I was away from my tank for seven months its time to talk about why. Is it because I'm so skinny? am I sick? Lets talk about it Mile High Reefers Facebook / milehighreefers
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@RogueAquariums2 жыл бұрын
Kudos to you Scott for being transparent about your personal life. I know you’ve been through a lot lately my friend. You’ve had a big weight lifted off of your shoulders. Stay strong
@wizzwindowpainting2 жыл бұрын
We LOVE YOU SCOTT! Welcome home! We are also your family and friends. I look forward to your videos, your tank, your teachings. I been through divorces ( ya plural, what a failure the family makes me feel like) But your tank looks AWESOME! Think of it this way. You get to do WHATEVER YOU WANT! So happy to see you. Chin up buddy! We're here for you. I lost 46lbs. Thanks for sharing yourself and your knowledge. You rock!!
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😊 I’m really excited about the future! Congrats on dropping 46 pounds that’s awesome
@starseed80872 жыл бұрын
I really know why I never married for a good reason 😄Greetings from Germany. Great reef tank, Im a bit envy! Especially the giant soft corals on the right are amazing
@9StickNate2 жыл бұрын
Hallo, von Glan Münchweiler 👍
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thanks man! I love my soft corals they are spectacular
@DGGuaglianone7 ай бұрын
Never thought that starting reefing one year ago would take me here, but this exactly the place I always wanted to be. Thank you for your honesty.
@TheCheesewalrus2 жыл бұрын
got my heart crushed just yesterday myself. aside from the obvious stress things will be fine and I'd love to turn it into a positive as well. hats off to you man and we're all happy you're back
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thanks man I wish the best to you. It’s a long hard road but in the end the future seems super bright
@danagonzales24902 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry Scott that you went through all of that. I’m praying for your mom’s healing and recovery. Hang in there and I’m glad to see you’re doing better.
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, she’s had a lot of ups and downs. She has had it much harder than I have
@mohammadalameer8283 Жыл бұрын
Happy for you man! Don't let temptations during difficult times or peer pressure from others make you go back to alcohol! Can't wait to see more your tank in the future
@AlvaroHernandez-py9bx2 жыл бұрын
Right on brotha!!! Even though you owe use, your subscribers NO explanations. I applaud you for the transparency. It takes guts and 🏀⚾️ not only to pick up the peace’s of what’s left after the wrecking ball. But for you making the choice to better yourself by getting healthy, physically mentally and above all emotionally, is a victory on it’s own. We’re all now seeing a better version of you. Myself and the MAD ZOA’S love the Chanel for the great content. Looking forward to what’s next from THE F@&$ing MILE HIGH REEFER…. Tank is looking good by the way. But why wouldn’t it, your Reefing is strong 💪🏼🔥🔥🔥
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thanks man it’s been a hard road but the future looks amazing
@Peace-lr7mt2 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I've ever seen this man, but for sure - the way he is dealing with the stress and trauma is excellent. He didn't do what so many others do and spiral down into self-destruction, but turned it into something very positive. I applaud him for that. Immensely.
@dennisredmond93954 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry Scott for your having to go through all of this. Hopefully a new adventure awaits.
@space.cowboy692 жыл бұрын
Starting my first reef tank this week, just got water in, sand, etc. waiting on rock and to cycle! So glad a mind like you is back in the community to help me along! Thank you man!
@tybgycfmb86972 жыл бұрын
Welcome back! Sorry to hear of your struggles, but sounds like you came out the other side better off for it. Wishing you continued success and happiness!
@sailorjbn2 жыл бұрын
Cool video! Made me contemplate my own life
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you so much 😊 I really appreciate it
@marksmith5662 жыл бұрын
So good to see you back and healthy, I’ll be honest I feared the worst. Great to see you motivated too and look forward to regular content again. Well done Scott 👍
@Thtguymoe2 жыл бұрын
So sorry bro. I’ve been there. Glad you came out on the up side. Awful situation no matter how you look at it. But you seem to be in better place, so congratulations on being the best you now. Good luck and keep moving forward.
@sailing_el_jaleo2 жыл бұрын
Hey Scott, I hadn't checked in in quite awhile, glad to hear you are in a good spot! Andrea
@thehitmanisup2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Wow thank you so much 😊 I really appreciate it! I’ll put it to good use in my tank
@thehitmanisup2 жыл бұрын
@@MileHighReefers no problem. Also a few years back I promised to send over a og bounce mushroom once mine grow some babies. That never happened since it got eaten by a lobster that has since been banished to the sump. I recently got a new small frag. I intend to keep that promise once I'm able to.
