Get counseling is what he should do. Don't be ashamed nothing wrong with getting help and getting out what is hurting you.

@@Darkvirgo88xx I 1000% percent agree. There is such a negative schema associated with mental illness that people rather die then share those hurts. There id help out there.

VintageSista yep took me forever to say forget it I will let it out and was a big weight off my shoulders.

@@Darkvirgo88xx good for you, I am happy. We all deserve the opportunity to be happy and recognize our potential. Keep fighting.

I’m suprised at so many views. Both her and I have been through a lot separately this year. I’m grateful for your prayers as my depression has gotten much better - Jeremy

Yupp!

I agree, I think she is a gold digger and took advantage of him.

@Nellie K. Adaba Both of them agreed he was verbally and emotionally abusive. She's wrong for not being in an abusive relationship? He wasn't working and her business was generating points on his credit card until he forgave the debt. Then I think he forgets because he had memory lapses.

@@sharonsmalls6846 "SHES WRONG FOR NOT BEING IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP"?

Valeeda Davidson That’s my query as well. I was so emotional about many of the postings that I didn't proofread my posting. That was a question and not a statement. Because this man was polite in court it is as if no one listened to the testimony. She was in a horribly abusive relationship. He said it, she said it. He had mood swings, was verbally abusive, and memory lapses to name a few of the things she was experiencing with him. I'm sure it was a nightmare.

You soung like a good Woman

I’m ok thank you. Please don’t worry. I’m pretty strong now. - Jeremy

He’s depressed he doesn’t have her. He’ll get over it when he meets another woman.

Tissa W 🥺🥺🥺

I know me too, I hate how emotional I get for strangers

She ate him to death Terrible on the sweet man.

Yes, be kind or try to be understanding, because you never know what people are going through. I hope that you find a path to healing from your depression. Take Care.

@Raven King he does and kind of has mannerisms like him too

I don't think she's trash. He seems to have a memory problem and she has a text that shows he forgave the loan. He's a real nice guy though. He's going through some stuff. Probably depression or some other kind of mental issue. I really do wish him all the best.

YESSSSS, and he too was battling some past issues !

Probably hard to heal if you're a guy who can't get women. Especially the ones you really want.

Bleeding Green Nation well that’s y’all problem. You want women who don’t want you and lose yourself trying to appeal to them instead of reaching for the women who do want you. That’s on y’all.

He is no victim.

@@blacknerdygirlsrock I hear ya but a female most of times won't even speak to you if you're unattractive or unimportant or both. And let's say the guy is a 4. Well if a female is a 4. She doesn't want to be with a 4 and she thinks that she's a 8. And a lot of females would rather hookup with other females before they would hookup with a unattractive man.

For saying forget it I just want u in my life.. Basically saying dont worry about the money I need u in my life and she hasnt talked to him and hes hurt. These ppl saying he abused her so bad he straight admitted it. I've been in abusive relationships.. those guys never admit they did u wrong its always turned around on to the one being abused.

Well it's hard I would never date someone who is depressed from the beginning

It ain't that easy to move on if you're a less attractive guy.

Erika Kane wow your gorgeous 😍😍😍

@@bleedinggreennation8291 true...but at least have a little pride lol

@@kingcrip03 thanks 😊

@@8806Erika yep and some dignity lol

Right lol, I like him though and maybe crack was involved lol

The heart wants what the heart wants. It would be unfair to both to be with someone who your not well matched to.

@@itsjustnopinionok yeah but if he's like a 5. Why can't he be with a 5 like her? She's gonna go try and get with guys out of her league. And she'll probably have feelings for another female before she would him.

@@bleedinggreennation8291 What?

@@sharonsmalls6846 He's calling them ugly.

Rissa Jacques Thank you. The comment made no sense to me.

B Jackson he probably switch up fast

He admitted to being verbally abusive because he has emotional problems.

Im sweet like that ...

Please don't fall for the sweet guy act.

@@thatfuninstructorExactly.

I agree. Everyone is commenting that he seems so "nice". The defendant said he was verbally abusive and didn't work. She dodged a bullet!

@@starrjohnson1327 he seems and comes off as very nice. Doesnt mean they should stay together or that theyre a good fit. She admits to still owing him money, knows he going through a rough time and still refuses to pay him back. He was extremely generous and wanted her and she took advantage of that

Nique Franklin I agree

Truth!!

