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@Portia6205 ай бұрын
I’m a guy too! After ok gotta go! Lol. I use way too much language! I over commit and it always causes issues!
@Portia6205 ай бұрын
Can this be an issue for women the testosterone and genetic?
@Portia6205 ай бұрын
Me too! I’d never cheat! No excuse and if men can’t see ahead then I’m done with men! So weak!!
@Portia6205 ай бұрын
After trauma prefrontal cortex is not working great but that doesn’t k mean a person cheats! Morals are in another area of the brain I’d say!!! Cheating is something entirely different!
@Portia6205 ай бұрын
Agreed with drugs! Drugs destroy the brain and body!
@rwdswght40575 ай бұрын
I disagree. If a man really values you, he WILL remember what you like. You won't have to remind him 5,000 times like a surrogate mommy. If he takes you for granted, he'll care about his sports or video games more. I've seen the difference personally. Don't settle for men who don't have any softness to them, that's just not a good deal.
@redleeks62535 ай бұрын
Men have a great memory capacity for things that matter and can even be super focused For exemple: They can remember all the players of the football league, the transactions, date and time of the games. If his partner is important he will remember and if he's unfocused, add or something he would use notes and alarms to remember
@QueenKaeOfficial5 ай бұрын
Yes true, but also that can happen sometimes, it's key to not treat the person like crap over it cause sometimes( i say sometimes cause i mean the people who fr care not people who don't care like you were saying) they really do care and just need a reminder, but I agree on most things should be remembered. Nobody is perfect everyone makes mistakes NOBODY has a perfect memory, and if you destroy a whole relationship just cause the other person forgot your favorite color or preference of something and just need a reminder? That's just toxic. But the rest of what you said is so so true!❤️ I really believe once someone is set in their ways and they are fine with themselves like that then they aren't gonna ever change so theres no point in putting all your effort into someone who isn't willing to put the same in for you❤️
@QueenKaeOfficial5 ай бұрын
Also! I would like to add that's probably more of a foggy area with things because of some people have more problems with memory than others, short term, long term, from birth, sudden onset, concussions, dementia, and also trauma and ptsd or cptsd. And if you don't know if you or your partner had those sort of problems people might blame the person instead of understanding the underlying problems and working through them together.
@rwdswght40575 ай бұрын
@@QueenKaeOfficial oh, nobody is advocating for treating somebody like crap. I would say if your partner forgetting things which are important to you, you can pull back some of your energy, too. A healthy relationship is an equilibrium. He gives less, you give less. Instead you use that extra energy on yourself. It's important to nurture the relationship you have with yourself, too, so that's extra time and energy you take back. Nagging would just not be a good use of personal energy, as that would still be "putting energy in," and running the risk of not getting results.
@QueenKaeOfficial5 ай бұрын
@@rwdswght4057 I said IF they ACTUALLY care.
@TheTeacherMuse5 ай бұрын
I don’t know… I think it’s ok to know that men need reminders and more guidance when it comes to emotional maturity issues, but I’m not going to be “gentle” and “loving” when a man keeps forgetting an anniversary or continuing to cross a boundary that is objectively wrong. I also understand that men are not the primary care giver but a man who gets pissed if you ask for help with the kids, is a man who has no empathy or respect for his partner. I’m no doctor, but I say “when someone shows you who they are, believe them.” I’m not taking them for no damn cat scan. LOL
@phillipswatson34525 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 CAT SCAN 😢😢😢
@TheTeacherMuse5 ай бұрын
@@phillipswatson3452 😅
@Carolinekatongo5 ай бұрын
@@sherriflemming3218 Sharp u r . No need to understand men who mismanage their masculinity. This causes a woman to b a slave. Great insight here,thanks.
@QueenKaeOfficial5 ай бұрын
Lmfaooo I love this😆❤️
@Magicisreal664 ай бұрын
It's the same old b s- This doctors making a loophole / Just another excuse for the human male To be a dead beat, And not have to take responsibility. For his own negligence. That's why running into a real divine masculine/.A real man- is like crossing paths with a white leopard. As women, we need to let them deal with their own s*** and you deal with yours. And when it gets too full then out the door you go, The better pastures!
@jaclyncameron113726 күн бұрын
Why are Women picked apart and held responsible for everything?
@master11manifestor19 күн бұрын
This is precisely why women are more defensive.
@omiadi748516 күн бұрын
Perhaps the greatest change is derived from women. Where there is impact for change or movement, you’ll find women.
@recoveringsoul75513 күн бұрын
Ever since Adam blamed Eve for his choice to eat the apple And because in every culture on Earth, women do the bulk of child rearing. So if a kid turns out bad, the therapist asks "Tell me about your relationship with your mother". Maybe mom had too many kids. Maybe dad was abusing her. Maybe she worked and daycare raised them. None of that seems to matter. They always blame the mom
@kpf2014Күн бұрын
Recently heard that Adam actually ate the apple but blamed it on Eve. Hence “Adam’s apple”. 😌
@recoveringsoul755Күн бұрын
@@kpf2014 well he did "eat the apple" and blame Eve. Although I believe the original sin was lust. Because if you look at the language, originally it said the serpent "BEGUILED" Eve. And the meaning of beguiled is a sexual one, meaning she was seduced But he wasn't a serpent until after, as part of his punishment. During the seduction, he was God's smartest and most beautiful angel. And it took decades for him to finally seduce her. Think about a kid who snuck a cookie before dinner. Did you eat a cookie? No, they claim, while covering their mouth, because that's where the evidence of their crime was. But Adam and Eve covered their genitals. Not their mouths
@diamondmediatv30197 күн бұрын
Give the man credit. Hes explaining the facts, the different parts of the brains represent for both men & women .. i find him quite clear and objective
@Magicisreal665 ай бұрын
I also notice he's not considering how much more women have to deal with in this society.. Like Horrific internal and external body image, Her safety, How she has to do almost everything in the family unit..... ect..
