Do you have 2 children ?

Thanks for your teachings

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The facts 🎯

So you want love but not to give it back?

Thank you for your honesty. I think you are right. Many people are waking up to the truth but afraid of the harsh feminist backlash.

I agree with you. What did you marry for if you’re comfortable answering?

@@CoolKidOx Mainly leadership, protection, security, stability and companionship. He's a traditional man and that's what I wanted in a husband which I prioritized over love. I was attracted and there was some chemistry but the love came gradually over time. We just celebrated our 4 year anniversary.

Shelby Steele Thank you for sharing. I’m so happy for you ❤️ I’m in my early twenty and want to marry for security & have a provider husband. I have tried to share my thoughts in the past with friends before but found it better to keep it to myself. Feminist culture is also prevalent in the U.K.

I am from Europe, where the culture is even less traditional than in the US and I feel exactly like you! I’m getting married soon to my generous provider man. If I listened to “love”, like Disney movies and modern culture advocate, I would still be with my cheating ex who was a bum without a job and a weed addiction. But I decided to follow what was good for me instead. Love/chemistry is nothing you should base your decision for a life partner on!

Beautiful ❤️❤️

That’s so beautiful. Stay blessed ❤️

Since you were underage? ._.

@@ancientdreamsinamodernland5147 she was 18 he was 25.

Bollywood IS indeed dumb. They glorify excessive Romance, Unhealthy attachments and Toxic masculinity.

Bingo! They say ‘love is blind’ for a reason

@@fehyndana7725 but love is not blind, lack of understanding and following vague ideas about how another person should act around me is what is blinding. Love is analytical and makes wise decisions that benefit all parties involved.

Omg yes 😩😩😩 I agree with you

"Your truth," "my truth," "her truth," "his truth" … it's nonsense. There's THE TRUTH, and there's opinion. Our opinions do not warp the fabric of reality to fit our notions. Fo you want to understand human behavior, and marriage, and family, and all the reasons why people do what they do, and what the answer to humanity's fundamental problem is? Consult the Bible. It came from the only God there is, who created everything and designed us to work in certain ways. Cultures are unreliable.

That should have read "If you want ..." Apologies for the typo.

@@OhioCoastie94 and that's your truth ;)

Yes! So true, there’s a lecture on this from Dr. Myles Munroe. It opened my eyes

That’s so wonderful! You both are truly blessed.

Oh my gosh this share is absolutely so beautiful to hear...🥹 God stepping in like the true LEADER He is and being your matchmaker... Samantha, I honestly would love to connect with you.

So beautiful. I love it when the east meets the west in love and beauty. ❤️

He doesn't have to be old but "Older" than you by at least 4 to 7 years difference. Let me tell as women get older most start looking the same in age as their husbands even when there's a 10 year gap between them. After having babies and menopause women go through huge amounts of changes in their body and appearance, ( while most men are still on their prime even in their 50s to get a brand new and younger woman). Its wiser to get a man "at least" 5 years to 10 years older than you if you want to experience being provided and protected for as well as being CHERISHED and ADORED in your relationship. Majority of men your age or younger than you will not do all that for you trust me.

💯 agreed! Mina just ignore that huge even tragic reality.

What a great topic ❤️❤️❤️

Polarity can be developed and maintained for ever. I trust polarity more than chemistry.

@Urvashi Sharma the difference is she did the dating after the wedding, us that too hard for u to comprehend

Beautifully said.

Great points Carrie. When I became a housewife, it wasn’t men who didn’t value my new role, it was other women! We have certainly been sold a massive lie about what is worthy and what isn’t. It took me a long time to realize they only I decide what my worth is. ❤️

@@Theuniverseguru it is not men that didn't value you but your spouse. So yes it was technically a man. Husbands generally do take their housewives for granted and don't appreciate them.

She said 9 years

She said nine years

How do I recognise my soulmate?

I met my soulmate and literally destroyed my life...

So happy this resonated with you ❤️ Will definitely make more.

❤️❤️ thank you

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I am watching this twice

So happy this resonated with you ❤️❤️

Please do a follow up to this video.

Girl Loves Science already planning! Thanks for the positive response ❤️❤️❤️

I have watch this one at least 20 times

Great insights. I don’t see it as “damaged” but just knowing that there will be more resistance to heal from. Of course coming from a stable family doesn’t guarantee two people will get along. That’s why we stick with our own love list. Both parties must be invested into long term growth with similar values.

The Universe Guru that is true. Thanks for feedback

Also family support system is a great plus in the Indian community

Welcome back ❤️❤️❤️

Thanks for your honestly. ❤️

I would say that maybe you dont deserve him haha, I wish I could tell him how sick you are and how sick is this video

Question: how is him willing to go the extra mile for you and being loving and soft with you not masculine enough? How he is with you should be different than how he is at work and with his friends.

@@kristenmoonrise ah interesting. That’s a good point. Sometimes it feels like we’re just friends because we joke around so much. I think maybe that is a defense mechanism I use sometimes to keep things from getting to emotionally intimate.. I’ll watch for when I’m keeping it too “bro” like and allow myself to receive

@@kristenmoonrise I guess in my mind masculine is like dominating and assertive. He isn’t but he does protect and provide , in a gentle way.

@@nolacanola Ah yes maybe he's just waiting for you to give him the "ok". Some men may be hesitant because they don't want to make the wrong move. And many of us (myself included) needed a better understanding of masculinity. It doesn't have to be overt or forceful. In fact, if it's toxic that isn't healthy but many of us think that is the definition of masculinity. He seems to have the right balance. Go for it! 😉

But people in love marriages endure abuse too. That’s a character flaw in a person not necessarily arranged marriages

@Urvashi Sharma well yeah. Because there is something to learn from it. There are concepts from arranged marriages that the so called western style of love needs to learn.

@Urvashi Sharma no YOU are wrong. Love is understanding yes. But there is a certain level of understanding that comes with living with someone for while. You absolutely cannot "love" someone because you have chemistry and went on a couple of dates with them. Your so called love before marriage will absolutely not put you ahead of themselves. I don't know why you are making it seem like having a sense of duty towards your spouse is a bad thing. If you married someone then you have sworn yourself to them and should carry out your duties as per the agreement.

@Urvashi Sharma live in relationships have been debunked even by the major proponents. The west. Studies have been shown that couples who live together before marriage increase likelihood of break up and decreases the likelihood of them getting married. Most people move in together to afford rent. I don't know why it is that you are against the concept of arranged marriage!!! If the love is as true as you claim then it shouldn't Matter weather you met at the mall or your parents put you two together. If it is true love it will never fade and persevere regardless. Majority of human feelings is based on attraction. And that is the point mina is trying to make. Attraction usually fades within 2 to 3 years not 10. And this point further gives credibility to arranged marriages. All you need to do is to look at the countries that are soooo obsessed with love and romance, look at the state of their marriages and relationships to invalidate your point. You claim that you are in a love marriage but it is heavily influenced by the more traditional values. And that is why your marriage has lasted as long as it has and also why you feel the so called love. These same values are upheld in arranged marriages. You are just brainwashed by Disney and Bollywood's idea of romance.

Thank you! you are so sweet.

Maybe, but when the fun is over they opt for older and with money. Women are hypergamous by default, if you don't believe this then you haven't been red pilled yet. Good luck.

What is the essence of fun?