The plaintiff is suing his ex-fiancée for the balance due on unpaid loans and a TV. The defendant denies owing the plaintiff for anything, claiming that he forgave the debt.
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@ChosenVessel824 жыл бұрын
I feel for him. He seems to be batteling depression. If that's the case I am praying for your healing sir. Depression is a silent killer.
@Darkvirgo88xx4 жыл бұрын
Get counseling is what he should do. Don't be ashamed nothing wrong with getting help and getting out what is hurting you.
@ChosenVessel824 жыл бұрын
@@Darkvirgo88xx I 1000% percent agree. There is such a negative schema associated with mental illness that people rather die then share those hurts. There id help out there.
@Darkvirgo88xx4 жыл бұрын
VintageSista yep took me forever to say forget it I will let it out and was a big weight off my shoulders.
@ChosenVessel824 жыл бұрын
@@Darkvirgo88xx good for you, I am happy. We all deserve the opportunity to be happy and recognize our potential. Keep fighting.
@Buddha37184 жыл бұрын
I’m suprised at so many views. Both her and I have been through a lot separately this year. I’m grateful for your prayers as my depression has gotten much better - Jeremy
@isaysayi43424 жыл бұрын
He may have lost the case but he won all our hearts over ❤❤❤
@john.jai.sullivan2 жыл бұрын
Yupp!
@AshleyAshleyAshley3954 жыл бұрын
She wrong as hell for not giving him the money back. She don’t deserve him. I hope he finds someone that appreciates his generosity.
@NellieKAdaba4 жыл бұрын
I agree, I think she is a gold digger and took advantage of him.
@sharonsmalls68464 жыл бұрын
@Nellie K. Adaba Both of them agreed he was verbally and emotionally abusive. She's wrong for not being in an abusive relationship? He wasn't working and her business was generating points on his credit card until he forgave the debt. Then I think he forgets because he had memory lapses.
@valeedadavidson6784 жыл бұрын
@@sharonsmalls6846 "SHES WRONG FOR NOT BEING IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP"?
@sharonsmalls68464 жыл бұрын
Valeeda Davidson That’s my query as well. I was so emotional about many of the postings that I didn't proofread my posting. That was a question and not a statement. Because this man was polite in court it is as if no one listened to the testimony. She was in a horribly abusive relationship. He said it, she said it. He had mood swings, was verbally abusive, and memory lapses to name a few of the things she was experiencing with him. I'm sure it was a nightmare.
@rashardstallworth92404 жыл бұрын
You soung like a good Woman
@letsgetdressed_sc4 жыл бұрын
Damn, he ok? I wonder what the emotional issues are he's dealing with? He has me worried for him and I dont even know him
@Buddha37184 жыл бұрын
I’m ok thank you. Please don’t worry. I’m pretty strong now. - Jeremy
@heatlifer36404 жыл бұрын
He’s depressed he doesn’t have her. He’ll get over it when he meets another woman.
@coachmuhammad77994 жыл бұрын
Tissa W 🥺🥺🥺
@NikaNeek4 жыл бұрын
I know me too, I hate how emotional I get for strangers
@swedenoble60833 жыл бұрын
She ate him to death Terrible on the sweet man.
@sweetcandykane92724 жыл бұрын
Honestly I suffer with depression myself and at times can't remember things in detail, so I could sympathize with him. What hurt the most was hearing him say I can't have you I wish I could get the money. Depression kills so be kind.
@charmaineblake50204 жыл бұрын
Yes, be kind or try to be understanding, because you never know what people are going through. I hope that you find a path to healing from your depression. Take Care.
@vaREss334 жыл бұрын
He looks like Huck from Scandal 😭❤️. She’s trash though and he deserves so much better.
@NikaNeek4 жыл бұрын
@Raven King he does and kind of has mannerisms like him too
@nubiacairo88354 жыл бұрын
I don't think she's trash. He seems to have a memory problem and she has a text that shows he forgave the loan. He's a real nice guy though. He's going through some stuff. Probably depression or some other kind of mental issue. I really do wish him all the best.
@myznotniceniecy3 жыл бұрын
YESSSSS, and he too was battling some past issues !
@zionakinjide6504 жыл бұрын
She could be nice to him too and give him something......Cut your losses bro and go heal.
@bleedinggreennation82914 жыл бұрын
Probably hard to heal if you're a guy who can't get women. Especially the ones you really want.
@blacknerdygirlsrock4 жыл бұрын
Bleeding Green Nation well that’s y’all problem. You want women who don’t want you and lose yourself trying to appeal to them instead of reaching for the women who do want you. That’s on y’all.
@blacknerdygirlsrock4 жыл бұрын
He is no victim.
