Why Successful Men Struggle to Attract The Woman They REALLY Want! (NO One Talks About This)

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Why Successful Men Struggle to Attract The Woman They REALLY Want! (NO One Talks About This)

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@facilitatinghappiness 3 ай бұрын

This is valid. I've spent decades trying to fill an empty space with lots of women all over the country. I've always have had a chaotic professional life... lots of travel while maintaining relationships via the phone or social media. This turned me into a Love Avoidant. I could never get hurt as they came and went. It wasn't until recently that I met somebody who has stuck it out with me while I address these issues that have been working perfectly fine for 47 years. I had no idea how unhealthy it was.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

“How would you know?” Again, it’s a communication style that is unique to them. I know how they sing.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

It’s always a positive thing when we know our place in the world.

@bigharp0949 3 ай бұрын

I just spoke with a woman yesterday who is a healer, guide and mentor who told me these exact same sentiments! WOW. This was meant for me to hear it again to really take it in. Thank you

@theVersatileGamebox 2 ай бұрын

This has helped me alot. My mom's great and alive and well. I aim to do better in selecting better with women. I've had my fair share. Thank you Ms Apollonia. It's a struggle yes, but I'll make it, I have to and I will.

@IAmTheSatinKnight 3 ай бұрын

I appreciate you Apollonia! Your genuine sincerity is addictive and at the top of the class. Thanks for the fruit! ❤

@ApolloniaPonti 3 ай бұрын

I appreciate that so so much! :-) Thank you for your support.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

“How do you know?” Because I can feel it. I even know his name.

@Ashnesss 2 ай бұрын

In my culture, we know the difference between a man who’s looking for marriage and one who isn’t. I come from a culture where mentioning your family’s roots is essential to marrying. I mentioned that early on. I’ve covered all topics from my religious beliefs, political views, lifestyle, people in his city, mutual friend and the kind of men I talk to, openly. I’ve dressed the way I normally would around friends or how I want to dress during dating/marriage. I have mentioned that I’m ambitious, love shopping, travelling, trying new cuisines and that I want to work after marriage. I also did business talk. I mentioned that a guy was holding me back intruding in every aspect of my life and my job prospects. This clearly shows that I want to fall in love, date, get married and find a man to tells the criminal asshole to F off. It also shows that I don’t enjoy being single. HOW can you ignore something so obvious? I mentioned 3 different guys. One barrister who was a colleague and a politician. The second a guy who was interested in me but who I was put off by. The third an old friend who studied at a good university, who I mentioned that I was meeting. HOW the hell can you be SO SINGLE, SO OPENLY and obviously state the kind of men you work with, reject, are put off by and befriend and still have a man NOT take the hint?

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

Whether it was said or not it’s still the underlying motif. I don’t like guys who encourage women to disrespect me that way.

@donswinner1182 2 ай бұрын

great video Apollonia, thanks for sharing how I can direct the relationship that works for both of us and continue looking at things as assignments to learn from

@CoachSteveJandS 3 ай бұрын

You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you get what you need...

@Texasmade74 3 ай бұрын

What are you blabbering about

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

We don’t always cry because we’re hurt. That’s a common misconception. Sometimes it’s just the tension from other people’s impossibility releasing itself.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

They were making all kinds of condescending movie comments. “You got keep a clear head.” This is REAL LIFE.

@GregoryDennis-wr7ky 2 ай бұрын

Because “There are NO failures. Only ☝🏼Lessons” that I obviously didn’t show up for.💪

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

The answer to the question that a lot of people are asking is that I NEVER base conclusions of that type on feelings alone. I quickly go through a mathematical process of logical deduction on a very Primitive Level in order to determine if they are accurate before I form something called the “safe assumption” or in some cases conclude that they are.

@tladams97 3 ай бұрын

I’m feeling this, I need to learn to let go instead of being fixated on this one woman. It’s crazy because I have other women that want me.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

“We heard that you graduated at the bottom of your class in High School.” 🤣 So did Albert Einstein.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

“Why would he get upset if he was really sincere about this one or that one and ba, ba, ba?” It obviously goes much deeper than that. They’re downgrading me as a man. They’re insulting my parents. They’re insulting my family. They’re insulting me on a Personal Level. They’re insulting me on an Occupational Level.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

When a person becomes disgusted enough they could be capable of saying any number of things. That doesn’t necessarily make it a usual part of their personality.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

He said it in a malicious way that could send chills up your fucking spine.

