People use that line I was raised up without a father that not a reason to bring children in the world to experience your faith. Such people shouldn't have children because most don't make good parents.

The number 1 excuse of them all. My dad wasn’t present. How ridiculous!

Girl I’m so sick of hearing that! I’m glad he said something

@@idabennett8470 They know that the judge uses that as a selling point for breaking 'the curse'.

How insensitive of you… shame on you. OF COURSE her being traumatized by not having a father to love her enabled her to not love herself properly!!! Are you kidding me?!

freshly squeezed What you described is avoiding responsibility. I can’t believe the number of simps in the hood. If you have doubt, don’t sign the BC.

freshly squeezed doesn’t matter. A father should get a test period

I definitely agree with you beautiful lady. Very true.

The young and the restless

PREACH

So sick of hearing that

That and but Im a single mom. Be surprised how often beggats use that to try and get free stuff in the reddit stories Ive read.

It’s the go to...

I mean that’s why fathers are important. I grew up with my father in my life so I can’t fully relate. But I don’t think it’s an excuse but it is a crutch if she get to her 30s still doing the same dumb stuff.

U-kno Breezy Same! I don’t feel like it’s a good excuse but then again like you I grew up with my father, my cousins and friends who didn’t have their father or a terrible relationship with him you can definitely see the difference between me and them...it may definitely be a universal excuse but it’s a generational problem

So did my mom but she got her degree in computer science and had me xD

Finally someone said it 😅.

Good brother that's their excuse and it has always been true story

Why she tell him to stop talking it’s the truth

Its funny how everyone loves to downgrade the female when she says this but another of them come from these same homes...single ran homes without no fathers🤦‍♀️

And just too cute for her too

Gail Hawkins yes

Run run🏃

preach it

She grew up without a father?? Wow that is so unusual on this show. Most all guest have healthy relationships with their father.

Coop Can Cook yes she is so adorable 😍

She is the cutest!

She is gorgeous!

She is beautiful

I jus was sayin that

Yep

Definitely

She is absolutely NOT going to leave him alone..

I was thinking the same thing. She is probably pregnant again.

Some off our females are really awful when it comes to being a woman, looking in all the wrong places, an people, instead off loving self, and they need to be spoken to honestly and boldly!!!!

@@Luminous03 he has proof he’s not the father, paper work and video so he’s good

Makes me sick... you are so right!

Mr Daniel wasn’t innocent either but he sure takes care of those children it seems . But they are horrible for each other. She will keep running back to mr boo every chance she gets

Always. That's so crazy and sad.

what makes him good though? being "not bad" is not the same as being Good. His lack of self-respect.. and his weakness.. are actually very very bad qualities for a man.

Hoes are winning out there ladies, it's discouraging... Watch now the next girl he's with gonna be paying for this harlot's choices

She is absolutely adorable

God bless her she is so precious.

5:35 soo cute! also she looks like the mom

i know right, i want to carry her

@Isobel Roberts "It"?? COme on now...

James Artemus He won’t really know until he meets the right person. Then he will thank his lucky stars he’s not with her anymore.

@@charlesanderson1422 that's for sure

No! He is unlucky. He signed the birth certificate, which makes him the legal father, and he is responsible for paying child support.

@@charlesanderson1422 I hope he's not still with her.

I hope he 🏃🏾‍♀️️🏃🏾‍♀️️🏃🏾‍♀️️🏃🏾‍♀️️🏃🏾‍♀️️ while the getting is good‼️

What is the difference then woman wanting it at 23? Both got every rights to child.

Miniimufin don’t nobody care bout you this ain’t bout you😂

Ballin facts would’ve been different if she was 16-17 she talkin about 23 like that’s not normal 🤣

Womeninbusiness The journey! Exactly🤣

I can't roll my eyes any further 🙄🙄

She is everything 😘😘💞❣

@GRE And yet again we're ignoring the father. A whole lying, philandering, immature deadbeat nicca.

@GRE Who said anything about a competition? When you only call one party out you're essentially absolving the other party of responsibility. And all three of them will continue living recklessly. As for adoption, that's an epidemic in out community as black children are least likely to be adopted so often remain in the system until they age out e.g., the other guy here (on the witness stand).

Such a gorgeous child. I just want to hug and kiss her. 💗💗💗💗

She really is.

Brittany he’s a good looking dude too. I’m sure there’s no women shortage.