@bleedinggreennation82914 жыл бұрын
@@blacknerdygirlsrock I hear ya but a female most of times won't even speak to you if you're unattractive or unimportant or both. And let's say the guy is a 4. Well if a female is a 4. She doesn't want to be with a 4 and she thinks that she's a 8. And a lot of females would rather hookup with other females before they would hookup with a unattractive man.
@Jack21Spades4 жыл бұрын
... and that's the price a decent mo'fo pays for being a decent mo'fo. smmfh
@meganmartin20374 жыл бұрын
For saying forget it I just want u in my life.. Basically saying dont worry about the money I need u in my life and she hasnt talked to him and hes hurt. These ppl saying he abused her so bad he straight admitted it. I've been in abusive relationships.. those guys never admit they did u wrong its always turned around on to the one being abused.
@ISayToMyself4 жыл бұрын
Brother needs to get to know himself before getting into another relationship. There are nice guys and then there are door mats.
@respecthewoman3 жыл бұрын
She seems like she wanted to be with him but wasn't able to deal with his emotional issues. This may have been the most honest and respectful man I've ever seen on a judge show. And Judge Mathis picked that up and was so suprised that he wanted to pay him. Wowa!
@sarahrean71748 ай бұрын
Well it's hard I would never date someone who is depressed from the beginning
@8806Erika4 жыл бұрын
That "I can't have you" at the end 🤦🏾♀️ bro...move on. Lol he really just tried to shoot his shot after all of that 🤦🏾♀️
@bleedinggreennation82914 жыл бұрын
It ain't that easy to move on if you're a less attractive guy.
@kingcrip034 жыл бұрын
Erika Kane wow your gorgeous 😍😍😍
@8806Erika4 жыл бұрын
@@bleedinggreennation8291 true...but at least have a little pride lol
@8806Erika4 жыл бұрын
@@kingcrip03 thanks 😊
@bleedinggreennation82914 жыл бұрын
@@8806Erika yep and some dignity lol
@thewise24434 жыл бұрын
Judge mathis always cutting ppl off & always like saying pll doing crack🤣🤣🤣😂
@doughnutsglaze4844 жыл бұрын
Right lol, I like him though and maybe crack was involved lol
@BSmith-yl3je4 жыл бұрын
I feel for him but she’s still not wanting him
@itsjustnopinionok4 жыл бұрын
The heart wants what the heart wants. It would be unfair to both to be with someone who your not well matched to.
@bleedinggreennation82914 жыл бұрын
@@itsjustnopinionok yeah but if he's like a 5. Why can't he be with a 5 like her? She's gonna go try and get with guys out of her league. And she'll probably have feelings for another female before she would him.
@sharonsmalls68464 жыл бұрын
@@bleedinggreennation8291 What?
@mcmariahcareyfan2004 жыл бұрын
@@sharonsmalls6846 He's calling them ugly.
@sharonsmalls68464 жыл бұрын
Rissa Jacques Thank you. The comment made no sense to me.
@B.jacksonn4 жыл бұрын
I don’t think I would have left him omg even though I wasn’t in their relationship but he’s so sweet
@Sunshine134chick4 жыл бұрын
B Jackson he probably switch up fast
@sharonsmalls68464 жыл бұрын
He admitted to being verbally abusive because he has emotional problems.
@kevinhall9254 жыл бұрын
Im sweet like that ...
@thatfuninstructor4 жыл бұрын
Please don't fall for the sweet guy act.
@mcmariahcareyfan2004 жыл бұрын
@@thatfuninstructorExactly.
@MrPaulPiper3 жыл бұрын
I have a lot of respect for Judge Mathis giving that man $50.
@mrscjcsr4 жыл бұрын
He paid the guy for being respectful in court! 😂 The defendant should have spoke up and said "I was respectful too! Give me some of that money!"
@azeei54484 жыл бұрын
I lost it when Judge Mathis gave the $50 to dude 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@mikevota22363 жыл бұрын
I hope he gets the help that is needed . Seems like a good person🙏
@hotmama2984 жыл бұрын
I felt sad after the verdict. I know she has no obligation but she should have paid him back. I think he needs help, I hope gets the help he needs
@MiLoveHazel4 жыл бұрын
He was nice and all in the courtroom but he seemed a little out of it. I can’t deal with mood swings...people could snap at any moment and that’s dangerous....i would run
@starrjohnson13273 жыл бұрын
I agree. Everyone is commenting that he seems so "nice". The defendant said he was verbally abusive and didn't work. She dodged a bullet!
@percyjackson54172 жыл бұрын
@@starrjohnson1327 he seems and comes off as very nice. Doesnt mean they should stay together or that theyre a good fit. She admits to still owing him money, knows he going through a rough time and still refuses to pay him back. He was extremely generous and wanted her and she took advantage of that
@joytoyouandme45933 жыл бұрын
It’s sad when people have the need to use money in exchange for love. Even sadder when someone allows them to do so.
