Why You Can't Figure Out What to Do With Your Life
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12 жыл бұрынThis is from an old project that has changed directions, but too many friends have insisted I still make it publicly available. If you feel it does some good--pass it along! @msnoziskova www.whitneynoziskova.com
This link is for follow-up video that response to a question I got in the comments: • Q&A Response: Figuring...
@abdelraouftria4247 8 жыл бұрын
What i do with my life is sitting in my room thinking for hours trying to figure out what the hell to do with my life. It has been driving me insane! I can't seem to identify my goals. I also have a very poor social life and not many friends. And im soo jealous of other people's lifes. I already know that sitting here won't help me and I just want to change things SO bad but I don't even know what the hell I want. I just DON'T KNOW. I am getting more and more depressed.
@romanfox5368 8 жыл бұрын
+Abdelraouf Tria no doubt.
@RomaniaDeAzi 8 жыл бұрын
+Abdelraouf Tria I failed college 2 times by now and now I am on the 3rd time... I don;t know what to do with my life, I tried everything that there is to try the thing is that every small bump in the road makes me come crushing down like a meteor on earth...
@romanfox5368 8 жыл бұрын
gaby161290 I feel you. I'm thinking of becoming a truck driver and just giving up on life.
@RomaniaDeAzi 8 жыл бұрын
becoming a truck driver is giving up on life? lol...
@abdelraouftria4247 8 жыл бұрын
Im still thinking what to do with my life.. I don't either work or go to school now..
@FocusReborn44 10 жыл бұрын
I get bored easily. Doesn't matter what I do with my life. I eventually get bored.
@ImNotAfk 10 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@videoaks007 10 жыл бұрын
same here ...i dont know how to get rid of it.
@richhowes5278 10 жыл бұрын
videoaks007 If you're like me, you get bored easily because life can be boring in general. My solution was to travel. I saw how close people came to death in their lives (though that experience was not the plan) no food sometimes and no social security etc. Gave me a new perspective. Of course, travel afar is not something we can all do, but there are alternatives like volunteering down the local hospital. Think of the most alien way of life accessible to you... after experience, you'll see things differently, perhaps you'll invent something to help people; perhaps seeing your life from outside, you'll see the obstacles to success that when right in front of you, were too close to get your head around.
@oscar1987zp 10 жыл бұрын
there is nothing exciting in my life and yes I get bored easily,yes what just said is entirely true
@aprillilgreedy 10 жыл бұрын
i got bored watching this.
@gillman4201 9 жыл бұрын
finding what you want to do in life is easy. the problem is when your passion isn't paying the bills and may never pay the bills. then you have to figure out a plan b aka what is something that I don't want to do with my life that I can do the rest of my life. If an actor never gets that big break and are not good enough, then what do they do? see what im getting at? same with artist, writers, singers, dancers, ect ect our plan b is something we are forced to do for money despite not wanting to do it.
@gillman4201 9 жыл бұрын
great advice.
@gillman4201 8 жыл бұрын
***** exactly!
@gillman4201 8 жыл бұрын
well said. thank you
@lavmil3 8 жыл бұрын
why does she look happy while saying this
@davinaetwaroo 9 жыл бұрын
I've watched nearly every video on "finding your purpose," "finding your calling," etc. and this was the ONLY ONE I found that was practical, realistic, and blunt. It also made me feel a lot better since I've had a wide variety of work experiences and people try to make me feel bad about my "lack of stability" and not finding a "real career." I suppose now it's just a matter of reflecting on my past experience and analyzing my likes and dislikes. I will continue to give new opportunities a try and ask more questions. This video was very helpful and motivational for me! Thank you so much.
@ImanAliHussein 8 жыл бұрын
+Davina Etwaroo It was a great vid, especially the part about talking to other people in the industries/roles you may be interested in. I have definitely been spending too much time behind Google trying to find the answers. Actually what you find is most people feel good about being consulted with.
@WebDeva7 8 жыл бұрын
I stopped around the 3 minute mark. I can't figure out what to do with my life not because I do not have enough exposure or information, but because I have such a cornucopia of ideas that I could feast my all the days of my life and still become an expert at none. I want to start a KZfaq talk show but can't narrow it down to a single topic I started and stopped blogging I started (and failed) at a digital marketing company I tried (and failed) at affiliate marketing Sold insurance, did hair, made jewelry, finished a degree, and still I have no frigging clue what I want to do for more than 2 minutes at a time. So for the last 2 years I have done nothing. It feels weird. I'm stagnate, but also afraid of jumping into something new that will eventually fail, as have so many of my past projects.
