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I really wanted to film and publish this video because it is a topic that is important to me. Dressing up everyday is important because YOU my dear subscriber are important! You are worth the extra little effort that it takes in the morning to put your best self forward and I really wanted to drive home on that message. I really hope you enjoyed this video and if you are new here, make sure to subscribe and click on the links below for more of my styling videos! Xo, R.
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@jane4426 5 жыл бұрын
I often hear people worrying about wasting a good outfit on an insignificant day, but I'm more concerned with wasting a significant day on a bad outfit. Your day will only be as amazing and important as you allow it to be! You are so right to say that tomorrow is not guaranteed. The way I get ready each morning shows how determined I am to make the day ahead an important day.
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Jane! What a beautiful way to put it! No wasting good days on bad outfits over here! Thank you so much for sharing and watching! 😘
@kristinaleonardo9222 4 жыл бұрын
Well said, Jane! Love it!
@NellyNutmeg 5 жыл бұрын
I really love this message. It's common to hear people say they only dress up for special occasions. I have said this too. But, if we really think about it, every day that we're alive is a special occasion. We often take our time on earth for granted. Every day should be a celebration of life.
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree with you more! Life really is special - with all the ups, downs and craziness! It is STILL a gift! Thank you for watching! 😀
@sweetpea841 5 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with you!!
@beautifulwoman5126 3 ай бұрын
This comment is gold
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
On September 14th 2018 , my sister's boyfriend (who also happened to be my good friend and co-worker) didn't wake up. He passed away at the age of 29 and it shook me to my core. Tomorrow is NOT a given. If we have no guarantee of tomorrow, isn't today THE most important day of your life thus far? Somebody in the comments section criticized this video saying "I'm not going to wear a ball gown to go buy bread" and missed the entire point. I'm not asking you to dress in your fanciest, most expensive clothing regularly. I'm asking you to put SOME EXTRA EFFORT into how you present yourself. Maybe for you, that means running a comb through your hair and NOT wearing sweatpants today. For me, it means purposefully planning a NICE (not over-the-top) outfit every morning. We are the ones that make the things, events, and people in our lives important. We do that! It is our attitude and actions towards things that make them important. I am asking you to see yourself as important and valuable! I'm not asking you to go buy bread in a ball gown. I'm asking you to put in some effort because you are worth it. Also, one more thing that I wanted to add to my note, when I mention that I am 'uneducated' or 'unintelligent' - I do not believe that for a second. I intentionally chose to leave school to pursue my passion and develop it. I do not think that I am either of those things. I spend a large amount of my time researching the things that matter to me, especially when it comes to The Rachel Review. I was just trying to make a point that if you base your measure of intelligence or worth off of other people's opinions (excluding those close to you with your best interests at heart) - you will never feel like you measure up! :)
@mayuri_mdk 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Rachel. It's hard to tell what triggered this video .. But you seemed emotionally charged. Hope all is well. Also, about people misreading the message you are giving out, I'd just say people learn only what they are ready to learn, when they are ready to learn. I think you are the most hardworking and polite KZfaqr. You really walk the talk. I can tell even though I dont personally know you. 😀😊 Obsessing over the small details is good, because that means you are passionate about what you do. Thank you for the message!
@amiedee579 5 жыл бұрын
The Rachel Review This video was spot on! Thank you soooo very much for this! Love every word you said and I completely agree! I needed to this nudge to get myself together each day for ME! More videos on this subject plse! Sooo grateful for you and your message! I am going to listen to your message every day until the habit of dressing up daily sticks for me! I lost myself for so many years, I was in a big rut- now I feel like I can make the effort everyday to feel better about myself - Thank you thank you thank you!
@cathiegotuzzo4879 5 жыл бұрын
@@amiedee579 I'm with you girl! Until the habit of dressing up shows up!
@MultiTaylorswift1234 5 жыл бұрын
The Rachel Review I totally agree. Thanks Rachel, don’t listen to the haters.
@dorism4697 5 жыл бұрын
Rachel, I am very sorry to hear about your sister's boyfriend, my sincere condolences. I was brought up with a grandmother and a mother who put on a nice dress/outfit every time they stepped out of the house. Whether they went to a family gathering or the supermarket, they always put their best effort. The way I see it, it takes the same effort to put on sweatpants and a t-shirt or a nice pair of jeans with a nice top/blouse. My husband and I are close to paying off college loans and our mortgage so I have a budget which I stick to.I usually get compliments on dresses/outfits from Dress Barn, Old Navy, Target, and/or SteinMart. I usually buy items on sale with added coupons. If it is a special occasion, I will spend a little more. I am 57 years young, I run half marathons, and love dressing up! Love your channel! Keep up the great work! Love and blessings from Texas!
@wanda18221 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we avoid dressing up because of the reaction of others. Some people act insulted that you have the nerve to dress nicely! One acquaintance made it a point to put on her invitation for a girls get together that the attire was very casual. The best advice I got from the old What Not to Wear tv show was that we must not let what others are wearing determine what we wear. If everyone wants to be sloppy that doesn’t mean that I have to join in. Great video!