@redgurl604 жыл бұрын
People blow me. Yeah he's nice- NOW! Did we miss the part where she said he became verbally abusive, and he agreed. He wasn't wronged. They were both going through their own trauma at the same time. The only reason he sued her is b/c she doesn't want to be with him anymore. He doesn't want the money- HE WANTS HER!!! This was manipulative af! Tf is wrong with yall. Sir needs a counselor, not his exfiance.
@chi-gemini29514 жыл бұрын
Nique Franklin I agree
@maryoverton34924 жыл бұрын
Truth!!
@mahogany_chanel4 жыл бұрын
The she said he treated me right he was good to me soooooooo.... it was kind of a contradiction that’s why the judge disregarded the comment because we all know he doesn’t like men that mistreat women.
@NikaNeek4 жыл бұрын
@mahoganyc miles I agree, the verbal abuse was probably them arguing, she said he treated her well, he was in a bad place and people argue in relationships and verbal abuse doesn’t negate you owing me money lol, if he was in a bad place mentally of course he said I just want you, and if she didn’t want him she should’ve given the money back
@Powerdriver7774 жыл бұрын
I agree. To many men depend on women to much. He act like his life evolved around her. That shows how horrible his life is.
@ritaprivate83993 жыл бұрын
I hope he can get counseling. He's nice.
@jilldambrosio42734 жыл бұрын
Some people have no concience . She needs to pay back the money.
@wilclark48324 жыл бұрын
ugh he's a cutie but obviously suffering from Depression..hope he is well
@MissBeeTV4 жыл бұрын
He's emotionally unstable.. He needs to work on his demons before trying to be in a relationship with someone else.
@Cool_Ace4 жыл бұрын
....about her being manipulative and not paying him back
@sharonsmalls68464 жыл бұрын
Nathan Cox I believe many of these people don't know what a healthy relationship entails. Both of them admitted that he was verbally abusive. And people are responding ’aw he's so sweet.’ What in the world!!🤦🏿♀️
@georiejakes17544 жыл бұрын
Girl shut up
@MaryWilliams-fr2ts4 жыл бұрын
So nice of judge Mathis to give this man a gift
@beautifulinsideandout98224 жыл бұрын
Her heart wasn't in it.
@tykeishecaldcleught61054 жыл бұрын
She walked in with an attitude.
@doughnutsglaze4844 жыл бұрын
Judge mathis you are great! If you gave me money I'd put it in a frame! Lol
@9nineinches2874 жыл бұрын
Hello Sondra
@doughnutsglaze4844 жыл бұрын
@@9nineinches287 hello
@fathima52094 жыл бұрын
I feel they both had too many emotional mismatches and trials to actually be the right partner to one another. The plaintiff clearly is suffering from some kind of amnesia which may also be due to the emotional trauma he underwent. Truly wish him the best.
@meganmartin20374 жыл бұрын
Depression will cause memory issues.. I feel for him been there
@CainaanDC4 жыл бұрын
Don't worry Jeremy there are other fish in the sea.
@mzruffin7864 жыл бұрын
Nice guys always tend to get the losing end. In some cases or situation
@bleedinggreennation82914 жыл бұрын
Yeah that would be me.
@mcmariahcareyfan2004 жыл бұрын
I think you missed out on the fact that he's a mentally unstable, ABUSIVE individual. I pray you never have to experience the fake "Nice Guy" persona. Most of em are sociopaths.
@preciousgemstylez17684 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for him, but honestly, if he couldn't have her, then he wanted the money back. He forgave the loan in hopes of getting back with her, it didn't work and now he Sue's her. She should in good faith pay him his money back forgiven or not. He seems to be going through depression, and they both admitted he was verbally abusive, I wouldn't want to stay in a relationship like that either.
@mirrr51564 жыл бұрын
I hope she does the right thing and pays him back
@BWillz4 жыл бұрын
I feel that if this case had went to Judge Judy he would have won, because as soon as that demon i mean chick had admitted that she owed the money back that would have been the end of that, Cause Judge Judy would have saw straight through her and how she took advantage of him and his emotions, and i feel like thats how it should have went and plus they are not still together..
@taylorthenatural55094 жыл бұрын
He's no saint. He admitted he was verbally abusive.
@BWillz4 жыл бұрын
@@taylorthenatural5509 Thats because he was going through something and his so called wife wasnt being supportive and just wanted what she could get out of that man, if you was paying attention you would have knew that, its no different than when yall are PMSing yall get attitudes and say "alot" of things yall shouldnt say but we dont leave or divorce you because of it..
