Good guys don't finish last. Single mothers do.

Never listen to a woman on what she wants. Watch their actions.

Women with no rings on their fingers giving advice to other women with no rings on their fingers on men. Priceless

This girl in yellow is not true to herself. She is just running her mouth. This girl in yellow is chasing money over character.

Women want a thug with a PhD from Harvard

The woman who admitted that many black women only want the so called “good guy” after being ran through was on point.

A good man is your retirement plan after you got done playing the field and getting your body broken down and beat up playing multiple seasons with the bad guys.

Black Women won't help you get to the finish line but will be there once you win. No thanks

The Comment session is actually more informative and more useful than the actual video.

These women don’t have a clue as to what a good relationship is..

The Good Guy isn't trying to be in a relationship anymore.

"The good guy wants the HO" huh? Nope, a good guy wants someone he can trust. He moves on because he figured you out.

Why good guys “finish last”? If a good guy dodges a bullet by not being with trash women, it’s actually finishing first.

My first wife left me for a prison thug ( bad boy ) who ended up going through her friends and family members LOL that so-called relationship went bad real quick , then she thought I'll come back after the fact , by then I was already with my second wife. Going strong for 20 years now , life is funny.

"Women don't give a damn about your struggles. They stand at the finish line and pick the winner. " - Richard Cooper

this show should be called "Don't Listen to black women"

Why should a man share his later golden years with a woman when she's past her prime, when she couldn't share her prime, golden years with him in the past

Black women want a good man AFTER they are "baby mammas." Stay away from single moms gentlemen. Don't date, boink, or wife them up. Heed my advice.

A nice guy should never and ever settle down with any woman who was around bad boys. You belong to them and the streets. We’re not supposed to be your choice when you hit the wall. you friendzoned and despised us for being nice to you. Not anymore.

My mom is a prime example. My dad married her when she had 3 other kids by 3 different dudes. My dad was in the military (now retired as well retired postal worker) he came up in that house hold and showed my brother and sisters love held it down. Til this day all of my siblings say your dad was DAD. He never treated us different from each other and disciplined us when got out of line. My mom ends up leaving him for some dumb ass shit. A few years later she gets married to a struggling drug addict and spend 11yrs with him. Then divorces him to later on date a guy who she barely even knows, steals her car. Later after that date and marry a guy who is once again struggling drug addict and stays with him for 10yr. Finally gets a divorce and she's lonely as fuck, awhile my dad is 25yr married has a 5 bedroom house with a movie room and is retired truly enjoying life. My mom is 70 has 2 story house (which is falling apart ) and is still working remotely run of the mill jobs. She's struggling to make ends meet and she's on POF trying to date. SAD!!! He won in the end. So in the long run women finish last unless they marry early and don't get out of pocket.

Most women today spend their 20's laughing at nerds and squares. They spend their 30's regretting the nerd square good guy they let get away (because, by now, they have been dogged and impregnated by some bad guys). NOTE: they still want the bad boys, but they need a good guy to help them with the kids and the rent. If they do get a good guy now, they will cheat on him with the bad guy. Finally, they spend their 40's and 50s with reasonable mature standards, and an appreciation for the good guy (who is already married with 3 grown kids).

The lady in the middle belong to the street and the street loves her .

That's why I never date single mothers, I don't care how docile and submissive you've become. Baby momma is a NOOO

Why would a good guy want a scammer? 😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️

Y’all choose simps at the end because y’all get old and don’t have the same options like y’all were younger. Not here to hate, but facts. Y’all want a simp to take care of you and your 3 kids

These woman would pick a guy hustling in the street selling nickle bags before they pick a guy in the street pass flyers out to promote there business

It seems like when they’re talking about the “good guys” who wont go above and beyond for them, they’re actually talking about the top 20% who know their value and their own

Just sit back, relax guys and build yourself up through your 20's , once 30's come along the tide will shift from being least value to highest value.

In your 20s: Love me some bad boys. In your 30s+: Why I'm a single mother and can't find a man. And why my baby daddy not paying child support?

