When you have a nice symmetric face shape like she has, you can really pull off anything

yep. definitely

Celeste Calais that’s so true

Patrick Star I’m in that age and very suicidal hate to admit 😞😭💖

@@Lia.Baliarsingh hey I know its hard for you right now but please know we all love and care about you. I know we are all so young and confused and feels helplessly stuck but we will get threw this together I promise. If you ever need anything feel free to text me on this. Suicide is a hard thing to talk about and we all get these feelings. I've had them too But, please know I might not know who you are but, I love you. Always cherish a hard moment because we learn from it. I love you ☺💗. Never forget that.

Patrick Star Omg tysm 🥺😭❤️ this really means so much to me!! You are a SO kind and I hope you know that 💖

For me it’s been 0-14 but we are still going so it’s probably going to be another 86 years so...

@@Lia.Baliarsingh anytime 💗.

That's great, thats what she needs.

That’s so awesome of you!

Daniel walker thank you for this, everyone (parents especially) seem to think complimenting appearance is so important because they assume we have very low self esteem. And although that is usually the case, it can actually cause a lot of problems. I’m 14 now but started developing an eating disorder at the age of 9 because of this. It’s even worse now, but this means a lot💖

Keep complimenting her, just make sure you compliment her about her personality too🥰🥰

I grew up with an eating disorder, I’m 23 now and have a healthier (not great, but healthier) relationship with food. My boss has two daughters, one of whom also struggles with an eating disorder. And we were talking about it and she says something about how their doctors and therapists and such said to not call their daughter beautiful but instead tell her she looks strong, and I had this moment of like... “That would’ve been so helpful for me on my journey.”

Hais Crozier lol..they would trust Lisa

Louiis

😄😂👏👏👌

Louid

Louid

Yes! “It’s not for anyone. I am what I am” love this!!

@emma_lou_z: Well, there are a few important and potentially conflicting factors at play when it comes to this issue. One point is that your experience of your appearance is pretty different from other people's experience of it. With your own appearance you need to imagine how you look at any given moment to get a sense of it, whereas other people are actually seeing your appearance visually. So if you fully isolate your sense of appearance from other people, it sort of takes away some of the point of appearance perhaps? I mean, we have inside features that only we have direct access to (so in a way kind of the opposite of visual appearance since when we are with others only others can see most of our features rather than us (we can't look at most of our own face unless we have a mirror)), but appearance is the thing that we put out there that others actually can see. We can always have the inner dialogue with ourselves about any feature of us including appearance, but we can already get kind of experience that through our own thoughts about anything, so looking at appearance as just something to imagine about without regard to other people seems kind of redundant. So I guess, to make appearance only for you may risk closing down one of your only ways of non-verbal communication and presentation, even though such ways can make things good both for others and ourselves in many situations. But I think that you can still feel somewhat free with your looks even if you are still considering other people with your looks. For example, when you decide to look a certain way, you can think of it as, you are communicating to other people that you think the look you chose makes sense or reflects yourself well. So like, even if, say, 80% of people prefer the look of short hair on men, what a man (and I am one of these long-haired men by the way) can present by having long hair anyway, is that he is showing other people, when they look at him, that he looked at his own hair, and found a certain amount of beauty in it, and I think that's a decent thing to communicate to people. And perhaps people can respect that and be intrigued by that even if visually they would imagine a man with my features but with short hair instead to look more appealing to them. But in that sense it's still for not just me, but for others, because I am still trying to use my appearance to communicate, and to give people things to pick up on about me, there is still that interactivity. I still don't feel separate from other people when it comes to my appearance. I don't think the point of appearance should be about control of anything in particular, whether it's a person feeling controlled by others or a person feeling like they are taking control, it's just, how exactly do you want to communicate. And I think that trying to satisfy traditional senses of people or showing people an alternative approach are both valid ways to communicate that have pros and cons, and it's up to the individual what method makes sense for them. And of course it can vary by situation -- that's why people feel like they are in a mood for a certain style one day, and another day want to do something different. So in short, I think inevitably, it's not about just yourself or others, I think it's about both to some degree. I don't think a person can or really should separate appearance from their own self-perception, I think you will inevitably make self-assessments and will want to imagine how you look to other people and reflect on what that means to you. And I also don't think that generally people can or should separate from their appearance from the fact that it's communicating to other people, even interacting with other people passively. We all want to connect with other people in one way or another -- even if that connection is simply "I want to look different and I don't care if you don't like it" -- that's still a connection you are creating with people through your appearance, and something to be considered when choosing your appearance -- it's just of a different flavor from trying to fit into traditional styles. Both approaches can be very appealing if executed well. I just don't want people to forget the inherent social element of appearance -- even if you dress up and don't go outside, you are still thinking about hypothetically, what WOULD people think if they saw this, and being happy about it, or laughing about it, whatever. And I don't think that fact means that you can't feel free with yourself. People will react to anything we do, appearance or otherwise, but it's up to us to decide what to do with that, do we want to embrace it, challenge it, make fun of it, etc. It's a flexible method of communication and social connection.