@meganmartin20374 жыл бұрын
@@taylorthenatural5509 someone who truely is abusive will not admit It. Hes battling depression and PTSD.. from losing his step dad by being hit by a car. She used him
@Sabrewood134 жыл бұрын
Taylor Sipp thank you everyone skins over that as if he’s some saint he even admitted when she was going through something he wasn’t there for her it’s like cause he spoke nice everyone took everything he said and made it a boo boo poor him he wasn’t good for her she left and now she’s the bad guy for leaving ??? Like make it make sense
@meganmartin20374 жыл бұрын
@@Sabrewood13 I get where both sides are coming from. But did u hear him say his step dad got hit by a car.. and if u lose someone so so close u to u. Its hell. Then he said that two months after which are some of the worst months she confided in him with some problems that she had going on and he wasnt able to be there.. and I'm not saying its right but if uve been there its hell. It really is hell. I lost my brother to cancer aug 3rd 2018 at 31 years old, left behind my 5 yr old nephew and 6 yr old nephew. Then almost lost my mom to her auto immune diseases such as multiple sclerosis. Graves disease, and sarcoidosis. And now just found out my dad has cancer also, the drs didnt give him his blood results for over 7 years. and life has been a pure miserable struggle. You guys they are friends. People dnt work out. But one thing I know real abusers don't admit there abusers. They turn it on you. Especially when ur down. Just look at it from a differnt view. No one knows what's going on from a few minutes which things are edited out.
@emerytaylor96594 жыл бұрын
Just be single, Most Women don’t love most men. Especially attractive sought after women. If you find one that does love you , never show her that you love her more than she does you because that’s when she will lose respect and use you.
@yulnikita4 жыл бұрын
If you ask a woman to marry you and she "freaks out" and says "your trapping me!" etc, and you think that is cute and endearing something is off with you! Can't force yourself into someones life & it looks like he has those tendencies.
@sharonsmalls68464 жыл бұрын
Especially when you have emotional problems, memory lapses, aren't working, and are verbally abusive. Don't allow yourself to be trapped with such a person. That's a life of misery.
@Buddha37184 жыл бұрын
That’s an interesting thought. It didn’t feel that way to me when I proposed to her. We had an amazing weekend after that. - Jeremy B.
@meganmartin20374 жыл бұрын
@@Buddha3718 ignore her Jeremy shes a bitch
@oseia98174 жыл бұрын
@@Buddha3718 this ain't you from the show so stop pretending...
@oseia98174 жыл бұрын
sounded like a friendzone-d relationship. he wanted to move things forward, she wasn't so sure about it, said yes, and regretted everything after that...
@jasmineyoungblood4 жыл бұрын
I hope he can move on and be with someone who actually wants him back. I hate that he let himself get manipulated by her 🤦🏾♀️. She knew he would’ve went to the moon and back for her and took advantage of that
@jessicabrueggeman19434 жыл бұрын
Right on...he says, "you can always pay me back the money." Fr, don't act all concerned and then be like, "thanks for the gift, wish I could make you feel better." 🙄🤦Trifling.
@melanin_monroe18974 жыл бұрын
I get he was nice and all but the fact that he didn’t even say thank you to the judge for the 50 bucks really made me feel some type of way. 🙄
@tshiruh54 жыл бұрын
He did at 12.06
@jenihunt20014 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for that thank you to the judge as well. I guess he was too shocked by the verdict!
@LeshaFBaby4 жыл бұрын
He said thank you when camera wasnt on him and i could tell he wasnt used to being on the receiving end of help
@darrenbennett91323 жыл бұрын
He said it though it was an insulting after all he was out of Dam if you do Dam if you don't you or gonna lose the most of the time 💩
@MajesticTash4 жыл бұрын
Awww he still loves her🥰
@viperdecenter47944 жыл бұрын
Smells like she used him for a come up a then said thank you and have a nice life
@sarahrean71748 ай бұрын
Used him he was abusive
@alishashadows95994 жыл бұрын
He said he'd forgive the debt if he were apart of her life. Since he's not he should get his money back.
@zulu32744 жыл бұрын
I don't mean to be offensive when I say this but this is the exact reason why men are currently getting to the point where we don't want to pay for dates, we don't want to loan women money, we don't want to be nice to them... in other words .... "Stop saving these Hoes".... IJS
@bleedinggreennation82914 жыл бұрын
Facts. I'm having tough times now behind it.
@sharonsmalls68464 жыл бұрын
Why because when men are having emotional problems, memory lapses, being verbally abusive, and not working it isn't appealing? If she had self-esteem she wouldn't have dated or gotten engaged. She should have run after a few months.
@bleedinggreennation82914 жыл бұрын
@@sharonsmalls6846 nah your judgement calls are impaired.