As a married man of 14 years I can tell you why a lot of women can't pick good guys: 1-They never learned what to look for in a man and are too proud to admit it. 2- The same attitude they think will make them strong and protects them attracts bad guys and jerks (bad guys look for fighters, once the fight is over those women make the best victims) 3- A lot of women are afraid of actually becoming a wife and a life with a picket fence and "boring marriage" 4- Most women consume too much media and their ideal man is a fictional character. 5-They associate good sex with dysfunctional relationships.

By the time they want a good guy, it’s several kids too late and they aged out of the value range for a eligible woman. Did I mention out of shape???

Their definition of good must be warped. People who are providers and have good character are not on the streets.

Good guys finish last because smart women are few in numbers 😂

The woman in the red dress makes too much common sense to be on the same show with the woman in the middle.

By time you get to the "good guys" they ain't so good no more.

As I'm watching this.... I'm just shaking my head and counting all the money I saved not dealing with women who are clearly damaged🤣. Thanks for the motivation to keep my ass single😂

I thought I was gonna hear some knowledge. I just wasted 9 mins of my life😔

The chick in the middle is doing nothing more than perpetuating the stereotype. She looks young. She'll be looking for her Russell Wilson when she hits them mid to late 30s.

You can’t really find out how strong a good guy is unless you put them in a bad situation they can’t get out of without being strong because they have the fortitude to avoid bad situations or walk away before they have to kick everyone’s ass

In 2020 Men have woke up, Good dudes are running from these type of individuals

Absolute nonsense, these 3 girls are all damaged with tons of emotional baggages

Imagine, If black women took responsibility for themselves.

This really confirms that I'm not getting married in the United States. Too many risk

It's amazing how we always say, "Never judge a book by it's cover," then judge every book by it's cover. Here's some advice: Physical appearance can never determine whether or not a person will give their heart to only you...forever. Character, commitment, trust, compassion, compromise and values are better indications. "You'll thank me later."

These women don't even know what a good guy is lmfao

They waste their best years playing guys and making mistakes (unwed babies, chasing dope boys, etc), "living their best life" until their time's up. THEN they want the good guy to play Iyala Fix My Life. Nah, I'm good.

The only one who's a little smart in this show is the girl in the orange dress

I am married to the good guy and I'm so GRATEFUL! He's a peaceful man. I'm trying to make myself better just to be as great as him. Love him 💕

The one in the yellow is the reason why the cycle will never die, damn shame. Stay single men and enjoy your peace.

This woman in the yellow is the prime example of someone you never want to settle down and wife up or have your kids. You treat her as she is.. Pump and dump..though I wouldnt even pump. Yuck.

A hood guy is gonna appreciate what you bring to the table? 🤔 I guess he would when he's staying in your house and/or taking out other women in your car. I feel bad for the left one, she was trying to balance out the middle one

Nobody is really good, but men that are focused on a career vs quick money seemingly finish last. The best looking/fertility years of a young woman are 18-27. If she spends this time “having fun” dating (smashing) several guys she loses value in the eyes of men. That age is typically drawn into the fast money life of the bad guys and they give their best years to the bad guy who’s typically smashing other women too. Society glorifies the thug, not the young man in the apprenticeship for a building trade. He can’t get a beautiful woman his age because they’re dating older guys or bad boys. But the next 10-60 years are vastly different for him. Now the same women who rejected him are now like “heyyyy” with their college debt & the bad boys kid/s. Guys, u must have a long memory. When ur secure and the bad boy is dead or in jail, don’t bail her out. Go get a younger woman.

unmarried women giving relationship advice smh

The chick in the middle is the type that gets ran through by the "thugs" and then wants to act like she is a high quality woman, but in the hood her nick name is "the tunnel"

No matter how great of a mother you are, there’s no way you can fill both roles. You are not mother and father, you’re just a really great mother.

Good guys definitely want the good girls. Trust me.

Moral of the story don't date the middle female. If you see her run as fast as you can. Very poor representation for females

Don’t come back to the good guys when y’all single mothers😂lol

Women don’t pick dudes. They settle for the dudes that picked them.

