Lessons on Love and Marriage learned from my Pakistani Indian Heritage. Hope you enjoy this video. Does any of this resonate with you? Do you agree or disagree? All respectable viewpoints welcome.
@keepcreationprocess2 жыл бұрын
Do you have 2 children ?
@saludyvidaintegrales79822 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your teachings
@EverythingChar2 жыл бұрын
Marry for love (chemistry) and you may regret it … because feelings change, marry to build legacy and respect, care and love will flourish.
@shea88barbie3 жыл бұрын
No matter what I feel the man has to cherish adore the woman for it to last.
@maguiedossantos29253 жыл бұрын
💯💯🎯
@margaretrefile82072 жыл бұрын
The facts 🎯
@Wayde-ec1he2 жыл бұрын
So you want love but not to give it back?
@ShelbySteele234 жыл бұрын
Im American and I totally get this and agree. During my teens and early twenties, I remember trying to express my belief that marriage should not be based on love and I got such negative reactions that I stopped sharing my thoughts, even with the men I dated. I felt forced to go along with cultural norms so I wouldn't come off as a weirdo but it never served me well. I eventually got my married but kept my true feelings about my husband to my self. Let's just say that my choice to be with him had nothing to do with love. But I sometimes wonder if there are other Americans who feel like me but just don't feel comfortable admitting it due to the backlash...I also agree with women marrying older and men being providers but feminists American culture does not allow for this type of thinking.
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honesty. I think you are right. Many people are waking up to the truth but afraid of the harsh feminist backlash.
@CoolKidOx4 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. What did you marry for if you’re comfortable answering?
@ShelbySteele234 жыл бұрын
@@CoolKidOx Mainly leadership, protection, security, stability and companionship. He's a traditional man and that's what I wanted in a husband which I prioritized over love. I was attracted and there was some chemistry but the love came gradually over time. We just celebrated our 4 year anniversary.
@CoolKidOx4 жыл бұрын
Shelby Steele Thank you for sharing. I’m so happy for you ❤️ I’m in my early twenty and want to marry for security & have a provider husband. I have tried to share my thoughts in the past with friends before but found it better to keep it to myself. Feminist culture is also prevalent in the U.K.
@fehyndana77254 жыл бұрын
I am from Europe, where the culture is even less traditional than in the US and I feel exactly like you! I’m getting married soon to my generous provider man. If I listened to “love”, like Disney movies and modern culture advocate, I would still be with my cheating ex who was a bum without a job and a weed addiction. But I decided to follow what was good for me instead. Love/chemistry is nothing you should base your decision for a life partner on!
@fadiasaraalasmar27244 жыл бұрын
Totally agree I am born and raised american but my parents are Syrian and I ended up marrying a Syrian man 8years older than me. I love that hes older it makes me feel safe and I feel like I still give him that excitement in his life because im younger...also I chose him because he cared a lot about me and my feelings and always was looking to protect me...his mentality was SO middle eastern and I never wanted to marry someone like that..but I love the way he treated me and talked to me ...weve been together 10 years and married 5 years ..i fall in love more and more with him every day...im 28 hes 35.. agreed with everything u said Mina 😍
@CoolKidOx4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful ❤️❤️
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
That’s so beautiful. Stay blessed ❤️
@ancientdreamsinamodernland51472 жыл бұрын
Since you were underage? ._.
@canesugar9112 жыл бұрын
@@ancientdreamsinamodernland5147 she was 18 he was 25.
@dulcemar49332 жыл бұрын
I completly agree with you, I'm Mexican living in my country and we buy USA's culture without even thinking about it. I'm from the generation that grew watching Sex and the City and found it aspirational - big mistake- Thank you for your work, i'll be sharing your ideas with my 15 yo daughter
@mia_f2 жыл бұрын
I was married to an Indian guy, and I always had a respect for this outlook, which is why I married him. Ironically he was so obsessed with chemistry and constantly being in love and the dumb Bollywood narrative of intense feelings and attraction (yes I said it, Bollywood, not ‘western values’) that when things got unpleasant in our relationship, he looked outside to find fulfilment. We divorced.