@sharonsmalls68464 жыл бұрын
Bleeding Green Nation Well because I don't need a man because I use to make six figures and that will be when I was making hardly any money. I look for men who are mentally and emotionally stable. My judgment is aligned and I have self-awareness. The men I encounter are well-spoken and enjoy the finer things of life. People who spend their time verbally abusing others instead of being a change agent have no place in my sphere. Men who are compassionate about social injustices and disparities are attractive, not men who are bitter and angry about life. You have a great life as I intend to continue having my great life💜.
@blacknerdygirlsrock4 жыл бұрын
Nah y’all just ain’t shit to begin with and cheap as hell. I bet you are a black guy. So that’s exactly how y’all feel anyway.
@lovelymarie13663 жыл бұрын
That's F up, you take money from him and dont feel like you should pay him back, ppl smh!!!
@tieshajohnson67684 жыл бұрын
I really feel bad for this guy
@sharonsmalls68464 жыл бұрын
Why? They both admitted he was verbally abusive toward her. He said he had emotional problems and memory lapses. That relationship must have been horrible for her.
@jearl30544 жыл бұрын
@@sharonsmalls6846 And he didn't have a J O B.
@Buddha37184 жыл бұрын
It wasn’t horrible for her or for me. It was just hard. We both had issues to work out. It’s funny everyone mentions my not working except I have plenty of money so who cares.- Jeremy B
@mattbar19834 жыл бұрын
She owed him money whether he had a job or not.
@soshiangel904 жыл бұрын
she really should be SOME type of good person and just pay it back. She had the nerve to say she didn't like feeling in debt to him and then manipulated his feelings for her into getting him to accidentally forgive the debt. The more I think about this, the angrier I get. I hope he can find someone nice who appreciates his kindness.
@sharonsmalls68464 жыл бұрын
What about during the relationship him being verbally abusive, argumentative, having memory lapses, and not working? Why wasn't he working and still not working? I think because of his emotional problems he can't hold a job. She was wise not to marry him and to leave the relationship. Who allows someone to verbally abuse them as an adult?
@meganmartin20374 жыл бұрын
Thank you all these ppl falling for her crap never went through some thought crap.. thank u thank u thank uuu
@meganmartin20374 жыл бұрын
@@sharonsmalls6846 again since ur posting on everyones stuff I'm making sure to get this across to you. he was trying to get her back.. come on She even said I dont want u to regret it. He had credit. He had some issues that brought the man down, like his step father dying from being hit by a car which is hard to deal with, then she had some issues and cuz he was grieving didnt understand? He admitted he had some issues, he never ment to have mood swings, and emotional problems. He cant control how he was born. You must have never had any depression or anxiety and had a great life. SHE BREACHED... HER BUISNESS WOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED IF HE DIDNT HAVE ANY CREDIT. She had no intention to marry him clearly, here after our wedding date passed and didnt get married he tried to keep it together and keep her in his life. Cant u see the regret on her face and in the very end.. she's with someone else who I bet said no dont. If she wasnt i bet she would pay him... sad that she was a person who used someone who loved her...trust me if he was so abusive she wouldn't say I hope ur okay.. Hense why the judge gave him a gift and doyle said I wish he would lie. He was trying to make up for his wrongs. I've been abused terribly, doesnt make it right to screw him over. And also abusive guys/woman never admit they did u wrong its always turned around on to the one being abused. Like she said they did the buisness together so clearly he was working huh.. and she felt bad look at her face in the very end when there talking.
@sharonsmalls68464 жыл бұрын
@@meganmartin2037 He was verbally abusive. He admitted it and she stated it. Emotionally healthy people do not verbally abuse people or allow people to verbally abuse them. Life has problems, it is what life contains. We all encounter ups and downs, and some people have effective coping mechanisms and some people have ineffective coping mechanisms. We all make choices, we all have control, and we all receive what we accept. The behavior you allow from others is how they are relational with you. If you can come to court and control yourself, appearing as a polite person than you can do the same with me. I will repeat, he was verbally abusive and that is unacceptable. You cannot say you love me and verbally abuse me. I don't care what life issue you're dealing with as we all have life issues. It's the composition of life. I do not verbally abuse people and I'll never physically abuse people. I expect and accept no less than how I treat others to receive the same treatment. My mother died last year after being on hospice. No one was ill-treated because my mother died. Who does that to others because you're experiencing life? So we are going to agree to disagree because our worldviews are not in sync, they are vastly different and that's okay. I find certain behaviors inexcusable and you have rationales why I should overlook them. I will say, this is social media and you don't know my story as we are strangers. Nevertheless, I'm in my sixties and I know when I was younger I might let someone bring their emotional stunted behaviors to my doorsteps and listened. Today, I've seen you from a distance and I've left the premises. You have a great life, as I'm not going to try and change your opinion and you certainly won't change mine. You did assist me in understanding why so many persons were accepting of his behavior. Thank you.
