And it happens way too often too.

He got custody??!! 🤬

The system fails many.... I speak from experience. The system is deeply flawed.

So true

@Mel B if a woman flees with her children, she is seen as “kidnapping” her kids and a court will often temporarily give the other spouse custody, before she can even testify. It’s awful, they should be allowed to present proof of abuse before custody is decided.

My ex in-laws think their son can never do anything wrong

@A A oo the nerve of some people

A real demon

@A A just ..wtf!!!

@A A If that is indeed true then it’s no wonder her son turned out the way he did. What a heartless thing to do after her own grandchildren were robbed of a loving mother.

I went to the police, got protection orders, provided the court with recordings where he threatened to kill me. The judge ruled we should share custody and he has to pick up our baby from my house. He justified it by saying he showed interest by buying stuff for our baby, even though he didn't visit or show any interest for the first 7 months and only showed interest after I sued him for custody. Justice truly is blind.

This is terrible. Im sorry

@@stephaniepardo5242 Thank you for your support. He still threatens me, tries to make me meet him, verbally abuses me and now he started creating stories about me, saying I am a promiscuous alcoholic druggie. I just hired a lawyer to sue him for harassment, but I don't think it will change anything. Whatever he says or threatens me with, no matter how many times he hits me, I will never be scared or be intimidated by him, I am very resilient and I am surrounded by a loving family and great friends. I'm just scared for my daughter since HE is the father.

Seriously 😒

The judge killed her.

The court failed because we have a broken justice system. I hear so many times on these types of stories where the justice system could have helped these families before it is too late, but they didn't like always. I also always hear of police being notified of a person who needs to be checked and then nothing happens soon enough.

@@sterling8298 well the grandmother failed them also by hiding her son after he had just killed someone instead of protecting the kids from him.

Exactly, kids have no voice, they say let kids speak up, but when they do, it doesn't matter. The adults decide their fate in court.

She was most likely scared for her own life by this tyrant.

@@trilabradorable if you read comments on this thread by the kids in this video, you'll see she was behind the whole thing too and did her grandchildren very wrong.

Edit: gee thanks for the likes

@@trilabradorable seriously doubt it! How do you think he got that way?

She's a accomplish to her murder

@@beepbopboop7727 I cant say that's not true. But its also not the part I focused on. I know in that situation, my mom would have killed him first. I probably would have too. But not everyone thinks the same.

@@beepbopboop7727 You have to understand that she felt fear in that situation, if she had stopped him at that point in time this psychopath would have probably killed her children and her. As the children said she built up enough courage to escape with them, which is a big decision as when you do that if you don’t have any support your more than likely to be targeted and attacked as she was, which is why she is dead.

😟😭😭😭😭😭

12:11 baby girl please don’t carry that guilt of saying you love your dad in that moment. Your mom knows you loved her and what you were trying to do! Please PLEASE let that go. She sounded like a wonderful caring mom who would have done anything for you guys. Remember what HER final words were... “not in front of the kids” All she wanted was you guys safe and happy.

@@linsoopretty3654 fall asleep on your phone?

Like spit image of her.

My thoughts!

Exactly my thought. What a horrible old lady to cover for her violent, abusive son, and enable the murder to occur.

True. She was aware of what her son was planning to do to his ex-wife but did she not think of her grandkids who live there and would get involved? What if he had gone crazy and killed the three kids?

I couldn't agree more, I thinking the same thing, its these wicked mothers who enable their children to do evil to others, she knew he was a monster, wicked woman, this story is heartbreaking, I'm glad the children survived, sorry for what they had to endure at the hands of their evil sperm donor , may God be with them, wishing them peace & happiness in their individual lives

I agree . The cops were literally there that day asking to check the basement.

Damn

Ikr

In scotland she'd have been charged with obstructing justice

I don’t think the police had a search warrant, so legally they could not search her apartment. Legally she did nothing wrong but morally she’s disgusting.

@@godforgive_me9798 Even so your is just as good as ours. Assumptions. Going off of what the kids saw and heard may not be everything but even so he murdered someone and that’s not going to be justified in this case.