@sherriflemming32185 ай бұрын
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker is an informative book written for women.
@Magicisreal665 ай бұрын
@@sherriflemming3218 I shall definitely read it
@sherriflemming32185 ай бұрын
@@Magicisreal66 Great to hear. It's an empowering book. De Becker has great podcasts as well. Every woman's bible. It should be implemented in the education system for adolescents. I encourage men to read it. I'll leave a list of personal development books. I hope you're well! Victor consciousness 🌞 This is a great podcast!
@sherriflemming32185 ай бұрын
Safe People by Dr Henry Cloud Non Violent Communication by Marshall B Rosenberg I Hear You by Marshall B Rosenberg The Language Of Emotions by Dr Gabor Mate Boundaries by Dr Henry Cloud The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer The Brain Mind And Body In The Healing Of Trauma---Bessell Van Der Volk Are You The One For Me? by Barbara DeAngelis 👍 What The Heck Is Self Love Anyways? by Jonathon Aslay ❤️ Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix IMAGO ( why you keep choosing the same people over again) Wired For Love by Dr Stan Tatkin The 7 Principles Of Making A Marriage Work by John and Julie Gottman Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters 8 Dates by John and Julie Gottman If The Budda Dated by Charlotte Kasi Without Conscience by Robert D Hare Snakes In Suits by Robert D Hare The Paradox Of Choice - Ted Talk The Mask You Live In Documentary
@Magicisreal664 ай бұрын
@sherriflemming3218 I sure do appreciate all these podcast and informational link's . definitely gonna be sharing them, with my daughter 2. Cause I know when we empower our daughters, the cycle can't repeat The horrific indoctrination they received from this patriarchal regime that was spawned out of a human septic tank. Thanks again.I hope you have Awesome life!
@master11manifestor19 күн бұрын
I am a woman & have adhd... I am still capable of remembering things and people that are important to me. I think most people are, so let them show you if/how much they value you.. then act accordingly.
@josslynsinotte43415 ай бұрын
i don’t know if I agree with the always reminding him of everything, if he knows he’s forgetful why can’t he put your anniversary in his calendar? same day every year
@memeturner193929 күн бұрын
Because their frontal brain is not as developed. They lack the ability to think ahead.
@CharmSanchez21 күн бұрын
Cause he's not thinking ahead lol
@DL-idk17 күн бұрын
I probably won’t do that. That sounds too much like a mom and in no way I would ever make myself a mom to my partner. Either he remembers or he forgets. It shouldn’t be up to me to be his walking calendar. There are plenty of tools out there and he should be able to handle days that are important to him in ways he likes.
@recoveringsoul75513 күн бұрын
I reminded mine 2 months ahead, 1 month ahead, 2 weeks ahead, 3 days, night before, morning of, and he still "forgot". They don't care, they won't remember
@deezed64783 күн бұрын
It’s just an excuse because they’re very capable of remembering the things that matter to them. Like when a work project is due or when the next game starts and who’s playing vs who etc.
@Portia6205 ай бұрын
This is why we need to be in Congress!!!! We need to lead because we can think ahead!!!
@jenster295 ай бұрын
There are women in Congress 😂
@NovaDoll5 ай бұрын
@@jenster29The boomers are destroying the world because they won’t be here in 20 years.
@elsavelaz5 ай бұрын
We need more women in AI. And chatGPT doesn’t represent all of AI, but was glad to see they put women on the revised board after removing any diversity during their drama
@Greenwitch_Garden23 күн бұрын
The moneymakers behind everything do not want women running the nation :,( they can’t buy us off.
@joellemartin446621 күн бұрын
Because we lose for a week monthly 😂
@emperorwendi4 ай бұрын
Neuroplasticity begs to differ. It’s only natural that after hundreds of years in which boys to men have been conditioned to prioritize themselves and their careers over their intimate relationships that the scans would produce such results.
@MissOJAYКүн бұрын
I was literally thinking the same. Can she please bring Dr Tara on here. Coz this nonsense of but that's how they are and we must understand is rubbish
@melbaT27705 ай бұрын
Of course it’s usually hormonal but many doctors misdiagnose and mistreat us. Then when you go to another doctor who treats you, one feels cheated out of life. This happened to me. All I needed was progesterone for my heavy bleeding, but all my doctor prescribed was the birth control pill. Glad I found two doctors who know how to treat me.
@PropheticCoachTheresa5 ай бұрын
Most allopathic physicians are woefully uneducated and unwilling to be in dumb m functional medicine and those that are charge way too much making their care out of reach of the majority of the population that needs it. When dealing with allopathic professionals we have to do our homework first and research their treatments for contraindications in our cases because they aren't likely to. Majority of malpractice and iatrogenic death caused by ignorance and stubbornness on the part of allopathy to get educated.
@h.neubert87705 ай бұрын
Feel you. Currently dealing with los ferritin that I have had for 10 years+. Totally avoidable. Had to junp through hoops to get Progesterone as well. I was already Estrogen-dominant when they wanted to give me an Estrogen-Pill „to manage PCOS“, except the next doctor could not find any evidence of it. The system is not well set up and having lived both in Germany and the US, its quite similar. The patient has to be semi knowledgeable and take matters into their own hands. Glad you did that for yourself!
@h.neubert87705 ай бұрын
*meant to say low ferritin
@Diarrheagod23 күн бұрын
@@h.neubert8770reasons like this is why I avoid going to the doctor all together. I don’t have the patience to deal with all of that
@deezed64783 күн бұрын
A lot of the depression women deal with isn’t because our brains are just more emotional. It’s because the world is genuinely a much more dangerous place for us, plus there are so many more unrealistic expectations and responsibilities placed on us in this society. When I spent some time living the way we were meant to live, I was not depressed. If I took time to make a list about everything women have to think about from day to day this would be the longest KZfaq comment ever.