@mad_in_20202 жыл бұрын
Bollywood IS indeed dumb. They glorify excessive Romance, Unhealthy attachments and Toxic masculinity.
@strandedinanisland4573 жыл бұрын
I love how you said that love has to be cultivated over the years. Also younger men can be childish in behavior and attitude.
@denissevelecelamoncayo58233 жыл бұрын
Totally agree..Chemistry doesn't mean anything...I started a relationship by that and I ended up very destroyed because that man was like the woman...I provided and protected him
@Lizjr027234 жыл бұрын
I love the way you spoke about love. I completely agree with your take on it. I remember when I used to make decisions about potential partners based on chemistry. I realized later that it blinded me from seeing the person for who they were.
@fehyndana77254 жыл бұрын
Bingo! They say ‘love is blind’ for a reason
@Lizjr027234 жыл бұрын
@@fehyndana7725 but love is not blind, lack of understanding and following vague ideas about how another person should act around me is what is blinding. Love is analytical and makes wise decisions that benefit all parties involved.
@claudiag.51632 жыл бұрын
You're right. I wish I could find a man with that mentality but have only found men with 50/50 mentality. Thought I was ok in my marriage while staying home taking care of my child and home while he worked, come to find out he would complain to others about how hard HE worked while I stayed home being LAZY. Needless to say he's the ex husband now.
@treasuredroots4 жыл бұрын
As a person living in South-Asia in the 2020s , love marriage is equally accepted by parent like arrange marriage these days. However I feel Love is illogical, its subjective and to some extent an illusion. Arrange marriage- helps in forming a relationship with people of similar background, values etc. Its More objective, thereby reduces error. My vote goes for Arrange Marriage these days. The key point is the spouse needs to respect the other. Otherwise love/arrange marriage, neither works.
@Nyuffykah3 жыл бұрын
I love the fact you are talking your truth openly
@divyanshi19963 жыл бұрын
Omg yes 😩😩😩 I agree with you
@OhioCoastie942 жыл бұрын
"Your truth," "my truth," "her truth," "his truth" … it's nonsense. There's THE TRUTH, and there's opinion. Our opinions do not warp the fabric of reality to fit our notions. Fo you want to understand human behavior, and marriage, and family, and all the reasons why people do what they do, and what the answer to humanity's fundamental problem is? Consult the Bible. It came from the only God there is, who created everything and designed us to work in certain ways. Cultures are unreliable.
@OhioCoastie942 жыл бұрын
That should have read "If you want ..." Apologies for the typo.
@queengoblin2 жыл бұрын
@@OhioCoastie94 and that's your truth ;)
@kristenmoonrise3 жыл бұрын
When learning different languages, I remember an instructor saying English had only one word for so many different feelings or stages of a particular emotion, "love", where in other languages there are multiple different words for different kinds of love. But English speakers lump it all together. So culture and language has us confused big time!
@asha4189 Жыл бұрын
Yes! So true, there’s a lecture on this from Dr. Myles Munroe. It opened my eyes
@LexaLite2 жыл бұрын
When I was a little girl all the way up to my mid twenties I always enjoyed classic English literature and the way they presented traditional courtship. (Reasons why shows like Bridgeton are so popular) I never believed in love in the contemporary sense because I always felt it lacked substance and longevity. I remember how shocked the men I dated in my early 20s close to my age were shocked at my expressed value of assessing for compatibility longterm as opposed to just winging it. Being a child of divorce literally scared me from a bad marriage so conversations like these are so ideal to clear to fog between what works to establish a healthy marriage and what doesn't work.
@alekxa904 жыл бұрын
👏 Wow Mina, this is so true. I married the person who I thought would be my best match, my partner in everything! 21 years later we are in love and going strong 💪 ❤
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
That’s so wonderful! You both are truly blessed.
