Why I'm Not Moving Back to the US After Living in Germany for Over 4 Years

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Why I'm Not Moving Back to the US After Living in Germany for Over 4 Years
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@ZoieMarie
@ZoieMarie 2 жыл бұрын
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@ferrisferry
@ferrisferry 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome here in Germany! I
@darylcummins9236
@darylcummins9236 2 жыл бұрын
@bossymeg brown True, but by paying the taxes that contribute to services such as education & health care etc, most people in Western Europe don't have to take out huge loans to ensure that their kids can attend College/University, or cripple their own and their families financial future if they get sick. It's about what you get for how much you pay - and from everything I've seen, heard and read, we get a lot more bang for our buck from the Governments in Europe than in the US.
@pdppdp3854
@pdppdp3854 2 жыл бұрын
hey there sister, if you knew what going to occur in europe soon, you'd rethink your position on moving back to America. if one cannot already see the signs... then i'd encourage you to pray about it!! God can speak to people in various ways... but first we must ask concerning a matter... then await his response with open ears, eyes,mind and heart!! be blessed sister!!
@vapidrabbit198
@vapidrabbit198 2 жыл бұрын
@bossymeg brown as opposed to the USA, where people still have to pay a lot in taxes, and then the health insurance won’t approve your doctors or reimburse your medical fees… you have to pay most of the price of your meds yourself (which are more expensive than anywhere else in the world)……. And if you lose your job, you lose your insurance. …… and people wonder why crime in the USA is so much worse…
@vapidrabbit198
@vapidrabbit198 2 жыл бұрын
@@pdppdp3854 how do you know what’s going to happen in the future?… did Q send you messages in your dreams?
@notyourzon3
@notyourzon3 2 жыл бұрын
For me as a german, think that‘s normal. It makes me happy to hear that you‘re enjoying our land.
@kardanski
@kardanski 2 жыл бұрын
Es gibt auch Hass in Deutschland... Ich frage mich haeufig, ob Deutsche jede Auslaender hassen... und warum...
@lovelyinnit7930
@lovelyinnit7930 2 жыл бұрын
Same I am not a German but I live here since I was a child and it's very lovely here
@lovelyinnit7930
@lovelyinnit7930 2 жыл бұрын
@@kardanski also ich bin Ausländer und die leute sind sehr freundlich damit ihnen juckt es auch garnicht, meine lehrerin mag es neue und andere Sprachen zu hören oder über unsere Kultur zu lernen oder zu hören und sie sind haben sehr viel Respekt
@thyrussendria8198
@thyrussendria8198 2 жыл бұрын
@@kardanski Nicht alle, aber eine Laute Minderheit. Die hasserfüllten sind oft genug jene, die in ihrem eigenem Leben schlechte Karten hatten oder einfach ihre Karten falsch gespielt haben und dann von jemanden einen Auslass für den Zorn gezeigt gekriegt haben.
@thomasschafer7268
@thomasschafer7268 2 жыл бұрын
Ja.genau. Deswegen kann motzi mabuse ruhig nach England auswandern. Weils da bestimmt besser ist!
@andreaseufinger4422
@andreaseufinger4422 2 жыл бұрын
Very valid points. There is one thing the americans have to understand: If you want roads in a good condition, affordable and good schools and universities, affordable and good public transport, you need to pay some taxes. Taxes are worth paying as long as they are used in a reasonable way.
@solidstate9451
@solidstate9451 2 жыл бұрын
I like paying taxes because I know they improve my life quality.
@mrmc2465
@mrmc2465 2 жыл бұрын
This is ridiculous, u can pay all the tax in the world, it doesn't mean that it will be spent wisely. An individual will always spend money more appropriately than a large government body.
@solidstate9451
@solidstate9451 2 жыл бұрын
@@mrmc2465 No, the idividual will spend it for lavish luxuries for himself. Like flying into space. Yeah, how wisely spent for society!
@Muschelschubs3r
@Muschelschubs3r 2 жыл бұрын
What? Ahahahahaha. What Libertarian youtube channel did you glean this turd of an opinion from? One look at how most individuals spend their money and you know that you just spouted nonsense.
@iamtheonlywilly
@iamtheonlywilly 2 жыл бұрын
The Germans take pride in their country from what I've seen. The US is more concerned with capitalism and getting rich so some things aren't prioritized.
@SloMo2723
@SloMo2723 Жыл бұрын
I lived in Germany for almost 5 years. Coming back to the US was a shock to me! The German people showed me how to live a cool and simple life. I go back to Germany as often as possible and always hate leaving the country.
@Kiki-cm1pm
@Kiki-cm1pm Жыл бұрын
As a German it‘s so good to hear people talk nice about Germany. And it‘s so interesting to read all your experiences. I‘m glad you like to come back and found a second home here
@MiniLittleBabyDoll
@MiniLittleBabyDoll Жыл бұрын
@@Kiki-cm1pm F germany
@adamstuhlman2206
@adamstuhlman2206 Жыл бұрын
@@MiniLittleBabyDoll Why? Are you Jewish? If so, I could understand...Polish as well. Is your anger related to WWII or German Colonialism?
@isaakasimov2456
@isaakasimov2456 Жыл бұрын
@@adamstuhlman2206 Are you American (of German descent)? Your name sounds German, although this name does not exist in Germany (I'm Austrian, they also speak German there.). This name sounds like the guy from the Police Academy (Schtulman). I was always interested in American of German descent, who anglicized their name.
@adamstuhlman2206
@adamstuhlman2206 Жыл бұрын
@@isaakasimov2456 Yes, my great grandparents came to the US after WWI. You?
@findsch1123
@findsch1123 Жыл бұрын
this is so crazy to hear as a German, we just take all of it for granted.
@unlink1649
@unlink1649 Жыл бұрын
shit is bad out there. We have a good life here
@honesty_-no9he
@honesty_-no9he Жыл бұрын
You can leave one of the Ivy League universities in the USA with a masters degree and $150,000 in debt. But most of the people who go to those "schools" (US slang for university) are from the 1% but if you are not rich it is a lifetime of debt slavery before you even start your career. People go there because they think it will land them an elite high paying job that will pay off the debt quickly. Problem is that is often not the case. So it is safer to only pay $50,000 and go to a less prestigious college. In the US that is the cheap "school".
@sudheerkumar4421
@sudheerkumar4421 Жыл бұрын
did u also take russian gas for granted???
@THEREALKINGOFWEST
@THEREALKINGOFWEST Жыл бұрын
AMERICA is much better than any country in Europe. BUT it comes with a lot of individual responsibility. I am European. (Norwegian) and I’ve lived in the US for 1/4 of my life now. I’ve also been in Germany a lot. But nowhere there can be compared for example to Orange County California. It’s amazing!
@michaelbyrd7883
@michaelbyrd7883 Жыл бұрын
@@THEREALKINGOFWEST Have you ever lived in Texas from May-September and tried to go for a walk? What's so bad about Europe that makes America so wonderful?
@professorlilith5933
@professorlilith5933 2 жыл бұрын
Never apologize for wanting to have a lot of children. There's plenty of women, like me, who don't want to have children, and we will depend on your children to take charge of the world when we are older.
@pamdawson8598
@pamdawson8598 2 жыл бұрын
It's nobody's business if you want many or no children. Don't buy into people's negative comments. Bless you.
@jonathanduck5333
@jonathanduck5333 2 жыл бұрын
She mentioned, she wants to have 3 children. That is not a lot by any means. In my family 3-4 children is the average. Fun fact: My brother in law's father has 17 siblings😂.So yeah 3 children is very reasonable.
@wora1111
@wora1111 Жыл бұрын
@@jonathanduck5333 In most families I know the current generation has less children than their parents. So three kids is above average - and we need that.
@newmankidman5763
@newmankidman5763 Жыл бұрын
I have never wanted to have children either, and this feeling becomes stronger and stronger every day. I think maybe it is because my parents had ten children, of whom I am the youngest, and I have worked as a High-School English teacher, and, as such I saw how selfish and disrespectful most children are.
@blackrain1999
@blackrain1999 Жыл бұрын
@@jonathanduck5333 Smugly says a man who never in his life is going to be pregnant and birth a child on his own. Funny how you also never once mentioned any of the women bearing all these children in your family, no one knows their living conditions lol. People want to have lives and not being breeding-maids for no ones 17 kids (or forever bound and dependent to some community d**head)
@talitam.8414
@talitam.8414 2 жыл бұрын
I was born in a European country and I remember my American friend being SHOCKED when I told him I had zero debt to pay whatsoever when I finished college. I was shocked he started his professional life with a debt hanging over his head. My mind can't comprehend this.
@timolynch149
@timolynch149 2 жыл бұрын
A few years ago, my mother had tumours in both kidneys and they were not operable and malignant. I donated a kidney. My American colleagues asked me how I am financing this, if my family needs to mortgage the house etc. I was very confused, seeing how I paid nothing, really. I mean.. there were some minimal costs for the hospital bed and a 10 Euro fee for medication and in total (if I remember correctly) I paid around 250. My mother was a pensioner already and paid nothing. They then were even more shocked when I explained that I will continue to be paid during this time. Social safety nets - aren't they the best.
@alexandernoe1619
@alexandernoe1619 2 жыл бұрын
@@timolynch149 American politicians who get bribe money from the american health industry make sure that average Americans have no idea that the US health care system is among the worst of all developed countries.
@cjohnson3836
@cjohnson3836 2 жыл бұрын
It is to control us. People don't really learn history. The US was built on foreigners. In the early-mid 1900s US poached scientists from Solviet Union, for example. US policy is let other countries pay to give education, then steal them with the lure of better pay. So, of course, the gov't is going to take steps to prevent other countries from doing it to US. So, we get loaded with debt and then become incapable of emigrating. If you have student debt, the only places you could ever hope to earn enough to pay it off are the same countries that are most difficult to get into. Debt is a tool to keep the educated Americans from being able to leave
@timolynch149
@timolynch149 2 жыл бұрын
@Jean juju In my home state of Baden-Württemberg, Germany, the current cost per semester is a €70 administrative fee, which also gives you access to services and local transport. This is for a degree course. If you already have a completed degree, you may be charged 600 per semester and up to 1500 if you are not an EU citizen.
@timolynch149
@timolynch149 2 жыл бұрын
@@pjt.4841 Ah, yes, excellent point you made. Let me respond with an equally brilliant 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️
@marcocisneros4379
@marcocisneros4379 Жыл бұрын
It doesn't matter if you're American, Mexican, Or French you've gotta learn the language(German), But especially for Americans, I've met some Americans that actually believe that everyone is supposed to speak English to them wherever they go, Please make the effort to learn the language
@GLRYB2GD
@GLRYB2GD Жыл бұрын
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@kaleidoscopingwe
@kaleidoscopingwe 10 ай бұрын
I get your point but she did not seem that type of person in fact there is a video where she actively is speaking and practicing German. Like I get your point but this rant out of context sounds quite rude to her in my opinion.
@keihan5
@keihan5 9 ай бұрын
@@kaleidoscopingwe I don't think it was directed at her, imho. I do think it a good point though. My former father-in-law was a immigrant to the U.S. from Mexico city. He made it a point NOT to speak anything but English in his household when he came to the U.S. This was in an effort to force his children and wife to speak the common tongue of the country they wanted to call home.
