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Nobody goes to America to find a wife. I’ve never heard any man saying I’m going to America to find a wife

In the USA, if a woman is just normal weight, she's already in the top 10%.

"I'm a 10" "Yeah, on the Richter Scale."

Left America 4 years ago. I went back to visit and 😮 things have gone downhill fast

Friendzone all American women. Date real women overseas

I always thought the stereotype of Asian men was higher intelligence, but unfortunately a lot of American women don't value intelligence. In fact, it can be a disadvantage with them when they are more interested in talking about gossip.

The problems with dating came with feminists. In the 70’s and 80’s when I was looking for a wife, women in the USA were more interested in careers than men. I was just looking for someone that I loved and who loved me. I stumbled across a Christian dating newspaper and wrote a few of the women. Unlike the dating apps today, you only got one photo at best. Instead, you got to know someone at least a little by writing. My wife really knows how to put her heart on paper, so after a year or so of writing, we finally met when we were both on vacation. When we first met, I was actually with my grandmother and we toured a candy factory. We lived on the two coasts of the USA, so the prospects were not good for a future, but my wife took a stand for me and in turn I asked her to marry me. We have been married 30 years. Although we met in the USA, she was born in the Philippines. Best decision I ever made. We agree on the old fashioned basics: I work, she stays home and takes care of our castle. She did not meet me at the finish line. She loved me when I had nothing. We know have two homes and a small ranch free and clear because she was always careful with how she spent. Christ first for both of us.

I think the majority of men agree with you on this. I have trouble articulating what you just did very well. But, I have noticed that you cannot give any kind of criticism in the West.

Dude you are 100% right on with this video. I’m glad someone actually came out and said it…

Dated a South Korean girl in college. It Changed my views on dating for the better

What you said @ 10:38 about gossip is what I've experienced with Colombian girls in Medellin 🤣 and don't get me started on promiscuity when it comes to them

Aye Wes, Korean American over here! Thank you for posting this because it's been a while since I was able to connection someone with a similar background. Born in Korea but raised in the US.

Absolutely agree I as well am no longer interested in AW. Social media has made all these women Believe they are all IG models . Literally 3,4,5 think they are 8,9,10

Poland values education. Asians are perceived as education-oriented and cultured . This is something Polish women value.

American here, as someone that's been paying attention with the 180 shift in the american culture, I have to say I'm done sticking around and not at all happy here, I'm looking forwarding to exploring more options! I do have a passport and glad I am seeing the world more, 100% on your video. I come from a Hispanic background (From a Cuban Family) that's more traditional. happy to explore other options. The more time I spend time with different cultures it opens more things and options I wouldn't get in the U.S. It is very monocultured more in an ideal sense it is true U.S. is very Multiculture with so many people with different backgrounds, I wouldn't want to raise my kids here getting raised by the American culture, I want my kids to have a better life then I did. If I had to be honest.

Wes, I totally agree with you when it comes to women with a high body count. It’s absolutely ridiculous when people say women shouldn’t be judged based on their past sexual encounters. The past is the past as they say but I dare to disagree. I prefer my woman to have respect for herself, her body and her reputation. I mean, plenty of guys wouldn’t mind sleeping with someone like Riley Reid but who would wanna marry her?

we have the same issues here in Germany with feminism, and LGBTQ, not as extreme as in the US, but it's getting there slowly. In Germany, Middle Eastern and Asian men might be the least desired race, but I felt so welcomed in the Philippines.

All the Asian guys I work with in these software industry are smarter than me, mad respect! So not all Americans look down on Asian dudes. As a typical American male, I’m a bigger guy and very fit, I’m moving to the Philippines as fast as I am able for all the reasons you lay out here.

When you travel around Canada and the US. Women start to look the same? Similar attitudes, complaints about men, the usual BS that just makes you go ehhh before you even say hello. Its kind of like a dating resume. Would you hire a woman who has worked at dozens of companies in the last year? Its not so much of a moral judgment, it simply tells you that she loves to sleep around, and why should you feel special? can you trust her around your friends? your finances? your male family members?

