Wife Cheated On Me With Her Ex, I Humiliated Her In Front Of Her Family & Served Her Divorce Papers.

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6 ай бұрын

Wife Cheated On Me With Her Ex, I Humiliated Her In Front Of Her Family & Served Her Divorce Papers.
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@chessieray1465 6 ай бұрын

Despite all this, I'm surprised no one raised hell at her job since she abandoned her patients.

@agrumpymonkey5800 6 ай бұрын

That makes me think this is a fake story

@Asyraf1997hanafi 6 ай бұрын

her father literally own the dental i think

@kristelneedtoknow3207 6 ай бұрын

She was asked to leave. Probably didn't want to make more of a scene as that might cause more issues for the practice.

@abigaildonahue6791 5 ай бұрын

They did say her dad kicked her out of the dental clinic.

@ladylily 5 ай бұрын

Right. And for the people saying she was made to leave, etc.., that was only AFTER the dad found out about the affair. Since this was his clinic, he would have known she had abandoned her patients for days at a time. He would have already talked to her about it and there would have already been problems before he learned of the affair.

@thelocalbear8754 6 ай бұрын

"She never wanted to marry me but had no choice." You always have a choice.

@Shava. 4 ай бұрын

We never had the choice to be born, be human or die, but other than that you have a valid point

@laxminarayanbhandari855 3 ай бұрын

Well, yeah, except for such things. @@Shava.

@yeyosilver7067 3 ай бұрын

That's d mb@@Shava.

@Yue_Jin 2 ай бұрын

Depending on your culture, sometimes it's do what you're told or death.

@yeyosilver7067 2 ай бұрын

@@Yue_Jin bullshit

@estebanjulioricardomontoya4524 6 ай бұрын

Leave the wife, and marry elijah. ma boi was all there and helping OP. What a chad

@joaop4585 6 ай бұрын

Homie deserved being kissed and called teddy honey buddy

@greatgamingendavour 5 ай бұрын

Yaa , frankly hetro mens and their simping and underserved loyalty towards females and simping for females r one of the main reason why males don't have proper security and rights in society and have to fight tooth and nails for bare basic privileges if they r not crazy stupid rich or successful . Unlike that having a guy as boyfriend or husband is much better once u get children's or better yet have them as surrogacy and adoptions and have husband's . There will be far less drama and neglect towards your children's . 🙄😤😮‍💨🤨

@TheForkOnTheLeftist 4 ай бұрын

Op is soft AF tho. Imagine cuddling days in a row with a woman you know is cheating... Pathetic

@Deadgaywalking 3 ай бұрын

@@joaop4585 he do.

@user-gc9ef2np1e 3 ай бұрын

Ayo, chill😅

@peagames2002 6 ай бұрын

Disowning his ungrateful daughter seemed like a perfect gift. He did him justice and brought out the truth. It's worse to live in a lie.

@fredericksaxton9782 6 ай бұрын

I get what she did was bad, but what? Do you people even listen to the story??? Her dad held something over her head and forced her to leave someone she actually loved, to marry someone he wanted her to marry. What weirdo would be grateful for that????? I'm sorry, but don't act like you'd just be okay if you dad pulled some manipulative bs like that. It's clear where her manipulative nature comes from.

@inihilisme1511 6 ай бұрын

@@fredericksaxton9782 He didn't held anything tho, it's his clinic and he can do whatever he wants with it, she can make a clinic herself, she already has the capacity to do the job, she choose to be dumb, loving someone who sound like a loser and marry someone "she doesn't love" (and that's her own word, she only started cheating a couple months ago, it sound like an excuse/manipulation)

@bugg1359 6 ай бұрын

@@fredericksaxton9782Although I understand the harsh reality with her father. She could’ve simply not comply and move on with her life WITHOUT his manipulative father and his rules. What she did was extremely selfish & heartless on her part. Using someone for her OWN WILL then cheat on them like if it’s okay it’s not fair for the husband. She deserved what she got, that’s all I’m going to say.

