Why your relationship should be private

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@QueenEsthersDiaries Жыл бұрын

This happened to me some 10years ago and Yes! they got married but in my case it was God who saved my life… the guy turned out to be a terrible human. No regrets, not one ☝🏽

@tracieanncornwall4805 Жыл бұрын

What the devil meant for evil, God turned it into something good, God loves you darling 💕

@ehdoldelph2182 Жыл бұрын

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@ethanrogers7457 Жыл бұрын

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@pearlchikumbi1675 Жыл бұрын

Wow..Praise the Lord 🙏❤️

@lydia8322 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations dear. God saved you through their evil plan

@vivianlahai9157 Жыл бұрын

With friends like this, who needs enemies?? God, please grant us discernment. 😩😩

@mamab2937 5 ай бұрын

Exactly

@KosiVentura 5 ай бұрын

Amen

@Heloo181 4 ай бұрын

It is an enemy just disguised as a friend

@thelaw7614 7 күн бұрын

Amen

@letsdothisgodthing137 4 ай бұрын

It's the "Sharon, are you a witch?!" For me 😂😂😂😂😂

@Whizyrel Ай бұрын

Rose of Sharon 😂

@Iamopepraiz Жыл бұрын

I learnt lately that PRIVACY is different from SECRECY

@markobazu4348 Жыл бұрын

What's the difference?

@starluzenja9861 Жыл бұрын

True

@misidee Жыл бұрын

@@markobazu4348your privates are “private” no secret because everyone has them.

@uniquemercyisaac2072 5 ай бұрын

Share your experience pls

@KosiVentura 5 ай бұрын

Privacy is something the Holyspirit has been taking me on but I really don't understand it yet. I pray God helps me not to mess this season I'm in up.

@damarisabimbola4756 Жыл бұрын

I don’t think the issue is with making your relationship public, I think it’s with the kind of people you let into your life affairs.

@favor9163 Жыл бұрын

But you won’t know the kind of people less they expose their heart or the Holy Spirit gives you discernment.

@tamekaandkids2207 Жыл бұрын

So so true

@godismyhelp6359 Жыл бұрын

I think this is really about not allowing people's opinion of your relationship Especially stupid opinions such as this , because this girl was her close friend so in this case she wasn't making her relationship public

@eagleswings8661 Жыл бұрын

I keep secret relationship until I got married.

@gofgan Жыл бұрын

Very true, pray for spirit of discernment

@chiamakablessing1969 Жыл бұрын

"Someone that can lift you up the sky"...? My sister, you be sacrifice?? God please deliver us from every unfriendly friends God bless the winlos

@sunnyhunn9315 Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@JohnChapter17 Жыл бұрын

HAHAHAHA😂😂😂

@chinomsooji7454 Жыл бұрын

She be living sacrifice 😊

@judithnlemedim8758 Жыл бұрын

😅😅😅😅😅😅

@enemuogabriel1650 Жыл бұрын

Unfriendly friend indeed

@rosetabi4515 Жыл бұрын

What makes you happy doesn't have to make sense to others....lesson learned.

@LICIOUS0777 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@allib876 Жыл бұрын

Hard lessons to learn. Hopefully we grow from this lesson.

@opeyemiayoge1227 Жыл бұрын

God of Mercy, this is so heartbreaking. chai what a friend.

@thewhizzz Жыл бұрын

The same way my friend almost talked me out of marrying my husband saying he is igbotic he is not your type, are you bored ? she asked. Thank God i didn’t listen to her but the Holy Spirit and now i’m enjoyyyyying my marriage. Glory!

