That’s inspiring

So sorry for your loss, but wow together for 60 yrs? 👍🏻

@@alexanderdelacruz9249 We have been married for 53 years and still are loving each other and take care of each other. I feel very blessed and can only imagine how hard it is without her. We never know how the end will be but with Faith, we believe if we are good here that we will be reunited. I do believe that some moments we take turns being hard to live with but of course there is never perfect in life and no one is ! How fortunate we have been able to love and adapt by trying to understand both sides and think about all the good when that annoying repetition of behavior occurs. Tolerance is a necessary tool

@@theresamclaughlin2610 i can only imagine what your going thru 🙏

I'm So Sorry

Pathetic, i marry mine waifu and you know how? Takings sleeping pills

@@toilaconhaisam3037 LOLOLOL 😂

Nice

@@toilaconhaisam3037 Melatonin is our bestfriend

@@xiella2028 that's my second wife

This quote hit me the hardest too

This should be in the marry vow❤

@@timothywade9618 Sorry for your trauma my guy. But what happen to you is the exception not the norm. Unless you're being edgy because you got dumped. Maybe you're just a troll. Maybe you're dead, I hope not. Anyway, trust the perfect stranger that I am: It will get better if you want it to go better.

being ugly is her weakness and I'm tolerating it!

I believe that it would rather be the willingness to help each other overcome our weaknesses, together. The essence of true love is one's conviction of being more with the other, mutually.

We need more people like you, thank you for making our life easier

A related thought that a friend taught me, and it enabled me to go back to school and do really well, is that when you receive a criticism, you should immediately tell yourself that there is something to learn from it, and that the person who criticized you did not have to bother to tell you. Most people won't bother to tell you what you're doing wrong, as it is kind of difficult and embarrassing to be the bearer of bad news. You don't have to do what they're telling you to do, but at least they tried to give you a suggestion when something wasn't working. After thanking them you can review what they said, and you can discard the information if it was given in a bad spirit. By thanking them for the suggestion or the critique you may also find that you disarm any bad intention they might have had. The criticism is only an attack If you receive it as such.

-True happiness is impossible to achieve -We are all going to die with regrets

Who else has gotten tired of talking

@@lauraschutze8363 Thanks for sharing this, I needed to hear it!

"Jimmy, come the FUCK over here, you missed an A+ on one of your subjects"

Lmaooooo actually all parents but I’m an Asian kid so I can relate. I mean if they just praise us all the time even when we do badly/can improve then we would become arrogant anyways

lol my parents are asian parents while not actually being asian

'Look at your cousins got into Harvard, and look at you being stupid. I wasted my rice for nothing!"

asian parent: you doctor yet kid: no dad im 12 asian parent: talk to me when you doctor

I miss that fucking guy RIP Carlin u funny shit Lord

people keep calling me cynical and yes i agree wtf thank you for sharing that quote. going to look Carlin up rn.

If u scratch the surface of a cynic, you will always find a disappointed idealist underneath

Thank you

Love you 👌🏻 man

​@Bob-rb4qpIt's just the truth about how our brain works, it might be difficult to accept cause it is kinda depressing

@@Bob-rb4qp you’re missing the fact that you’re just using semantics. You’re saying the exact same thing as the speaker. He’s just a little more brutal about the truth and you’re sugarcoating it.

@@Bob-rb4qp once again, just telling the truth, because I love you. Optimism equals ignorance. Everywhere you look, powerful forces are trying to develop authoritarian governments to enslave you. Unless you already live in one of those many countries already. Every day your body rots from the inside a little bit more, your DNA does not reproduce your skin or organs or anything exactly the way it should. If you’re “lucky” you grow old and get chronic pain and become crippled and eventually need people to take care of you. Of course many people manufacture a God, or an afterlife to delude themselves into thinking it will someday be better. The funniest part about the above is that you are going to say I’m a dark pessimist just because I can see reality. None of this has anything to do with the video, about the fundamental way we deal with others. Seeking someone who has the same faults as parents or others important in our youth, so we can “change them” and salve the pain. You might want to get to know yourself a little better, then you’ll understand. Surface optimism is not depth.

Ah yes, the Lack

Aww I love this. Wishing you a happy marriage.

@@amaragrace94 thanks so much!

This is really sweet. I'm happy for you and yours.

@@yoshilover765 thank you so much😊

You were married for 15 years before , this one is 8. Hold your horses sister. You didn’t stay for the whole 15 years if you did not like the first marriage, maybe you only hated year 15. Before you think anything changed, try to do 20 years with this guy? Will you?

hahahahahaha

LOL

SERIOUSLY!

