Do not pander to 0.2% of the UK population.

Kelly Jay keen is 100% correct

They know they're not women, if they were they wouldn't have to shout about it non stop and scream in people's faces that they are.

Kelli you have shown me the reality of it all I’m less supportive of trans because I’m now angry I have been made to step aside for men’s feeling that are ridiculous.

I’m a gay man and I agree 1000% with her. I don’t personally advocate for this and I have never used the woman’s bathroom. I go to men’s room and I’ve been completely fine. I wouldn’t want a woman in the men’s room because I would feel embarrassed. I have no issue with sex segregated establishments. Just recently I found myself arguing with a drag queen about the ordeal. I asked him if a trans woman is a woman in the same fashion as his mother. He stuttered and knew I was correct.

We teach our daughters about stranger danger which includes in public toilets. I was at your Auckland rally and left as soon as the mood changed and I felt unsafe. On the way to catch my bus home I popped into the Auckland Art Gallery to use their toilet, there was a sign to the effect that you could use whichever toilet to which you assigned your gender. Already feeling unsafe from the rally in the park next door, I found this confronting. I emailed the gallery when I got home only to receive a reply that they had a tick of approval from the LGBGT community for their inclusiveness but there was no acknowledgment of my reference to stranger danger and how apprehensive I felt.

Keep speaking out you are a heroine. What I’ve found is most women don’t realise that the huge majority are still fully intact males and are happy to remain that way.

Non compromising , and speaking truth. Well done Kellie Jay

This sums it up nicely: men in spaces they shouldn't be is a real risk to women. (6:05) And if those men who keep pushing their way into women's spaces by posing as women were, actually, women, they wouldn't do that. Because they wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feelings or make women afraid. I like Kelly-Jay a lot. So forthright, so astute. I like that she calls herself a "women's rights campaigner": I rather like that term's specificity. As opposed to "feminist", which has become watered down.

With you Kellie

Kellie is absolutely correct. Few men would understand how easy it is for females to feel threatened in multiple environments. This, despite most males being safe. This is something we live with every single day of our lives when we're out in public.

Great to see Kellie-Jay Keen…😊

Thank you Kellie.

Nothing but respect for KJK's honesty and courage!

Kudos to Kellie. She is miles ahead of the crowd on this issue, hence the blank stares from the masses.

The opposite view is infantile. Exactly. Thank you Kellie Jay for just simply calling a spade a spade.

"I'm a gay man. You will refer to me as "your Gayness" or you're being a homophobe," Does that make sense?

Keep up the good work and fight the good fight, Kelly. Commiserations on the recent election result but I know you faced a lot of obstacles and discrimination and despite it all you made your voice heard. We cannot surrender our very sanity to these people and we won't. We are with you all the way.

I'm a woman who is extremely comfortable around men. I can walk into a room full of men and just say, "Hey guys!" No fear. Nothing. I can do that comfortably, because there are established social boundaries. These boundaries are clear, and are not easily misunderstood. So all the times I find myself in a room full of males, I feel comfortable. I know this isn't every woman. Every woman has different experiences with men. Different women have different temperaments and tolerance levels. This is just my personal experience. My point is, whether you're fully comfortable around a group of men like me, or you're completely uncomfortable , boundaries play a huge role in our interactions with men. The trans movement skews these boundaries. You can't even define a woman! Let alone establish boundaries. One boundary is "No means no and I don't have to explain myself." I don't owe a man an answer for why I don't want to date him when I'm attracted to men. I say "No" to a transman, I'm going to be forced to give an explanation because they have to make sure that I'm "not transphobic" and I'm a "safe person." Never mind all the practical and legit reasons not to date a transman. Mostly our lives having to revolve around medical complications and revisions to a surgery you voluntarily subjected yourself to. Or being trans is a red flag that you probably have other issues that are ongoing and not being properly treated because we don't properly treat trans people once we transition them for whatever reason. Or that your fake dick is really unattractive. Or maybe I'm a younger woman who isn't the sleep around type and does want a family in my future. All of that is transphobic to say. Especially the last one where I'm a woman who has to put aside something good and wholesome that I want, that plenty of men also want and can deliver on, because some trans person will have "his" feel feels hurt.