@Buddha37184 жыл бұрын
soshiangel90 please don’t worry. I have plenty of money. She’s a great person. No anger for me anymore. -Jeremy
@blazeyaface4 жыл бұрын
Lol judge Mathis is so down to Earth
@estherosano3674 жыл бұрын
Woooow THAT'S my favorite JUDGE.....
@valeedadavidson6784 жыл бұрын
SHE WAS WRONG FOR THAT
@jenntj74884 жыл бұрын
She completely took advantage of him. Her excuse is his emotional issues which is none of her business anymore long ago . Be careful lady! karma will catch you up specially if its money !
@jvmcghee8544 жыл бұрын
I wish the judge would have offered him a free counselings session or two. The $50 was a nice gesture Judge Mathis, I commend you on your compassion for this dude. He is clearly showing signs of depression and this lady took advantage of the situation instead of supporting him emotionally. She comes off very entitled and selfish. All he wanted was her...awww...poor guy. I really feel he was doing all of this for her out of the kindness of his heart as he thought they were going to eventually get married. She needs to be the bigger person and give this dude his money back.
@sharonsmalls68464 жыл бұрын
Why in the world are most of the postings being negative about this woman? He admitted that he has emotional problems, memory lapses, and was verbally abusive to her. So he curses her out, calls her names, and makes her feel like crap unless she has a strong sense of self. She leaves a man who is not working, and why isn't he working? I'm thinking he was fired. She's wrong for leaving him because he speaks politely in court? 🙍🏿♀️🙍🏿♀️🙍🏿♀️
@meganmartin20374 жыл бұрын
@Sharon Smalls he was trying to get her back.. come on She even said I dont want u to regret it. He had credit. He had some issues that brought the man down, like his step father dying from being hit by a car which is hard to deal with, then she had some issues and cuz he was grieving didnt understand? He admitted he had some issues, he never ment to have mood swings, and emotional problems. He cant control how he was born. You must have never had any depression or anxiety and had a great life. SHE BREACHED... HER BUISNESS WOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED IF HE DIDNT HAVE ANY CREDIT. She had no intention to marry him clearly, here after our wedding date passed and didnt get married he tried to keep it together and keep her in his life. Cant u see the regret on her face and in the very end.. she's with someone else who I bet said no dont. If she wasnt i bet she would pay him... sad that she was a person who used someone who loved her...trust me if he was so abusive she wouldn't say I hope ur okay.. Hense why the judge gave him a gift and doyle said I wish he would lie. He was trying to make up for his wrongs. I've been abused terribly, doesnt make it right to screw him over. And also abusive guys/woman never admit they did u wrong its always turned around on to the one being abused. Like she said they did the buisness together so clearly he was working huh.. and she felt bad look at her face in the very end when there talking.
@sharonsmalls68464 жыл бұрын
@@meganmartin2037 Women who allow men to abuse them react differently from women who do not allow men to abuse them. Women who have allowed men to physically abuse them still express concern for their welfare. One of my patient's husband physically dragged her down the street. She had ascites and it appeared as if she was 8-9 months pregnant. So many people were concerned and converged on the clinic. It was a very busy street, four lanes. The clinic is located across the street from a police station. So in the lobby were police officers, ambulance drivers, and clinical staffing. She told us, "don't you hurt my husband." This after he dragged her for at least 1/2 block. The police told us and I knew, that there was nothing they could do. I was the facility administrator and I made him leave the premises. He reported me to an agency and I informed them he did not have medical power authority for her. He wanted her transferred to another clinic and she wanted to stay. They agreed with me and actually they had compromised HIPPA by discussing her with him. I won. So abusive persons are concerned with the welfare of those who abuse them. Actually, we are required to assess whether women are being abused and question them away from the possible perpetrator if they are indeed being abused. Yesterday, we weren't required to address if we suspected abuse among adults. I am now mandated, whenever I renew my license to report suspected abuse of children. So if I think you're abusing your child I'm to report you, this also wasn't a part of our skillset. I embrace it.
@meganmartin20374 жыл бұрын
@@sharonsmalls6846 this has nothing to do with this case and being in the medical field myself I know HIPAA laws and beinv mandated to be abused. And um I'm POSITIVE no one just says hey abuse me. I never wanted to be abused. Never. I woke up getting beat up. And charges were pressed. Talking about ur patients is not right. She sees this lawsuit her you come.
@meganmartin20374 жыл бұрын
@@sharonsmalls6846 but thank u for standing up for that poor woman. He must have had her so brain washed. And being pregnant on top of it. I hope he got a felony. I pray he did. . On behave of her and her family thank you for standing up for her. That's a wonderful thing to do.