@RomaniaDeAzi 8 жыл бұрын
+WebDeva7 same here it took me 3 months to make some shelves in my room for my bike that took me another 8 months to buy and 3 to ride.... I am lost....
@FranPetraroli 9 жыл бұрын
Sorry but this apply to young people only, i'm 32 and i had 43 jobs in the last 12 years ranging from factory workers, sales, hospitality, logistic, outdoor, indoor, office, manual jobs....her's the truth: some people just don't enjoy work! they will never find what doesn't exist, the best option is to find a job that require the least amount of effort, basically getting pay to do nothing (yes there are such jobs if you look for it an example is night security guard in hotels)
@lv-426devasher6 6 жыл бұрын
I’ve had a few well-paying jobs and I do Security in the hood now. I work with the police, making it exciting. Many people do not realize the different levels of security work. I treat it as a career. If you get into management, salary positions pay very well. There is cyber-security, investigative security, personal body guard security, insurance security, tactical security contracts abroad, or working for Home Land Security. I’ve got a a degree in Criminal Justice and my prospects are limitless. A night security guard is a good way to get your foot in the door. It also leaves your day open for training, school, & networking.
@yannicknixon479 7 жыл бұрын
This is so true. I thought i was going to be a fashion designer since i was a kid coz i like fashion, i asked a designer if i can intern for him part time for free. Ofcourse he said yes, i spent 3 months there and i just didn't think it is something that i wanna do my whole life, i thought there was something that i am more into than designing. After 3 month i told the designer that i was trying to find out if i really like designing and i stopped going there and pursued something else that i felt like i was into again. Still searching but it is worth it. You don't want to go to college to be a doctor and graduate and end up having the shittiest days of your life working with all that stress even tho the pay can be good. Happiness is everything, money is just paper sometimes. The happiest people do what they love, be good at it and find a way to make a living doing it. They don't do things for the money.
@mos2574 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this ♡
@nelsonhue4426 7 жыл бұрын
Money kills love.
@comentadoraification 10 жыл бұрын
Great advice, this is the point: Stop thinking start doing.
@brianandrade6770 8 жыл бұрын
Why are you struggling to figure out what to do with your life? That's a GOOD thing! You're thinking! You're not being a sheep(a follower) who's under public influence or in the want to "FIT IN". Success is not measured by Wealth, Social Class or Materialism but rather finding inner peace within yourself. Know Thy Self. Whatever draws to you POSITIVELY, chase after it. Life is a a College/University itself as we continue to GROW and LEARN everyday by our experiences. Remember, before you plan on going after a certain goal. It's important to know yourself. It's ok take your time. Don't let the media or society define WHO you are. This planet is for everyone to enjoy. One Love!
@codyraschella5133 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Simply thank you. This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear. Reassurance. I think we already know the answers sometimes but it's nice to hear it from others. So thank you. You've helped me more than you know.
@shamitgaming4499 10 жыл бұрын
Am almost 25, and I still have no idea what I want to do with my life. Everybody I know is in college and is about to graduate and everyone thinks am a loser because I don't have a college degree.
@jjsiegal1 10 жыл бұрын
Start taking Jobs....IN A FIELD You "Like!" Get any Job...and try it out. You can always quit. Get experience at something...make it in a field or industry that you are interested in.
@dasbill59 10 жыл бұрын
I was almost the same way but I'm glad I stayed busy as crap during those years. I mean I just took this job when I graduated from HS at 17 and it was called an electrician with the Air National Guard which immediately led me to the United States Air Force for many years. I was too busy building a career to think about much else. Everyone is different though with different goals and weaknesses. I am not totally happy with what I do now because of burn out but I have a back up plan. Truly, this video sums it up very nicely exactly how the major part of the real world works when it comes to not having a degree, not being lazy, not having an attitude about this video production, and taking your life in your own hands and getting the skills, contacts, etc, on your side so at least to be on a payroll somewhere and eat. There's more to it than that of course but it starts with a spark inside of you. And it helps to talk to someone at a technical school, college, university, career guidance counselor in HS, but someone who gives a crap. Some do and some don't. Find one. Ask around. No one should continue to be uncomfortable with their situation in the greatest nation on the planet. Ever!