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
@@thehitmanisup that would be awesome! Sorry for the loss on the bounce.
@eddyortiz81102 жыл бұрын
No looking back. Your going to be fine and probably way better. Glad your back.✌🐟💜
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Life is going to be amazing! I’m really excited about the future
@rudra76152 жыл бұрын
you were th first person I've ever seen on KZfaq with such a massive tank. Good to see you are back..We fall, so we can learn to get back up!
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😊
@PeterAndWillAnderson2 жыл бұрын
So happy for your future, Scott! What kind of angels are you thinking?
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Emperor and Potters. Two of my favorites
@PeterAndWillAnderson2 жыл бұрын
@@MileHighReefers cool! Love Potters. What kind of corals will work?
@KingAdeft2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you're doing well. Congratulations on the weight loss. I'm currently trying to lose weight as well. Definitely inspiring to see other people succeed!
@jdolguin85582 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about all you've been through, God bless you always.
@ROTTERtube Жыл бұрын
What's up dude! Sorry to hear but you're doing well and I'm looking forward to what you do.
@MileHighReefers Жыл бұрын
Thanks man! So good to hear from you
@TheXterra52 жыл бұрын
Awesome dude!! Sorry to hear about the divorce, but I’m glad your health and mental health is in the right place.
@HybridHerps2 жыл бұрын
Glad to see you are back and came back swinging!
@ausfester2 жыл бұрын
As a fellow divorcee in the last 16 months, congrats for getting through the fog and great to see you excited about the future. Go get em!
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@bedamo912 жыл бұрын
very glad and excited to have you back!!
@davidhicks11552 жыл бұрын
Glad you are back. You do not owe us anything about your personal life but thanks for the update. It is amazing how perception of what a healthy weight looks like has changed over the years
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure I’ve ever been very healthy? Seems like a better way to live
@km40892 жыл бұрын
All the best Scott from the UK. Sorry you have been through a tough time. Great tank pleased your back and getting on with what you enjoy.
@ericpage99142 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! I got a divorce a few years ago. Happened right after my tank crashed. Sometimes I wonder if my hobby hurt the marriage but I can think of a lot of other things that could be worse. Haven’t had the courage to try another tank but I’ve watched you for years and it gives me hope one day. So glad you’re in a better place, believe me I’ve been there!
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate to your situation. For me going forwards if she’s not into reef tanks she’s not the one for me.
@jacquelinewood50232 жыл бұрын
So glad to see you’re back and at it Scott! I understand life happens-things happen-I’ve lived through divorce and it’s nothing to be ashamed of, it happens unfortunately. What matters is how you pick yourself up and press forward. So happy to see your weight loss journey has been a healthy one for you! CONGRATULATIONS! Excited to see your next projects!! Hang in there and keep your head up. We all love you
@ReefandDive2 жыл бұрын
Amazing to know everything is back on track Scott!!!
@mountaineersportsandgaming26882 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. I’m glad you are getting rid of all your problems. Stay strong! 💪
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thanks man
@anthonym30512 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry and feel your pain. I lost everything on a divorce as well. But keep your head up, there is someone special coming your way. You just have to have an open heart so when it does show up you can welcome it.
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much the future is looking really bright.
@FunwithFindy2 жыл бұрын
Keep your head up. Don’t give up on doing something you love for a living.
@TheBioReef2 жыл бұрын
Glad to see you back and healthy.
@kimberlyworkman6192 жыл бұрын
Wishing you a happy future! Glad you are back!
@strat1960s2 жыл бұрын
Glad to see you working your way through these things. I look forward to seeing more videos.
@ak.reef90762 жыл бұрын
thanks for coming back boss good to see you
@pullupz77792 жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ loves you Scott. More than anyone else loves you. I wish I could just show you. I have Much respect for you It seems you have kept your pleasant demeanor even though you have gone through so much hardship. Thats a commendable thing for sure
@AdamDguitars2 жыл бұрын
I hope all is well now! Better days are ahead 🙌🏼
@9StickNate2 жыл бұрын
Sorry that you went through all that. I’m going through a divorce right now; I can relate. Great job on the clean living and weight loss. Also, thanks for the motivation 🤝
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
It’s a long hard road but I think it’s all worth it in the end
@mikebisgrove9622 жыл бұрын
Awesome brother glad all is moving forward for you ! You where great at selling coral you need to get back to that ! I miss flying around the tanks with you say how much ? I will take it ! Do what you enjoy and you will never work another day in your life !
