jati.. Kisi se bhi nhi kr skte.. Qki normal insan h to sonchna to pdega.. Bcz having lifepartner is one time affair.. Coins are not being tossed

Bilkul sir ji, you are leading from the front in educating all of us on social,financial and psychological issues. Shat shat 🙏

Following you for some months and found your videos very helpful in having clarity, very well explained.

Soo true.. Many are making it a fancy thing like not attaching with anything..Arey baba No getting attached with anything is also an attachment with something.. Similar as that of not believing in God is also believing in something.. We should we flexible to use our inner intuition to understand what works for us and what not..These things can't be briefed by any books including any Vedas.. Our country is too young for trying those western concepts like open marriage, Live in relationship etc etc..Let us leave those experiments to our children,we need atleast one more generation to witness any drastic changes..

आपने शादी से पहले वाली 7 tips जो दी जिसमें एक tip खर्चे के बारे में थी। मैं और मेरे माता पिता शादी पर खर्चा करने को बेवकूफी मानते हैं। हम तो कोर्ट में शादी कर लें। शादी में पैसे उड़ानें से अच्छा घर ले लो, या गाड़ी ले लो। पर अगर सामने वाले कहें कि हमारे एक ही लड़की है। शादी तो धूमधाम से ही करेंगे। एक ही बार होती है शादी। रिश्तेदार, जान पहचान वाले क्या कहेंगे । उस situation को कैसे handle किया जाए?

Best analysis Sir ,thanks for the guidance. 🙏🙏🙏

Very well explained! You have summarized it clearly.

I love discomfort 🤠 Too much fun Too much adventure 🔥🔥🔥 . One Can't love anyone more than like an unmarried one

I agree with you Sir that marriage is a "leap of faith" , no matter how much you know the other person before marriage, your spouse will surprise you in a good/bad way depending upon the situation. But if a person is getting married in late 20s or 30s then both the partners should know each other on a bare minimum level or see if the other person has the potential of becoming a friend and discuss important aspects openly! People in this age group are strong headed and marriage can break easily if they do not connect because Nibhane ki "chah" hogi tabhi nibhaoge!

Clarity .!! Thank you and please continue on this phenomena.

EXCELLENT WORK. THANKS

Agar log shaadhi nahi krenge to loan lekar sangwan ji ke real estate kaun kharedega

Absolutely agree with your logical and critical analysis. Enjoying watching your videos and enhancing my levels of order of thinking.

You are doing a great job. This was a much needed topic.

Sir, all your points are very perfect, valid and shuts all the other opposite views. Thank you and please make videos to inspire and show right path to our youth.

Guru ji, you never confuse us. You always give pure clarity on every topic you talk about. Only once I have heard Prashant ji on youtube. After listening to him I immediately clicked on 'don't recommended this channel'. That much clarity we have gained from you that we can easily makeout who talks right and who talks insane. We can choose wise youtubers.

Being an old soul, I really appreciate your opinion Sir for clearing about Aacharya Prashant's wrong opinion about marriage, as being a girl I feel insecure if men will not marry and every men cannot be a sanyasi then they will get freedom to exploit women, they will have no fear of family and society

Sir,you have explained it so well.I agree with you on all points.🙏

Thank you very much Sir for this kind of content.

Yes sir we need more videos on this topic

You get married so that you have somebody to witness and share your journey with. These are golden words. I never realized this truth. Family ke andar ek doosre ka, bachhon ka journey appreciate karna hi life hai.

Agree on every point. Westnize ho gaya hai indian mindset of young generations. Don't judge every failed or fight in a marriage as your future. Take proper decision and try to resolve. Social media ko dekh k decide karke marriage expectation and nautankiyan. Dekhlo aadho k divorse ho rhe hai. Coz shosha baji jyada thi Fake and false expectations are wrong on both side of couple. Talk and talk and try to resolve. You cannot rely on friends or gf/bfs all life. You need someone to take care for the whole life you have. Jhagda toh gharwalo k sath bhi hota hai bhai behen mein hota hai. But divorce lena husband wife ka not a solution.

Thank you sir, you gave me so much clearity 🙏

Jisko sansar mein magan rehna hai wo isko sune jinko dukho se mukti chahiye wo Acharya Prashant ji ki sune simple

The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion.-Albert Camus

Great Mag, excellent clarity giving video for youth in present and future generation

Very very well said. Thank you for your contribution to society ❤

Everybody wants to be Hanuman, but no one wants to be Shree Rama. Hanuman could fly to Lanka and get Sita back for Rama....But Shree Rama choose to walk it to Lanka fight the battle and get his wife back.. That is why Shree Rama is the Maryada Purushottam... that is why Hanuman choose sharanagati to Shri Rama Nobody wants to walk the Right Path because it is the difficult path.... but we are called to do that.. because that only will we give us fulfillment..because that is our obligation.. our Swadharma ....Hope our youth realize ..This is why we say only the name of Shri Rama is more powerful than Lord Rama himslef..as we are called to follow the path of Maryada Purushottam.... for this reason that Lord Hanuman decided to stay back on earth ...