@charmyj9021 сағат бұрын
Truee…
@deannatipton72604 ай бұрын
Nah, im not going to remind somebody 14 times to do something. Im going to do it myself of possible or pay someone to do it. Leave him and find a smarter man. Im obsessed with my man now. He's extremely intelligent, gentle, emotionally stable. I can't believe my luck finding such a man in my ealry 30s. I thought they were all gone
@BrooklynBaby10025 күн бұрын
@deannatioton7260 where’d you find him 😅
@jayjaydubful20 күн бұрын
@@BrooklynBaby100i also want to know this
@SherriFlemming19 күн бұрын
@@deannatipton7260 Congratulations! They are rare.
@Atsirk199618 күн бұрын
Me three, I want to know! 😂
@ifinditinteresting.870916 күн бұрын
❤❤
@lesleybrady394818 күн бұрын
EMDR is amazing! I had a chaotic childhood too and this therapy really helped me massively, I found a great partner at 42 after always being in unsatisfactory relationships (understatement!)
@AffectionateSeaOtter27 күн бұрын
Why is it that we make ALL kinds of excuses and ACCOMODATIONS for men and handle them with *kid gloves* while women are just expected to suck it up?
@miller517025 күн бұрын
I think men used to be the protectors physically like so we were safe and they hunted they were brave it’s sort of sad they don’t have to do that stuff anymore. But being a provider can make them feel amazing
@AffectionateSeaOtter25 күн бұрын
@@miller5170 Yes, but today they don't do that either. Instead, they feel okay running away from their responsibilities. And there is a lot of 'coddling' going on in our societies when it comes to men which creates both laziness and a sense of entitlement in them.
@Cocktail.witch.newhaven5 ай бұрын
I'd love to know how patriarchal trauma is playing a role of the development of women's brains.
@avjam21 күн бұрын
I don't think he discusses much about men. This session is more about women, and title is misleading
@happilydivorced323515 күн бұрын
And men
@verycherry445923 күн бұрын
I had an active life eating clean and was hospitalized 7 days longer than expected for 3 major abdominal surgeries I had all at once due to an accident. I had to go to an inpatient rehabilitation facility (nursing home) for 2 months afterward. I'm glad you brought up certain foods as being inflammatory. I gained 25 lbs while there post-op and had no choice of what I could eat once I left the hospital and went there. I am still battling the documented nutrition deficiencies and the weight I put on there. Everyone complained of the food. It was mostly highly processed simple carbohydrates and very little protein or fresh foods and this was considered one of the better rehab/ nursing home facilities. So many patients were suffering from inflammation related and dietary related issues there. If they were lucky, they got to see the nursing home's doctor and were issued a highly processed protein supplement. One of the staff members actually told me to get out of there if I wanted to live. I was in a wheelchair, came home to home care, and now I'm walking again and in outpatient physical therapy on my way to getting my health and life back after a bad car accident. I wish someone would address such facilities but when you're in your 40s and have been inpatient, you realize they aren't in the business of keeping people alive and thriving. Your podcast is helping me so much! Thank you.
@Navl9226422 күн бұрын
Ohmygosh. Thank you for posting. I wish you great LUCK and HEALTH !!
@Bunny1134421 күн бұрын
Agree with you 💯 sadly the food at hospitals are highly processed and not there to help patients to heal
@trerodriguez4 ай бұрын
If he is forgetful why can't he put the reminder in his own calendar? My mom expects me to remind my brothers. But I have just as much or more to do than them. I refuse to be their secretary too.
@crystalbelarde663726 күн бұрын
Maybe it's time for them to evolve. Cause women are getting tired of juggling so much.
@realireen26 күн бұрын
I totally relate to this.
@CarolynH-kk4dr25 күн бұрын
I agree that there are hormonal influences at play but I think there is also some excuse making here. A man doesn’t need to be reminded 10 times about what he needs to complete or the deadlines at his job. At some point there has to be some personal accountability.
@SherriFlemming20 күн бұрын
They can be intentionally lazy, refuse to help or have selective memory.
@SherriFlemming20 күн бұрын
@@CarolynH-kk4dr 💯
@tresjolieme814 ай бұрын
I take progesterone now and its like a calming effect women need this one. I'm over 40.
@1steine21 күн бұрын
How does it help you? For What symptom? Where in this episode is he takling hormoners? Struggling with pms so much!! (41y old) 🙏🙏
@nealiecruz253218 күн бұрын
I’m 54,,,, how do you take the progesterone? Pill? Cream? How do u get it?
@baljithayre12523 күн бұрын
@@nealiecruz2532usually a pill at bed time as part of hrt for menopause.
@amyfigueroa191119 күн бұрын
PMDD is truly life altering. It’s like the worst possible emotional experience, every month of every other month and it is so so understudied
@sally1805 ай бұрын
Wow ….let’s continue medicalising the cyclical nature of women’s bodies. Understanding our cycles and cycle hacking is one thing. Honestly, if your partner is putting you on hormones to turn you into a more compliant version, I would be asking questions. Where was the pushback on this? How many men would have their hormones tampered with to make them into better husbands? Why do we as women spend so much time seeking to understand our partners so we can meet them where they are?
@mearaftadewos850829 күн бұрын
This one deserves a million likes!
@crystalbelarde663726 күн бұрын
Imagine tampering with their testosterone to make them more empathetic. The outrage it would cause.