@sharonsmalls68464 жыл бұрын
@@meganmartin2037 I never mentioned the patent's name or any identifying personal information. I've been a nurse before HIPPA was introduced and have taught my staff about it as the in-service coordinator, clinical manager, and facility administrator. No, no one invites abuse into their life, but if the right interventions aren't implemented it will askew your thought processes. People display behaviors early on in a relationship, for example when the plaintiff said he wanted to marry her after just meeting her. She probably thought that was romantic, but it was not, marriage requires much interaction before entering it. You don't know a person when you meet them and the initial meeting is the honeymoon phase. That was a red flag and she should have run for the hills. Yet she stayed and I'm sure made excuses until he was actually being verbally abusive. Generally, these men test the waters before the onslaught, they say and do inexcusable things and the women allow it to pass, they don't address the inappropriateness of the initial wrong. Anyway, as I've said, thank you, I've assessed and evaluated what is going on and it's ok. I know red flags when I hear them and I don't try to make them any other color. I saw the admitted abuser for what he is and she is wise to stay away from him.
@Dolly3514 жыл бұрын
Nice people always be taken advantage of. Smh
@AluniGaming2 жыл бұрын
I would cherish that $50 and frame it. NO ONE gets a gift from Judge Mathis. That was so sweet.
@alexckelly14 жыл бұрын
He said don't worry about the money, he didn't say that she didn't need to pay it back. He implied that If the money was forgiven, it would be because she was back in his life. (Like, this, I once had a teacher who kept telling the half of the class that was failing to not worry about it. But he never offered them any reason not to worry. Eventually, they all failed and dropped out, leaving only a few of us left at the end of the class. ) ???
@veramoe4 жыл бұрын
he should have said that as a defense like.. if we got back together I was willing to forgive the debt.. but he said no defense.. that's what Judge Mathis kinda asked him for
@phyllysanantonio4 жыл бұрын
He did not deserve that beast. She can pay him back.
@maryflorezflolyouwant53004 жыл бұрын
What a Nice Guy!!! Damn!!! She was just using him!!! If you couldn't give your Heart!!! Then Just Pay Him!!! His Money!!! Bro. She didnt know How!!! To Cherish You!!! Walk Away and Find Happiness!!! Good Luck!!!!
@roni29773 жыл бұрын
He is indeed suffering an emotional issue.. it's so clear!
@nubiacairo88354 жыл бұрын
Lol. Yea. This guy is very respectful. A real nice guy. You have to have a good memory though when you go to court.
@dance4life12084 жыл бұрын
damn he said "i can't have you, so I wish I had the money" she did him dirty smh
@OutdoorsBlues4 жыл бұрын
that was low key insulting giving him the $50 not gonna lie
@Fat_Vegan4 жыл бұрын
No it wasn’t. It was actually a sign of respect
@rosej50293 жыл бұрын
As the judge it it inappropriate for him to give money to the plaintiff and/or defendant. That's crossing a professional boundary.
@a.t.85294 жыл бұрын
He didn't even say thanks
@meganmartin20374 жыл бұрын
Aww judge Mathis your amazing. That's such a sweet thing to do. Hes a good guy and she tool advantage of it. If she felt so bad she should have paid him something. Bless u for giving him a gift.. Doyle: I wish he would have lied!! Lol
@Buddha37184 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people don’t have the money. I still love her regardless. She’s an amazing person. - Jeremy B.
@meganmartin20374 жыл бұрын
@@Buddha3718 Jeremy its you. Please dont let the negative comments on here get to you please... I get depression. Anxiety. Ptsd. Mood swings, caused from one of the three depending on the day.. memory loss from PTSD. Dont listen to them. Ppl are bullies.
@Buddha37184 жыл бұрын
Megan Martin thank you. I’m just enjoying this experience. People are entitled to say what they want but I have to live with myself. No one knows what we went through or what I go through. I can still listen to what makes sense and leave the rest. I’m just grateful people have watched and want to comment. - Jeremy B.
@meganmartin20374 жыл бұрын
@@Buddha3718 some of them really bother me because they make u look like a monster. And your not Exactly no one else knows what you guys have gone through. No one. Your welcome hun. Keep doing you and dont pay mind to the people who will never understand. I hope u guys can be friends and things continue to get better for you Jeremy. And I'm sorry about your step father. One thing about love is if you didnt still love that person, then you never loved them at all. You will always love her. The fact you didnt go in there and disrespect her shows alot about u. I'm glad you were able to let people know more of the story.. now I feel bad saying anything about her. Apologies
@kgames1748 Жыл бұрын
"You can always pay me back the money 😂😂"
@steverl224 жыл бұрын
If the answer wasn't 'YES!' 2 seconds after you asked.....get up and get out of there.
@salex9324 жыл бұрын
He’s not a nice guy. He’s emotional manipulative. She doesn’t have to deal with that.
@tiamonee77904 жыл бұрын
Awe that was nice of the judge. That's why j Mathis is. my dude😘. 😃😄😁. Tia monee.