The she said he treated me right he was good to me soooooooo.... it was kind of a contradiction that’s why the judge disregarded the comment because we all know he doesn’t like men that mistreat women.

@mahoganyc miles I agree, the verbal abuse was probably them arguing, she said he treated her well, he was in a bad place and people argue in relationships and verbal abuse doesn’t negate you owing me money lol, if he was in a bad place mentally of course he said I just want you, and if she didn’t want him she should’ve given the money back

I agree. To many men depend on women to much. He act like his life evolved around her. That shows how horrible his life is.

....about her being manipulative and not paying him back

Nathan Cox I believe many of these people don't know what a healthy relationship entails. Both of them admitted that he was verbally abusive. And people are responding ’aw he's so sweet.’ What in the world!!🤦🏿‍♀️

Girl shut up

Hello Sondra

@@9nineinches287 hello

Depression will cause memory issues.. I feel for him been there

Yeah that would be me.

I think you missed out on the fact that he's a mentally unstable, ABUSIVE individual. I pray you never have to experience the fake "Nice Guy" persona. Most of em are sociopaths.

He's no saint. He admitted he was verbally abusive.

@@taylorthenatural5509 Thats because he was going through something and his so called wife wasnt being supportive and just wanted what she could get out of that man, if you was paying attention you would have knew that, its no different than when yall are PMSing yall get attitudes and say "alot" of things yall shouldnt say but we dont leave or divorce you because of it..

@@taylorthenatural5509 someone who truely is abusive will not admit It. Hes battling depression and PTSD.. from losing his step dad by being hit by a car. She used him

Taylor Sipp thank you everyone skins over that as if he’s some saint he even admitted when she was going through something he wasn’t there for her it’s like cause he spoke nice everyone took everything he said and made it a boo boo poor him he wasn’t good for her she left and now she’s the bad guy for leaving ??? Like make it make sense

@@Sabrewood13 I get where both sides are coming from. But did u hear him say his step dad got hit by a car.. and if u lose someone so so close u to u. Its hell. Then he said that two months after which are some of the worst months she confided in him with some problems that she had going on and he wasnt able to be there.. and I'm not saying its right but if uve been there its hell. It really is hell. I lost my brother to cancer aug 3rd 2018 at 31 years old, left behind my 5 yr old nephew and 6 yr old nephew. Then almost lost my mom to her auto immune diseases such as multiple sclerosis. Graves disease, and sarcoidosis. And now just found out my dad has cancer also, the drs didnt give him his blood results for over 7 years. and life has been a pure miserable struggle. You guys they are friends. People dnt work out. But one thing I know real abusers don't admit there abusers. They turn it on you. Especially when ur down. Just look at it from a differnt view. No one knows what's going on from a few minutes which things are edited out.

Especially when you have emotional problems, memory lapses, aren't working, and are verbally abusive. Don't allow yourself to be trapped with such a person. That's a life of misery.

That’s an interesting thought. It didn’t feel that way to me when I proposed to her. We had an amazing weekend after that. - Jeremy B.

@@Buddha3718 ignore her Jeremy shes a bitch

@@Buddha3718 this ain't you from the show so stop pretending...

sounded like a friendzone-d relationship. he wanted to move things forward, she wasn't so sure about it, said yes, and regretted everything after that...

He did at 12.06

I was waiting for that thank you to the judge as well. I guess he was too shocked by the verdict!

He said thank you when camera wasnt on him and i could tell he wasnt used to being on the receiving end of help

He said it though it was an insulting after all he was out of Dam if you do Dam if you don't you or gonna lose the most of the time 💩

Used him he was abusive

Facts. I'm having tough times now behind it.

Why because when men are having emotional problems, memory lapses, being verbally abusive, and not working it isn't appealing? If she had self-esteem she wouldn't have dated or gotten engaged. She should have run after a few months.

@@sharonsmalls6846 nah your judgement calls are impaired.

Bleeding Green Nation Well because I don't need a man because I use to make six figures and that will be when I was making hardly any money. I look for men who are mentally and emotionally stable. My judgment is aligned and I have self-awareness. The men I encounter are well-spoken and enjoy the finer things of life. People who spend their time verbally abusing others instead of being a change agent have no place in my sphere. Men who are compassionate about social injustices and disparities are attractive, not men who are bitter and angry about life. You have a great life as I intend to continue having my great life💜.

Nah y’all just ain’t shit to begin with and cheap as hell. I bet you are a black guy. So that’s exactly how y’all feel anyway.