It’s about women/girls being and feeling vulnerable in certain areas such as toilets snd changing rooms. We are partially dressed in these spaces and a man in these spaces obviously increases this vulnerability

Thank you for standing up for mothers and women

Gender is a grammatical category.

Thank you KJK ❤

You are wonderful Kellie-Jay thank you for fighting for us.

Spot on KJK. I had a heart attack in March. NO pain before,during or since, so a mystery as to why I was a ghostly white, shivering + unable to move. Brilliant paramedics, while I was in the ambulance parked outside my house, discovered I was having a heart attack + also searched for the right hospital for me. That night I had emergency surgery 3stents then taken to Coronary Care Unit where there were 3beds, 2 occupied by men. Even though I was VERY ILL, I felt fear which only subsided over 24hours as I realised they were no threat to me. BUT they could have been.

KJ I had exactly the same toilet experience. I must admit before it happened to me, I didn't expect my own reaction of fear embarrassment silencing myself and waiting until I was sure he had left. It shocked me.. I'm a woman of the world.. psych nurse mum and gay but I froze, this is a trauma/fear response.

I really admire her, she is firm but fair, which too many involved in this conversation aren’t.👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Kellie is a brave pioneer, the voice of truth and reason. TRUTH that’s the beginning and end of this.

Nothing radical about pointing out the truth

Sending ❤ to Kellie 🤩

I can think of plenty of reasons. Keep up the good fight.

Kellie-Jay is an amazing woman! Thank you KJK for #POW #LWS #Standingforwomen

I 'identify' as = I'm an effing liar

Keep up the good work, Kellie.

I support Kellie, they’re attempting to completely erase the boundaries between males and females. They claim that sex is distinct from sex, yet actually believe they can change their sex.

Keep going. We will win

Such good sense

When this trans fad is finally over the whole world is gonna say”wtf was that all about”

What a wonderful HUMAN BEING.

KJK, thank you.

Excellent conversation. Speaking the truth delivered so articulately and respectfully.

thanks for this ❤

This is out of hand! It's thanks to Jesus that I have detransitioned after 4 years of that deception, I explain more in my 3rd recent v ideo.

it isnt lunacy to fight this deviancy. its necessary

I agree 100% with KJK with this and I also would not use the "she" for a man in English no matter how much he wanted me to do it, but I want to add my Finnish point of view: In Finnish language we only have one word for both he and she and that is "hän". So we don't have to have this conversation. Finnish language has gender only in words like mother/father = äiti/isä, sister/brother = sisko/veli, aunt/uncle = täti/setä etc. But other than that it is genderless. So it makes this a bit easier for us. I mean we don't have to have this public discussion of the use of these pronouns.

people who say the truth so well are not required to have any other sales pitch! well said

I am of equal value to a man but not the same as. If you needed saving from a fire or the ocean do you want 155cm 105 pounds me or my 178cm 200 pound fit and very strong husband coming through

I can't believe I agree with Andrew defining the word feminist and KJK is generalizing it. "There are a million types of different women who consider themselves feminists but don't have the same agenda." I consider myself to have feminist values (not a male hater and am not entitle to be paid for males work when I can't physically do it) and also believe this normalizing male fetish as dressing as women is weird, I don't even know how to think why men want to compete in women sports but that has nothing to do with feminism. And yes some of my good male friend dress as women but I do not want them in my bathrooms.This is a fetish

Well said, Kellie-Jay. 💐

I think it’s about time that men’s bathrooms get in the 21st century and have private cubicles not urinals in a row with no privacy at all

A lot of changes happen based on money- if the government passed a laws about mandatory individualized bathroom, changing rooms, and locker rooms for booth (or any sexes) watch how quickly this BS comes to a halt.