@tldw8354
@tldw8354 8 ай бұрын
lol. to be fair: it's probably very hard to get over such a deep attitude, and second: even a lot of germans are to "lazy" to learn german language the right way - but to be fair again: german is kinda hard to master.
@DavidNelsonATX
@DavidNelsonATX 8 ай бұрын
I used to try to speak German with people and they typically would reply in and want to practice their English. While I was OK with that as it increased the level of our conversation it certainly didn’t help me learn German.
@logicalparadox815
@logicalparadox815 Жыл бұрын
As a German, I find it hilarious (in a sad kinda way) that every American that comes to live here ends up being like, "You know what, America is BS. I'm staying." Which says a lot about America, considering that I don't believe Germany is anywhere close to perfect.
@cameroncool7578
@cameroncool7578 Жыл бұрын
Germany isn't close to perfect at all..... no freedom.
@Zahra.y7
@Zahra.y7 Жыл бұрын
It just shows how USA is fked up lol
@lexburen5932
@lexburen5932 Жыл бұрын
you could be wrong about it. indeed germany has its problem, but they are nowhere near as bad as in the states.
@HR-yd5ib
@HR-yd5ib Жыл бұрын
Given the condition Germany is in this is indeed SAD. For anyone with an entrepreneurial spirit German is a hell hole for sure.
@mr.smackson7814
@mr.smackson7814 Жыл бұрын
@@HR-yd5ib I second that 100% The only country other then dubai where you can go to Jail for bankruptcy
@jessicalocke5042
@jessicalocke5042 2 жыл бұрын
I'm an American living in Switzerland for the last 3 years and many of the benefits of living in Switzerland are the same as yours, especially the safety thing as a woman, and children walking home alone. There's a feeling a freedom that come with that which is really special.
@josephbenadam
@josephbenadam 2 жыл бұрын
Health care in Switzerland is private. I don't see any difference from US other than it's safer and more expensive than US
@Yyr85
@Yyr85 2 жыл бұрын
You live in the home of the dwarfs...
@kaszaspeter77
@kaszaspeter77 2 жыл бұрын
@@josephbenadam Healthcare is just but one aspect of life. All the rest like safety, infrastructure, schooling, nature, social safety net etc. are all valid points and apply to most Western European countries. (I live in Switzerland.) Yes, Switzerland is more expensive than the US (not sure about the healthcare costs, though), but the overall standard of living is way better. Especially for blue collar people who are becoming something like indentured servants with the crazy rent prices, no rights in the workplace and the rest.
@cobbler88
@cobbler88 2 жыл бұрын
Of course. Yet another country that's not only at least 90% white, but also about 2/3 Christian. No one should feel bad about finding the situation that suits them best, but almost everything she listed in this video is something she could have gotten by moving to any decent sized city in the United States that has a demographic similar to that of Germany. The only outlier is the cost of the university, and you get what you pay for in Germany.
@gloin10
@gloin10 2 жыл бұрын
@@cobbler88 Since when has Germany been a country "...where at least 90% of the citizens are white European Christians"? Barely 55% of Germans claim to be Christian. About 40% claim to have no faith. There is a large Turkish/Kurdish minority, while Asians are about 9.1% overall. You really don't know what you are talking about, do you?
@TechniSean1
@TechniSean1 2 жыл бұрын
I spent a month in Germany this summer for work and I loved it. The travel part is so true, I was sitting in my hotel room one Saturday morning thinking of something to do, so I decided, "I guess I'll go to France today." Made this decision at 11:30am, and at 1:00pm I was at my destination in France. Spent the whole day there and was back in Germany in time for a late dinner, still trips me out. It's like traveling in the states, except each state speaks a different language Dying to go back.
@nikebull41
@nikebull41 Жыл бұрын
Every country stands out from the ppl to food! Have to agree
@unlink1649
@unlink1649 Жыл бұрын
When Europe is federalizing, and it eventually will, this will be even more true. Good times
@toddmaek5436
@toddmaek5436 Жыл бұрын
It's exactly like that.
@schlumbl84
@schlumbl84 Жыл бұрын
you should live where I live. I live about 30 minutes away from the french border. So a day trip to a different country is easy peasy from here. 😉
@1978JustinCredible
@1978JustinCredible Жыл бұрын
@@schlumbl84 Saarländer oder Pfälzer? 😅 ich bin gerade „hinter“ die Grenze gezogen…auch nicht das Schlechteste! ✌🏻😅
@data7315
@data7315 Жыл бұрын
As a German myself, i really appreciate my country even more after i see it trough your eyes.
@mercyapolot7757
@mercyapolot7757 Жыл бұрын
As a woman, I genuinely feel so safe in Germany. I have never not even once felt like something bad was going to happen to me, and I’ve been here for six months. The little kids walking home alone always gets me because they are so lucky growing up in such a safe environment.
@st4ndby
@st4ndby Жыл бұрын
Yeha but its changing slowly
@ChefAnatoly
@ChefAnatoly Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a safehaven for uncle toms.
@Volkbrecht
@Volkbrecht 8 ай бұрын
But I wonder: what does happen to kids in the U.S.? Is it really that dangerous for them or are people talking themselves into things that don't really exist? I mean, if I wanted to make money illegally, I wouldn't know where to start with a kid. They don't usually have stuff that is easy to sell, and the more disgusting crimes are frowned upon even among regular criminals. Or is it just road safety issues?
@KolyaBennett
@KolyaBennett 6 ай бұрын
​@@VolkbrechtIt's certainly real. It's because of corruption and the fact that America isn't a religious country (the news says it is).
@ManoharDeka
@ManoharDeka 5 ай бұрын
​@@st4ndbydont think Germans are polite they fucking started world war shit n wanted to seige whole europe by supporting Hitler
@darpinih
@darpinih 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not moving back to the U.S. because of the absence of universal health care there, period. I have other reasons but that's numero uno for me. I lived in France for seven years and now Germany for four and I can't describe how great it is to not have to even thing about, let alone worry about, how I'm going to pay for health care and perscriptions.
@robertczwartek4709
@robertczwartek4709 2 жыл бұрын
I'm planning to go back to Germany because I'm starting having health issues now.
@chevinbarghest8453
@chevinbarghest8453 2 жыл бұрын
14 years in the US. My healthcare bill was $330,000 last year. I am sick of religious mania too. UK Churchgoing is 5%. My wife is a USC and she won't survive outside the US. She tried in the UK but couldn't stand the (free) doctor not crawling to her. ok and finally..TRUMPUTINSKI FASCISTS ! Torch light parades with people wearing swastikas and shouting "Jews shall not replace us"
@chevinbarghest8453
@chevinbarghest8453 2 жыл бұрын
@@J01123 ...In France they have 4 times the number of doctors per head of population compared the UK. In 2017 I had my malignant prostate cancer spot radiated in Milwaukee using a huge German robot...ie 5 days @ 1 hour per day. Germany makes the kit that is used in the US. The UK is underfunded by the right wing government that is trying to make it ready for sale to American companies via trump's pals.. The US has good healthcare IF you can afford it. If you can't you will die in agony and nobody will care. When I visit the UK I too am struck by the smooth roads after Wisconsin, coz Wisconsin roads are like Somalia... When I emigrated to the US in 2007, I signed on with a new Doctor in WA. He shook my hand and sent me a bill for $185 for a 20 seconds meeting...
@robertczwartek4709
@robertczwartek4709 2 жыл бұрын
@@J01123 I don't know how true it is. But universal Healthcare is available in every single developed country in this world. Except of USA. I never met people before who don't have health insurance and when I read once that 100 million of American citizens never went to a dentist because they can't effort it I knew right away there is something wrong. And you hear all the time the number 1 country or the richest country in the world. Regarding the Healthcare and crime rates every so so country is doing better.
@robertczwartek4709
@robertczwartek4709 2 жыл бұрын
@@chevinbarghest8453 you know all this when you travel and compare. I'm blessed I'm European and went to more than 30 countries. And Im not rich. I met for the fist time in my life people who are proud they didn't have a single day off in 4 years. People who have 2 or 3 jobs and people who work full time and never had health insurance. Also people who wanted to touch me cause I have a weird accent and come from Europe and they never left their village. And cars fixed with duct tape. And all this happens in the "numer one country".So if anyone tells me the richest country in the world, I'm just laughing.
@carolinepung5966
@carolinepung5966 2 жыл бұрын
I understand exactly what you mean. I am also a New Yorker who moved to Germany 17 years ago, our daughter was raised here, and she now attends university in Germany. At this time, we really have no intention of moving back to the US. Of course, Germany has its issues and problems, but I find the lifestyle we have been able to create here is better than what he had in New York. I feel safer here, our daughter was able to get her own apartment as a college student, which is practically unheard of in the states. The health care system is navigable and as a cancer survivor, I probably wouldn't even be able to get insurance if we lived in the US. I love the fact that the city we live in is so green. In general, our family has really thrived here.
@pricsillasammons7073
@pricsillasammons7073 2 жыл бұрын
How many hours does she have to work? I want to go to university in Germany but it’s interesting to know. :)
@ewansteele8478
@ewansteele8478 Жыл бұрын
I want to move my wife and 2 kids to Germany from horrible Tennessee I’m from Ireland but haven’t been there since a child and my parents aren’t citizens of the USA but still live in Tennessee and refuse to move back to Europe. Any advice on moving to Germany? How do you combat the language and speaking English? Most Germans can speak perfect English right? Also what is the air quality like, we have a child with severe SEVERE asthma. And how is the weather? My wife has arthritis and the heat bothers her but so does extreme cold temps too. Thanks for your advise! This video and your comment really makes me want to live there now. Me and my family are NOT thriving here and I just want us to thrive.
@AquestoTermonde
@AquestoTermonde Жыл бұрын
@@ewansteele8478 man, there is Google and you can learn all the things from there, but Germany would be MUCH better than usa
@TC-qw3lr
@TC-qw3lr Жыл бұрын
@@ewansteele8478 I would say move back to Ireland either but while I think shares basically all the good traits mentioned here about Germany it’s become very costly to live there in recent years with housing and other costs.
@LoonyArtDesign
@LoonyArtDesign Жыл бұрын
@@ewansteele8478 Hey, yes, most of us speak (almost) perfectly English, except for the older people. Air pollution is good I would say, but for your daughter I would recommend that you mobe to the North Sea or Baltic Sea. I think the Baltic Sea is even better. Many patients with asthma or lung problems or rheumathism go there for a health cure because the air is particularly good. The temperatures there are also always somewhat cooler than in the Rest of Germany, but also windier. It doesn‘t get very cold there either. I hope I could help with this information.
@1234pixy1
@1234pixy1 Жыл бұрын
I moved to Germany from the US this year ... my husband is Swiss/German... BEST DECISION. Family oriented... healthcare..Healthcare... support... low crime...education.... nature.... so many vacation options.... not to mention the culture of the swiss/German man is top tier.... no "bihhs and ho3s"... just hard working... family oriented and loving. So happy to see someone who looks like me with similar mindset.❤️
@bunteseinhorn7523
@bunteseinhorn7523 4 ай бұрын
healthcare..Healthcare... healthcare..Healthcare... healthcare..Healthcare... will soon no longer exist. Because everyone comes to Germany and takes advantage of it. Nothing against you personally. But the fact is, the healthcare system is certainly better than in the US, but it's going downhill.