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Those were the good old days! Hopefully one of these days I can make it down to Florida and check out your shop
@Truth-Machine50002 жыл бұрын
Never EVER let anybody be in control of your happiness, sadness and/or finances.
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
You are so right! Never again
@JasonEKeane2 жыл бұрын
Awesome update Scott! Amazing how people (including me) thought you when through a health issue to get where you are today where in fact, you addressed your health! Inspiring, and really looking forward to the channel reboot and all good things to come!
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thanks I’m really excited about the future
@ashleyspice2972 жыл бұрын
Sending love from the UK good to have you back looking forward to the stuff
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😊
@mattdiscus2 жыл бұрын
well back mate. Glad your healthy and happy!
@FrugalReefer2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story and I'm sorry for what you had to go through. I went through the same thing back in 2018. We sold the house and I had to break down my 120 gallon mixed reef. I now have a wonderful loving GF and I still get to see my kids almost every day since my ex and I share 50/50 custody. After being out of the hobby for a few years I recently started a new tank just last year, albeit a smaller Waterbox nano tank with a sump. I'm running an SPS dominant system. The first few months were rough, going through all the ugly algae phases and losing a few SPS frags. The tank has finally stabilized though and I'm just now starting to see SPS growth. I look forward and am excited to the future of this tank. Don't worry Scott, this divorce will soon be long behind you and things will get better.
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! It’s so good to hear you recovered so well. I’ll get there. My cup is overflowing with opportunity
@GeneKreuzJr Жыл бұрын
Gotta love a muscle car guy. Same as me. Keep on truckin'!
@HoroHigh3692 жыл бұрын
Welcome back Scott! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
@Algaewarrior2 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear you are living a healthier life! Can't wait to see that angel tank get started.
@sharonromano83492 жыл бұрын
Omg Scott, my heart goes out to you and your family, how horrible to be away from your son and your animals, hopefully you are on the mend and my prayers are with you, God watches over all of us.
@amirvaldes842 жыл бұрын
Welcome back, and may God continue to help you along your journey. Wishing you, and your son the best. Glad that you're maintaining sobriety, and a healthy lifestyle. You truly are an inspiration.
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😊
@pt7788n2 жыл бұрын
Your tank not care for 6month.. and now look so great again ! Happy to see you're back !
@BrandonScottart2 жыл бұрын
congratulations on the gains , onward and upward !
@tricky200052 жыл бұрын
Glad to have you back
@WilSantiagoReefing2 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear you're doing so much better Scott. 👍
@Peace-lr7mt2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for what you went through. I just learned my husband's been planning on a life with a woman he works with, once I die. I don't see me dying anytime soon, so I do have to wonder how that was going to be accomplished. Now he's about to be fired from his DHS job due to his threatening a coworker who his lady friend told him was bothering her. Now that he's going to lose his job, he learns she doesn't want anything to do with him. The 1 thing I ask from relationships is honesty. But couldn't even get that. Thankfully you're healthy. I am not. I was healthy when I got married and have always worked harder than most. I used to move mountains and now I'm trapped. I envy your escape and I hope everything gets better for you.
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear about your situation I can definitely relate. Me personally I did my best to do the right thing no matter what (food, alcohol, financial and family). It was really hard to do, especially when you watch others head down a path of self direction. You can still move mountains it just might need to be one rock at a time.
@ZachShannon2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your freedom! Also congrats on the weight loss. I Look forward to seeing those new tanks 🤙
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thanks man! Things really seem to be going in the right direction
@rahatilkhan91602 жыл бұрын
Hey Scott I’m your viewer from Bangladesh. I’m so glad that you shared a vulnerable part of your life, all the subscribers are here to support you. Sending love and support from all the way from other part of world. Reefers stay united !