@RiseUpToYourAbility 6 ай бұрын

⁠@@bugg1359how was her dad manipulative? It was his clinic, and he can choose what he wanted to do with it. She can work somewhere else. She is not entitled to his clinic, and not having his clinic is not going to ruin her life. If a person can skip work and ignore her patients I wouldn’t want someone like that running my clinic.

@bugg1359 6 ай бұрын

@@RiseUpToYourAbility What I meant is that the father was trying to control his daughters life with his own inheritance. Ofc he has every right to do whatever he wanted, but his personal wishes has caused his daughter to become a greedy & horrible person over it. I’m not blaming the father for the daughter’s choices but she WANTED his clinic by any means so. I’m glad she was caught before the father ever gave her anything to begin with, she doesn’t deserve it.

@ARcinder 5 ай бұрын

Remember the 80/20 rule: Cheaters will ignore the 80% of work you do for 20% of the work her AP does. You cant do anything to change their perception. They only care about your 20%, that why yyiu just leave.

@TheForkOnTheLeftist 4 ай бұрын

Dude just say onve a cheater always a cheater

@laxminarayanbhandari855 3 ай бұрын

@@TheForkOnTheLeftist that's more like the aftermath

@bakedandbeaded 5 күн бұрын

@@TheForkOnTheLeftist Just say you don’t understand the 80/20 rule that’s being talked about instead of repeating the same exact phrase every other person uses in their response.

@TheForkOnTheLeftist 5 күн бұрын

@@bakedandbeaded I understand the rule. I also understand it isn't necessary to explain why to leave a cheater. This is akin to b babble tbh. You keep thinking you're superior though moron lol

@jack_stone 6 ай бұрын

I honestly feel bad for the dad. It seems unfair to pull this drama on his birthday. I'd wait for *her* birthday personally.

@happy-ld8vd 6 ай бұрын

I agree, it would’ve hurt so much more if it was her birthday. Then every year she would be reminded of she did on her special day

@raentrieve 6 ай бұрын

Yah, me too.

@joshuaadkins9820 6 ай бұрын

Nah, Its 1000x more petty to do it on the dads birthday. She seemed like a daddies girl, so practically getting disowned by him was probably a bigger deal than we think. Her dads birthday is completely tainted now.

@CherryGryffon 6 ай бұрын

@@joshuaadkins9820 This. Not only was she a daddy's girl trying to stay in his good graces but it's exactly that reason that means EVERY SINGLE YEAR he has a birthday he'll be immediately reminded of how fucking terrible she is. She has got NO shot at redemption within her family now, ever.

@jack_stone 6 ай бұрын

@@joshuaadkins9820 Yeah, no shit. I just mean it's unreasonable to drag his relationship drama on the dad's birthday when it's not like he was guilty of anything.

@gotenblack2542 6 ай бұрын

i hope this is fake cause no normal mother would ignore the voice of their kid needing their help then again there are people like that

@n.g.l. 6 ай бұрын

Cheaters obviously don’t care about their family. Especially when their actions are destroying not only their spouse’s life but their children.

@avanimation2263 6 ай бұрын

Alcohol does

@hahah822 6 ай бұрын

No mother? Hahaha, you haven't seen irresponsible mothers then lmao

@crossanddream2 6 ай бұрын

There are people like this

@noobyman333 6 ай бұрын

You'd be amazed how far people sink when they're deep in the fog.

@zerofate9669 6 ай бұрын

She had a choice yo marry op or leave and she stayed cuz she wanted the good life. She ignored her own kids and became a basic absent mother and let her child get hurt so badly for a fking phone call? I'm so glad she got outed to the entire family and lost the kids and better than that, her old love never wanted to marry her. She doesn't deserve a good husband, kids, or luxury life.