Why? They both admitted he was verbally abusive toward her. He said he had emotional problems and memory lapses. That relationship must have been horrible for her.

@@sharonsmalls6846 And he didn't have a J O B.

It wasn’t horrible for her or for me. It was just hard. We both had issues to work out. It’s funny everyone mentions my not working except I have plenty of money so who cares.- Jeremy B

She owed him money whether he had a job or not.

What about during the relationship him being verbally abusive, argumentative, having memory lapses, and not working? Why wasn't he working and still not working? I think because of his emotional problems he can't hold a job. She was wise not to marry him and to leave the relationship. Who allows someone to verbally abuse them as an adult?

Thank you all these ppl falling for her crap never went through some thought crap.. thank u thank u thank uuu

@@sharonsmalls6846 again since ur posting on everyones stuff I'm making sure to get this across to you. he was trying to get her back.. come on She even said I dont want u to regret it. He had credit. He had some issues that brought the man down, like his step father dying from being hit by a car which is hard to deal with, then she had some issues and cuz he was grieving didnt understand? He admitted he had some issues, he never ment to have mood swings, and emotional problems. He cant control how he was born. You must have never had any depression or anxiety and had a great life. SHE BREACHED... HER BUISNESS WOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED IF HE DIDNT HAVE ANY CREDIT. She had no intention to marry him clearly, here after our wedding date passed and didnt get married he tried to keep it together and keep her in his life. Cant u see the regret on her face and in the very end.. she's with someone else who I bet said no dont. If she wasnt i bet she would pay him... sad that she was a person who used someone who loved her...trust me if he was so abusive she wouldn't say I hope ur okay.. Hense why the judge gave him a gift and doyle said I wish he would lie. He was trying to make up for his wrongs. I've been abused terribly, doesnt make it right to screw him over. And also abusive guys/woman never admit they did u wrong its always turned around on to the one being abused. Like she said they did the buisness together so clearly he was working huh.. and she felt bad look at her face in the very end when there talking.

@@meganmartin2037 He was verbally abusive. He admitted it and she stated it. Emotionally healthy people do not verbally abuse people or allow people to verbally abuse them. Life has problems, it is what life contains. We all encounter ups and downs, and some people have effective coping mechanisms and some people have ineffective coping mechanisms. We all make choices, we all have control, and we all receive what we accept. The behavior you allow from others is how they are relational with you. If you can come to court and control yourself, appearing as a polite person than you can do the same with me. I will repeat, he was verbally abusive and that is unacceptable. You cannot say you love me and verbally abuse me. I don't care what life issue you're dealing with as we all have life issues. It's the composition of life. I do not verbally abuse people and I'll never physically abuse people. I expect and accept no less than how I treat others to receive the same treatment. My mother died last year after being on hospice. No one was ill-treated because my mother died. Who does that to others because you're experiencing life? So we are going to agree to disagree because our worldviews are not in sync, they are vastly different and that's okay. I find certain behaviors inexcusable and you have rationales why I should overlook them. I will say, this is social media and you don't know my story as we are strangers. Nevertheless, I'm in my sixties and I know when I was younger I might let someone bring their emotional stunted behaviors to my doorsteps and listened. Today, I've seen you from a distance and I've left the premises. You have a great life, as I'm not going to try and change your opinion and you certainly won't change mine. You did assist me in understanding why so many persons were accepting of his behavior. Thank you.

soshiangel90 please don’t worry. I have plenty of money. She’s a great person. No anger for me anymore. -Jeremy

@Sharon Smalls he was trying to get her back.. come on She even said I dont want u to regret it. He had credit. He had some issues that brought the man down, like his step father dying from being hit by a car which is hard to deal with, then she had some issues and cuz he was grieving didnt understand? He admitted he had some issues, he never ment to have mood swings, and emotional problems. He cant control how he was born. You must have never had any depression or anxiety and had a great life. SHE BREACHED... HER BUISNESS WOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED IF HE DIDNT HAVE ANY CREDIT. She had no intention to marry him clearly, here after our wedding date passed and didnt get married he tried to keep it together and keep her in his life. Cant u see the regret on her face and in the very end.. she's with someone else who I bet said no dont. If she wasnt i bet she would pay him... sad that she was a person who used someone who loved her...trust me if he was so abusive she wouldn't say I hope ur okay.. Hense why the judge gave him a gift and doyle said I wish he would lie. He was trying to make up for his wrongs. I've been abused terribly, doesnt make it right to screw him over. And also abusive guys/woman never admit they did u wrong its always turned around on to the one being abused. Like she said they did the buisness together so clearly he was working huh.. and she felt bad look at her face in the very end when there talking.

