I’m a detrans woman and I appreciate you talking about this. It’s so important to know you’re not alone in this process. I’m here for you. Thank you.

“I’d rather be myself than kill myself” stay strong in heart and spirit, thank you for speaking your truth. People are ignorant and you can create your own world of peace.

I am 70 year old black biological woman trying to understand these really confusing issues which seem like pure madness to me. I came across your video by accident, and really appreciated your openess and honesty in helping me to understand more than than I did before. Thank you and continue trying to be happy as we all want to be

Thank you for speaking on this. I'm in healthcare and there's so much we can't speak on but I've personally seen a lot of what you're explaining here. So many people are having complications and instead of sounding the alarm they just continue to medicate in different ways. Many times we've seen things but don't know how to treat or even what is really going on. I'm glad you're still here and warnings others. ❤

You speak very well, despite looking for words, you alway find the right word. You are really aware of yourself. Good luck to you from an elder lesbian. You will help countless confused youth, pre-lesbians, tomboys, misfits. I was really confused with low self esteem when young, didn't fit in anywhere though I wasn't a tomboy. So what you say will touch many different confused and searching people. Thank you.

I hope you're doing well these days - if society made it clear that being a masculine woman or a feminine man was okay we wouldn't even be having this discussion. much love from MD ❤

You did a great job explaining something that most people can’t wrap their heads around. I appreciate your transparency and wish you all the best.

I've always wanted to understand what trans people really go through and why. Now, I do. Thank you for the information.

It's nice that you are to a point you are happy with yourself and I think that is the main goal.

thanks for sharing, im black and trans and it was rlly insightful to hear your story. i hope u continue finding peace within yourself and your gender journey :)

Thank you for explicitly talking about this. It's really terrible what's been going on.

Thank you for being transparent and sharing your journey of finding truths. You’re definitely giving many of us a true perspective on human nature.

She said she has a boyfriend, meaning a male? If so, congratulations on figuring out what makes you happiest!

There shouldn't be judgment placed on people for how they want to transition or detransition. In the end everyone deserves to make their own decisions about medical interventions that they want or don't want. Good luck to you with all of that

This was a very good video. You explained your journey well. I'm glad you were able to find the right balance for you and reclaim your body. Good for you.

Proud of u for being open n honest Jay

Glad to hear your story. Definitely gives me a softer heart for people who think that they need to transition themselves. It’s the mind we as people need to fix. Not the physical. I pray you continue to educate yourself, love yourself but most importantly Build a relationship with God. I believe whatever it is that you want to change that you feel can’t be reversed can be done through the power of God. You are a beautiful person inside and out. Be blessed ❤

Sending you hugs and love. I’m sorry society failed you and proud of you for sharing your story. I pray your message reaches young masses. I shared your video. Love and light to you.

I have gaining understanding for a couple of decades now. This video was very helpful in understanding the transition and the detransition process.

I clicked on this video out of curiosity and I'm so glad that I did even though I'm not trans or anything but I've learned so much. I've always been very supportive of the trans, gay and lesbian community because everyone has their own life and own stories so good luck and I hope that you're happy 😊❤

damn, you're right about people jumping on people about their detransition - everyone has their reasons and it even is a sensitive topic to some detransitioners about how it didn't work out in the end and how they wish it had.. i feel for those that never had the opportunity whatever the case may be to be themselves. risk education is supposed to be apart of the process and there should be no detail spared. as a cis guy i feel the disregarding emotions everyday btw, sometimes with these hormones you catch yourself thinking damn i'm borderline emotionless sometimes and i don't really like it.. lol being human is imperfect no matter what right i checked the IG anyways and you're the most dripped out enby.. lmao thriving i hope, hope all is well at least

This was really interesting to hear. Thanks for sharing your story and educating us.

Being a tomboy doesn't make a girl gay

Thank you for sharing the truth. I pray the very best of happiness for you. GOD made you just as you are “beautiful” 💕

You need more subscribers. Thanks for sharing your story.

I am so glad you made this video and was so open about everything. I appreciate giving people who may not understand the opportunity to understand ❤ Thank you!

Thank you for your sharing. Sending prayers and hugs ❤️you gave us the real on your reality but it’s helping so many people 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Wishing you all the success and happiness in the world!!! Stay strong and be you!!!!