@DerEineDude
@DerEineDude Жыл бұрын
For me as as german, it makes me happy to see other people from around the world that enjoy living here :) Only the best wishes for you! Greetings from Baden-Württemberg
@joergdetzel7848
@joergdetzel7848 Жыл бұрын
@DerEineDude and all the others: Greetings from a Bavarian living in Malaysia.
@meathead919
@meathead919 2 жыл бұрын
My acquaintances from America often mention "Yes you poor guys in Germany, you have to pay so much in taxes. Such terrible socialism!". Yes, but we all get high quality medical care, world-class education (for everyone, even if you were born poor). If you have 3 kids (like we we do now), we get excellent daycare in modern, safe facilities for the kids, we pay €250 a month for 2 kids since our household income is in the highest bracket. We happily pay that and our spots are guaranteed by law, all we had to do was fill out a form. Also, no need for private schools, because public schools are safe and excellent. And, yes they're free. So yes, we pay taxes, but we get services that are really worth it. Not everything is perfect, but overall it works. The rich pay more than the poor, so the poor can get the same services. A simple social contract. I was born into a working class family, I benefitted from the system through free public schooling and public university. Now I am a member of the upper middle-class and I am happy to pay high taxes so other families can get the same chances in life that I enjoyed as a child.
@valeenoi2284
@valeenoi2284 2 жыл бұрын
Question, have you calculated how much you are paying in total (federal + state equivalent)? I'm not talking about sales taxes.
@andreaweber8059
@andreaweber8059 2 жыл бұрын
@@valeenoi2284 I know the question did not go to me, but as I am German, too, and probably also upper middle class: Around 35% for taxes and medical insurance combined, sales tax not counted. Less if I had a lower income. Or did you mean an actual sum instead of a percentage?
@glennjanot8128
@glennjanot8128 2 жыл бұрын
I had a similar conversation and I added "Yeah, us poor Germans, never having to worry about our kids getting gunned down in school".
@glennjanot8128
@glennjanot8128 2 жыл бұрын
@@valeenoi2284 The taxes you see on your paystub are the taxes you pay, they're combined. You don't file or pay state and federal taxes separately. Also, the sales tax is included in the sales price. So when you go grocery shopping and something costs €1.29, then you pay €1.29 at the checkout, there's no "plus sales tax". The only difference is when you buy drinks that come in bottles with "Pfand", which is a deposit you pay that you get back when you return the bottles. The deposit system has been implemented to prevent littering
@daysailertogo
@daysailertogo 2 жыл бұрын
@@321gates Yes and therefore your poverty and illness and education costs are only your business. Hard price for your so called freedom. In Germany you have the freedom not to worry about everything and its absolut not socialism.
@patknick4201
@patknick4201 2 жыл бұрын
As a German, it's so humbling to watch videos like this one. Unfortunately, Germans often tend to be dissatisfied with everything and rant about politics and everything around it. But when you hear from US citizens how nice and good we have it here, it quickly brings you down again and makes you grateful. I like the background music though. Wish you all the best! :)
@lincolnsixecho51
@lincolnsixecho51 2 жыл бұрын
I am one of those "unsatisfied germans" - and i can tell you why: Because since the last 20 or s years we slowly but surely tend to lose all these great benefits and thats such a pity, because social and educational advantages as well as the health insurrance nowadays become more and more only suitablecfor rich people! When i was a young kid we had a great bunch of health care benefits, that we've alread lost meanwhile. If this development goes on, we won' t be much better then f.e. the USA in nearer future. Before this will happen, i think its important for the german people, to stand up and stop this de-structurizing of our social advantages and not point towards the rest of our benefits and say self-indulgent: "How fantastic is germany in relation to other bations!"
@Initium1000
@Initium1000 2 жыл бұрын
I'm American. Do you think we have it bad? We don't... Our system is different but it's NOT inferior. Everyone around the world lines up to live in the US. We lead and help protect the world. We don't have it bad here, it's beautiful here. We're tremendously diverse and you don't have anything like that in the world. Every state is like a different country. It's a great place to visit and for many it's a great place to live.
@patknick4201
@patknick4201 2 жыл бұрын
@@Initium1000 Sorry, didn't want to offend Americans or something like that. It probably was just expressed in a wrong way by me. Sorry again for that. Just wanted to say, that it's kind of humbling to see people from great nations like the US here in Germany talking about how great we have it here and that unfortunately there are lots of people out there not appreciating it, which makes me sad.
@lincolnsixecho51
@lincolnsixecho51 2 жыл бұрын
@The Perfect Crime Oh, i think, there must be a great *misunderstanding!* - I am not a racist, in fact i am married to a former refugee and am a friend of every person that comes for help to Germany!! - 🖤💛❤💜 EQUAL RIGHTS TO ALL PEOPLE FROM ALL PLACES!! - But that doesn' t mean, that i' ve no cause to criticize the german health care system as it is today and that is unfair to ALL people!! Not so bad then in the U.S. , but its ongoing getting more and more unfair! In my eyes it is not okay to find the german health care beyond all critical discussion, only because by NOW its fairer then in other places. I could explain you a lot of examples, but that would take it much too far here... The german system has been great in the 60ties, 70ties but started to get worse since Helmut Kohl became chancelor in The 80ties. And this process is still, continuing ...
@laerramarie2620
@laerramarie2620 2 жыл бұрын
@@Initium1000 Sorry, over there you have a school shooting every other week, you have expensive, inefficient health insurance or massive medical debt, sometimes even with insurance, you have a "democracy" with literally 2 parties and a system where not every vote is counted the same and your companies are pumping whatever shit is allowed in your food, which is highly illegal in most other developed nations. You guys didn't even sign basic human and CHILDREN'S rights. Yet you claim you aren't inferior?
@capricornwoman6726
@capricornwoman6726 Жыл бұрын
I lived in Frankfurt for 12 years as a military brat. I still miss it and my high school has several reunions every year around the United States. We have websites, Facebook pages and friendships that have lasted over 30 years. That's the impact Germany has had on our lives. We learned German in school and a lot of us are still in contact with our teachers. The cleanliness, the beautiful countryside, the ability to travel, the friendliness of the Germans etc., are all pluses. Many of my classmates still live in Germany. I'm seriously thinking of moving back to Frankfurt. Luckily, I'm retired and have the ability to do so!
@paulthomas281
@paulthomas281 Жыл бұрын
@Capricornwoman67 Cheers! 3 months on, where are you in your decision to move back to Germany?
@MrTwixraider
@MrTwixraider Жыл бұрын
Do it!!
@MiniLittleBabyDoll
@MiniLittleBabyDoll Жыл бұрын
Bye
@jolenares8525
@jolenares8525 Жыл бұрын
I am Brazilian, but I live in Germany and I do agree with the things you said. I love Germany ❤
@neurolepticer1284
@neurolepticer1284 Жыл бұрын
And the Brazilian roads are even more dangerous than in America. In Brazil you're lucky if you can celebrate your 25th birthday without getting shot first.
@jolenares8525
@jolenares8525 Жыл бұрын
@@neurolepticer1284 You should study more about Brazil and not only believe in fake news that some videos spread on internet.
@neurolepticer1284
@neurolepticer1284 Жыл бұрын
@@jolenares8525 I watched a lot of videos about Brazil on Live Leak and all the videos were street killing videos, even women were executed in the street. Arms were cut off with machetes, or a 16-year-old boy shot a 13-year-old in the face for drugs until his face was broken. These videos are real. I know not all of Brazil is like that, but Brazil's roads can be tough..(Sorry for my English)
@jolenares8525
@jolenares8525 Жыл бұрын
@@neurolepticer1284 it is not like that everywhere. Therefore I say that before spreading fake news you have to know much better the place, and when I mean know is when u have been there. I have been in more than 26 countries in almost all continents and countries where a lot of people like u that do not know well say a lot of bulls… and it is not like that when I visited them. Therefore, visit the place and not just believe in videos that u see. :)
@roselynholloway7863
@roselynholloway7863 7 ай бұрын
@@jolenares8525do you miss Brazil
@Atombender
@Atombender 2 жыл бұрын
When people hear safety, they often think of crime. But safety also includes safe traffic. In Germany, many cities are pedestrian- and bicycle-friendly, you can actually go or ride to places that aren't just around the corner. A very car-friendly city can be a pedestrian nightmare, plus there's increased levels of noise and air pollution. We're not the Netherlands in this regard but still miles ahead of most North American areas.
@anonymusug727
@anonymusug727 2 жыл бұрын
Wouldnt Go for a bike ride in Freiburg im Breisgau xD
@MrLowbob
@MrLowbob 2 жыл бұрын
@@anonymusug727 there are some really bad places, especially in the big cities. but most other places are pretty decent. in germany the city i liked cycling the most was oldenburg, but then again, i havent been to many cities yet
@tickytock2853
@tickytock2853 2 жыл бұрын
autobahn?
@BrokenCurtain
@BrokenCurtain 2 жыл бұрын
@@MrLowbob Oldenburg also has a very large pedestrian zone. I haven't been there in a while, how is the place nowadays? I hope the pandemic didn't force too many shops to shutter.
@MrLowbob
@MrLowbob 2 жыл бұрын
@@BrokenCurtain i don't know either, my last time there is kind of like 8 years ago or sth
@marchellewhite-stein8195
@marchellewhite-stein8195 2 жыл бұрын
What I love about Germany: no gun crime. The safety I enjoy as well even though I live in a big city!
@FrancisJoa
@FrancisJoa 2 жыл бұрын
No gun crime???? On which planet do you live? Of course there is also gun crime in Germany. It is really easy for criminals to get guns in Germany. All you have to do is to go to Eastern Europe and buy them there.
@jennyh4025
@jennyh4025 2 жыл бұрын
@@FrancisJoa maybe not literally no gun crime/violence, but probably not even 1% of the gun crime/violence rate of the USA.
@madrooky1398
@madrooky1398 2 жыл бұрын
@@FrancisJoa Well a shootout in Germany... its like a once or twice in a decade event, dont even remember the last one from the top of my head. And things like homicide in general are very rare. There are basically no gangs, which are the cause for most gun violence in the US. The normal german citizen barely experience any kind of life threatening crime in their entire life. Even at places where it is more dangerous compared to the rest of the country it is very unlikely that you get killed. Sure you can buy all kinds of guns, even in Germany, but the effort is so much higher that the entry barrier is so high that if you can affort it you wont have a need for it. And then tell me when did it happen that some criminal was using weapons from eastern Europe to shoot at people? Did i miss that event?
@AlainNaigeon
@AlainNaigeon 2 жыл бұрын
@@FrancisJoa In Germany have you heard about several mass shootings every year ?? NO, of course !
@FrancisJoa
@FrancisJoa 2 жыл бұрын
@@AlainNaigeon Of course we had mass shootings in Germany. Seems you don´t know sh... about my country.
@ssquared2321
@ssquared2321 Жыл бұрын
My number one reason to live abroad would be National Heathcare!!! Only in America do we call working people ‘essential’ but deny them sick leave, health care, and a living wage.
@bethlehemeisenhour5807
@bethlehemeisenhour5807 Жыл бұрын
It never worked out for me in America. Never felt comfortable, left in 78, just shy of being 23 years old.