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Wanda - I remember that show! Great tips! & yes, I agree with you completely! I have had (former) friends appear almost repulsed by the fact that I choose to dress up. It used to bother me until I realized that it was something they felt they lacked in themselves and nothing really to do with me at all. Thank you for watching and for sharing!! 😀
@nevaehmorgan4030 5 жыл бұрын
@@TheRachelReview I bet other females have been hating on you for years. Simply because of your beautiful spirit! They see you as the Triple Threat: smart, sexy, with a fabulous personality! The way you carry yourself is Christlike. They percieve you, as you thinking you are better than them. When in reality it is CONFIDENCE! Just keep on strutting! Let them hate, that's what they do.
@joannekerr8839 5 жыл бұрын
I remember that show with great affection.
@dosdandelions8879 5 жыл бұрын
'It's none of my business what other people think' is my motto.
@Veroniqueme 5 жыл бұрын
So true! Some people disapprove if you are dressed well and they will make remarks but I think the joke is on them. When you're grounded in your own values you'll know what is right for you and that you are not over the top.
@reneenazario9598 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you.... I just came through the dressing up/or not journey. I retired from my legal secretary job and we moved from a metro city to a very small town. I no longer needed to dress up and then menopause hit and with no where to go I let myself gain 30 pounds and no longer wore makeup and would just mostly sit around in worn jeans and graphic t shirts, even when grocery shopping, but I did put makeup on for the store. I saw people at Wal Mart (only big store in town) wearing pajamas that looked like they were worn for a week or more, did not understand going that far down the rabbit hole. I was also consumed with taking care of my mother who was dying of old age. Then one day I really caught sight of myself and I no longer recognized the person I had become, and decided I needed to change back to the person who cared how I looked. I changed to an all organic diet and went back to exercising (one time body builder, so I new what to do, just had to do the work) I started putting makeup on everyday, and wearing better clothes, didn't want too many clothes at the time cause I knew loosing weight fit would be a problem. I finally lost the 30 pounds and am back into a size 4/6 tall clothes. I feel so much better all my blood work is back to normal and yesterday I turned 63, went out to dinner with hubby and dressed up (classic chic) and hubby said I looked really nice in my outfit. Big plus. The journey was something I had to do for myself, no one else can do it for you. Thank you again. You make a real difference.
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Renee! That is INCREDIBLE! I am so happy that you did that for YOU! Life can absolutely throw us into difficult times where the very last thing we think of is appearance but there is definitely something to be said about pulling yourself together and feeling the wonderful effects from it! Thank you so much for sharing your story with me (and everyone reading it on here!) 😀
@hkr4967 5 жыл бұрын
I find myself in exactly the same situation. I’m in the menopause and I don’t go to work anymore. But I need to go out to walk my dog everyday, but I’m putting less and less makeup on, only wear jeans and t-shirt and comfortable shoes.....too lazy to make an effort! This video and your comment reminded me that I love clothes and dressing up and how important it is. Thank you! X
@reneenazario9598 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you.....
@tracker1009 2 жыл бұрын
@@hkr4967 I'm the same, I walk dogs and have a very unglamorous job , so I've stopped bothering about how I look , but this video and comments like yours have woken me up .. THANK YOU EVERYONE 🌻
@thegirllandon1095 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve honestly never been so motivated! I’m a stay at home mom but I even got my butt up and got dressed after watching this!
@cathiegotuzzo4879 5 жыл бұрын
Me too! It's 2pm here in Peru and I'm still in pijamas feeling stupid, stained with poop, sweat, tomato sauce, coffee, etc... I have 2 under 2, I'm so dressing up right now, even if it's just to serve dinner!
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
You ladies give ME motivation! I was raised by an INCREDIBLE stay at home Mom who shaped my character and helped me become who I am today. You ladies are doing IMPORTANT work! Raising little people is a BIG deal - you never know who they'll become! Thank you so much for watching, sharing and commenting!! 😀
@carolallison9685 5 жыл бұрын
Good for you. I always say that if im going to be killing myself taking care of these kids all day, im at least going to look good while i do it. You deserve to look and feel good. Now then, go be that hot mom that makes all the other moms jealous and feel every bit as fabulous as you are.
@luxurywithportia 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate
@karathomas5746 5 жыл бұрын
Very well said. People (other women) have tried to make me feel bad or guilty for always putting myself together. They would say, “oh you are so lucky you have time to do that, I have kids, so I can’t.” Or “when you have been married for a while, you stop caring.” Well, my mom had kids and NEVER left the house without full hair and makeup, she MADE time. I have been married for 11 years this year, and I never “stopped caring.” I learned early on to stop apologizing for wanting to look good. I’m now a nurse manager, but when I did direct patient care, I always did my hair and makeup with my scrubs, and some people really judged me for that too. I felt like patients responded better to me when I looked good, they appreciated the fact that I made an effort for them. I still get judged for looking “dressed up.” But now I don’t care, and it’s disappointing that people are more accepted in pajamas in public than a blazer!
@starchannel123 5 жыл бұрын
People will always make excuses but they are only proving their jealously.
@stefanialepe6942 4 жыл бұрын
I agree so much! I came here looking for help to stop caring for that judgement feeling people gives you for dressing up.