I've been called a sqaure, a lame, being too good of a guy and in the end getting hurt and cheated on. So now its been 5yrs and im happily single and will remain like this for the rest of my life. I threw in the towel. Being a decent good guy gets you nothing but pain and heartache

Once Pookie and Ray-Ray get the best years they'll give a good man the left overs

RIP to black women who loves thugs.

They can't even define a "good guy " because those are the ones they never paid attention to

Focus... Observe... Remember. The world is yours.

Yellow doesn't know what tf she's talking about 🙄

One more thing. You women DO NOT take RESPONSIBILITY or ACCOUNTABILITY for your position or current situation in life. Always pointing the finger at the man.

When I was in 9th grade my crush chose one of the popular guys over me who all the girls had a crush on, and when he was friends with other females, she got jealous and he left her cuz of her the jealousy and came running back to me and I wasnt gonna be no simp....now 2 years later im no longer the fat chubby kid who the bigger kids picked on, now 4 inches taller, started working out and im a football player at a well known academy and in the top 5 of some my classes, she has now become the simp So moral of the story boys: if they not willing to be with u when u putting in da work, then they cant reap from the benefits of your success💪🏾‼

Notice how the one pushing for the hood men talks about how "they're are a lot of good hood men" Sounds like she hasn't realized that they'll never stay with her. That's why she'll keep dating around until she sets herself up to date a square.

The woman in the middle is *EVERYTHING* I dislike about black women.

Once again BW not taking accountability. Middle chick turns it right back around on the fellas. 🤦🏽‍♂️

This red pill advice is staring everyone right in the face they have there fun then they settle for the nice guy

I will start this list by stating that NO ONE is entitled to the fruits of YOUR labor. If you’re considering marriage, please read this first. 1. She will pressure you into marriage, when ironically, she is also more likely to divorce you. 2. If you leave her, you are viewed as a scumbag. If she leaves you, you are viewed as “not good enough.” 3. There is a 50% chance that you will get divorced. If you get divorced, there is a 70% chance that she will initiate the divorce. That means there is a total 35% chance of her leaving you. 4. American courts are biased against men. You will not get to see your kids and will have to pay child support/alimony. 5. During a divorce, she will take half or more of your total assets. 6. You are expected to spend 20% of your total income on an engagement ring. 7. During a divorce, she is not required to return the engagement ring 8. She can accuse you of rape and you will suffer, regardless of whether or not you actually did it. 9. If she rapes you, then no one will take it seriously. If it is vice versa, then all hell breaks loose. 10. She can hit you, and if you hit her back, you will get arrested for domestic violence. 11. She has total monopoly on sex. She chooses when to give you sex. 12. She can use sex as a tool to manipulate you. She will only give you sex if you do things for her. 13. You are expected to satisfy her sexual needs. She is not expected to satisfy your sexual needs. 14. After your first child, your sex life will die. 15. After you split up, the children will be conditioned to almost always blame you. 16. She can badmouth you to your children, causing them to resent you. 17. You are not allowed to tell her what to do because of feminism. But she is still allowed to tell you what to do. 18. If you upset her, she will punish you by emotional manipulation. 19. If you even mess up slightly, you are labeled as a “deadbeat dad/husband.” 20. But if she messes up, you are expected to “accept her flaws.” 21. She will try to change you and get angry if you don’t comply. 22. Women are more likely to get bored of the relationship. 23. Women are more likely to fall out of love. 24. Women marry up. That means you marry down. 25. Woman are taught that marriage is stability. Men are taught that marriage is responsibility. 26. If you get fired and end up unemployed, she will leave you so fast. 27. If you are going through a rough financial period, you will also go through a rough relationship period. 28. Money = sex. No money = no sex. Marriage is legalized prostitution. (Just buy a hooker). 29. If she divorces you and you are worse off financially than her, she still won’t have to pay alimony. 30. You will lose quite a bit of money through marriage: the wedding ceremony, buying her gifts, raising kids, divorce, etc. 31. During marriage, you will have no time for your hobbies. You will be expected to work and “support” your wife all the time. 32. If she doesn’t want to work, you are expected to support her in her decision. 33. If you don’t want to work, you are labeled as lazy and a leech. 34. Chances are, she won’t like your close high-school/college friends. 35. She will expect you to put her above your friends, even close friends that are more like brothers. 36. She will expect you to put her above your parents. She is your highest priority now. 37. If your parents end in poverty/homeless/terminally ill, then she will expect you to put them in a nursing home. 38. If you bring your parents home to live with you, she will leave so fast. 39. If you ever get mildly angry, then you are instantly labeled as “abusive.” 40. If she ever gets angry, then she is just “releasing her emotions.” 41. She will not let you go out with the boys. 42. If you do go out with your friends without her “permission,” expect constant phone calls and resentment when you get home. 43. So. Much. Drama. Expect to hear about how Jimmy broke up with Jenny for hours after work. 44. If you have a flaw, then she can divorce you and make a profit from it. 45. If she has a flaw, then she will still make a profit if you divorce her. It’s basically passive blackmail. 46. If you’re an athletic man, expect to lose all your muscle after getting married. Also expect to gain a lot of fat. 47. If you’re an athletic man, she will secretly resent you for your toned body, which she doesn’t have. 48. If you ever end up terminally ill, she can leave you as you’re considered a burden that will “weigh her down.” 49. If she ever ends up terminally ill, if you leave her, then you are considered a scumbag and selfish. 50. She has a whole posse of girl friends that will support her no matter what shitty actions she takes. They will enable her bad behaviors and vilify you. There ya go. There are so many innocent men that are blindly led into marriage like a sheep to slaughter. They do not realize that the whole system is against them. It is better to die on your feet than live on your knees. It is even better to live on your feet than die on your knees. You’re a man with free will and independence. Defend that fiercely and let no one command you. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/q6pnapaDvrusZ4k.html

