She's old school. They don't make them like her no more. Salute.

Your husband is blessed to have you.

Where are there more real women like this?

you are a real decent woman. wish more woman were like you

if more women were like this, I might try dating again

She said the truth and I had a woman like that she was ungrateful and now she regrets it. This young lady understands God bless your husband he blessed.

I can't believe these words are actually coming from a female, finally a woman sees what so many of us good men go through n actually cares. God bless you n Ur family n thank u for posting this video, I'll have to share this wit every girl I know lol. We need more women like you encouraging other women in the right direction cuz it's hard being a man in this sexist country, we get stepped on everyday. anyway, yup, great video I appreciate it.

Thank you all for your comments. I've been getting quite a few lately and for the most part they are encouraging and positive. I will be doing more videos soon. Stay tuned.

This is so true. I'm hearing it all over the place. Women are breaking perfectly good unions with wonderful men because of "grass is greener" mentality. And then when that perfectly good man goes and finds himself the next woman, who loves and cherishes and supports him and then suddenly he starts reaching for the stars and living up to his potential she's bitter like "he never did that for ME!!" 😒 You don't even have to say it out loud. If I'm your mind you're thinking he ain't shit or he's not good enough or why isn't he as good as X man over there... that implicit attitude rubs off and then guess what... he lives down to your expectations. GREAT great message! I know this is true in my relationship and coming up on 10 years in March, I can STILL say that this one thing is a HUGE factor in both of our lives as far as who we are, what we feel we can achieve, and how much we have to give to the other.

People like Steve Harvey is to blame for some of these ungrateful thinking of woman always looking for the best provider not the one that they can work together with

She just made my day. It's very hard to find a woman that appreciates good men like myself. I know you say "good guys finish last" but remember the last finish first.

Your husband is rich beyond his wildest dreams because he has you.

That was very UPLIFTING!!! It's nice to know women like you still exist.

What's funny is that they will see a beamer and automatically think a guy with a regular job is a baller, but he's just driving a used car and isn't making 6 figures. That same woman may see a guy driving a 10 year old Chevy, and think he's broke. The guy with the Chevy may own a few properties, and actually be sitting on millions. His Chevy may also be one of his cars, but he doesn't care to put many miles on his new or collector vehicles that are easy for him to afford.

You are a good woman and he is a lucky man! Y'all always get each other's back.

I appreciate your wisdom and taking personal responsibility praise God and may God continue to bless your marriage

I'm literally dealing with a women that is like this right now unappreciative of everything and finds anything to get mad over.

Leave these American women alone . I learned my lesson the hard way.

Comparison is the thief of joy!

My wife is one of these rare diamonds. Truly a Proverbs 31 woman

Sister, First of all, I just want to say THANK YOU. If there is such a thing as a Black Queen, you are it. You are a beautiful and intelligent young LADY. Your husband is a very lucky man. God Bless the both of you. Your video should have WAY more views, likes and comments than this. It is one of the best and realest videos on here concerning this much-debated topic. Everything you said was on point. It is very disheartening to see so many young sisters who are unappreciative of brothers who are trying to do something with themselves and be a positive to our community. Again, Thank you for being the kind of woman that all our sisters should strive to be.

That guy over there is probably in a lot of debt trying to keep a new car and house just too impress a female

This young lady is so smart, beautiful and blessed. She could teach women of all ages how to do better. What a blessing. Her husband is a blessing to her and she is one to him.

always heard it from older woman but from a young beautiful sista is priceless

Rare....she is in the minority.....the 5%

Thank you my sister, about time someone realize what good men go through. Nice guys never finish last. Women who doesn't realize what they have, and take advantage of the nice guy finish last. Now you have most definitely spoken like a true Queen. Thanks

This video explains exactly why you're a happily married black woman and most are just single mothers. What this woman is explaining is the difference between a woman a man would just sleep with, and the one he sees himself with for the rest of his life. Now to explain further, I must say that most men that come out of single mothers homes mostly get caught up in saving the wrong type of women, but a man that had both parents and we're positive influences tend to look for this kind of woman in this video.

