The moral of this story for me personally is to make sure my girl child is empowered to make sure she will never be forced nto accepting a situation like this because she has no option.

I don't support this at all. Men are sneaky and mean. It's not fair at all for the first wife.

Not only have the Wanjohi Queens chosen to live peacefully, they also have a joint venture: a youtube channel. Here, they share different issues on their marriage. SUBSCRIBE to their channel via this link: kzfaq.info/love/niFe4SubFGaT-36oaEZguQ

Let's stop misleading people God created 1 woman for Adam and that's Eve ...I don't advocate polygamous period

The second one is trying so hard to convince herself what she did was okay. It wasn't, sorry, my opinion though

Ruth, those in-laws together with your husband have no respect for you. They are not your friends.

Introduction of Ruth speaks volume,, she said our marriage was good

I will never stop saying that I can’t lower my standards/value to accommodate man’s selfishness, why neglect or abuse her emotionally in order to gain something by force! That’s not love ! Again why would I become second to somebody knowing very well I come first in my life. Aiiii self love is the key hakwa Reke nemwo inyua thiaii nambere.

Ruth had very few options in this case. She was utterly helpless and therefore had to lower her dignity into accepting her husband’s mpango.That’s why we should empower the girl child so that she has options under such circumstances.

For those who are reffering to the story of Solomon and David should read their Bible keenly, Every story in the Bible has a lesson to learn, David at the end Said that the life he lived happily is when he had one wife, Solomon at the end his wives turned his soul and he started worshipping other gods, For those who believe in tradition, God gave Gikuyu one wife and when their girls were mature enough to get married, Gikuyu went under mugumo tree to plead God to give them suitors, God provided each a husband, So let's not put God in our rust and thirst, when he said one wife he knew the outcome which comes along with polygamous, Ladies, if you pray for a husband God can never give you someone else husband, you can never ask for a fish then he give you a snake

Let's empower our daughters,If Ruth was well educated and empowered she could not have been manipulate by the husband.they blind folded her coz she was not financially stable.

The first wife was betrayed. Means she was unwanted even by the inlaws. I can't stay in such a relationship. What is this that the man told the mpango??? Betrayal of the highest order

Till when an African woman will know her worth, we will continue hearing this nonsense!!! ati we subscribe wanjohi queens and learn what?????

Sad. Ruth accepted the second wife under duress! Women need to step up and believe in themselves for whatever it takes.

No woman approves a second wife, they just learn to live with the inevitable pain. No woman should be made to accept that last option.

This is betrayal of the latter times. The man fooled the first wife and she has to live with it!!

The first wife was definitely short changed. She must have experienced excruciating pain at wanjohi's betrayal. She was economically helpless hence had no alternative.

Dear Monica please bring Wanjohi next time. This interview is “jackpot “

Kagoni don't be lied to, this lady chose peace because she wanted to raise her kids. The writing was on the wall, you either accept my decision or leave. Listened to how she tried to fight but failed. She left the children, thinking that it would make the man think otherwise, but the next day the children were with Catherine. . Ruth was betrayed by her husband's family. The mother in law is also another one. Anyway she chose peace. But let me tell Catherine that these peaceful women are very dangerous. God fights their battles in silence. Years to come,,,,,,, Ruth might look stupid now, but wait until you see her generation. I also come in peace I am from a polygamous family, but I will never, never advise someone to get into it

The husband would even tell her that she can go,poor Ruth,yawa.

Ruth accepted catherine as a 2nd wife coz of fear after her marriage became toxic. So sad.....sharing one man is not spiritual

One of the things that will never work,A woman will never share her man.Only on pretense.

To be honest my pride will never allow a co-wife ndahikire turari na ngoo, twakomagathii, both of us worked hard, and God lifted us up. My hubby always remind me where we came from. Men are men, but kuhikererio No way.

I love the fact that cate did look for peace and recognize that Ruth is her senior u ppl look great 👍👍👍

God help me not to lower my dignity to the level of accepting another woman in my territory.

This happiness of first wife is quite far fetched lkn as they say let me be thinned by my issues oooh

People give the side of their story they want people to hear. Painting a very positive picture about it, misleading people. Two wives are a pot of poison. Watch this space.

The betrayal from the husband and the inlaws was too much for her.

Glad to know that you live in peace with each other. For me I cannot do that, it's either me or her period, I cannot share knowingly. The ist wife was left with no option but to accept the 2nd.

this is so so sad. I can only imagine what the first wife went through. this wanjohi is just full of himself nkt. first wife was desperate and she had no where to go and without anything since she thought she was building her family . the man didn't give a fuck about her feelings he only care about himself. if only she was financially stable huyu mzee hangemfanyia hivo but alijua Hana chochote akienda

There is a reality T.V show called "Sister Wives", the 4 women claimed to love each other and the man claimed to love them all until the whole thing started to unfold. The husband clearly has a favourite, one has had no conjugal visits for over 10 years, another walked off the marriage etc. I am saying all this to say that there might be more than meets the eye.