@kaythomas852126 күн бұрын
I'm sorry. But HRT. Is one big gamble. Pretty risky for being linked to the Big C
@SherriFlemming20 күн бұрын
@@kaythomas8521 Absolutely. HRT only in extreme cases. Self care and a healthy lifestyle holistically is a better idea.
@happilydivorced323515 күн бұрын
That’s concerning too. Tempering with a woman’s body just to make her “feminine.” 😢
@kimli325417 күн бұрын
I hate how he calls it 'worry' - our language hasn't invented a word to explain the emotional thinking/strategizing/planning that happens simultaneously for women because we care about future outcomes. The combination of this will of course trigger anxiety but we continue because we want to do the 'right path' over and above. It's not worry. It's intelligence.
@Portia6205 ай бұрын
I think menopause depression comes because people finally see reality.
@kattodoggo38685 ай бұрын
You need to have your brain scanned
@Magicisreal665 ай бұрын
It has to be realized, and noted here is..... They have both been indoctrinated and infected by patriarchal regime- "and did not have the females best interest in mind"- What should be obvious to everybody by now. That has had control over people for over five thousand years now. And has absolutely nothing to do with biology, or how Our creator made us to be.
@Magicisreal665 ай бұрын
also notice he's not considering how much more women have to deal with in this society.. Like Horrific internal and external body image, Her safety, How she has to do almost everything in the family unit..... ect
@Magicisreal665 ай бұрын
@kattodoggo3868 ur brainwashed.
@zero11885 ай бұрын
@@Magicisreal66both men and women deal with alot
@angelaknox3 ай бұрын
Women are more intelligent. Society hasn't/doesn't want us to know this. Of course we're more stressed, think about it parents worry more than their children do.
@Diarrheagod23 күн бұрын
Depends the type of intelligence your talking about. Do you know how to rewire your circuit breaker box in the basement? Or configure electrical wiring to install a new light fixture? Or pop the hood of your car and be able to to know what’s going on with all those mechanical parts to configure why you’re car is acting the way that it is? There’s a reason this is a male dominant field. Men’s brains are naturally wired better for more logistics.
@pares75 ай бұрын
What a love story Dr Amen became a Psychiatrist to support his wife☺️
@shitshowwithcheryl2 ай бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rcBgl6x4usXJcn0.htmlsi=IxyQZ3rApkpWFT-B True love for sure! I only dream of a day I can help and treat my husband and clients/families the way Dr.amen has been able to help so many others in his career 🙏
@elegantrose8885 ай бұрын
His key words "Train your mind to help me not hurt me" Hits 💛👍
@kaythomas852123 күн бұрын
@@elegantrose888 he should HELP YOU first. It's not ALWAYS about Him. All the time.
@SherriFlemming19 күн бұрын
@@kaythomas8521 Yes. Partnership. Teamwork.
@priyankaarora3005 ай бұрын
Just 10 minutes into this interaction, I am just loving it ❤
@flynneart11115 ай бұрын
Cuz were better girl!😉🌸
@caroljenny77014 ай бұрын
Because of this forgetfulness, and ADHD as in get bored quickly (which often leads to cheating), and the non-interface with one's internal states (emotions), men are SO MUCH WORK, like having another JOB, and so where is the JOY in that? Why would I sign up for this kind of overWORK?
@crystalbelarde663726 күн бұрын
Exactly this!
@lilg230026 күн бұрын
exactly. is it worth it? probably not.
@miller517025 күн бұрын
Idk I get bored easily lol I think everyone needs a hobby
@cristinamontece364723 күн бұрын
😅😅😅 the one million question. Sorry, but women are waaaaaay more interesting. 🎉🎉😅
@SherriFlemming20 күн бұрын
Relationships are work period. Single equals freedom and peace generally.
@DeepThought734 ай бұрын
I feel this is a bit of excusing men for being sh** & again, making us caretakers while they skate by Women work so much harder in life than men. We spend time grooming, cleaning, doing 99% of childcare, making spaces nice & building relationships- plus usually a job too. We also feel overburdened, lacking energy & yet we still pour passion into people. Yet they just roll out of bed & go to a job for some hours.. come back & can barely cope with a conversation, even after having beers with the boys to unwind I thinkkkkk they could do more, and do better. Adapt pls
@stuts23715 күн бұрын
Nobody in today’s society made you or any woman a caretaker. If that was our society you wouldnt be saying men are 💩. I really hope you dont believe that. I also find it silly how you tbh ink building relationships is such a struggle when awkward young men are seen as creeps or cowards as didplayed in your comment. But an awkward woman is simply hurting and neglected. Very funny
@stuts23715 күн бұрын
Some of you are turning into the narcissists you hate so much. Zero empathy for men but you want pity from them? Stop it
@henrikelanschuetzer42615 ай бұрын
Having worked at a Psychiatrist Unit for Kids I fully agreed to that Theory of 1st Child Abuse, including the difference between alcoholic mothers VERSUS fathers as MAIN CARE GIVERS
@SherriFlemming19 күн бұрын
@@henrikelanschuetzer4261 Agree.
@whatshername6565 ай бұрын
I really like that Dr Amen looks for the best in people, optimistic, knows the science etc. But my opinion, he can come across as an apologist for dysfunctional harmful people. Most of what he talks about here puts the burden on women to accommodate men's difficulties, but not visa versa...
@BlackPearlMona3694 ай бұрын
We need the female version of hem to give the female perspective more indeed...
@AffectionateSeaOtter27 күн бұрын
EXACTLY 🎯
@crystalbelarde663726 күн бұрын
That's what I got out of it too.
@user-ur7hp3gm2i24 күн бұрын
Dude can definitely work on his posture lol .. too much brain not enough body
@CharmSanchez21 күн бұрын
It's because women need to be convinced to be with men, men don't need much convincing. And they'd forget what he said anyways.