A good man will never think or believe he is gods gift to women. This video makes no sense.

She wants a drug dealer. Simple. Y’all aren’t attracted to good men. Y’all want stress and pressure and pain. Men ignore this.

Some women have the most screwed up narrative in their heads when it comes to guys. They seem to prefer starting with a "bad guy" because he's exciting or whatever and hope to change him into a good guy so they can settle down, but they don't seem to think they can take a "good guy" and make him a little "bad". Look at the way they even talk about good dudes, like they are pariahs in the dating world, like being a good person isn't a quality everyone should be aspiring for. Who's got a better chance of being what you want long term, some dude who's spent his whole life being with multiple women and treating women like crap and having multiple babies with multiple women, or a guy who spent his life trying to be a good responsible man , hoping to get a good woman who probably just needs the right person to go on adventures with. It's not surprising though, the world/media has been surreptitiously devaluing good, moral qualities for a long time now and highly overrating the bad so it's no wonder women and men have got completely twisted ideas about what they want in a partner, if they even want a partner anymore.

They all have been ran through and want it all in their 40s!

I can't take the girl in the middle seriously. She comes off as unintelligent and ghetto while trying put on a sophisticated front. She would never give a decent guy a chance, but would drop kick him to get to a thuggish dude in a heartbeat.

The only think I took from this is that 2 out of 3 black women would prefer to run through a few "bad guys" before giving a "good guy" the time of day.

My question is if any man gets a pass as a "good guy" why is he single? No one calls a single woman a "good woman", she is either perceived as being too picky, damaged goods, too old or some other unflattering characteristic. If a man is single and being turned down he ain't up to scratch either.

Because alot of them Broke the Good guys heart in the beginning of Time

The one in orange gets it, the one in the middle doesn’t wanna take accountability

I married a good guy when I was 26. I was forward thinking and understood that he had characteristics that may not be popular with women, but they would work for building a life and raising incredible boys. And, that’s exactly what has happened. Ladies....don’t overlook the good guys.

Lawd what the hell kinda bs is she talking about. “Good guys in these streets”. She still on the hamster wheel. You’ll find a great man when you stop trying to be a man ladies.

