At around minute 37; reminded me of when my husband's idea of what I was became more clear. When we had a kid, his behavior became more extreme, less tolerable, it made me feel unstable and unsafe. He felt no sense of responsibility to help with the house or the cat box while I was pregnant nor while I was healing, and he also felt no sense of responsibility for his son. When I watched our kid while he worked, it was normal, but if he watched his son while I went to work, it was a giant favor for me that he was "babysitting." I am not old fashioned, this wild belief a woman must be "reigned in by her man" for asking for help....that was all new and a total shock to me. My ex-husband NEVER believed I would leave him, he did not consider that I would never allow my child to be exposed to that behavior. EVER. If it weren't for my son, i would have stayed way too long. My son gave me the courage to stand up for what he (we) deserved.

This saved my life… ty so much

Bonnie Lawson yes I would ,

How do I pay for it. Bonnie Lawson

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Hello good morning! You give great advice. I sometimes fear I won’t find a husband. I in relationships. had children now I just feel like giving up. Sometimes I question and hear people say no wants marry anymore due to social media because of temptation. How do you know when it’s the right person? I was almost going to marry the father of my child but we where fighting a lot and he said it drove him to cheat. He wanted to make it work but tells me to get over it. Also has a pornography problem. I use to do with him because I thought maybe god wanted us to join so my Partner. Wouldn’t think I was boring to my relationship. Does god expect porn in a relationship or marriage? I just feel like with the way things are these days it makes it very hard.