@AGolstonT 7 жыл бұрын
I think it's a shame that we feel that we HAVE TO do something with our lives. Wouldn't it be great to just have the complete freedom to just live your life?
@stevekenton6393 9 жыл бұрын
You say to go out into the world and talk to the people that work in the industries that interest me...where would I do that then? Its not like I can just walk into a shop and ask to see the manager and then ask for a list of pro's and con's regarding his/her job, so where do I talk to all these wonderful, friendly and helpful people???
@specialagentA 8 жыл бұрын
Asking questions and seeing what it's really like makes so much sense for me. Sitting by myself in my room trying to decide what I want to do without any real life experience or information is impossible.
@ishianmalaki4671 10 жыл бұрын
Hi! nice video quite a lots of common sense. Ok I am 47yrs old, I lived on 3 different continents, 5 different countries, I had 4 different jobs and... I still don't know what I wish to do when I will be a grown up...
@heartshapedsoul 9 жыл бұрын
Sadly, this was not of any help, it only made me really frustrated. :/
@MrRacerboy1 9 жыл бұрын
***** well there is some truth in the comment. People watch these videos and expect to get an answer on what they should and want to do with their life. But i think the only person that can answer this question is yourself. Imagina what you would do if money would not matter and then get (if possible a good) education or a job in that field. I love language learning and i want to travel the world so i study chinese. I love the decision i made a year ago but i am just 19 years old so my opinion is not very sophisticated. But i read almost all books from Brian Tracy and he was a great help!
@heartshapedsoul 9 жыл бұрын
***** I did take some steps into the right direction :-)
@heartshapedsoul 9 жыл бұрын
Bobby Watson What? What are you referring to?
@heartshapedsoul 9 жыл бұрын
Bobby Watson I see you're having fun trolling and being rude. Have nice day.
@heartshapedsoul 9 жыл бұрын
Bobby Watson I'm not trolling.
@aggkriti13 8 жыл бұрын
goosebumps !! this is real.
@kohjiwada4757 6 жыл бұрын
It is not just my life that matters. It is what happens after my life that matters.
@ss4vegeta1 10 жыл бұрын
I agree 100% with this video, only for some people they need to find out what it is before they go exploring. That can be very difficult if nothing is attractive.
@settyg 8 жыл бұрын
I think this is really valuable information. The fact that some of us freeze up and stop seeking information, new experiences, talking to people (in such a digital world) is so true in my case.
@abitterwind 6 жыл бұрын
Not helpful for people like me who are in their 30s, went to college, have had a myriad of jobs (including all the jobs that I once thought were my dream job, so I went and tried them out for a few years) and I feel even more lost in my mid 30s than I felt in my early 20s. Because after tons of experience in various industries, fields, countless mentors, therapy, self-help books, starting 3 businesses, freelancing, you name it and I've done it... this whole "you haven't lived enough" is good food for thought for very young people, but not for regular mortals tbh
@amanagarwal1939 8 жыл бұрын
"you don't have enough information" Subscribed. People think they can figure out thier life purpose in 5 min. This is worse than not knowing your purpose. Expose yourself to the point that it's just become obvious to you. Be patient and healthy.
@andyliaw8496 6 жыл бұрын
Instead of just interviewing people about things you want to do, i think the better way is to try things you might be interested in directly, the only downside is that it takes time.
@deericcio3379 7 жыл бұрын
I think I have had near on 40 jobs in my life! LOL , my conclusion the hard way is that I need to own my own business or be self employed ..which I have done . I get bored easy too ..so now I do a combination of things, companion care, I do errands and help people with things like shopping and cooking, I pet sit and walk dogs and I make soy candles ! Just have fun , no rules that every one has to be punch in punch out 9 to 5 ..and you can do more than one thing ! Life is short !
@gohighhustle 10 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Whitney! This video really helped me. I was in the middle of an existential crisis and, as simple as your message was, and it's something that I've known subconsciously, it really helped to hear someone else say it; get out there and get some experience! You're great, thank you :)
@xpmark1 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Whitney.Good job getting your point across.I agree with you.Not enough information and that happens by not taking action, just thinking and hoping something will come to mind that is absolutely certain to work for you.Its the "absolute certainty" party that keeps you in your head without taking action.Like you said, you have to get in the real world and take some action trying things out.You wont find that certainty, one way or the other until you take action.