Correc!

So your 12?

It's so true. Recently i've realised this

addiction to what?

Still trying to digest

@@andu__ anything

And idiots find things framed another way to be so profound and deep when it’s really not

Wow

Except for the fact that some people are genuinely boring or rather stupid? Which leads to feelings of a lack of respect and it's important to respect a partner. Why should someone settle for someone they view as boring? This seemingly deep quote is just another example of ignoring very real nuances of human interaction.

@@MsBrehay boring and stupid people find other equally boring and stupid people to find happiness and love. The trouble is when the partnership is not equal in terms of intellect and understanding. This is the case where I find a lot of merit in what is written above.

Scary

And that’s why I’ll never date again,…

You can't demand perfection but you can demand improvement.

@@fs5866 you can demand whatever the fuck you want. You can also be denied.

And demanding perfection from ourselves too.

Yes we all need to grow into better people everyday.

You are loved

Not the case for the men's.

i feel this quote..

I agree.

The quote you stated is the guy's opinion what love is. You can replace the word "love" with the word "respect" in the quote and get an opinion on what is respecting a person. I was disappointed that he didn't cite any studies on marriage. I'm asking myself is he an expert or a charlatan. Be safe and in good health.

Perfectly stated!

that's why we should accept that no one is perfect and instead of hiding a problem work with your partner about it

newbies in dating won't understand this

@Nernest Wilson i think if you are attracted to someone (or at least committed to them) you kind of neglect the things that are not that pleasant about them, you tend to focus more on their qualities

@Nernest Wilson which one? you're staying because you are 'attracted' to them or because you are committed? i think attraction can be temporary being committed is a choice or maybe after those people you met you realize what really attracts you, mine is someone's way of thinking

That's a nice thought and I mostly agree. But some are especially toxic for each other. Sometimes you gotta run in the opposite direction.

NO IT AINT, YA JUST SCARED SHITLESS OF BEING ALONE, INSECURE AINT YA. STOP LIEING AND TALK THE UGLY TRUTH YA FKN MORON. YOU ARE A FRAUD

@@ct6852 That's the point, love isn't toxic. As in authentic love isn't toxic. Compatibility is 'a state in which two things are able to exist or occur together without problems or conflict'. So compatibility is achieved when there is authentic love (not toxicity). I know there are relationships where people are abused, and you're right you should run in the opposite direction. But this statement does not apply to that scenario, because authentic love and compatibility aren't the same as toxicity.

Lovely !!

@レリック Mmmkay.... and you felt the need to comment on that why, exactly?

You summarized this video in a best way. Thank you.

@@lamusic1996 I didn’t see any summary at all, but a very brief review, perhaps. Certainly, no summary, you might want to read up on your dictionary a little. Also, remember, I’m only taking the trouble to criticize you out of love.

Mohamed Hn

Well, shit.

Wowwww, the feels!!!

Mohamed Hnini nice

Mohamed Hnini good story

Totally. I don't have to do 1.5x or 2x speed

I still watched at 1.5

I did 2x speed, lol

he slows down then speaks quickly and slows down again and again. LOL

I did 10x - the 1x-upper kid

Congratulations!!!

Simp

@@maiahi She already did, and the wedding was lovely, thanks for asking.

You must be married by now. Wishing that you both learn to accomodate each other's incompatibilities graciously and with humility. Also, that your love only grows stronger. Congrats!

Thank you so much for this wisdom, and yes as you grow together you learn to accept the other person and even change for them(this is done on both partner's ends) and I'm happy to say that we've been closer than ever.

Same

Young people are at a disadvantage in terms of understanding what real love is. In the future people will grow colder.

PREACH

you'll *regret* that

@@melonabd are you *shure* about that?

Abdullah Alhamada tell that to priests

that is quite the immature response

I was actually finding someone to highlight this phrase ..

I wrote this down as well!

🙂🙂👌🏿

I just finally understood this about a relatoomship.. that It's imperfect..we are imperfect..💜

Yes sir

I need communication it was not there

Wow. Thx so much

This is really good advice! Thank you for the inspiration

Finding someone who truly wants to make you happy is rare, and should be appreciated for what it is.