Or find a good man

Yes! How do these seemingly great men end up in these relationships

@@allnaturalindigo4893 chile I was thinking the same cause...

@@Tashelove1049 everybody is unevenly yoked

She do with a mother like me her father not in her life!

He didn’t boo

No, stop sleeping with any and everybody unprotected!!!

Sign them because of science.

he's the most dangerous one. he's too weak. You can't trust a weak man. They're laughing at him the whole episode.. 7:51 They don't even acknowledge this dude.. they looked straight through him like he doesn't exist.

Weak???

J. J. Not weak, respectful

weak no....but maybe thats why he chooses to be there... maybe he feels like a foster parent now..

@@4us2grow sound dumb ash

Conitria Smith FACTS🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾

Conitria Smith 🐍

👏👍Well said!!!!

Cinitria YESSSSS! and TRUST Snakey will be back tonight! And is here to stay.

😂Snakey@

And she said it proudlt

@@naomirichmond1240 She was definitely proud of herself

She was just going through the motions with Mr. Daniels, therefore the repeat of who she really wanted to be with on the same day.

True

I hate excuses with people always says something about it it's nothing about growing up without no father first of all it's about sleeping with multiple men doesn't make no sense to me whatsoever like for real for real women always making excuses about it

@@lethalong3898 I agree. As a mother, you should always want & do what you can to make sure your kids have it better then we had it. I'm tired of the excuses. They were both laughing like what they were doing was acceptable. If you're gonna sleep around, at the very least use birth control & condoms. And both men in the same day unprotected. 🤢🤮

It's called being insecure and searching for love in all the wrong places

Coop Can Cook i thought the same thing 😂

That is a beautiful baby but I'm sick of these chicks using the " My Father Wasn't In My Life" line every time these women can't keep track of the men who they're " entertainting" and no protection...*sigh*

@@totalmrmeanor7586 Agreed. For this case, that crutch ain't gonna fly, especially not with Judge Lauren.

@@totalmrmeanor7586 the sad thing I know girls who's fathers ARE in their lives and them heifers STILL dont keep track of who theyre w without protection

dudes should have seen the red flag

😂😂 me never heard that one

The judge be showin favoritism towards the women regardless of their thot behavior

Lol she be to funny

@@200blockwildboy No she goes in on them at times.

@@luminousrie1983 very seldom

And he handsome..

mimi free indeed

Facts

I was thinking the same thing!!!

What about the kids he abandoned b4 me and during me???????

She was embarassed. It was a guilty smile.

@Cal Grier TRIIIIIIIIIIIIICK!!!!!!

That deceiving trick she is

So what one have to do with the other.

Defense mechanisms

Hopefully she didn't ruin him for the next!!!

@@carmellabrown3335 That part!!!!!

Wow... "Chasity belt"!? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Women like this young woman ruin good young men!

Chastity bruh! 😂

Same here lol

if you look deeper both fathers have too much white gene in them!

@@kanjunior1019 how do you figure that? Those two men are black men and none of their features are European( white)...come on now.

You're looking at skin, which does not matter when it comes to black people. That baby has her daddy's features and she's beautiful.

I think both men are nice looking, so is the mother.

After he gets his name removed from the bc. Then run

Not surprised right?

Its over for him he got bit by the simp bug every woman is gonna take advantage of him

@@Kenxclout No he lucked out because now he can leave no stri gs attached

@@Kenxclout..or man.

She's probably never been shown what self respect looks like. These girls need mentors! I wish I could Iyanya Vanzant their @$$e$ after court. Lol

My father passed away when I was 8. My sisters were 10, 14, & 19. I'm tired of this excuse also. My father showed us through his actions how a man should treat you. We don't have a bunch of kids or sleeping with every man who smiles our way.

Some women don’t know how a man supposed to love them bc they never had a father so they settle for what they think love is. Just because it didn’t happen to you doesn’t mean other women don’t go through it. It’s a real thing!

@@simplykeahna5129 There are also lots of women with great father's and still have low self-esteem and in abusive relationships. At the end of the day it depends on what you want in this life.

Your father died; you weren't abandoned by your father and dumped in the foster care system or exposed to a succession of your mother's "boyfriends". People react in different ways to the drama of their lives. We have to thank God for His grace and mercy in our individual circumstances.

Doing what was told

It is an excuse. Other women have grown up without fathers and used that as motivation to do better.

Preach!

