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@Phoenix369.Ай бұрын
Thank you Lisa for bringing light and awareness to the world We are so proud of you from Tunisia 🇹🇳 💋
@misspea1913Ай бұрын
Very insightful conversation. Thank you Lisa!
@amyholcomb6484Ай бұрын
@@misspea1913 No, it’s a very heteronormative episode that is based in religious dogma and ideology from the 1950s. Relationships are partnerships in which each has their strengths and value.
@misspea1913Ай бұрын
@@amyholcomb6484 Your comment will not change the fact that the conversation was quite insightful to ME. I am also non religious, also you don't know anything about me nor my life so take your opinion and shove it where the sun don't shine. Thanks
@amyholcomb6484Ай бұрын
@@misspea1913 How graceful of you. You are on a public forum and I am entitled to an opinion and to disagree. Hugs
@sch2217Ай бұрын
Issue is some ppl lie about who they are. I dealt with that myself. I asked all the questions and unfortunately, he lied about everything just to get me to be in a relationship with him.
@theAdministratoSAАй бұрын
Same boat!
@marag1563Ай бұрын
@@theAdministratoSAsame boat lie to get me lie then lose me
@mcleo9935Ай бұрын
@sch2217,I have had a LDR just ended 3 months ,and I realize the lies ,abd pretending what he was not,too many Red flags I saw in the 2 month but I stupidly and innocently continued, but it's over now I learn and in a better head space and peace more now at the moment, I prayed to God to reveal this man ,in the Spiritual realm God did ,am happy and am now in a better head space and at peace, he was a real Narcisisis,he dry lied to me ,anyways thank God I have moved on and am happy ,it was a very stressful 3 months for me ,I wish him the best because obviously in his eyes I was not the one
@forgiven5919Ай бұрын
Get to know them a long time, true colors come out.
@ladyofspaАй бұрын
He's gotta prove it. Based on what is that true?... Always verify answers.Look to his history, build a case for or against. I realized after the answers are there gotta go deeper.
@crackerjacks6789Ай бұрын
This young woman is simply beautiful her eyes, teeth, smile, make up is simple clean, soft and feminine and refreshing to look at .. she is speaking about the headship arrangements in the Bible the problem is people have stopped reading the scriptures and deciding what is best for themselves with out the wisdom from our creator.. who has clearly given us the tools we need to have a successful relationship while they are marrie
@Peaea28 күн бұрын
The irony is the SHE is a pastor😅
@gracemedina46224 күн бұрын
We've raised a society that does not fear God anymore. It's sad to see this.
@visionyouniversityАй бұрын
I LOVE Stephanie! She’s an amazing woman of GOD! Her way of teaching is very practical and authentic! I’m so happy more woman are being exposed to her through your platform!❤
@JesuisLordАй бұрын
Your comment about her being a woman of God kept me listening , thank you 🙏🙂
@WilliamsPinchАй бұрын
Yes and yes!
@gwladysmassala619219 күн бұрын
true
@bmbarnumАй бұрын
The "bait and switch" in some dating situations feels like gaslighting. You need time to get to really get to know someone (not be head over heels with endorphins, getting your judgement clouded by S3x as the be all, end all). The Bait and Switch is when someone presents themself as exactly who you want in the beginning of dating (like Kind, Caring, Considerate), so you become smitten, agree to start seeing them - then they stop being those things, NO LONGER Kind, Caring and Considerate (they become passive aggressive, talk down to you like you are stupid or beneath them, insult the things that bring you joy, put down your career aspirations and life dreams as stupid or a waste of time, etc) You feel unloved, you wonder why they went out of their way to woo you, when clearly they have NO RESPECT for you. They may be jealous of you, deep down fearing you are better than they are and have to take you down a notch to feel superior. This is NOT the person you became smitten for! They LIED about who they are!!! This is why you have to PLATONICALLY (non s3xual) hang out with someone, get to know them - maybe they will take down their guard and show this dark stuff someday so you can say no to dating - not jump into bed then feel extremely confused.