@yeetrreet2453 6 ай бұрын

I would have added more and more vanilla desserts, “Here honey have some *vanilla ice cream *”

@raentrieve 6 ай бұрын

haha, I like your sense of humor.

@DezAmmySel 6 ай бұрын

ohhh yep. if it were me she'd've been drowning in vanilla extract before i served those papers

@Lilac4053 6 ай бұрын

I came in expecting a cool story of revenge. Not even 20 seconds in and I'm already shifting in my seat. I don't think I'll feel right listening to this when they'll be using MY DANG USERNAME THE WHOLE TIME...

@draconicdusk5911 6 ай бұрын

I'm sure you're a far more graceful and respectable flower than OPs ex wife!

@raentrieve 6 ай бұрын

Ooof.. .Yah that couldn't be comfy. I'm sure you're way more awesome than her.

@mehmeh_ 6 ай бұрын

So, as one of the lilacs What do you think now that she has tainted the lilacs?

@peagames2002 6 ай бұрын

Well, Lilac is rather common name / nickname in some states.

@JohnSmith-laws 6 ай бұрын

Hey but at least it wasn't you in the story-

@jitsukoluvr 4 ай бұрын

This should never be the reason you make a man cry. Last time I made my man cry is when he was going through our old text messages when we first started dating to look at how far we’ve come, we’re still together💜💜

@Bmoandbutters-tl5pi 17 күн бұрын

Good for you, im happy for you. i hope your relationship is amazing.

@jitsukoluvr 17 күн бұрын

@@Bmoandbutters-tl5pi 2 years and still going :)

@arcadius3257 6 ай бұрын

There is no such thing as "minor cheating", either a person cheated or they didn't. Only problem I had with anything the husband said in the story. The wife is a straight up PoS.

@boybawang1981 5 ай бұрын

It's like being offered a SH*T SHAKE!! 99% Milkshake and 1% SH*T, that's still a SH*T SHAKE!!

@2livecrew88 6 ай бұрын

Dude married and had kids with an Alpha Widow one conversation with her dad about her exes would shown she wasn’t over him and was abusing substances thus them resuming their toxic pair bond 10 years later is extremely predictable. Vet your future Wife gentlemen

@C.G.Gaster 6 ай бұрын

That's why you don't let yourself get pressured into dating unless you're ready. Then you spend at least years vetting your lover out. If they wanna marry quick, it's a red flag. Man or woman.

@mulqueen2023 6 ай бұрын

This is more cliche written then a Wattpad fanfic and is just as real

@MrVernzie 6 ай бұрын

Some parts of this story seems very convenient, sounds like a writing exercise.

@mexicanboy92840 4 ай бұрын

Yeah, he lost me when he said his wife writes her phone password in her notebook.

@ieo8446 3 ай бұрын

The part about her completely abandoning her job as a dentist for several days without consequence is utter bullshit as well. Clear fake.

@GODdank Ай бұрын

@@mexicanboy92840 i do as well as i have multiple passwords.

@vaxel0068 6 ай бұрын

This is why you always ask about her past, you have to know what you're getting yourself into.

@hahah822 6 ай бұрын

I mean you can ask, but she can also lie and as she wanted the clinic she would probably lie anyways so why bother haha

@vaxel0068 6 ай бұрын

@@hahah822 this is why you don't only ask her, you go to her friends and family and act as if you have such an open mind your brain is falling out

@noobslayer6915 6 ай бұрын

@@vaxel0068 Idk about you, but if I have to pay someone to make a thorough investigation about every possible partner....well, I'd rather just not date.

@vaxel0068 6 ай бұрын

@@noobslayer6915 that's an option, but every choice has consequences and no one else but yourself will suffer through them. If you don't want to do your due diligence before committing then just ask OP how that turned out for him and ask yourself how badly you want to be in his place.

@jsb1585 6 ай бұрын

@@noobslayer6915You don't lock yourself into a legally and financially binding contract with someone without knowing that this person is absolutely the right one to make that commitment to.