@bumblebee803 4 жыл бұрын
@kara OMG!!! I say the same thing. I moved to a small country town and boy do they hate it when you look good, and they don't. It says a lot about them!
@2cut32handle 3 жыл бұрын
So true! Looking good will definitely attract haters. My friends always hate on me because I am always dressed up.
@sigmasiren777 3 жыл бұрын
Most ppl are slobs these days & hate on ppl who actively love themselves.
@paulaalarcon9875 5 жыл бұрын
This is so true and it made my day. My mom left her work to take care of me and my brother. She was a nurse. She always dressed impecably. Even if she was at home. Heels and all. She taught me what looks good on me, how to be classy and kind. I am in the middle of my last semester of law school now, here it lasts five years. Since first year I started to build up slowly the wardrobe I need and want for my job. And I have done 4 internships and found out that I was better dressed than some of the already lawyers that worked there. In the biggest law firms in the country!!! And I was like... what?!? Giiiirl is a pencil skirt and blouse, put on a blazer and you are good to go. And like you said, you do not have to be rich, lord knows I am not, I am a student. And maybe my pencil skirt has a little bit of sinthetic fabric in it, but it fits, and it looks good and I took a minute for myself in the morning and dressed as the lawyer I want to become. And while on classes, yes I won’t wear heels and a pencil skirt, but a beautiful blouse with trousers and flats will look good, and I just do not feel confortable wearing anything less put together than that, even when my friends say “why are you so dressed up?” - “because I want to and I feel confident. Period.” Thank you for reminding me, I am not wrong or over dressed. I love all your videos and your small youtube community.
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Yes! Paula you are right on track! Oftentimes I find that when people think they cannot do something (ex. dress well or dress up nicely) they will criticize or attack the person doing it! Dressing the part is half the battle - - you are going to be an incredible lawyer!! Besides, everybody knows the best lawyers pay attention to detail - even if that means choosing a pencil skirt and a pretty blouse! 😄 Thank you so much for watching the video and sharing your story with us!!
@nevaehmorgan4030 5 жыл бұрын
I get the same comment at work, ALWAYS! They secretly are haters. And want you to quit SHOWING THEM UP. I do me, and let them do them.
@paulaalarcon9875 5 жыл бұрын
The Rachel Review thank you for your advices and your passion. I enjoy your videos so much ❤️ makes me feel I am doing what I am supoosed be doing every morning.
@cjay233 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Well said.
@lindariddle2276 5 жыл бұрын
I think people confuse comfort with sloppy. I see people going to graduations like they came in from working in the yard. Even if we are at home everyday we can fix our hair and makeup, put on clean ironed jeans and shirt. Casual can still look nice and neat. I feel better when I look nice. Education and celebrity or power doesn't add to importance. I agree with you. How we see ourselves and how others see us has to do with how we look. Nice neat clean clothes don't have to be expensive or formal.
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Linda - we are cut from the same cloth my friend! Clean and neat goes a long way when it comes to appearance and it matters a great deal! People most certainly confuse comfort with sloppy these days! You can dress casually / comfortably and still look well dressed and neat! Thank you for watching the video and taking the time to share your comment! 😀
@joannekerr8839 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with you completely, casual dressing can still look really nice, if you know what shapes and colours suit you. And casual clothes are so cheap these days that it doesn't take much money to have several (or lots of) nice or cute outfits.
@sharonworyn8024 5 жыл бұрын
I am an instructor and teacher and I dress every single day to maintain the respect I want from those who may see me in the grocery store or out doing errands. Every day is special and you are so right that we are not guaranteed tomorrow. We should look our best every day rather than settle for mediocrity. Why not celebrate each day because each day is a gift and look your best? And if you believe you are made in the image and likeness of God, then you are royalty and very special and unique!
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
You are so right Sharon! Settling for mediocrity is not what God intends for us, I know that! Thank you so much for sharing & I loved your point about royalty! We are all special and unique and made in the likeness of God! 😄
@sigmasiren777 3 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said! I wholeheartedly agree! 🙏❤️
@ennm130 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video, Rachel. I totally hear you. Last September, I made the decision to deliberately "dress up" every day whether I was leaving the house or not and regardless of the occasion. I used the tips from you and other You Tubers to give myself a complete makeover. What a difference that decision has made! I am the most self assured I have been in my entire life. I get noticed when I walk into a room and get accorded a higher status just based on my appearance. I feel strong, confident and powerful. I carry myself with pride and dignity and I am definitely accorded more respect wherever I go. I can attest to the fact that when you dress better people think you're doing better and therefore they treat you better. It's so simple: dress well every day because YOU deserve it.
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Emily!! That is so exciting to hear! When you make the decision to treat yourself well, it is amazing how many doors that opens up and I am so glad that you were able to take what I post and use it to better your life! I am humbled! Thank you so much for giving my videos meaning through your actions and congratulations on your newfound style!! 🤩
@cjay233 5 жыл бұрын
I noticed that too--people respond differently to you when you look nice. Thanks.
@Luisa-cs2pd 3 жыл бұрын
What a great testimony you shared Emily. Thank you!