@baileyb8619Ай бұрын
Beautifully said. That is narcissism by the way. It is sickeningly rampant. These men today by and large are misguided, deluded and have baggage they never repaired.
@preacherbarbieАй бұрын
So true!!!
@destinyschild5768Ай бұрын
So true! Learned my lesson
@adrij1640Ай бұрын
Wow. Exactly what I recently experienced and learned the very hard way. I was 18 months a widow, very vulnerable and lonely in a way I never experienced before when a guy like this came along. A lot of damage done in 4 months. No regrets, though. I learned a lot and it showed me where I needed healing. I'm on such a wonderful transformational growth/healing journey now. He's been gone for 4 months and I have no desire to date or be involved with anyone anytime soon. After the trauma of suddenly losing my husband of nearly 12 years and the grief that followed, I had no idea what was up from down. This toxic guy gave me direction and put me on an amazing path of self love and discovery. I'm doing mirror work, shadow work, reparenting my inner child and seeing a trauma specialist.
@alenaadamkova7617Ай бұрын
Intruduce them to your parents. Such people usually dont disrespect others,m if they are grenuine to your family.
@ncm9366Ай бұрын
My grandmother used to tell me to “play” the damsel in distress sometimes, it’s ok to feel and be vulnerable… Also “ soft check” over time, his lineage, background, credit (money habits) NOW HIS MEDICAL BACKGROUND….. This is good! Watch a man’s love language! That’s good….. yes a lot of women CONFUSE SEX WITH LOVE… becareful yall listen to his words and how he moves!
@curiousmind6472Ай бұрын
Love your grandmother! Everyone needs one just like her ♥️🪽
@WilliamsPinchАй бұрын
Stephanie is so anointed. Thank you Lisa for having her✨
@deloresgrey2260Ай бұрын
"NO ONE RISES...ABOVE THEIR THOUGHT LIFE." I STAND IN FULL AGREEMENT...💯💯💯!!!
@HelenalaurinoАй бұрын
Tim and I operated so beautifully together. It was like we were together in a past life. It was truly a spiritual connection from the moment we laid eyes on each other. No secrets, No lies just pure love, kindness, trust, understanding and respect. I miss you Tim 3/4/23. Thank you so much for this video.
@daschuhowАй бұрын
I’m sorry for your loss 3:32
@Jennifer-gr7hn28 күн бұрын
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine because I've been so chronically traumatized that I picked males who were not like this, so wow. God bless. And I'm so, so sry you lost your love. I can't ...even.imagine. So many people died (the shot, but maybe that wasn't the reason here and it doesn't matter....they are gone, but it's so sad when it's a preventable)...you're not alone but I can imagine why it feels that way. I will pray you find if God wills, another like this dating is crippling now because of anti-social media and the sloth overall ( Tough times.
@Portia62026 күн бұрын
🙏
@alexisagginie4574Ай бұрын
Even Jesus said..... let your Yes be yes, and your No be no. He did not promote " hints". Communication is so, so important and Doable! NOBODY can read a Mind, nobody!
@sheilamusker-lovett4472Ай бұрын
She is really brilliant. I’m getting so much out of this. She’s talking about things I never thought about never read about or never was apparent to me.
@adaobiokoye934529 күн бұрын
The Holy Spirit helps her a lot
@user-vl7sp4pd9sАй бұрын
Exactly! I called off my engagement 2 years ago. My ex did not take the lead. and I hated a man didn't know what to do in a serious relationship. He missed a lot from his father growing up. He had a father in his life and his mother. He was selfish and future faked our long-term relationship. Great video!💯🙏
@daschuhowАй бұрын
Good for you, you avoided a disaster not only for you, but your children too.
@angelat1839Ай бұрын
I love the guests you choose to have on this show. Many times I identify with an important thing they say. When she spoke about not being able to be vulnerable because of her need to take care of herself- this really spoke to my experience in life. I have seen this in myself, my struggle to accept love because of my fear that I must be the one to take care of me. It wasn’t until I was almost 30 years old that I realized this was something that was blocking love from fully being expressed in my life.