@westernpigeon
@westernpigeon Жыл бұрын
1. Safety 2. Not far to get back home (NYC) 3. Family Friendly (safe for kids) 4. school system is free 5. higher standard of living (nyc is too expensive/ germany is affordable) 6. nature 7. traveling (traveling in states is expensive, europe cheaper)
@MG007.
@MG007. Жыл бұрын
I'm sold. I'm moving to Germany permanently.
@ComotoseOnAnime
@ComotoseOnAnime Жыл бұрын
What's funny is that she could have found that here in the states if she didn't live in one of the worst cities in the country. It's hilarious how Americans demonize their country when they've only ever seen, maybe a handful of states, and usually only 2-3 in their immediate proximity depending on the size and location. Safety? Get out of inner cities and move either into a suburb or the area between the suburbs and the countryside. Or go to a large red aligned city in a red state. Crime is generally lower, as is homelessness, and poverty while safety is generally higher. Top ten cities for worst crime in the country and like 8 of them are deep blue in deep blue states, that have had deep blue governance for at least a generation if not several. And the cities that aren't deep blue are at least purple due to the recent influx of refugees from California and New York after they fled their states by the hundreds of thousands. Not far to get back home? Sure, fine. You can argue the walking distance thing and not having to be reliant on a car. Though I would argue that relying on public transport makes you more dependent than having access to your own personal vehicle. And there's been a push in recent years, especially by dollar stores like Dollar generals to service out of the way and rural areas. Like, I've seen three of them within a mile of each other servicing one small rural town. Again I point to rural and suburban areas for the greatest degrees of freedom while also having access to things. Family Friendly? Again, rural or suburban. The people who worry about crime need to look up where all that crime is actually happening. School system is free? Depending on where you are, the same can be said for US public schools. Or even when that's not the case tuition for most public schools is generally very cheep due to subsidy. Private schools are more expensive of course but they also provide better schooling in general. Higher standard of living. Again, get out of big cities. Big cities have some of the greatest divides between rich and poor and have the worst quality of life both from access and general health due to pollution and air/water/etc. quality. Nature? The US has some of greatest stretches of untouched wilderness on the planet, more National parks than pretty much anywhere else and the ability to live in those places if, again, you don't live in the concrete hellscape that is a major US city. Traveling? Depending on what kind of vehicle you're driving, it can be expensive yes. But I just made it an 1800 mile round trip a month or so back and it only cost like $300 in gas, and a couple hundred in food and lodging. Also bear in mind, the United states is MASSIVE. Crossing one of the shorter parts of the US would be like driving from Madrid Spain to Tallinn Estonia. If you want to travel in the US, you can, fairly cheap even, but it'll get expensive if you try to treat the US like the majority of Europe where most of the countries are the size of 1-3 states.
@roselynholloway7863
@roselynholloway7863 7 ай бұрын
@@MG007.did you
@bunteseinhorn7523
@bunteseinhorn7523 4 ай бұрын
I've flown to the USA several times because it's cheaper than vacationing in Austria and Germany. That's how different the views are.
@leonie.christina6767
@leonie.christina6767 2 жыл бұрын
I m German myself and I find it interesting how other s think about my country. Kind of makes me proud 🤓
@leonie.christina6767
@leonie.christina6767 2 жыл бұрын
@Si Duv?
@vapidrabbit198
@vapidrabbit198 2 жыл бұрын
@Si Duv you’re a very sad person.
@tonibest2011
@tonibest2011 2 жыл бұрын
you should be, Germany is a great country.
@willikircher3311
@willikircher3311 2 жыл бұрын
Si Duv I better stuck with her than with you
@eirikmagnuslarssen4242
@eirikmagnuslarssen4242 2 жыл бұрын
@Si Duv go play in the traffic, fascist. you won't be missed by anyone.
@brownskinsisi
@brownskinsisi 2 жыл бұрын
I moved here 6 years ago to join my husband and we now have 3 kids. I missed living in the U S but the reasons I am staying are actually those you mentioned, education and time of being at the top of my list. I have to say it can feel lonely sometimes when I miss my friends but I enjoy my family and what we are building here. ❤️
@talibjalloh928
@talibjalloh928 2 жыл бұрын
As an adult, you best friends are your family. We tend to make loads of friends in your teens and early adulthood, as you grow older and make a family, you begin to prioritise and gradually losing your friends.
@12567NoYouCannot
@12567NoYouCannot 2 жыл бұрын
I am HAPPY for YOU. I am Glad that life Put You in a Good Place to live with Your family.
@timolynch149
@timolynch149 2 жыл бұрын
And I hope my home country appreciates you because it should. Anybody for whom things like education and family are priorities are an absolute win for society, wherever that society may be. I grew up near a big army base near Heidelberg (which no longer exists) and I knew a good few US Americans who decided to stay for similar reasons. Education, social safety nets, more time with your family. They all did really well and very few eventually moved back to the States.
@12567NoYouCannot
@12567NoYouCannot 2 жыл бұрын
@@timolynch149 Reading your comment, I almost cried, you touched my heart. Ever since my parents brought me to America, when I was a little girl, I received nothing but hate, Rejection, discrimination at every turn, every where I go, they CONTROL everything about a person's life. They decide where you Can live, eat, what kind of car you are allowed to drive, they Control who to date and who I can share my life with, is a Constant Control, Hate, Discrimination, and Prejudice, and everybody does it, is just hate everywhere you turn, everybody here wants to destroy you One Way or Another, this is the most TOXIC nation.
@timolynch149
@timolynch149 2 жыл бұрын
@@12567NoYouCannot I'm sorry to hear that. I have been to the USA and while I don't want to live there have met a lot of good people and there is much to admire as well. It makes me sad when I read that somebody feels the way you obviously do. At the end of the day, nobody I ever met, including myself, is free from prejudice and pre-conceived notions. All we can ever do is try and overcome those. If your experience is this bad and you feel this little appreciation, maybe you should, if your situation allows, consider moving either elsewhere in the US (it is after all a VERY big country) or moving abroad. They only good alternative is to stay and fight to make wherever you live a better place. Giving in and letting others push you around is never a good idea, but of course all of that is easier said then done. I've been very fortunate and have had, through work and social connections, many opportunities to travel and see a lot of places around the world. Most people I have met just want to live their lives as safely and healthy as possible and mean no harm to others. Meeting and working with people from around the world has, or so I hope, made me a little less ignorant and it taught me that if I respect people they'll usually respect me, even when we're very different. I was honoured to attend weddings of two of my friends in Costa Rica and a former colleague's big family party in India when the grandmother turned 90, being the only foreigner there each time and not for one second did I feel out of place and I think that is what, in an ideal world, it should be for anyone. I hope that things will, in one or another, turn to the better for you. I'd offer you to contact me if you ever felt like it, but this is the internet in 2021, so obviously, I could be some sort of weirdo or worse.
@lorenzosalas6133
@lorenzosalas6133 Жыл бұрын
This is such a good descriptive, yet brief introduction to what life is like in Germany. When traveling to Germany with my exchange class back in 2018, I had really fallen head over heels. Some of your points, "safety", "nature", & "education" really resonated with me. My time in Germany was spent in Kassel. Kassel is so beautiful and I cannot wait to visit again (hopefully move there some day).
@janniapalmer5975
@janniapalmer5975 Жыл бұрын
So happy you brought up the danger here in America; when I lived in Egypt I honestly was more safe there than I am here, wreckless murder is so common now and close to home my sister was caught in cross fire downtown Cincinnati this past 4th of July, luckily she was unharmed!
@bethlehemeisenhour5807
@bethlehemeisenhour5807 Жыл бұрын
I was in Egypt, no problems, met nice people there.
@sebi6297
@sebi6297 Жыл бұрын
Well, you have to thank the out of control Capitalismn in America for that.
@bethlehemeisenhour5807
@bethlehemeisenhour5807 Жыл бұрын
@@sebi6297 Such A SAD Mess.
@LydiaTifuh
@LydiaTifuh 2 жыл бұрын
The travel part is so true. You could literally drive for about 4 hours from where I live and be in Holland or Belgium and then back.
@sandramendeszoon8880
@sandramendeszoon8880 2 жыл бұрын
So true. I live in the Netherlands. With in a half hour drive i'm in Germany. And in a hour and half i'm in Germany. And 4 hours in France. And close to 5 hours in England.
@uiigo8560
@uiigo8560 2 жыл бұрын
@@sandramendeszoon8880 ye, ye smuggling that Weed my bro xD
@alexanderniessen5036
@alexanderniessen5036 2 жыл бұрын
Or you live in Moenchengladbach - Best soccer Club in Germany and you are only 25 Minutes a way from the Netherlands and 40 Minutes from Belgium. Go (the True) Borussia. Cheers from SoCal.
@97AshleyRose
@97AshleyRose 2 жыл бұрын
@@sandramendeszoon8880 man that’s amazing I live in south Texas USA in Texas it takes 8+ hours just to leave the state lol
@melize7035
@melize7035 2 жыл бұрын
That’s why I knew North America was not for me (I’m not American but lived there when I was a teenager) drive 10 hours and you’re still in America 😩😩😩😭😭
@danihesslinger7968
@danihesslinger7968 2 жыл бұрын
Forgot one of the most important points: our universal healthcare system!
@arzuriakuroi5323
@arzuriakuroi5323 2 жыл бұрын
@@deenman23 we have a democracy. we dont have tyrants ruling our country, neither are we socialist. We are a social capitalism.
@DerAua
@DerAua 2 жыл бұрын
@@arzuriakuroi5323 Lol, pretty sure this was sarcasm.
@edgar3105
@edgar3105 2 жыл бұрын
At the cost of being taxed to death on top of having low wages
@oleharder8490
@oleharder8490 2 жыл бұрын
@@edgar3105 : Point # 5 Higher standard of living in Germany. Please pay attention.
@arzuriakuroi5323
@arzuriakuroi5323 2 жыл бұрын
@@DerAua i am not so sure about that xD u wouldnt believe how much some americans are brainwashed into thinking everything that isnt hardcore capitalism, is communism/socialism and totally bad in every aspect. Its crazy sometimes
@joriskemper5392
@joriskemper5392 2 жыл бұрын
Some special, less crucial and little quirky things I love about Germany: * Their coffee/bakeries are chill, no cheap mass production and quality cakes and pastry. You have a comfortable seat and no cheap tables. It's like you eat and drink in a quality patisserie. * When visiting someone at home those pastries and cakes are being offered, just like you get offered a cup of tea in England. My favorite Schwarzwalder Kirchtorte. * I'm not a huge fan of massive beerfests. They feel like tourist traps. Instead I enjoy their special crafted beers and quality pilses where the owner of the pub takes time to tap it the way it should be. * I don't know if it still exists, but I loved the automatic cigarette dispensers on the streets. I didn't have to worry about shop hours or night stores. * Their language, against Hollywood's view, isn't hard like Nazis screaming, but soft and very poetic. * They have very nice little dishes and snacks, often region based like how every region has it's own potato salad, or potato pancakes, different paté and local specialisations. * In the 90's when pc games or software was still mostly bought physically, Germany had some pretty good stores with affordable prices. * Their folklore music and groups that travel like bards still exist in a cultural effort to bring countries together through music and poetry. * They eat pistolets almost every day. Fresh quality that is, but also have very good bread. *Their youth hostels are cheap, pretty awesome and are more of a community. *When you piss of a German, they have some epic swear words to let you know. For some reason, often swines are involved.