I voted for party of women - Oxford East 💪🏾

Thank you Kellie Jay Keen.

good for her Kellie

That's my girl!

"So you are saying trans women aren't women?" The answer to that question is in the question, because simply the need for the word "trans women" indicates that they are not women. You can argue " But is a homosexual man not a man just because he wants to be in a realationship with another man?" That fact does not encrouch in any way on lives of heterosexual men if the gay man is a respectful person.

what a brilliant woman - so clear minded and so intelligent and articulate

what a woman 😍

I'm 100% with Kellie.

Kellie-Jay speaks so much common sense. I've had similar experiences, and without meaning to be, I have been genuinely afraid. I froze up, and then afterwards I cried because I was just so angry at myself for freezing up. I always thought i'd be able to be brave, but when it came to it....I froze. I felt pathetic, upset and afraid.

I remember back in the late 1970’s when singer Anita Bryant fought against gay rights in Florida because she thought it would be detrimental to society. She won a few battles but in the end destroyed her career and went bankrupt. I can’t help but then she watches the news these days and thinks “I tried to tell y’all but you wouldn’t listen”

I'm behind you all the way.

KJK IS AWSOME AND 100% CORRECT

100% agree with you Kellie, as does yhe majority of the human race. Funny how much post are still being monitored. My first post was removed pml.

I totally agree with KJK on trans issues. I believe that her comments on mothers and work are meant to convey that mothers would stay home if they could afford it. However, my take on why they don’t has more to do with men abusing their position as breadwinner to subjugate women into circumstances that are not equal or fair. Also, men sometimes leave their families and women who have not maintained their careers are vulnerable to being thrown into poverty. There needs to be a workable system that ensures female Labour in the home is assigned a value and that any income generated by a working parent is fully available to the parent who cares for the home and family. There also needs to be much stricter rules on the payment of child support and this money should be transferred at the salary payment level.

Whether you call it gender dysphoria or sex dysphoria, it is real. It is a rare but genuine clinical psychological issue. As are other body dysmorphia conditions. But a psychological issue doesn't change biological reality. However, they do deserve care and support with that issue.

Wouldn't be great to be married to someone like Kellie Jay - no bloody nonsense and a great sense of humour! Mind you, I bet hubby does receive a decent serve of Kellie's 'opinions' on a regular basis!

At my brutally tough all-boys' grammar school in the 1970s, genital comparing was openly encouraged as a means of socialisation and character forming. Completely open urinals that you could use only at 2 points in the day, and compulsory showers after PE 3 times a week, in fully open changing rooms, where the male teachers would wander round, obviously checking you out, facilitated this, deliberately. In one religious education class, dealing with Judaeism, the teacher asked who in the class had been circumcised. 99% were intact and in my view self-evidently proud of it (there were no Jewish or Muslim boys there then - this was 1973). Sadly, I was one of the 1% who'd had the misfortune to be circumcised on probably unnecessary medical grounds. I received tons of body-shaming on that account, which traumatised me. Eventually I regrew my foreskin (yes, it IS possible to regrow an aesthetic replica foreskin albeit it won't have the same functionality as the original, although plenty of misguided hygiene freaks are desperate to deny this.) Use of public urinals is now far less of a stressful experience. The population is expanding and public toilet provision is not expanding to cope with this demand. Sometimes there are just two urinal bowls and 1 cubicle for a whole town. Consequently urinating in closer proximity to others than most would wish is increasingly unavoidable. For this reason all urinals in publicly-accessible buildings should be screened like ballot boxes, by law. You won't get local authorities and private companies doing this voluntarily; they are known for penny-pinching. I too experience other men using the urinal next to me when others further away are available (it bothers me less now I've got my foreskin back and am in with the "in" crowd - the UK is a majority genitally-intact country, thank God), but wouldn't go as far as to suggest that urinals should be banned altogether, as is occasionally proposed. They have no place in schools, for sure, but if you were to ban them outright in all publicly-accessible buildings, that would give a green light to penny pinching public and private bodies to reduce ALL toilet provision or, worse still, convert all their toilets to gender neutral ones. We need to be extremely careful what we wish for.