@crystalHfffАй бұрын
I love listening to Stephanie Ike. ❤so much wisdom. Thank you, Lord, for this wisdom you have given her. 🙏
@Naomibelle-up2es28 күн бұрын
A woman needs to trust the husband’s leadership skills prior to submit. A good leader in a couple must be trusted, honest, compassionate, respectful and should show some vulnerability.
@PlatinumcoonsАй бұрын
Leadership also mean responsibility
@Jennifer-gr7hn28 күн бұрын
that's why so few want it....which is a little covert narc-ish because it's selfish
@jesstheromantic27 күн бұрын
16:38 is so powerful because I'm the kind of person who wouldn't get married if I didn't align with someone's core values... so when things like deaths and disappointments happen that make my partner unhappy, cold, or distant for a season, the first thing I'm going to think is how can I lean in more to fill in the gap. I already know it's the environment that's making them act like this, not their true core, so it's not a permission slip for me to abandon them or my commitment.
@mapsmaps805Ай бұрын
It amazes me how many women don't use their intuition when choosing a mate. It is 100% accurate 100% of the time.
@Jennifer-gr7hn28 күн бұрын
because TRAUMA deeply and subconsciously teaches us we are wrong, and therefore we accept breadcrumbs, tolerate low standards, feel our needs are expectations that are "too high" and all other lies we believe from the trauma early on. I use my intuition all the time at work and saved many patients' lives , including my own in emergencies, and I've set up many couples....but with myself, I failed miserably. I'm not learning why but had to died to find this out.
@ellecooperco28 күн бұрын
@@Jennifer-gr7hn@Jennifer-gr7hn this spoke to me. I'm learning to lean into my intuition now but failed when I choose to get married even though I could feel he wasn't the right one. Your explanation is spot on! After taking the steps to heal from all the trauma I faced as a young girl, I took my power back and freedom to know I always had a choice and I was always good enough. This healing allowed me to end a 10 year marriage that was a trauma response more than love, it breaks my heart but it's my truth.
@Portia62026 күн бұрын
Some of us have intuition that is off big time after trauma
@dianalang384423 күн бұрын
Believe in God and the Holy Spirit will guide you into all Truth and also who you should marry
@danilaroche11562 күн бұрын
I believe your right. My intuition has never been wrong but I didn't always listen because I was so traumatized. Alot of pain in my heart at the time.
@Nikita_848Ай бұрын
A strong woman is not a loud, aggressive woman but rather a woman who is feminine, gracious and holds her fort with class.
@amyholcomb6484Ай бұрын
@@Nikita_848 Strong women come in many forms… please stop projecting these 1950s ideals on other women. Your view is seriously sexist and outdated. I doubt you would make this comment about men. Women are people, not demure wall flowers. P.S. Not all strong women are feminine either.
@Nikita_848Ай бұрын
@@amyholcomb6484 If you don't know the difference between feminine and masculine then you have a lot to learn. It doesn't matter if you were born in the 50's or in the 20's, human beings "classy" behaviour is not time bound, but its rather determined by character and in-depth personality
@msjohnson91Ай бұрын
@@amyholcomb6484facts
@realtalk675Ай бұрын
@@Nikita_848oh because you decide what is classy 😂
@realtalk675Ай бұрын
Ronda rousey is strong ! You sound like a weak person hiding
@MaryWallace-wv2bnАй бұрын
Not all men are protectors or leaders obviously
@eebz5Ай бұрын
Then they shouldn't be husbands
@Sunlightsam24Ай бұрын
Not all women are compassionate, caring and/or flexible
@mbrilliBАй бұрын
@@Sunlightsam24if the men are supposed to be the leader then they should show first a good example before pointing figures at women
@tourandrelocationcommunity29 күн бұрын
👏
@Jennifer-gr7hn28 күн бұрын
right, because of their trauma. And women like me, used to date the ones who appeared to be, but were controlling abuseres....like I was used to, so it made me....traumatized too. Everyone needs to work on themselves! Many "women" today are the "protectors and leaders" which is a hot mess as "men" became males with out testicles. It's upside down! Thanks to the sexual "revolution" too
@markesabowers1567Ай бұрын
Amen am a witness however I used to self sabotage,beating myself self up until I had a awakening! Nolonger am I a prisoner of my past but a prisoner of hope ..I officially devorced my past embracing my future of his good plan because am committed to creating new memories an sharing that no matter how many failures, mistakes doesn't mean you are a failure!! The devil is liar!! 💜🙏
@sandrakaimaАй бұрын
You can ask questions, and people will lie. People change their minds depending on the seasons. How you feel when you're broke or broken is not the same as when you have plenty of cash and feel joy. How you feel in the winter is not the same as how you feel in the summer.