@sinusnovi3826
@sinusnovi3826 Жыл бұрын
Uuups what is a "pistolet"? Never heard and Google translate has no useful german translation. Did you mean "Waffeln"?. If Waffeln, of course you are wrong with "eat almost every day".
@sideraone
@sideraone Жыл бұрын
@@sinusnovi3826 I'm pretty sure he means "Brötchen" buns.
@joriskemper5392
@joriskemper5392 8 ай бұрын
​​​​​@@sinusnovi3826 Brötchen indeed.. Buns in English it seems.. Excuse my French.. We use the French word even in Flanders, where Dutch is the norm. We have buns as well... But Germans do their buns like they do their stainless steel. And they have much more variety at breakfast in general.. not just for tourists but in private as well. And godly Kasseler Rib recipes, Egg noodles (Spätzele), Meatballs (Köningsberger Klopse).
@sinusnovi3826
@sinusnovi3826 8 ай бұрын
@@joriskemper5392 don't bother. I love all European nations, Flandern included
@evelynzlon9492
@evelynzlon9492 4 ай бұрын
Speaking of Nazi screaming Adolf Hitler is a vampire and he's still alive. He's now a singer/songwriter and he's mainly soft and poetic too. Sometimes he intentionally shouts his songs but it's never discordant or upsetting. He wishes to remain obscure but the German government has always treated him like a VIP, even when he was supposedly a fledgling garage band singer living in abandoned buildings. Hitler also claimed to be a bootstrapping homeless dumpster diver. All Germans know this is a lie because in your country there were no rags to riches stories. It was the rule of the noble class period. It's amazing that one whole country's general population can keep such a big secret from another's.
@steffiobergfell3584
@steffiobergfell3584 Жыл бұрын
We need good people in our country, so thank you that you‘re staying and enriching it with your positivity! :-) I‘m glad when I see videos like your s because some people I know are so unpleased with Germany and think about to move to another country. Maybe Portugal, Polen etc. I think every country has it‘s bug, but I think we’re still so fortunate 😊 to have what we have.
@jeanninestruck5203
@jeanninestruck5203 2 жыл бұрын
I am an american living in Berlin for 18 years. I raised my two kids here and they are both going to University here. I'm so glad I don't have to worry about tuition. And in general I'm so glad I raised them here for a number of reasons. I agree with your decision to stay. 🍻
@PittDaddy
@PittDaddy 2 жыл бұрын
Where did the money for their education come from? Money that you and others paid to the government for years in taxes. Your kids go to school for 4 years, but you pay for it in taxes for 70 years. It ends up a wash. But if your kids don't go to higher education, you STILL have to pay for those other kids to go.
@qczm99
@qczm99 2 жыл бұрын
Omg, my fellow germans will have the oportunity of great education. What a waste...
@jeanninestruck5203
@jeanninestruck5203 2 жыл бұрын
@@PittDaddy Yes I pay taxes. It doesn't just pay for college. I also get affordable healthcare, can take up to 3 years parental leave, get affordable childcare.
@PittDaddy
@PittDaddy 2 жыл бұрын
I didn't say it would be a waste. I said it is not free. You pay for it over your lifetime. And instead of paying for them, you could use it to build your own business with that money. I paid out of pocket for my BS and MBA degrees, my wife's BS degree, my daughter's BS degree, and my son's college. We did without many things to achieve that, but that was our priority. I don't want to have to pay for someone else's child as well. That is THEIR parent's responsibility, not mine. One other thing... my parents were immigrants after the war from Germany and came with nothing. Whatever we had was saved for by us. They didn't have the money to pay for me, so I saved for it.
@jeanninestruck5203
@jeanninestruck5203 2 жыл бұрын
@@PittDaddy Good for you!
@richieredw2142
@richieredw2142 2 жыл бұрын
I´m a Jamaican living in Sweden...I have been travelling to Germany for over 20 years, I have a few German friends and I speak German as well, been travelling all over Germany and experienced the wall coming down and the change over to Euro. Very beautiful country
@natalee150
@natalee150 2 жыл бұрын
Im a Jamaikan too living in Germany
@lennoxlewerenz1366
@lennoxlewerenz1366 2 жыл бұрын
I'm german and freaking love Jamaica. People are a blessing super interesting culture and overall stylish self-aware people
@natalee150
@natalee150 2 жыл бұрын
@@lennoxlewerenz1366 bless up u damm self. 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪 one love
@lennoxlewerenz1366
@lennoxlewerenz1366 2 жыл бұрын
@@natalee150 salute
@kreneice
@kreneice 2 жыл бұрын
Love this video! So we’ll spoken and too the point. ❤️ thanks for giving us insight on living abroad and I’m glad you’re enjoying it !
@kaybe3044
@kaybe3044 Жыл бұрын
I want to move to Germany too. It is literally such a good country to live in. This is coming from a person who lives in the Netherlands.
@tldw8354
@tldw8354 8 ай бұрын
whatt??? why? whats so wrong about the netherlands?
@hannahpeterangelo7551
@hannahpeterangelo7551 2 жыл бұрын
I'm moving to Germany in a couple months for a job and this puts my mind so at ease about making this decision. It's been really hard making the call to leave a wonderful community, but this really is what I want. Thank you
@klamin_original
@klamin_original 2 жыл бұрын
You're going to join another great community. Just keep away from the Querdenker. Just remember that and you'll be fine :)
@lestatlegistat6553
@lestatlegistat6553 2 жыл бұрын
@@klamin_original 👍😁
@lestatlegistat6553
@lestatlegistat6553 2 жыл бұрын
Working in Germany is really great. You dont really have to care about being fired, because of the protection by law.
@makaylamelendez2393
@makaylamelendez2393 2 жыл бұрын
Hey! What’s your job? I wouldn’t mind a move to Germany for work so I’m curious. By the way I’m in my last year of high school so I’m deciding what to do with my life:)
@hannahpeterangelo7551
@hannahpeterangelo7551 2 жыл бұрын
@Makayla Melendez hi Makayla! Good for you for thinking about these things and researching stuff. I work in architecture (can't technically call myself an architect until I get licensed but now have all the schooling I need)
@classicbird2627
@classicbird2627 2 жыл бұрын
Hi! For me as a native german this is actually a very interesting perspective, especially on issues such as crime or child and family friendlyness. Since from the inside perspective very often this is viewed totally different. Germans usually feel like they're living in a very cold and anti-children-society with crime rate constantly rising (in fact it has been decreasing for years ). So obviously, people tend to always depreciate what they have, no matter if that's something, other people would love to have but don't.
@zanderalex2463
@zanderalex2463 2 жыл бұрын
@@deenman23 Yes, that is correct. A country can be so beautiful - the feeling of not being able to move safely on the street destroys every beautiful feeling. I was in South America for the first time a few years ago, Brazil in Salvador da Bahia. I lived for a month near one of the beautiful beaches (near the lighthouse of Itapua) - in a beautiful villa with huge walls around it and an alarm system. I was warned not to move alone in the dark and not to have anything with me on the beach during the day, which shows that there is something valuable to get. I then already had a strange feeling during my beach walks. In fact, just before I went home, I was robbed on the beach - for the first time in my life! When I flew home 3 days later and stopped over in Frankfurt and then took the train to Hamburg, I had incredible feelings of freedom and happiness. It was clear that nothing was going to happen. That made me a bit euphoric and I really enjoyed the vacation time afterwards in Hamburg, my home. Everything! However: USA is not always crime. In many areas of California I felt just as good as in Europe and Germany. And then the sun and those wonderful beaches. No comparison with Brazil. I also loved Florida and the neighborhoods in Manhattan and Brooklyn. Maybe I didn't realize that where I lived, in Queens, there were also dangers. But it couldn't be as blatant as Salvador. Naples in Florida is just as save, Miami however not at all and in the north, Detroit, also not. It varies, but there are wonderful places in the U.S. when Donald Trump is not the president and destroying much of that feeling.
@xyzv8640
@xyzv8640 2 жыл бұрын
Speak for yourself buddy
@zanderalex2463
@zanderalex2463 2 жыл бұрын
@@rebeccarendle3706 Oha, that must have been a long time ago.
@haraldmax9685
@haraldmax9685 2 жыл бұрын
@@rebeccarendle3706 The proportion of women employed in Germany is 46%, as almost half of all employees or self-employed in Germany are women.
@eaten3405
@eaten3405 2 жыл бұрын
What's wrong with not wanting kids??? Do you have a problem with the child-free movement?
@natesanchez2402
@natesanchez2402 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this 🙏 I’m currently moving there and it’s relieving to hear what you said. I’ve been twice but the next time is for good 👍
@helene4371
@helene4371 2 жыл бұрын
I went to Germany not long ago and I absolutely approve in everything you said, this video inspired me more than I expected 😙
@petersmiling9494
@petersmiling9494 2 жыл бұрын
Firearm crime in Germany is about 20 times lower than in the United States. Except for sport shooters, hunters, and police officers, it is almost impossible to legally obtain a gun in Germany.
@MegaBrownie19
@MegaBrownie19 2 жыл бұрын
I came to add this. The gun violence is out of control and makes me terrified most of the time
@sabineliebau6261
@sabineliebau6261 2 жыл бұрын
@@mela6046And I like it that we don't have to buy weapons in Germany ... ;))) It is absolutely not necessary.
@sabineliebau6261
@sabineliebau6261 2 жыл бұрын
@@mela6046 Ahhh, now I understand ... :) And, is the saying correct ????
@sabineliebau6261
@sabineliebau6261 2 жыл бұрын
@@mela6046 At the word snake, I was out ...... Buy me 10 weapons ... :D:D:D:D and stay healthy :)
@uliwehner
@uliwehner 2 жыл бұрын
@@mela6046 i don't know if you know that there are bears in germany, and wolves, and jackals, even lynx. The european lynx is bigger than the north american lynx btw. I will give you that there are more bears in the US, i live in Georgia myself. however, germany does a better job of separating villages and towns from forested areas. America has the "urban sprawl" going on. My commute to work is 20 miles one way, and i never get "out of town" while i am going. and i work 3 towns away from home....
@nataliespitz4877
@nataliespitz4877 2 жыл бұрын
As someone from California, I felt very safe in Germany! And I felt more safe there than in any other country. Austria and Switzerland were a close second!
@tabithathewholistic
@tabithathewholistic 2 жыл бұрын
I'm also from California, and my significant other (a native) lives in Germany! I'm hoping to finally visit him around late May/June, and it would be my first time visiting! I'd love to hear more about your experience :)
@nataliespitz4877
@nataliespitz4877 2 жыл бұрын
@@tabithathewholistic I would love to! That’s so exciting! Where does your SO live? I may be able to give you more if I know. My godmother is also from Germany (and lives in Arizona) so I can ask her for her experience of Germany too!!
@nataliespitz4877
@nataliespitz4877 2 жыл бұрын
@@tabithathewholistic I remember Germany being very clean and the drivers drove like clockwork.
@tabithathewholistic
@tabithathewholistic 2 жыл бұрын
@@nataliespitz4877 Nice!! I can't wait to experience that 🙃
@vaskinderbasikhian8875
@vaskinderbasikhian8875 2 жыл бұрын
California it's boring and dirty and not safe
@brittca
@brittca Жыл бұрын
What an outstanding video. I’m American and my wife is Canadian and we’re looking to relocate to Germany once my health improves. This video is so very encouraging. Sending my best to you!