@cindylou37083 жыл бұрын
VALENTINE'S DAY = ENFORCED ROMANCE (I lost a boyfriend in my 20s because he felt pressured about Valentine's Day and thought love should never equate to pressure); later as a professor I found out from my college students that losing your partner around Valentine's Day was super common! I also remember fights between married couples when VD wasn't celebrated correctly. Love expectations can do a lot of damage overall, and Valentine's Day just exacerbates it all.
@a.pieceofpie2 жыл бұрын
I'm American and this video is golden. When I was much younger and outwardly opinionated I truly felt arranged marriage was horrid. Fast forward a couple of decades and now I see the point in arranged marriage. I see the gems!
@albertodeulofeu52773 жыл бұрын
It’s definitely better when the man is older than the woman. For those exact reasons you mentioned. U hit the nail on the head.
@samarabharath Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful message, Mina! I have experienced a watered down version of Indian culture, as my parents are from the West Indies, which is heavily influenced by Indian culture. After experiencing abusive relationships in my early 20s, and having to heal from those experiences, I knew I desired something deeper, something healthy, genuine and long-term. As a Christian woman, living in the western world, I have only recently begun to identify and appreciate arranged marriages, as God is currently arranging mine! I can honestly say I never thought of God as the ultimate matchmaker, but honestly, all of the marriages in the Bible were arranged. When we allow God to match us according to His purpose and will for our lives, we are truly matched with His best choice for us, and we get to experience a life-long journey of cultivating love and enhancing romance, like you said. I'm definitely looking forward to growing and cultivating deep fulfilling love and passionate romance with my future husband very soon!
@MelissaMelly1010 Жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh this share is absolutely so beautiful to hear...🥹 God stepping in like the true LEADER He is and being your matchmaker... Samantha, I honestly would love to connect with you.
@elikaoldaccount97734 жыл бұрын
This was a beautiful description and a fantastic way of connecting with what the challenges the modern woman faces today. Thank you so much for sharing and yes do dig deeper into this topic
@consciouskitty4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Mina!! Yes, please do talk more about "natural romance" between Divine Masculine and Feminine in a future video!! xx
@KateDatingCoaching4 жыл бұрын
I've live in England and many of my friends are first generation Pakistani or first generation Indian. I learned a lot from them and still do today. I agree with you. I think of love as a verb and a choice.
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
So beautiful. I love it when the east meets the west in love and beauty. ❤️
@SubRosa334 жыл бұрын
Chemistry us the worst justification for getting married.
@Ria238542 жыл бұрын
This is so true! Women fool themselves when they „just“ marry based on love. We need security ☀️🎀
@georgec82103 жыл бұрын
Most of the Pakistani women I know are married to other Pakistan guys. Usually the guy provides. However they control there wives. They can't go out and do certain things. They have to cook ir clean. The guy won't lift a finger. They are fine with that. Usually the girl is the submissive one on that relationship. Some are working too and taking care of kids. What you are saying is not reality though. You are only referring to rich couples not regular couples.
@user-yq7ud5vt2j3 жыл бұрын
i dont want an older man whose illnesses will render me into a nurse someday..my biggest fear is having a husband i have to push around on a wheelchair whom i'll have to devote my entire remaining years to nursing.. heart attack..stroke..diabetes..obesty etc. also.. older men dont have good quality sperm
@maguiedossantos29252 жыл бұрын
He doesn't have to be old but "Older" than you by at least 4 to 7 years difference. Let me tell as women get older most start looking the same in age as their husbands even when there's a 10 year gap between them. After having babies and menopause women go through huge amounts of changes in their body and appearance, ( while most men are still on their prime even in their 50s to get a brand new and younger woman). Its wiser to get a man "at least" 5 years to 10 years older than you if you want to experience being provided and protected for as well as being CHERISHED and ADORED in your relationship. Majority of men your age or younger than you will not do all that for you trust me.