@LadyflofloАй бұрын
So true!
@YT-fo7syАй бұрын
True. But what I’ve learned is to be patient and learn the person. Time. Growing in love and not fall in love. Are they consistent? Do their words match their actions? Do they respect your boundaries? Do you even have boundaries and are they healthy? I think often we’re asking the wrong questions and moving towards the relationship instead of being still to learn and follow our intuition.
@SalemUdoh-si1fw8 күн бұрын
@@YT-fo7sy Perfect-being still to learn and follow our intuition
@melgm0022 күн бұрын
Exactly
@igitha..._Ай бұрын
"There is strength in vulnerability"
@clumsymumsy2283Ай бұрын
Thank you Lisa (and other co-hosts) for all your time and devotion in helping others. You are appreciated. 🦋🤟
@Jennifer-gr7hn28 күн бұрын
I'm SO glad you had a Christian on, Lisa. A lot of great guests, but this was is very much needed.
@mariamb344Ай бұрын
One of my favourite guests ever. LOVE her. Such an insightful and thought provoking heart centered discussion thank you
@cindyglass5827Ай бұрын
Lisa ~ Sadly, my husband had the exact same experience about ''opening doors'' ... He 'used to' hold the door open for women at the Post office. [this was done for women of ALL ages btw] 1 women [in her 40's] literally said '' I'm not interested in you & rolled her eyes'' & didn't say thank-you the 2nd women [in her 30's] said trust me - I'm strong enough to open my own door, stared at him & also didn't say Thank-you & the 3rd woman [in her late 70's/early 80's] yelled at him angrily & said just b/c I'm old, I don't need help from you or anyone ! & also, didn't even say Thank-you : ( Sooooooooooo Sad, it's Pathetic !!!! Now ... Funny enough - [some of] these''' type'''' of women are the exact same women i hear - who are *always* saying .... There are NO Good Men out there anymore, poor me, blah blah blah etc!!! smh In conclusion, my husbands ''had it'' / [fed up] w/ all these women's '''issues'' & no longer 'opens doors anymore' : ( ... so, Men feel guarded now to hold open doors etc, just don't do it anymore [I can't say I blame them] & women feel - not treated nicely etc / saying - no good men around = the ''perfect storm'' / vicious circle situation ... sad : ( !
@CK-vp6hhАй бұрын
I appreciate the hell out of the men that open a door- offer to lift my luggage in the airplane and make I say so!
@cindyglass5827Ай бұрын
@@CK-vp6hh Aw, [so sweet] I will definitely tell my husband ... !! He will be [truly] thrilled to know that : ) Thank-you for sharing , HAGD ! : )
@visionyouniversityАй бұрын
@@CK-vp6hhsame!! I appreciate chivalry!
@kirstenbrogan5958Ай бұрын
So sad, we're only hurting ourselves. I hope those types of women don't ruin it for the rest of us.