@rachelgarcia17905 ай бұрын
Very early into the video, my first question becomes: Are these brain differences by nature, or are they designed by socialisation? Are we training our children to behave and function in these ways due to societal expectations and demands we place on them based on gender? Can we improve the outcomes of all genders by changing how we raise kids?
@Halloweirdo20134 ай бұрын
I wonder that too
@sherriflemming32184 ай бұрын
Children learn from modelling and genetics can play a role. Safe People by Dr Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller- (Attachment styles.) Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix IMAGO Wired For Love by Dr Stan Tatkin Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman I Hear You by Marshall B Rosenberg PhD Non Violent Communication by Marshall B Rosenberg PhD The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman The Untethered Soul by Micheal Sorenson What The Heck Is Self Love Anyways? by Jonathon Aslay Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis. 8 Dates by John and Julie Gottman If The Budda Dated by Charlotte Kasi The 7 Principles Of Making A Marriage Work by John and Julie Gottman The 10 Essentials Of A Secure Partnership-by Dr Stan Tatkin Breaking The Man Code - Jonathon Aslay podcast Seek Good Character A Reminder To Us All David Tian PhD podcast. Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future -;Sam Vaknin podcast The Mask You Live In Documentary The Paradox Of Choice Ted Talk
@sherriflemming32184 ай бұрын
Children learn from modelling and genetics can play a role. They are also effected by society and what and who they're exposed to. There are many parenting education courses available. Also books on parenting. ACE exams. Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix IMAGO Wired For Love by Dr Stan Tatkin Are You The One For Me? by Barbara DeAngelis Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future - Sam Vaknin podcast Breaking The Man Code -; Jonathan Aslay podcast Seek Good Character A Reminder To Us All David Tian PhD podcast
@user-vf9vx3hm4s4 ай бұрын
Great question! There will be no answer.
@ZainaKeyma22 күн бұрын
By nature- it’s males biology
@Wyoming_Life5 ай бұрын
If these conclusions are based on scans done at an Amen clinic, wouldn't they be done on people who are there because they are already having trouble in their life that led them there? That would mean these observations are skewed and not a random crosssection of the population.
@AffectionateSeaOtter27 күн бұрын
That's correct. Unless of course he paid people to be in a 'control group' or they volunteered themselves. I don't know if his findings include the results from a 'control group'
@penniroyal439826 күн бұрын
I’ve been on 5HTP for a month and it’s helped my depression so much. You have to wait out the first 2 weeks because it takes a longer time to build up in the body before the chemical serotonin level is enough to change your depression.
@adora721lux822 күн бұрын
So glad you're getting better. Facing depression myself, I added 2000 mg of vitamin C as magnesium ascorbate and saw much improvement. I also recently started taking algal calcium (Now Foods brand), boron (also Now Foods), and strontium citrate (Nutricost brand), which continue to improve my depression. I don't each much dairy, and have a lot of stress that demands more vitamin C. I hope and pray you continue to feel better; depression is a pit and wouldn't wish it on anyone.
@s.o.t.s.o.t.4 ай бұрын
Not every human and woman has the same character, which includes the empathy, iq, morals, spine. Knowing they own the physical strength is the only reason why men in general almost always don’t care or aren’t bothered about what others think of him.
@newbetsy4 ай бұрын
I love this interview so much!! Dr. Amen's research helped me immensely 20 years ago with the decision to medicate my 7 year old son for ADHD. I learned it's NOT a behavioral problem. Now, we've learned so much more about sugar and diet, but at the time my son needed to succeed socially and academicly. Now, as a menopausal 55 year old, looking after my parents in their 80's, this information is AGAIN so helpful to me. Thank you Lisa and Dr. Amen!!!
@TsuMacBabCud5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this great episode. Im 44 and it is just what i needed!
@Portia6205 ай бұрын
We loose purpose once kids leave nest. This is why women need to be very active in community and help others and find ways to find purpose. We need to do !!!
@claudinesteenberge49205 ай бұрын
Funny you say that, as I've been preparing for this mentally before they're all off to college and adult lives
@daathdorothiel5 ай бұрын
Lisa I love that part (1:16-) where you tell how you posed those questions to the doctor in the neurosurgery, where your mum got her brain surgery. I'm a student nurse besides learning natural medicine, and always get irritated by the same thing. Trying to teach our patients in secrecy to be aware of this and they are grateful for it.
@tensevo4 ай бұрын
if they are criticising or gaining trust, then they are trauma bonding you.
@CS-fz2iw24 күн бұрын
That's why Alternative Medicine works. Due to the holistic approach and longterm experience which Science is now evidencing. Great Interviews!
@michelledesjardins33527 күн бұрын
I find a lot of things he says compelling but I have trouble with reminding men how to be present and follow through on meeting a woman’s needs. I feel like this is parenting them. I want a partner not another child to teach. Why are parents not teaching them to be a good partners as they are growing up ?
@butchbaker6819 күн бұрын
You must be perfect
@SherriFlemming19 күн бұрын
@@michelledesjardins335 Helicopter parenting. Creating a coddled generation. Authoritative parenting is a healthy parenting style. Children need discipline routine structure and love. Know yourself and your attachment style. 80% of people do no therapy or personal development. Children learn from parental role modeling. Personal development is empowering! Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix- IMAGO Wired For Love by Dr Stan Tatkin 8 Dates by John and Julie Gottman defines the blueprint of healthy relationships Are You The One For Me? by Barbara De Angelis Safe People by Henry Cloud Non Violent Communication by Marshall B Rosenberg I Hear You by Micheal Sorenson Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters . Ken Reid, Dr Ramani, Sam Vaknin and Dr Stan Tatkin have educational podcasts on attachment styles.
@xocarleeryan12 күн бұрын
You don’t raise a man into a man. But you do need to have an understanding how men are different than women. That way we can better communicate w one another.