@CDot3003 жыл бұрын
My hubby the one I married for money is 15 years older I don't trust his money moves...My family wants me to leave him but im a stay at home Mom x model I so confused I fasting and talking to God Please pray for My Family and stability and consistency 🙏❤
@SongChez83 жыл бұрын
Really enjoy your videos. Would love to hear your take on, being in a relationship based off chemistry and how it can potentially be successful. Sounds like a lot of work and low expectations in the long run lol but for those of us who are already in a relationship or married based on chemistry and want to succeed it would be helpful to have some guidance there.
@subham99vlog3 жыл бұрын
But sometimes it gets failed when ur parents arranged for ur partner and u r stick with only 1 person and need to adjust with him and need to fall in love with him , if u tell ur parents that u don't like him they will say try to adjust or compromise that's the sad reality dude!!!
@mili98083 жыл бұрын
💯 agreed! Mina just ignore that huge even tragic reality.
@wonderwoman79693 жыл бұрын
Soooo truuuuuue!!! I come from pakistani culture 1st generation British. Wish i knew this from the get go would saved myself a lot of shit storms :)
@alekxa904 жыл бұрын
Question: Can you do a video of effective ways to arrange marriage? Who has input? What process is followed if any? At what age is this appropriate? Just curious about how this happens. Thanks for your insight Mina
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
What a great topic ❤️❤️❤️
@elizabethzelazna31934 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I think it was the first time I have watched a video of you 2x! Very informative and helpful! Do you think chemistry can develop later on after a arranged marriage and can be hold for.years? Also I would love to hear examples of healthy everyday romance!❤
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
Polarity can be developed and maintained for ever. I trust polarity more than chemistry.
@solvingdiasporianwahala18132 жыл бұрын
@Urvashi Sharma the difference is she did the dating after the wedding, us that too hard for u to comprehend
@nellycious16924 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you
@MrsGirija4 жыл бұрын
Culture has values and certain discipline, those are set of well defined rules, which are reasonable. Very good explanation.
@aikhanam24 жыл бұрын
I do not think that there is a black and white experience of anyone when it comes to love or arranged marriage. You have to think who you are marying in a logical sense as well there needs to be some sort of chemistry as well. Marriage is an experience unique to all. If you found your soulmate whose mind and heart matches yours good for you. But you need to also change your self concept and work on limiting bleiwfs and becoming a good partner.
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said.
@iamaleo2473 жыл бұрын
I feel so blessed to have come across your content.... turning 50 soon and I just LOVE learning. Your coaching/ teaching style resonates with me so strong. Thank you so much for all you do.🙏🏽♥️
@LaGalletaLibrosyModa2 жыл бұрын
¡Gracias!
@carrielubing2164 жыл бұрын
Very interesting and enjoyed hearing your thoughts on this. I think things have gotten really confused over the years and when we try to change history we go way to far the other way. I think why it shifted so much is that women didn't feel valued by being in the traditional role and now everything is super confusing. I just think overall we need more balance in both roles. A lot of work needs to be done and it's great that you are having open conversations with your son!
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
Great points Carrie. When I became a housewife, it wasn’t men who didn’t value my new role, it was other women! We have certainly been sold a massive lie about what is worthy and what isn’t. It took me a long time to realize they only I decide what my worth is. ❤️
@canesugar9112 жыл бұрын
@@Theuniverseguru it is not men that didn't value you but your spouse. So yes it was technically a man. Husbands generally do take their housewives for granted and don't appreciate them.
@meira3165 Жыл бұрын
I would love to see a video on what is the difference between romance for the Divine feminine and the divine masculine! If you already have such a video, please share the link! Love your work and I have been binge watching all your videos!