@FredaTanyo Жыл бұрын

Hmmm, thank you Sis

@gyangtessy3393 4 ай бұрын

You too kept complaining, that was why others bring in suggestions, if at all you didn't complained they will not have room to intrude 😂

@josiahmukisa8809 4 ай бұрын

I bet she never stayed after you announced the wedding...they are the first that desert you

@pearlchikumbi1675 Жыл бұрын

May God seperate us from the wrong people (those with evil intentions towards us)🙏🏽

@pleasantchioma3196 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@rochellesymonette7991 Жыл бұрын

In Jesus mighty name. Amen

@Mzwon1 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@ericayernor264 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@nataliecorbin1111 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@greatifyusoro Жыл бұрын

Every evil friendships in my life may God cut them off for me

@FragranceofaFlower 4 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏🏿

@QueenDaniel-vd3ez 3 ай бұрын

Amen

@olivabirungi23 3 ай бұрын

Amen

@Jesus-saves_992 Жыл бұрын

I think the actual moral here is to put your relationship in Gods hands rather than anyone else’s. Don’t even put it in your mothers hands. GODS hands!

@olivabirungi23 3 ай бұрын

Yes dear

@gatekeepershub4225 Жыл бұрын

Some friends are physical brothers and sisters but spiritual enemies. I call them “frenemies” Bad company corrupts good.....

@Houseofreconciliation.na900 Жыл бұрын

Hahahahh

@teensonfire6712 Жыл бұрын

Morals ooo😅😅

@faithkamka Жыл бұрын

Hahahaha

@Blossom-ou9kt Жыл бұрын

Well said 👏

@user-kz9tq2hd8y 15 күн бұрын

God work in mysterious ways 😂😂😂😢

@belwetmindclinic Жыл бұрын

I had to screenshot: "what makes you happy does not need to make sense to others." Deep... Thanks for this👏

@tumiloate7292 5 ай бұрын

True true true 😭

@oluwayemisiogunkeye7713 5 ай бұрын

me too o, i screenshot

@Just.Zee1 4 ай бұрын

I did too That word came at the right time.

@sibesoimutulo-sm6sf 4 ай бұрын

I did the same and posted on my WhatsApp status 😂

@hannahamara6280 4 ай бұрын

This was not just the case, she was jealous and that is why she criticized him.

@adanmaezenekwe2245 Жыл бұрын

This type of friend is a red flag...disassociate quickly.

@teensonfire6712 Жыл бұрын

' What makes you happy doesn't need to make sense to others' woww am at that place in my life right now. The guy I want to marry doesn't really have all the money people expect him to have nor a befitting job according to them and even my siblings are kinda not cool with it but I heard God right and am not backing off..I trust that God who has commanded us to go ahead will see us through. Thank you Winlos I love you

@treshbee Жыл бұрын

Amen 📌

@josephkpalokunde2013 Жыл бұрын

may Christ strengthens you my dear. you will emerge victoriously one's you are following God's will

@sadraolaedo4733 5 ай бұрын

Yes God spoke to you. Tell God to bless him financially before marriage. My darling these times are getting hard financially,God needs to bless him before you say "i do"

@josiahmukisa8809 4 ай бұрын

my dear sometimes God keeps people at a humble level for but a time in order for your status at the time to just match abit with the guy because if he was loaded he might not have seen you...now that he has seen favour from the lord has come now he will rise and guys who he will be thanking to have come in his life😊

@godislove9330 Жыл бұрын

Lord, please separate me from unfriendly friends.

@uniquegrace7354 11 ай бұрын

Even me too and sharpen my Spiritual eyes to discern

@mireillemessan Жыл бұрын

She even had the audacity to asked her to be the maid of honor 🥺

@stefanitepu7751 Жыл бұрын

It was Apostle Paul that solicited for the prayer of the church in 2 Thessalonians 3:2 And that we may be delivered from unreasonable and wicked men: for all men have not faith. Not all men share the same conviction that is furnished by the Spirit of God therefore the need for God to grant us light and understanding to discern them and avoid their counsel. God bless you the winlos for this

@allib876 Жыл бұрын

That's why our only counsel should come from God. The devil doesn't fight us where we are but fights us for where we're going. Get counsel for God and God only.