@terrywilliams2349 3 ай бұрын

Great video Apollonia! 🎯🎯💯💯

@ApolloniaPonti 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

And here’s the BEST part. When I finally got home I also had to call a Locksmith cause I was locked out of my own house by the POLICE DEPARTMENT.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

I’m obviously a very creative person and I’ve inspired a number of films written and developed by other people but I’m not delusional. I can tell the difference between Real Life and the Movies. My “Jail Time” has already confirmed that. 👼🏻

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

They have been persisting with that particular allegation about me for years now and I got no forgiveness in me for that. It’s sucking the life out of me.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

Whenever possible it’s always a good idea to try to finish on a high note.

@Re-DeclarationOfIndependence 3 ай бұрын

On one of your videos you said if a woman starts talking about other men around a man to make him jealous, to say “you dont have to talk about other men to impress me, I prefer you don’t, I’m just interested in what’s going on between you and I. And I don’t find that attractive.” I said this to this girl that has been flirting with me and dressing nice for me and showing signs of interest. But once I said that she got very butt hurt and even was arguing with me and nagging me, and now she is doing the silent treatment, we rent from the same house so we see each other everyday. I looked up the silent treatment, apparently it’s what narcissist do to try and retaliate. I don’t wanna call her a narcissist but that’s what doctors and psychologist’s said online. But she’s been such a sweet person, any ideas of how to mend that with her?

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

“Then why didn’t you take the psychological for the Police Department?” I did. They saw me do it at least 50 times over already.👼🏻

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

By saying that, I “can’t tell the difference they’re obviously also implying that somebody else taught me not to be able to tell the difference and then another person wound up saying something to the effect of, “let’s see him pull that off without ‘adult supervision’” and they heard something to the effect of, “you’re gonna see him do it without ‘adult supervision’ at least a dozen times.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

“Oooh you le…”☝🏼😃 Did people think that he just wanted to take her ballroom dancing?

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

The Terminator wouldn’t cry from frustration. That’s the difference. I can.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

Don’t some people feel foolish for the things that they were saying about me? “I mean…” 🤣

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

Ms. Ponti obviously knows all about it already. The idea was to make it look Like I’m so out of touch with reality that I don’t realize that by keeping me ☝🏼”OUT OF THE LOOP.”🙄

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

“It’s easy to hide behind a screen and say these things about a man after he’s already gone.” Believe it or not it ain’t as easy as you think.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

There’s a certain woman in particular in NY who loves it when I say that. It reminds her of somebody else.

@TomFox1 3 ай бұрын

I love the long length videos. ❤️🙏

@ApolloniaPonti 3 ай бұрын

Glad you like them!

@timdrawbridge6821 3 ай бұрын

It was a good topic to cover!!!!

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

“What did they do? What did they say?” I don’t even know the full extent of it but perhaps eventually I talk about it a little bit on the radio.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

“How’s☝🏼THAT for a fucking Knock Out?” 💡🥊

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

I didn’t even graduate. Somebody else just made it look that way.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

I didn’t go through “Therapy.” I had Psychological Operations people in the hotels when I was homeless.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

“He’s insulting my father.” No I wasn’t. I was insulting him.🤣

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

It wasn’t about the money. I just didn’t realize at the time that, that was the reason why she looked like she hated me when I left.

@rounaksharmaaa 3 ай бұрын

Apollonia mam, make a video on it how to be more attractive on social media like instagram!!

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

In other words, I would never hurt somebody just because of the way that it made me “feel” when he called me an asshole. There would obviously still have to be another sound rational basis for it.

@donswinner1182 2 ай бұрын

good pionts you shared about how I can direct a relationship that works for both of us

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

“Then why did you become a Cop?” I OBVIOUSLY could have been. 👼🏻

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

I didn’t threaten anybody. My “Criminal Record” doesn’t change my Freedom Of Speech.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

Some people have implied that just about ☝🏼EVERYTHING that I do is to overcompensate for some type of insecurity or shortcoming. Aren’t they saying that what way or another when they say certain things? And if they’re saying that about just about ☝🏼EVERYTHING that I do, what else does that imply?

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

There is a major fundamental difference between Blind Rage, Hopeless Frustration, and Righteous Indignation. I obviously don’t Flip the Switch at the drop of a hat.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

They’re all playing this little game, “it’s out of respect for her. It’s out of respect for her.” It’s out of a hatred for ME and that’s all there is to it.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

I obviously could have been and my JAIL TIME has already confirmed that too!