Just wondering if Ruth had economic power would this be her reaction? It’s a bitter pill for me.

No matter how you Catherine put it,it was very wrong she went through hell but utalipa tuu.. Wasn't fair at all...

The amount of self justification on Catherine's part is on olympic level!!!!!

What I wonder is if Catherine was the first wife would she have accepted Ruth as a second wife the way Ruth accepted her.

I have been typing and deleting my comments. I still can't believe what am watching and hearing. Long story short Catherine you are on the wrong kabisa, and the so called Wanjohi is nuts!!! Personally my John I will not share with any living woman. I would comfortably leave.

I hate this nonsense.women who accept 2nd wives suffer from inferiority complex,your husband is not your GOD.akileta Bibi let's Bwana. RUBBISH

Wanjohi is disrespectful to his first wife..he treated her badly telling her to go and leave kids .I wd just exited I don’t believe in this nonsense..since you got anew woman it means am not good enough for you..so sad women have to be treated like this like if you wanna stay ..stay..or get them hell out!poor Ruth..she ain’t happy she had no options..but stay ..selfish hubby..Ruth us so beautiful!

Polygamous sent my mum being the 1st wife to the grave 😭😭I don't support it but I like the way Cathy respects Ruth. Could this be the case in my family who knows mum would still be breathing🥺🥺🥺

Woow finally the wanjohi queens wamefika uku nawapenda bure 🥳 🥳 🥳

I have followed the wanjohi's on KZfaq since they were interviewed by njeri muigai , and one thing I can say is this two ladies are more of friends now, Catherine has known her boundaries and respects Ruth, the fact is Ruth has overcomed her pain and healed , no nii anga ndingehota

Sometimes the devil uses people to advertise something that God is against. I have nothing against these pretty ladies but advertising polygamy???? I don't get it!!!! Sorry.

I will never approve of a second wife come rain come shine..

Maheni..Wanjohi still have another some...THIRD ONE!! SOME WHERE 🤭🤭😂😂😂Poor Catherine. The first one 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾The best and very beautiful

what is here to learn? is it betrayal or pain,this 2nd is controlling both Ruth and husband,she who talks too much , no woman and I repeat no woman should go through what Ruth went through,,Njeri Muigai promoted this 2 because she is wearing the same shoe,,,kagoni what are you promoting,,we are not subscribing and God forbid our sons and daughters should never come across their channel.

Long life Wanjohi Queens,loves the respect you have for each other.This is wisdom of highest order.

Oh Ruth is a humble lady God wl always bless her,you both look gorgeous

The problem with these ladies is that wameficha Wanjohi kama bhangi,bring him on board we give him his congratulations.

Am not married yet but I can't be a second wife.i don't want to become death

When I hear God being mentioned like he approved this situation ...then I realize God is merciful and graceful

You get married, and both of you have nothing. You work together with a clear understanding that you are building a home to share together with your kids. When you start making it...the man now sees the possibility of bringing someone else on board??? 🤐 That is what I will never ever understand. It shall never be my portion. It is unfair to women and extremely hurtful. And if a man just merely suspects his wife...all hell breaks loose! What does that tell you about how society views women?

That is a very sly man, he left Ruth in the dark and when she found out he told her she can go if she wants (no choice , accept or leave) but it also means lady no. 2 was willing to enter into another woman’s territory without meeting the first wife to make sure she is okay with it. Then he took the kids to no. 2 who had an infant. (User) (Cornered both of them) then sent no. 2 to go meet his wife in his absence. If a man tells you he is married, why continue with that conversation?

These two are going from one interview to another and the first wive's pain is visible😪 sad to watch, 1st wife had no choice than to flow with the dictators word, and decisions, disgusting to even think about it!!

A good show from the ladies. Mainly the respect they have for each other

The bible is clear Abt this no apology. I cn never b a second wife whatever reason

Betrayal...yaani everyone knew? I can't trust anyone from that moment if it were me....

Ruth underwent unexplainable pain. Cate has nothing to be proud of.

Yes Ruth accepted Catherine bcz she dint have an otherwise....alafu she had 3 kids sometimes you have to bare the pain Maybe she checked her background and she lost hope alafu she or we know Mwanaume akiamua ameamua

The first wife was betrayed....2nd wife just playing nice...I feel for ruth

I'm here for the Metha ya Kagoni show! I love the consistency, professionalism! Keep up the good work @Monica Kagoni.

Second wife no no no no...The word of God is against it.