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thank you from the United States! So cool to hear from Bangladesh
@chrisgarcia97112 жыл бұрын
I would say sorry about the divorce, however; you are healthier, back to the hobby (which brings true happiness) and overall in a better situation than you were in. Plus you kept the house 💪… I personally know what it’s like to go through a divorce and although mine was cordial it still sucks. relearning yourself and carrying on with life is the next chapter so keep your head high and thank you for sharing part of your personal life. Sometimes we touch others in a positive way!
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
I love this. Taking the high road is challenging but I think it will make all the difference
@johncrawford19582 жыл бұрын
Hi Scott I’m a fellow Coloradan. I got into this hobby almost two years ago because of a divorce.. I had to take my daughter to the airport right in the middle of the pandemics shut down. Empty house and no work to go to I had to get my mind busy so I wouldn’t go back to some bad habits. I stopped in at fish reef in centennial and I decided to do something I have always wanted to do -salt water- so I un-spoused my house with a 265g beauty. Thank you for helping me through a lot of learning on this new hobby of mine. I’d absolutely love to buy some coral from ya
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Great story man! I love how this hobby helps people through hard times
@kchatleain12 жыл бұрын
I have watched your videos for years. I'm glad your back. Looking forward to honest, real, informative content. Thanks for dusting yourself off.
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I really appreciate it! I also really appreciate the tip I’ll put it to good use in my tank
@shoja72642 жыл бұрын
I can’t even imagine. Thank you for sharing. This is the type of stuff that draws our heart to you 👍🏽enjoy your life and we will enjoy it with you via YT!!!
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😊
@m.ornellas2 жыл бұрын
Looking forward to seeing where you take this opportunity the reset gave you. Thanks for sharing with us.
@LILDESO2 жыл бұрын
Nice to know you are doing good, be all you and good luck for the future
@dennisscott64132 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to living your best life. Do you !!
@itsagooo2 жыл бұрын
I've been through a nasty divorce as well. Trust me it will get better. I'm in a much much happier place now and wouldn't ever go back. Welcome back Scott!!! You were definitely missed!
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thanks the future looks really bright
@Flybunker_events Жыл бұрын
You are an inspiration! Thank you for the update!
@lisadimercurio94732 жыл бұрын
Glad to see you again. So sorry about your divorce. You look great. I hope you get to spend time with your son.
@merrittmcdowell86752 жыл бұрын
Awesome man you became kind of like a family member to the reefing community so glad all was ok i was personally concerned for you! And I'm sure i wasn't the only one
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thanks man it’s the support of people like you over the years that have helped me through the hard times.
@merrittmcdowell86752 жыл бұрын
@@MileHighReefers glad to hear it
@lisamcevoy62212 жыл бұрын
Great to see you back, you look a stronger and better person, onwards and upwards.
@blkbird98ta2 жыл бұрын
Jeez thats horrible im glad your recovering . God bless
@justinadams5432 жыл бұрын
Proud of you brother! Keep being a great dad. Keep being a good man. Things will work themselves out. Time heals it all.
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thanks man
@justinadams5432 жыл бұрын
@@MileHighReefers I’ve been in those shoes. Really digging the channel, been a long time watcher. Thanks for all the advice. My tank thanks you as well.
@johnmarkzimm2 жыл бұрын
Great to hear from you again. Glad you are back. Keep up the healthy lifestyle and enjoy.
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thanks man 😊
@ericlawrence99172 жыл бұрын
Happy to hear your in a great place Scott! Been a big fan for a while, always liked your humble style. Keep up the great content!
@reeferkenneth86576 ай бұрын
Thanks for all the information you share, sincerely, Kenneth and Kristin
@MileHighReefers6 ай бұрын
Thank you so 😊 I really appreciate your support
@915Mang2 жыл бұрын
Glad youre ok now, Hope it gets better for you man
@nicholashaworth41102 жыл бұрын
I am so pleased you are well and you are making the most of life. Thank you for sharing. When I'm struggling it is really helpful hearing of someone overcoming their difficulties.
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
It’s been a hard road but the future looks fantastic
@wasp2332 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately this is the first video I've watched from MileHighReefers. However, on a good note, I respect how open you are to your followers/subscribers. I am still new to the hobby and love watching, listening, or talking about reef stuff. Wish you the best and look forward to more videos!
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! I do my best to keep it real honest and open is what my channel is all about
@nosumpreefing82872 жыл бұрын
Thanks for telling us. I was wondering these things not that it was my business, but just because I like watching your stuff. Your tank looks really great maybe the best I’ve seen it.