@sandrakaimaАй бұрын
A man opened the door for me and I thought this was the nicest thing, I starting fancying him because he was genuinely nice ( he was probably just being a gentleman). I’ve never had the same since 😂😂😂
@carolyn1439llАй бұрын
So many takeaways from this video. I have to watch it again and take notes. The part I seemed to need to hear the most was when she reminded me that your true shine comes within.❤
@LisaBilyeuАй бұрын
Hi Carolyn! Thank you for your comment! You've won a copy of Pastor Stephanie's upcoming book! Please email us at womenofimpact@impacttheory.com to confirm your U.S. address and we will get you a copy in August. Congratulations and thank you for watching & supporting our show! :)
@carolyn1439llАй бұрын
@@LisaBilyeu yay!!! So grateful 🥹 🥰
@alexisagginie4574Ай бұрын
I do believe that SUBMISDION and LEADERSHIP go together. Leadership requires the person or persons must agree(submit) that leadership is required and their support is necessary. The Leader must be very truthful, humble and compassionate! Submission is a process!
@jenniferstein17028 күн бұрын
SUBMISSION*?
@gamuchirainkomazana21 күн бұрын
for any institution to work there must be a clear order of leadership; thats powerful
@minimallyleah720818 күн бұрын
I like the way Lisa bobs her head when she's really vibing with what's being said! ❤😊
@stephgrayv14 күн бұрын
Love this anointed woman of God, Pastor Stephanie. Great interview👏🏽👏🏽
@user-po1ig6pi6wАй бұрын
This woman pours into you, when she speaks, you just want to listen. Lisa is very talkative (in a good way) and she had the same effect on her. I love you Stephanie. Thank you for your submission to the holy spirit. I was drawn to you with the message "Dreams & interpretation" because at the time, God knew I needed him to speak to me and I'm eternally grateful he used someone who he could speak through in his calm and gentle nature ❤
@sheenameekins542911 күн бұрын
WE ADORE STEPHANIE!!! Thank you for having her as a guest, I LOVE this conversation 👏🏽🫶🏽
@Fire_Moon_TarotАй бұрын
Not only about going head to head but the other spectrum where a man refuses to lead and makes you choose all the decisions.
@ThePhoinix33Ай бұрын
Yes, then he’s angry when you assert yourself because he won’t/ can’t lead.
@Khumo_fitАй бұрын
Pastor Stephanie is soo wise 🥹 Thank you Lisa for this interview ❤❤.
@SherryTomlinson-mk7gmАй бұрын
I was raised by a narc father and grew up with brothers. I adored my brothers. A horrible 3years marriage in my twenties. I went celibate 20 some years. But I had a wonderful male friend 21 years till his death. I refused to marry agin. He was a wonderful cook and we could sit for hours talking. I agree respect of each other is number one. But I am so non conventional. I still found your video very interesting. Btw you are so adorable Lisa I have watched your videos with Dr Ramani.
@Anayr19Ай бұрын
When a man really wants to look after his woman, I believe I would be more than happy to follow his decisions and I am the one who would nourish our child. Unfortunately that didn't happen because he is a horrible narcissist so things became upside down.
@jewelvercoerainbow8225Ай бұрын
Trust yourself first and protect yourself and your child and/or pet. If you want to leave, don't tell him, save money and get away without alerting him because that's when narcissists reveal themselves to be psychopaths. I speak from experience as a survivor.
@amarbyrd2520Ай бұрын
Exactly this. Pastors, especially, if they're going to give relationship advice, it feels like, need to recognize that some men get into positions of so-called "leadership" in order to exploit, not to truly serve. Without acknowledging that and offering women ways to maneuver around those men -- all these pastors and "leaders" are doing, no matter how well-meaning, is creating more damaged women and more damaged relationships ...
@HapillyMe25 күн бұрын
Same. I married a narcissist, and it was hard to follow his lead because he was so toxic and self centered. All his decisions where for his satisfaction, very selfish. He did the bare minimum for me. Thank God we didn't have kids.
@jenniferstein17028 күн бұрын
@@HapillyMeI’m curious if he was that way when you were dating. Or iF it was thee old common ‘bait & switch.’
@MamoJoydevineАй бұрын
I've fell into the trap of thinking love was a chemical connection, and I really got burnt. But im grateful for the lessons learnt because now I know. I love how Ps Stephanie says wisdom is the application of knowledge. It just reminds me that everyday is a school day, there's always an opportunity to gain knowledge, to learn or unlearn things. Even in painful situations. I'm inspired by the wisdom you both embody in this conversation ladies❤
@alexisagginie4574Ай бұрын
I heartfully believe that Communication with Humility will go a long, long way in solving many difficulties.
