And then the government comes in and tries to rip that away. Then they act surprised when a man seeks revenge...

Then why do so many of them abandon their children? And before you say not your daddy, I want to clarify that I didn’t ask about your individual circumstances but on why SO MANY of them do. If you can’t see that in the world then you are delulu! Also, males don’t have children that’s WOMEN WHO BIRTH THEM AND CARRY THE MOST WEIGHT WHEN RAISING CHILDREN!!!

Males who can get women to willing like them are out there getting women to willing like them and are not on KZfaq chastising women for expressing themselves.

Another one, "single women keep women single"

Why is that so difficult to believe? Being celibate and happiest I have ever been. Focusing on my retirement and enjoying life. Though, I am open to meeting someone who actually wants a relationship. Sadly, most men these days want “situationships”. This is why there are ladies that say they are happy single. Gender blaming, however, is not the right thing to do. This man speaking is making huge assumptions about someone he doesn’t even know or what she has been through. I have met men at work who have gone through the wringer as well. Gender blaming only means one has more work to do on themselves, and realizing that not all humans are toxic.

hey just coz u're miserable doesnt mean everyone else is

@@thereallazygirl I can bet im more happy than you lmao

@@suzanneaubin7599 ​Its not hard to belive being happy single, however most just wana prove they are at their happest single, but why? happy people dont care, happy people woudnt be in this comment section, happy people would ignore his conent and continue with their happy life right 🤷‍♂🤷‍♂ but if you're actually genuinely happy good for you. Most men dont want situationships and for a situationship to work both genders must contribute so how can most guys want situationships when the other gender isnt contributing? Because both genders are. This is a new gen thing not gender related. Also he literally said "how much you wana bet.." we know its an assumptions Dealing with one guy or picking the wrong ones it doesnt mean most guys want situationship you're just dealing with the wrong type of men. I dont hate woman

@@lIlI77109 how much u wanna bet ? coz i got time today sis

Much longer for me. I started a second business, and now currently working on a project that will hopefully 🤞 keep me busy during my retirement years. No time to be bored if you are being productive ❤️

​@@suzanneaubin7599good that it works for you.

That's strange

There are both men and women in this world. It goes both ways equally. Most people speak from their perspective only. Those who are well balanced will understand this and not shift the blame and project. Some men and some women are more than capable of remaining single and celibate. The celibate part is what some have difficulties with.

so why men whine so much about male loneliness epidemic?

she's not convincing anyone she's trying to tell u weirdos to leave women alone

It's just a trend on TikTok to talk about this topic. Don't overthink it.

@@thereallazygirl Who exactly is bothering her? None of us would even know she exists if she didn't post the video Who are you weirdos to tell all men that all women want to be single?

@@safeandeffectivelol lol y'all spend ur days trying to police women in every way .let women live their lives incels

Same sex or opposite; it's natural to stop talking every day regardless but the way you tackle it depends on your interaction when you do meet eventually..

@@hasantylou7670 opposite, it was a great close friendship, we had an argument, we talked about the argument, we gave it time without talking, we talked again, talked about the argument again and fixed it and said we cool, had a handful of visually good normal talks as if nothing happened, but she still only responds to me if i text her first, if i dont text her she doesn't text me to talk about her days like she has always done, all seems fine but to me it isnt, i don't feel like we are close friends anymore, if we were she would be texting me without me having to do it first

Yes doing life together is the right way

Same! I was injured during covid. I just started leaving the house again. Took me almost three years to work through this injury. In order to meet someone (who does not want a situationship), I’d need more time on my hands or someone who understands a hectic schedule. Until then, I am enjoying my new found freedom of walking without a brace and doing my own grocery shopping for myself again. ❤❤

I would also point out what he mentioned. Were you ACTUALLY alone all those 4 years? I honestly don’t mean to hate. It sounds like you are healthy now and you have done well for yourself, so congrats…. but were you HONESTLY alone. No guys? didn’t “talk?” No situationships? No casual hookups? No dating? Cause if you really had any affection with a man, I wouldn’t consider that being “alone.” Any time you draw satisfaction from the affection of another person kinda disqualifies you from being alone because that is something that can be depended on even if you don’t need them for a deeper relationship. I honestly just don’t really believe that too much.. I don’t think women quite understand the true depth of loneliness. It is simply too easy for you to receive attention and affection from men. Like men are far too available for your validation that it quite literally doesn’t seem believable that a woman might be alone alone for 4 years. Now to address your points, I do think you are right.. it is important to be confident and competent on your own before you try bringing another person into your life.. that ensures you can add something to their life rather than detract from their life.

@@steggy9651 thank you. I appreciate your comments. If you are referring to some kind of privilege that you think all women automatically have by virtue of being women.. I’m not sure. But I certainly don’t think you can say that women don’t know loneliness like men do.For one thing not all women are blessed with good looks and therefore get a lot of attention from men by default. What we all have in common no matter our gender or appearance is the power to put at least friendship and family in our orbits…so to answer your question as to whether I was truly alone, no of course not. I had both male and female company for that 4 year time period I was single and yes even dates and a fling or 2. But I do think that’s very different from having a real stable partner you can rely on. During that time period I had an operation and there was nobody to drop me off or pick me up after leaving hospital. What you get from friends and men who orbit you is not the same as a real lover. I also lived in Japan at that time and Japan is a very hard place to make friends and relationships in general. My family were on the other side of the world from me, so in that respect maybe I do have some level of resilience. I do also enjoy my own company, and as I said I think these are healthy traits to have for anyone.

@@steggy9651 there are some of us that are truly alone. Myself, I have been 100% celibate, not dating, not talking to anyone. The only men in my life are family members. Any other men I come in contact with has to do with business/work. If you have the time to get “lonely”, you’re just not being productive enough with your time. That is me. I love keeping myself occupied.