@LMDAVE292 жыл бұрын
Oh all the reef videos I’ve watch, this is probably one the most eye opening. Glad you made it through good and living a healthy life. It is sure a wake up call to us married big guys who get complacent with our hobbies.
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
It’s so true. I had no idea
@ZucchiniSky2 жыл бұрын
Proud of you. Glad to see things are doing well now. Just wanted to mention that I have a 600 gallon reef with 7+ species of Holacanthus and Pomacanthus angels and I have seen virtually zero interest in any coral except zoas, acans, and aiptasia. As long as you feed them well I don't expect you to have issues with any corals you want to keep.
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
That’s exactly the information I’ve been looking for! Your tank sounds amazing. I was thinking of manly an sps reef
@ZucchiniSky2 жыл бұрын
@@MileHighReefers thanks! I love angels, they're so colorful and personable and you can cohabitate them a lot more easily than tangs because they don't have a sharp dagger in their tails haha. They've never touched my SPS at all so I think that's a very good choice.
@eliokoborssi65902 жыл бұрын
I’M SUPPER DUPPER HAPPY FOR YOU SCOTT TO BE PUTTING YOUR LIFE BACK TOGETHER YOU ARE AN AMAZING PERSON AND A SWEETHEART.I WISH YOU THE BESTT FOR THE FUTURE AND I WILL ALWAYS BE LOOKING FORWARD TO THE CONTENT THAT YOU PUT UP.GODSPEED!MUCH LOVE AMIGO❤️❤️
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😊
@lunaticrider2092 жыл бұрын
It’s great to have you back! I was wondering why I haven’t got any notifications and now I know. It’s nice to have you back and congratulations to a new start. Life’s to short and I wish you nothing but the best. Cheers brother from one reefer to another!
@KillerKev19612 жыл бұрын
Been there, done that. My ex did 12 years in prison. That being said, I dont feel that I came out on top. I have no relationship with my kids-or my grandkids. I was put through hell. Flash forward 35 years, and things are fantastic. I know why I went through hell......It was to get to heaven. Cheers my friend, skinny is WAAAAAAAAAAAAY better than fat.
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully it take me 35 years. My relationship with my son is great and the future looks really bright
@jbreefer1482 жыл бұрын
I'm glad to see you back and I'm so sorry for your hardship. Glad to see your channel is still going, and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Thanks and happy reefing.
@lincolntowns14802 жыл бұрын
I’m glad to hear the good news. I thought the worst happened and am super pumped I was wrong!
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
The future is looking really bright! I’m so excited
@corsair3712 жыл бұрын
Sorry for the suffering that a hostile divorce can bring to the family. I hope you will be able to see your son. Praying for you bro!
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thanks man, I think the future is looking really bright
@JCSReefing2 жыл бұрын
So glad you are back on your feet and doing what you love. Congrats on turning things around in life, and with the tank!
@sourpatchkid3942 жыл бұрын
♥️ good for you.. I’m happy you got to keep your passion. That shouldn’t have happened like that. I can’t imagine getting to that point. Good for you. Your tank is beautiful.
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@masacardenas2 жыл бұрын
Almost 3 months since I've had a drink. One of the best decisions I have ever made for myself. Glad to see you're doing well!
@MileHighReefers2 жыл бұрын
It’s such a good life choice I wish I would have done it sooner. Congrats on your 3 months
@Danzo2852 жыл бұрын
Nice to have you back wise you and your son the best. In this new era in life.
@retropuffer29862 жыл бұрын
Good to see you better
@jules25452 жыл бұрын
Nice to see you Scott, looking good and so is your tank.
@ryanwaltman18182 жыл бұрын
Good for you Scott. I'm happy for you. Sometimes the hardest changes are the best. Keep on Reefin' on. Rooting for ya.
@sunnygoold94492 жыл бұрын
Inspirational story - that would be so hard to do and you are so positive - mate I think you will look back on all this and think "well it took me to a MUCH better place"
@dadjokes88452 жыл бұрын
Good for you buddy! Glad to see you turning things around for the better!
@crath35702 жыл бұрын
Best of wishes to you!
@georgeenelcaribemexicano Жыл бұрын
Awesome bro, you kept the most important parts in life.
@VXReef2 жыл бұрын
Good luck Scott. Been there before and it ends up amazing. Stay strong.