@VexKingYoutube 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for uploading the full stories.

@ianmoritzplatapino3684 6 ай бұрын

the classic tale of a woman settling for the nice guy and f!"#$ the bad boy. glad the op had the spine to kick her to the curb

@ZipMapp 6 ай бұрын

It was over the second he proposed

@9eishitasharma501 5 ай бұрын

This is fake lol

@ZipMapp 5 ай бұрын

@@9eishitasharma501 Can't we dismiss any story with this?

@darkgod725 6 ай бұрын

2 mistakes: -Married in 1 year, 5 years minimum to know her/him friends and family. -let your parents dictate who to marry, they do that for their own interrests.

@AlyseA1689 3 ай бұрын

Especially the whole let your parents dictate who you marry. Makes me wonder if she had a choice at all this whole story just gives me gross vibes from all sides and I don’t mean her cheating is ok that’s never ok but still the whole thing is weird

@reillycurran8508 2 ай бұрын

@@AlyseA1689yeah same, Her dad shouldn't be allowed to disinherit her, the red second he conditioned her right to inherit on "marrying respectably" like she was some brood mare to auction off, he achieved levels of terrible parenting so vast it makes Agamemnon look like a father of the year by comparison!

@redhallow5201 6 ай бұрын

Nah, I would have brought the hammer down as soon as I confirmed her lying

@deluxegaming1108 5 ай бұрын

Good on ya mate nobody likes a cheater

@chrisstephens4935 6 ай бұрын

I never get why they just don’t get a 🕵️‍♀️, especially if they have the means

@peagames2002 6 ай бұрын

Just because someone is a virgin doesn't mean they wouldn't fall for infidelity. Unless someone wants an award for having sex with a virgin.

@Poodle_Gun 6 ай бұрын

Ex did this to me, his family took his side Same tired tale

@Bleu_Sky 6 ай бұрын

She slept with your brother, get revenge by sleeping with your brother!

@ai_d_in 6 ай бұрын

Hein🧐🤨

@TheRealEnclave 6 ай бұрын

@@ai_d_inישראלי?

@syed_tawqeer1203 6 ай бұрын

Any names having flowers in them are orange flags. 😂

@tonypragz 6 ай бұрын

the name itself is a red flag 😅

@gloomyadolescent1234 6 ай бұрын

Another extremely real story from reddit

@lelo8744 6 ай бұрын

OP is ChatGPT

@simplesyrup97 6 ай бұрын

Oh this guy has a way to differentiate the real and the fake stories. Too bad he isn’t sharing…

@quitenerdy1 6 ай бұрын

It's called a modicum of critical reasoning.

@publiusventidiusbassus1232 6 ай бұрын

There are real stories that are way, way, way wilder than this. I'm not saying this is true, most reddit stories are fake, but people that go "this is unbeliveable!" for something pretty mundane show a lack of life experience.

@censoredquotes3518 6 ай бұрын

I’m sure it’s fake since who the hell would write a phone password on a notebook. With that being said, stories like these do happen in real life as I’ve seen them with my own eyes.

@Yue_Jin 2 ай бұрын

Rushed into marriage Parents wanted them to get married as soon as they met (bad parents) So many red flags.

@jayblack854 6 ай бұрын

now that a good revenge. no job, her own family hate her.

@AlehorTheShadow 6 ай бұрын

Theres a lot of wifes' modeling boyfriends in those stories

@karinehediva 6 ай бұрын

Who tf name their daughter lilac in the first place

@LedRabel Ай бұрын

Elijah is a legend

@pollycipher 2 ай бұрын

0:18 Squidward: (Sniff) Lilac

@unclelink Ай бұрын

Facebook has almost exactly half of this story.

@pavelowpower 5 ай бұрын

So what is the woman’s role in this marriage? The man works, cooks for the kids and cleans. And the nanny does the rest, so what was she doing in this marriage?