That is sooo beautiful.

I’m sorry I can’t concentrate on the comment when you have that gorgeous profile pic 🤤😍

xXbearXx 😂😂😂

Yeah ikr!

omg true

and any outfit

She is d most beautiful girl in d group

I'm so sorry for what you're going/have gone through but it's so amazing that you're gaining strength from it! My sister, mother in law and sister in law all beat cancer last year! Rooting for your fight! 🙏🏻🙌🏻

I really hope you get through this

jord xo hope you win the fight and be safe and healthy! 🥺

Hey, I hope you’re doing alright ! By the way I’m 19 and I’ve never had a boyfriend so I can understand, I’m sending love and light to you. Keep going ! ❤️

Omg pls cimorelli pls like

So true. Sooooo true.

I agree! I was literally thinking that while watching the whole video.

@@genasseeceline hahahaha yeah and any hair color too

Kay W definitely agree

@@mixerforlife7445 yup

i love your profile pic. millie o’connell is a legend

alice higgins yess she is

@Adelle Gozdanker yuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuup

so proud & happy for you!!! ❤️❤️

@@natashamai13 thank you so much!😊 I'm nervous already.

Merrin James you’re going to look beautiful!!!!

That's so cool!! I literally wanted to do the same for a year now and this gave more motivation, I hope I'll be able to do it too✨

@@natashamai13 Thank you. Even if I don't, it doesn't matter, right? I did something for people who probably feel much worse and insecure than me.

😂😂

Love it 😂

Made me laugh 🤣

He he he!!! 😂 👍👍👍

🤣🤣🤣

RIGHT?

To this day i havent seen that video. I cannot bring myself to see lisa shave her beautful hair

truuuu

Katharina Ewe what illness

@@adxiieaffirmations5378 maybe she/he/they doesn’t wanna say

I was “the girl with the soft hair” in 2nd grade and everyone kept touching my hair. I ended up getting head lice

Music Player oh my gosh, are you okay?

U.T N lol yeah it’s been 8 years. But thank you! 💜☺️💜

MICHELLE MUGO wow! I’m happy your happy! We all need to do whatever we want to make ourselves happy, even if other people don’t seem to like the idea. In a lot of circumstances like this, we need to put ourselves before others because if we’re not happy or in a good mood with ourselves, it’s most likely neither the people around you will be either

if u wanna cut ur hair do it omg. i’ve had my hair past my waist all my life and about 3 months ago i cut it short for the first time in my life and it took me a little to get out of my comfort zone but now i have so much more confidence and i’m in love w it

When is Dani coming back?

Aawwhh

Me too

Omg same!!!

Exactly and no one can say shes ugly

“Even with no hair at all” you saying that people without hair normally look ugly?