@nzingahoney8 күн бұрын
Exactly 💯
@stuts23715 күн бұрын
The irony in saying women dont exist to serve men yet you adopt a philosophy where men should serve women’s wants and needs. I’ll tell you your problem. The men that will fulfill your wishes don’t want your sorry complaining ass
@miateacher1235 ай бұрын
So clearly explained, and so repectful to women. Seems like such a great doctor.
@pd48875 ай бұрын
Oh man, cellphone affects us like a cocaine, oh my god, that hit me. Also the sugar inflaming everything, so true. I’m so glad everyone from the guy from tictok Eddie to this guy who is a doctor in his field are talking our diets: sugar and carbs are so toxic not only to health, but the brain. More fat and protein - so glad this knowledge is becoming ubiquitous.
@qosaghcalnan10455 ай бұрын
Processed carbs are bad whole frutis veggies and whole grains are very healthy many Africans their stable of their diet is millet these people are very healthy I follow a girl from Africa on here actually . They are like glowing they are so healthy
@sararaile597923 күн бұрын
Lisa, you really know how to ask the best questions!
@MyAkachi5 ай бұрын
I'm just curious as to why this channel has gradually changed into one focusing on men and love and romance. When it started it was of women achieveing great things; breaking barriers; inventing things; launching and running successful businesses. Now it's super focused on romance, when women have much much much brighter and varied lives outside of their romantic dealings with men.
@remimollycoddle5 ай бұрын
Understanding your own physiology and how you show up in relationships can help a woman understand herself better and make better decisions for a happier, healthier life (romantic or not). Have you really not taken any useful nuggets from this conversation?
@deb.m.74585 ай бұрын
Meeting people, love and romance are a part of life. Lisa is just showing us what not to accept or put up with it if it’s with the wrong person (someone who is leading you on). She is also trying to help us understand our differences so that we can make better choices. We are worth the self love and deserve better. Sometimes, we make lousy choices in love.
@MyAkachi5 ай бұрын
@@deb.m.7458 I never said those things weren't a part of life. My question is why has the channel changed focus from highlighting the exceptional achievements of women globally, into men men men, dating dating dating. It's an insidious change in direction. And I'm curious as to whether that was the original plan, or this is what we see when a channel starts pandering to what women have been conditioned to focus on in a patriarchal system. In the earlier days she features so many female CEOs and record breakers and I loved to see it because we as women are so starved of that content. But nowadays the videos on this channel are typically a variation of how to keep a man. It feels like a regression. My opinion anyways.
@Magicisreal665 ай бұрын
So glad you come into that! Maybe She's sold us out! Hubby brainwashed her!
@remimollycoddle5 ай бұрын
Ever wondered if those exceptional women understand themselves, their bodies, the way they interact with other people including their significant others? Do you not think that that is a solid foundation based on which one can become an exceptional "woman of impact"? Can you maybe try to reframe the way you see this current episode or is it only "men men men"? I am currently single and I personally find this episode extremely useful (for my own growth).
@JoMartin21024 күн бұрын
I just love Dr Daniel Amen, he is so incredibly brilliant. I was given one of his first books probably over 25 yrs ago and it has changed my life. An incredible person who more people should follow and understand!! ❤❤. Loved your interview with him, Lisa!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@PropheticCoachTheresa5 ай бұрын
This is really good. Addiction and childhood trauma is a huge problem. Would love to hear from experts on all this for solutions for the non-wealthy. I suspect diet, sleep, avoiding all alcohol, sugar, processed foods, forgiveness, Jesus. Really at the end of the day, most will never have the opportunity to do hyperbaric O2 treatments or expensive supplements or detox retreats, but there are things we can do. This would be a really great topic to explore for someone in this field! Also, yes, EMF's are huge, as well as vaccines. This seems to be a taboo subject among leading wellness influencers, but its a massive deal too. Blessings!
@sherriflemming32184 ай бұрын
Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller Wired For Love by Dr Stan Tatkin Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix IMAGO The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer What The Heck Is Self Love Anyways? by Jonathon Aslay Non Violent Communication by Marshall B Rosenberg The Four Agreements by Don Miguel 8 Dates by John and Julie Gottman If The Budda Dated by Charlotte Kasi Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker The 10 Essentials Of A Secure Partnership-by Dr Stan Tatkin
@susanna.elegian5 ай бұрын
This was really interesting & informative❣️ Thanks Lisa & dr. Daniel
@claradeinocencio860124 күн бұрын
What an insightful interview, loved it! Thank you Lisa!
@julia912d514 күн бұрын
I love him so much. I wish I'd had someone like Dr. Amen in my life. What a dramatically different and better life I could have had.
@dawncolayco934025 күн бұрын
Glad its is on social media to help others in the path . I suffered enough for everyone i think. So happy it’s gone aging not so great but getting rid of that red dragon was nice. Learning what my body is really going through helped tremendously getting enough magnesium epic help.
@user-ro1nl1xd8d23 күн бұрын
I would love to know more about the couple he helped with the husband working in furniture and smelling fumes. My ex husband and I had a difficult time when we moved and had many stressors on our marriage. He became obsessed with collecting vintage motorcycles, Vespas, etc and spent all his free time in the garage that he outfitted into a workshop, using gasoline and string chemicals to strip things - and he would also keep the garage shut to keep bugs out so the ventilation was bad and a friend even commented on it. His behavior became even more violent, aggressive and unreasonable. He had other issues besides this but this period led to a catastrophic change that affected our business and family and it became so abusive I divorced him.
@QuantumHealingLounge5 ай бұрын
I'm a 9 on the ACE scale and I consider it a miracle that I made it this far. Not like you wear it on a shirt for everyone to know. There's so much recovery work involved in getting to normalish. But when the scale came out the difficulties of my life made a lot more sense.