@oluwatosinfolorunsho9582 Жыл бұрын

Sharon never had good intentions and was jealous about Susan relationship with Franklin. There are some people who have such negative attitude and spirit towards people by discouraging and feeding their minds negatively. They are very manipulative. If you aren’t discerning enough you will fall for their trap. I have been in a similar situation like this, whenever I remember I feel so bad and with regrets. This life ehn, one has to be spiritually smart....

@anyanwucynthia1275 Жыл бұрын

Don't be easily decieved, Mind who you call your friends, most especially in marriage mind who you relate to

@namubiruhamida1671 Жыл бұрын

What a teaching lesson 🤔🤔🤔,may God reveals to us all the friends with the dark hearts, pretending to be our advisors and we win them,in Jesus name, Amen

@nabulyasylivia6687 Жыл бұрын

Most people have dark hearts but you can't know ,but we thank the holy spirit that he can reveal to you anybody and his heart,it's upon to you to let the person go or not,holy spirit is the only true friend

@pleasantchioma3196 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@ehdoldelph2182 Жыл бұрын

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@aliciaharris746 Жыл бұрын

AMENNNNN

@rejoiceoguchi5039 Жыл бұрын

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN

@BlessedLPT. Жыл бұрын

See life, the same person who used their mouth to destroy someone’s relationship, kept her same mouth shut until her own was due for marriage. Woww. It is well - it is so important to have godly counsel around you who you can discuss any doubts with; they would have helped her to see that she was making am the wrong move

@uniquegrace7354 11 ай бұрын

Wow! Another lesson learnt! Again, the first lady should have been patient enough to see that the brother was remorseful and ready to adjust when he was begging her before calling it a quit

@janice7378 Жыл бұрын

It's easy to see this skit and say how you can be so foolish to listen to criticism passed from your friends BUT none the less I've fallen prey to similar situation in my life oo and when I look back I understand how wrongly I acted. Thank you Winlos for this evergreen and much needed life advice 💎 This generation need such videos 😍

@unbreakablead Жыл бұрын

We must not entertain such conversations, words are like seeds, with time they grow... you wouldn’t act on their negative advice on day 1, but gradually it will be eating into your mind. Hmm great lesson

@ifechukwunzoputa4043 Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@ehinomenakhidue Жыл бұрын

First of all, the friend played her part so well 😅. She's really convincing. Thank you so much for this skit. It's good to evaluate our circle to make sure we have the right people around us. When we notice signs of envy and jealousy, they should not be ignored. Also, everything should be taken with a pinch of salt. And we should seek counsel from the right people before taking major decisions.

@marthaspeaks Жыл бұрын

Lol. Thank you

@tayookunfolami2522 Жыл бұрын

She's a really good actress...they all interpreted their roles very well

@adelekeolateju5660 Жыл бұрын

She is actually really convincing, she tried

@servantofthelord24 Жыл бұрын

This is why it's important to have maturity in a relationship also be Guided by the lord a Man and woman are supposed to cover each other not embarrasse each other publicly...

@uniquegrace7354 11 ай бұрын

Wow! Another lesson

@TTHannah Жыл бұрын

For starters, be wary of friends who dont seem to encourage you but find negativities in everything that you do. Secondly losing someone like that is not a loss but a tremendous blessing even though it might not feel like that at first but it will get better. Bear in mind; everyone will reap what they sow.

@beyondewhatsseen2790 Жыл бұрын

The way u guys are saying it's the man's fault. I think u guys really should rethink the way u treat ur relationships that's the main lesson to be learnt here simple as that.

@TTHannah Жыл бұрын

@@beyondewhatsseen2790 Do you comprehend what I wrote for starters. And secondly even if what i am saying, am I not entitled to my opinion? She lost two people her friends and fiancé. She is at fault but not as much as the friend who is slippery and the man who didnt go for anyone else but his ex-fiancee's best friend.