@Gfabe 10 жыл бұрын
Lots of good advice in your video, thanks for the help!
@iyer5 9 жыл бұрын
This video is very very helpful! It is true that most of us do not know what activities or things will make our life more meaningful! I agree with Whitney where she says 'Ask Questions'!! There are lot of things that we can learn about by asking questions! if the answers are appealing, then why not go that path?? For me, life is all about surviving! If u have survived for a day, a min, its ur achievement! The human race had moved so forward because our forefathers survived. While you are surviving, you should do all those things dat pleases you! There may b many things that can give u happiness! Do not stop exploring!! Thanks Whitney for this! Lets start asking Questions, Let us explore
@ethanmorris7161 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for talking about the thing nobody ever talks about! It was inspiring.
@mklnelson77 7 жыл бұрын
I just got up and wrote "what do I want" on my whiteboard. Then I wrote "what do I want to create?" following that thought, I decided I will still cut hair here in town bc I love it and I get to talk to cool people; on my free time I will do more photography for now bc it gets me outside. I love nature and I love to add my two sense in here and there so maybe I will be an editor.....
@min0502y 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this nice talk. I have needed to hear something like this since a long time ago. You have got me thinking in more open way for my future and present. Have a great day for you and everybody :)
@blacksheep806 10 жыл бұрын
Great video, thanks for this! Made me to really think about my life and what do I want from it.
@matthewo4391 8 жыл бұрын
I like playing football and drums I am quite good at both, I dont like speaking to mass groups of people. I dont like doing mathematical activities. I have been watching other peoples life and seeing how they are loving life when I am in search of mine. I listen to motivation videos but not know how to act apon it. I am not lonely I have many friends, I am 14 years old I speak Spanish and English. (I was born in Argentina and have lived their for a bit but I now live in the UK).
@skankwave5245 9 жыл бұрын
You often have to compromise between the 9-5 job and what you really wanna do. Not many jobs are peoples true passions
@badzula93 8 жыл бұрын
I'm not in school but I do work at Starbucks. Sometimes it drives me crazy and other days it's really awesome. Just gotta find balance. I plan on volunteering and then joining the peace corps within a year or two. I'm not depressed anymore, I'm just not doing anything interesting to the common human. Haha.! Hopefully you all find something!
@ThePiscesHero 8 жыл бұрын
great video, I definetly feel I was sheltered and didn't try things. I've narrowed a few things but not 100% about those career paths even after talking with them, super skeptical.
@dasbill59 10 жыл бұрын
I like your basic approach. It is true what you suggest and if those who do not know where to start or how to start, this should help guide them some. But don't stop there. To find your calling then a person will need many insightful tools. This is a very good basic kickstart. And Whitney, you seem to have a wonderful soul and I like your sincerety. Super job!
@souravbhattacharya4968 6 жыл бұрын
I guess I know what I wanted to become but the truth is I found that I'm horrible at it. So now I am lost and there is nothing else I can do.
@RadicalAwesomeness 10 жыл бұрын
I call bullshit. Why would i ever get paid for doing something I like?
@trishankuuknahsirt1872 7 жыл бұрын
Something I needed to hear. Great Video, Thanks!
@AbbyliciouzChannel 9 жыл бұрын
She makes soo much sense. Thumbs up
@MrCageCat 7 жыл бұрын
This is me: I went and studied graphic design (as my parents wished) after matriculating in 1998, and now I find myself, at 37 years old, stuck in a small town, with only the skill sets in a field I'm not really that interested in. No idea what else I really want to do as I've been doing design for 13 years now. Feel trapped, with no way out 😔
@BellaDiary 8 жыл бұрын
LOVE THIS!
@jeanlanz2344 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I am going to pass this on to my children. God bless
@YuniorGamboa 10 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advice Witney
@Onmysheet 9 жыл бұрын
Good video. You explained this from heart.
@jimdavis8391 10 жыл бұрын
There is no solution because there is no problem.
@hipchik30 9 жыл бұрын
Great insight. Thank you!
