As I was listening my husband came in the room and laughed at your comment about murdering customers is not good for sales. I love your delivery!

Dr.Grande, could you do a video on why a person would confess to a crime they did not commit? I'm not asking you to diagnose anyone, just asking you to speculate on what might be going on in a situation like this. 😊

Why was the police officer who claimed to see her enter the house alone earlier not considered a suspect? She left in a great hurry with someone, without a struggle and probably in a panic since everything was left behind and the door wide open. Who else could cause someone to behave that way other than a trusted authority figure with an "emergency"?

Poor Jim never knew that his moment of erectile dysfunction would ever make it all the way to our ears...

Every time Dr Grande says “just a reminder, I’m not diagnosing anybody in this video, only speculating on what could be happening in a situation like this”, I picture him winking at the camera.

The fact that there are three potential suspects is scary to me, reminds me of your Zodiac Killer video where there were like dozens of suspects who match the profile of a sick weirdo who could kill somebody

Impressive last sentence! She probably knew her killer since there were no signs of a struggle. Very sad for her family.

A thing to consider is that she left her cigarettes behind, yet her overcoat was gone. That might indicate that someone called her attention to something outside but she hadn't planned to go anywhere. Smokers always know where their pack is. Someone called her outside to see something, such as a car or something in yard or house. That would indicate someone known to her and at that time of night I am betting on the neighbor.

Alliterate analysis was accurately astute as well as affectively amusing! Great work, Dr. Grande!

I like how you broke down all the possible scenarios and ranked them according to probabilities. Interesting case.

With so many potential suspects I’m not even sure I can rule myself out…

It sounds like Jim is the most likely suspect to me. Him changing his story and also saying he’d been to her house “ looking for her “ is odd. Also, so he left the door open after leaving? I feel so sad for her children and other loved ones. I can’t imagine never knowing what happened to my mother , it’s horrible. Great work as always, Dr G !

Nancy sounds Bi-Polar between the excessive debt and promiscuity. Her promiscuity was to the level of a complete disregard for her safety.

The guy Bernard could've easily gotten Nancy out of her house without a struggle. Nancy didn't know him well, but she did know him. So her opening her door to speak with Bernard is plausible. If he were to pull a weapon, such as a knife or a gun, he could've easily talked her out of her house. "Nancy, you see I have a gun. I don't want to shoot you, but I will if you force me to. I need you to come with me. if you do so without causing issues, I promise I will not hurt you. If you cause trouble, I will put a bullet in your head right now. You decide." So getting her out of her house without showing signs of a struggle would be relatively easy. I have to say, this woman has some seriously bad luck with the people she interacts with. Her food delivery guy is a murderer. Her neighbor is apparently a psycho who admitted to being a murderer, and then took it all back. And her co-worker is possibly a killer, or a liar or an idiot, who also can't get it up.

Thank you so much Dr. Grande, we live right here and never heard about this case. Tenino is a tiny town named after the 10-9-0 train from big logging days of yore. We appreciate all of your videos so much, Take good care.❤ What a wrap up ~

I love your videos about strange disappearances. Its always a fascination how a person can go missing and you always bring great insight.

I always watch your videos before bed and it’s part of my routine! Thank you for always putting out such insightful content for us! Hope you’ve been well, and know that we’ll still support you even if you decide to take a break from uploading everyday! Much love from Canada!

Why is it that when a door is open, it's a jar, but when a jar is open, it isn't a door? Lol

We really enjoy your channel, expertise, and that wicked dry humor of yours!😁😁 If it was possible, we'd give you 2 👍🏽thumbs up.🙃

I find it odd she left without her cigs. unless she was a very light smoker this is odd, especially as she was drinking wine. I really wanna know if that pack was open. (The unfortunate nature of that addiction is that your cigs are as important as your coat, maybe even more so & def more important than your purse.) if she was sitting on her porch smoking (in her coat) and hadn’t properly closed the door, the neighbor seems pretty reasonable- maybe he had been watching her and knew that she’d be alone and tipsy or maybe she was voluntarily into a quickie, but she didn’t think she was going to be gone long, if the cigs were left behind.