@NsikeSibisiАй бұрын
Steph Steph Steph 😮💨👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽, I’m definitely gonna watch this again!
@StephaniedampteyАй бұрын
I just burst into tears when you said what if he is taken away because my dad left us when I was soo young I didn't know it affected me so my so that I constantly have this fear of men leaving my life soo I self sabotage
@lungileluanda2792Ай бұрын
When it come to submission i have always had a but to protect myself… I’m totally in agreement with what Ps Stephanie is saying, allowing myself to fully open up and strip away my protective garment, but now there is always being this advice that people say you can not tell your spouse how physically or mentally abuse your parent or someone close to you put you through… because they will do the same thinking that you have been through it once and who is going to protect you, if you parents did from the start…. How do one deal with that, because it also causes dishonesty between partners.
@shangweruth779527 күн бұрын
That's not the right advice, one should be open with their partner not excluding their childhood experiences and abuse experiences they may have experienced.
@lungileluanda279222 күн бұрын
@@shangweruth7795 Thank you ❤️ 🙏.
@marilynwarbis7224Ай бұрын
The man is the leader but the woman is the teacher.
@sharicoburn5475Ай бұрын
She is the leader behind the leader
@mbrilliBАй бұрын
@@sharicoburn5475she is the leader besides the leader
@thessieisaac43848 күн бұрын
We immediately become defensive
@sharicoburn54757 күн бұрын
@@thessieisaac4384 that's because ego
@jessiethornton-ry4ce4 күн бұрын
Women teaching causes a huge disconnect, men don't want to sleep with their mother or lead their mother... Men find that highly disrespectful and they feel untrusted!
@ulricka2131Ай бұрын
Stephanie !! The wisdom, the laughter, the perfect skin... thank you for this discussion 🌸
@nedraford5461Ай бұрын
This is sooo rich! Thank you. Pastor Stephanie
@jeanmoise5143Ай бұрын
The part about Jealousy was so inspiring and accurate 👌🏾!
@emeldaphasha7379Ай бұрын
I see culture shifted our mindset but watch this open minded then you'll understand how powerful this conversation between this 2 is and how they head it straight up
@anyazinaraАй бұрын
THIS IS WHAT YOU HAVE STEPHANIE ON FOR!?!? i love it!! oh my goodness
@JnwhiskyАй бұрын
So true when she said, " When we get angry and we allow the moment to bring narrative, that's a lie" usually my mind starts to assume and goes to who knows where😅😢
@EsraaElmubark24 күн бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏 OMG well said ! Mark twin said courage is not an absence of fear is acting inspite of it ! If you never faced yourself and your problems from childhood you will complete fighting it through people and society and will blame everyone else of the way of your dark side and manipulation
@sandraseitshiro994019 күн бұрын
I love you Pastor Stephanie, I can see God in you. You are such amazing gifted and spirit filled woman of God❤🙌🙏
@stephm798Ай бұрын
I love my sister Stephanie, she is just real. Very excited about the book . Pre ordered
@jenniferjaramillo675925 күн бұрын
The part where she said trauma is what can make women react negatively to things like opening the door, I can understand that. This is probably why in a previous relationship I struggled with letting him lead and it made me feel uncomfortable. I grew up in a house hold where my parents relationship was very toxic and my mom had to be the provider because my dad was an addict and my mom had to constantly fight him for money for the bills. On the other hand I think it was also hard because my ex was not a kind person. What I’ve learned from that relationship is that you can’t be a good leader in the relationship if there is no kindness and willingness to compromise.
@suigeneris4628Ай бұрын
This is really a beautiful discussion. I like how she thinks and views things. Very helpful and enlightening!
@feyrechihro724712 күн бұрын
I love Stephanie Ike, she is an absolute God send in every way. Great conversation and so helpful, if every human listened to this there would be so much less pain in relationships.