@OverClockedShow 3 ай бұрын

Any advice you give is golden! Thank you.

@ApolloniaPonti 3 ай бұрын

You're the best. Thank you!

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

I said “GET THE FUCK OFF MY PROPERTY.” They refused. I was outnumbered. I was obviously sane enough to realize that unfortunately in that particular case getting Violent was only going to defeat my own purpose anyway.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

I’m not on a House Arrest anymore. I served my sentence and ☝🏼THAT’S just the way it is. I’m telling it like it is. It’s called “False Imprisonment.” That’s not just my personal ☝🏼OPINION. It’s a CONSTITUTIONAL and LEGAL ☝🏼FACT.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

“She didn’t realize how perfect you were for her.” Ask her father if that’s my fault.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

There is obviously something called “Reverse Engineering.” I just kinda basically applied the same concepts of “Naive Art” used in painting to Writing.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

It isn’t a split personality. It isn’t Arrested Development. I have to be able to think like I child and function as a adult at the same exact time. For whatever reason, it just comes naturally to me.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

I didn’t even notice that until my younger brother pointed it out to me.

@VictorChilambo 3 ай бұрын

Hi Apollonia ponti am victor Chilambo aged 23 from Zambia 🇿🇲 a central southern African country i really love your videos the provide a great number of aspiration and an insight into male muscular, it's so sad 😭 that I can't meet you in person and join or subscribe to private coaching session due to the distance but I still enjoy learning from you though and slowly watching almost all videos, so please keep it coming, you are one the fews who does sugarcoating the reality and tells it the way it is, as for that, you have my at most respect and love. I end with a request would you minding doing video the term happy wife happy life? Thank you for reading.

@GregoryDennis-wr7ky 2 ай бұрын

You’re insinuating that ☝🏼I had a MALE Sensei who was kinda “flirtatious” with me in a way that insinuates something very unflattering about ME.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

The reason why they would be expecting that is because they were either expecting or wanting to ☝🏼PROVE that not only am I a “stalker” but I’m also so DELUSIONAL that I can’t tell the difference between fantasy and reality and that my chronological and logistical perception is so completely off that I can’t tell the difference between “up the street” and 50 miles away and I also can’t tell the difference between 2024 and 2010.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

No I never heard him say and nobody told me anything about it but I can still feel it. She cuts hair somewhere in NY.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

It’s was about Action to Bypass my own individual Constitutional Rights. Just having a Warrant doesn’t necessarily give them a Right to show up at somebody’s home to Arrest them.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

Clearly, I’m not a robot. I’m a human being and NO human being is built perfectly. Being a little preoccupied with my own pressures and responsibilities subsequently demonstrating a rare moment of insensitivity here and there obviously doesn’t necessarily mean that I don’t care but it doesn’t mean that you can make somebody love you or forgive you either and ☝🏼somebody obviously wanted to DO ME IN WITH THAT FACT.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

NO man who deliberately tries to stop me from being respected by Pretty Girls is my friend.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

That obviously doesn’t mean that I can’t do the job. It just wasn’t intended for ME.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

Don’t take that out of context. To each his own. Everybody has their ambitions in life.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

What they’re essentially insinuating by saying all that is “look at how weak minded, simple and DELUSIONAL he is. This is not his office and that’s not ☝🏼HIS house.”

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

That’s right. I can just “feel” it and I DON’T LIKE IT.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

They obviously assumed that my “therapy” didn’t properly prepare me with so much as any entry level education in Basic Constitutional Law.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

On the Contrary I’m a human being and not only does it upset me but it also insults me terribly.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

An analogy was being drawn between ☝🏼ME and Christopher Moltisante’s Cousin “GREGORY.” It didn’t have to be intended to flatter either one of us just for it to be more of an insult to ☝🏼ME.

@backyardrailroader 3 ай бұрын

I have plenty of friends, acquaintances, and dance partners, but two things happen. Either I a connection is being made, then she turns cold and disappears (literally), or I attract the wrong type of lady.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

I was told that a woman from her bank said, “he couldn’t even pass the Psychological for the Police Department!” When did I fail it?

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

They could have been talking about another gal just the same but it was ☝🏼STILL said and the very fact that I can’t even determine which woman it was said in reference too makes it even☝🏼MORE disrespectful. NOT less.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

They’re implying that☝🏼“He’s so driven by his own insecurities that ☝🏼NO matter what happens, let’s just assume he’s the ‘Bad Guy.’”