Sir actually you are right for general public and yes in the smoothly running world people should happily do marriage but Acharya prashant want a mass audience to support his work to save the earth otherwise why the men will sacrifice his life, left IIM and IAS opportunities. He see that family is the unit of consumption and without stopping it we cant get rid of current global crisis. I saw same perspective on marriage by Osho and concluded that spiritual teacher see marriage as hindrance in the path of life mainly. but sometimes they also support those 10% marriage like marriage of kabir, ramkrishna. Now it is up-to the people what to choose and not just follow what one says , i mean if the calling is coming from inside after gaining so much knowledge and experiences that this work can be carried out without marriage as marriage impose various responsibilities then you should do that. same can be said to bhagat singh who choose to die by his own and know one said him to become deshbhakt.

Absolute clarity giver Much respect

thank you sir, nice video

Sir, you have completely nailed this issue... all married and unmarried people should listen to this video... especially people who are considering speration/divorce

In kaliyug, if one wants to grow spiritually he or she shouldn't marry so that time can be saved

Very enlightening

Sir your content is superb. Thank you 💛

Few more Logical Guru Ji after watching all of your platinum membership content: 1. Suddenly you get respect in society and your family. 2. You not only get Deh ka sukh, you also get on time Tea, Food, clothes, clean house emotional support, moral support and etc. 3. You also get a single partner lifelong to help you each other. 4. You get to know how to handle responsibility for your family. 4. You get to know about sukh and dukh. ऐसे 50 पॉजिटिव reason or hai. और अगर हमारे parents भी शादी नही।करते तो वो कहा से आते हम कहा से आते।

You are the antidote. Thank you for coming out to address these issues boldly. Your sarcasm is amazing. Your style of explaining adds special effect. Highest level of delivery. 👏👏👏

keep going on sir, thank you for the video.

महोदय, जो विवाह नहीं करते न, उन्हें समाज में अधिक सम्मान मिलता है क्योंकि ऐसे लोगों को progressive ( प्रगतिवादी ) माना जाता है. मैंने स्वयं यह अनुभव किया है. और मेरे साथ भी ऐसा होता है क्योंकि मैं अविवाहित हूं और इस बात का मुझे काफी गर्व है. मेरा भाई भी शादी शुदा नहीं है. हम अपने शानो शौकत पर खर्च करते हैं. Foreign tours जाते हैं. ज़िन्दगी मज़े से कट रही है. मेरे शादी शुदा मित्र गृहस्थी में पिस पिसकर रह गए है. तनावग्रस्त है. Incerement के लिए भी तनाव में रहते हैं. Overtime करते हैं और अपनी सेहत बिगाड़ते हैं. लेकिन मैं और मेरा भाई हंसी ख़ुशी समय बिता रहे हैं. हमें boss blackmail भी नहीं कर पाते लेकिन जिनके बाल बच्चे है उनको blackmail करते हैं - तुम्हारा ट्रांसफर कर देंगे. हमें ट्रांसफर करेंगे, हमें कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ता, लेकिन बाल बच्चे वालों आतंकित रहते हैं. हम तो उन्मुक्त पंछी हैं - liberated. मैं तो नृत्य, रंगमंच, साहित्य में अपना खाली वक़्त बिताती हूं जिस कारण समाज में मेरी इज़्ज़त और बढ़ गई है. So, I am the winner.

thnk you for this

Namaste, Today I got to know that you were one of the students of Deepanshu Giri Ji and have learned Vedic Jyotish. So this is my humble request that please bring some foundation videos on Vedic Jyotish on this channel clarity for youth. I am hopeful that you will guide. Dhanyawaad🙏

Hats off to you sir... Along with yours, I am watching Aacharya Prashant videos from long time... I respect him very much but the topic which you discussed is just outstanding the same questions were arising in my mind also... And here I must say you are 100% right 👍

Superb Video Sir.. this video was much needed, considering where youth is headed.. you are doing great work..I am glad I came across your channel..

Kya baat h sirji! You are truly India's Jordan Peterson :)

Im amazed by the level of clarity u have regarding every phase n part of life.i too had issues with acharya Prashant's thought process n content.thanku sir for clarifying as a 21yr it was an eye opening video🙏

"144 crore hum aise hi chetna jaga ke nahin pahuche hai. Kuch aur bhi jaga hai humara" 😂😂😂 Sirji bahut naughty hai....

Very good analysis 😊

Very well said.

I disagree with your take on Acharya prashant on marriage . He simply says , what you bow you shall reap meaning choices have consequences . So if you marry a violent woman or a girl who disrespects/compete with men you will suffer endlessly . Also the law situation in India is heavily tilted in favour of women and is in most cases Anti men , so you will blame the man then as well ? . No if marriage is idealistic then both the participants must be the ideal candidates as well otherwise don't marry .