True video. One thing to keep in mind is that vice ferments and grows in isolation. So if you can atomize your citizenry, you can reap them for greater profits. This is why America being hypercapitalist has also (intentionally) become very lonely and disconnected, cars, decaying families, no community, people are by themselves and thus succumb to temptations (that they have to spend money on). Our GDP is high but we're spiritually impoverished. This incentivizes people to spend their money on smoking, unhealthy diets/overeating, vaping, porn, etc. So the obesity is actually a spiritual issue where people don't feel the self-worth needed to take care of their own body. Our problems are baked into the design of our society. Also the health issues are so ingrained because none of the food is real. People literally don't have access to real food. This is done from the top down to keep people poor IMO, if everyone's sick from poison food nobody can be healthy enough to improve their lives. I mean going to the grocery store most if not all of the food has artificial sugars and preservatives. America has gotten so bad I've considered jumping ship for three years now and am currently planning on leaving, just trying to figure out where to go and how. The women here either ignore you, hate you, or sometimes flirt with you until you give them attention, then they ignore you having just utilized you as a sucker. It's deceptive and cruel tbh. I'm a 6ft tall handsome guy (I'd honestly rate myself a 5/10 on a bad day, 6/10 regularly, if I worked out more and was peak I could get to 7 or 8/10) and never been on a single date here (it's that bad where I am). Women here think your psychically r*ping them if you even so much glance their way, it's a crime against humanity. I have a friend who was falsely accused of r@pe and had to go to court and defend himself against a felony based off of a single lie of an honorless bitch. Meanwhile, I know for a fact I'm attractive because the few foreign women (three Mexicans, one Asian, one Danish) I have been around (who were all cute) have immediately showed flirty interest in me and I felt loved and valued, even for a brief moment. One of them, who was especially attractive, even asked me if I had a wife lol. I've talked to 2 different Russian men and they've expressed how it's the polar opposite of America in their country, the women get upset if you *aren't* showing interest in them. I don't have faith any women in America have the capacity for a healthy, long term relationship. Even marriage here is a business contract essentially. I'm by far not a Christian but have come from a Christian background, and even in this zone where people are (supposedly) more "moral" there have been numerous divorces and similar feminist trappings I've bore witness to. The issue is the few spaces that aren't this way swing too far the other way, saying "women are property" etc. I don't want that either, I just want normal back! Most men I know in marriages are in a master/slave dynamic, where their wife has to "allow" them to do things because that's how much of a power imbalance there is in the relationship. I've seen plenty of marriages where the woman feels free to get obese because she's locked down a man and had kids with him, so now the guy is in a pickle. It's like something out of a horror movie, an abomination. The only slice of hope I see is when foreign women move here and bring their ways with them. Guys like me have a slight chance. American women in general are gamey and manipulative, their heart not in the right place. To be fair, a lot of the men are promiscuous too, and that doesn't get a free pass from me. I'll see these dudes go like "she's such a whore" and then go stack a body count in the hundreds . Like at that point, you're part of the problem lol. But it's harder to avoid becoming that guy if healthy relationships are harder to achieve, because the temptation is greater. Because attractive women are so hard to find, a lot of burly, 10/10 men will be seen walking around with overweight 4s. It's so bizarre it's like a black mirror episode. Asian men get a bad rep for sure in US but they are truly really cool. As for Asian women I think they're delightful and there was one in my past I regret not getting to know better who was really sweet. American men are becoming perverted now out of loneliness. When normal relationships become impossible to achieve, the sexual energy gets channeled in unhealthy ways. I've seen this a lot. What's hilarious is that while sex is being treated as casual and lax, ie not sacred, people are super quick to accuse r@pe and freak out as if it were . So sex is disposable and meaningless, UNLESS ITS R*PE, THEN ITS CRAZY AND LOCK HIM UP FOREVER. In my mind, if sex is meaningless/casual, r@pe would be nothing more than petty theft. But we all know internally that's not true. It's like mass delusion here. Again, even talking about any of this stuff people would spaz out, because we can't discuss ideas, because we're r*tarded. I totally agree that conversations here are entirely superficial. I live for deep and meaningful conversations but there's been a total drought here for decades. "Have ya seen the game?!" I've nearly gone insane by not having anyone to talk to about anything interesting. In fact, whenever conversation with people enters somewhere interesting, someone else will interrupt with a "goofy meme" or some shit that's expedient and not valuable to hear. So not only are people not capable of having meaningful conversations, but they're insecure enough to interrupt and prevent others from having those conversations. In America, YOU ARE THE PRODUCT. No facet of life is untouched by money and business. Marriage, relationships (internet/phone cell providers). There's no sense of sacredness to anything here which makes me vomit. I know this comment was long, no sweat if you can't read it, this video just spoke to my soul because I've been going through this recently.

