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I disagree. If a man really values you, he WILL remember what you like. You won't have to remind him 5,000 times like a surrogate mommy. If he takes you for granted, he'll care about his sports or video games more. I've seen the difference personally. Don't settle for men who don't have any softness to them, that's just not a good deal.

I don’t know… I think it’s ok to know that men need reminders and more guidance when it comes to emotional maturity issues, but I’m not going to be “gentle” and “loving” when a man keeps forgetting an anniversary or continuing to cross a boundary that is objectively wrong. I also understand that men are not the primary care giver but a man who gets pissed if you ask for help with the kids, is a man who has no empathy or respect for his partner. I’m no doctor, but I say “when someone shows you who they are, believe them.” I’m not taking them for no damn cat scan. LOL

Why are Women picked apart and held responsible for everything?

Give the man credit. Hes explaining the facts, the different parts of the brains represent for both men & women .. i find him quite clear and objective

I also notice he's not considering how much more women have to deal with in this society.. Like Horrific internal and external body image, Her safety, How she has to do almost everything in the family unit..... ect..

I am a woman & have adhd... I am still capable of remembering things and people that are important to me. I think most people are, so let them show you if/how much they value you.. then act accordingly.

i don’t know if I agree with the always reminding him of everything, if he knows he’s forgetful why can’t he put your anniversary in his calendar? same day every year

This is why we need to be in Congress!!!! We need to lead because we can think ahead!!!

Neuroplasticity begs to differ. It’s only natural that after hundreds of years in which boys to men have been conditioned to prioritize themselves and their careers over their intimate relationships that the scans would produce such results.

Of course it’s usually hormonal but many doctors misdiagnose and mistreat us. Then when you go to another doctor who treats you, one feels cheated out of life. This happened to me. All I needed was progesterone for my heavy bleeding, but all my doctor prescribed was the birth control pill. Glad I found two doctors who know how to treat me.

A lot of the depression women deal with isn’t because our brains are just more emotional. It’s because the world is genuinely a much more dangerous place for us, plus there are so many more unrealistic expectations and responsibilities placed on us in this society. When I spent some time living the way we were meant to live, I was not depressed. If I took time to make a list about everything women have to think about from day to day this would be the longest KZfaq comment ever.

Nah, im not going to remind somebody 14 times to do something. Im going to do it myself of possible or pay someone to do it. Leave him and find a smarter man. Im obsessed with my man now. He's extremely intelligent, gentle, emotionally stable. I can't believe my luck finding such a man in my ealry 30s. I thought they were all gone

EMDR is amazing! I had a chaotic childhood too and this therapy really helped me massively, I found a great partner at 42 after always being in unsatisfactory relationships (understatement!)

Why is it that we make ALL kinds of excuses and ACCOMODATIONS for men and handle them with *kid gloves* while women are just expected to suck it up?

I'd love to know how patriarchal trauma is playing a role of the development of women's brains.

I had an active life eating clean and was hospitalized 7 days longer than expected for 3 major abdominal surgeries I had all at once due to an accident. I had to go to an inpatient rehabilitation facility (nursing home) for 2 months afterward. I'm glad you brought up certain foods as being inflammatory. I gained 25 lbs while there post-op and had no choice of what I could eat once I left the hospital and went there. I am still battling the documented nutrition deficiencies and the weight I put on there. Everyone complained of the food. It was mostly highly processed simple carbohydrates and very little protein or fresh foods and this was considered one of the better rehab/ nursing home facilities. So many patients were suffering from inflammation related and dietary related issues there. If they were lucky, they got to see the nursing home's doctor and were issued a highly processed protein supplement. One of the staff members actually told me to get out of there if I wanted to live. I was in a wheelchair, came home to home care, and now I'm walking again and in outpatient physical therapy on my way to getting my health and life back after a bad car accident. I wish someone would address such facilities but when you're in your 40s and have been inpatient, you realize they aren't in the business of keeping people alive and thriving. Your podcast is helping me so much! Thank you.

If he is forgetful why can't he put the reminder in his own calendar? My mom expects me to remind my brothers. But I have just as much or more to do than them. I refuse to be their secretary too.

I take progesterone now and its like a calming effect women need this one. I'm over 40.

PMDD is truly life altering. It’s like the worst possible emotional experience, every month of every other month and it is so so understudied

Wow ….let’s continue medicalising the cyclical nature of women’s bodies. Understanding our cycles and cycle hacking is one thing. Honestly, if your partner is putting you on hormones to turn you into a more compliant version, I would be asking questions. Where was the pushback on this? How many men would have their hormones tampered with to make them into better husbands? Why do we as women spend so much time seeking to understand our partners so we can meet them where they are?