I agree that it was more than likely a stranger, some guy she met at a bar. I don't think it was Jim. I think he went to her home looking for her because they were supposed to get together that weekend. I think he was just curious as to why he couldn't reach her. Eric sounds like a complete nut so it could have been him. If he didn't do it he's a mental case for confessing. Bernard the meat seller could have been the killer too, after all, he killed once before so why not again? Plus she had his brand of meat in her freezer, so I'm going to say it's a toss-up between him and Eric. It's possible that she didn't leave voluntarily because her cigarettes were on the porch? She could have been sitting outside smoking when a guy approached her with a gun and told her to get in his car. A scenario like that wouldn't look like a struggle. I don't think she would have left her bag and ID inside with the door hanging open if she left voluntarily. To me that screams abduction.

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Good morning Dr Grande and everbody! Just in time for my first cup of coffee here in Salzburg! You all have a beautiful day!!!Cheers!!!☕️☀️🌸

as a parent you should be more careful ...

Good afternoon Dr Grande. What a strange situation, with all the men involved, it makes it harder to prove who did it. I believe she was murdered and will never be seen again. My sympathy goes too her daughters. Thank you Dr Grande. Excellent analysis, tragic outcome and informative topic.

There was a case similar to this where a woman with 2 or 3 daughters was murdered and there were 3 viable suspects (a current boyfriend, a recent ex-BF and an ex-husband) and it ended up being the ex-husband (despite the fact that they had been divorced for at least 10 years, if I recall correctly).

I was married to a man that owned a frozen meat sales company, I can tell you they are all trouble. He was diagnosed NPD w/sociopathic characteristics and was abusive, violent, went to jail and was convicted. Pretty much anyone that worked for him was a convicted felon, a few of them went to jail over the years for domestic violence. Fun fact, his dad was one of the prime suspects in a still unsolved murder, if you want to look at it. Jill Bounds in Dallas. There's a D magazine article with all the info. Similar story as she was seeing multiple people, and my ex father in law was married at the time of their affair. She was found bludgeoned to death in her own home, no forced entry, all doors locked. Happened late 80s or early 90s. Apparently it may run in the family

Wonder why her coat was gone, like she was prepared to go outside but the door was left open. Love your analysis and the ending was especially clever !

Almost 1am but thumb title has me staying up and watching ❤️Your channel

Really interesting case! To me it seems like she went outside expecting to come back shortly after and thats why the door was left ajar and her coat was gone. I don't know if a kidnapper would go into her home and tell her to put a coat on before leaving. Really scary though, especially because I sometimes run outside late at night exactly the same way (put on a coat and leave my door ajar) whenever I hear a strange sound. I don't know how people are able to move on when someone they love goes missing, not judging them negatively at all, it just must be so difficult and stressful, I don't think I'd ever be at peace if my mom, sister or friend went missing like that. I can't even imagine going through such torture.

I often wonder what happened to her and whether her kids will ever have any closure. Local here, it's pronounced like Ten-Nine-oh.

Nancy disappeared in my community and I know people who are familiar with some of the characters interviewed for the podcast °Hide and Seek", which I highly recommend. I follow her case and a few others who are missing in my county closely. Another is the disappearance of 19yr old Logan Shindleman you may find interesting to review.

Waiting for Grande. Thanks, Grande. I appreciate all the great videos.❤

Another awesome video! Nice break from writing up my psychotherapy notes at the clinic 🙌

Funny, my #1 suspect never came up again, and he was the last person to see her alive. Tell me, if it were an ex or a co-worker, that happened to be sitting in a car across the street, instead of a cop, do you think he might be a suspect? Where was she from 6:45 until the cop saw her after 9? Wherever that was, no one can be found to witness that? An empty wine glass, and a started but not finished glass of wine, 2+ hrs missing, then thanks to a perfectly positioned cop, her story begins after 9..... Does he have any tickets issued between 6:45 and the time he says he saw her? .... Opportunity is half the reason for a crime to take place.* - She is getting a reputation for being available, he sees her at the store, on the road, he follows her, He knocks on the door to gain entry, he's a cop so she let's him in, he propositions her, she rejects him, dirty deeds and their done dirt cheap, he carries her body out to his cruiser so can't close the door, puts her in the trunk and sets up like he's working for GPS, gets rid of the body at the end of his shift; and he doesn't go back for the door. Or he hides the body outside and goes back after shift. Peace *not really half, I'm sure, lol, I'm just kind of making up my own idiom Edit - my point with the wine glasses was, that was her routine, which she was half way through that night, when there was a knock on the door. That would have been 2+ hours before the cop says she got home. Ya, she could start the glass of wine then, but now it's getting pretty late, so, if she didn't finish the glass of wine, that knock came pretty soon after she got home, so why wouldn't the cop see that too? How many glasses had been poured from the bottles she just bought? Was it her first, second?