I love this bro! This is pretty how a lot of us feel! I’m a mix Mexican and filipino and I noticed I have way more in common with a girl of mixed ethnicities as well because of their multicultural up bringing’s! This video was so relatable in so many ways!

Once we experience the travel lifestyle, theres no going back. Good video Wes 👍🙌🔥

I'm an Asian Canadian in my 30s and I really really wish I travelled more when I was younger. It was bad 10 years ago and it's even worse now. Dating is hell. Now cost of living is hell too. Hopefully I can figure out a way to leave and make money in a different country.

Great video wes. A lot of men feel the same here in the states and across Western Europe but get shamed for having any type of preference. I don’t think it’s controversial to say that it mothers you if a lady you’re interested in has been with 10000 men. Any man with any type of moral compass would feel the same.

Women in foreign countries are better!!!!

Thank you for your time and posting.

Stumbled upon this and glad I did. You've moved to Poland and making vlogs about your life there? SUBSCRIBED!!! I have extended family there and have visited several times. Now that PiS is out of power I'm giving the country a second look. I speak the language fairly well, although I've had little practice in recent years. I'll definitely be checking out all your Poland vids.

I live in Western europe and single again after 17 years. I matched with a couple of American women on various dating apps. I didn't even have to get to a date to know they're not worth the effort. My first question to them was always if they identify more with the American culture or the culture of the country they're currently living in.

Hello from Japan I love all your contens wishing you all the best thank-you !

Not only American. But Western women...

Great video, lots of truth here!

I agree with a lot with what you gotta say! I have a detailed response for you that I will post later as I've got things to do!

THE THUMBNAIL EXPLAINS EVERYTHING I NEED TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR DATING LIFE.....YALL REALLY NEED TO GO OUTSIDE 😅😂

as an mixed race Asian American, who has live in Asia, Europe and the US (& married to a Colombian), I have to say most of your commentary was very on point. 1) What resonated with me was how differently Asian men are seen in each continent. 2) how different the values of Asian humility versus American vanity associated with masculinity 3) the substance of the typical conversation in US versus Europe 4) attraction standards by many of the women in the US. Have you asked the Polish woman you're dating, what her parents/ grandparents feel about marrying an Asian (don't be surprised if you hear the word Mongoloid by the older generation!)

Completely with you. Medellin, Cape Town, and The Dominican Republic showed me the light. Finding a good American woman is like finding a hay in a needle stack... all pain, little hope for a reward.

What you describe as “hitting a woman back”, is self defense lol! But I agree with you, just say men have the right to self defense, and that right doesn’t stop even when the abuser is a woman. Bc if someone were to clip your statement of “men should be able to hit a woman” out of context, even though ik you meant self defense, the Internet will hammer you down! But yea just letting yk i agree with your point, but I’m just offering a better way to articulate it so people won’t give you trouble

I began to have an interest in the world only after graduating high school. My fellow Americans have an appallingly poor understanding of the rest of the world--that is 100% true. To add to this ignorance of the world, our children and college students are now taught that the USA was founded in 1619, and that capitalism was invented in 1619. Our education system is taking ignorance to a new level.

I respect your opinions, and you are certainly able to say how you feel. With that said, saying you're Asian first, and not American first, just brings more division to this country (I know you're not living in the USA at the moment). We are Americans first, regardless of our ethnic heritage. Only then will we have true unity as a nation.

I think the American height fetish largely comes from American Sports culture. Sports is the main social focus in school all the way through college. It's like every major event has something to do with sports! Personally, I absolutely hate the most popular American sports lol.

I think everybody sucks in america. I lived here my whole life and can honestly say Im tired of it. I do agree everybody only talks about money and accomplishments. Its a very individual society every man for himself. I remember going to the Dominican Republic where my extended family is and people care about you. Our conversations are deep and nobody cares what car you drive. I think its culture... The promiscuity in America is also the reason why so many people here are emotionally unstable and yes, we have an obesity problem where 7 out of 10 people are overweight or obese, whereas in Dominican Republic women take pride on their looks because they know men like that... I hope one day I leave but unfortunetly don't see myself leaving anytime soon...