@divyaism007 21 күн бұрын

Having fun with her ex boyfriend

@fantuckstic 5 ай бұрын

Lilac? Really...? Not Lily? 😂😂

@Zan140 6 ай бұрын

What a legend !

@segmu4376 4 ай бұрын

I posted on reddit about my cheater ex. These have become my therapy at this point.

@slayerwytch2032 Ай бұрын

Well… I hope it was worth it… If they’re gonna do it with you, then they’ll gonna do it to you

@H1t1voidsroom Ай бұрын

If this happen to me im taking the kids divorcing and never letting my ex wife see tge kids.

@grde37fds 5 ай бұрын

Nuclear revenge !!!! Ohhhh yeahhhh

@somkhandagumbi 6 ай бұрын

Man what a story

@grt8guy03 3 ай бұрын

remember, once a cheater always a cheater

@karheipa6290 Ай бұрын

L lilac.i dont know why she didnt get fired

@WolfyOfHonor 5 ай бұрын

One of the fakest bullshits I have heard in a while.

@kelupthegnome2871 2 ай бұрын

Im always surprised by these stories and how easily the cheating spouse surrenders and just signs the papers. When i got divorced, my and my now ex-wife signatures had to be notarized to be legal. To be fair, that may just be where i live and may not apply where they are. Though she really just let it slide that he just nuked her chances of getting the clinic, and she didn't make the divorce as hard as possible. I just don't see it.

@eshaytoastie9790 5 ай бұрын

Yes another doormat who says something but does another thing....

@markmessina7895 4 ай бұрын

You didn’t confront her ? That’s part of the problem. Grow a set . There is no reason To follow her.

@FAMIB 5 ай бұрын

Pure fanfiction.

@markmessina7895 4 ай бұрын

Grab the phone and throw it out the window.

@maanast 2 ай бұрын

There was this could have been solved talk to your husband and get a divorce before cheating . But get divorce for the right reasons especially when you have two kids . 😅

@Valast 5 ай бұрын

Yk, i hope you are still in contact with her parents

@markmessina7895 4 ай бұрын

She was not a great wife and mother. These stories are so ridiculous. You ask her why she lied about her day yesterday. Give me your phone and let me know what your doing. Confront her loser .

@moocow4u2 6 ай бұрын

Got any malicious compliance?

@kk_thebest_lol Ай бұрын

6:15 is the most interesting part yall 💀💀

@peachyarts386 5 ай бұрын

I swear but if the wife had just been honest about her feeling that the relationship was stale this entire situation could have been avoided like I am no relationship expert as I only been in 2 relationships and both were not really good but I know damn enough that communication is key I mean we are freaking humans we should be able to communicate with each other way better than other species but nah.... society is just too stupid I guess-

@sparkeyjames 4 ай бұрын

This woman is a sad excuse of a human. Why is it that the Chad loser gets the woman's favor over the stable successful loving father type. Love the fact that he stuck it to her in such a public way. Kudos for the father disowning her.

@Moon-kh4gm 6 ай бұрын

parkour man struggling fr

@cris4ever70 5 ай бұрын

Hope it’s not real tbh. I saw the 2 year cheaters before and for those situations there is no turning back and whatnot so this relationship where he could physically see her drifting away during a month, feels like something could have been done. Though it did felt kind of doomed from the beginning, the girl only marrying for stability, the guy not knowing much about his ex past after 10 years of marriage, her father’s conditional support, their inability to communicate their relationship difficulties. If it’s real, then it was a recipe for disaster.

@AlyseA1689 3 ай бұрын

I just still feel so gross from the beginning when dude said both their parents wanted them to marry so they did? Like wtf seems like she never wanted to be with him and was pressured into it. Not saying what she did was ok at all but it does make me wonder what their culture is like.