@muniramistry62284 жыл бұрын
Hey Mina ... Thank you thank you thank you so much for sharing this .. do u remember I told you that I always get same experiences.. I got an answer why always I get into same wounds....... Thank u once again... 😊😘😘😘💕💕
@ZooyoY Жыл бұрын
Mina, thank you so much for what you are doing! You really helped me to overcome love trauma after failed marriage and another toxic relationship. Those experiences left me in ruins. Now I put myself back piece by piece. Not rushing to date or marry, but I hope I can meet a nice man who can give me the feeling of love and safety I couldn't find in men before. Thank you, dear Universe Guru!
@MuseSunflower4 жыл бұрын
Mina, may I ask what is the age difference between you and your partner? I am 29 and I find myself drawn to men around 33-35. It feels nice knowing they have more life experience than I do.
@ShelbySteele234 жыл бұрын
She said 9 years
@sweetiepie43284 жыл бұрын
She said nine years
@chrisperegrine3 жыл бұрын
love your content Mina and you have such charming personality ❤️
@crystalianike2 жыл бұрын
Yes ! marriage only for LOVE is so naive you need spiritually , financially align with same vision and lifestyle , love will grow anyway.
@sarahcrawte9582 жыл бұрын
Wow so interesting! I have chose all of my relationships out of love (the chemical feeling ) this makes so much sense as to why previous relationships did not work out due to compatibility
@mariaelena30162 жыл бұрын
Mina! You got a new subscriber. I love your videos! Thank you for sharing with us wisdom in our relationships.
@CDot3003 жыл бұрын
I married for money but I should have researched I married fast cause I was blinded by the money and now 2 kids later going through a lot
@ilijana90864 жыл бұрын
Great video, absolutely agree with you Mina! Originating from a southeastern culture as well, I completely relate to your point of view. Also completely agree with the age difference being a great thing :-) My husband is also older than me and it is wonderful in every aspect of our lives! Be blessed babe!
@shea88barbie3 жыл бұрын
Yea I watched Indian match making on Netflix.
@goddessglow69964 жыл бұрын
All true except if you found your soulmate in this lifetime. Time literally stops when your eyes lock and telepathy is developed. When you have recognized your other half you will never cease to love this person even if you end up marrying someone else. Apparently a small percentage of the population meet their other half, I did and it is a bittersweet experience.
@user-sj5sc6fm1o3 жыл бұрын
How do I recognise my soulmate?
@denissevelecelamoncayo58233 жыл бұрын
I met my soulmate and literally destroyed my life...
@africangoddess28332 жыл бұрын
Amazing message. Love this 🙌🏾
@FM-yk1yr3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Very useful content.
@rochellemiller94432 жыл бұрын
what is the discipline that's needed for women? that was a very interesting point.
@sudiptadas6735 Жыл бұрын
You fall in love by serving, honoring & respecting someone in the long term.
@Monica87534 жыл бұрын
Totally Agree Mina. Great subject to discuss. Pls keep making more videos on the topic.
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
So happy this resonated with you ❤️ Will definitely make more.
@harisadu8998 Жыл бұрын
The age difference is definitely an Indian Muslim and Pakistani Muslim thing. Among Hindus, who form the majority of the Indian subcontinent, large age differences are not looked upon favourably especially for people who are marrying in their 20s.
@divyanshi19963 жыл бұрын
Makes sense. Thanks!
@sabazafar41024 жыл бұрын
Yes you are right your video always helps me thank you you are right 100% %about marriage.
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️ thank you
@Maimmarei Жыл бұрын
When ever i go and feel dramatic i ckme back to my love list , and update it , in few minutes i see change in my fiancee .. which is very weird, i also been following this from last year and it really changed my perception of reality
@tampatart81562 жыл бұрын
I am interested to know if you used the Vedic astrology system, because it's prevalent in India, for success in finances in marriage compatibility.