@@godforgive_me9798 That still doesn’t justify murder.

He knew the "I love you was for her Mother".....possibly enraged him more.

@@lyndkent-cl2oeit clearly wasn’t for her mother, that’s why she said she regretted saying it. Although she said it to try calm him down, it was aimed at him

Yes she did the Right thing! Trying to save her Mama! I know her Mom felt that love and hope 100% More hope than despair in that moment because ofthebesutiful bravewords ofher beautiful bravedaughtet! But I can imagine hergruefadfuryat Him feeling that beast STOLE THAT TOO !

@@ddl4374sorry but some of your comment combined words, I don’t know if that was on purpose.. but I was curious about the final sentence bc I couldn’t figure out what you meant.. so was wondering what you said. Agree with the parts i think I understand! Definitely not trying to be rude.

Hello...I wish you safety, happiness and peace you so very much deserve this in every way. ❤️

Take some self defense classes.

I do too!

Stay safe♡

@Supreme Leader J. Trudeau Just the oldest daughter. The younger 2 were his real kids

@@daved1535 That's right, but even they call him Scott. He doesn't deserve them calling him dad. He made them orphans.

@@noemi1747 no matter what they call him they still %50 they dad.

@@macsleaze8183 no, he's a man that helped bring them to life, a dad is somebody who loves and takes care of his kids, he is not a dad or a father hes just some sick man who should have spent the rest of his life is prison, no person like him deserves the privilege of being called a dad.

@@macsleaze8183 as humans we create our own definitions of words. The term dad is made up like any other term. He is no father and doesn’t deserve the title

They tried to go to a shelter during that time they wouldn't let them stay at the shelter because they had a boy and a girl. Abuse rewires the brain she was scared of what he would do to her because they would beat them or kill them if they didn't do what he wanted. She probably had nowhere else to go and wood end up on the street I'm not making an excuse for her but she was terrified of this person damn what he could do to the children

@@amberwalters9613 The mom didn’t give him custody, the court did when the dad filed for custody after she left. I think that’s what the commenter was saying: “why would the courts do that” given the allegations of sexual abuse and history of physical abuse.

Messed up in every way

He is a very very very evil sick disgusting man

well that's because the court system favors women of course! Mras real silent on this vid.

She just died last year. She was never held responsible for anything. She died saying Scott was a good boy..

The grandmother was probably afraid of her son and believed that she would be killed by him if she didn't do what he told her to do.

She will get her just deserts just as you will and everyone else. No worries there

@@jessicarosenbeck8373 I really feel sorry for you and your siblings . I can’t believe that Scott’s mother didn’t get charged at all !!!

This so sad the dad is disgusting

@@prettiestbaddie4194 extremely sad..if he was my dad and he did that to my mom..i wont let him live the next second even if he is my dad

My thoughts exactly! Very very similar!

@@ISRAADVISUALS welp you cant kill your dad or youll go to jail

Youngest daughter too. Exact same mouth and nose.

How would you know that she wasn't abused and forced to not reveal him? He managed to abuse his wife and kids for years before they managed to escape, without knowledge on how it went down, you can't really judge her, there was probably no way for her to know that he was going to kill his ex wife in front of the kids.

she proberbley didnt know what her son was.

@@gillchambers9008 That's possible.

@@tashataylor8242 narcissists can be different characters to different people. they can be the worst at home but close relations think there wonderful. i know.

SHE made HIM.

Uhhhh, that mom was not amazing.... she let her kids grow up around this person and she was too weak to do anything about it until he killed her. She was a terrible mother

@@BIGBOYMATDYou got it all out bud? Need to vent a little bit more?

@Awksparks not venting, this mom let her kids be abused emotionally, mentally, physically and sexually... my only hope is that she didn't go quickly.