@Firegod13244 3 ай бұрын

"She had tp describe the process pf RCT" My weeb ass brain: reverse cursed technique?

@mexicanboy92840 4 ай бұрын

She wrote down the password for her phone on her note book? How fake do you want this? Yes.

@thousandyardgavri2785 5 ай бұрын

Fake or not, this is the kinda story I want The petty revenge. I hate pity stories

@forest6008 6 ай бұрын

unpopular opionion, its the dads fault, dont make your kid marry someone for a partucular reason, they will fuck it up

@RiseUpToYourAbility 6 ай бұрын

He didn’t make her marry him. It’s not an arranged marriage. Plus she couldn’t get the bad boy to marry her even if she tried.

@reillycurran8508 2 ай бұрын

@@RiseUpToYourAbilityhe made her marry at all, man treated her like a brood mare to be auctioned off then has the audacity to be mad that she would go about it only to take what should have been split between her and her brother if they were both going into dentistry anyways. I'd have ripped the dad a new asshole for being such an awful father that it manifested a dagger to stab me in the heart all for his own ego.

@253Monty 5 ай бұрын

Seems fake

@hotshower695 6 ай бұрын

No way is this real

@dinkyd1533 6 ай бұрын

This story may not be real but this type of crap happens in the real world.

@reillycurran8508 5 ай бұрын

I blame the dad for this, none of this would have happened if he didn't condition her ability to inherit from his estate on her being married. Like yeah cheating bad but incentivizing it by forcing your child to basically be your pet to practice husbandry on is parenting so terrible Agamemnon's even starting to look good in comparison.

@Tempaway889 4 ай бұрын

I disagree. If she didn't like him she could've divorced but to stay with him for 10 years, cheat and lie the whole time, makes you in the wrong

@michaelgatt7642 4 ай бұрын

Can’t blame the death for this one if she wanted her own clinic then she should’ve opened one regardless of his conditions. what she had was a case of entitlement she didn’t want to sit there and do the work needed to open and operate her own successful clinic, shaking my head

@gamerkat1492 Ай бұрын

PI TIME

@SinTransphobicTrigger 6 ай бұрын

Another opportunistic vulture. No act is too deprived or intricate to play. They will build you the family you desire and tear it all down.

@TOTN17 5 ай бұрын

This sounds fake

@JoelXl-zc4rp 4 ай бұрын

Threw away a decade of marriage to cheat, why do these women seriously do this? You got everything made and a happy marriage, why give that up?

@DayumSonny 6 ай бұрын

Another fool that married a red flag cause he fell for her looks and then got cheated on. Great.

@travonhackett1401 6 ай бұрын

Cool I’m third

@gauravjyala1002 6 ай бұрын

Hey

@Jana-ho9mu 6 ай бұрын

@VexKingYoutube 6 ай бұрын

Hello

@therealneutrxl 6 ай бұрын

Hey

@cliffordthefossilizeddog697 6 ай бұрын

Howdy🤠

@zemoth941 6 ай бұрын

Sup ✌

@godofthecripples1237 6 ай бұрын

This sounds incredibly fake, not because of the events but because it sounds like it was written by an amateur writer. I just can't believe this is how a real person would write all of this out.

@FlamesAndShadows 23 күн бұрын

I'm sorry, but whatever happens I already don't like this guy for condemning his partner on a completely unrelated thing as 'minor cheating'. He really should be partnered with someone who monopolizes hours of his time daily to retell every minute happenstance, every chew of the lunch, essays of interpreting every friend/coworker's facial twitch, bit of gossip and general life complaints for this, or someone who calls or texts immediately and throughout every second he's not in their field of vision getting whiney, angry and blameshifty if he doesn't pick up or reply in less than 30 seconds. Seriously they would deserve each other and make a perfect or educationally karmic couple :/

@unclelink Ай бұрын

Facebook has almost exactly half of this story.

@unclelink Ай бұрын

Facebook has almost exactly half of this story.