Women's Liberation is an Inside Job: Ending Self-Betrayal | Abby Havermann | TEDxCherryCreekWomen

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Feminism brought advances in equal rights, anti-discrimination, sexual harassment laws, and Woke Parenting. Yet, women are victimized, and the battle for self-respect, self-esteem, and self-confidence continues.
In a burning bush moment, Abby, a couple’s therapist, found her self-worth after being arrested for domestic violence. She believes women act out an internal, unconscious belief in their unworthiness as a result of conditioning. By combining social justice with an inward gaze, women can overcome the habitual emotions which cause them to self-betray. The next wave of feminism begins with one, simple question. Abby Havermann is a transformation junkie, authenticity enthusiast, and life-long seeker of truth and social justice. Her longing to discuss elephants in living rooms led to a career in psychotherapy, where she created a shame-evaporating space for people to hear their otherwise bullied intuitions.
Now a dynamic coach, speaker, writer, and trainer dedicated to facilitating sustainable change, Abby combines her neuroscience study, teaching people how to re-wire their brains, adapt, and transcend prior limitations.
Abby weaves warmth, wit, and vulnerability into her work with individuals and organizations. She’s a best-selling contributor to The Beauty of Authenticity, featured in Letters to Me, a contributor to Kiplinger magazine, and is currently working on her memoir, House of Cards. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@DialogueSeven
@DialogueSeven Жыл бұрын
Men and women need to watch this. Parents should sit down with their sons and daughters and watch this. Brilliantly presented and desperately needed.
@melissabois6933
@melissabois6933 Жыл бұрын
Self-betrayal and lack of self-worthiness are traits that need to end, especially for women, young and old! Your message is honest and raw with a touch of humor and humility - thank you for sharing your journey and guiding others to find their way!
@SvetlanaDubinsky
@SvetlanaDubinsky Жыл бұрын
Amazing presentation and such a powerful message, great job Abyy!
@maggiekang497
@maggiekang497 Жыл бұрын
Abby, wow! What a powerful message about self-betrayal and worthiness. So important for people to see this. You were so open, honest, raw and humorous in your delivery. Women’s liberation IS an inside job. You’re so right.
@carriemarierasmussen4522
@carriemarierasmussen4522 Жыл бұрын
So good! Great examples of the need for consistency of conscience thinking and behavior. Especially for us woman who so easily forget our worth. Thanks Abby. As usual, tons of " nuggets" in your presentation
@snevins1928
@snevins1928 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful job, Abby. We must give our self grace and love because we are worthy. Our self talk sets the tone of who we are and you my friend AMAZING 🙌🏻
@emilys2474
@emilys2474 Жыл бұрын
Such a powerful message! Thank you, Abby, for sharing your story and your wisdom. Your talk offers tremendous insight into self-betrayal and worthiness issues that women and girls experience and often deny. I’ve watched this video more than once and each time I had a different “aha” moment. You are a true vision of inspiration and brilliance!
@donnasoz
@donnasoz Жыл бұрын
Powerful message how self-betrayal can be a tricky labyrinth of denial and I love how you show us the way out so we can tell ourselves the truth and make changes in our lives.
@danettemucaria5864
@danettemucaria5864 Жыл бұрын
I love hearing these messages. Abby, you are continuously inspirational and always keeping it real! I'm always striving to maintain hope as a social worker, and it's exhausting. The sharing of your stories/experiences and knowledge always feeds me and gives me a boost toward continuing my inner work and ongoing efforts toward change, self reflection, worthiness; in turn, hopefully, inspiring other women young and old to recognize and do this work. Thank you for sharing always!
@marymcdonough8701
@marymcdonough8701 Жыл бұрын
Powerful message. You are brave and amazing!! You rock!
@maireadgordon7
@maireadgordon7 Жыл бұрын
Wow, so so empowering Abbey, from student to teacher through this experience. This will change many many worthy lives on the evolutionary lane! Thank you kindly for sharing this wisdom. You are an inspiration and light for us all. Keep sharing your wisdom🙏❤️‍🔥
@lindaguzman288
@lindaguzman288 Жыл бұрын
Such a powerful message!!!
@cohereandnow
@cohereandnow Жыл бұрын
Increidble! Thanks for sharing Abby!
@wyattesp2746
@wyattesp2746 Жыл бұрын
This is so good!
@jordanadory5221
@jordanadory5221 Жыл бұрын
This was amazing. Rang very true for me… I’ll definitely watch again for more nuggets to soak up.
@GrundeiCoaching
@GrundeiCoaching Жыл бұрын
Brilliant and powerful! Thank you Abby for sharing your truth. So many women need to hear your message. You are changing lives, my friend.
@Simonacevedosiuu
@Simonacevedosiuu Жыл бұрын
This is the kind of information that us as human beings should be looking at. Inspiring, thought provoking and transformative!
@clauruizc
@clauruizc Жыл бұрын
Great talk Abby! Everyone should listen to this talk from an early age so they understand the importance of feeling worthy of discerning big bad wolfs and moving away from them.
@lynwineman8634
@lynwineman8634 Жыл бұрын
Amazing Abby. This is really powerful. I am so proud of you and happy for the positive change you inspire.
@alexabrascetta681
@alexabrascetta681 Жыл бұрын
This just makes so much sense. Too much sense, but really it’s hard. Real change happens within. I hope Abby’s message resonates because it should. Her work is transformative and everyone could benefit from her message. A 10/10, 5 stars and two thumbs up.
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