@truthhurts23364 жыл бұрын
She knew she could run over him she never had intentions on being with him. She’s gonna run into somebody and wish she had him back karma will get her
@TBP20234 жыл бұрын
Damn that girl has no dignity just pay the man back his money and as for Judge Mathis👏🏽👏🏽💪🏾💯
@konige-tochteru.92954 жыл бұрын
I'd like an update on you sir.. I hope you're in a better place and getting help.. keep strong
@msluvbug134 жыл бұрын
Yeah he still loves her but she left him after she milked him 🤦🏾♀️
@PUFFFIRE4 жыл бұрын
Good to see a descent guy i hope he finds another girl and dump that wilder beast
@dancealicious3 жыл бұрын
The judge was nice to him I wa waiting for him to say Thank you for the 50$ but he never did.
@fim41604 жыл бұрын
How is her conscience not bothering her leaving this man in debt karma is real bout she wanna check if he ok if he was ok he wouldn’t be on Judge Mathis trying to get u to pay him back KMT
@MasterofMusik084 жыл бұрын
This is truly the definition of “nice guys finish last”
@kylemchynn93764 жыл бұрын
go find someone nice like you.
@genesewatson6485 ай бұрын
Definitely dealing with depression is hard especially tryna hold down a relationship it’s really hard to even get out of bed some days and she know she should’ve jus paid him back and at least tried counseling before just leaving him
@wilsondushime32003 жыл бұрын
This lady is heartless , she should at least give him the half , as also that guy helped her before ,it's now her time to help him .seems the guy Is broke now .
@Iamwhoiam9934 жыл бұрын
👨🏾⚖ Mathis is loaded with 💰💵💸💱💲
@roblox.helper3 жыл бұрын
I hope he understands he needs to love him self as best as he can and heal whatever negative feelings he has. Then he can love another fully. We sometimes seek happiness out of others and think it will fix and it doesn’t 😭
@georiejakes17544 жыл бұрын
I would have said i told her if i can have you in my life you dont have to pay tbere not together i feel she still has to pay
@dre.supreme4 жыл бұрын
Dude needs to learn how to manage himself. Stop being so damn nice and be angry with the girl like you want to. Anger is a good emotion when managed correctly.
@MsBonitaDinero884 жыл бұрын
If she says we did the events together one more time I'm going to scream 😵😵😵 OAN: it's sad that she took advantage of him... she knew that he was crazy about her...how and why would someone who's battling with keeping steady jobs and paying for your business with credit cards give you that kind of money?? I hope he gets the help that he needs and finds a woman who truly appreciates him.
@luvinlife2254 жыл бұрын
Got her lip poked out like she really feel bad. Pay him his money back!
@assassin9714 жыл бұрын
I just want to point first she said he was verbally abusive then said he was really good to her in the same sentence tf?
@tabithaedwards7452 жыл бұрын
Good guy. When you meet the right one you'll know.
@marynelson19774 жыл бұрын
Loved this 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@jittstv3 жыл бұрын
Judge mathis the Goat
@joesire29774 жыл бұрын
This guy is my spirit animal... I feel for him.
@bruthamann56973 жыл бұрын
Dang. That text killed it for him. ☹ I hate seeing good people lose their cases.
@SAHMshorts4 жыл бұрын
Girl karma is real you better pay that man back.
@jazzymoni77502 жыл бұрын
Some of the nicest people in the world suffer from depression, anxiety and other mental stress issues. There can be triggers that turn them into different people when they are going through it. That's why it's so important to take your time and get to know people before you jump into relationships. People can only wear the mask for so long. I don't mean that as a negative. Many are forced to be functional depressives because they have to support themselves. In this case, because they didn't rush into marriage she was able to see what she would have had to deal with in the long run. Hopefully, he is working on himself so he can be ready when the next good thing comes along. They both seemed like sweet people.
@futureofthekings33413 жыл бұрын
She wrong, I don't want you but I will take your money. Even if he forgave the debt, she should have still given him something. She should just give the money, even if it is just half. They have not spoken in 5 months? Interesting, after he forgives the debt she gets lost but then again, she did confide in him on some things and he turned on her, that wasn't cool so I guess he got what he deserved.
@rkjackson69762 жыл бұрын
The debt forgiveness was contingent on the P being in the D's life. They split. The condition for forgiveness went unfulfilled. Thus, the debt remains unpaid.
@KGR4NT4 жыл бұрын
Too Nice for his own good...if anything she took advantage of the poor guy
@jaej66634 жыл бұрын
That was sweet.
@Tshikonelo4 жыл бұрын
Can't be that nice to people anymore. Most of the time it comes back to bite you on your behind. Contract on everything concerning money. Keep record. "can't remember" wont cut it.