Most men aren't the subject of unwanted sexual attention in every day settings so they don't understand how violating it can be. It puts women in a no-win situation, because they know their managers wouldn't take their side and that they wouldn't be able to stick up for themselves, without being accused of getting too emotional.
@sguraya72233 жыл бұрын
"Unwanted sexual attention". That sounds very entitled. No man can know whether their sexual attention is wanted or not, until AFTER they approach women. If women are not willing to approach men, do not complain about unwanted sexual attention. Im not talking about repeated pestering of course, but thats not what you said.
@SuperTabbat3 жыл бұрын
@@sguraya7223 Unwanted sexual attention is just that and natural. The fuck is wrong with you. That is my entitlement. YOU or any other male has no rights to me or my body period but y’all have this sense of entitlement as if you are owed any kind of response at all. Not interested means just that. Mind your business and leave folks alone.
@Leegendari2 жыл бұрын
@@sguraya7223 How ignorant are you?
@MichelleMotivateMe6 жыл бұрын
She really explains it well at 1:57 when she asks if you've been told you're too emotional. Most people who have not experienced sexual harassment don't understand this. They may have never experienced the powerlessness one feels when confronted with a comment from someone who holds power over you. They don't understand that it is emotional. They say things like, "Why are you taking it so personally?" or "Don't be so emotional. They don't get that sometimes speaking out and making complaints makes life much worse when the person you're complaining about has power over you. You could lose your job, your credibility, your husband may not believe you, your friends may think you're making a big deal out of nothing, other women may feel like you're just too sensitive and emotional because ALL women deal with this. Sexual harassment victims feel like they can't win no matter what... so they stay silent (and hide their emotion)... UNTIL NOW #PreventSexualHarassment #EncouragingEquityatWork #RespectinTheWorkplace
@user-qh3gz8ur5r3 жыл бұрын
Never to keep silence , some sick man will keep going ! Keep evidence !
@iloveoldschool8883 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this at work and now some of the female employees are spreading lies and rumors about me. They are 100% on the man side. I'm planning to leave the job as soon as I find something else.
@lucinacastillo73623 жыл бұрын
It's horrible how many woman blame woman for not speaking but no one knows what that woman went through during her childhood or teen years. They may have had sexual abuse and it hurts to speak about it and have to deal with this as an adult woman.
@LatashaTrueHeart6 жыл бұрын
Hard to concentrate on the discussion because memories of my own encounters with sexual harassment at work, reported and unreported, flooded my mind. It's a nightmare when it happens & a terror to experience the backlash when you complain but very little is done to eliminate it.
@multuminparvo56 жыл бұрын
Back when I was married, if I told my husband about it (wanting a male's advice on how to best deal with it), he would accuse me of causing it to happen and bring it up whenever he chose to physically assault me. I haven't heard people talking yet about the backlash that can happen at home and in the community, but it can happen there just like it does in the workplace.
@Asskicker146 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry what happened to you but good guys can also become victims of false allegations
@wisdom90916 жыл бұрын
LatashaTrueHeart I have yet to hear of one women actually losing her job after being proven false. so many of Cosby accusers like Chloe Goins are still being counted
@isacgarcia47376 жыл бұрын
LatashaTrueHeart If you got touched the wrong way contact the police because I wont and I can't.
@isacgarcia47376 жыл бұрын
multuminparvo5 You married to early
@pennsylvanianrrfoamer4 жыл бұрын
One of my last jobs at a supermarket, sexual harassment made the younger female cashiers feel on edge, mostly because of the creepier older guys. The express lane would have mostly older guys that looked creepy, and I referred to this line as the perv line. I would give the creepy guys the crossed arms and look of intimidation to scare them away. If I were the store manager, I wouldn't put up with it either and would probably end up banning a lot of these creepy older men, if they ever got on the wrong side. I would've particular banned a older guy who asked out one of the younger cashiers, who was a college student out for dinner. She politely declined, and this guy stood there and stared her down and gave her a menacing look on the way out. She was scared and a coworker ended up driving her home. As a PT sales associate, I didn't even have the authority to tell customers to leave the store, even though there were times where their behavior towards our female staff was unacceptable.