Or it was the police officer who saw her going home alone!?

Never underestimate the impact of booze/drugs on people. She clearly started leading a reckless life hooking up with lots of guys, and looks like the father spent more days with the kids than the mother. In any normal situation no woman would leave without their purse, their car, cell phone, locking their door, etc. So either someone did say they needed her help with an emergency or similar need that caused her to leave at around midnight in a rush. I hate missing persons cases with no closure. Her poor kids stuck wondering what the heck happened, and their lives forever turned upside down. Any person with kids needs to grow up a bit and lead a more responsible life for the children's sake at least. Another sad story. I feel like there are more and more of these disappearances. Also especially if you have kids, don't divorce quickly and for petty reasons. Marriage is a huge stabilizing factor, which is why your insurance goes down if you say you are married.

Dear Dr. Grande. Please bring the break back. It’s far more complimentary than the bright white. It’s also easier on the eyes. Love what you do man thank you!

Props for the articulate and alluring alliteration there at the end!

Bernard delivered the meat, and Jim had trouble delivering the meat. Either way, it sounds like Nancy received a lot of meat. I think the morals of the story are, never get your meat from a butcher, don't go to a bar to get your meat, and avoid receiving meat from a coworker or neighbor. Lastly, always order your meat via an online app, such as Tender.

How difficult for her family; particularly her daughters. So very sorry. So wish these things didn't happen. xx Thanks again!

It makes me so happy when you do your summary via alliteration poetry at the end.

My intuition tells me that the killer was the food delivery driver. He had means and opportunity.

“hi im the guy who sells meat ! you want to take a midnight ride in my vehicle for no apparent reason ? “☠️😂😂😂 not referencing the movie “midnight meat train “or anything dr Grande 👀 im cracking up you re the absolute best!! 😁😁🤣🤣

It seems odd to me that a police officer who was watching for speeding cars noticed her walking into her house at a certain time.

She would not have left her cigarettes behind

3/9/23 Nancy, rip🌹love to her family and friends 🌹especially her children! Did they check the Cops alibi, he saw her that night, it’s happened before. Many solid suspects in this case!

Your alliteration in this one is wonderful!

The good ol’ sex rampage method of getting over a divorce or breakup. Effective in the short term…hollow, empty, and depressing in the long term.

You win the Guinness Book of Records - the most alliteration in 1 minute category!!

The sex and spending sounds like maybe Nancy had some undiagnosed bi-polar struggles. She has the facial features of someone with fetal alcohol so despite being very smart maybe that played a roll in her behaviour. Sounds like she was a good mom who made sure she kept her "wild life" separate from them and took good care of them. It's sad they lost her and with no answers. It also sounds like their dad was a good stable person so I hope they had a good upbringing and supportive home with him.

I always start my morning with one of your videos Dr. Grande. It's my little coffee moment of the day. :D Thank you kindly for your work!

You have excelled yourself good Dr. How you managed to find so many appropriate words starting with R does leave me deeply impressed and entertained 🤣🤣🤣👌👌

Good evening!! Looking forward to tonight’s program.

Cop did it? Or maybe Jim 🤔. I doubt she ran away.

Its pronounced Ten-nine-no Washington. The story behind the name was that it was stop train stop 1090. I was wondering where I was recognized her. I work with someone who knew her and had her missing poster on his cubical. There are still a lot of people hoping for her to be found. But that part of Thurston County is really heavily forested.

Good morning, Dr. Grande! Nancy was murdered and her dating habits provided a surfeit of suspects and the three you mentioned were a bit strange. Apart from someone making a viable confession the case will remain unsolved. Nice conclusion using the letter "R." Thanks for sharing.

I’m always impressed by the alliteration at the end of each video!!

It was worth it for the alliteration at the end. Thank you. 👏

Dr Grande, thank you for you tireless content & creative alliterations! However, a door is never a jar! Another thought: my sister says a woman would never leave without her purse, therefore she could have been forced to leave, maybe under gunpoint. Also, there were two glasses indicating the presence of another

Looking for Mr. Goodbar inspiration. You should always tell someone you are going out and with whom.