@@Rebecca-bz6ph well I respect the journey, and hope everything is going well after your operation. I actually had a major brain surgery at the beginning of last year. I was under for 12 hours while the dug around in my skull to remove a tumor. I had to relearn how to walk, how to smile, I lost the hearing in my left ear, and it left me pretty bald with some crazy scars.. operations aren’t fun and can certainly feel pretty lonely/isolating. I was lucky enough to have a good support system through my family to help me recover and get back on my feet. Now to address your comment… it sounds really bad,.. but yes I do think that women literally do have an advantage/privilege over men simply by virtue of being a woman. I don’t care how poorly you were blessed in the looks department, you can get attention and support from guys FAR FAR easier than men can from women. I have seen clips of some relatively ugly looking overweight girls claim they have slept with multiple men each week, meals paid for, etc with relative ease simply because it was so easy to take advantage of men like that. I don’t provide that as an example to hate on women, but to point out that even a good looking guy doesn’t have that capability to find attention. Like in order for a man to find that type of attention, he requires an extreme level of wealth, or fame, or both regardless of his looks. Like I really cannot express how much easier it is even for less attractive women. For lack of a better (less objectifying) explanation, women who are 2’s and 3’s are capable of pulling attention like men who are 8’s or 9’s. That is just quite literally a fact. There will always be guys who, as you mentioned, orbit women, or freely give their attention to them. Every woman experiences this. Men do not. No imagine how men who are 2’s and 3’s feel. Not even women who are 2’s and 3’s are likely to even acknowledge the existence of a guy who is a 2 or 3. It is unlikely that they EVER have a woman approach them, start a conversation, or even go as far as complimenting them. I know of plenty of men who can literally remember just about every single time they have ever received a compliment in their life from women because it is so rare. There are men who go years without even a small bit of affection from women. There are men in their late 20’s who have literally never been in relationships or even had sex before. I mean if you are an uglier man, and you just work an average job, and you make enough to support yourself.. it’s very likely you that 95% of women don’t even realize you exist. It’s impossible for me to even describe to you the depth of loneliness that some men face. I was lucky enough to be relatively good looking throughout college and up until my surgery, so I personally can’t even speak to true true loneliness, but I do know just through talking to other men. Like I was able to have sex relatively regularly for a man, and I have had a few successful relationships.. and even to this day, I am physically in well above average shape regardless of the fact that I am mostly bald and Half my face doesn’t work.. I was lucky enough to be 5’11 and I naturally have that kinda military look or superhero frame type of body type going for me so as long as I keep up a gym routine and good diet, I maintain a good looking body… but I am extremely lucky among men. I would still probably only be considered a 5-6.. men less attractive than me.. it’s almost impossible for ME to imagine the loneliness… it really requires you doing some research and looking at what men report in online spaces or talk to some of your guy friends and ask them to describe loneliness. The accounts that many men have of just how lonely they are is nothing short of heartbreaking. I mean literally YEARS with not so much as a glance or a compliment from a woman. Anyway.. I’m not trying to complain or hate, I am just trying to impress upon you the serious variation in experiences between men and women. This is one area where women do quite literally have a privilege by virtue of being a woman, but there are other areas that men have privileges as well. For example, I will never feel too concerned that somebody is going to mess with me or harass me when I go out alone or travel anywhere alone.. I’m usually not somebody that a predator would consider a victim.. so I never feel like I necessarily am in a lot of danger. I’m very capable of defending myself against literally anybody that would want to attack me.. so that is one thing I don’t take for granted. Most women will never get to experience walking around (almost) anywhere they want with little to no concern for their safety… (now don’t get me wrong.. I’m certainly not going to go walk through East St. Louis, or south Chicago alone.. that would just be dumb.. but for the most part I can protect myself.. anyway.. my point being there are certain advantages to being a woman and certain advantages to being a man.. but when it comes to loneliness.. I think you need to look into what many men go through.. there is a reason it’s more likely for men to kill themselves.

@@suzanneaubin7599 your only in your 50’s sweetheart. You still have 60’s, 70’s, 80’s and 90’s. Thats 20+ years to go. Time will tell, when your in declining health and have no one and at your most vulnerable

@@user-of9go8yc2d I have children and grandchildren. I’m not sure what you are trying to get at. Love surrounds me everyday 🥰 I am never truly alone. To have that in life is priceless. ♥️🥰

@@user-of9go8yc2d I have children, and grandchildren. I am surrounded by love. Having that in one’s life is priceless. 🥰 Am I open to meeting someone? Absolutely! However, it is very difficult meeting someone who wants to build a relationship and retire together. They all seem to want situationships. Strong pass! After 10 years of trying to find that partnership, I am no longer actively searching for it. If it happens, it happens., If not, I’m content.

Lolol it’s actually funny i see more and more of these videos of men absolutely miffed that women are saying theyre happy and refusing to believe it and what’s sad is that they actually believe deep down that women can’t be happy single bc they themselves are not happy single. Like the woman in the video is talking about HERSELF and WOMEN primarily. This dude on the other hand is talking about HER feelings and HER wants and needs like he knows them as if he’s her. Damn… yall men are in troubleeee and yall been in trouble now that women are waking up 😂

You don’t need to be left alone, what you really need is some accountability.

​@@distinguishedliving please take accountability for ur own life first . u're nobody's parent just some weirdo obsessed with trying to control women

lol you need to take your own advice and leave people alone. nobody even knows who you are.

@@darrentill5107 he deleted my response like the lame he is .im browsing here

@@distinguishedlivingno. Leave women alone tf

Thank you, I believe many men would relate.

Children do give you purpose. But most wives just give drama.