@ENFPerspectives2 жыл бұрын
It still happens A LOT! SMH. This world stinks
@abendiaye33306 жыл бұрын
HR works for the employer, so they will have bias. Eventually, your employer will find an excuse to fire you for reporting the sexual harassment. The best thing to do is to file a police report because that is a sworn statement and a legal document. Then quit your job and seek legal counsel to sue your employer and/or the perpetrator.
@Mslovely426 жыл бұрын
Abe Ndiaye Avia A real company will do a thorough investigation if a job fires you for that that's retaliation and they can get sued for that... So that's likely not going to happen
@ChristineJairaSilva4 жыл бұрын
:(
@tsmith35222 жыл бұрын
Can't quit my job. Need to pay the rent.
@suemarie60324 жыл бұрын
It's bad enough that it happens, but when you have to stay silent to keep your reputation and job and keep working in an unhealthy environment, I'm sure it takes it's toll. I thought when the RCMP had the big scandal a couple years ago and the MeToo movement started taking off, it would change, but apparently not. I'm watching W5's The Tarnished Badge and the police force is still very toxic. What irks me more is the NDA's. That only silences the parties, it doesn't fix the problem but rather allows it to continue. I am sure many above and around Cosby, Weinstein,, Moonves,... knew what was going on, so they should be held accountable too. Then maybe things would change. What a disgusting world we live in.
@mydiamondstunna43266 жыл бұрын
Wow, I'm happy more women are coming forward and speaking up about workplace harassments, and other misconducts. I live and work in Canada. I went through 1 year of Sexual harassmenst, bullying, harassments, retaliation and discrimination with my previous employer. I file complains with HR and they said they would investigate it, but nothing became of it. This was my full-time job and my only means of income, and I was injured on the job, so I was on W.S.I.B (workplace safety and insurance board) who was taking care of my Physio Therapy sessions....etc and on top of that I was dismiss from my job, because I couldn't work the way I use to anymore, so I was useless. Some may say, why didn't you get a Lawyer and fight your employer, it's easier said than done. Lawyers are hours in Canada, so I would have to pay $300+ for consultation + $300+ hours. In USA Lawyers are flexible and they work on contengences, hours.....etc It's tough being a victim and it's tough going up against cooperations..
@paomon763 жыл бұрын
I am going through this now here is n Canada where to go and what to do? 😭😭 no support
@suek36236 жыл бұрын
Its hard because the justice system and law enforcement do not help us victims of sexual assault they just brush it off which is disgraceful and tgey should be fired
@redfather53424 жыл бұрын
Fuck you mean the law don't help you do you know how many innocent men their are in jail
@anti_fragile4 жыл бұрын
@@redfather5342 last i heard, only 2% of sexual assault cases are false. do you care more about the 2% of false cases than the 98% of true cases.
@redfather53424 жыл бұрын
@@anti_fragile you have any evidence to support your case
@musheer57113 жыл бұрын
You said the law enforcement does not help. Can you please explain more ?.
@Leegendari2 жыл бұрын
@@redfather5342 What the fucks your problem?
@kadellyman32286 жыл бұрын
Sounds like hiring women has become a liability.
@tvang20396 жыл бұрын
Fuck you
@isacgarcia47376 жыл бұрын
Edgar the corgi Why does ery one asume the women wanted it then didn't
@cervix76676 жыл бұрын
+isac u really believe all these stories?...gimme a break -_-
@suemick87096 жыл бұрын
Perhaps hiring men is a liability.
@bigwolf-ts3ht6 жыл бұрын
@@suemick8709 when your comeback makes absolutely no sense and fails 😭😭
@lightscameraalana6 жыл бұрын
I have a EEOC case date March 20 because of the sexual harassment I endure at the USPS but as many may know no lawyer in NC will take a case against the Federal USPS ☹️ I’m going to document my situation so other women can know how to represent themselves in a EEOC
@AuthorTolu25 жыл бұрын
Author Tolu2 , "There are more laws longer to protect animals than females"
@tammyatkins61015 жыл бұрын
Well men need to start reporting women who are harrassing they do it too
@manitro337 Жыл бұрын
Solution? Seperate men and women? No more harrasement? Better performance from everyone? Yes? Why don't they do it? I would bet all my money that the reason behind mixing boys and girls in schools, men and women in offices, are purely political and social engeneering driven.