Found this channel a month ago at random, and I am loving this guy!

You’re the best Doc! I fall asleep with a chuckle listening to your soothing voice.

My biggest question is why didn't Jim call the police to do a welfare check after he saw her house wide open and her just gone but all her stuff there still? At the very least notify someone to a possible missing person?? 😕

Poor Nancy she was just going thru her bored phase . She didn’t deserve to disappear. Most people get away with some reckless behavior. Thanks Doc good limerick too! Mayb Nancy appreciated the humor where ever she may rest hopefully in peace!

Real reverence regarding your reasoning & recognizing your resourcefulness. Remarkable.

I think it was Bernard. Maybe they flirted and had a date planned. He did kill another woman.

RIP & condolences to her family

Thanks for the videos Dr. Grande!

Your innuendos always slay me!

Good evening, thank you for the video

Dr. GRANDE You're the best. Just facts and analysis! Gotta love it! You are turning into quite the true crime KZfaq Icon. Try and do some collabs or interviews I'm sure it would help your career alot

Dr. Grandes voice is always so soothing to hear

Ravishing review Dr R I mean Dr G

I know lie detectors aren’t admissible but I’d be interested in knowing if any of the three known men failed the polygraph test 🧐

I believe she was kidnapped while smoking on her porch and killed elsewhere. The ex husband was cleared too quickly.

The ex-husband, Bill could have also left his girls asleep as well. Jealous of her ongoing sexcopades, he could have showed up and told her one or both the girls were hurt in some way, or missing. This would have sent any caring mother into a panic. She would have grabbed her coat and left the house in that same panic not taking the time to make sure the door had closed all the way. The "Let's get going" that was heard by the neighbor would fit with Nancy's concerne for her daughters.

Oh yeah. Dr Grande graciously gratifying guys and girls with good gabbing!

I personally think Jim is the likeliest of all 3 mentioned suspects

Simply because the apartment didn’t show signs of a struggle doesn’t mean she wasn’t forcefully abducted by someone she didn’t know. She could have answered the door and someone could have grabbed her in the doorway and immediately left with her. Hence the door being found ajar.

Thank you, Dr. Grande!!! Wow, you're quite the wordsmith, and I'm here for it!🤣🤟 I agree 💯 with your analysis...🌵

Why would she leave her door open if she was going on a drive with someone. Must have thought she’d by out for couple seconds

An unusual and umfortunate case. It seems like the duality of Nancy’s personality led to her downfall. Thank you for the thoughtful analysis. I so enjoy the humor at the end of the videos!

This young woman married too young. She graduated from college, got married and had her 2 kids then wanted more from her young life. This is very sad. You shouldn’t settle down too early.

Or she put on her coat and then went outside to smoke but left the door open, like to listen for her phone. Someone took her off of the porch, leaving her cigarettes behind.

once again the alliteration game in this one was extremely powerful, well done

Great video. TY.

Never heard the phrase "romantic roadblocks" before. Hahaha. How do you deliver comedic gold with such a straight face

Starting at 16:01. You weave a why and wherefore so whimsically. 😀

New challenge for Dr. Grande: Create an ending alliteration using the letter Z

I have no idea whether he killed her, but Jim's story sounds super sus.

One can not dispose of a bony in a fire pit, the fire can not get hot enough, I would have looked under the foundation of the fort he built.

This reminds me of an old movie looking for Mr. Goodbye. Poor woman unfortunate she couldn't find peace in her own company.

Once again a resounding analysis…❤

1:06 my God I would divorce a woman with that horrific razor burn

Love your analysis Dr. Grande. As always spot on and humorous.

Putting in my 2 cents… I think she likely put her coat on and went onto the porch to smoke. Someone drove up that she knew and she walked out to the car. Maybe it was too cold and she got in the car to talk to the person (planning to go back into the house) and the person took off. That would explain what looked like a hasty departure and why there was no evidence in the house. The neighbor thought it was Nancy who said “let’s go”, but was that ever established?

Great analysis, Dr. Grande! And thank you for the laughter.❤

They should check into the cop that saw her going into her house.

Dr Grande!❤ you are mucho grande!❤😊