@TheBoondoggler
@TheBoondoggler Жыл бұрын
I used to be a touring musician here and abroad and the most obvious and refreshing thing I noticed while traveling through Europe was that music venues in Europe would always provide us, the band and crew, with hot meals, clean towels, plenty of refreshemnts, a place to sleep and shower, and sometimes laundry services right on site. Contrast that with American music venues where almost all of them at best, gave a beer voucher for like 2 beers. It seemed to me that in Europe, the venues actually gave a shit about art and music, and the performers- they really went to great lengths to accomodate us and make us feel like we were wanted and improtant that evening, even though we were a just a "punk rock" band.
@alkemystica
@alkemystica 8 ай бұрын
Maybe from Switzerland and up and I guess France. Not southern EU 🙂
@mimilynn5619
@mimilynn5619 2 жыл бұрын
It’s says a lot that black woman feels safer in Germany. Wow 😮
@newzealand703
@newzealand703 2 жыл бұрын
I know!
@crocutabruta9723
@crocutabruta9723 2 жыл бұрын
Yes of course I mean there aren't that many black people in Germany so I would feel safer too.
@AmpdUpTee
@AmpdUpTee 2 жыл бұрын
Yet here it is, I’ve been longing to leave.
@bjarnetollevsen2163
@bjarnetollevsen2163 2 жыл бұрын
@@crocutabruta9723 She's dating a blond-haired, blue-eyed German man, by the way.
@iam9546
@iam9546 2 жыл бұрын
@@crocutabruta9723 I see you don’t travel much by your comment
@pretti_dope
@pretti_dope 2 жыл бұрын
This video has basically convinced me to move to Europe.😊
@christopherhall6471
@christopherhall6471 2 жыл бұрын
In college I studied abroad in Germany for 3 years and everything she said is true. From the kids walking home unmonitored, to the overall safety. I remember feeling safe walking home @ 3 in the morning with my Macbook and bike with no worries at all. One night after a night of drinking, my friend Lauren ended up leaving her big ole purse/bag on the tram. In her purse was her wallet, laptop, passport, basically her life. Someone found her purse on the train and mailed everything in a box with all the contents still intact. A similar situation happened to me when I lost my wallet and my wallet was mailed to my house with the $350 I'd taken out the bank earlier in the week still in the folds. It's truly a beautiful, safe and welcoming country. I'd move back in a heartbeat if I could.
@user-ij5sw7fd6x
@user-ij5sw7fd6x 2 жыл бұрын
@@christopherhall6471 I don't know why you find it so unusual when kids go around alone and you can walk at night safely? Here in Kazakhstan we do walk at nights with no problem and kids walk to and from school unmonitored. I see it every day even though I leave in one of the most criminal cities of Kazakhstan, Oskemen. I even remember traveling intercity on my own when I was aged 12. Backpacking - no problema.
@christopherhall6471
@christopherhall6471 2 жыл бұрын
@@deenman23 Yeah, she didn't leave he belongings on the tram on purpose, she was drunk. I was just saying that if that were to happen in NYC for example or anywhere else in the US, her items never be seen again.
@timolynch149
@timolynch149 2 жыл бұрын
And if you do it for the same reasons (more or less free access to education, reasonable social safety, a safe environment to have a family, the ability to travel and widen your horizon) pretty much anywhere in Europe could count their lucky stars to have you. Come to Ireland, it rarely rains :-P
@timolynch149
@timolynch149 2 жыл бұрын
@@christopherhall6471 As a native German I can tell you that that's not unusual. It's far from a given, but usually you'll be fine. It's the same in Ireland where I live these days. I once lost my wallet on a bus. ID, cards, 400 Euro or so. It was handed into the bus driver and there wasn't a thing missing.
@TheMackone66
@TheMackone66 Жыл бұрын
Wow..I lived in Germany as a soldier, I can't wait to get back!! Less crime, air pollution and natural foods.
@lunaqqb
@lunaqqb Жыл бұрын
I'm from Germany and live in Texas. I really miss the nature. Because I'm from Bavaria and it is so beautiful there. 😍 I'm so glad you enjoy our country ❤️
@claudiaderrick5631
@claudiaderrick5631 Жыл бұрын
Oh yes Texas No Nature way too hot
@OmariusHLD
@OmariusHLD 3 ай бұрын
minnesota hat auch schöne wälder und natur im Norden, immer wenn ich in den USA heimweh hatte hat es mir sehr getan da.
@itzsha2u
@itzsha2u 2 жыл бұрын
“The streets in NY are ghetto” 😹😹😹 felt that
@robbristle5642
@robbristle5642 2 жыл бұрын
I’m from NY and I resemble that comment.
@talibjalloh928
@talibjalloh928 2 жыл бұрын
German cities are gradually looking ghetto too, with graffiti and drug peddling, the police are just strolling bye and turn a blind eye...Recently, i was around Frankfurt station and I was hit by a strong smell of piss and spent drug syringes scattered around...
@larrybell1859
@larrybell1859 2 жыл бұрын
@@talibjalloh928 True.
@28peruvian
@28peruvian 2 жыл бұрын
So are some of the streets in Frankfurt…specially downtown. I get catcall when I’m walking by my self…needless to say the train stations smell like urine and are graffitied. Berlin, Munich are better when it comes to that.
@talibjalloh928
@talibjalloh928 2 жыл бұрын
@@28peruvian Berlin is the mecca of graffitification in Germany ...
@BlissLovePeace
@BlissLovePeace 2 жыл бұрын
Very refreshing! Thank You for sharing your perspective & Willkommen in Deutschland!
@ZoieMarie
@ZoieMarie 2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@TaliaMellifera
@TaliaMellifera Жыл бұрын
Thank you Zoie-Marie! I am from Germany and your view helps me to estimate what we have here. I appreciate the way you speak very clear so that I can understand you and I specially like the way you estimate the nature here. There is this word 'Waldbaden' for calming the mind by doing walks in nature. Wishing you well!
@Symbolsysteme
@Symbolsysteme Жыл бұрын
As a German I have to say what I apprechiate a lot about Germany compared to most other countries I have visited is our health care system. And I totally agree with your point about quality. When I was living in London I was shocked about how bad the heating system ect was. In Germany we care a lot about good handcraft. I only realized this after I went to other countries. There are also bad things to say about Germany, of course. For example that it's not easy to get in contact with Germans, why most of my friends are foreigners.
@damiandavies4632
@damiandavies4632 2 жыл бұрын
Great video! I currently live in Germany with my family. I'm retiring in a few years from my government job and I told everyone, I'm not coming back. I'll figure it out, but my heart is in Europe. Simple living with a purpose.
@Cuteemogirl94
@Cuteemogirl94 2 жыл бұрын
Since you want to start a family, another great thing is that you get child support from the state, even with a job. Nobody will judge you for getting it since it's only for the children. It's really commonactually. Your children will get the child support untill they are 25 years old if they want to move out and make a professionell training. When you have a baby you can stay at home even 3 years if you want to, the money will just be splitt. There's something called "Elterngeld" that you will get once you filled out all the papers and have a Baby. By law you can't be be fired for taking your "Elternzeit". It can even be splitt with your partner. In a lot of places it's even free for little children since they don't eat as much as older children or grown ups or they can't use as manny things as grown ups. Zoo for example in our town you only have to pay for your child if it's a least 3 years old. Even without a job, Germany is very supportive for starting a family if the standarts are not to high at least, still better than in the US without a job.
@mackiemesser17
@mackiemesser17 2 жыл бұрын
It sounded like you get Elterngeld for the first 3 years. That's not the case. You get 67% of your former incomings for one year or 34% for two years maximum. So you either have to work after one year or rely on your husbands incoming.
@iigalaxyii9928
@iigalaxyii9928 2 жыл бұрын
Happy whites will a minority in all countries by 2050?
@inkenhafner7187
@inkenhafner7187 2 жыл бұрын
@@iigalaxyii9928 yes, hopefully by 2050 racists will be a very small and very unhappy minority on this planet.
@iigalaxyii9928
@iigalaxyii9928 2 жыл бұрын
@@inkenhafner7187 Racist for stating a fact And it’ll be whites who’re the minority and unhappy.
@inkenhafner7187
@inkenhafner7187 2 жыл бұрын
@@iigalaxyii9928 If the shoe fits you, wear it with pRiDe.
@geirkarlsen7329
@geirkarlsen7329 Жыл бұрын
I have lived in both the States and Canada. Been alot in Germany in the past. I love my country Norway. But there is something special with the memories from travalling around in Germany in the past. I would recommand the Island of Sylt.. Amazing trainride from Kiel with the ocean on both sides of the train. This island is on the west coast Germany and I recommand renting a private home hotelroom. Great video :)
@RabielleParfait
@RabielleParfait Жыл бұрын
I love that you're a fan of Germany. Of course it's not perfect and this country has many issues regarding people who look different, but after having travelled different countries, I enjoy it to come back, I grew up my whole life here and you're pretty much save depending where you live. It's not the same as the USA ❤
@vapidrabbit198
@vapidrabbit198 2 жыл бұрын
i love the german healthcare system and work conditions... 1 month paid vacation... sick days without stupid restrictions/limitations. and germany is really stable in comparison to the chaotic political cold-civil-war going on in the states right now. i also love the fact i don't have to drive here... i hate driving! i cant imagine ever moving back to the USA again... i feel freer in germany than i ever did in the USA!
@vapidrabbit198
@vapidrabbit198 2 жыл бұрын
@@deenman23 have you ever been to Germany? do we not have democracy in Germany?…
@sakibhasic8488
@sakibhasic8488 2 жыл бұрын
@@deenman23 hahahah someone who has never been to Europe pure jealousy USA is so far behind Europe but you are all brainwashed by the slogan “the greatest country in the world “try putting 4 kids through college in USA you willl be in debt for the rest of your life
@Zedek
@Zedek 2 жыл бұрын
@@vapidrabbit198 We have a kind of fake democracy here though. If you voted for a party, let's say "Die Linken" and they got 8%, they still can go into a coalition with other parties as it happend literally the past 15 years. If you have an 8% party in the government, that is not what I'd consider "democracy", because 92% of the demos ("the people", latin) did not vote for it. It is a super stretched form and has been abused by CDU and SPD the past Merkel years where the "union" (both CDU and SPD) basically played "Good Cop, Bad Cop" for a while.
@vapidrabbit198
@vapidrabbit198 2 жыл бұрын
@@Zedek it is messy, true… but practically all democracies today have a representative government. In the US, the power is held in 2 parties… in Germany the power is spread out among many parties. At least, if you belong to the 8% party, you still have some power through coalitions… it encourages compromise far more than the all or nothing “tug of war”, that is American politics.
@kam7r882
@kam7r882 2 жыл бұрын
@@Zedek oooh yeah so it's better than the US where both parties are corrupt , paid by companies who only think about their profits above all else even lives of human being... dude in europe , we live in a paradise, we need to know this
@nukustudio6882
@nukustudio6882 2 жыл бұрын
I can really understand you. I am Ghanain, went to Germany at 19, stayed for 42 years, schooled and became Psychologist. Two children by racial, both working on PhD. Germany is my heart, it thought me so many things of value. Situated in the middle of Europe, so many many things to explore. I love the German Bundestag, the diversity, and you can trust the German Government no matter which party is in power. The people are curious they want to know who you are. Viel Spass in Deutschland 🇬🇭❤️
@marvinlangohr7104
@marvinlangohr7104 2 жыл бұрын
ich liebe dich für das "i love the german bundestag"! grüße von deinem nigerianischen Bruder
@carollivingston584
@carollivingston584 2 жыл бұрын
Very informative and interesting! Thank you! A balanced life is priceless!