@rupertsplinge60826 жыл бұрын
When I took to wearing shorts in a Hospital as a general Porter, I was subjected to sexual taunts on a daily basis, from a lot of female staff members some of which seemed to think it was appropriate to pinch and stroke my legs. I was subjected to derogatory remarks from the nursing staff and female patients. I shrugged it off as any man would. I had no wish to make political capital of it. It is impossible to for a man to judge what is and what is not appropriate when dealing with women in the work place. .
@kelleyconsultingfirm96854 жыл бұрын
Actually, it may be more than 60% of women experiencing sexual harassment in the workplace. Sexual harassment is one of the least reported prohibited conduct in the workplace. We conduct investigations and training on sexual harassment. Review our services at www.kellleyconsultingfirm.com
@vango43073 жыл бұрын
Smash the patriarchry..
@sguraya72233 жыл бұрын
The patriarchy is the reason you have most of the luxuries in your life
@vango43073 жыл бұрын
@@sguraya7223 and the patriarchy is the reason all murdered women and children and men aren't able to enjoy those luxuries. Ill trade all the luxuries in the world if the trade off would be for the patriarchy to die and just have ALL humans working g together.
@sguraya72233 жыл бұрын
@@vango4307 Murdered women, children, and men, are not the result of the patriarchy. And the great degree of liberty and safety (yknow, the very thing that minimizes murdered women, children, and men) that we enjoy in this society is also a direct result of a semi-patriarchal system (although the only society that falls under patriarchy in the truest sense of the world would be the Republic of Rome, and maybe Victorian England). Patriarchy tends to correlate heavily with safety in a society. While the more motherly a society becomes, the more disenfranchised the young men (a la Taxi Driver) and the more anti-social they become, snd then the more violent they become. Obviously patriarchy has its own set of flaws, as matriarchy does too, but neither should be smashed, it makes more sense to maintain a balance between the two because thats the type of society our minds are best wired to function in.
@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr25596 жыл бұрын
Not sure about the US, but assault in other Common Law jurisdictions doesn't have to involve physical contact, ie. even a threat of physical contact counts as assault.
@Sultanapopy2 жыл бұрын
I did not get justice in Bangladesh, rather after filing physical harassment case corrupted criminals Hv filed 6 false cases, sent me to jail on the counter false case, threatened me to kill and now am out of home since 3 yrs!
@marshacreary97716 жыл бұрын
I'm glad that open dialogue has finally being used
@sanfran19766 жыл бұрын
I know of a co-worker who saw me looking at her engagement ring and removed it right before my eyes as she looked me in them. Am i not supposed to believe thats not what that looked like? I didn't hit on her because i saw it but what about the next person? She took the ring off and this seemed to be what was going on with her and the company was already riddled with all kinds of sexual harassment allegations where they had to have training on it every few months. But did i really see that? Im not about feminism either life male/ female evolved together and thats scientific fact. No need for anyone to have a battle of the sexes.
@atvaughn94024 жыл бұрын
In order to be sexual harassment it has to be Severe OR Pervasive AND create a hostile work environment OR be a quid pro quo - this for that. You’re fine to hit on your perverted coworkers one time. It’s when it becomes about intimidation that it becomes a problem, or you just won’t stop.
@ravichandel86905 жыл бұрын
Predator or sex hunter
@sessiakojenu48296 жыл бұрын
Sexual harassment exists in every industry, even within the law profession.
@robertyoungblood28266 жыл бұрын
Re: Sexual Harassment; Being referred to as a "girl, doll, babe or honey" is not necessarily a bad thing. A female boss once put her hand on the small of my back and I felt like "Oh, she's looking for a date after work"! Without words it was established that I bareley acknowledged this and I just kept working without incident or further persuit. Women that I don't even know have called me "honey, sweetheart, sugar, etc" at the local Dollar General. The problem is eventualized on any side of the coin when the fear of losing your job is implied if a date etc is refused. The question becomes "How do you meet someone inside the workplace? I suppose the answer is "by being a gentleman", that way the mutual respect is not lost. Once mutual respect is established then you may have a chance at a date! R. Youngblood
@tsmith35222 жыл бұрын
It is scary.