This was a really good message. Hopefully in the future I will a wonferful guy to get married to. I'm definitely going to be his encourager all the way. It's always good to uplift your man.

They're lot's of ungrateful women's in the world. That don't appreciate a good man. They'll wait until he decide too stop dealing with her. Too start appreciate him. He had left cause he had enough of her not being ungrateful.

I wish more American Woman could think and reason like her! It's materializm that makes good men run for the hills, well anyway Blessings to everyone in the comments and abroad!

Every little boy begins his journey liking, respecting and loving the women in his life in his innocence. It is only after years of getting played by teenage girls and young adults in college or his early years in corporate of the military that his heart hardens, he says "F*ck it" and goes about the rest of his days trying to do to women what was done to him i e the Playa. American society has created this social and spiritual dynamic. Having "game" = the ability to LIE is what it seems to be all about. Generally, the men and women who "game" well get multiple playmates when they're young. There is a deep price to pay for having game though and most do not see it until they have been played playing the game. The lie is always intriguing and fun, but temporary. The truth is deemed boring because it is stable. In America, we want the excitement and the stability, but can't find both in the same person so we are always hunting for that next (temporal) thrill. The ultimate game is that the Devil will always make sure that you have a great time...ON THE WAY DOWN. Play if you will, but don't complain about all of the good men or women you passed up when you were younger and obsessed with thrill seeking.

This is so true. I've been through it. I've been my best to a woman who see a nothing good in me. She would criticise me and judge me with other men and all sorts of things so I salute you 100%

This is true gospel! Why is it not enough? It is because of ungreatfulness. Appreciate a good man because someone else will I promise you.

we need more woman like her

I was that type of man but she left and took my son away from me. After everything I did for her, She said she could do better. I'm never going to forget her words.

Fellas take notes and ladies that are still "looking" pay attention to this video. She hit the nail on the head. All points well said and valid. Peace ans blessings everyone.

you better say it honey that's what I am talking about

So grateful that God made a women like your, your truly one of a kind

Sister I am that man and I'm glad you're a great woman who totally get it,God is doing great things in you're life continue to educate these weman young and old,it's not about you're age but it's about having the know and sister you have the know!and all men old and young that trully been threw this get it,this is Bull Dee Dawlson from the homeside squad VA.much live to you and you're family and continue to live you're husband and all there who have a live one like this live them,live them,love them couse you really only get one shot at this we are not promised tomorrow charrish every min of this day......God bless us all.....❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💕🤟🤟🤟🤟🤟🙏🐦

Go ahead sister teach!!! other sisters and the world!!!!!! Thank you......

I love the way your mindset works and giving the thought you realize a man's worth and we provide and bring to the table to women. Most women this day and age have a blind ambition for their own vanity,social media status, what they can get out of a man without being committed to him and money above all. We men go through hell and high water and walk on a sharp edged knife just to please most women but things we do is left unappreciated. We're not perfect but we love you women anyway, all we want in return is our love for you to be fortified, receive me the way I receive you. Thank you for this message, it is very inspiring and a fruit for thought for those women who are the ungrateful ones.

This video made me cry. 😭 I fit all your descriptions of a good man; and I just left an ex girlfriend that took me for granted and was cheating on me. I was beginning to take it personally, but now I see that she lost out. Thanks. 😁

Great video sis, my wife really appreciates me , but I didn't have that before I met her !!! Thanks for being honest about women too, alot of women are not honest,its refreshing to hear this!!!!

Madam I'm 3 years late responding just wanted to say thank you even though I live a MGTOW lifestyle it was great to finally see a beautiful positive woman.All the best.

I just wish I could find a good hearted woman and soulmate. I’m tired of being used cheated on and being broken hearted. Please help me.