@angzpas 7 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful. Thank you so much!
@alikatth4696 8 жыл бұрын
My college shut down, I know have a $10,000 debt I can't pay and my job that I've had for a year and a half fired me for someone else they can pay less. I've lost my love for that career and have no idea what to do with my life anymore. I've known what I've wanted for my entire life since I was 8, and now I'm so lost.
@mos2574 7 жыл бұрын
That's horrible I hope everything works out , although everything will get better it'll take time but some day you'll be with a family of your own in a nice house with a nice car and you'll be happy and look back at these struggles and realise it was all worth it x
@theconcerncitizenphp7965 7 жыл бұрын
Im already 25, but still I dont like what im doing now. my ambition is to become an artist. but my family dont want it, instead of helping me to encourage me but, I felt descouragement, today i endrolled to my course which I dont like, I dont have a passion on it...I pursuing it just to have a college degree but still so hard to accept coz its none of my plan to take this course,, thats why until now, I cant find things which makes me happy which I could apply my passion on it.,,so hard thats why everthing that I done,which makes me force to do that, and I felt depress,
@nickrousseau2888 11 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this. I've just recently graduated university and still have no idea what I want to do. A lot of what you said described be perfectly, and I do recognize the shame I have about 'not knowing'. I definitely need to get out there more, so thank you for making me feel like I"m 'normal'.
@iscariotproject 10 жыл бұрын
excellent video its pretty much sums up alot of my current situation.
@whitneynoziskova 11 жыл бұрын
If you like doing a lot of different things, sometimes the mastery part comes when/if you can put all those things together... Glad this prompted you to investigate what some of your options are!
@bradschooner4918 8 жыл бұрын
Im 42 had all the experience in many industries talked to people in all different industries, and I still don't know what I need to do. So in my experience what you saying is invalid.
@MelissaGarza 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 42 and I may need to do some more asking perhaps. Still nothing seems to be a good fit.
@belli9281 6 жыл бұрын
This helped a bit im stressing out and getting depressed each day thinking abt what my career should be. At least this will get me started on something usefull thanks.
@vinterwn2946 7 жыл бұрын
Whitney you are a very kind woman
@ameiamber6528 9 жыл бұрын
This was very good advice, thanks
@whitneynoziskova 11 жыл бұрын
Hi Nick, Yes, you are definitely normal! The few people who really really know exactly what they want to do are the far more abnormal! Glad it helped!
@victoriaoshea4865 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your Vlog this makes sense!
@cloudydike5268 9 жыл бұрын
Real problem is my passion won't support my family, so l need to create another dream which definitely earn myself enough money, but what do l do if I don't like It? I want to find reasons to make it interesting for me so that l don't have to be all frustrated whenever l do it.
@superduperfreakyDj 8 жыл бұрын
Yes!! I feel the same. I am so torn between living a comfortable life with wife and kids or doing the job I love but not being able to provide!!
@WriteSpeaker 8 жыл бұрын
+Piemelon Trump Most of us do both. :-)
@DreamStuffed 10 жыл бұрын
I'm kind of uneasy about taking a job just for the experience because I feel I could be lying in the interview about my objectives. I mean, if I say "I dunno, I'm just figuring it out", I don't think I'm gonna get hired. Also, I'm not very comfortable with lying. The job I'm talking about in particular is not my favourite thing to do, but I've never experimented with it in a work place.
@lucasbell2344 7 жыл бұрын
Great video with great common sence advice.
@meganshea5718 7 жыл бұрын
I'm literally an incoming senior in high school and this is so accurate for me
@eranbenavraham 6 жыл бұрын
I want to point out it's not true in my case what you say. No disrespect. I am 45yo. I have travelled to 125 countries, lived in 14. I have had so many jobs, it's not funny. I've worked in all areas from painting statues to customer service to teaching English to working in hospitality to working in travel to working for government to design to IT to acting to working in sales and the list goes on. I kid you not. At 45 I still have no idea what I want in life. It's not because of a lack of travel or Information or ignorance, it's the opposite for me. I also speak 7 languages and have two nationalities. I disagree with you on your theory. Thank you for posting this video.
@carbonharmonics 9 жыл бұрын
Thankyou Whitney :)
@MrApplewine 7 жыл бұрын
4:54 What makes you think they are going to like their job as much as you want to like your job. They probably don't.