@angel333333334 жыл бұрын
Do you have a favorite relationship book list like the ones you read that reinforced what you saw in the eastern part of the world in marriage? p.s you look mid 30s not 40
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
All my favorite books are updated here www.amazon.com/shop/theuniverseguru?listId=KYAH01RHGBJP
@girllovesscience60234 жыл бұрын
I am so happy you made this video.
@girllovesscience60234 жыл бұрын
I am watching this twice
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
So happy this resonated with you ❤️❤️
@girllovesscience60234 жыл бұрын
Please do a follow up to this video.
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
Girl Loves Science already planning! Thanks for the positive response ❤️❤️❤️
@girllovesscience60234 жыл бұрын
I have watch this one at least 20 times
@kemeticwellness2 жыл бұрын
Hi Mina! Did you ever do that video on the natural romance between men and women? If so, can you please reply with a link or direct me to where I can find it. Thank you!
@polexia34343 жыл бұрын
"a whole new level of Ah-Ha" good name for a new program ^_^
@magicallulu13594 жыл бұрын
There is a lot of truth in this. But I come of a divorced family and my ex is the one with the stable home (parents both have doctorates and been married for 40 years) but I am the one who tried to make it work. He just wanted to take it easy.. I feel in the arranged marriage I would have been the damaged one bc of my family background
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
Great insights. I don’t see it as “damaged” but just knowing that there will be more resistance to heal from. Of course coming from a stable family doesn’t guarantee two people will get along. That’s why we stick with our own love list. Both parties must be invested into long term growth with similar values.
@magicallulu13594 жыл бұрын
The Universe Guru that is true. Thanks for feedback
@ashtag894 жыл бұрын
Lovely video mina. I have married for love.and we're compatible yes..but arrang d marriages do make sense now. I don't have a great relation with my parents so I thought arranged marriage was out of the box. Pls do the videos on what's true love and what's conceived love.
@ashtag894 жыл бұрын
Also family support system is a great plus in the Indian community
@CDot3003 жыл бұрын
Your hair looks Beautiful
@margaretrefile82072 жыл бұрын
This information is so accurate
@Ghaidarafeeq2 жыл бұрын
Actually wow you opened my eyes ♥️♥️♥️
@jus32782 жыл бұрын
Wise words.
@noziashahapor92994 жыл бұрын
Pls vedio on natural romance
@albertodeulofeu52773 жыл бұрын
Im cuban... but I gotta move to the Middle East. This is great. Finally. A rational woman with common sense. They’re extinct in the US.
@jennifersalinas73052 жыл бұрын
Definitely not a sprint, it’s like a beautiful marathon
@VictoriaBiblicalHebrew3 жыл бұрын
God can give you both
@zakiaikram43794 жыл бұрын
Real queen,love you Mina.
@noziashahapor92994 жыл бұрын
It's been so long I got the time to watch your videos again. Feeling so great. How are you??
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
Welcome back ❤️❤️❤️
@valeriagarcia48642 жыл бұрын
Im Mexican 😍 and thnaks for your content
@srishtijha36 ай бұрын
😮 8:25
@lanasatlodge4294 жыл бұрын
This video triggered a lot of emotions, I think I am not there yet, to listen this topic with a full open heart. I am emigrant in the Uk, and I see a lot of unfair things against different races so I am just not there yet to listen things about differences between races, even it came from a good place. I think, I did not get the principal of the video, because there is this anger cloud in front of my eyes. I know there is a lot of inner work to do here.
@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your honestly. ❤️
@ArghRawrWhoa3 жыл бұрын
Hmm
@user-xx7oe3rp6t2 жыл бұрын
Please make what is naturally romantic in traditional marriages!!!
@RRS1466 ай бұрын
❤❤
@TheWiktoriax332 жыл бұрын
Please talk about the natural romance between man and a woman!