@rebecca-uf3pd 4 ай бұрын

'someone that can lift me towards the sky' exaggerated wedding ooo😂😂

@benithabongwala9447 Жыл бұрын

The friend is so courageous 😂😂😂😂

@beautifulblesseddestinywin5995 Жыл бұрын

🤔ᴴᴹᴹᴹ waw waw waw what a lesson. I love how this young lady is so natural in acting. She wanted Franklin all along. jealousy meets opportunity.

@praiseonahi4234 Жыл бұрын

I can perfectly relate.... people discourage you at your back they do otherwise....a big lesson learnt here

@shaymay2892 Жыл бұрын

She wanted that relationship to end bad! Poor guy.

@2mammaR 4 ай бұрын

I love this! This is so true. People will advise you sometimes because they are jealous of you. You have to be aware and keep certain things to yourself.

@EvieJewel Жыл бұрын

"What makes you happy DOESN'T NEED to make sense to others." WOW love it ❤️ thanks for sharing. It's very important to discern & be careful of jealous people in our lives. Otherwise, they only come to steal, kill and destroy.

@noroshut1082 4 ай бұрын

We all need the Holy Spirit's guidance in every decision; never rely on your wisdom or knowledge but on God's spirit and talking too much with others is wrong it can make you slip alot. Alot of issues should not be discussed with everybody but a selected few even in the church.

@clavisaguti112 Ай бұрын

😂😂that the holyspirit kept ministering to her 😂😂 Help us lord on our friendship

@ruthekop5813 Жыл бұрын

.. There's just something that happens when you keep listening to certain things. Before you know it, you begin to bye into their own ideology.

@teensonfire6712 Жыл бұрын

Yes the power of repetition...it's like a seed planted and is being watered everyday it must bear fruits

@KingDavo Жыл бұрын

"What makes you happy doesn't need to make sense to others". Very profound!

@yudellezion9615 5 ай бұрын

This girl 😂😂😂😂 and she had the audacity to say it was the holy Spirit

@_missteelda Жыл бұрын

May God save us from deceptive so-called friends

@GeorgeGraceOfGod Жыл бұрын

Will Ladies ever learn a Lesson? They don't know when their friends are envious and manipulative! 🤦🏽

@promiseomos Жыл бұрын

I've come to learn that DISCRETION is different from SECRECY. And Prov 2:11 puts a seal to this Short video. God bless the winlos

@ayokunlekajero9452 Жыл бұрын

What makes you happy doesn't need to make sense to everyone. Very true, Also, We should also pray for a spirit of discernment to be able to handle critics with wisdom.

@gregustan Жыл бұрын

I think it's not about the public knowing about your relationship but you knowing What you truly want. Sometimes people's opinion could be valid and sometimes too could be invalid but you need to make the right decision for yourself and try not to blame anyone when it turns out negative.

@princessizedike4865 Жыл бұрын

You're so right, this happened to me and it turned out that I made the best decision.

@uniquegrace7354 11 ай бұрын

Wow! You just nailed it 💯

@_adenike 11 ай бұрын

The message at the end says it all; "what makes you happy doesnt have to make sense to someone else"

@Pastorneemarobinson Жыл бұрын

This is a good message, God removed me from bad people that made me loose relationship that were into marriage, but i thank God now no regrets, i have a better man & more matured and hoping for the best.👏🏻

@lovesworth100 5 ай бұрын

The issue is not with keeping your relationship private ..but u being content with who you have as a companion..not allowing the opinions of others shape your relationship.

@lashananorwood1732 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing this skit this was an eye opener

@gracetaiwo6824 Жыл бұрын

God deliver us from this kind of friends. Amen!