You are contributing a lot to develop the thinking of young generation for good society. Thankyou so much sir 😊

Exactly .u told the truth .no one can give guarantee of ones ownself or for others.marraige is devotion and its just a skill of handling every situation.

Good points sirji♥️.

ये आचार्य प्रशांत को कुछ साल पहले तक देखता था... गीता के मूलभूत सिद्धांतों की मुझे अच्छी समझ है इसीलिए जब उन मूलभूत सिद्धांतों से उनकी बातों का विग्रह दिखा तो समझ आया कि जो आदमी गीता के मूलभूत सिद्धांत ठीक से नहीं समझ पाया वो मुझे कौनसा दार्शनिक ज्ञान दे देगा।😅

Sir, what you said is true since thats how a society works. But what AP said is also true because he works for liberalization of a individuals consciousness. He didn't look down the marriage, he look down the marriages which is unconscious marriage.

Thank you sir for this video the youth really need this.❤❤❤

Very logical video. Loved it. ❤

guruji shadi toh krne ka bahut man hai but kaise karu agar parents ko bola directly for arrange marriage and vo ignore krdein bas even when iam making 40-50k a month and online matrimony is waste of time , how to find a partner ? iam 24 years old man

very well said sir....every one should get married and carry it with honesty and love then really it is the pleasure, which can not express in words

You are the antidote ! ❤

Speechless superb ..........

13:10 to 13.24 you literally won my heart ❤️

Sir ji achariy prasant kamtlb ye nai ar sab keliye v bo nai bolte bo une keliye bolte hai jo logo dhoka dhadi chiting bure risate mai phase hau hai un realit truth samjha te aur ase risate chode ke aage jine keliye umidi daite hai kiu ki sare marriage sare couple semtari ka life nai jite kite loga apne marrige life mai painfull aap koto pata hi hoga ek galta insha bina soche samjhe chulia to life kinti kharap hoti hai ye hama ne khuda dekha hai kiy kiy sehena padata hai aap apne biyakatigat experience se mat bole sehi guidece dijiye

well said and very logical argument.

Good counter!

Marriage is subjective topic person to person varies ,whom should marriage or not totally dependent on their requirements, but we have one common goal to go with high chetana and make our life better ❤

Sir,please don't skip this comment Acharya prashant always focusses on one's liberation. You were saying that marriage is an important constitution of everyone's life but the reality is different *Answer my question* If two parents,who are not enough self-realised raise a child,then mental well-being of the child gets affected,and they evolve that child in their own terms without any conscience[now you may quote about those people who achieved the highest even though his/her parents were not so self-realised,and these kind of people only account for 1 percent of the population,that too achieved success by their own endless efforts with a little support from their parents] Do you think the relationship between parents and children is love❤? Most of the cases,It is just the attachment to each other that drives them together,the parents keep on investing upon the child for his/her needs like health,food,clothes,education etc. This *investment of money upon children creates attachment* This ignorant parents who are only attached to their children force them to follow the career paths which are lucrative in this era which return-invest the money that they have spent upon him/her and people consider this whole phenomenon as love[this is what happens when there is no love and the relationship is mere a attachment] Again these are the children who die by suicide during their youth thinking that they haven't fulfilled their parents' desires And you may argue with an example for love saying how a mother feeds their children by sacrificing her needs--this is also just a attachment which resulted from the social conditioning with which we are surrounded by. This is what happens when the parents aren't self-realised Here don't think self realisation to be any spiritual or a religious term,it is just about knowing one's own self about where he wants to go,and have crystal clear idea on why he is chasing that goal This is my straight question to you,sir-Was your respect towards your elder siblings/parents remained the same after you became financially independent??? You might say no, but when you introspect through the real world,you will come to know how mercilessly few people who became financially independent are leaving their parents in the old-age homes and where has the love gone b/w parents and children there after? The actual reason that there was no love at all between both parents and children[either sides] It was mere a attachment This is how pathetic the relationships are! When you marry without any conscience and this conscience comes from deep self-realisation This is what I have understood from acharys prashant's videos after watching hundreds of them

nice video ,deep logics.

Myth of Give and take, completely changed.. thank u sir

Sir its really difficult for educated earning girls to find suitable groom in lower middle class. Most boys in this class r chappri n irresponsible n hav eyes on girls income n inside detest such independent girls who dont give them bhaav but hav eyes on her money.

Family run nahi kar paunga. Isliye maine Sadi nahi ki hai. 42 yrs age . Kya Mai galti kar Raha hu sir? Reply please 🙏

Love you sir ❤ your knowledge is amazing and continue this awareness programs

Yes sir I totally agree with you 💯🙂

Sir more respect to you.. plz keep bringing such content.🙏🏼

Buddha s message 1. Life is pain.

you are the man of wisdom;

Love the video sir ...many things learned... request to make video more on this topic ❤