@Luisa-cs2pd 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheRachelReview I am very thankful for your great advice. I work in a school, I have been working as extra teacher but mainly support to another teacher. My clothes got ruined and I lost earrings etc because my work is a bit of a mess, and I have to be a lot outside as well, and I quickly have to take on/off jacket and scarf (in winter) and do things fast (run!!) to follow a special needs child. I got upset att my clothes and shoes getting ruined, so I started buying extremely cheap clothes (not very pretty though...) and I do not feel so nice dressed any longer... I was disappointed that my nice clothes got so worn out so I just didn't want to continue using them to work... Also, my salary is pretty low, so I have a low budget. I am a single mother since many years, my children are young adults now though. I just wonder if you have some good advise on how I can solve this in a smart way? Thank you and God bless you always Rachel!
@MelidaYT 5 жыл бұрын
I want to have people who have this mentality around me. I’m currently struggling with a change in my body, and recently I have been having a terrible ill-set view on life, clothing, and just everything. I need this.
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Melinda! I feel your pain! I lost many friends trying to change myself to being who I wanted to be and I know how challenging it can be to struggle with an ill-set view of life / clothing / everything. I even had my own therapist (at the time) tell me that I wouldn't make it through therapy without quitting on it (which was really unhelpful LOL) - you will find those people if you seek them out! I promise you! It will not be easy or quick but just before you give up hope I promise they will come. If not, we can be friends on here and remember, these struggles in your life are for NOW - NOT FOREVER!!! Thank you for watching the video and for commenting! 😘
@audreywurtsbaugh732 5 жыл бұрын
I always feel weird whenever I dress nicely, because I go to a public school. I always feel that I am just weird because I am a high school student and I dress "business-like." Thank you for showing me that there are other people who feel the way that I feel and showing that this really isn't "weird." It is beneficial to me, to dress the way that I feel most comfortable.
@starchannel123 5 жыл бұрын
I always felt that way and it sucks because we should be able to dress up and not get judged
@katiacastellazzi4803 3 жыл бұрын
I decided to start dressing up when I was 17 and it was amazing. I've finally started to dress with something I really like and I've also learned how to sew and realise beautiful dress I've always dreamed of. I even made my own wedding dress and I could never be happier. I know that there are people, mostly women, that are looking at me like I was dressed up too much, but I realised that their looks are only envy I thank you so much for your content it helped me not to feel alone in the beginning of my journey. I just want to tell all the women to dress up because there's nothing more powerful than wearing a beautiful dress made for you. It gives you so much confidence that you just stop minding what other people think because you don't need their approval, you already have your own approval and self love. (Sorry for grammar mistakes, I'm Italian)
@rosamariaspage8204 5 жыл бұрын
To answer your question, I did a Sephora haul today and have been shopping for the past 4-6 weeks on rebuilding my wardrobe with QUALITY pieces because I started to really watch YOUR videos and you really inspired me to dress up (you and 2 other ladies I subscribe to) girl power! 🌷👛💅🏻🛍💋💓
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Rosa that is fantastic!! You must be so excited and I am so happy for you! Thank you for watching and putting my tips to use in real life! It gives so much more meaning to what I try and do on here and I really appreciate it! 😘
@mireidamendoza 5 жыл бұрын
This was not a flop Rachel. Amazing video!! Great point made. We all need to be reminded we are important. We need to know we are enough individually. Have you heard of Marissa Peer? She is known as the best British therapist and is a speaker. She recently published a book called I am enough. Great book. I loved it and I am practicing what she teaches. It has helped me in my personal growth and transformation. I believe you would enjoy it if you take the chance of reading it. Sending you love and blessing!
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Mireida! Thank you so much for watching /commenting - no, I have not heard of her but I will certainly look into her work now! :)
@kristen1846 5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful message Rachel. Thank you for your lovely content! :)
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU for watching Kristen! 😀
@taniatellez9035 5 жыл бұрын
This was spot on!! ...and right or wrong, we send a message about how we want to be treated by the way we look. I love your message that we should do it for ourselves! Wish more people I knew thought like this...usually I’m overdressed but I’m ok with that!
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Tania, we are two peas in a pod! I'd rather overdress any day of the week! Thank you for watching and commenting! 😘
@africanyvette2908 4 жыл бұрын
I dress up whenever I'm going outside, I'm from NYC, you'll never know who you'll end up seeing.
@robinknauth1586 5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely right! I can only hope that society will tzke this to heart. Men pull up your pants, women stop showing certain parts that's not needed to be seen.
@nellyorta166 5 жыл бұрын
This was awesome!!! I dress up regularly and have to deal with the certain looks (regularly), but my thought is "I be me, you be you"!!! The thing is... I've always loved to dress up and I always "feel" so much better whenever I'm dressed up-just can't understand any other way-and if by some chance I cannot dress up, then that's when I feel just out of place, and like I stand out more. Crazy right!!!???
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Nelly - I could not agree with you more! I also love to dress up and always feel more like myself when I am pulled together instead of sloppy or too casual. You are not alone here my friend! Thank you for watching and commenting!
@dianaf6333 4 жыл бұрын
You are a class act. Down to earth, intelligent and articulate ...and unapologetically passionate. Well done, Rachel
@susanmancha286 5 жыл бұрын
❤️ it’s true Rachel I was just telling my friend the other day who had a baby that we don’t realize it but we’re all here by Gods grace. It took a lot to be born!