I hate how he calls it 'worry' - our language hasn't invented a word to explain the emotional thinking/strategizing/planning that happens simultaneously for women because we care about future outcomes. The combination of this will of course trigger anxiety but we continue because we want to do the 'right path' over and above. It's not worry. It's intelligence.

I think menopause depression comes because people finally see reality.

Women are more intelligent. Society hasn't/doesn't want us to know this. Of course we're more stressed, think about it parents worry more than their children do.

What a love story Dr Amen became a Psychiatrist to support his wife☺️

His key words "Train your mind to help me not hurt me" Hits 💛👍

Just 10 minutes into this interaction, I am just loving it ❤

Because of this forgetfulness, and ADHD as in get bored quickly (which often leads to cheating), and the non-interface with one's internal states (emotions), men are SO MUCH WORK, like having another JOB, and so where is the JOY in that? Why would I sign up for this kind of overWORK?

I feel this is a bit of excusing men for being sh** & again, making us caretakers while they skate by Women work so much harder in life than men. We spend time grooming, cleaning, doing 99% of childcare, making spaces nice & building relationships- plus usually a job too. We also feel overburdened, lacking energy & yet we still pour passion into people. Yet they just roll out of bed & go to a job for some hours.. come back & can barely cope with a conversation, even after having beers with the boys to unwind I thinkkkkk they could do more, and do better. Adapt pls

Having worked at a Psychiatrist Unit for Kids I fully agreed to that Theory of 1st Child Abuse, including the difference between alcoholic mothers VERSUS fathers as MAIN CARE GIVERS

I really like that Dr Amen looks for the best in people, optimistic, knows the science etc. But my opinion, he can come across as an apologist for dysfunctional harmful people. Most of what he talks about here puts the burden on women to accommodate men's difficulties, but not visa versa...

Very early into the video, my first question becomes: Are these brain differences by nature, or are they designed by socialisation? Are we training our children to behave and function in these ways due to societal expectations and demands we place on them based on gender? Can we improve the outcomes of all genders by changing how we raise kids?

If these conclusions are based on scans done at an Amen clinic, wouldn't they be done on people who are there because they are already having trouble in their life that led them there? That would mean these observations are skewed and not a random crosssection of the population.

I’ve been on 5HTP for a month and it’s helped my depression so much. You have to wait out the first 2 weeks because it takes a longer time to build up in the body before the chemical serotonin level is enough to change your depression.

Not every human and woman has the same character, which includes the empathy, iq, morals, spine. Knowing they own the physical strength is the only reason why men in general almost always don’t care or aren’t bothered about what others think of him.

I love this interview so much!! Dr. Amen's research helped me immensely 20 years ago with the decision to medicate my 7 year old son for ADHD. I learned it's NOT a behavioral problem. Now, we've learned so much more about sugar and diet, but at the time my son needed to succeed socially and academicly. Now, as a menopausal 55 year old, looking after my parents in their 80's, this information is AGAIN so helpful to me. Thank you Lisa and Dr. Amen!!!

Thank you for this great episode. Im 44 and it is just what i needed!

We loose purpose once kids leave nest. This is why women need to be very active in community and help others and find ways to find purpose. We need to do !!!

Lisa I love that part (1:16-) where you tell how you posed those questions to the doctor in the neurosurgery, where your mum got her brain surgery. I'm a student nurse besides learning natural medicine, and always get irritated by the same thing. Trying to teach our patients in secrecy to be aware of this and they are grateful for it.

if they are criticising or gaining trust, then they are trauma bonding you.

That's why Alternative Medicine works. Due to the holistic approach and longterm experience which Science is now evidencing. Great Interviews!

I find a lot of things he says compelling but I have trouble with reminding men how to be present and follow through on meeting a woman’s needs. I feel like this is parenting them. I want a partner not another child to teach. Why are parents not teaching them to be a good partners as they are growing up ?

So clearly explained, and so repectful to women. Seems like such a great doctor.

Oh man, cellphone affects us like a cocaine, oh my god, that hit me. Also the sugar inflaming everything, so true. I’m so glad everyone from the guy from tictok Eddie to this guy who is a doctor in his field are talking our diets: sugar and carbs are so toxic not only to health, but the brain. More fat and protein - so glad this knowledge is becoming ubiquitous.

Lisa, you really know how to ask the best questions!