👏👏👏👏 I grew up with my father but I would've been better off without him- he was abusive and cheated on my mom constantly- I had no idea of how I was to be treated by a man. Still....I knew that was not right and I have never let a man put his hands on me or treat me with such disrespect!! There is always a choice and as an adult you have the responsibility to make the right choices ..or suffer the consequences.

Justina Hamilton So sorry you had to go through that hun.

But many who don't. Particularly if they didn't have any guidance growing up. Truth of the matter is that these children go either of two ways: self-destructive behaviors or seeking to do better. Ms. Petty is the example of the first, her current boyfriend an example of the second. Generational curses are real, and they move from one to the next unless it is stopped in its tracks. That adorable little baby girl will grow into a promiscuous, defiant, drop-dead gorgeous 16 year old if her mother and father doesn't get their acts together. The biological father has already demonstrated characteristics that he's about nothing. He is no father. He only comes around to get laid by this gullible, foolish girl. He throws a little money at the oldest child, denies culpability in the conception of the second and blows a lot of hot air about how he's going to sue for custody for both children (like that is going to happen). It's a disgrace.

so true

Lady-Lynn 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽cause she is going to keep on messing with him anyway

U rite sista

@@daniellepatrice7614 yup ur right

He dodged a missile!

😂😂😂

I think my mom said that too lool

I say to people "did I ask for an amen"? 😂

My Mom and grandma say the same thing.

I've never heard that until now, lol. At least I don't think so.

Kory Davis Exactly ‼️

there is a shortage of women in the US it's estimated to be 30 millions women in order to balance the genders

but why was he crying.hes the legal father anyway.

@@tazzaki2033 Nope he isn't

You ain’t lying I’ll take him he’s a real man!!!! He doesn’t deserve her smh

He too isn’t loyal we heard.

Like meee

U should holla

Lol wat you mean by that? He was cheating too?

I don't

Shaquita Lucas I heard that too

Facts

I thought he was saying that he wasn't sure until they did a DNA and found out it was his.

I said the same thing!

Shaquita Lucas he is terrible 🤦🏽‍♀️

No you didn't. I said Good day also, but idk what happened w/ the ppl watching not saying it

I always say it, lol

Same

Same she is a cutie pie 🥧

Really shocking

That young man is p.. whipped. You all know what that means.

They sound like kids

Nah I definitely believe him when he said whenever he wanted to get his child she wanted to sleep with him. He just didn’t want to deal with HER.

Luminous Rie so beautiful 😍

Yes she is 💙💛💜💚❤

Sooo cuuuttee

I adore her! She’s so precious.

A confused doll.

@Floriduh Girl Ikr..🤗shes sooo adorable!!

Same here madam

Me toooo cutie pie

Me too , I live in the UK and am white but feel like I could still do a better job. There's a really good school along the road from me where she would thrive and have lots of friends . I wouldn't treat like she was a dolly either even though she could pass for one. I would treat her as an intelligent being who has value as a human and isn't just a pretty little girl.

I want her too! I lost my girl and I always wanted another girl!

I don't understand that! Smh

🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🔥🔥

In the same day

Good day lol

Knew it was foolishness when she starts off with testing two men. I may be a dinosaur but i don't understand this concept..........!!

I get that. All I'm saying is she needs to own responsibility for her choices. Nobody forced her to say yes. The Judge asked her how did she get into this mess and her casual answer was "I didn't have a dad." She then shrugs her shoulders. No. She put herself in that position because she chose to. That's the part I'm referring to. Trust me, I understand the daddy issues. I have them. I'm not promiscuous because I choose not to be that way.

I grew up without one too. Doesn't give us an excuse to be a hoe lol

@@sweetsweet81 yup. Daddy or not smashing two guys unprotected on the same day 🤦that ain't nuffin to do with Daddy issues.

Fatherlessness does contribute to promiscuity, it aint right but its reality

My favorite line: Her: I grew up without a father Balle: Oh ma gawd that's no excuse!

Man he made me made for that statement

@Cal Grier I was raised by both my father and my mother. Nice try

I feel as if in this case, he is a good father...they both said (including her) that he takes care of his son. But as soon as he said he wanted full custody that's when they said he a bad daddy & such & such. Like idk

@@Itsjejeduhh 100

Nekabeauty Amor I just feel like don’t try to get custody out of spite.