@haperfarter 7 жыл бұрын
I am looking to switch my major from exercise science to art, liberal studies or communications. Who should I shadow?
@chocoboasylum 10 жыл бұрын
Well money's nice to have, but it doesn't take away the frustration of being trapped in a job which doesn't interest you merely for the sake of making money. The people telling you to get a steady job are worried that your business might not take off, but how will you know unless you try it?
@whitneynoziskova 12 жыл бұрын
Great! Kudos to you for taking action--that's 9/10 of the battle (but alas, doesn't prevent it from sometimes being a looong battle). "Passion" is such a heavy word... let's drop it and start thinking about what sounds like plain old fun... as in, someone suggests to you an afterschool activity-- (whale watching, beta testing a new technology, researching trilobites) what would make your eyes light up and say without hesitation, "oh MY gosh, that sounds like **so much fun**!!"
@gog455 6 жыл бұрын
Save time and play at 1.5 speed
@tonymioni5197 9 жыл бұрын
Very helpful. Thanks
@prashanthari92 8 жыл бұрын
AWWW Thank you so much Whitney. I just wanted to say two things. Firstly this video has been super useful to me and secondly you are fucking gorgeous :)
@ss4vegeta1 7 жыл бұрын
I already did this and I am getting no where. Its great advise but to be honest it SUPER sucks when you already been through college and you have these questions and your area is saturated or there is no opportunities near you or after like 10 years you dont have an answer. Especially the fact that every company wants a 10 year up the ass credentialed individual.
@geot4647 9 жыл бұрын
How do you know the people you might happen to talk to aren't biased or glossing things over? Saying web research isn't worth much is like saying you can't learn from a textbook; you can learn plenty, just not all the unspoken stuff. I'd start with a site like "Occupational Outlook Handbook" (BLS gov) that describes all sorts of careers and what's needed to get them. You first have to narrow down what you seek and the Internet is ideal for that.
@joseluisRodriguez-sp1mh 9 жыл бұрын
my god thi girl is so perfect! I loved her xD
@joseluisRodriguez-sp1mh 9 жыл бұрын
sergio alejandro alvarez bazaldua I wish
@kohjiwada4757 6 жыл бұрын
This video only talks about what to do with my life. This video does not talk about what I should do AFTER my life.
@paulnielsen3256 6 жыл бұрын
What if you simply refuse to take part in any livelihood that directly or indirectly assists the machine involved in killing the Earth?
@costcocombopizza8229 6 жыл бұрын
Must form Diamond Dogs...make a difference in the world.
@agnes4592 9 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot!
@athena1169 8 жыл бұрын
I really dot know what to do with my life now, I mean I am a college graduate, passed the board exam. but right after reaching for my goal I felt empty. I really don't know what I want, and its frustrating.
@iamdreaway 8 жыл бұрын
I am 16 and I am from London. I am currently picking my A-levels for Sixth Form but I really don't know what I what to study in University. I have a couple of ideas but I'm finding it hard to stop being so indecisive. Can you give some advice on how to pick what I want to major in?
@emoses 9 жыл бұрын
Thanks !!
@meedy92 9 жыл бұрын
How does one network or find the right people to speak to in industries of interest? I for one dont have the best social life with friends in the industries im considering...although I communicate among peers & roommates at my campus. Any help would be appreciated :)
@CanMetan 10 жыл бұрын
Hi Whitney, I'm 23 y.o. now. I'll hopefully graduate from a master's degree from computer science and I've worked in software engineering company for a year as well. Then I've quit my job and went for a masters degree (in a field that turned out to be something that I still don't like again). I feel like it is too late to change my career path and even when I find the courage to change it, like you've said, I fear it will appear to be different "in the trenches" and I might still hate it and regret my decision in the end. How do I go about figuring that out? When I look at my "goals" in life, it is just to live a peaceful, mediocre life just like the middle-class retirees! I sound like a slacker but I'm good at programming. I just don't like my job anymore, not one bit.... What should I do? Thanks in advance.
@jjsiegal1 10 жыл бұрын
get a Gov. Job.
@JonasJacobsenOff 10 жыл бұрын
It's never too late, guess what, I've got a degree and degree dont have dates.
