if it’s the man you really love, it shouldn’t matter how much money he has. if I really like the guy, i would pay 50/50 any day especially if he isn’t in a great financial state.
@TrueVonne Жыл бұрын
I will still not pay 50/50 on a date especially first couple of dates if I like you to the moon and back. And trust me a real man no matter his financial status will fully take care of the bills on your first date at least.
@bensonboonesd Жыл бұрын
@@TrueVonne sounds like your going after the money, not the man.
@TrueVonne Жыл бұрын
@@bensonboonesdyou’re missing the point here dear. But I guess you want to understand it they way you have made up your mind. However I’m never paying a cent on my few couple date. So you can say I’m after the money. It’s always safer that way
@bensonboonesd Жыл бұрын
@@TrueVonne I’m sorry, what? It’s always safer when you go for his money? Ok, dear.
@579beenuashish2 Жыл бұрын
@@TrueVonne but I feel the way you have made up your mind you won't understand the feeling. Look it's okay to pay for 50/50 too. If someone is not financially well off why give them even more burden by making them pay fully? If you truly love someone it's okay to pay, even I like to pay fully, yk why? Because the man I have he is not financially well off but he proved me his love by his actions. And it's okay, it's really okay if someone can't pay fully, that won't make him less of a " real man" but a human who is dealing with his problems and still wanting to take the other person on date. Then money doesn't matter, the thought does. It's really okay to pay 50/50 if "man" is not able to. Going on a date just because the man is going to pay fully won't make him a true man, but his actions will. Just because he can pay, won't make him a "real gentleman" but his actions of selflessness and kindness will. I hope one day you'll understand, it's okay to not be financially rich and still be rich by heart
@cinderzella4786 Жыл бұрын
Why would him take a responsibility to pay your food- like? It was just a date he’s not your husband
@TrueVonne Жыл бұрын
You invite me for date and want me to pay 50/50 😂😂 are you kidding. I will take myself on a date and pay 💯
@veganpowerhouse Жыл бұрын
Yes because I believe that both parties should pay regardless of gender. Like it has nothing to do with if the man pays or not.
@BrowncoatBlue Жыл бұрын
Ladies... The answer is NO! You do not pay for things on any first date. 😂😂 If this has become your established man, sure you can treat him from time to time. Keep in mind, you're setting the tone at the beginning of the relationship. If you want to work until retirement, take a 50/50 man. Because that's what a 50/50 is going to be expecting of you. It's really that simple.
@mayalovesyouu7020 Жыл бұрын
you have incredibly high standards. if they arent in a good financial spot right then and you say no to a 50/50 bill? whats wrong with you
@TrueVonne Жыл бұрын
Yes I do have incredibly high standards and I don’t apologize for that. If you can not take me on a fully paid date then I’m not interested. I don’t even do 50/50 with my friends. I’m paying fully or you’re paying fully
@579beenuashish2 Жыл бұрын
@@TrueVonnethen that’s really wrong if you are not paying 50/50 with the friends. Atleast pay it with the friends? They are human too, not someone to pay 100% for you. That’s not high standards. That’s just not even right. There is a big difference between what’s “high standards” and what’s right.
@TrueVonne Жыл бұрын
@@579beenuashish2 clearly you did not read my message to understand. If I’m taking my friend on a date she’s definitely not paying 50/50 and likewise. If my friend says hey girl get dressed and taking you on a date it means they are paying. So I’m definitely not paying on any date with a man
@mikec5783 Жыл бұрын
Yuck!
@jillcooper6371 Жыл бұрын
How about NO!!!!
@cupcake-yj2bx9 ай бұрын
The women in the comment section is really dragging down the rest of us women, lol. 😂 We as women have so much inherent worth, a man should absolutley pay eveeything on a date. As women we give status to the man we are with just by being seen with him, thats how the world of men work. Women make men rich, thats why rich men are married and invest and pour into the women in their lifes. ☺️ Also 50/50 is NEVER 50/50. In every 50/50 relationship the woman is always doing more. 50/50 is a scam for women, dont fall for it.