Sounds like your teaching them responsibility of being on time, it is important x

That’s important to teach them to be on time and responsible! Love you guys 💗

I think its a great idea. They have the boundaries ahead of time. You give them all the info they need. Its not about not loving them its about loving them so much you want to teach them things they need for the future. Its easier to learn with roots and wings ( you there to guide when things get out of hand) then to be thrown out with not roots and wings. we all have rough moments of growth and change but having someone to guide is always better.

You can really tell that all of your kids are so respectful. Y’all are wonderful parents and they’re blessed to have y’all!

Time management is HUGE for new adults! I love this idea!!

This is exactly the way you should do it. A counselor gave us that suggestion in the past. We all learn best by failing first.

Such a good idea, to teach your kids to be on time and to be ready for the adult world. I am such a stickler about being on time. When I lived in AZ for a few years I loved the car washes there. They did such a fantastic job.

I actually think it’s great, being late is a terrible habit to have cuz you’re not respecting other people’s time. My dance teacher would always say if you arrive 5 minutes early you’re on time, if you arrive on time you’re late, if you arrive 5 minutes late you’re not there

There is nothing wrong with teaching your children how to be responsible. You are also teaching them how to be respectful of others. P.S. don't pay attention to any negative comments. Keep up the good work 👏 👍 👌

I don't think people should give you a hard time about this vlog. You are teaching your children a valuable lesson. When they get a job, their employer is going to want them to be on time.

It’s so awesome to see Spencer Harlan and Weston again. Love seeing everyone. Hugs 💕💕

Teaching responsibilities being on time is good

Shelley and Jared don’t listen to what other people say you both are great parents.I loved the car wash that was pretty cool seeing the duck!much love to you all Crazymiddles!❤️🥰

Time management is a very well appreciated thing in the Adult World! Brilliant parenting!

I was taught on time is late, 15 minutes early, is on time, and 30 minutes early, is when you're early. I don't know that, that it's necessarily, something you would want to adopt. However, it definitely was good for me. I love that y'all are teaching them the importance of being on time. Be punctual.

Both my parents were always early to everything. So now I'm either an hour or 2 early. It's annoying because like her I wake up all hours thinking ill over sleep even though I always wake up at 5:30 😂

I saw Shelley in the pink and thought it was surprisingly slimming (black being the "slimming Colour") as well as young and fresh. Embrace colour, Shelley, it suits your vibrant personality.

My mom taught us that if you are on time you are late. You should always be at least 5-10 minutes early.

You guys are doing a fantastic job! I lost my 22 year old last year from a brain injury. He was a stickler about being on time. And explaining why. 😊

Being on time is a great thing to learn! Nothing wrong with your method. Boys night looked fun, too bad Coby wasn’t there too.

I loved seeing Spencer Harlan weston and Jacob all in this vlog

Early is on time, on time is late, late is unacceptable. My Drill Instructor in boot camp said it all the time. We where never late.

This is a life skill that is important for them to learn. No one should be hating this.

I got my drivers license a month ago, and pride myself on the fact that I haven’t been late to school once. I love being on time!

Responsibility is the key. Great work Shelly & Jared

Why would you all think that people would object to you teaching your kids to be on time? Even late people don't like other late people.😊

It’s nice to see Harlan & Spencer in the video don’t really see much of the older kids anymore.❤️

I’m currently binging all of your videos from the beginning. I love to see how they have all grown and matured. ❤

It's very important to teach core values

when I used to drive my daughter to school I would be out in the car at 7:05- for every minute that passed and she did not come out I would drive down one more house away- the later she was the further she had to run to catch up with me.

Awesome job, Jared spending time with the boys ! Westin looks great as does Harlan and Spencer. But wow Jacob is the tallest ? Guys should hang out more. We see the girls together a lot. Hope to see the guys do this more . Missing Cody but maybe next round ?

My mantra is if I am on time it means I am late. I always arrive 15 minutes early and wait outside if it’s a friends visit. A dr’s appointment is fine to go into the waiting room early.

My mom does the same thing if we aren’t down stairs and waiting outside she will leave she has does it before in the past so maybe my mom was teaching us too to be on time and we never knew it

Thank you for teaching them to be respectful and responsible. It’s so important in life.

Y'all arm wrestling is literally me and my family 😂

Kylie and Marc arm wrestling was amazing 😂😂😂❤❤

family feud would be fun

Nothing wrong with the way you manage time my parents done it the same way and I quickly learned when they say we are leaving at a certain we leave or be left behind 😂

Happy Belated Gotcha Day Aubree ❤

Punctuality is key

Alex I'm sorry you're hurting. You are an incredible young man. My ex husband and I have been best friends for 48 years now. We still love each other as friends. He, and his girlfriend (whom I love) We still celebrate Thanksgiving, Christmas, and Easter together at our daughter and son-in-law's house. It really Is possible to stay friends. In fact at our divorce the was no animosity, and We even hugged each other in front of the judge. She looked at us and said, " Are you sure you want a divorce?

I think it’s great your teaching them responsibility and how to be on time/early .