This comment is crazy. She collected her daughter to be sexually abused. Is that what we call an amazing mother these days?!🤮

So little criticism of the mother in the comments, but her husband pressured her to bring their daughters to his bed for him to sexually abuse them. The first time this happened should have been the trigger for her to carry out a plan to leave him. I understand that a person can tolerate all sorts of abuse inflicted on themselves for all sorts of psychological reasons, but so often in these situations the limit is reached when the children become the target. I get it that when the children were young she tried to balance his anger with her love... but once the sexual abuse started... nope, she should have risked their lives to leave rather than facilitate that abuse

R.i.p not r.l.p

@@tayawhite9409 like it matters...u know what they meant

@@sarcasticklutz who cares

@@tayawhite9409 well obviously y do or u wouldn't of corrected them

@@sarcasticklutz obviously u would talk to me Boom u just got. Roasted

@Digby Dooright only positive thing. If I saw her I would smack her cane!

I can promise Grandma will get HER justice, too. She will suffer loss.

They not gonna tell u wat she did if she had cheated if he found text messages wit her n a guy they not gonna tell u anything she did..they paint the picture of him as a monster she could of had anything goin on and just didn’t tell her children. Lik the girl who’s 18-21 Laying n the bed wit tht man..they not gonna tell u she was probably messing wit him...wen she left him she left the lights on doors wide open while he was n the shower ain’t no telling wat she stole..then take his kids leave the state make police reports on him..then try to come bac thinkin u takin the house to? She knew she who she was dealing wit not one kid but too kids n she married him I’m tired of y’all actin lik y’all no everything wen ya no so little...no physical abuse? Just verbal? So thts just a old fashion dad tryna run an old fashion household to me probably got it from his dad..she knew who she was wit she had a daughter already n all the experience she needed to avoid things like tht...he’s not a monster he was heart broken and emotionally eel. Cuz if he was such a monster none of them kids would be here to tell a story and ya would of left earth with her n him...ya brain washed his daughter thts sad...my point is ya stop getting married just to do it u fools

@@godforgive_me9798 they paint the picture of him as a monster because he is a monster

@@TheBadbucky p

Wow

Reading this gave me some peace. My mom died 2 years ago in a car accident overnight and I think about all of the regret I have not saying more to her when I had the chance to

It might have been a female only shelter, and there's often too much risk to even let teenage boys in. They still would have helped them find something, or offer other sources of help so they could flee.

It’s so ridiculous, but it’s a lot of Womens shelters rules… no males allowed, unless they’re like “little kids”, not teenagers or older! And your brother, father, uncle, grandfather, or any male friends aren’t even allowed to know the location of the place…

The Judge shouldve never been given custody!

​@@jenc4016 because of sex.ual Behar of men....

Yep

It IS such a shame

Jason what the duck is there to lol about? This isn’t funny.

"The laws need to change"?? She went back to the home where he lived knowing she had a restraining order against him and after he killed her, he killed himself so what difference does it make what law is changed??

What do you mean the laws need to change?

So true. It should have been a safe haven in place for the family. He should have not know her whereabouts.

Very very common. Never think “there’s places for ppl in this situation” and “so I don’t need to help” There’s very rarely ever a spot open.

Even when family tries to help, an abusive person is extremely dangerous…as is obvious from this video.

@@mcortez107 that’s why the family needs to flee. And HIDE. Court systems help the abuser. They enable tho abuse to continue. So don’t go to SS for food stamps, etc. H.I.D.E.

@@YeshuaKingMessiah yup, best thing they can do is start their life over. Sadly, I’ve heard of abusers who kill their partners family members to get them to come back. It’s a hard situation.

She tried to steal the kids inheritance from the sale of the house later on according to the son who is commenting in another thread.

@@emilydamon7940 Really!? What an old hag!!

@@addo2419 exactly like the mom !!!

Some of these "mammies" (because they're not mothers) will defend their sons no matter what smh.

@@emilydamon7940 No wonder her son turned out so f****d up

Apparently not she fought her grand children for the proceeds to the house and won.

@@whiteheart6827 that's so stupid

@@im.not.a.monster8578 the son said it . He replied to comment. I’m not making it up

@@whiteheart6827 I read his comment as well. She's sick like her son.

@@whiteheart6827 I don’t think they’re accusing you of lying, just saying that the situation itself is stupid

Well said

I agree! It was actually a clever move to say that to him...too bad he didn't have a heart or it would have probably worked.