@nolacanola2 жыл бұрын
I met a man who is 8 years older than me, has a good job, similar interests to me and has a deep emotional reaction to me / willing to go the extra mile to see me etc. However, he is not very masculine. I think naturally I am more masculine than him and he is quite loving/soft. Is this a problem? I get confused with the “masculine provider” stuff
@usuariodegoogle30762 жыл бұрын
I would say that maybe you dont deserve him haha, I wish I could tell him how sick you are and how sick is this video
@kristenmoonrise2 жыл бұрын
Question: how is him willing to go the extra mile for you and being loving and soft with you not masculine enough? How he is with you should be different than how he is at work and with his friends.
@nolacanola2 жыл бұрын
@@kristenmoonrise ah interesting. That’s a good point. Sometimes it feels like we’re just friends because we joke around so much. I think maybe that is a defense mechanism I use sometimes to keep things from getting to emotionally intimate.. I’ll watch for when I’m keeping it too “bro” like and allow myself to receive
@nolacanola2 жыл бұрын
@@kristenmoonrise I guess in my mind masculine is like dominating and assertive. He isn’t but he does protect and provide , in a gentle way.
@kristenmoonrise2 жыл бұрын
@@nolacanola Ah yes maybe he's just waiting for you to give him the "ok". Some men may be hesitant because they don't want to make the wrong move. And many of us (myself included) needed a better understanding of masculinity. It doesn't have to be overt or forceful. In fact, if it's toxic that isn't healthy but many of us think that is the definition of masculinity. He seems to have the right balance. Go for it! 😉
@harisadu8998 Жыл бұрын
You should do a Hindi/Urdu channel too.
@luvvx3 Жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥
@sweetiepie43284 жыл бұрын
I keep hearing that Indian men love a mature older women is this not true
@marec51992 жыл бұрын
My grandma had an arranged marriage , he ended up being extremely abusive , physically and emotionally......
@leahlauren13312 жыл бұрын
But people in love marriages endure abuse too. That’s a character flaw in a person not necessarily arranged marriages
@canesugar9112 жыл бұрын
@Urvashi Sharma well yeah. Because there is something to learn from it. There are concepts from arranged marriages that the so called western style of love needs to learn.
@canesugar9112 жыл бұрын
@Urvashi Sharma no YOU are wrong. Love is understanding yes. But there is a certain level of understanding that comes with living with someone for while. You absolutely cannot "love" someone because you have chemistry and went on a couple of dates with them. Your so called love before marriage will absolutely not put you ahead of themselves. I don't know why you are making it seem like having a sense of duty towards your spouse is a bad thing. If you married someone then you have sworn yourself to them and should carry out your duties as per the agreement.
@canesugar9112 жыл бұрын
@Urvashi Sharma live in relationships have been debunked even by the major proponents. The west. Studies have been shown that couples who live together before marriage increase likelihood of break up and decreases the likelihood of them getting married. Most people move in together to afford rent. I don't know why it is that you are against the concept of arranged marriage!!! If the love is as true as you claim then it shouldn't Matter weather you met at the mall or your parents put you two together. If it is true love it will never fade and persevere regardless. Majority of human feelings is based on attraction. And that is the point mina is trying to make. Attraction usually fades within 2 to 3 years not 10. And this point further gives credibility to arranged marriages. All you need to do is to look at the countries that are soooo obsessed with love and romance, look at the state of their marriages and relationships to invalidate your point. You claim that you are in a love marriage but it is heavily influenced by the more traditional values. And that is why your marriage has lasted as long as it has and also why you feel the so called love. These same values are upheld in arranged marriages. You are just brainwashed by Disney and Bollywood's idea of romance.
@Mrs.Graceqmri4 жыл бұрын
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@Theuniverseguru4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! you are so sweet.
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@georgec82103 жыл бұрын
Not many women cares about dating older or money. They rather date someone similar to them who is fun.
@28goldenboy3 жыл бұрын
Maybe, but when the fun is over they opt for older and with money. Women are hypergamous by default, if you don't believe this then you haven't been red pilled yet. Good luck.
@canesugar9112 жыл бұрын
What is the essence of fun?
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