@@soobinlovers no why would I say that 😤

@@soobinlovers I don't think so.. They meant people stereotyping that no hair isn't beautiful are wrong.

Emberri why are you looking for the inconvenient part and just complaining about that.

Yeeeees!

This is sweet awh

Beautiful mindset, thank you!

I mean this in the nicest way, no shade to you at all. No one should technically judge anyone else bc that’s not their right to do so. And no one ever knows the full backstory behind why someone is the way they are. So no, no one should be judged for what they do either. You should never allow anyone to judge you, even yourself.

That is so true.

Your right :)

@@judeazzam1257 thanks

Right? That’s how I always date a video, based on Lisa’s hairstyle or color.

Adam Moreira now we can do that from Christina’s pregnancy xD

I was thinking the same thing!

Wow I didn’t even notice that omg🤣🤣

When is christinas due date

I wish you will find your confidence too! Good luck with it! You will find it one Day!

You can do it!

Her actually shaves her head during her pregnancy

I WISH!!!!!!!!! I WOULD DIE!!!!!!!!!! 😭❤️

I usually don’t comment stuff like this because I am TERRIFIED of people saying that I’m just trying to get attention when I really am not and all of this stuff has happened to me even though I desperately wish it hadn’t. If you do feel like that, I don’t mind because you are allowed to have your opinion but please don’t start commenting/saying that and please don’t do it to other people because it’s just not nice and no one needs that. It takes a lot of courage to say these things on the internet (at least for me) so don’t make it harder for anyone 😊💖

Lia, I'm sure that took a lot of courage to post your story. I want you to know that you are not worthless. I can tell from everything you wrote that you are a very strong young woman. You are going to inspire a lot of people to be who they were created to be.

Mikaela Rose tysmmmm 🥺💖 it feels really good to see the amount of people on this earth who care about others even when they don’t know them ❤️

Lia Baliarsingh thanks for sharing your story! You’re worth it. ❤️❤️

I'm so sorry that you got bullied! Bald heads can look absolutely amazing. (I have a buzz cut right now, so speaking from experience.) There's a lot wrong with those bullies, though. That shouldn't have happened to you. I'm glad you have good friends.

Exactly 👌

@Aleena Ali a scarf can be worn in many ways: on your head, over your shoulders around your neck, around your leg, around your waist, etc. Whereas hijab is known to cover your hair (as we know, hair brings a ton of attraction to a human, without hair, they aren't as visually attractive as compared to a person that has hair) 💖

A lot of guys get entitled because they watch too much porn and think every woman should look like those women.

@@RedRoseSeptember22 Yeah porn is a huge issue. It causes men to mistreat women and have an incorrect view on the way women should look and act.

yeah bc when she had long hair she was extremely insecure, not aware of her self worth yet and depended a lot on her appearance for self reassurance but ever since she cut off all her inches she realized her own self worth slowly and surely, gained control back from the life she was taking a backseat to before and started to focus on bettering her personal qualities and growing from that. insecurity really makes you a different person but so does confidence

@@Iivinginfiction YES! True. I got that from the video. I commented this before it premiered. Oops 😂 but YES. You are right !♥

@@shekinahcruse9415 oh no your fine! i took ur comment as a mere observation but just wanted to expand on it after watching the video, haha!

That's so wonderful! We don't need to get validation from anyone but ourselves. 💖

I’m so glad lol I broke my back for the music in this video trying to straighten it out HAHA

This should have more likes. 👍

omg SPOILER :0

Don't put labels on them! Omg! She's not "the funny one" She's just her. Let her be!

LA-CHI-MO- LA-LA she wasn’t putting labels on them lmao she just said she was funny

@@hayleebelle5147 of course you're not going to understand

@@pigsthesedays2304 ooof su

Is called growing. Each time she learner something new and grew

How do u know it was Joey?

@@fionacranley lisa told everyone during the premiere 😉🙂