@rc4361 3 ай бұрын

This, as is true for most of your videos, really hit home for me

@ApolloniaPonti 3 ай бұрын

Thank you. Happy you found my channel and appreciate your support.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

“He’s talking to millions of people.” Yeah but it can obviously still be narrowed to the ones who asked that question.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

“Where does he get the balls to say these things right now of all times?” That’s the whole point. It was the insinuation that I couldn’t possibly have the balls to say it even from MY own house as a grown man without either being on a lot of mind altering drugs or being delusional-ally mentally Ill” because I did just recently get out of jail and I do have to be careful about the things that I say for obvious reasons but that was why it was so insulting to me.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

“But what would he have done if a guy like that made a move on his girl in person?” YOU SEE WHAT I WOULD HAVE DONE and you saw it at least 5 times over.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

“But there’s a chance that you could be ‘rejected’ in front of the entire world.” 😂I already have been. There’s obviously always a chance I could lose a fight in front of hundreds of people too. Everybody is beatable. 🥊

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

He maliciously expressed it as an ☝🏼”Idea” and a malevolent laugh at my expense for the purposes of entertaining others in a “social setting.”

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

“Look, they’re from two completely different backgrounds” implying that ☝🏼I’m the fucking PRINCESS.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

I went back to a Strip Club when my friend told me in the car that he didn’t leave a Tip on the bar and I walked back in to Tip the girl.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

There is something called a Pound for Pound Differential. I can generate just as much if not more power with 150 lbs. behind a punch than some 200 lb. men can.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

He would Vent. “Because they didn’t respect me” or something to that effect.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

I obviously had other people taking me where I needed to go. I was on Pretrial House Arrest for over 6 months. Then I went back to Jail. Remember?

@DavidRoberson 3 ай бұрын

Definitely want to book a call

@ApolloniaPonti 3 ай бұрын

Awesome! Here is the link: form.typeform.com/to/KRWc9SBb

@GregoryDennis-wr7ky 2 ай бұрын

“Is he insinuati…”☝🏼😃No I’m NOT insinuating anything. I said that I never attended it and I said that I NEVER “failed” shit.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

I obviously don’t mean that they should answer ANY man when he talks to you but if I’m personally offended by something you better believe I have a ☝🏼MORAL RIGHT to be.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

Does everybody see how in touch with REALITY I ☝🏼😃REALLY am after all? That’s REAL LIFE.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

“He’s delusional. Why would he resist? He knows we aren’t going anywhere.” CAUSE ☝🏼having a Warrant doesn’t necessarily entitle them to Arrest somebody. That’s why.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

A man doesn’t necessarily have to be a rocket scientist or be there to see it just to know when he’s being laughed at or MOCKED. It’s a Primitive Intuition that’s been hardwired into us from Evolution but here’s the thing. Most of them obviously weren’t and ain’t laughing at ME as a Grown Man. They were laughing at me because they were stupid and naive enough not to see me as one at all. They were laughing at ME as a 17 Year old and that’s obviously what eventually led up to all of ☝🏼THIS beginning with a Terrible below the belt insult involving another woman who I met prior to the development and implementation of Apollonia’s Social Media Company which this long term long term campaign of an unprecedented show of unequivocal unwavering unbending contempt and disregard towards ME was obviously intended by somebody else to negatively reinforce. It’s already been proven through “a very sophisticated process” at a very advanced scientific level what that 17 year old was really made of. I’m still the same exact person now that I was then.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

I was deliberately doing it like a “baby” with the Naive Art.👼🏻

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 3 ай бұрын

There are 6 senses. Not 5. We ALL have 6. Some people are just more sensitive to it than others.

@erikbergum2586 3 ай бұрын

You and Coach Melanie both would make a great team.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

What are people gonna call me now? A “wise ass?” Some obviously already essentially called me the Perp. Didn’t they?

@jakelove45 3 ай бұрын

I'm looking for something serious. But also something worth.

@ApolloniaPonti 3 ай бұрын

Yes, exactly.

@user-ef1zm2ih7h 2 ай бұрын

It can really fuck with the mind when they do something like that because first you’re on Pretrial Probation with an ankle monitor on and then you’re on regular Probation in your own jurisdiction. I’m OBVIOUSLY not supposed to be on that either.

@GregoryDennis-wr7ky 2 ай бұрын

BTW, I NEVER said that I never “went” to the Police Academy. I said that I NEVER☝🏼“Attended” the Police Academy. There’s obviously a difference.👼🏻