I'm just curious as to why this channel has gradually changed into one focusing on men and love and romance. When it started it was of women achieveing great things; breaking barriers; inventing things; launching and running successful businesses. Now it's super focused on romance, when women have much much much brighter and varied lives outside of their romantic dealings with men.

I just love Dr Daniel Amen, he is so incredibly brilliant. I was given one of his first books probably over 25 yrs ago and it has changed my life. An incredible person who more people should follow and understand!! ❤❤. Loved your interview with him, Lisa!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

This is really good. Addiction and childhood trauma is a huge problem. Would love to hear from experts on all this for solutions for the non-wealthy. I suspect diet, sleep, avoiding all alcohol, sugar, processed foods, forgiveness, Jesus. Really at the end of the day, most will never have the opportunity to do hyperbaric O2 treatments or expensive supplements or detox retreats, but there are things we can do. This would be a really great topic to explore for someone in this field! Also, yes, EMF's are huge, as well as vaccines. This seems to be a taboo subject among leading wellness influencers, but its a massive deal too. Blessings!

This was really interesting & informative❣️ Thanks Lisa & dr. Daniel

What an insightful interview, loved it! Thank you Lisa!

I love him so much. I wish I'd had someone like Dr. Amen in my life. What a dramatically different and better life I could have had.

Glad its is on social media to help others in the path . I suffered enough for everyone i think. So happy it’s gone aging not so great but getting rid of that red dragon was nice. Learning what my body is really going through helped tremendously getting enough magnesium epic help.

I would love to know more about the couple he helped with the husband working in furniture and smelling fumes. My ex husband and I had a difficult time when we moved and had many stressors on our marriage. He became obsessed with collecting vintage motorcycles, Vespas, etc and spent all his free time in the garage that he outfitted into a workshop, using gasoline and string chemicals to strip things - and he would also keep the garage shut to keep bugs out so the ventilation was bad and a friend even commented on it. His behavior became even more violent, aggressive and unreasonable. He had other issues besides this but this period led to a catastrophic change that affected our business and family and it became so abusive I divorced him.

I'm a 9 on the ACE scale and I consider it a miracle that I made it this far. Not like you wear it on a shirt for everyone to know. There's so much recovery work involved in getting to normalish. But when the scale came out the difficulties of my life made a lot more sense.

I like how her bright pink boots match her cushions while shes interviewing him about mens hard wired brains...

I really love your interviews! I discovered them two days ago and I already heard many of them. Very informative with people who know what they talk about, something difficult this days. Thank you for your channel.

Dr. Amen should scan bisexual men's brains! It would be very interesting. I seem to be drawn to these men. They seem largely more sensitive and responsive.

"I want us to feel our feelings because when we block them they come out in pain in our body." "Males and females both have their own significant strengths but the strengths of the female brain is forethought, it's conscientiousness, it's collaboration."

I believe that women are gifted with a cyclic rhythm that asks them to step back and rest or meditate….the constant pushing forward without rest creates distortion and imbalance.

This is on a watch list to watch again with my partner... So much valuable info.

Loving this!! Just on the women having 52% less serotonin than men, was that an average taken across the month, as serotonin levels fluctuate massively depending on time of the menstrual cycle. I'm guessing they controlled for that. Interesting stuff!!

Also, this is the worst part, none of us exist in a bubble….. The quality of one’s mate choices impacts hormone levels! All of this means nothing until we study the hormone profiles of family units or couples to examine the effects we have on one another. You only need look at the research into the effects of cortisol on the endocrine system. Autoimmune disease, cancer, chronic illness. The impact of ACE scores on health etc. I would suggest that before advising women to go on hormones or any long term pharmaceutical treatments, to really understand the possible cause of the imbalance.

I don’t know how to ever be a guest on your podcast, and it’s embarrassing to inquire. I’m a female business owner and have been for over a decade. But I would like to discuss the traumas of rape, challenging sexual topics for honestly the “normal” everyday damage nowadays with porn and social media and so much more . To truly get woman to hear how many woman are struggling and are depleted of hearing the same options and opinions all coming back to self accountability… instead of woman hearing and actually opening up to the thoughts of being supportive and loving, respectful of our bodies and love 💗

I am curious as to how this information can be applied to someone who was born with a seizure disorder, has survived narcissistic abuse, and now has CPTSD?

I would love to know if Dr. Amen has studied the brains of women who use the pill and those who do not and if there is a difference. Very interesting, thanks.

I am very very grateful for this video. Thank you a million to you both and the whole team.

They learned not to trust, love or feel. Ouch.