@esedan-ugbomoiko475519 күн бұрын
There's so so much wisdom in this video. God bless you both❤
@jewelvercoerainbow8225Ай бұрын
Olive Leaf Extract tonic will cure kennel cough. A splash on their food. Organic turmeric powder is also good. Bring your dogs inside when the weather is cold or stormy. Give them cosy comfortable beds.
@LiftWithTamАй бұрын
I love Stephanie ike okafor! Thank you for this episode
@fizzydeeАй бұрын
So happy to see Pastor Steph!!
@worship_on_ice161018 сағат бұрын
Wow... So well and wisely said!!! Thanks for this wonderful conversation. Women need to hear this when choosing their man .... and man should listen this to understand their role better!!!! Even as strong women we wont to let our men lead... but we need wise and responsible leadership. And this is sooooo much missing in this time.
@thessieisaac43848 күн бұрын
Boundaries yes!!! We all can fall victim to our lesser self.. thank you for that!
@authornikkimichelle2048Ай бұрын
I asked the questions, he lied but I take full accountability bc after I asked the questions, I was supposed to wait him out. It's hard to turn off the faucet of wanting to be loved when you were sexually and emotionally abused as a child. I have to surprise desires that were introduced to me against my will. But I'm expected to stay classy and put in the work to discern the wolves. Sadly, None of my culprits were held accountable, EVER. But I have to stay accountable and not think of love but wait for God in his timing. How much more can one heart take💔
@MamoJoydevineАй бұрын
May the healing and peace of God embrace you Nikki. Praying for you 🙏
@LisaBilyeuАй бұрын
You are so incredibly strong by even writing this! Thank your for being so open and sharing your story!
@AuguaMorale16 күн бұрын
1. Records are for evidence what are you keeping evidence of?👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽.
@elkejack8247Ай бұрын
The man as the complete leader doesn't resonate with me. I prefer to think about it as I lead in certain areas and him in others. We both bring different skills to the table and the one with the most experience should lead in that area, while respectfully taking into account the partner's opinions and preferences.
@sunstardrummerАй бұрын
Well said,agree😊
@OurTube_TheOriginalАй бұрын
Absolutely.
@user-bi4hf6vq1dАй бұрын
Totally Agree!!
@amyholcomb6484Ай бұрын
@@elkejack8247 THIS… relationships are partnerships. Do men really want the burden of leading 100% of the time? Do women ALWAYS need to follow? This is heavy on the 1950s vibe. Phyllis Schlafly would LOVE this!
@elkejack8247Ай бұрын
@@amyholcomb6484 yes, exactly
@FlatStella129 күн бұрын
I always say THANK YOU when guys open the door!
@yourlovelybabe1Ай бұрын
lol the fact my cheating ex didn’t want me to keep record of his cheating yet he kept doing it😂
@92drybones92Ай бұрын
This video started off soooo damn strong. Wow. Super empowering.
@TheSimplyDoneАй бұрын
This is the only relationship video necessary. Whew, I truly love and take in what Stephanie had to say. What a human and light!
@LisaBilyeuАй бұрын
Hi there! Thank you for your comment! You've won a copy of Pastor Stephanie's upcoming book! Please email us at womenofimpact@impacttheory.com to confirm your U.S. address and we will get you a copy in August. Congratulations and thank you for watching & supporting our show! :)
@ancientroyalty4656Ай бұрын
No one rises above their thought life How you think is how you live Dang
@MC-jf5gcАй бұрын
No no...when I go to bed after shower lotion, perfume and download what is on my mind to paper. Still showing some love to myself ❤
@reachoperator212Ай бұрын
When a man feels respected he will activate being the protector, but if he feel like he has to go toe to toe with you, you becomes each other's roommate. Facts and more facts. Jewels ❤ 💎 🔸️ 🔶️ 🔹️
@xariah2546Ай бұрын
Awesome ! So glad she did this podcast. Women need more encouragement. We are wise builders✝️💞🙏🏾
@cleo92ful3 күн бұрын
This was such a REFRESHING conversation!