Compromise is bad word it's abt two people who understand each other and respect both values

Thank you for saying this. This is an important point that can trap many people

Agree

Underrated comment

I have always believed that a true good partner is one that inspires you to better yourself, no through pressure or insults but just instinctively. When you have two people who share this feeling you have a strong relationship

I think it’s speaking to typical couples as opposed to toxic relationships and what a great point you make clarifying it. Well done

what a beautiful way to word it

I am absolutely pleased that you met and spent so much time with such a wonderful person! I don't feel the need to say "I'm sorry for your loss" because that may discredit all the good times you had with her. Instead I'll say "I admire the fact that you two stayed together for so long". I want that. I want someone who I can work through problems with as an adult and who I know will be willing to see my side of the story... even if I'm wrong/at fault and we both know it.

So sorry hope you're okay now.🙏💗

Very smart move

Your comment abt your wife brings tears to my eyes. GOD bless you.❤️

♡

I guess one has to ask themselves how they got to the point where there is no more love for that person. How did it happen, what brought it to that point. Maybe there is still love, but the unhappy spouse just wants something to stop that is ruining the marriage.

thank you for that superb articulation. it can be very hard for the damaged humans who had a wibbly wobbly start.

LOL, we are all damaged to some extent. It just seems that those of us who have managed to have long term marriages, have decided to make changes that are conducive to a happy marriage. A bit of sage advice my dear Mom gave me when I was first married was if you want to make your Marriage work then you have to do loving things for your spouse even if you don't feel that way, because it's in the doing that creates the feeling, when it isn't there to begin with.

Daisy Flowers “Marriage takes work” - you mean it’s not a fairytale and is more like an investment? There would be fewer divorces if people came to that realization before getting married. Sex and love can make people blind though

fr 😭

That must be soul crushing, I'm so sorry to hear that. 😢

@@ThatReadingGuy28 if you guys want to see how she talks to and treats me I have started a play list of all the videos and voice recordings of the way she yells and screams if I don't do as she wants and acts like the perfect carer. She's got limited mobility and I'm her carer and it's a nightmare. Feel like I've been coerced Into this and have spent my youth on this and not managed to have a life of my own

Become a Stoic. Being content in your own company is a superpower these days.

@@jakebullet1731 Being alone and being lonely are two very different things.

I read it in the wrong way, as in I don't want anyone to be happy, in a sadistic way. Realised how swapping two similar words in change the entire sentiment.

Hallelujah

You are the master of your own feelings..once you nail that then you realise you don't need anyone too be happy then your a better partner ..thanks for spreading the message..

contemplativegirl21 it’s not too late even still!

I am still Young with no experience in relationships. What would you recommend I make of this statement?

@@erwandomine250 asking myself this same question

@erwan domainé @chocomint well it’s just a way of saying you’ll hurt in ways you have before in your childhood because it’ll feel familiar you’ll think it’s love if I make sense, per say you’re in a relationship with someone and they have some similarities to a parent or guardian that has cared for you. Whether it be good and bad the reason you love them is because they probably resemble that love you have been given when you were younger. I don’t know I’m not good with words it’s my best take at explaining it.

Marissa A perfect explanation. The subconscious brain rules us all.

That is lovely. I am so sorry he passed away, although I don't doubt he watches over and waits patiently for you.

@@angr3819 "waits patiently for you" - the creepiest thing I heard in this year so far

@@lt_saw Troll bot.

This is very touching

That was a really nice story. You get it that he probably passed away so young (I'm guessing in his late 50s, younger 60s) beacuse you casused him so much worries?

That's the type of person I would look for in life

@Sunny Delight , you aren't very sunny or delightful are you?...lol

Thank you for this! :)

@@alexnguyen2557 same here

@Sunny Delight Lisa said 'a kind person' not 'a perfect person'.

@@Bluejelly13 Who're those "us" you're talking about?

@@Bluejelly13 living together in fact does not count as marriage at all. I don't know why you would think such a thing.

I hope you never get married

I absolutely will be living alone my whole life. Well, a dog, but that's it.

You do you

I viewed this comment with my best friend, who is of opposite gender… one of the most uncomfortable moments in my life so far.

I married my best friend, 16 years together so far. 11 years of marriage and 5 kids. ❤

@@syedraidarsalan4685 are you attracted to her at all?

Well, not really, but if you say so...look at divorce rate.

"that goes away"? Not necessarily

Love viewed as a skill may still make it what it should not be about manipulation. Love should be natural and by instincts. Marriage being a business agreement should require skill. Two people signing a contract to do theater base on a narrative designed to please society. While marriage is beautiful. Some people ruined it for a lot of people, example, very effeminate men who are married to a woman and society is expected to cheer for them in social media as they celebrate their sham of a marriage, which is a laughing stock for as long as the husband can’t even smile on a photo without looking like a princess trying to be a lesbian to escape an arranged marriage.