Does your evaluation of Poland and Krakow increase or decrease over time? How would you rate your stay in Poland on a scale of 1 to 10?

Yeah big Bro, your doing the right thing it ain’t getting any easier in the states.

A lot of American woman only want to see the $$$ before anything. I always dumb down my job to a low paying job like people greeter at Walmart to see what kind of reaction women have and a lot don't want to talk to me lol!

I’m Hispanic 1st generation here in the USA what I noticed is that 2end or 3 generations lose there culture and I hate to see it or even first i love my culture I wouldn’t want to trade to for anything I always will love Latinas from latin America

Very refreshing

Hatred and contempt for a man are the essence of modern relationships. Marriage for a man is an official guarantee of his destruction. My life, my rules, my wallet, my FREEDOM. Relationships like in Blade Runner 2049 will soon become a reality

Same here I'm never dating American women at all either, some of them way too freaky in school and they only act like one of them find me attractive whatever in school and I have to win it said and done I just ignored and do my school work and focusing on my skills if I'm alone I talk to mostly women on the phone From Vietnam, Thailand, sometimes women from Brazil, women from Japan, Korea and Europe and they are way more normal and traditional and really need to visit one of their countries my favorite ones I want to visit is Eastern Europe , Japan and Thailand 🫡

Totally agree with that

I just came for the laugh. I was not disappointed.

been off the plantation/out of the matrix most of my life, but i still empathize with my homies who are still stuck behind enemy lines in their minds

Hey Wes - are you friends with the Fung Bros? I saw them here in Medellin I think they are living here now - y’all should link and do a collab

The height fact is just a natural biological fact just like gender. It’s a chemistry. By the way, you have a lot of common thoughts and values that people just don’t say out loud so hats off on that. You shouldn’t look at it that way on being able to hit a woman back but finding someone who is on the same frequency as you and/or set that value of no violence thru methods that actually works-talk, space, and ability to agree to disagree (acceptance). It isn’t really about women being submissive but both gender bringing an independence the contributes to whole, which is not necessarily equal but a partnership.

People need to just accept themselves for their uniqueness and stop saying they don’t feel that they will never be accepted in another country. You are what you are and not that, it’s just the facts. The more open you are, the better your experience. Unfortunately, not too many can see that bigger picture.

American woman, stay away from me American woman, mama, let me be. “The guess who”

About 60 years ago, when I was a kid in school, if anyone had said they were a 10 in something subjective, the teachers would ruthlessly say: “Self praise is no praise !!” I have never forgotten this. And so should any person who drinks their own bath water and pumps up their own tyres, by claiming they are a 10. (And other mixed metaphors.) Listen up peoples … your worth is decided by others, not you.

100% agree with you

I'm out also. I wish them daily regimented breathing and all the best. 🎉 I learned my lesson...message recieved.

I can tell you got all of these from Happier Abroad by Winston Wu.

You said it well

speaking of not being aware... I had a lot of native English speakers (including GF's step mom) who said it sucks that English, which is such a difficult language, is used as a universal language around the world. Then I tried to explain what are the cases in Polish and why we have 7 of those and why they make sense. And then there's the Baltics who are on an absolutely next level :D

BODY COUNTS IN THE THOUSANDS IS A BIG PASS FOR ME

As the son of a Finnish mother and German father who’s is half black but, 100% and me raised since 6 yrs old in San Diego/LA I relate to this so much. A woman with a multicultural background would give me a positive dating experience, since I’ve gotten lil older I can’t relate to so many women, even their good qualities I just can’t get myself to take any of em serious, here in the states, specifically LA… Wes, I’m curious if you’ve had any issues with traveling not having the EU citizenship?

My dad was always for equality. If a girl hit him in the face because she felt offended, he hit her back... Note, he is not a violent type at all, but if someone raises a hand at him, gender doesn't play any role for him, he will give back immediately, no shame, no brakes whatsoever, so few girls tried to treat him like that in his youth... and you know what happened. No escalation, just return what they gave him... and since he was a bit stronger, well... it wasn't intentional, but they learned not to mess with him. The same with boys. Different times ;).