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right Susan! God's grace is amazing, even more so when we realize it in ourselves! Also, congratulations on your friends (1-in-400 Trillion!) newborn! 😘
@tinahalle3575 Жыл бұрын
I’m a stay at home mom and it’s so easy for me to ask myself…. “Why get dressed ? “. But I feel so much better when I do . I realize this at 3 pm when I wish so badly I had hopped in the shower sooner lol . To motivate myself to get dressed I watch videos to get myself in the right mindset and this was a great one . Thank you !
@tplayspiano 5 жыл бұрын
Loved the wedding rant! Really good message.
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
LOL! Teresa, I am so glad you liked it - I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way!! Weddings are a BIG deal! Thank you for watching!! 🙂
@nomthagasela5077 4 жыл бұрын
Lol .me too
@elyjane8316 5 жыл бұрын
I always 'dress up' for my day appropriately. For me is a matter of self respect. I have met/worked with people who did not/or could not make an effort ; either because they have been put down so much that they do not believe they are worth anything, least of all themselves. Plus others suffer from depression - which is a serious illness. But some people dress casually/slovenly as their statement, to be controversial.
@susanbuckley4153 11 ай бұрын
I was just sitting here tonight.. feeling down. But you have uplifted me. Thank you a million times, I needed this! Hugs!!
@MariaSanchez-he2vo 5 жыл бұрын
So true, someone once told me, “dress for the job that you want not that you have”. So I’ve always try to dress up and love doing my makeup. Good compliments boost my self esteem because I’m important to me and I do everything to make me happy 😊
@elizabethhelen9388 5 жыл бұрын
Fully agree! Dress up and be well groomed for yourself first and foremost. You are actually showing those around you that you have respect for yourself and instantly are treated with respect. We’re not talking lux, high end, get a blow out every week etc. It’s about daily grooming and wearing clothes that not only represent you and is tailored to you but of great quality. Honestly, 80% of my clothes now are second hand but in pristine condition and only natural fibers (tipping my hat off to you Rachel!) and I’ve never felt more confident in what I wear and I see that even the words I say are given more weight simply because I respect myself and THOSE AROUND ME enough to look my best. Thanks Rachel for sharing this much needed message! Keep doing you, girl!
@dadaprishelo8085 4 жыл бұрын
I can tell she is speaking from the heart. I appreciate it. Thanks for this video
@vaanyanamrani5644 5 жыл бұрын
Dear Rachel,this is one of ur most motivating and best videos.loved the message.god bless u
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting Rohini! I'm glad that you enjoyed it!! 😄
@JeannaDelfin 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your wonderful content, Rachel. You are so frank and honest. Your words have spoken to me deeply.
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Jeanna! Thank YOU for watching and commenting - it keeps me making these videos that I love and makes me feel purposeful in what I do! 😀
@lisafarmen9367 2 жыл бұрын
I love how you said God wants you to be here. I also love your transparency. Regarding college, etc. Your awesome
@christiana_mandalynn 3 жыл бұрын
💖 You brought tears to my eyes just a few moments into the video, with your raw, genuine candor and feisty passion. I am so glad I found your channel. I am currently a stay at home mom with 4 little ones, and I found myself again after dealing with depression last year by making sure that I got dressed (nicely) daily, doing my makeup, treating myself as if I was an important lady and giving myself that self-respect did so much for helping pull me out of postpartum depression. I resolved to show up to my life in a way that conveyed an instant impression of what kind of personality I am. I now look forwards to getting dressed nicely every day, and it IS possible while being surrounded by tiny tots and babies. Never let sloppiness have an excuse 💕
@lauretteoconnor4934 5 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss! Yes, we need to remember that we matter, and we have a voice.
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Laurette, his death really solidified how precious every day is to me. & thank you so much for watching and commenting! 😀
@Luisa-cs2pd 3 жыл бұрын
This message has a deeper meaning than many may think. Thank you Rachel for your bravery and honesty.
@deybi5018 4 жыл бұрын
For you girl being really true to yourself and not afraid to tell us your flaws. We Love you! And I love your videos it's very helpful!! 💕❤️
@jessiemayfield6749 5 жыл бұрын
Yes girl!!! I thought I was weird 😅 Im know as the girl with the crazy clothes everyone says I overdressed now I'll tell them THIS!
@CarolinadiPadova 5 жыл бұрын
I think that this is the video of yours that has impacted me the most, Rachel! I have loved watching your video for months now and am learning a lot. For a couple of weeks, though, my motivation has been in a slump, and this video was just what I needed to see! Got strangely emotional watching it, actually. Seriously, thank you so much!
@devinasmith439 3 жыл бұрын
I love this lady’s wedding spill, Amen Sista!