@@jendavis592 I thought it was quick thinking too. Your mind goes to work when it's fight or flight time.

That man wasn’t capable of loving anything. His own self hate ruined the lives of 4 innocent people that he should have protected and loved. Instead he destroyed them

He never deserved such a great wife and kids

Because the system in this country is run by evil and wicked judges that protect the criminals and punish the victims.

but was she forced to go back??

My guess: the father won custody by default. The father filed for custody in Connecticut and since the mother was not available for the case, the mother lost custody.

The system fails them every single damn day.

A total failure of the system, knowing this man's abusive history!! Had they not given him custody of the 2 kids, she could've survived! Terribly sad!

I can’t wait to be free then

Argh but then you've gotta deal with the trauma from it.. so hard

YES!!!!

​@zarrowthehorse Also yes!

Thank you

@White Guardian ooohhhh sick burn dude

@@jessicarosenbeck8373 ur welcome lol

I can tell she's going through it...the dark hair and dark ensemble. That's exactly how I started dressing when my parents were abusing me. Darkness felt like a safe home where my sadness was normal.

@@HospitalForSouls.X I'm not "going through anything" my hair is dark brown and burgundy and I was wearing a black Michael Kors shirt with jeans. What were talking about happened 14 years ago.

I hope that the murderer’s grandmother will be punished that is beyond bad that she must be held accountable by death for avoiding his “son” to be in prison or death penalty.

I thought the same thing. She (Scott's mom) had to know what he planned. Then I wondered what would make a mother hide her son like that knowing planned on killing his wife and that her own grandchildren would most likely be witness to their mom being killed by their father? The only thing I came up with is perhaps he had threatened her (his mom) too. Maybe he told her that he'd kill her too if she allowed the police to search her basement apartment. I'm to the point now where I hope that she was in fear of her own life as sad as that may sound because it means that she at least was in fear of her own life and not just a horrible human hiding her son knowing he was about to kill his wife in front of her children.

@@beautifulsurprise9424 i understand wanting to believe in the best of people but I find the circumstance that he threatened her unlikely. She was alone upstairs when the police came thus she had plenty of time by herself to inform the police of the threat on her life and get to safety. She could have been gone before the police breached the basement rendering the threat minimal

Scott probably threatened to kill her if she didn't hide him

It won’t be legally pursued because she’s white

Yes. So sad

I don't think the mom knew. And she tried to leave and left with the children.

God bless her soul 👼🏽

My mom used to say the same thing.. it trigger me a bit.. rip

Yeah even though she got her kids molested

If she wanted to protect them she wouldn't have give her girls to him.

@@HelloKitty-pe4ho I’m sure she thought he would hurt them worse if she fought him on it. That’s what abusers do. They try to convince you that you have no choice, and nearly killing you is a very effective way of doing that. And was he bluffing?

Looking back she regretted loving him but I think she truly loved him.

@@d.m.mullings7549 they all loved him or at least tried to, i mean who doesn’t want to have a father figure in their life they wanted to believe that he was a good person or they tried to make him one

I'm sure her Mom knew why she was doing it 😭😭😭.

Yes Imagine The last words you say In front of your mom before your dad is about to kill her is "No stop, Dad I love you" I just want to give her a hug as well

Yes, no mom would ever blame her for that. There is no reason to feel bad. She was a good kid who told her dad she loved him. He was a lousy dad and husband.

His ego was so small that he had to kill his own wife to “win” an argument. Think about that. Hes a total loser...

@@tegridyfarms6851 u want a small ego having a big one is bad

@@tegridyfarms6851 he has a big ego not small

And a psychopath.

@@hellocoo6406 ok smartass. Your comment was really necessary here... thanks for your important input....

Ikn about in america but in Scotland she'd have been charged with obstruction of justice but isn't there a thing in america called accessory after the fact?

@@starrchild254 Accessory after the fact would be helping cover up a crime, while not be involved directly in it (eg. hiding a body, cleaning up a crime scene), why she wasn't charged with obstruction, I'm not sure. The only thing I can think is that you have the right to refuse officials in your residence if they don't have a warrant and that is probably the sticking point.