Hello Crazy Middles I love watching your videos. You are an amazing family ❤️

You know what they should do I couldn't comment on the video. but they should do who knows them best again mom vs dad because I want to see how much they have changed that would be very cool if they did that. Also I love this video and how there teaching them to be responsible.

So glad you are teaching them responsibility, so important for many aspects of life.

Yes , it's Important for children to respectable and responsible ........ you left Aubery in a safe space , it's okay to leave children at home with the rest of the family

I never commented, but my parents did to that to us… all 3 are super on time even now that we are super old.

15 I drove from Yuma to Phoenix front of my car you could not see the red paint but bugs I had to stop 2times just to clean window

Kiley everything always needs a little sparkle ✨ lol. Kiley is looking so much like Shelly now when they stand next to each other. Aubrey is doing so good and she is such a sweet heart. Love medieval times, I went to one I Toronto, lol love how guys turn into kids with new toys it's adorable.

Y'all both look so good and you can see in your faces that y'all have lost so much weight wish I could love your family and videos

They are growing up so fast. Y'all are doing such a good job with your Kids.and today is my birthday I am 54 today

I believe in time management. I always emphasized time management to my kids. I always told them time is always against us. Especially, if the intersection lights are not working, accident, slow drivers. Anyways it's better to be early vs. Late.

Hi Shelley definitely not being a bad parent to teach your kids not to be late for things

Im actually dealing with the same thing with my 17 wanting to get his permit. Missed the time twice. If it’s important they will learn the lesson.

I was always taught if your not 15 minutes early you were late… I can’t stand it to be late! Great job working on that now!

No listen I like how you teaching your kids time management because I'm massage therapist and you won't believe how many times adults don't know when to be on time and always late or for get. That's amazing your teaching you kids and if they don't you leave them good parenting I wish everyone teach their kids time management

I do not have many pet peeves. But my biggest one is being late. Everyone in my familiy knows if I say we were at 10 a.m. I am leaving at 10 a.m. My grandson learn that lesson when we were suppose to be going to Dave & Busters. He has never been late again if I say we are picking him up.

I commend you for teaching the kids responsibilities. All children should be taught life skills.

If you’re early you’re on time if you’re on time you’re late 😂 I have a family member who has TERRIBLE time management as a full grown adult and it is really annoying!!! Don’t be that person it’ll tick me off 😂

So good to see the guys in the video

"What would happen if you talked to me like that?" "Um nothing" lol

2017 was adopted dang only 6 years ago

Midevil times is so cool I been there a few times I hope u guys had fun

When you were saying there was a duck I thought you was going to open the window next to Audrey and say duck maybe I’m just mean lol

What you did was teach your child responsibility without belittling them. As long as they are old enough to take care of themselves without an adult present, I personally don’t find what you did problematic - as long as you explained to them your decision making process to leave them behind.

Yay, long time since Weston. Spencer & Harlan been in a vlog. Always awesome to see them❤

Medival times is so fun

I can't believe your adoption day is on my birthday

that's great way to teach them through natural consequences! punctuality can make all the difference in a job - especially with shift work you could be the best on the team but if you're late you'll not be popular!

I totally get it. My boys are the worst at getting themselves up on time.

I am 57 years old now but growing up my dad had a saying. If you are early your on time, if your on time your late, and if you are late you are fired It has stuck with me all my life and I have never been late or fired.😂😂😂😂😂

Totally understand especially with that many kids

That's a very good puppy🎉 and she also is a very good happy puppy❤

Good seeing the boys get together for a fun night out.

Love this…teaching responsibility as well as being considerate to others! Good job! 👍

I plan on going to Medieval Times for my 30th birthday! I love that place

Did Aubrey actually drive home

i so love that you are teaching them to be on time being late puts others in a bind

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“You’re early, not late!” Lesson learned!

I am really impressed with Aubrey. An incredible young lady

Hi I love you guys

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hi! love you guys!

what about teaching them about online privacy?

I watching your videos and I have my bells on your videos and I'm subscribed to your videos and I watching your friends videos on KZfaq too much 👍 😄 😂

You guys make a car wash fun and I love the duck!

Good job! Aubrey. You did it🎉. Weston, Spencer , Jacob, and Harlan ❤ so special bonding time with mom and dad. Greetings and blessings from Guatemala 🇬🇹♥️

Hey Crazy Middles family how r y'all doin

Great idea but Wells Fargo is a horrible bank

Wonderful video

You all are prepairing your kids for the real world. And being on time, is apart of the real world. Shelley, my favorite color is purple as well. It's been my favorite color since elementary school. I'm 58 years old now.

Love you guys so much! ❤️

Hi all good morning happy Friday morning and I loved your vlogs and you all amazing Supporter and I'm proud of all of you

Your fine I do the same thing your great parents

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Hi crazy middles I hope you enjoy making a video

My mum was the same I was always left behind lol now when I have an appointment I am always an hour early I learnt my lesson 😂😂

Your puppy is so very cute and sweet and so is your sisters puppy🎉❤

Arm wrestle for ?