We try to love. But we get work, school and busy shit shoved in our faces. It costs an arm and a leg just to get by now. There’s no room for romantic love anymore.

No, no, no. Love is nature

@@snowbird1381 Romantic love is a state of mind. *You are always in a state of mind.* Why not tweak the dial a little so no matter who you are with, or whatever you are doing, it will be done with love instead of obligation.

please remind me something, Was he reading an essay? own notes? any author? I was very absort about the talk that I didnt realize of that document he had in his hands

omg. very self aware and very surprising to hear a woman say that.

I like your honesty 😉 you make a wonderful wife.

@@oroville12345 Thank you. It is my pride and joy that he thinks so too.

GuitarGuy, I must say that it is not even the tiniest bit surprising to hear a man respond in the manner that you did. One hopes for a little more awareness. But hopes diappoint us, don't they?

@@MandyJMaddison How do you think a married woman should feel about her husband? Just because you have lowered yourself for unworthy men doesn't mean we all have. I hope that one day you find a man you can feel this way about, poor thing.

Same here

How do i explain

@@A_ldo.. Communicate and communicate some more. I believe more marriages would be more healthier and divorce would be avoided if we speak more with each other about our thoughts, feelings, expectations, fears, disappointments, goals and so forth. Human beings are not mind-readers, so people can only meet us as far as we’re willing to reveal of who we are, what we want and expect. If we don’t explain, people are going to make assumptions about us and those are most certainly bound to be wrong. So the best is to tell and show people who we are and what we want so they don’t end up misunderstanding us. I hope that small explanation helped a little bit 😊😊. On a personal note, I’m very forth coming about what I want and expect. I feel it’s my responsibility to represent myself very clearly so I’m not misunderstood.....especially in my marriage and by those who matter to me. I’m my own representative to others and no human being knows me better than me.

If you don't need to be understood you'll be a man; if you need to be understood you'll be a woman.

Every introverts worst nightmare 😔

@@stevedoetsch i dont "need" to be understood, I find that simply being loved is what I need and want at any given moment..this is enough.

And, as Alain says, to "apply charity and generosity" when interpreting another's behaviour.

@@TristalisVitae God doesn't make mistakes. What God has joined together, let no one separate. There is a reason, perhaps to test if you love God above all.

@@TristalisVitae to save people 20+ minutes of watching these videos

Then his message is wrong. Just because someone stands on a stage and some people clap doesn't mean they are anyone special. He has no more insight than any random youtube commenter...the people that already agree with him and whose opinions he reinforces will think he's wonderful, the rest will think he's an idiot.

Your and your partner's imperfections

You understand us PERFECTLY.

Masquerola And that sadness into personal growth

nice meme

Fairy Khamari I would say that the unwillingness of the other person to grow and become better alongside you, or if that person causes you immense or repeated intense pain, then you're both probably not ready for that. If you have tried but they have not, then that would be the time to leave.

Masquerola I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that :D

unless you are married to a psychopath and runs you to the ground whilst you are applying "generosity in your interpretation"

@@GodiscomingBhappy Well then you aren't loving yourself.

Not if your partner has zero compassion.

The problem with this is that you could apply "generosity of interpretation" or in other words give your partner the benefit of the doubt until the day of your death while you are being taken advantage of and expected to apply exactly that with them so they can get away with anything. And once you realize that it's one sided and that this great characteristic of yours is abused and exploited you know you married the wrong person. Not as bad as you, worse.

My mother was actively jealous of me and tried to undermine me all my life.

If you had parents that berated you or were mean in such a way, they most likely were still being dishonest with you. They weren't telling you the truth of what is wrong with you, they were telling you what they didn't like about you, or what they didn't like about themselves. Completely different than what is actually wrong with you.

My parents were Capricorns they would tell me trust me!

Sounds like conditional love. Like under certain circumstances they showed approval and love. God on the other hand, wants us to be like Him and have *Unconditional* love. To choose to love, even when people aren't perfect. Which people never are😂. I mean He died for us when we were being absolutely ungodly. We were far from perfect when he gave us the ultimate gift.

Hello fellow Asian. That's all. 'Nuff said 😂🤣.

@@emilygee6618 I know people who got unconditional love and they live in their parents garage for 50 years. Honestly nobody likes being pushed but the results are greatness.