@danab172 10 жыл бұрын
I knew what I wanted when I was ten but since I had problems and was all alone...I had to survive which was exhausting since what I wanted was to be a writer but I changed bed pans instead most my work life. Funny how no friggin brilliant advice giver tells people how to #1 otain a career that provides a secure income. and #2 an education/degree that people regret and fall through the cracks of society without and intellectually fall apart. Blessed to know u want to be an artist at 10? bull!
@deepakjoiya6146 10 жыл бұрын
Thnx for this video
@joycea3290 6 жыл бұрын
Joyce A-deg-bo-Yega does not know what she wants to do with her life.
@whitneynoziskova 12 жыл бұрын
Hi Abdessalam! Thank you for your question! I had to think for a bit before I came back with a response. First -- What makes these "problems of life" problems? Because they make you afraid? Question if you are loved or if the world has love to offer humanity? Identify what is making your problem a problem. Then, how you can resolve this within yourself? What action will take you closer to where you'd like to be? Do you need to find courage where you are now looking for "the easy way?
@MissMJJanet 10 жыл бұрын
This is made to make people even more confused .. sublime mind control on first class. . And the title is the bait. She never really answers the question. She only creates fear and making things for the worse . Love, peace and harmony to all
@charleslim77 9 жыл бұрын
hai.. i just wanna say thank you for your sharing.
@margaritachavez4130 8 жыл бұрын
excellent point thank you
@latincharmer2874 8 жыл бұрын
Where do I start looking to begin my journey
@seancarter4233 6 жыл бұрын
i love you your so helpful
@JolitaBrilliant 10 жыл бұрын
very true
@Misterbillll 9 жыл бұрын
I write a great story and am working on another book.....I have awesome ideas that people just can't quite grasp unless I explain.......I have a tremendous singing voice......I make killer music and write fantastic songs......but I feel so alone, people just don't GET me....its annoying and I don't know how to shake this horrible feeling of emptyness.....*sigh*.....it so depressing
@dh031729 8 жыл бұрын
I feel your pain
@WriteSpeaker 8 жыл бұрын
+Misterbillll Your people might be on Facebook: take a look at Scanners! Look What I Just Made! and also on Facebook: Scanner Tribe and Scanners and Renaissance Souls. Your people might be there.
@jon-benaycook1231 8 жыл бұрын
I fail at every thing
@jatinprasad7341 6 жыл бұрын
Really i am so frustrate with my life i am useless guy everytime i opt different courses to pursue career accordingly but didn't get proper exposure in those fields. Now don't know what to do with my life i have spent huge part of my life by doing such courses but get nothing. Still i am in back to square one.
@sunilsai6271 10 жыл бұрын
Super Cool Video, Thanks I was very stressed off in life, because I was always doing things which is not supposed to be done! My friend asked me to use this "DONT DO" iPhone app by lokesh which helps me to make sure that I dont do whatever I am supposed to not do! now, I am far better in life and happier as I do only which is required to be done! tools really help me!
@rock31ful 9 жыл бұрын
I cant find something to do in my life yet :x No matter how much I try and even if i try it always end up like it all started (Nothing :/) At school I am not quite awesome maybe that's the problem but even if I try I always fail to succeed like other students :x My parents says that every cousin in my age already knows what to do in their life and me I still do no know (feeling like a loser :'/) Sometimes i get idea of what I want to do but I always face the same problem which is I do not like to shadow others and make them feel like I am stealing their jobs. yet I am a boy 18 years old I do cry sometimes at night.(call me pu*** or whatever I do not care.) I feel like giving up with life!
@agent4754 9 жыл бұрын
hey there, i'm 22 and i find that everything has become pointless for me!!! I don't know what to do with my life and i am getting frustrated about it but hey its better to try to discover what we want instead of working at a job we hate just because we couldn't find better!!!
@rock31ful 9 жыл бұрын
Dexter Morgan Thanks! Yes even if Im trying to find what i want to do still feel worthless in the mean time. Life is hard when we are in this kind of situation. I get ideas what i want to do but gave up on them cause others already are doing it or because it aint possible because i aint got enough fund to start the job. something like that. Yet i aint giving up on life cause one said follow your god and your way will open surely one day :)
@agent4754 9 жыл бұрын
rock31ful Wish you luck then. buddy!!! I hope that you follow your true path and shine bright for the world to witness ;) peace brother.
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