I commend you for explaining the process and giving an honest pov. ❤

I am just a mom of two grown sons and have been married for 30 years. I am proud of you. I can feel your heart, you are a wonderful human. Everything will be ok. ❤

Don't apologize for who you are,if they don't like it... They can move on. Its in the description. You said that a few times. When you are teaching, just teach the best way you can. I'm NOT trans or LGBTQ,but, i really appreciate you bringing this side too the light. Im seeing more trans untransing for this very reason. It's the " grass is NOT always greener". Glad you learned to love yourself. You are who God created YOU to be. Be who you are 🎉🎉🎉, celebrate YOUr happiness. Thank you trans community for sharing these stories.

Loving yourself means the most. You are absolutely right in your beautiful truth: be yourself. Congratulations on your journey.

I'm so glad you spoke on this, you broke this down really good and made VERY important points. I'm glad you stopped. Thank you for sharing ❤

Thank you for sharing your story. You are very brave and honest ❤

Psalm 139:14 I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well. ❤❤❤

Thanks so much for sharing your story. You are very brave and wish you the best on your lifes journey.

Just to clarify testosterone is a natural hormone in both females and males it’s just produced in a higher concentration in males but it is still present in females just at a lower concentration there are outlier cases of women who have high testosterone again in BOTH male and females too much testosterone is never a good thing as it can cause heart issues and irregularities reproductive issues etc

I don’t know u but proud of u… keep livin in yo truth

Listening to your story makes it seem like you were just a stud tbh

You’re a strong human thank you for sharing your story

I’m not sure what you smoking on, but I’m sure (hoping) it’s nature made. I solute you for taking a stance on your priorities… putting your health first is most important and the reward will be outstanding. ❤

Thank you for sharing your story. I love and respect your honesty!!! You are a beautiful person!!!

You gave a lot of really good information and thoughtful reflection 🙏🏽 thanks for sharing

Tbh trans people really don’t have a problem with people who de-transition, I feel like the issue at hand is that cis people will take your story and try to cast it upon the whole trans community. Like no that’s not how this work, nobody reason for feeling different nor their experience within the transition is going to be the same. So basically the problem is really between cis and trans people, y’all are just caught in the crossfire.

Thank you for being so transparent (maybe not the cussing😘)!!! I think everything you said is spot on...seems if it were right for you, it wouldn't be a "strange" change👏🏽🤗Ps "when you put unnatural $#@% in your system..." *big drag of...*😂💯Ah, to be young again💗🙏🏽

Thank you for sharing. Wishing you nothing but the best in love, life and happiness.

Thank you for keeping 100 and sharing your truth you are so beautiful

more people need to see this video.

Thank you for educating the world about this.

...but, imma use the hell outta Shark week 😂😂😂😂😂

@18:24 Thats impossible, what you're experiencing is vagina atrophy/vaginal degeneration.

18:36 that’s a conversation right there

I thank God that you came to love you as God made you! ❤ There are some natural born women who have deep voices and are extremely hairy to where they have to shave their bodies often, so please don't feel self conscious about that. May God continue to bless you on your journey of life, we all have struggles and issues that we must overcome as we live this life that we've been given. You will always be in my prayers, Jay Rhymes! 🙏🏾✌🏾❤️

God don’t make mistakes, You are Loved by the creator just as you are.✨

This is powerful and idk how you believe but baybee you doing Gods work!

Wow ! you wanted counciling. The important thing is that you do an x-ray to find out what internal organs you have male or female and then take it from there.

I feel like people talk about this trans thing BUT NEVER , NEVER TELL THE TRUTH ABOUT THE TERRIBLE SIDE OF IT AND I KNOW ITS A WHOLE LOT OF HELLISH THINGS THEY ARE PUTTING THEIR BODIES THROUGH AND I HAVE A FEELING A WHOLE LOT OF THEM REGRET WHAT THEY HAVE DONE TO THEIR BODIES. THANKS FOR BEING HONEST

This popped up on my feed so I clicked. I’m not sure what you will identify as but when I look at u I see a beautiful brown woman with a fly brush cut. 💜

God bless u I pray for your strength to keep moving forward as a young women

I will always like women and I still want top surgery but I’m over taking T.

vaping is very hard on your body. beautiful and helpful video

Chromosomes don't lie.