Two years? You're still at the very beginning! It gets challenging and complicated as the years go by. After 23 years of marriage, I realize I still have so much to learn.

@@mygirldarby You're absolutely right! I aim to be where you are. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. 🙂

I love this

Love is a skill!!? Lol

Sounds more like a burden than a gift.

Practice 😊

He definitely went to a private school where the Queen’s English is taught

He did say ‘ummm’ @ 17:53 😅

Hes really good. Level 10.

0:09

Beautiful message

Empathy

Vulnerability is a good thing.

Perfectly True 😘😄

And your comment just made me love whoever you’re ❤️

9:30

underrated comment 😂😂

ur slow it's a small script or bullet list so he's on topic

Lmao regardless I got a good laugh

Did you just compare me with papers? Guess I am useless

Lust is an instinct.

Very right

I'd still say early stages of love and general affection go a lot by instinct, it's just a very different love when it comes to being together for years.

DIDNT LEARN IT, SO I LOST IT

Love is not a skill, love is action. And doesnt always come with a warm and fuzzy feeling.

@@AmaraSoGolden it means to love someone you have to look beyond the shell of their behavior and see the good beneath it

But what if u cant find any benevolent reasons below the surface?

@@rashid7735 if the surface is what matters, then that’s at best a 3 year relationship

@@PinkyMinions No thats not what I mean. A women (over-)reacts in a different manner (emotional) to things, which is sometimes unlogical and unnecessary in my opinion. When I try to reasonate, sometimes i cant find a good reason for their 'not very appealing behaviour" under the surface, making it harder to maintain paitience...

@@rashid7735 I try to think about what kind of suffering the other person may be battling inside to cause them to act this way. The same way I try to show myself this compassion when I've behaved in ways I'm not proud of. It's often underlying fear of something, and that usually helps me find compassion for the behaviour. Helps me to remember they are a person too, and inside we all have the same hopes and dreams and suffer in the same way. Instead of feeling contempt towards someone whose behaviour I don't like. It's something I have to remind myself of and practice everyday. It's helped me accept and love myself more too.

I agree!

There it is!

Jacqueline D'Alessandra,You look stunning 🌹🌷🌷 dear

However, he said we cannot change who we are attracted to sadly. But we can change how we respond to these types. I am still trying to figure, after many years and dating, if he is right or you are. Hoping you are. Also what kind of therapy can help with identifying childhood trauma?

What does it really means"suffer in ways that are familiar"?

@@haraldmencke3252 it means we choose to enter relationships that make feel loved but also hurt the same way our parents treated us. We want to be loved a certain way, which is not always good.

Damn that inherent base program of the human psyche called suppression/repression/denial lol. Projection, by definition, is unconscious and therefore not preventable, only transformable. You almost sound like an optimist.

One must heal of past hurts to move forward in a new direction or you are doomed to repeat the past. Be it with a past person or new person, the cycle repeats if you are carrying the same old energy into your present.

They don't though they tell us what's wrong with them

Toxic, abusive, distant parents won't tell /teach you anything anyway..

I had both former in my aunt and latter my mom who have both raised me. But I love them both now.

Right😂

This made me laugh thank you hahaha

That Habit Guy Channel Your channel is nice man! I like it because there's a story.

James Forrester Thanks mate.

That Habit Guy Channel They posted a video with the same title two years ago. Although that one is only 4 minutes long.

Jajajajajaja

You're on honeymoon... and you're on KZfaq?? Oh man, your poor wife.

😊😊

@@victoriadorgu3207 You said he was the narse, but you were the stalking gf. Btw, that kind of privacy invasion has laws against it in some places but you sound like an advert. I hope you find the peace in yourself that you won't be so harmed by what you think people think of you.

😂😂

😂😂😂

He DID define it. Go back and watch again and pay attention this time. ;-)

Robert Holloway 💯✊🏽

Reminds me of something like those who have rosey eyed idealistic thoughts about life can also be the most cruel. If you think about communism, what occurred...even with what happened with Hitler...people wanted beauty and the ideal life. Ultimate structure with perfect players and beauty to boot. That’s what was being peddled, and people bought it. Instead there was rot, brutality and failure.

right on Mr. Holloway

Primarily due to the fact that they already knows the inner life is what's most important, and not the projected one or expected one🤔✌🏿😎

I think the key is balance. Don't expect perfection, but have standards (respectful or whatever other values you want to prioritize).

i never married, 52 today, and i dont regret it one ounce. I look at my mates, their souls left them years ago. And 50% divorced at least once of course. Marriage is for women, and great for children. But men get a raw deal. I say when the youngest child hits 18, its time for husband and wife to part ways.