@LauraBecs706 5 жыл бұрын
No need to apologize, Rachel! Your message was super important
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Serena! 😃
@maggiem1404 5 жыл бұрын
Rachel thank you so much for this video! I’m going through a transition in life where I am reading everything I can to help improve my perspective on my own self worth. I struggle immensely with it, and I feel like it’s a God thing that I saw this video. It’s a 1:400 trillion chance that I am here and that’s something I never knew or thought to find out. It makes me value myself more. Thank you for opening people’s eyes to their importance and helping them to work towards being better versions of themselves. I appreciate it. -Maggie
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Maggie - thank you so much for sharing that all with me / us - learning how to be compassionate with ourselves (and of our little flaws and shortcomings) is a very hard thing to do and you are not alone! But I firmly believe that we all have graces / gifts that are unique to us and once we take the time to figure those out and develop them - amazing things can happen! I will pray for you to grow and to enjoy this transition you are going through - remember its only a transition for now, not FOREVER! Much love - Rachel ❤️
@MiniPaintAdventurer 5 жыл бұрын
As a male viewer that’s new to your channel, thank you so much for making this content. Your videos have already helped me make better clothes and accessories gifts for my wife. Please keep it up!
@deepiart2045 5 жыл бұрын
Yes I'm important. If not to anyone else, but to myself. I love you for making this video. ❤❤❤❤
@joly3787 5 жыл бұрын
I can’t describe how this video is positive! What u see is actually what women should lessons all over the world ! Awesome 💙.
@everydayfirstclass8806 5 жыл бұрын
Rachel, you're my spirit animal! I love this so much. And I admit, as a work at home mom to a 4-year-old boy I struggle with this on days that I don't have to "be" someone other than mommy. But lately the phrase "how you do anything is how you do everything" has been in my head on repeat, and I think this is a perfect example. I'm going to go start putting together outfits for the next week so I have no excuse to default to pajama jeans and a hoodie. Even if no one else sees me...I see me. Thank you for reminding me of that!
@Youtubefoyu 5 жыл бұрын
Can’t agree with you more Rachel! Dressing up every day IS important to me. I get more done and accomplished when I am presentable and I feel great! Thank you for this video.
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Liya you are so right! I also get more done and accomplished when I dress up - excellent point! Thank you so much for watching! 😘
@hhicks2979 5 жыл бұрын
I went to the mall one Saturday. Wore decent jeans, striped top and a blue blazer with decent shoes. I noted that I was the only person in the mall during the time that i was there that was dressed like that. I did feel a little conspicuous, I must be honest.
@makeupbymissmay2015 5 жыл бұрын
I dress up every day for work to show people I respect them. I want my clients, students, and colleagues to know I respect them so much that I will dress up for them. I also dress up for me, too (because it's fun!). Wonderful message to send out. Thank you!
@kimberleyv3371 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Rachel. Very motivating, heartfelt and brave for putting yourself out there. I'll be re watching this on tough days. This is the best video you've uploaded to date.
@manualgearshift4965 5 жыл бұрын
Listening to this while working out with the the goals of improving health and fitting into something besides my sweatpants. Tired of sweatpants.
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
You GO girl! Seriously - changing yourself for the better is tough work but it is WORTH it and you deserve it! Thank you so much for watching and commenting!! 😃
@ccanna1001 5 жыл бұрын
I love watching your videos because I learn so much. I will start dressing up by choosing outfits that accurately reflect who I am.
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!! 😘
@leahtolbert7145 9 ай бұрын
I just want to say, even though this video is 4 years old I really needed to hear this. I am a SAHM and I am struggling to find myself again. I put my family first and I come last, it just happens that way. Thank you for motivating me and reminding me that I too am important.
@chrissygirl3870 5 жыл бұрын
I loved your message. You are so very right about what you said. It drives me crazy that many people no longer dress up for church, especially in my church. Nevertheless, Yes! Each and everyone of us are important. I told that to my children a hundred times when they were small . Thank you for your Vlog! You are an incredible young lady. Keep true to yourself!
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Chrissy, don't even get me started about people not dressing up for church! LOL - I agree with you, people do not treat themselves as having value anymore and it is sad! Thank you for watching and subscribing!! 😘
@ericagbradley8788 5 жыл бұрын
I think this is a great video and message!!! "Put EFFORT..." "You're important..." I love this!!!
@exoticaism 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honesty, I think you are a classy beautiful lady and there is no college that can give you that degree, there are a lot of bachelor’s graduate that are not ladies, because that is not taught in college. I have a bachelor and almost got my master degree and I’m learning from you so many things. You are awesome!
@nannalambert3980 5 жыл бұрын
Love your channel, you are so mature,smart and most of all genuine. Comparing you to all off the you tubers I see you stand out the most and always show us topics that make sense. Too many young ladies show the same topic and is becoming boring such as luxury, makeup, etc. You have the most important degree and that is how your were taught and brought up at home. We love you and keep up the good work.
@chrissieb4110 5 жыл бұрын
And the word of the day is "important". Lol. All kidding aside, you are 100% right! I've recently starting questioning exactly what you're saying here. Why don't I get a little dressed up every day, even if it's just to run to the grocery store. Yesterday I got a little dressed up for church. I felt amazing. When you take care of your appearance, people tend to automatically show you a bit more respect and gravitate towards you. Great post!