Nii njugaga angikorwo muthuri ena mbesa niekuhota gutuiga wega ri, ati gutiri mundu uragiika ri hatiri na thina niahikanie uuru niaherithie umwe wao🙏

The hypocrisy in the second wife. Ati hakutaka bibi akae bila peace. She was peace less because of you

May God bless Ruth and Catherine. I love the two women. I am not a Kikuyu but l was able to follow through. Can you do it in Swahili. I see the power of peace, truth, Charity and love. I respect the ladies be blessed. I hope to hear you in Swahili language.

You guys are trying to make it sound so beautiful but in reality it can never be that good. Let's be real!!!!!!!!

As for me I will never accept second wife 😅

Personally I can't share a man knowingly'''!!!!!

Congratulations Ruth you are one in a million. God bless you both with family that's real LOVE.

Let's not glorify POLYGAMY, BETRAYAL & SELFISHNESS however much you want to sugarcoat this relationship!! Ruth is under TOTAL DURESS on this matter, she has no mind of her own. Catherine & Wanjohi both are trying to cover-up their sins?

We should not continue to normalize adultery.....may the men and women who continue to betray their spouses understand how painful it is to find out that your partner is cheating.....No happiness here, no matter how it is presented. Lady, if someone is married, leave him alone. The tears that the goat wife cries will one day come to haunt you. Men, stop making women's lives miserable by countless mipango ya kando....Mungu ni nani, all cheaters will pay- painfully.

Those women called Ruth they have golden hearts

But the first wife is faking happiness

Ruthu ní mútumia múgíí na mútumia ngatha. She chose to ignore her husband's actions and bring up her home. She reminds me of my own mother. A ver y patient and kind woman. Catherine nake ni mútumia mwega ngoro. Ngai amúrathime

I feel for Ruth surely

It's true that Ruth was betrayed but I look back and admire my mum and my step mothers life.

Never never can I agree to a second wife. It's very very painful. Better stay single than have a co wife.

I cant comprehend this.God created one woman for one man .Women let us learn to say no to cowives.

Am I the only person who can't stomach this 😭😭 aki shida ww🤔🤔

Am working 💪 hand for my financial stability so that neither me nor any of my daughters will ever go through such

If Wanjohi Loved Ruth; he wouldn't have room for a second wife.. period! Catherine was so determined to get married irrespective of the consequences... so sad

Catherine look alike to the second wife of late John De Mathew

This first wife has no dignity and self esteem. It's so sad

I love this coz I have come from polygamy family.. Many won't understand this moo be blessed to air this, tikuingi gukoragwo thayu handu tahaha

Queens in deed...never heard of a palace of more than one queen. A keen eye will not miss the concerted efforts by the two in making correct appearances. Also listening to what is not being said you can easily deduce who is in control. See how she's promoting( rather granting) docile Ruth a chance to speak. Also, much as they are in harmony, shouldn't Ruth have fitted a design merciful to her figure. The dress code flatters her cowife, one cannot but help understand Mr Alcohol. And, how on earth does she intrude with lines Ruth knows better than cross already! Manipulation and control is witchcraft. Poor Ruth. A woman of substance knows her value: will not get entangled in vanity

I know two ladies who are married to one man for the last twenty years and are happy than single wife marriages.

Monica thank you for bringing these queen 👑 I really admire them Ruth and Catherine I love you so much

It's sad how nowadays sins are being justified. The word of God is unchangeable. My opinion though.

Wanjohi should get them a 3rd wife and we would love to hear from the 2nd wife her feeling,if wataendelea kushona uniform..

I love these Wanjohi's queens. Don't judge Ruth, she's not stupid but used her wisdom of peace and safeguard her family. What will you gain if her family breaks up? Muslim allows polygamy also African culture.

Waaah! What a story! Good thing is that its seems the love between this women is genuine and the respect is wonderful.

Putting women in the same place they were put by our fore fathers. History repeats itself. Ruth you are beautiful.

Ruth it's true ur one in a million be blessed 🙏🙏

Catherine , there are many single men. Why , why why, why come second best? Hakuna ucungwa hapo.(ati uko gacungwa).I can never be a second wife, nor advocate my daughters or sisters to do so.

They look happy and accepted each other who are we to judge

Ruth you're one in a million. Humble, and you must God fearing. Catherine, not many 2nd wives ate like you. whether the husband talks good of 2st wife. many are selfish and bad. you also have a good heart and respectful.😊

Wanjohis Queen 👑 nawapenda sana waiting

🥺I would rather quit marriage but we shall never be two wives aende ahanye huko but nisijue tuko wawili... wanawake wawili ni Kama urogi this is nothing but hypocrisy....

It's unbelievable that we can accept polygamy yet we condemn people marrying same gender marriage. Sin is sin

Congratulations, may God give you both strength.

As long as they are happy ...who am i to bring my bitter comment here? Jibambeni wanjohi queens... this man somehow is lucky...imagine wakati wa chakula there is one who cheers the game!!..mwathani Maya maùndù!