@elisatorres3856
@elisatorres3856 2 ай бұрын
Loved your video. This is very informative. Thank you.
@TheJaymew09
@TheJaymew09 2 жыл бұрын
100% agree on all your points! I would also say the health care. I had an abnormal case of appendicitis in Germany, 6 nights in the hospital and only paid 10€ per night. In the States this would have been well over my college tuition cost. Similar to health care, the cost of a baby birth is low compared to the US. Oh! And the year long parental leave for both parents! These are things we shouldn't have to pay an arm and a leg for. Here in Germany, I feel much less stress when it comes to unexpected life events because of the Rentenversicherung, Krankenversicherung, Arbeitsversicherung, and Pflegeversicherung. If I lost my job, then I don't have to have a meltdown because I'd still receive an income until I find another job. Germany really feels like it takes care of people so they can enjoy their lives.
@herbttryhard7353
@herbttryhard7353 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah thats kind of true but you must keep in mind that you pay a shit ton of money to the state around 60 to 70 % of your overall income mit (Arbeitgeberanteil)(it's get the better above 70k income per year because you no longer must pay Renterversicherung ect for ever euro above)
@stevonshufford5552
@stevonshufford5552 Жыл бұрын
Facts. I live in japan universal healthcare
@TheJaymew09
@TheJaymew09 Жыл бұрын
@@herbttryhard7353 I am very happy to do this since the cost of living is relatively low compared to the States. There's still enough money going into savings to keep me satisfied. Sure it's less money directly in my pocket but the money I would have, would immediately disappear and potentially go into the negative with one major accident, health problem, or long term loss of job. The tax payment and benefits I've experienced creates a peace of mind that is well worth it.
@maryakage5197
@maryakage5197 Жыл бұрын
We Germans do love our Versicherungen 🤣
@michaelbyrd7883
@michaelbyrd7883 Жыл бұрын
Yea, I worked for a hotel chain in Texas and had health insurance with a $2500 deductible. One night I got poisoned bad enough to have to go to a hospital. They saw I had insurance and kept me the night for 14 hours just putting iv's in me. The doctor sat 10 feet from me and asked how I was feeling 10 minutes later she was gone. When I got home the bill came in a few weeks later the cost they billed my insurance $17,500. I couldn't pay the deductible because of the low wage hotel jobs so I applied for financial assistance for the deductible. They said I made 150% below a working wage for that area and that I owe nothing. The only time I was happy being in poverty. That's America and that's how the rich get richer and poor get poorer. That's about 60% of Americant's that's me an Americant. Living in Germany where do I sign up?
@itsciarajames
@itsciarajames 2 жыл бұрын
We love a sponsorship! 🎉 I have lived in the states all of my life and I am extremely ready to leave. Every Black woman that I’ve watched has felt more peace being abroad than here and that is saying something. Being from the South and the way that America has handled the pandemic, I look forward to living abroad in the future!
@JohnnyPunish
@JohnnyPunish 2 жыл бұрын
No fear! Go! Do It! I left USA in 1998. Best decision I've ever made in my whole life. It's been amazing. A blessing.
@vapidrabbit198
@vapidrabbit198 2 жыл бұрын
@@JohnnyPunish I left in 2001,… It was the best decision of my life too.
@jayomnisen1210
@jayomnisen1210 2 жыл бұрын
Interestingly, most African-Americans choose to move to white-majority countries when relocating abroad....
@JohnnyPunish
@JohnnyPunish 2 жыл бұрын
@@jayomnisen1210 People go where they have the best opportunity to live the highest standard of living. Period. This is a human trait, not a skin color trait. The best opportunity depends on the person. For this lady, it's Germany. For me, it's a "non-white" country. Thus, in my view, your comment lacks serious analytic depth and frankly insinuates white supremacy, which, in our 21st century, is actually incorrect. In fact, since the 1600s, Africa has been raped of its resources both human and material for centuries by European imperialist countries and their profiteering locally installed rulers. The rape made those places weak and terrible places to gain opportunity. Africa is getting better but it is still NOT a place of opportunity yet. Now, here as I sit on a long vacation in Europe (Austria), racism is NOT a major thing like in the USA. It's just not. This explains why this lady feels comfortable and happy living in Germany. Europe now is melting into diversity like never before. Globalization is changing the world and it's working its magic here in Europe, with some bumps, but it's working great. In the USA, the resistance to the inevitable is stronger but, in the end, it will fall under the weight of the future. And, in the end, the USA will have to accept that it's part of the world and will finally drop its racist past and accept all of its citizens as equal not just under law but into the true harmonious social fabric that would be a true civil society. I hope this helps you better understand migration, opportunity, and why some should leave the USA for greener pastures.
@JohnnyPunish
@JohnnyPunish 2 жыл бұрын
@@quanbrooklynkid7776 OK, but I left USA in 1998. But OK, bye again.
@johncrawley4527
@johncrawley4527 Жыл бұрын
I was in Germany for 3 years. With all the traveling I’ve done in that time, I loved it! I miss Europe with my entire heart!
@_HB_
@_HB_ Жыл бұрын
Heart-warming🥰 Uuuuuh thank you Zoie-Marie! My son will soon be coming there for varsity
@jerrihandy256
@jerrihandy256 2 жыл бұрын
Safety in Germany is different. I was shocked to see 4 and 5 year olds walking to bakeries by themselves. I say this all the time, but I'd definitely move back if the opportunity arose.
@Zwizazadera
@Zwizazadera 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, that's right. Children can go to the bakery alone or to other shops. THE !! You are safe !!! You don't have to be afraid of gun violence or robbery! AND children are brought up self-confident and independent adults. We are proud of that in Germany! Greetings from a safe Germany.
@ibelieveinjesuschrist8911
@ibelieveinjesuschrist8911 Жыл бұрын
just go back
@metacob
@metacob Жыл бұрын
Going to the bakery on a Sunday morning is something of a tradition, and it's an easy and pretty safe way to introduce your child to grown-up chores. Usually there's a bakery nearby, so it's probably 5-10 minutes on foot. I remember doing that as a child and I was very proud of myself!
@user-um7tw6kx4r6
@user-um7tw6kx4r6 Жыл бұрын
Seriously just go back while you still can and stay there lol. I should follow my own advice too.
@sudheerkumar4421
@sudheerkumar4421 Жыл бұрын
black-on-black crime is non-existent in german...so u r safe dont worry
@maudeboggins9834
@maudeboggins9834 2 жыл бұрын
When I first arrived here I was stunned by the sea of bicycles going to school. Schools have an array of bicycle stands. I love that. A healthy start to the day & end of the day. I am thrilled with the education here. Truly. My husband & I are impressed with our kids education.
@tommurphy5503
@tommurphy5503 Жыл бұрын
As a fellow Long Islander, it's honestly so interesting for me to get your perspective on the ways of life in both places. I come from a large family of mostly Germans, many of which still live there in different parts of Germany. Unfortunately I haven't had the experience of going there yet myself, and none of my family has had the opportunity to experience living both on LI and in Germany to be able to notice or understand these differences. And I can certainly relate to all those feelings you get while being in NY lol... my poor car🥲, at least it's a German car so it's tough and well made😂. Thank you so much for sharing your experience and perspective, and you have certainly gained a new subscriber in me!
@learngermanwithvanessa7819
@learngermanwithvanessa7819 Жыл бұрын
Wow, that was very interesting. Thank you for sharing your reasons with us. As a German sometimes I see these reasons as normal and not thinking that I can be thankful for it.
@carlac9782
@carlac9782 2 жыл бұрын
I am originally from the US and have lived in Germany for over 30 years now. I have seen this country change so that living and existing here has become much better than in the years before. Even in the rough times I knew I would stay in Europe for the long haul. Next year I am off to the Netherlands. Seems like I have found my contentment on this continent. I wish you much luck and happiness on your journey.
@fayerocks
@fayerocks 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for seeing my home in a different perspective. We need to do that more often ... I wish you every luck and success with you plans!
@annives
@annives Жыл бұрын
Love hearing another perspectives. I've heard the same from other people and stats. It's prompted me to consider whether we'd leave the US, but we're not sure yet, because nowhere is perfect, every country has problems, just different problems. More exploration and research is needed. I love your outfit, hair and makeup too - great style!
@Ste_VO
@Ste_VO Жыл бұрын
Great video, soft voice, easy to listen to, glad to hear another New Yorker that loves Germany!
@Bboyjonq89
@Bboyjonq89 2 жыл бұрын
90 percent of people here in Germany that I first meet always asks me why do I want to live here instead of where I'm from (California)? I need to send them this video, you are hitting key points in the differences. I knew I wanted to stay forever when I got homesick from Germany while I was visiting the US in 2018🤣🤣
@MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead
@MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead 2 жыл бұрын
I visited Switzerland, Germany, Austria, Lichtenstein, France, and Italy 2 years ago and I am absolutely in 100% agreement with you. If I had the option not to return to the US, I would have taken it. I've been heavily speaking to my partner about moving somewhere there. I was absolutely at home being there and so was he.
@MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead
@MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead 2 жыл бұрын
@@alberthorn180 I don't remember mention of color being a part of anyone's comment. What does that have to do with it?
@julianmarsh1378
@julianmarsh1378 2 жыл бұрын
@@alberthorn180 And they'd be even more fantastic, if racists like you weren't hanging around
@MsChunkums
@MsChunkums 2 жыл бұрын
@@MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead did you decide to move? im in the south I want to leave too!
@MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead
@MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead 2 жыл бұрын
@@MsChunkums I would love to, but my partner cannot, too many business obligations. He owns 2 businesses. The Russian/Ukraine conflict has really effected him.
@MsChunkums
@MsChunkums 2 жыл бұрын
@@MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead Awww ok I see! Hopefully one day you will
@AquilaCat
@AquilaCat Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I had the chance to visit Germany after high school back in 2007 and LOVED it. It was so beautiful and clean. I grew up around the rocky mountains and driving through the alps just left me totally in awe. The alps put the rockies to shame. I'm going back to school in my 30's, starting this spring, to get a bachelors and then plan on getting a masters abroad in either Germany, Belgium, or Ireland. The free masters programs in Germany and the availability of cat-friendly apartments is a big pull for me to go to Germany for sure. But even in Belgium the tuitions are FAR cheaper than they are here. And hooboy do I crave better healthcare. My end goal is to work and live in Ireland for the rest of my life, but I also wouldn't mind at all ending up in Belgium or Germany. The only thing I'll miss about the USA is my family and friends, but that isn't enough to convince me to remain stuck here in this country.
@vijiashok
@vijiashok Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the clarity
@gingerguzman2022
@gingerguzman2022 2 жыл бұрын
I can understand, after being in Wroclaw, Poland for two weeks (business trip), I didn’t want to come back home lol, the culture, the food the friendliness the care they have for the environment! My goodness yes the states lack so much. What took me by surprise was the food I was able to eat without feeling so bloated, I was able to eat a lot healthier without feeling bloated or sick like I do in the states. I had such a great experience for my first time ever traveling overseas. Hope to continue traveling new places for work.