I wish he could talk about men that “enjoy cheating.” I’m not someone who experienced it chronically but the 1 time, was it really me even if it’s not ever happened before? Or was he just wired that way and he was going to keep doing that to everyone anyway (wish I’d known about the fingers check! lol). So not so much they can’t think ahead, but is there such a thing that they plan ahead even more because they can’t wait to go cheat because the thrill is the cheating ?

I need a very specific scan for my levels . When I run on auto pilot and don't feel anything. But out of no where I get sick with iBS. When I think I'm feeling good. No cure My hormone imbalance of of dopamine and serotine other than relaxation. Not to mention I vent been able to conceive any pregnancy. I'm 38 went 100% off my Zoloft meds in January . I feel ok but mostly blank and ever busy

I’m def a 10+ the fact that I have overcome my programming. Overcame severe trauma.

Almost everybody has a damn cellphone, if it were important, they could write it in their calendar or notes, seriously! It's a matter or PRIORITIES and DISCIPLINE and managing one's life!

So Grateful Dr. Daniel and to You, Lisa with great questions and your Channel🙌🏼✌🏼💕

You never know where the differences are coming from because in modern world girls also raised to be empathetic and caring and boys are raised to be working and forward moving..it’s not clear if the differences might stem from the way they were raised or if they are biological..you can’t tell just by looking at which sex is more criminal and which one more emotional..if the results are based on self reports they are not as good as you think

Thank you for all this information along with the humor…. Grateful for your show💪

It really bothers me that he says if I stay with a guy, I could die earlier .. 😆

I’m getting so much ick from this guy it’s not even funny. Yes there are anatomical and hormonal differences. But how much of this is due to socialization because there is neuroplasticity so the neurons that fire together wire together. These anatomical neurological differences may be the reflection of years of social conditioning to be responsible and conscientious and take on the mental load of the family. If men put this on women and then say well it’s based on anatomical differences and you should just have hormonal replacement therapy to be less of a nag….say what?

The best understanding of female and male brains and relationships so far Lisa. Thanks

Thank you Lisa for this and all your amazing guests. It really helps me a lot!❤

Loving the entire interview with doctor Amen. What is the name of the app I couldn’t catch the name 🥴 thanks Lisa it’s very helpful 🙏

Him: Will you marry me? Me: Well,not until my dad scan your brain. 😂😂😂😂 Wieredly cool. I wish i had such a daddy. Would save me alot of shit.

Absolutely fascinating topics. Worth listening to this video many times. Wealth of knowledge! Thank you Lisa.

Great segment, very informative 🎉🔥🩷

Bio-identical progesterone saved me 😁 theres also a lot of people with weak inner and outer awareness. Low vibrations to life in general. Fear and big egos also drives those to hold in feelings which in return only makes things worse. A mans feelings that are in tune or in balance usually know how to love. Weak vibration controls the ego, speech, thoughts, and emotions in negative ways. Basic term would be he is not mature and needs to work on these as a whole in order to love himself and his partner.

this type of information is so difficult to find. Thank ❣️

Ist important to know how old the people were whom they tested and asked..because these differences can actually be influenced by education and parenting

Lisa - love your channel. Had read Dr Amen’s books over the past decade. Was stunned recently to read BBB info on his highly costly (and profitable) business model and sales of supplements as well as other reputable medical professionals who call his work BS. So confusing

50:51 Dr Daniel Amen's description of his wife, and how he felt when he met her, is very sweet.

We are not our thoughts. We are the observer of our thoughts.

Great interview!!! But my goodness, all the ad breaks! Do you really still need the money?

Love to see men sit in a pink space discussing the differences between men and women 😂😂😂😂

It can not just be physical/biological causes. If a brain can change due to bad circumstances or environment. How is the environment for women around the world created and controled by men for decades.

This information is great and an eye opener. It explains so much!

Love you Lisa ❤ thanks for all your great work 👏🏽

If only I knew this when was younger , omg my period drove me crazy 2 week before come , though i wasnt normal

My husband was always for me there 🤔 He never ever left me in troubles

Without addressing the way boys and men are coddled in society and the burden of labor (both emotional, psychological, and actual labor in the home) placed on women being disproportionately higher - talking about brain scans sounds idiotic (no offense). Address the real obvious issues before getting into the weeds. This feels irresponsible and unscientific.

I learned so much!

Dr Amen is amazing ❤

ADHD in women and girls is often misdiagnosed and misunderstood, with more focus on anxiety and depression. Most research about ADHD centers on externalizing symptoms seen more commonly in males instead of internalizing symptoms seen more in females. Aka, we really don't khow how many men vs women have ADHD.

We women know that naturally without studies. Da