Europeans are not tall

I've been advising young men to do exactly what you are doing. You are a perfect example. If you try to date in the USA in your local area, only give it one round, only once chance. If the women are not fully enthusiastic about you then stop immediately and open up the geographical area more. Then go travel and date in foreign countries, you will eventually find a place where you are not just given a chance but the women are enthusiastic for you, that is where you find your wife. Good to see guys figure this out because it's painful to see you constantly being belittled by these low quality women here stroking their egos when all you need to do is go out into the world. Any guy, even an asian guy who is a US citizen is a Chad somewhere in some other country, you have discovered this yourself.

African and Arabic women we like Asian men

The problem because of instagram female entitlement is going up everywhere

Man this really struck home to me! Great video!! I have never dated outside Canada before and I've always questioned the same cultural and moral questions. Its really good to hear that not everywhere is the same Really enjoy your outlook as well, as its very grounded to what's actually happening

You said your parents grew up in the Philippines? Technically, you are Pinoy.

if you ask me the only way that the american perception on asians could change is for asians and their home countries to become even more successful more richer and control the media. there has been improvements with japan and korea contributions. china now also has their contributions due to their economic geopolitical rise. let's just use chinese overseas immigrants or descendants from overseas immigrants. a lot of them are descended from people from guangzhou and fujian province in the southern china which means... shorter/leaner and smaller people (at least for the time) in the usa now you have a lot more chinese expats or immigrants from northern chinese provinces that are bigger beefier on par with western male sizes also more gruff tougher attitudes. so that's definitely making a change.

Bill Burr: "Feminist only want the good things about being a man, they pick and choose, I want equal pay, but paying for half of the bill yucky!"

I basically learned the same thing but about American men instead of American woman

I came from Thailand and live in USA for 1 year 100% agree😂

We are not EASTERN Europe, we are CENTRAL.

they dont care about height because 90+% of the latin and asian men in other countries are 5’7 or shorter

Height is important in America because we use the imperial system, and 6 feet is an arbitrary round but not impossible height to find. 2 meters is just too muc to be even remotely reasonable.

This is all true. Im an american woman in my 40s with traditional values & i dont agree with how these younger woman are today. I will be raising my kids traditionally.

May be 10 stones

Where is your new Poland wife at Wes🧐

I had Polish GF. Can't say much bad about her. She lifted me out of very deep depression. Always was trying to motivate me, to be better person, to develop myself. We stayed together for 2 years. Eventually we broke up but I always will remember her in a positive way. Life. Now I'm MGTOW and it is very liberating. Also it is too late to start something in 44.

American exceptionalism trickles down to individuals. In the US male 4s with bad hair and teeth will call themselves 7s. Female 4s Overweight girls with bad clothes rate themselves 9.

Africans are so much taller than any Europeans

I feel like in other countries there's a more equal playing filed, where men and women are dating about the same amount as each other but in the USA most women are dating, and only the top percentage of men are dating, leaving a large portion of men with little to nothing.

good true viewpoint here.

You think dating one is bad? Imagine going to court, and the judge is a woman, and both attorneys are women. If you think your girlfriend hates men...

You know that whole ( we don't want short men ) BS came from a stupid hip hop song Salt and Pepper TLC and Gillette in the 90s

Europeans are not taller!!! Africans and Asian people are very tall

Bonjour! Hawaiian culture might be more agreeable with your background. Many mixed races there and low wages too. I am not in the group you identify as American. But the stress in the USA is real and everyone is trying to survive BIDEN"s inflation. They worry they won't be able to make it. That could be why the talk is about their careers and how much money is needed to survive there.

2:45 Going to disagree with you there. You're definitely not Asian first because you grew up in a western country. Your Western first and Asian second because people will judge you on your appearance, but you are a westernized completely.

10:02 exactly

Sorry to tell you this is every country that accepts feminism

Africans and Asian people are very tall

That thumbnail.. . OINK!

I agree

The sad thing is most of us American men don’t even realize this is not normal behavior. It’s just American women privilege the double standard is disgusting.

You should start a podcast. Good content 👍

I dated latinas.

You should never raise your fist to a woman, use the belt. 😊

American men, we like to talk about sports, not gossip!