@iigalaxyii9928
@iigalaxyii9928 2 жыл бұрын
Happy whites will a minority in all countries by 2050?
@Aesandar
@Aesandar 2 жыл бұрын
@@iigalaxyii9928 this person talk about food and you are spamming about your propaganda here? Shame on you.
@iigalaxyii9928
@iigalaxyii9928 2 жыл бұрын
@@Aesandar Propaganda? More like a true fact, look it up....
@fj8264
@fj8264 2 жыл бұрын
@@iigalaxyii9928 Consider enlightening us plebs on your secret sources of QAnon-Elite-wisdom?
@iigalaxyii9928
@iigalaxyii9928 2 жыл бұрын
@@fj8264 Yeah it’s called “Demographic changes” By 2050 whites will be a minority because of immigration, low birth rates and multiculturalism. Who’s the Ignorant one?
@NickMillerismyspiritanimal
@NickMillerismyspiritanimal 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Zoie. Thank you for the video. I am visiting my family in the States right now and I already miss Germany. I agree with all the points you mentioned and those are the reasons I personally want to stay and build my life in Germany. Thanks again for the great video. REally enjoyed it and you looked so beautiful as always. Sending you lots of love and positivity.
@ndie8075
@ndie8075 2 жыл бұрын
Good to have you here we need nice people like you💘
@KAMILLE731
@KAMILLE731 2 жыл бұрын
You and everyone else that I watch (other Americans expats in Germany) say the same thing, and it makes me excited to relocate to Germany. It’s so nice to see you thriving in Germany…very inspiring! 🙂
@DixonDixon65
@DixonDixon65 2 жыл бұрын
She's right. Lived in Germany for 4 years, in Wiesbaden felt extremely safe. Back in Los Angeles now, l do love the beaches and weather but it's gotten expensive. Would never live in New York again. While living in Germany, l visited 7 countries, but lve always loved traveling before moving to Germany. Nice to see this video!
@MediaFaust
@MediaFaust 2 жыл бұрын
You are immigrants, not "expats".
@marvinlangohr7104
@marvinlangohr7104 2 жыл бұрын
they're immigrants, not expats.
@anaisdottavio
@anaisdottavio 2 жыл бұрын
I've been learning German for a few months now, hoping to be able to move to Bavaria one day - your videos inspire me to keep pushing for that goal. Thank you!
@MiLaKreativ
@MiLaKreativ 2 жыл бұрын
Even without knowing German, you can go to Bavaria (my home country) without hesitation. Most young people and also many old people have learned English in school. Even if they may not speak perfect English, they will understand you.
@ninadiamant8937
@ninadiamant8937 2 жыл бұрын
Hey I'm an online German teacher from Munich. If you're interested send a message through my channel.
@chrissieml9255
@chrissieml9255 2 жыл бұрын
@@ManOfPotato Weißt nicht inwiefern man sich als Nicht- Deutscher im Osten deutlich wohler fühlen sollte als in restlichen Teilen Deutschlands 😅
@chrissieml9255
@chrissieml9255 2 жыл бұрын
In your position I wouldn‘t move to bavaria because I think the „Dialekt“ (maybe accent in english? Idk) is very hard to understand and soooo common there 😂
@annagermanica
@annagermanica 2 жыл бұрын
There's German and then there's the Bavarian dialect (bayrisch).....fun times ahead!
@AyannaWoods
@AyannaWoods Жыл бұрын
It's beautiful to hear follow your heart. Also one of my former employees from the Bank I work was German and very friendly, he and his wife had since moved back to Germany since their job contact had ended. She was working at a different Bank from him and now has a daughter. He keeps telling me that I should come and visit Germany it is on my Bucket list.
@agyos
@agyos Жыл бұрын
I really enjoy your opinions....the music in the background, though, is another thing. Thank you for your great vlog.
@crystaltharrell
@crystaltharrell 2 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is German and when I went to visit him and his family it was a total culture shock. Even seeing how close his family is, made me understand more about how different the US is. I told him I wanted to raise our family in Europe and he was so family. I really don’t see myself living in the states after I’m done with school
@lestatlegistat6553
@lestatlegistat6553 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome to Germany soon.
@babyyoda1898
@babyyoda1898 Жыл бұрын
Welcome, have a nice time
@MiniLittleBabyDoll
@MiniLittleBabyDoll Жыл бұрын
@@lestatlegistat6553 no
@geneinnewade1278
@geneinnewade1278 2 жыл бұрын
I feel you on the safety tip. I went to Trier with one of my girlfriends this past weekend. She went and got her eyebrows done I roamed the streets, got a pedicure had a pretzel and cappuccino without one concern about safety. I am from Virginia and I don’t pump gas at night unless I’m on base. Constantly on guard. I love seeing the little kinder around too so cute and all of the well behaved dogs.
@Offthebeatenpath.
@Offthebeatenpath. 2 жыл бұрын
From Hampton Roads. Some areas are worse then others! That’s for sure!
@ellenanthony8232
@ellenanthony8232 2 жыл бұрын
Trier is one of the most beautiful cities in Germany. Its safe too. I love it there 🥰
@geneinnewade1278
@geneinnewade1278 2 жыл бұрын
@@ellenanthony8232 Hitting up Rudesheim and Heidelberg this weekend. The weather looks perfect.
@wora1111
@wora1111 2 жыл бұрын
As a German I wonder how I should comment on somebody lauding the "well behaved dogs" in Germany. Never thought about it.
@fjellyo3261
@fjellyo3261 2 жыл бұрын
Are you staying at Spangdahlem air base or why did you go to Trier?
@MatchaMelonPan
@MatchaMelonPan Жыл бұрын
Pleasure to welcome here, have a good time and hope u feel home asap! 🙂
@SpaceTacos60316
@SpaceTacos60316 9 ай бұрын
Hey! I lived in Frankfurt for 4yrs and had planned on staying for good... but life derailed me. Working on finding my way back as soon as I can arrange it. Thank you so much for sharing. LOVED my time over there... not really enjoying NYC myself (not a native).
@jasminm.2607
@jasminm.2607 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your thoughts. I am German and used to live in New York (however as a teenager dependent on my parents). I never appreciated many things here in Germany, now I do. But I did love living in NY, miss it too.Lots of love from Aachen
@dgrimes133
@dgrimes133 2 жыл бұрын
It's been a few decades since I lived in Germany. I remember seeing eldery ladies out on their own after dark on the street in the city where I lived. Very nice to hear that people still feel safe, even in cities.
@studioandromedawn4838
@studioandromedawn4838 Жыл бұрын
I love travel and have traveled widely throughout The Americas, Asia and the UK. Hmmmmm your lovely descriptions of life in Germany 🇩🇪 (without gilding the lily as you tell it as you have experienced it-positive aspects as well as the negative ones) have made me feel like going there. Kudos!
@AliasSchmalias
@AliasSchmalias 6 ай бұрын
Beautiful video, I especially felt the part about nature. It is so crucial to have it. 🙏
@JayStephan
@JayStephan 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with every point. I thought I was the only one that loved the "family" thing about Germany. It definitely is very heartwarming. We live 1/2 time in California and the difference between living expense is insane. Germany is a lot more affordable and the quality of life overall is better (in my opinion). Although we live in both places right now, we will eventually retire in Germany.
@cjohnson3836
@cjohnson3836 2 жыл бұрын
@@alberthorn180 wanna tone it down on the nazism there bud?
@arnodobler1096
@arnodobler1096 2 жыл бұрын
@@alberthorn180 wegen Leuten wie ihnen wurde in DE das Wort "Fremdschämen" erfunden faschistische, xenophobe Kommerntare - zum Kotzen
@cobbler88
@cobbler88 2 жыл бұрын
Everyone needs to find the situation that is best for them. I would only point out that with the possible exception of the cost of a university education, pretty much every single thing she listed in the video could have been just as easily solved if she moved to any decent sized city in the United States that had the same demographics as Germany. I'll leave it there.
@cobbler88
@cobbler88 2 жыл бұрын
@@Hanna-ls2sv Yes, but in most if not all of those situations she would be forced to live in societies that were predominantly created by non-whites. And she would have to live in those circumstances. I get the feeling she doesn't care for that. She wants to live in the Western culture that what Europeans and their descendants created without there being significant cultural diversity or non-white people around. As an american, she has seen what happens under those circumstances.
@Wlf5953
@Wlf5953 2 жыл бұрын
Zoie-Marie, you do you and don’t worry about what others think. Piece of mind is paramount in one’s well being. Stay healthy,Cheers.
@Torric25
@Torric25 Жыл бұрын
Understood. Being an American abroad is very different. I am very proud of you as a fellow American expat from NY. You represent us well!!! I lived in Frankfurt and loved it.
@NoellaOware
@NoellaOware 20 күн бұрын
Girl, I love your content so much. Been binge watching all your videos and they’ve really been motivating me. Much love from Kenya 🇰🇪
@ZoieMarie
@ZoieMarie 16 күн бұрын
I'm so glad! 🤎🤎🤎
@dng2000
@dng2000 2 жыл бұрын
When I visited Germany for 15 days back in 2004, stayed with friends and traveled around the country on the Autobahn (friend driving) and the rail system (ICE), I was deeply in love over how convenient and efficient things are. Being from a Chinese background by ethnicity (born in the US to parents who are immigrants btw), I don't find Germans rude at all because people in my parent's home country act in a similar way too such as not smiling towards strangers and not saying excuse me when trying to pass through other people and merchants not saying thank you or have a nice day after buying something from them. It's just cultural.
@blackrain1999
@blackrain1999 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, this American 'friendliness' often feels over the top and dishonest, performed or even overemotional for us. They might think we are unfriendly. it is really just cultural and not how one is as a person deep down.
@izzyrov5814
@izzyrov5814 Жыл бұрын
Germans do say "entschuldigung" or excuse me when they pass through. Merchants also say thank you have a nice day when you buy something. They're not cold People.
@MoonCatArts
@MoonCatArts 2 жыл бұрын
I love hearing stuff like that :) I’m glad you found a new home here in Germany and I love hearing your reasons to stay! As a German I kinda take those things for granted because it’s just normal for me but this really pushes me to appreciate what I have even more 🥰
@buffyshellmouthcollection
@buffyshellmouthcollection Жыл бұрын
I am so happy that i found your channel. I have Been wanting to travel and go abroad to see if it’s a better fit for me. With all the crime happening in New York City I am looking to leave the states for good. Thank you for letting us know how life has been for you in Germany.
@ZoieMarie
@ZoieMarie Жыл бұрын
I am glad you are enjoying my channel :)
@buffyshellmouthcollection
@buffyshellmouthcollection Жыл бұрын
@@ZoieMarie ☺️☺️
@FlamingCockatiel
@FlamingCockatiel Жыл бұрын
Why not leave just NYC?
@dianahorschmann1721
@dianahorschmann1721 Жыл бұрын
I am so happy to see your video about Germany. Because for the most people in the US, Germany is terrible. Compared to America. I had to defend my country so many times. It was upsetting. And there are so many good things about this country. Secure jobs, secure Appartements, healthcare and so much more. Thanks for sharing your positive outlook 😊
@AP86777
@AP86777 Жыл бұрын
We all have to be thankful. 👍🏻
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