It's always a relief for a trans guy to click on these detransition videos and realize you don't relate to their experience at all, lol. Thanks for sharing. I was never a tomboy, for starters. I didn't experience a loss of emotions at all. I don't cry (with tears) as often but the emotions are the same. Except I feel more in control of my emotions instead of feeling like a victim of the world. Also, T doesn't try to make you grow a dick 😂 you just get a bit of bottom growth. You seem to be mixing some esoterical beliefs with the actual effects of T

I’m so very proud of you. ❤

I hear tomboy alot. I guess maybe it's different for different generations. I'm 50 and I way a tomboy, but I never wanted to be anything other than what I am. It's was just a saying in my day. I use to climb trees, didn't want to carry a pocketbook or get dressed up, etc. But kids often change on their own. I love pocketbooks now, lolol, but I would rather dress down. However, I'll dress up when I feel like it!

You are a beautiful woman , you have a strong tone, athletic body type, which is beautiful and powerful. This is what all woman seek. So love your body, love you, women comes in all shapes and sizes.

Growing up I was a tomboy feared puberty and didn’t want breast, glad I didn’t discover this trans thing until I got older n self actualized cuz If it was ramped like this wen I was a preteen I’d prolly had fell for it idk. And I was gay n scared of men. I’m now a regular heterosexual woman.

Look at bodybuilders that are female/ female athletes. WE got a vagina and that makes us women no matter what. People stereotyping us. FR💯

Thank you for being you and sharing!

I know I made a good decision to transition but my body is definitely dying faster than it was before but I love the high I get after I take my testosterone

Even if a person transitions from a man to a woman or vice versa. What you are naturally is what prevails and what will work. For example if God made you a woman naturally, you will always function biologically as a woman regardless of hormone therapy or operations.

Thanks for sharing your honest POV. 🖤💪🏾

this is the why we need to stop with the gender specific clothes. let folks wear what they want to wear. these clothes are making people change their entire bodies just so they can dress differently

Thanks for your honesty.

I’m glad you’re happy

Very informative and educational thank you and you are beautiful.

I admire your bravery to face yourself. Sometimes we have to try new foods to see if we like them or not. I tried liver and it is not for me. You in a way found out the same, only with your entire being. You tried liver and realized it wasn’t worth it. And that is just fine. I wish you nothing but happiness baby girl. 🥰👏🏽🫂

Much respect! God Bless!

LOVE YOU SO MUCH JAY❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

I wonder what the elder years will look like for trans ppl? Like how will their body function at such age with all the changes ?

What does high cheek bones hafta do with anything ? 🙄

Blessings to everyone, if you haven't yet repented and accepted chrost Jesus as your Lord and Savior,please do so before it's too late, it's not God"s will for none to perish.Acts 2 vs 38 John 3vs 16 Romans 10 vs 13

Please seek counseling.

Have you asked your doc about taking Estrogen? I’m wondering if that would help the voice and facial hair growth? Also for the FTMs that had top surgery would that help breast tissue grow back?

Thank god, thank god, thank god, glory to be god to you!!!!!!!!

You are good as you are and very courageous

Praying for you.

you talk a lot about how you changed for people to like you instead of changing for *you*. transitioned for all the wrong reasons.

Jesus loves you!❤❤❤He loves you dearly!❤ You were created in Gods image and He made you perfect! Find your true identity in Him and Him alone.This is coming from a place of love, BEAUTIFUL.

I'm so confused,Born a woman,Consider yourself gay But you have a boyfriend What am I missing here?

You are beautiful ❤

im just confused on how you were able to get hormones soo young. iim a girl and i developed at age 11. i have large heavy breasts and at left home for university and i tried getting a breast reduction. no doctor would touch me. they wanted me to have a baby first. my friend was a single mom and she had a breast reduction lickety split. i tried again later and still i needed to have a baby. in cases like yours (this is my 4th video of a person de-transitioning)how is it soo easy to get hormone therapy compared to me just a girl who wants to have smaller breasts to relive some physical pain? this is rhetorical, of course and im just making a point.

you know, i appreciate you discussing this as nicely as anyone can but i'm wondering what's 'natural' about all the weird-ass chemicals in vapes? you seem fine putting that in your lungs. i just don't know how people can bash transitioning one second while puffing on vaporized chemicals that stick around in the tissue in your lungs. you do you, though.

See, the problem here is that you're not having an experience. You are creating the experience experiences are natural, have a great day.

I don't know you, But I prey that u find God, I can say that, I was gay and God deliver me!! If u prey ask God to show the real you! Be bless my sister

15:10 lmao the irony

Is there complications of having vaginal intercourse by taking t ?

Does this mean that ur transitioning to a female?

You beautiful in God love you and we love you

So do you like girls or boys? Just curious. Thank you.