@demita8407 күн бұрын
I like how her bright pink boots match her cushions while shes interviewing him about mens hard wired brains...
@sybilarchives25 күн бұрын
I really love your interviews! I discovered them two days ago and I already heard many of them. Very informative with people who know what they talk about, something difficult this days. Thank you for your channel.
@HSBsoulsurfer5 ай бұрын
Dr. Amen should scan bisexual men's brains! It would be very interesting. I seem to be drawn to these men. They seem largely more sensitive and responsive.
@daniellegathings76515 ай бұрын
I don’t know the neurological aspect but it’s because bisexual men tend to be in touch with their feminine energy
@MaamafricaEsther5 ай бұрын
Bisexuality will also still be either man or woman. In nature there's no both or in between
@ima.m.16585 ай бұрын
@@MaamafricaEsther that's literally biologically false. there are intersex people, and non-binary people exist as a gender identity
@meetandinspire5 ай бұрын
"I want us to feel our feelings because when we block them they come out in pain in our body." "Males and females both have their own significant strengths but the strengths of the female brain is forethought, it's conscientiousness, it's collaboration."
@Wavey2811 сағат бұрын
I believe that women are gifted with a cyclic rhythm that asks them to step back and rest or meditate….the constant pushing forward without rest creates distortion and imbalance.
@FlowertheSpaceAlien4 ай бұрын
This is on a watch list to watch again with my partner... So much valuable info.
@chloewainwright5 ай бұрын
Loving this!! Just on the women having 52% less serotonin than men, was that an average taken across the month, as serotonin levels fluctuate massively depending on time of the menstrual cycle. I'm guessing they controlled for that. Interesting stuff!!
@sally1805 ай бұрын
Also, this is the worst part, none of us exist in a bubble….. The quality of one’s mate choices impacts hormone levels! All of this means nothing until we study the hormone profiles of family units or couples to examine the effects we have on one another. You only need look at the research into the effects of cortisol on the endocrine system. Autoimmune disease, cancer, chronic illness. The impact of ACE scores on health etc. I would suggest that before advising women to go on hormones or any long term pharmaceutical treatments, to really understand the possible cause of the imbalance.
@treatshow9002 күн бұрын
I don’t know how to ever be a guest on your podcast, and it’s embarrassing to inquire. I’m a female business owner and have been for over a decade. But I would like to discuss the traumas of rape, challenging sexual topics for honestly the “normal” everyday damage nowadays with porn and social media and so much more . To truly get woman to hear how many woman are struggling and are depleted of hearing the same options and opinions all coming back to self accountability… instead of woman hearing and actually opening up to the thoughts of being supportive and loving, respectful of our bodies and love 💗
@minacat26335 ай бұрын
I am curious as to how this information can be applied to someone who was born with a seizure disorder, has survived narcissistic abuse, and now has CPTSD?
@sherriflemming32185 ай бұрын
The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman - for healing traumas The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer What The Heck Is Self Love Anyways by Jonathon Aslay The Brain Mind And Body In The Healing Of Trauma---Bessel Van Der Volk Somatic- EMDR therapy is effective for PTSD and CPTSD.
@aurora96875 ай бұрын
Love Michael Singer!!! Great recommendations!
@sherriflemming32185 ай бұрын
@@aurora9687Indeed. Thank you! I hope it helps Mina. I see you're also on JAs channel. We've messaged before. Have a happy Easter! 🐣
@krystynaprzybylska50065 ай бұрын
I would love to know if Dr. Amen has studied the brains of women who use the pill and those who do not and if there is a difference. Very interesting, thanks.
@thaithaovy.121 күн бұрын
I am very very grateful for this video. Thank you a million to you both and the whole team.
@Jenishabadoo5 ай бұрын
They learned not to trust, love or feel. Ouch.
@elsavelaz5 ай бұрын
I wish he could talk about men that “enjoy cheating.” I’m not someone who experienced it chronically but the 1 time, was it really me even if it’s not ever happened before? Or was he just wired that way and he was going to keep doing that to everyone anyway (wish I’d known about the fingers check! lol). So not so much they can’t think ahead, but is there such a thing that they plan ahead even more because they can’t wait to go cheat because the thrill is the cheating ?
@sherriflemming32185 ай бұрын
Elisa, it can be cultural and for various reasons. Sam Vaknin has great podcasts on the topic. Also James Sexton divorce attorney has great podcasts.
@elsavelaz5 ай бұрын
@@sherriflemming3218 I get that , have seen them. I’m interested in their brain scans, not anecdotal. Does that make sense?
@elsavelaz5 ай бұрын
@@sherriflemming3218 thanks sherri! I'd still really like to see scans because I know not all men chase sex
@sherriflemming32185 ай бұрын
@@elsavelaz These studies must be somewhere. There's plenty of studies done on the criminal brain. Yes, some men are capable of being loyal. There is hypersexuality or compulsive hypersexuality in certain mental health disorders. Dr Robert Weiss has podcasts on sex and porn addiction. It would be interesting to see actual scans. I think dating requires detective skills including a background check. Never doubt patterns. AKA The Track Record.
@sherriflemming32184 ай бұрын
Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future - Sam Vaknin podcast Love Addiction Craving Infatuation Limerance - Sam Vaknin podcast Cheating Triangulation In Sick Relationships ---Sam Vaknin podcast Never Forgive Infidelity- Sam Vaknin podcast Seek Good Character A Reminder To Us All - David Tian PhD podcast 13 Harsh Truths About Men and Commitment That Women Learn Too Late - Jonathon Aslay podcast Breaking The Man Code - Jonathon Aslay podcast 13 Ways Men Use Women - Jonathon Aslay podcast Safe People by Dr Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
@tiaevans-songbirdalessaund46725 ай бұрын
I need a very specific scan for my levels . When I run on auto pilot and don't feel anything. But out of no where I get sick with iBS. When I think I'm feeling good. No cure My hormone imbalance of of dopamine and serotine other than relaxation. Not to mention I vent been able to conceive any pregnancy. I'm 38 went 100% off my Zoloft meds in January . I feel ok but mostly blank and ever busy
@zonebajones8678 күн бұрын
I’m def a 10+ the fact that I have overcome my programming. Overcame severe trauma.