@@meganmartin2037 Women who allow men to abuse them react differently from women who do not allow men to abuse them. Women who have allowed men to physically abuse them still express concern for their welfare. One of my patient's husband physically dragged her down the street. She had ascites and it appeared as if she was 8-9 months pregnant. So many people were concerned and converged on the clinic. It was a very busy street, four lanes. The clinic is located across the street from a police station. So in the lobby were police officers, ambulance drivers, and clinical staffing. She told us, "don't you hurt my husband." This after he dragged her for at least 1/2 block. The police told us and I knew, that there was nothing they could do. I was the facility administrator and I made him leave the premises. He reported me to an agency and I informed them he did not have medical power authority for her. He wanted her transferred to another clinic and she wanted to stay. They agreed with me and actually they had compromised HIPPA by discussing her with him. I won. So abusive persons are concerned with the welfare of those who abuse them. Actually, we are required to assess whether women are being abused and question them away from the possible perpetrator if they are indeed being abused. Yesterday, we weren't required to address if we suspected abuse among adults. I am now mandated, whenever I renew my license to report suspected abuse of children. So if I think you're abusing your child I'm to report you, this also wasn't a part of our skillset. I embrace it.

@@sharonsmalls6846 this has nothing to do with this case and being in the medical field myself I know HIPAA laws and beinv mandated to be abused. And um I'm POSITIVE no one just says hey abuse me. I never wanted to be abused. Never. I woke up getting beat up. And charges were pressed. Talking about ur patients is not right. She sees this lawsuit her you come.

@@sharonsmalls6846 but thank u for standing up for that poor woman. He must have had her so brain washed. And being pregnant on top of it. I hope he got a felony. I pray he did. . On behave of her and her family thank you for standing up for her. That's a wonderful thing to do.

@@meganmartin2037 I never mentioned the patent's name or any identifying personal information. I've been a nurse before HIPPA was introduced and have taught my staff about it as the in-service coordinator, clinical manager, and facility administrator. No, no one invites abuse into their life, but if the right interventions aren't implemented it will askew your thought processes. People display behaviors early on in a relationship, for example when the plaintiff said he wanted to marry her after just meeting her. She probably thought that was romantic, but it was not, marriage requires much interaction before entering it. You don't know a person when you meet them and the initial meeting is the honeymoon phase. That was a red flag and she should have run for the hills. Yet she stayed and I'm sure made excuses until he was actually being verbally abusive. Generally, these men test the waters before the onslaught, they say and do inexcusable things and the women allow it to pass, they don't address the inappropriateness of the initial wrong. Anyway, as I've said, thank you, I've assessed and evaluated what is going on and it's ok. I know red flags when I hear them and I don't try to make them any other color. I saw the admitted abuser for what he is and she is wise to stay away from him.

he should have said that as a defense like.. if we got back together I was willing to forgive the debt.. but he said no defense.. that's what Judge Mathis kinda asked him for

No it wasn’t. It was actually a sign of respect

As the judge it it inappropriate for him to give money to the plaintiff and/or defendant. That's crossing a professional boundary.

Sometimes people don’t have the money. I still love her regardless. She’s an amazing person. - Jeremy B.

@@Buddha3718 Jeremy its you. Please dont let the negative comments on here get to you please... I get depression. Anxiety. Ptsd. Mood swings, caused from one of the three depending on the day.. memory loss from PTSD. Dont listen to them. Ppl are bullies.

Megan Martin thank you. I’m just enjoying this experience. People are entitled to say what they want but I have to live with myself. No one knows what we went through or what I go through. I can still listen to what makes sense and leave the rest. I’m just grateful people have watched and want to comment. - Jeremy B.

@@Buddha3718 some of them really bother me because they make u look like a monster. And your not Exactly no one else knows what you guys have gone through. No one. Your welcome hun. Keep doing you and dont pay mind to the people who will never understand. I hope u guys can be friends and things continue to get better for you Jeremy. And I'm sorry about your step father. One thing about love is if you didnt still love that person, then you never loved them at all. You will always love her. The fact you didnt go in there and disrespect her shows alot about u. I'm glad you were able to let people know more of the story.. now I feel bad saying anything about her. Apologies