@SarahBella1172 5 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this! Over the last few years, I have really lost my passion for fashion and beauty and I used to find so much joy in it! Some major life changes have happened, but I’ve been feeling like I really need to feel like me again. Thanks for putting this into words 💕
@maggiewilson1601 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I am 64 and returning to days of dressing better. As a young woman I dressed well and endured my friends comments about being overdressed. As a Mom I dressed “comfortably “for years. Now is my time to dress well again. Much Love💕
@virginialloret1710 5 жыл бұрын
Wow Rachel, the world needs to see this video and hear the underlying philosophy that goes with it. It's not about superficially trying to look better or show off; it's about the worth and value of every human being. Your videos are very inspiring to those of us who want to express ourselves as feminine and refined. Keep it up, we love to learn from you.
@hithere7867 5 жыл бұрын
Great reminder.. I will dress up everyday😗
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
You deserve it!!! Thank you so much for watching! 😘
@huebinhtrinh4830 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Rachel, you are so right about your point. Who cares if you have a bachelor or not, you are important to me even though we don’t know each other. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts on this topic. I can relate to what you are saying.
@monicarosewilson8543 5 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, girl. Thank you for this.
@beautifulmonster4u 11 ай бұрын
Yes ma'am... getting dressed EVERYDAY. I work from home... and thought ...hey no one can see me... but... yeah.. i am important to me... Yes!.. I love me... I value me... Getting dress everyday! Thank you!
@aifayashajaganshi 5 жыл бұрын
It took me 5 separate times to watch this whole video. I have been struggling with depression because of being unemployed but, thanks this was good to hear.
@SpanishHazel 5 жыл бұрын
Aifa J. Same. I did take advice though. It helps with my depression tremendously. Even my kids realize how society is treating me differently because I have been taking care of my appearance. It’s mind blowing when people actually pay attention to the
@anonymousanonymous1859 5 жыл бұрын
So true. You made my day. I am a model and a high school maths/science nerdy student. I take pride in my appearance and I adopt a timeless/vintage inspired styleI. Since primary school I have been ostracized for that. However I know I am important, as you say, and expressing myself by dressing up makes me feel good and feel worthy of my ambitions. I look at others who laugh at me and honestly I am at a stage where I just feel sorry for them. They have no self esteem, and that is reflected in their need to follow the herd and look like clones. I don't judge other people's style so long as it is clear that it represents them as individuals and makes them feel good. And for me, that means dressing up.
@libelulal6258 4 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I hear someone discussing this subject. And I don’t think anyone can say it any better. Love your videos!
@annaannab5365 3 жыл бұрын
You speak with genuine emotions
@ipsometha 5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful heartfelt message! You're a courageous lady Rachel; won my respect! Thanks for sharing!
@sherrydance144 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent video Rachel! Life is not a dress rehearsal!
@thespartanchannel 5 ай бұрын
😆 You are so sweet and charismatic! Love your passion about this. So true! Got me hyped up 🙌
@diandraallotey9158 3 жыл бұрын
YESSS PREACH!!! God has opened my eyes to this topic this year sometime around Spring. I never used to dress up when at home, but then I began to realize that my motives needed to change. I only ever felt the need to dress up if I knew I would be outside but that was not good. I was literally only choosing to dress up in order to please others rather than pleasing myself. As of now, I continually dress up everday and from this change, I noticed how much more happier I have become and I feel more beautiful too 💜😁 We are so important to God and if He sees us as of great importance, we need to reflect that same amount of importance each day by taking care of how we adorn and treat ourselves. Also, regarding weddings, I 200% agree!!! When I think about weddings, they should ALL resemble a Royal - like atmosphere!:D AND YOU ARE SO IMPORTANT 😘
@debbiefernandez7525 5 жыл бұрын
Love you! 😘😘😘
@chynadain3104 4 жыл бұрын
You are Fantastic! Fab video your 100% right I always dress up every day and people treat me with Respect 👍
@cheeyang4967 5 жыл бұрын
You are so right!!! I love your message.
@lilithrose6857 5 жыл бұрын
Rachel you are an inspiration ❤️ I just dropped out of grad school during my 4th semester because I wasn’t truly happy. I’m much happier now pursuing “non-traditional” career goals (tarot cards, art, singing). I’m still valuable as a person! Thank you! ❤️
@Maria-db9yb 5 жыл бұрын
I need friends like Rachel... I’m a science college student, so most people just want to be as comfortable as possible to endure all the nights of studying in the library. But I do like to put in effort. Also, LOVED the wedding rant. I haven’t been to any black-tie weddings and it annoys me to my core. Tuxedos and long gowns are a must when I get married 💁🏻♀️
@angelrose2979 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, I’m seriously in awe of god right now.. he totally spoke to me through this.. and when you said you’re right here for a reason and you’re important.. it hit me so much that I need to start believing that about myself.. I was just talking with a friend tonight about finding something I could do everyday to cultivate more happiness in my life and with myself and i think this was a definite sign that I need to make getting ready and taking care of myself Important because I’m important.. just like a little, but really a big way of showing myself that self love. I really appreciate you Rachel, and I appreciate your video so much, made me tear up ❤️ thank you!! much love !!
@pazarvizu4057 8 ай бұрын
I’m an instructor and start the year very motivated and dressing up for my job! However, i feel like I’m on a marathon, mid second semester and showing up ftom 7to 7 pm long duties¡ I feel like a coAch and end up dressing like one to be able undertaking the this exhausting mission¡ I’m so so grateful 🎉for this very motivating video it really hits home and beneficial ❤¡
@yatikaprakash1668 5 жыл бұрын
Super informative 👍🏻
@brishellebrooks9345 7 ай бұрын
You are so real and raw girl. Love this.