@caroljenny77014 ай бұрын
Almost everybody has a damn cellphone, if it were important, they could write it in their calendar or notes, seriously! It's a matter or PRIORITIES and DISCIPLINE and managing one's life!
@happilydivorced323515 күн бұрын
Absolutely. Men remember the line up of their favorite team, 20 years ago.
@naturewithin93 ай бұрын
So Grateful Dr. Daniel and to You, Lisa with great questions and your Channel🙌🏼✌🏼💕
@t.m.688117 күн бұрын
You never know where the differences are coming from because in modern world girls also raised to be empathetic and caring and boys are raised to be working and forward moving..it’s not clear if the differences might stem from the way they were raised or if they are biological..you can’t tell just by looking at which sex is more criminal and which one more emotional..if the results are based on self reports they are not as good as you think
@christywilliams779321 күн бұрын
Thank you for all this information along with the humor…. Grateful for your show💪
@user-ur7hp3gm2i24 күн бұрын
It really bothers me that he says if I stay with a guy, I could die earlier .. 😆
@cruiseny265 ай бұрын
I’m getting so much ick from this guy it’s not even funny. Yes there are anatomical and hormonal differences. But how much of this is due to socialization because there is neuroplasticity so the neurons that fire together wire together. These anatomical neurological differences may be the reflection of years of social conditioning to be responsible and conscientious and take on the mental load of the family. If men put this on women and then say well it’s based on anatomical differences and you should just have hormonal replacement therapy to be less of a nag….say what?
@laurawalker64315 ай бұрын
The best understanding of female and male brains and relationships so far Lisa. Thanks
@tanchycaa5 ай бұрын
Thank you Lisa for this and all your amazing guests. It really helps me a lot!❤
@AlexiaHDIntuition5 ай бұрын
Loving the entire interview with doctor Amen. What is the name of the app I couldn’t catch the name 🥴 thanks Lisa it’s very helpful 🙏
@paulinenjeri52545 ай бұрын
Him: Will you marry me? Me: Well,not until my dad scan your brain. 😂😂😂😂 Wieredly cool. I wish i had such a daddy. Would save me alot of shit.
@Pheonix111122 күн бұрын
Absolutely fascinating topics. Worth listening to this video many times. Wealth of knowledge! Thank you Lisa.
@cinthiarinebold35675 ай бұрын
Great segment, very informative 🎉🔥🩷
@funkychilimunky5 күн бұрын
Bio-identical progesterone saved me 😁 theres also a lot of people with weak inner and outer awareness. Low vibrations to life in general. Fear and big egos also drives those to hold in feelings which in return only makes things worse. A mans feelings that are in tune or in balance usually know how to love. Weak vibration controls the ego, speech, thoughts, and emotions in negative ways. Basic term would be he is not mature and needs to work on these as a whole in order to love himself and his partner.
@Color-ww8vl5 ай бұрын
this type of information is so difficult to find. Thank ❣️
@t.m.688117 күн бұрын
Ist important to know how old the people were whom they tested and asked..because these differences can actually be influenced by education and parenting
@irenegryziec80525 ай бұрын
Lisa - love your channel. Had read Dr Amen’s books over the past decade. Was stunned recently to read BBB info on his highly costly (and profitable) business model and sales of supplements as well as other reputable medical professionals who call his work BS. So confusing
50:51 Dr Daniel Amen's description of his wife, and how he felt when he met her, is very sweet.
@anneliesewright66223 күн бұрын
We are not our thoughts. We are the observer of our thoughts.
@StressCoach4 ай бұрын
Great interview!!! But my goodness, all the ad breaks! Do you really still need the money?
@sandrasuarez58705 ай бұрын
Love to see men sit in a pink space discussing the differences between men and women 😂😂😂😂
@kirstisamuelsen371223 күн бұрын
It can not just be physical/biological causes. If a brain can change due to bad circumstances or environment. How is the environment for women around the world created and controled by men for decades.
@theresas.380825 күн бұрын
This information is great and an eye opener. It explains so much!
@HappyWeightAoife5 ай бұрын
Love you Lisa ❤ thanks for all your great work 👏🏽
@receptionreception75644 күн бұрын
If only I knew this when was younger , omg my period drove me crazy 2 week before come , though i wasnt normal
@agataannakawalla832616 сағат бұрын
My husband was always for me there 🤔 He never ever left me in troubles
@mynyago1424 күн бұрын
Without addressing the way boys and men are coddled in society and the burden of labor (both emotional, psychological, and actual labor in the home) placed on women being disproportionately higher - talking about brain scans sounds idiotic (no offense). Address the real obvious issues before getting into the weeds. This feels irresponsible and unscientific.
@Mkr79425 ай бұрын
I learned so much!
@creepypisces835 ай бұрын
Dr Amen is amazing ❤
@angelaknox3 ай бұрын
ADHD in women and girls is often misdiagnosed and misunderstood, with more focus on anxiety and depression. Most research about ADHD centers on externalizing symptoms seen more commonly in males instead of internalizing symptoms seen more in females. Aka, we really don't khow how many men vs women have ADHD.
@master11manifestor19 күн бұрын
Same with ASD. The diagnosis was designed around the male. 🙄