@@jd-no7rw again Idk about america but in Scotland if you refuse entry to police due to lack of a search warrant then two police officers will wait on the doorstep till another officer arrives with a search warrant

@@starrchild254 Unless they can show probable cause, meaning, they could prove she had the father in the apartment, and he was intending harm, then they don't have reason. He wasn't a wanted man at that time, so she had the right to refuse. I doubt a judge would issue a warrant because someone said no to entry into a private residence even if they suspected that someone was there.

@2freeIvX she didn’t know he was going to murder her? He threatened to kill her! More than once! Parents like to think the best for their kids, maybe in her mind she wasn’t thinking about it but in the back of her mind, there’s just no way she couldn’t have known.

This is why we tell our story so more people understand what coercive control is.

I stopped at this comment as he was talking about that. Just so extremely sad.

@@belovedqueen4572 that happens to me too..ill read a comment RIGHT as the video says it. But yes..extremely SAD

Goodness 🤧

I myself said this sentence a hundred times in my life. I was a child but I never had a childhood since I was abused by my mother and forced to become an adult and mature before age while I was still technically a child as per age. Then unfortunately that followed by an abusive husband later on..

I felt those words

Yes rip

What a lovely mum!

This woman gave the go ahead for that monster to "snuggle" with her eldest daughter.

@@Ms.takenlee may be she was so scared of this sick brute

@@Dr.SeneChats don't matter, I'd take all the abuse without much complaint ,but the buck stops when you touch MY kids. I'd never facilitate that sh**

Basically he was a control freak...

I mean not to be a devil’s advocate but narcissism and borderline personality disorder is a mental illness. Nothing at all was okay with what he did but its still how his mind works if that makes sense. Again not saying its okay at all. He probably would have killed his wife, mother, employees , friends, or whoever he wanted to control but couldn’t and tbh he probably would have killed his kids if it weren’t for the little ones saying “stop i love you”.

@@angybear1112 true but narcissism isn't a mental illness it's the way you act which could be influenced by many different factors

You would face the guilt dam id kill myself

How old was those kids...it frightens me to realise that 7-14 yr olds witnessed their mothers death 😔

@@maizaadan1610 This was almost 14 years ago so I would say somewhere around those ages

@Jason Eghosa 😂😂😂😂👍🏾

sad to see her go:( but just to let you know I'm in one too my bf wont STOP

@@friendlyplant6030 I hope you find the courage and strength to remove yourself from the negativity asap. 🙏🏻💙

It think it just makes him (m)entitled/misogynistic!

@@kieranstark7213 It really doesn't, it's more of he's just a horrible person and that's all

Well still, killing someone, let alone *a wife and a child* is still the lowest common denominator of bad human character!

@@jesusislord3720 nope

@@jesusislord3720 nah

Easy way out,let's hope hell actually is tormented suffering for the rest of eternity !

@@amilevector6866 I don’t believe in hell, but here’s hoping I’m wrong and it exists for people like him

@@Emiliapocalypse if not religion has really failed just fire isn't enough for this guy🤦

@@amilevector6866 true, plain ole fire just isn’t enough.

He saved his children and stepchild the trauma of reliving what he did and the taxpayers money.

Amen!

Yes!! He displayed narcissistic rage.

Sociopath for sure

Absolutely.

Ticking bombs!

Judge should be charged too

Wait, I thought he didn't. I though she got custody and then only returned to clean the house and live their again after being assured he wasn't there. There were just three kids right? She had custody of all of them the whole time.

Connecticut cultists

Evil people thrive off people pain im sure that judge is demonic image going to law school for that many years just to put children abusive situations

@@DeBuppy no, she had to return to fight for custody for the younger kids

Probably because they at least have each other :/

I'm sure they were wrapped in love and support from every angle.

I think they seem a little messed up tbh, not in a bad way just traumatized and a bit haunted.

Oh yes, the mother that took the girls to sleep with their dad. Now she's a saint, Lord.

@@KimberleeMelissa they were all victims to that monster. Yes, what the mom did was terrible but she probably was sexual abused as a child and was a victim her whole life. It’s all just sad, but glad the kids could help pass laws to help future victims.

