Same, family and friends went away. But sometimes I feel that I need somebody, too much loneliness. And I miss my daughter.

@@leonmiguel5984 ME TOO

This is exactly what happened to me, it is so painful.

Yes just like that

they was repulsed by love? 🤣

Same. Family too. I have WAY BETTER friends now. WAYYY better. It took a long while tho.

It's because they see the light in us and they are of this world.

What about when you continue to attract narcissistic people? It all began with my mom, then with other family members, at school, etc. now at age 25, I feel like I’m surrounded by them.

@@LovelyFlyShy I had to learn how to deal with narcissists in myself. Learn the behaviors, their tactics of drawing you in and keeping you. This will give you the ability to stop them in their tracks. In that process you will learn when to walk away. And it's not as easy as it sounds but it's doable. Just keep trying once you learn what a narcissist does and how they control, you can learn to turn the tables on them... Never never give up

@@deborahbarry9421 thank you so much. I educate myself daily and I’ve started to put my foot down.

​@@LovelyFlyShyI know I'm 1 year late but I too experienced attracting narcissists (it started with co-workers, and then I started to see narcissistic traits in a lot of my family members.) One of the most important things i've learnt is that everything happens for a reason, and your surroundings don't define or control who you are, they only push you further on the journey of self-realization. One of the key weapons that narcissists use to get validation is Gaslighting. But the thing is, you can only be gaslighted if you either let your surroundings define you, or you're a people pleaser who find it difficult to say "No", set boundaries and walk away from provocations. I personally think people who are on a spiritual path will at some point find themselves surrounded by narcissists. Why? Because when being bombarded with all their false self-righteousness and gaslightings, it forces you to look deeper into your spiritual roots and fundamentals to stand your ground, remain a clear view of life, and most importantly, to learn to truly accept and love yourself first even when nobody validates or understands you, because you already validate yourself. On the other hand, encountering multiple narcissists may also pushes you on the process of Shadow Integration. When you understand that everyone, including you, possess both Light and Darkness within ourselves, you will stop personalizing it when a narcissist tries to attack you. Because you realize that within each and everyone of us, there are narcissistic, even the so called "evil", "psychopathic" tendencies which are defined by today's society. The only true difference between an awakened person and a toxic person is that: an awakened person is Aware of their own Light and Darkness, thus has the ability to balance both sides. While toxic people are Unaware of their Dark side, which then unconsciously manifests as the toxic, narcissistic tendencies. Hence why you will never see a narcissistic person who admits his/her Dark side, simply because he/she is truly ignorant and unware of it. It is important to remember that: the Dark and Light are equally as important, and none is better than the other, nor can it exist without the other. With that being said, here are some of the things I did that helped me immensely when dealing with narcissists in my life: - Meditation and Yoga, or any form of physical exercises. (In shorts, meditation does wonders with calming the mind and balancing your emotions.) - Watch educative videos on Narcissism. I highly recommend watching Dr Ramani's KZfaq channel. She is an expert in the field of Narcissism. - Learn to set healthy boundaries one at a time, and learn to say "No", walk away from toxic arguments and stop caring about what others might think of you. - Last and most importantly, learn to always Love yourself first, without seeking for validation and acceptance from others. I know it is harder than it sounds, but trust me when I say: It is worth it, especially with the lesson of Loving Yourself. I strongly believe that, only when we learn to truly love ourselves first, can we attract individuals with the same frequency, and give love away authentically while still remain happy and peaceful for being ourselves

That's true. Your 'changing' happens at a deep spiritual level and it does change your energy level or frequency.

MegaChelsea25 It’s so strange how i feel alone, and when i see comments, i can’t belive how much people are right now in this moment feel the same like I do, just so strange..

@@phoenixbg2096 You are not alone my friend I can guarantee it. Everything that could go wrong for me went wrong within the space of 3 months in late 2018, and I went through psychic and spiritual hell for it. But, I cannot even begin to describe to you the very clear evidence I was repeatedly presented with that I was loved and protected from the other side. My guides literally saved my life. It was then that I realised I am NEVER alone, none of us are. You are not and NEVER are alone, even if you feel it.

@ MegaChelsea25 Aww dear😌❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼💕🌸🌅❤️ Thank you for sharing your feelings with us, God bless you dear and Thank you very much for your honest answer❤️🙏🏼❤️

@@phoenixbg2096 Take care and keep the faith my friend xx

@@MegaChelsea25 it’s like you soul has dipped in the holy waters to scrub yourself anew. What’s interesting is, even if you try to maintain contact with old folks after they’ve drifted away by their choice or yours, you are repelled by some negative consequence again. It just doesn’t work anymore. The cords have been cut.

TGraham Andrews nice one

@@BEMEISM I've been following you now sir for a long time. I find your words of wisdom very profound and I utilize them every day in order to get to the other side of the Dark Night.

Yes 💜🙏💜.

That’s the same with me. I’ve moved on from the Christian faith and all my Christian friends. I now have my own understanding and interpretation of life but this means I can’t connect with them in the same way anymore. I want to find friends who are more understanding of science and the older, simpler beliefs.

I understand. There seems to be a kind of 'separating' process going on right now, actually, the process of changing began for me about 30 years ago. Several painful emotional JOLTS began a long and painful awakening, a dark night of the soul, if you will. This process or changing of my soul or spirit has caused a pulling away of friends and family. Who is my NEW family? Those of us who have changed 🙏. You are not alone☺️.

@@carolinembugua5926 Tanx 😄 sitting alone is not that bad ,,, im good compani and the cat helps too ,,,

I feel this. It's a confusing thing.

I like that

Angel Andrews you can learn for that not to happen. Next part of the initiation

@@BEMEISM for what not to happen not sure i understand trevor lol

Erik hi Erik hope your well mate.

Makes sence to me

Not always ☝️