@tess694 5 жыл бұрын
Preach it sister!!! We are valued, loved and have importance as a human being!! This is how I've been raised and this is what I train other women to do/think in my career. You are so on it!! I love your content and video. What a beautiful woman ( inside and out) you are! BTW- you are intelligent and a blessing to others! Blessings!! 😊
@carterwbak Жыл бұрын
LOOK GOOD, FEEL GOOD THE CASE FOR PLAYING DRESS UP AND I FEEL CONFIDENT
@suparnajana7764 5 жыл бұрын
well said..
@sharondixon-thibodeaux7472 5 жыл бұрын
I just want to say Amen!!!
@GlorytoGodYaweh 7 ай бұрын
Hey Rachel, you look beautiful and thank you for covering this important topic. 🌸
@Itselisamolina 5 жыл бұрын
At my baby girl birthday party, I didn’t take the time to look presentable and someone brought it up to my attention. My response was “I am not important” “today is the baby’s day”. And someone replied, “you’re wrong. You are VERY important” and it had me thinking. And today I see this video. Thank you for the reminder because I’ve no longer put any effort on how I look. I stopped caring. I’m just tired. But this video has made rethink I need to change my mindset
@sloanchessman5783 5 жыл бұрын
What a lovely video! Thank you Rachel for reminding me that I am important and that I do matter.....you honestly made my day because this is something that I really needed to hear. I love your channel! ❤️🌸😊
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Sloan - I am so happy to be able to help! Thank you for watching ❤️
@galexynotprovided9945 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 100%. I remember thinking, (when I was young and didn't always try to look my best), "I am being almost offensive by looking plane or not putting in enough effort." OMG I just paused the video to write this. And when I resumed it, the first words you said were, "When you put in effort into the way you look." Hahahahaha I just paused the video again to write, "You teach people how to treat you." Dr. Phil. Isn't it funny how we don't expect other people to be perfect, but somehow deep down, we expect ourselves to be perfect. I did watch it until the end. I do dress up. People ask me where am I going and I say, "Here." My mom told me that when I was really young, I must have thought I was a princess because I would change my clothes 3-4xs a day. I love fashion. And I love you. You are very wise and entertaining.
@mossyoakmom8880 5 жыл бұрын
Lovely video! I’m a mother of 3 adult children. As the years have gone by I’ve let my self go a bit. A few months back I decided when I get up in the morning to get ready for the day right away. I used to clean the house and do other things looking pretty frumpy but I decided back then to get ready for the day first thing in the morning. Thank you for the video, it reminds me to try and continue to look and feel more put together all the time! I’m glad I watched this video!
@cathynicolette4368 5 жыл бұрын
I stumbled upon your videos and I kept watching because I need help with dressing and I loved that you talk about modesty and inner beauty. As I watched, I started wondering “why should I dress up? I’m a stay at home mom, my stretched out jeans and t shirts are good enough to wear while teaching my children and cleaning the house. Why waste my time watching this when I only go to church (and work with kids there so not much dressing up), the grocery store and appts here and there.” And then I saw this one. I needed this one. I cried during this one. Thank you
@OneTwo-dn7ip 3 жыл бұрын
This should go viral ladies!
@Pannieroos 5 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this video, well said. This realm raised my confidence.
@TheRachelReview 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm glad that you enjoyed it / that it could be helpful!! 😘
@sigmasiren777 3 жыл бұрын
I love fashion and how a good outfit makes me feel. It makes me feel like a work of art. I dress well everyday and have had to deal with a lot of haters because of it & I only dress 1 step above the rest. Smart casual in a dressed down t-shirt & jeans environment. I never go outside looking unpresentable. Even my lounge wear is presentable and well put together.
@jesscogger5096 4 жыл бұрын
Wow your video was magical! Thank you for sharing your shining insights!
@coolkid1761 5 жыл бұрын
True!🌺
@ABOARDMERMAIDMONSTER 5 жыл бұрын
I agree! Stay authentic and genuine to your character. Rachel, you are SO right... we are all important. I tell my kids every single day “ you will be history in the future, so make your future worth our history”. Dress up, show up and more importantly, follow your dreams. Sending love, Brooke.
@SindysYoutube Жыл бұрын
Working from home, cheap pajamas has taken over my closet. I am slowly shifting my mindset that the effort for dressing up is worth it.
@velvet_kiss 5 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you, Rachel, and I understand your point! I dress up every day and I am doing it 10 years so far. I like to dress up and I don't see it as an effort, I just like it, I like to look good, I like fashion and also stylish clothes. Yes, it doesn't mean to wear your most expensive dress when going to the supermarket, it's about respecting yourself and knowing it's up to you if you want to look and feel good! On the other hand I personally don't understand women that doesn't care how they look, who just grab the first blouse they see in the wardrobe and doesn't even think whether their clothes combine, about their hair or make up..... l love your video it's very inspiring, the message in it is so powerful!🙂❤❤❤
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