As someone who lives in Connecticut, I can tell you that they don’t really care which is upsetting.

The state doesn't give a damn! Hell they even changed the name of the law, removing Jennifer's name from the law. I'm a CT resident and they suck. 🤬

The state of Texas failed to protect me and mine

@@rachaelnelson4976 Every state has done the same thing.

I live in California in a sea of 40 million other people. Nobody cares. They care when I don't pay my taxes but if I need help nobody is there.

the first thing to blame was the mother, why she was date and married with the monster? Monster is monster never change in his whole life

@@narendraputra1051 Listen, we don't know the full story. The kids don't know the full story either. My guess is that he started out as a sweet, nice seeming guy who promised her and her daughter stability and a nice middle class family. And then things began to get bad but he had already started to isolate her and make her dependent on him. And then the wedding happened. It looks like quite a nice wedding and she didn't want to disappoint anyone. Maybe things would get better once the wedding was over? You know the story.

@@carlycrays2831 yup... I think this is a case of narcissism, it sounds a lot like Em's (Emzotic) narcissistic husband. They're all nice in the beginning, they're everything u would like, and then they start to pull u in, isolate u, and then control u. Nasty stuff, I hate people like that.

@@narendraputra1051 they don’t start out as monsters. They will come to you as some of the most attractive people in the world. They wait until they know they have trapped you start the abuse.

@@narendraputra1051 Also,never blame an abused woman for her own death at the hands of her abuser.

Yeah it’s absolutely absurd. Sometimes I hate this world.

I live in Australia and my mother was killed by my father in 2008. He got away with it and his family helped him. Somehow they claimed that it was suicide by 3 stab wounds to the chest. Make it make sense 🤬

Do you really have to put the “unlike this poor family” part in?

@@ItsStartedTo Yup.

@@misterkingdom3571 damn.

I had a similar experience too as kid. But he was my step father not my biological father. He threatened to come home and kill us all when he got home from his hunting trip, my mom had been planning to leave for months but was scared and at the time she was rekindling with my step father (we just call him dad) who was in our lives 10 years prior but life separated them(they were both active duty military.) but he helped my mom pack the whole house into the car and his truck and we left that night and never looked back. He never raised his voice at us, he never yells, he really stepped up when mine and my brothers dad died unexpectedly. He walked me down the isle and always answers when I call! Sorry you guys had to go through that but I’m so glad you guys made it out safe and all alive🤍

Sorry this happened to you.

The authorities should be ashamed of themselves

@@Dr.SeneChats They should be ashamed and also held accountable for their obvious lack of care.

💜

@Savetion XII What trauma did you endure to make you say something like that?

@Savetion XII *Does someone need a pacifier? Or a bottle? Whaaa-Whaaa!* 😭

She also aided in her daughter being sexually abused

This only goes to show that a woman in that situation is alone and she is the only one that can protect herself.

@@jindav1 Based on what they were describing it was probably a situation of do as I say or literrly suffer. Abuse changes the way people think. She probably felt that keeping him happy was the only way to keep her and her kids from getting beaten to death. It doesn't mean it was right, but in those moments she was probably barely able to make the right decisions even for herself. There's a reason why coercion with physical threat has its own book of laws around it.

@@0Sarenity0 that makes sense when I was a child and my mother was with my father he was very abusive he about murdered my mom a few times my mom was so broke down from The abuse the she couldn't even remember her address when we was little because she was so traumatized and abused mentally and physically and emotionally for so long

@@amberwalters9613 I’m so sorry you had to go through that 💔

She absolutely knew. Mom's know their kids like no one else.

@@Arionthelady I didn't say a damn thing about money. So.. positive energy and comments only. You want to be rude keep it to yourself

@@hahna77 yes we do. I have a girl and a boy. I know them better than myself. LoL 😆

@@Arionthelady Who mentioned money? Or is this a comment in reference to a deleted comment?

Very beautiful sentiment. I do believe the mom knew what the child was going.

Same.

That part of the story was worse than the murder part to me

She should have been thrown in jail for hiding him.