@dexterakaalonelysoldier79556 жыл бұрын
Some women don’t mind using wha they got to move up, y’all are hurting that group of women by complaining of sexual harassment
@lancelove97006 жыл бұрын
i work at home so...
@DavidDavid-ie1zl6 жыл бұрын
The prostitution trade in the United States is estimated to generate $14 billion a year. A 2012 report by Fondation Scelles indicated that there were an estimated 1 million prostitutes in the U.S.
@Leegendari2 жыл бұрын
And?
@yoshitthis21892 жыл бұрын
PLSSSSS GOOD MORNING ON WHAT TO DO HERE: IVE STARTED MY CAREER A YEAR LATER A GUY WAS HIRED CANT STOP LOOKING AT ME, HE FOLLOWS ME TO THE BATH OFF BREAKK, ENDORSEMENT NAMES, HE TURNED INTO MY BOSS WEEKS LATER HE MOVED WORK WHEN I WAS GONNA QUIT AND REPORT HIM. WHEN I DID MY DON RETALIATE ME NOW ITS HARD FOR ME TO FIND WORK…
@rohankurian56412 жыл бұрын
Ask #Ford !!! He knows!!!
@jacquelinelumpkinnonamecha51686 жыл бұрын
Going through sexual Harassment on and off jobs lost jobs,closed my Business Owner of Jj cleaning services. Small Business Owner ,after Katrina here in New Orleans La. went to city hall they knew nothing about the person or persons who closed my Business ?? Jacqueline Lumpkin Business Owner and also worked another job to have Benefits working Mom now Blacklisted here in New Orleans La. 70131 No Employment Had To Stop Driving my Car reported threats to media and police ,wrote the white house .also switching the food out of my Refrigerator and Freezer it's the Holidays and the Attacks are Daily !! have a Gift Wrote pastors about the Gift of Inventions.
@carldameron6 жыл бұрын
“Increadable pattern of bad behavior according to all these women”. Wow way to deflate their reports.
@heftyalan11526 жыл бұрын
Depends if you are talking about touching and assault which would be an offence or bad jokes and banter because when you include the latter it makes a mockery of the whole issue.
@suemick87096 жыл бұрын
Hefty Alan, how would you rank the following? Young married woman joyfully expecting her first very wanted baby . Another woman in my department also happens to be pregnant. Hearing a company man referring to both of us as 'good breeders'. I personally was disgusted and did my best to track this troll down to confront him. I didn't ever find him at his desk. I'm now a grandmother and I still remember this short ugly troll.
@laurie94524 жыл бұрын
speak up
@jacquelinelumpkinnonamecha51686 жыл бұрын
Harassed Because of Gift Ms, Jacqueline Lumpkin From New Orleans La. 70131 we have a new mayor here!!
@lagunasoroco3 жыл бұрын
Ha ha ha, what a joke. It was happening to them under their noses.
@vango43073 жыл бұрын
At 5:33 is the real solution
@eugenayoum41823 жыл бұрын
This is sad
@aboxing51033 жыл бұрын
I bet if it's a prime Brad Pit it's not sexual harassment 😆.
@alexanderarnold48104 жыл бұрын
Some possibly use "Sexual Harassment" and other "Lawsuits" to Money Launder Money to and from one another(s).
@mikeydrum58506 жыл бұрын
For the most of it, if its just compliments and such, people need to get over it, you'll find that anywhere else in the world its called "Flirting" look it up. but if it's prolonged and uncomfortable then i see the problem but just let people know and stand your ground if your a women.
@stavroulafotopoulou35823 жыл бұрын
Baby girl doll...exactly
@Leegendari2 жыл бұрын
What???
@manarcsaid22356 жыл бұрын
I got my co worker fired cuz I couldn’t take it anymore and told another co worker and he told the boss and I feel so bad because that was his source of income and he has a baby , ugh I feel horrible
@isacgarcia47376 жыл бұрын
OmG WHy woUld SAy sOmeThInG LiKE ThaT Troll
@manarcsaid22356 жыл бұрын
Isac Garcia I’m being fr
@Mslovely426 жыл бұрын
OmG WHy woUld SAy sOmeThInG LiKE ThaT well he didn't give a s*** about his job if he thought he could harass someone without getting in trouble
@katiatannus31466 жыл бұрын
Dont feel horrible. He didn't give a shit about his job, so he got fired.