But who wants to be the one after you've had your "fun" that you settle for. No , we are not waiting around for that.

Lol- that middle chick is delusional

"So after all of this good talk ladies what's are take away from this conversation?"....... ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!!

Maybe I have to listen again but I feel like the narrative was switched a few times,then wen it got time to answer a question it got answered with a question of a defensive response

Why are good black men called squares because we choose to live a different lifestyle? This is exactly why I date outside my race… you don’t ever see any other race of women screaming they want a hood guy but black women. Too many city girls, and not enough lauryn hills.

Warning⚠️ Never marry single mom's.

PLEASE STOP referring to Good Guys as boring; geeks; dorks; squares and any other disrespectful names 😩. Good men do want Good women however, Ladies YOU should be less concerned about finding a "GOOD MAN" and more concerned in becoming a "GOOD WOMAN"!!! Just because YOU say you ARE a good woman, doesn't make it TRUE 🤔. There's more to a woman than hair, nails, clothes, a pretty face, butt, hips & thighs. Ask yourself "What are the traits of a "Good Woman"?? (Proverbs 31) Once you know what they are take the time to make an honest assessment of yourself. If you fall short (we all do. No one's perfect) then work on improving yourself. Are you honest, trustworthy, have integrity, good morals and values, good character, etc. BE honest don't lie to yourself and don't pretend to others because the truth WILL come out. Men want a good woman who can bring something to the table other than she's pretty. How about good credit. A woman pays her way. She's not looking for someone to take care of her (that's not a boyfriends responsibility) she doesn't always have her hand out for something. She's willing to share and respect boundaries. A good woman doesn't come with an attitude of entitlement. She's productive and she won't betray her partner. There's much much more to add to the list BUT unfortunately NOT enough space. But you understand my point. YOU MUST first take stock of yourself before a "GOOD MAN" takes stock in YOU!!!

After some women get high mileage or excess baggage, the good guys are still being good people.

these videos are a blessing to men who were not raised with fathers in the home. listen to 3 women who don't have husbands say super delusional things as if they understand how life works. 1:35 "Some of these street dudes are good guys too. they will care about your. they will motivate you" Men aren't meant to care and motivate. We are meant to provide and protect. What this delusional woman just described was a good woman. A good woman cares about you and motivates you.

Suburban black dudes like myself are considered "corny" by black women just cuz we ain't hood. N then they turn around n get mad when we date outside our race...smh.💯

A lot of these so-called women would barely make a sandwich for a brotha without complaining..

So basically good men shouldn’t date black women?

Don't worry, when the wall approaches, they'll be out here sounding like Bonnie Taylor "I Need A Hero" 🤣

The girl in the middle is why black men date out so much.

I ain't nobodys last choice! Nice or not! If you didn't want me when I was in the struggle. Then dont show up for the glory!

"Why we pick nice guys last" The Lord doesn't want you "picking" them at all. Psalm 105:15; "Touch not my anointed". Good men belong to God and he doesn't want them mixing with women "of the world". The choices women make are spiritually based. When they pass-up decent men, they are obeying the Lord to "touch not His anointed". Women often flatter themselves by believing they are rejecting certain men. In reality, they are obeying God. Many women operate from a Jezebel spirit. One of the manifestations of the Jezebel spirit is that it hates men with spiritual authority which God's anointed men have. The Jezebel spirit gravitates toward men who lack spiritual authority. Women who lack spiritual authority are attracted to men who lack spiritual authority. Another manifestation of the Jezebel spirit is that it is drawn to chaos, disorder, confusion, manipulation, etc and it "flows" in these types of atmospheres. Women with chaotic hearts, don't date men who operate out of peace. The "nice guys finish last" mantra is a lie from hell. "God's men" finish where He says they finish. Be advised that Queen Jezebel killed men who possessed spiritual authority.

The "Nice Guy" doesn't want the "Hoe". He wants the sex. All dudes want the sex and she's likely to provide it. Sexual value is not the same as Romantic value.