Maybe he was abusing his mother as well....

He probably abused her too!! I still think SOME punishment is warranted for hiding him though

@@Elegant_Sausage No the grandmother is responsible for his abusive behaviour because of how she raised him it was confirmed by the dude in this video. She is not the victim because she is a woman and should be held accoutable if she is still alive.

@@Heatwave9000 she was definitely protecting him. I think she should be held accountable for protecting an abusive man. Divorce never seems to be the answer anymore. It has to result in something more. Some people think that murder is the only way out. I hope he likes living in a 4 by 6 cell.

I agree completely!!

Scott took the cowards way out. The grandmother should have known better. The children deserves justice. The children should not be put or left in that poor situation.the grandmother should get prison for what her son did as she let it happen. Their mother is now at peace and away from the violence but she is missing out on the children's lives and they miss her.but at least they have good memories of her and that's something that they can't have it taken from them. God bless them.

@K Bleeker and she didn’t choose to be abused.

“Little man” ... exactly.

@K BleekerHe could have shown his abusive side only after they married.

Exactly what I said. Insecure with a fragile ego

She wasn't and she tried to take their inheritance from the sale of the house away.

@@emilydamon7940 and after 10 years of legal issues because of it, they lost most of the money. So sad.

@@jessica2brook thats just terrible. Is it because of some bad laws or what? Was she owning the house? Because no way a mother would inherit before the children

@@Angelaius because of bad laws most likely but also because she's a terrible person

@@jessica2brook very sad 😔

Exactly!!!

Edit: gee thanks for the likes

She was a monster. She's unrepentant to this day

Damn. Sounds like the gawd damn rotten apple doesn't fall too far from the tree.

@@davidmagnano5434 OMG, I’m so sorry. That’s so hard. So she did enable her son and helped create the monster. Would be curious to know how your parents met and what your Mom saw in him. You guys should collaborate and write a book.

@@kelseymariel2127 they meet through mutual friends in their early 20s. From stories I've been told he was once a good guy. Successful entrepreneur, always helping friend and family, etc. He devolved into the monster he was at the end over the course of a couple decades. I think having been a decent person at one time is part of what allowed him to hide the monster that he ended up being from everyone around us towards the end. I started writing a book about it all a few years ago but my work schedule is very hectic and I haven't found the time to finish it

@@davidmagnano5434 thank you for even taking the time to comment. My deepest condolences. Whether you find time to finish your book or not… Or just decide to blog about it… I would absolutely read it. I think it will provide good insight and perspective to many other families in similar situations as well💚

Shay Lah that judge apparently did the judge should be jailed along with his mother I bet she only mourns her son not the woman he took away from her kids or the kids he horribly tormented

That's their momma, shining through ❤❤ good job and rest in peace to their sweet, precious mother.

Edit: gee thanks for the likes

Exactly anyone with half a brain would've known if she had nothing to hide she'd have let them in. She should have been charged with 2nd degree murder never mind accessory or obstruction

Unfortunately I highly doubt the police had enough officers to keep someone there all night. My mom recently went through a divorce with my violent father and I absolutely won’t be letting him in the house to get his stuff without a police escort. I made her stay somewhere else during the divorce hearing and I never wanted her to be alone with him after they had filed for divorce but she kept letting him in, kept letting him stay with her, kept going out and meeting him in private willingly. Can’t believe he didn’t do worse than he did as many times as she let him in.

Don't forget the the police has the authority enter by any means necessary, but they chose not too knowing full well the grand mother was hiding the father inside.

@@MissPotential. Uhhh, dunno about that. That’d be unreasonable search and seizure, I believe. Sounds like her residence, though within the house, was considered an “apartment” and as such was considered the mother’s residence, not the family’s. I may be wrong about this, as I’m certainly no legal expert, but it sounds like that was probably the case.

I guess I can ask now what’s better to have No Father Or to have A Father like this?🤔

@@abolisher well no father ofc

@@abolisher I would say it's better not to have a father then to have a really bad father I have always thought that. Sometimes it's in the best interests of the child not to be around the father to protect the child from what the father was capable of

@@abolisher what's the point of this question?