@bluliite5 жыл бұрын
Obviously didn't care that much about his child. His own fault.
@francismausley72394 жыл бұрын
Most difficult to speak out... "Thou art even as a finely tempered sword concealed in the darkness of its sheath and its value hidden from the artificer’s knowledge. Wherefore come forth from the sheath of self and desire that thy worth may be made resplendent and manifest unto all the world." ~ Baha'u'llah, Baha'i Faith
@tammyatkins61015 жыл бұрын
Go after SPORTS illustrated playboy ect they dont mind laying it down for the mags
@daboys12155 жыл бұрын
If they are getting money for it.........
@lljtiny6 жыл бұрын
Well is this just men that harass? Women also look for advantages by bating men! What the hell do companies have human resources for if not to make timely complains to stop this immediately. Many start with daddy and by sweet talking him to do something for them early in life.
@RLMUD6 жыл бұрын
I don't see the problem!!!
@leojanuszewski10196 жыл бұрын
So women value the one job they have over being free of harassment?
@outsidesmoking98056 жыл бұрын
Damn. I've lost count of the times I've been propositioned at work over the years, and every time it stopped immediately when I told them to knock it off. Speak up, problem solved.
@bluliite5 жыл бұрын
I spoke up. Problem was not solved. And you may solve it for yourself but they'll do it someone else. It needs to stop completely. It doesn't need to be there.
@aliceturnbull23686 жыл бұрын
it’s only sexual harassment when the guy is unattractive but if it were a good looking guy calling you sweetheart it’d be a totally different story. It’s all about preference. Conundrum 🙄
@pinkgal2064 жыл бұрын
lol stfu
@Leegendari2 жыл бұрын
Alice Turnbull, thats the stupidest thing ive ever heard
@nikhilh69894 жыл бұрын
now these nonsense things doing in media and all..waste of time and making more discriminative nature..if woman touch man it's ok, if man touches woman in office means doing discussions like this?..is it required?..foolish humans..
@dat_kombat_boii4 жыл бұрын
Lol who cares
@Leegendari2 жыл бұрын
I do.
@kadellyman32286 жыл бұрын
Lame....
@Leegendari2 жыл бұрын
How?
@stevereed87866 жыл бұрын
This is why women should follow address code. Men and women should be separated at work. 83% of women claim sexual attack or harassment? That means every man is a predator and every women is a victim.
@bluliite5 жыл бұрын
We have a dress code. Polo and black pants. I don't have a problem making work about work and not saying or doing sexual things towards men. If men can't handle a work place, the women shouldn't have to pay for that too.
@bluliite5 жыл бұрын
Funny thing is that all men in a workplace don't harass women or say inappropriate things. It's just certain ones.
@richwhiteboii29836 жыл бұрын
Hairesment
@Dreamdancer116 жыл бұрын
Sexual harassment is basically sexual advances from men you dont like....if you like them, then it becomes flattering and romantic....so in a nutshell the crime someone does is not being attractive enough..or powerful enough or rich enough for your tastes....once again....almost everything a woman says is just feelings.
@bluliite5 жыл бұрын
The crap scenarios some people come up with. If a woman likes a man it doesn't mean she's okay with him acting inappropriately, especially at work, and it may even kill the attraction and she will wisely change her mind.
@nikhilh69894 жыл бұрын
harassment comes only in women not men..that is also in beautiful women not ugly..change Ur think women..it's nature to touch and grab women..
@pinkgal2064 жыл бұрын
Lol wtf
@nikhilh69894 жыл бұрын
Pink Gal u are ugly😂😂
@God.sDaughter4 жыл бұрын
Nikhil H You’re saying it’s Oky to touch women at work? What’s wrong with you?
@nikhilh69894 жыл бұрын
Mary I am not wrong, women there are wrong..now corona came don't worry be safe in house you all women, instead of doing all these nonsense dramas..bcoz men are predators in women mind there..idiots..
@SuperTabbat3 жыл бұрын
It’s nature for me to throw hot grease on a perv......
@surfingtytullwebbrowing14166 жыл бұрын
stop going to work with make up n sexy dress attention