Você deve se conhecer e saber sobre por que você se anula. O segredo não é ficar sozinho mas quebrar o padrão através de terapia.

Home is where the hatred is.

Really that is not remotely true for most marriages. If you have communication problems it's probably because someone is a people pleaser, which requires them to be raised to be that, which isn't universal culturally. In some countries like England it's hardly anyone. In the USA there are some pleasers. Generally communication in a broken marriage makes things worse which is why marriage counselling often leads to more marital breakdown, it gives opportunity to be plain and honest and direct about things that diminish good-will. Communication sometimes has to be restrained.

@@rickstoic6907 It is all about karma.

Bit simplistic. Communication covers a great range of behaviour and sound. Hitting someone is a form of communication.

@@clairecadoux471 Being kind is a more advisable path.

I sent my girlfriend the whole fucking video actually. Jesus was she mad at first.

@Di Ane Noo but working on the flaws is! ;)

As long as you follow it up with; "And I hope that you'll think that I am too." Her answer will tell you much.

haha

If she is at all honest, she will admit that she too is "settling for" the best she can get. Good luck on that.

This was too accurate to my life lmfao

I feel more normal every time I see one of these comments. Thank you for sharing. Noticing we're distracted is the first step.

Yeah, that really hit home.

I am working and watching this video is a part of my study :D

Your so right.

You don't sound human. Are you?

it's true too many people focus on others flaws when they have some themselves. being humble is the best way

Wow! Sound great:) Yet, not everyone is thinking that way:(

Man you're living a fantasy. Many things can get in the way of love. To be honest I'm not that big on romance and the least bit interested in it. People try to make life about romance and suddenly friendships are gone. Anyway all I can say is that it's actually really hard to find someone who is your ideal type and is faithful. Most people like new things not old things so they jump from person to person. They are bored so they leave you for someone else. If you are faithful to each other there may be things that get in the way such as race, problems (financial problems, relationship problems like being friends with the opposite gender, etc, insecurities, a parent's or parents' disapproval, etc). Some of the people who seem to have perfect lives have the hardest on them such as celebrities. In a movie or song they are forced to kiss. At photo shoots they are forced to keep up a fake smile. They are slave to their company and sometimes their fans. Like for example in kpop there are a lot of toxic fans. One example is when IU was hates on for being (I forgot the name) an idol's ideal type. Romantic relationships can be broken up because of people like these. Then there are the shippers. Th e shippers force you to be someone and do not care for your consent. If people so much talk or hug they will immediately ship them. So really it's not actually as easy as your think. You were lucky you met her or who knows where you'd be right now

Don’t you get exhausted for giving more than you receive? Nah it’s draining

This should be common sense. Too sad that it's not!

@@npkrn6764 yepp.

I think that sometimes it possible for someone to be on the path to self discovery, but then love arrives when you least expect it. You’re faced with the decision to let a possible good thing go because you’re not ready, or take the risk to love anyways.

Most of us swear that we know everything about ourselves.

🎯🎯🎯

It is many things. One place to start is by remembering that one thing that love DOES is that it causes one to put the needs of their partner above their own...and do it willingly & without having to actually think about it.

@Unlucky Fat Guy damn it lol you beat me to the punch ha ha ha

@@donnaporter5409 You understand that he put lyrics from a Haddaway song lol

@@debbiemoore2747 of course!😉😂

Donna Porter I

well.... Several is the 'right number', gotta give u that. (sigh)

Yup. Several and Counting...

Hahaha

Your feelings, infatuation, etc. are all part of your projections. We are all broken people. BE the perfect person you want and stop looking for the perfect person for you, they don’t exist.

Did you finish the video? The message is more that we are all human, and no one is perfect, even if you happen to find something(s) that seem so. Everybody has faults, even if they seem great for the first week, month, year, that we can't jive with. The trick is working with/accepting/compromising to become a symbiotic couple rather than 2 people living together.

if you would date everyone in the world. would find the right person? mmmm.. people are molded by the works they group in. all human being are from the same world.

In other words, we need to live in the REALITY of the person, not the POTENTIAL. Don't ignore red flags in the beginning because you want to see the potential for them to be better. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

"you knew it since the beginning" FUCKING ACCURATEEEEEEEEE

lol this was surface level relationship competency imo

😂

and then something

Ooof

Right?

That;s the conundrum, Kevin. Need it, vs. in most cases it hurts.

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Respect

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