I can’t stand the whole “lettijg multiple men nutt in you and having no idea who impregnated you.” Lol. Def cut that out. Smh

I caught that as well. 😭😭

Cuz he capper and I was underage when I had the first one sooo they couldn’t talk about our first one who is identical to him

@@JustNia93 Thanks for explaining. You’re beautiful, by the way.

@@thandilocks thank you ☺️

Facts

He did boo

Ms Petty & Mr Ballie deserves each other. They are both disgusting. Run Mr Daniel

Charoletta77 😂😂😂

You wrong😁😁😁😁😁😁

Baby confused calling two men Daddy.

@@myfathersson3751 😂😂😂

denise holloway 🤣

denise halloway that figures😖😖

🤣🤣🤣🤣

I hollered!!!!! 😂😂😂😂

Lol

They all are aren't they. Gives me baby fever although I've been suffering from it for years now lol.

Kimzy Lee she's a cutie pie.

Her ex bf act like he is a saint, beautiful baby

NtheNow say it again. But I'd say like dogs out here in the streets. Just nasty😖😖😖

I agree but it's no different than how things use to be back in the days.

Girl she said that so proudly. Like she what saying she performed open heart surgery and brain surgery simultaneously.

way too much time on their hands

Stinky, wet and sticky- went tuna fishing...

She likes it so

Because him is a idiot.

they neva learn

Because she love him you can see by her look by the way she always smile in the beginning until Mr Daniel came in the court

@@lalrinsangarinsanga3510 Love is the wrong word, feelings sounds more right.

He was getting on my nerves.

The men were unprotected too..double nasty

False btw

No doubt

Huh wifed up?

@@PresterMike my thought exactly

Marriage is not the only piece missing here. Those women don't know who their baby daddy is and is not right. Being in a marriage or not doesn't excuse that!

Married doesn't guarantee that either

Or sleep with just one man?

@Kanoasha Jackson thank you for saying that I was thinking the same thing you don't have to be married to validate whether he a good man or not a good man proves in the actions he put forth you can do this with out being married ijs!

Vanessa Dupas wow you are so right their not making a good decison for their just sleeping around Vanessa you are so right.

Actually not really

vonda denson I hope he reads your comment.

🔥😆👍😅😂👍👍STD

@@jameswashington7767 std free boo 🤣

Dom D 😂😂snagga wagga

I shouldn't have laughed so hard at his comment

Not snag a tooth

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Yes Erica Campbell please do!!!

Please let me know if you need anything. I'm with you on that note.

I've been looking for this comment...almost died 🤣🤣🤣🤣

That son is likely Stephon's. He just better stop clowning and straighten up enough to take care of Aleiyah, because he's her father, whether he wants to be or not. The straightening up part applies to Ania, too, acting all hoeish.

@@johnathanpatrick6118 I was acting like a hoe and plus he didn’t and still don’t ! Them some capping mfrs I know them in real lifr

Jamie Red-Panda just because he pay child support does not mean he doesn't have to do anything it cost way more than 50 dollars a month to take care of a child hun

He pays child support for his son, not the little girl. Also, his name is not on the birth certificate of the daughter so he is not obligated to provide support for the child. Honestly, I wouldn’t buy pampers for a child that may or may not be mine.

@@ItsHermeliabytheway but why was the other guy crying ? he is the Legal father . baby has her surname.right.

Taz Zaki The young man crying is the current loyal boyfriend she was cheating on with the ex/baby daddy Mr. Ball. He is crying because he wanted to be the father, but he is not the biological father. Lawfully, the boyfriend will be considered the father since he is on the birth certificate. It’s a mess!

@@ItsHermeliabytheway yeah but did he not say in the end " I need both the kids custody" also that " I love kids " . I just felt he was happy he was legal father .to have some part of her regardless of the mess ?

Anitra Williams ..Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.

B.W. usually go for the sorry dude

It really isn't. Yes it is unfortunate that dad wasn't there, but ultimately the choice is ours whether we're going to use that as a crutch or a launching pad.

@@sweetsweet81 crutch or a launching pad. Lol. 😁😁😁 So true, the choice is theirs to make. It sort of makes it worse, because they know more than anyone what it's like, and does it anyway, as if they had no control.

Its both an excuse and a reality in her case. We always have a choice, but the data does back up her statement.

@@quichequiche3177 data though is not what has to happen. It still comes down to choices. Just my opinion .

@Kitten Lyric I can't have compassion for her. I do appreciate your comment, but I just can't.