@GugxАй бұрын
My goodness, what an amazing, insightful & real conversation! A timely one too. I really learnt a lot. And plenty of my own questions answered. Thank you Pastor Stephanie and Lisa 🙏🏽 much appreciated. Blessings from South Africa 🇿🇦
@JenniferNieman-oi4ybАй бұрын
This is humbling and brings a sense of understanding❤
@nnennayaowuala1908Ай бұрын
Thank you Pastor Stephanie ❤❤
@SalemUdoh-si1fw9 күн бұрын
Stephanie is God-sent.
@ionaiona92819 күн бұрын
wow, what a powerful conversation. the fire ideology makes so much meaning. thank you for sharing.
@lucybrue1868Ай бұрын
This is excellent Thank you so much for your wisdom
@Kashmir-lt4cxАй бұрын
2:37 excatly! Whether it's buying a vehic, a home, being faithful and loyal!
@Simone_Stots_Ай бұрын
Great podcast ! Stephanie always brings the 🔥
@evka24Ай бұрын
I would love the names of people clearly showing in the title. Thank you ❤
@adaobiokoye934529 күн бұрын
The guest is Pst. Stephanie Ike Okafor
@Thatgirlandbible27 күн бұрын
There is so much strength in submission
@adaobinduka803624 күн бұрын
There is a lesser version of you. That’s why you have boundaries. Wow Pst Steph! Always so wise. ❤
@sanyusarah-mv5jjАй бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing with us! we appreciate may God bless you 🙏
@ig6851Ай бұрын
It's soooo much wisdom in this episode and I love the authenticity from you both!!!
@nomcebokhumalo9975Ай бұрын
This was so wholesome, great advise & wisdom ❤Thank you ladies.
@deborahbell-theobservantch3759Ай бұрын
Fantastic conversation, thank you Ladies ❤❤❤
@ladyofspaАй бұрын
Leaders serve. Negotiating skills are key. Not I give him what he wants cause hes male. Heads consult his team
@meko1981Ай бұрын
It's good. I'm already liking her and I'm only a few seconds in to watching the video but the guest she has on today. She's good. I'm liking her
@letesamimms384626 минут бұрын
Awesome interview! It was very informative thanks for sharing.
@thessieisaac43848 күн бұрын
No one rises above their thought life!!!!!!🔥🔥🔥
@mwizapawinamukwanya5311Ай бұрын
Pastor Stephen Ike Okafor if you ever have the time to read the comments on this channel, I want you to know that this conversation saved an African Christian lady. Thank you for the depth of wisdom and addressing things that I desperately needed answers to. And the Lisa Bilyeu I am your biggest fan and follower ❤
@LisaBilyeu26 күн бұрын
I just screens shot this and text it to her to make SURE she saw it! 😍🥰
@cm464423 күн бұрын
Jealousy and Envy are not synonymous - They are very different
@Crys021929 күн бұрын
This only works when people have learned to deal with reality and be sincere and willing to be honest about who they are and where they are at. But a lot of people don't even know who they are. They live out who they think they are but are far from being realistic.
@Kashmir-lt4cxАй бұрын
0:44 eventuality its gonna break, if its self-focus pertaining to one of the parties in a "relationship"! 😱
@tourandrelocationcommunity29 күн бұрын
There are some things one partner will be qualified to lead in and there are some things the other partner will be qualifed to lead in depending on their strengths and weaknesses.
@peaceosagie-cb6sf27 күн бұрын
Pastor Stephanie is so beautiful.❤️
@TremelJacksonАй бұрын
As a guy who's never dated and only talks to women platonicly I've learned that most women are traumatized from their previous relationships so I will never date or marry and just keep it platonic which feels great because that means I won't be adding unnecessary stress to a woman's life and they won't be adding stress to mine, especially since alot of guys out here are already messed up from the trauma they've endoured which is traumatizing women so if you ask me the dating market is just a cycle of people trauma bonding.
@roea7846Ай бұрын
I hope one day you venture outside of your comfort zone to have a true love and relationship with someone. If you are only coming across women who are traumatized, you might want to expand your pool. There are healthy men and women in the world.