Notice ladies no hair weave or love and hip hop playing in the background

i wish my Ex had watched this video years back, i might have at least gotten a 'thank you' for all i did for her >.>; ....still, great video, i hope you two are still going strong, happy, and blessed :)

I appreciate you for making this video... Sooooo many females need to watch it. God bless you and your family and may your holidays be exactly what you all want them to be.

I needed to hear this you're a great woman and your husband is blessed to have you Queen! Need more women who see life the way you do.

Sista.....I don't know you and I'm a black man taking care of business and you speak the truth like God is speaking to u. Amen

Thank you for and Appreciating a good Man, because there are lot of Us out here!

Wow she hit it right on the head I'm going through right now keep spreading the word God bless you

WOW.. a lady who is appreciative... Priceless

I wish my ex could’ve seen this video she to prideful.

God bless your sincerity, lady... You'll continue to be a bright and shinning light to your generation.

Well-spoken young lady, like the other, said, it should be more like you, your man is blessed.

thanks sweetie pie!!

To all men, listen and pay attention! To live a happy life free from drama, anguish, stress, financial loss, courtrooms, false allegations, lies, child protective services and all manner of unnecessary and unwarranted b*******. 1. Never get married, 2. Never have children, 3. Focus on yourself and your dreams, 4. Dedicate yourself to God and becoming the better version of yourself so you can live a happy and fulfilling life. But if you decide not to follow these guidelines then make sure you're prepared by having a prenup (regardless of your income) or a notarized agreement before you get married and or have children. Be wise and learn from the mistakes and experiences of men in the past and present so you can live a happy life. Remember, don't be a simp because the ratios between woman and men in America are 8 to 1 so don't get hung up on your emotions, lust or whatever for a beautiful woman because there are many more to choose. The purpose is to maintain your peace of mind, joy, good mental health, financial freedom and overall happiness.

WOW!! Very true and nicely said!! So many women today are so out of touch in many ways, materialistic and yea always comparing. If only more woman had the mindset like you!! Thank You for being you!! It also has to work the other way around with the guy. May there be more like YOU!!

Is this for real !! Hard to believe.i I'm 70 years old and never heard such a powerful word from such a young woman.what a great woman at least 300 million Americans should hear this philosophy. I'm mesmerized for words. Because it's the same way l view a marriage May millions follow your humble advise..

But now they are going tell her and troll her that she is an pick lady but she is just being real but they don't want too hear reality but soon the Ression gonna hit hard

Sis, you are so beautiful. I subscribed. Your husband is a lucky guy. I want to meet a woman like you with such a great disposition and voice of reason.

You said a mouth full. We men really do go through a lot

Preach Sister! You spoke the truth. Thank you so much.

This is what we call unicorns...a lot of people ain’t raised right

preach sister

Shaquan Shannel God bless you. I was begining to see woman in a bad way. We need such testimonies

Thank you for making this post!!!

Black men Africa is full of millions of women hey we got plenty more options to Latin America carribbean

That's a great point upon many others in your video that even my mom & aunts have told me & that's being a Godly man. A lot of women want Godly men yet are not Godly women. I'm a good man but not the Godly man I should be that'll make me a better man in all things. Can't ask for something I'm not myself. Can't effectively be a leader in my home if I'm not living for, seeking the Lord when I get married. I've never been appreciated in any relationship until now being a good man but being a Godly man will take things higher & bring forth a Godly woman or the lady I have will want to do the same. Great video & hopefully men and women will take heed to great, Godly advice but these days messages as yours are ignored even hated amongst men & unfortunately women too.

Great message!! Something that needs to be spread and heard!!

Not sure how this ended up in my feed 5 years after posting, but I’m glad it did. God has a lot of quality men out here getting completely slept on by the masses. One day, you’ll wake up to what people like to call “overnight success”. There’s growth in the struggle. You’ll see with us, or you’ll see without us. Great video. Thank you for sharing.