@graceemma9417 Жыл бұрын

I think the Franklin himself is in trouble with the wife he's about to have

@joshuangaaso3638 6 ай бұрын

The most important thing is, ladies are easily moved by what they hear. And the best installers of negative information into ladies is their friends. A lady that is clinged to her female friends especially if they are many is vulnerable. 😊

@getrudekabo7030 Жыл бұрын

Indeed it's a lesson, we need to careful for the friends we have

@chiny315 Жыл бұрын

Wow, this is good. Great lesson learned. Thanks to the Winlos as always

@josephchukwudi93 Жыл бұрын

Lass lass. Our environment should be watched. Mind your kind of friends. Mind who you listen to. People will put you under pressure for their own selfish interest. Their expectations shouldn't become yours always vet their opinion.

@pipaluv94 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this educative video! More and more grace to function.

@nataliecorbin1111 Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU SO MUCH !! THIS IS CLEAR REVELATION FOR ME GOD BLESS YOU MORE AND MORE FOR YOUR OBEDIENCE

@akewiogoolodumare6093 Жыл бұрын

Well done sir/ma 🙏. Whenever I make my relationship public that is the end. No fight, the relationship will just end like that. Although we are different. Making it public works for some people but doesn't work for me. Also, we should let God be our first adviser before getting opinion of people.

@shaymay2892 Жыл бұрын

I know who the guy is! He played the witchdoctor for the actress playing the girlfriend! So cool to see in different character. Good acting.

@natrinemweha8625 Жыл бұрын

Wisdom wisdom...We should be very prayerful for God to show us the right friends.

@pearlchikumbi1675 Жыл бұрын

Eish...What an important lesson... Thank you Winlos for this wonderful video

@adonaisservant1592 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the lesson. I won't forget it

@daisyzulu4119 10 ай бұрын

These ladies really know how to act. wishing their profession goes far💥

@fabalangtv1154 Жыл бұрын

This is a big message. As you serve God, serve Him diligently without minding what people say no matter the circumstances.

@odezishemiandrew3136 7 күн бұрын

Don't live your life by the opinions of others, that's what stood out for me. God bless the winlos and the entire casts of this short clip

@elishashappinesscampaign1597 Жыл бұрын

Watching this firstly on Facebook get me angry at some extent because you may think such things are not happening around us, but it does happening and thanks to the WILOS for such skit. It a blessing and eye opener to young singles especially the sister reading this now. For the bro, all I'll say is... God helps us Amen

@jeancharlesallouan2363 Жыл бұрын

Good Lesson. Thanks you so much!

@simplystacia7853 Жыл бұрын

This incidence happens everytime hmm we just can’t seem to keep quiet about our relationships.

@blessingbrown2311 Жыл бұрын

Such a blessing 🙏🏾🙏🏾

@TaflonPraise Жыл бұрын

thank you so much guys, for another teaching

@cuteshaddyidiola3859 Жыл бұрын

This happened to me,God warned me about telling people about my relationship but I did not listen until it got worse

@SsempalaRonald-yj3jm 4 ай бұрын

Winlos you do it me guys. Nice and may God anoint you more.. I watched prophet suddenly and you pitched me spiritually. Again thanks.

@ekeamadijacob619 14 күн бұрын

Some friends are worse than cancer. May God help us to discern rightly..

@aniefunasopuluchukwu7632 Жыл бұрын

Lessons. Thank you Winlos.

@cooliephilips671 Жыл бұрын

Best, best ahh, hallelujah.Glory be to God 🙏 Almighty.

@lizz9478 Жыл бұрын

I had a friend like this who thank God we stopped being friends and met a guy 6 years ago and now married. Had she been in my life would know where I’d be.

@nakityoviolet3100 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video ❤❤❤😊..... Only the Holy spirit knows why am thanking you

@ada8189 Жыл бұрын

There's this pressure and influence friends have. It may be necessary to change your influence...