K-J K is waking a Silent Majority.

In amateur and professional sports allow only one category of contestants. Men, women and trans all compete against each other under the same rules for the same prize money.

Our city council of men and women push for men in women's spaces, except for one man. We were asked to give our opinion and I wrote to the council my opinion on a vote on this matter that was coming up. Only one person responded. I wrote that the law allow me to go into the men's because honestly, hardly anyone used the male space. Homeless men, men with children, men with their partners, men in dresses, men with a sex partner and not wanting to pay for a motel, used the women's spaces. Well, the bill passed that in government buildings, you have to be a female to use the female spaces and I was not allowed to use the men's as you have to be a biological male for that. I told the church choir about this and they cancelled me as one of them said that women who don't want men in dresses in female spaces are haters and probably racist as black men in dresses are probably made to feel unwanted. I now consider our church choir a hate group. The city is uber liberal, but the surrounding areas are more conservative and so the bill passed because of me and the more conservative people living in the suburbs whom I hardly meet.

Feminism as a movement has been and is about putting women into the equation when it comes to rights and opportunities. If a retro or trad role works for a woman, she can make that choice - and feminism tries to make it possible that she not be penalized in retirement, for example, for having chosen uncompensated labor for her working years.

XX is XX, XY is XY and they always will be.

🙏🙏🙏 ❤

I would have held my breath and not moved a muscle in that bathroom as well. It's automatic. I wasn't born that way. It was learned.

Is there a difference between a mother and a father?

Love love love KJK💖

Kelly Jay spot on xxx

Wouldn't recognizing and accepting that some men prefer to present feminine, but are still men, just as western culture gradually accepted that some women prefer to present masculine but are no less women, be actually progressive? Rather than defining men and women, boys and girls, by sexual stereotypes, which is cognitively regressive?

Yes, Kellie-don’t waste you efforts on the radicals!

If trans women are real women ,why is the word trans before women.

Haven't met one yet!

11.23- this 66 y.o. Woman’s understanding of core feminism. The rest are the variations of trying to tease it out. 16.30 - my understanding/version of feminism.

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I've just had a comment removed from the comments I have been denied my femininity directly because of the prosperity of the trans movement

196 votes 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Sorry…children do not need a man and a woman to raise them. They need at least one stable parent and that can be a man or a woman.

Its baal

are you married or not? because sometimes you refer to your fiance and sometimes you refer to your wife.

she is smart

*M I S A N D R Y*

The word ''she'' means a women, to use it otherwise is just misleading, uncomfortable, threatening, abusive to women, etc

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Interesting that we have different opinions on what feminism means. I certainly agree when she says that women and men arent the same. But I never thought thats what feminism was about. I view it more as women wanting equal rights as men eg. Ability to vote, to be treated as an equal at work, right to live free of harassment, right to have choices about their life eg. whether to have children or marry (unlike in some countries where this is forced on women)....

No they are NOT REAL WOMEN

Sure, I largely agree with her ideas about Transactivism, but I loathe her misrepresentation of GC feminists. Even tho she seems happy to 'own ' TERF'. She also puts down many intellectual women with long track records fighting for women.

Your -RHINE-Alls? Is this just the UK way of saying Your-IN-all (urinal)?

afterlistening for 5 minutes i think she needs to talk about isues with men that attitude is not normal

Gender is used in German language. Die Frau: Der Mann for example. How funny it is Das Madchen

Genetic Link Between Gender Dysphoria and Sex Hormone Signaling Madeleine Foreman, Lauren Hare, Kate York, Kara Balakrishnan, Francisco J Sánchez, Fintan Harte, Jaco Erasmus, Eric Vilain, Vincent R Harley The Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism Epigenetic Control of Sexual Differentiation of the Bed Nucleus of the Stria Terminalis Elaine K. Murray, Annie Hien, Geert J. de Vries, Nancy G. Forger Endocrinology, Volume 150