Men are easy lady's.. Keep his belly full and his bed warm and trust me he wont leave. BUT #1 rule is never talk down to him. We need this and we need respect to build us up. Build up that strong man even if he's weak at times. And don't give him a reason to leave.

You make me so proud of you you're a very wise young woman very beautiful.

You are very real sista. And your right with anything in life you will struggle but at least as a team you struggle together. Trust me I have been through so much with my childrens mothers but in the end I have little girls to so I have to show them how to be good young ladies to. Thank you for the video a lot of us brothas really appreciate it. Thanks.

Thank you for sharing your story and God bless you! I pray to God that women heed your video because alot of them are ungrateful and I thank you for giving me home to finding a godly woman such as yourself.

I love this video. You got my subscription

Women don't appreciate good men just like Eve Did Not Appreciate God. God put her in a nice garden where she had no pain, could live forever and gave her an abundance of food and a Husband. Instead she choose to submit to the devil and lost everything. This same story replays today in relatinships. Women generally drift to men who make empty promises

As a man whos experienced the Woman you`re talking about and been extremely loyal and then been betrayed very badly I really appreciate this video and your message, Thank you!

Am so pleased to hear such a great message from a woman. Thank you lady

Smh smh I wish some1 tells my wife to be a wife and appreciate her life partner!

The sad thing is women like this one are hard to find because theze days marrige is stacked aginst men .

Thank you for speaking the truth! I like that you pointed out that if a woman doesn't value a good man, he will get another girl who loves him for being him.

Thank you for that positive word about men. We need to hear more of this

Now this is a good woman

Ungreatfullnes is WORST then WITCHCRAFT .

This is beautiful and I must share this with my daughter thank you for your encouraging words keep her in prayer because she's not listening or seen the things that she is not seen she is really blown she has a wonderful husband strong Christian hard working man who is always about her side thank you for thatGod bless

I needed to hear this. Thank you. God bless you. ♥️

This lady gots to be daydreaming where this woman at she talking about i never met any female like that

Where are these types of sistas at. Somebody please tell me!!!!!

Amen sister Preaching to the ones who will listen 🙏🏾☝🏽

This video almost brought me to tears. I gave my all for this one lady from late 2012 until 2016. I was never good enough for her. I learned from it. I literally gave all I had. She even graduated from a technical college and never acknowledged I was one of the many reasons she succeeded. I was devatated. It took a long time but in 2017 I became a stronger man and am succeeding. God is good!

Dam women like her still exist, I'm shocked..

In the modern day if you dont have a fuckboy haircut and a shitload of money women won't talk to you. It doesn't matter how much you love them or how much you you pay attention to them. Cause at the end of the day if your not crapping out money and buying them Gucci coats they are probably gonna leave you for some guy in Beverly hills. I know not all women are like this but that is just my experience. I have just given up trying because I can't afford to live in a house i live in a small apartment in new York city and i work a minimum wage job (i can barely afford the apartment cause new york is expensive as fuck) and can t afford to tend to her every need. And we all know most modern day women if you can't get them what they want when they want they will leave you.

Thanks for posting!

Thanks sista for posting this video. As a black man with a felony from many years ago , I can personally attest to what you are saying cause whenever I was struggling to put my life back together after being incarcerated for four years was tough, and the sistas were hell looking down on a brother and not being supportive at all. I am doing good now,and all of a sudden they wanna come knock on your door. It's too late now cause I got a good wife now.

your husband is a lucky man not too many like you left for the rest of us to choose from

Everytime I date a black girl I go broke. 😂😂😂 done.

you on point sister. Females need more postive role models like you on social media and in the music industry. I hope this video spead like wildfire!!!

This video definitely gave me hope I do appreciate your word of wisdom God bless you and your family. ✊🏾 Hopefully in 2020 i will find someone