Let's break the cycle... Nna I am the scapegoat. I go where I'm celebrated not where I am tolerated.... Parents divorced decades ago and I know who hates me and who doesn't. Got tired of fake love. SELF LOVE😍
@madams___speaker10 ай бұрын
Cheers 🥂 to breaking cycles ❤
@tarirotaruvinga816610 ай бұрын
Eish, l can write a book on this topic 😂😂😂. Zoleka was right. My list is longer. My mother's sister called me a bitch like she has a clean history let alone her children. Now her kids don't talk to her. My uncles wife thinks everything we accomplish in life, her husband paid for it. I could go in vacation to Europe, she will give her husband hell thinking he sponsored it. I could go on a work trip and she will tell her kids it's my uncle who paid for it. Now her kids think I am chowing my uncles money and they are BIG MAD. It's ridiculous 😂. I remember in 2020, I got an opportunity to go to New York, was my family not up in arms like "Why is she going there". You can imagine when covid cut my trip short. They celebrated 😂😂😂. Now I just move in silence but i want to shout out to God. He prepared a table for me in the presence of my enemies. The last person was on point with the recruitment, when people recruit other people to be against you, you shouldn't worry because they turn on each other. They tried to break me only to break themselves 😂😂😂.
@moe_ramz10 ай бұрын
Yep, moving in silence is the best. My family, including my parents know nothing about what I’m doing. Sometimes I lie to confuse the enemy 😂😂
@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok10 ай бұрын
@@moe_ramzamen
@ThabisoRatlou10 ай бұрын
@@moe_ramz 💯
@Just_Mishi10 ай бұрын
I wish I joined in, I'm the type that don't care about extended family anymore. I'm at a better place after making my decision.
@madams___speaker10 ай бұрын
♥️♥️
@MrsL.10 ай бұрын
Madam, very sad stories, may the Lord come in for every person /family facing such challenges. Thanks for such topics, we really need them, very powerful, inspirational and motivational. God bless
@madams___speaker10 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏿. It's my pleasure ♥️♥️♥️
@moe_ramz10 ай бұрын
Sometimes their there to check. To make sure you’re really gone 😅
@madams___speaker10 ай бұрын
True 😅
@zeemali436910 ай бұрын
Great topic indeed, how i wish the show was in english, cudnt really follow as i cudnt understand the language😭Having said that, u doing the Lord’s work Madam speaker, i appreciate your work🙏
@madams___speaker10 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry about that. I wish people could use English but I always advise them to use a language they are comfortable with in order to express themselves fully. ♥️♥️
@margaretnkosi87343 ай бұрын
I am okay with my children they nearly killed me..for what I don't know Now they want peace For what I don't know I don't trust them I was free to them. They show me their other negative side of them They did hurt me alot
@juliesiyanda304410 ай бұрын
And sister, in this channel, I think u will get the answers, as long u share about everything, bcos people comes in this channel with good advise, and what u can do to get closure, so be strong our sister, God loves u more😍
@madams___speaker10 ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯. Thank you so much
@kelebogilemabye38256 ай бұрын
The caller about having issues with her mother ..described my situation.the hurt from her voice 😢 I know the pain.currently being taken to court by her
@Blessed_for_life_20236 ай бұрын
I know the pain very well. Yoh! And I would watch her being affectionate with my older brother and younger sister. I don't know her hug up until she died. I stopped talking to her 2 years before she died in 2016 and she desperately tried to reach out to me and I was afraid and refused to take her calls. I made peace when I saw her in the coffin.
@juliesiyanda304410 ай бұрын
Eish, 😭 it's painful bcos the mothers, are the ones we go to them to take out the pain we r hiding, eish sorry Sister.
@madams___speaker10 ай бұрын
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@Yimishe7 ай бұрын
Mother’s hatred mostly comes from trapped trauma, almost like generational curse that is revisited on eldest daughters or sons. You find that the mother herself never recovered from her trauma and they project on the child
@lindaswit6 ай бұрын
I can relate to what you've experienced, believe you me it's not a pleasant experience
@PortiaLethoba-lx4gh2 ай бұрын
I am done🖐👳♂️🙆♂️🙆♂️🙆♀️🙆♀️
@margaretnkosi87343 ай бұрын
Hi I am afraid for the family I nearly die through the family. They were isolated me for years I take it easy till I was to be killed. ...they want peace ...I did forgive them but I dont want them near me or near my children. ...cause I didn't think bad about them till they show me the truth colours.....I they stay where they stay I am okay stay without them is been 20 year ...I don't want to see them near me and children I am afraid for them I can't stay with people thinking negative things about me and my children I am okay with my children This is hurting cause 💔 you don't know what is be problem....
@thndythemedtech21437 ай бұрын
Bra I feel like I’m experiencing that right now People wanted nothing to do with you when you were struggling now that you have made it in life they suddenly want to be part of For the wat? I’m glad that my mom is the only person that contributed to my success so she is the only one I owe my loyalty to I see others wishing they can turn the hands of time I’m here to say that bus left a long time ago I’m done with fake relatives
@mildredMosepele-hl1ue10 ай бұрын
Hi my dear ive been trying to locate the whattsup no in order to join prayer worrior group
@lebohangmoleleki7 ай бұрын
I think madam speaker you must have time limit.Some people take a very long time