@vasteraggie1853 Жыл бұрын

Ehhh bambi love many but trust few this this agreat lesson to us singles never make decisions from others just trust God as our final decision be blessed the winlos family 🙌🙌🙌

@mildredkijzer7364 4 ай бұрын

Hallelujah amen, do not trust not even your best friend, Lord have mercy🤦‍♀️🙏🙏🙏

@imonichristy2772 Жыл бұрын

God bless you great lesson to learn from shalom

@PraiseAlways-vf2dv Жыл бұрын

This is my own blood sister. All my meaningful suites ever. God forgive me and restore alll that I lost to frenemies and foolishness

@phoenixamanam9739 2 ай бұрын

All is excellent and to the Glory of God❤❤❤❤❤

@johnmatthew8596 Жыл бұрын

I am blessed ❤ 💝 💐 🎊 thank you so much ❤️

@TheH42G Жыл бұрын

Powerfully expressed!

@winimatics Жыл бұрын

Hmmm this is highly educating. God will continue to bless the Winlos abundantly with grace, strength, wisdom and resources they need to fulfill God's mandate in their ministry. I remembered when i was courting my hubby, his colleague's girlfriend was telling me how her boyfriend was giving her weekly allowance and making sure she doesn't lack anything. The thing almost instigated me into becoming angry with my hubby then for not giving me weekly allowance and it would've scattered the courtship but i decided to hide it from her and pretended that i was equally collecting allowance so as to obstruct more of her advice cos her advice was already influencing me negatively. Today am enjoying even more than the allowance and chaiiii HEAR AND FOLLOW GOD OOOOO

@phyllislowe3942 Жыл бұрын

This is a good one. I hope there aren't many women would be so naive to break up with a man because a friend said so. ! Really, she didn't need the Spirit of Discernment in this case, just a little common sense.

@e.b.afavor5536 Жыл бұрын

Amazing, great lesson

@sunnyhunn9315 Жыл бұрын

First off Franklin is wrong for even marrying her friend that was this closed to his girlfriend (although she’s fake), and this lady is easily brainwashed to break up over what others are saying, that fake friend is just what it is “fake”…All 3 of them are wrong on different levels. This fake friend who was saying how God said yes to marrying Franklin but she’s flaky, so I’m convinced she did NOT hear from God, it was messy and deceitful from the start…when she speaks, it lacked wisdom and authenticity. Neither of them did the right thing. How you convince someone out of a relationship, never told them that you’re dating the same guy, show up with wedding invitation, and with the audacity in asking to be bridesmaid and buy dress at least? (People like this really do exist, only wisdom of The Lord will help you to avoid them, if you lack discernment you’ll fall for their foolishness.) Now imagine, Franklin marrying her, when her real spec does show up, her real self will show again…This can go so many ways, she might enjoy the emotional security with Franklin but she’s not a good person, they somehow deserve each other. If Franklin had wisdom, he’d know to stay away from her. Lack of wisdom in all three people! Good job on the acting, everyone!

@damarisabimbola4756 Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@shaymay2892 Жыл бұрын

I disagree. The girl broke up with Franklin for no reason! He even said she's "overreacting". So he went with the friend. Yes, lacking discernment, but he not wrong...

@sunnyhunn9315 Жыл бұрын

@@shaymay2892 it’ll take “character judgment” to see how wrong Franklin is…! The friend is messy and lack integrity from the start, she went behind her friend’s back to date him THEN show up with wedding news after “ONLY” 6 months of them breaking up. She had a loud mouth to criticize and influence before, but cannot communicate with her friend (who clearly trusted her) about what’s been going on with dating Franklin after they’ve broken up, wisdom was not her compass so we know The Holy Spirit didn’t sponsor that relationship; which also puts Franklin in the wrong place as well, both are out of alignment. This is common sense, and also wisdom. Envy and dishonesty is written all over this, and God is NOT where there’s lack of integrity. I would NOT dare go behind my close friend’s back to date their ex’s that I told them to break up with…normal people don’t that, healthy people don’t behave like this; it’s about integrity and respect, only snakes moves like this: sneaky and clever in their ways, untrustworthy and selfish (even when she showed up to her friend’s house with wedding news, she didn’t even allow her the space to process what’s going on, she just wanted to convince her friend to accept her choice and disregarded how she felt, this is jezebel in action.)